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Should ILX have a facility where you can ignore another user's posts? On the one hand it might make reading ILX a more pleasant experience. On the other hand I think it, as Alan suggested on the moderator thread, fundamentally changes the tone of a message board. I never had killfile-enabled software when I read Usenet so I don't know what difference it would have made to my reading experience.

Tom (Groke), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:40 (twenty-one years ago) link

Tom, just ban me if that's what you're trying to say.

Really, I mean it. It might do us all some good.

Marcello Carlin, Monday, 25 November 2002 13:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

No. We've got enough trouble with new answers overloading the server. Adding extra complexity might make it hang even more often.

RickyT (RickyT), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oh lummy. Would be like selectively tuning people out of a conversation and so would not make sense. Also, ignoring people is a bit rude, even if they present an incompatible worldview. So: dud. And jeez, Marcello, not everyone thinks about you 24/7.

Liz :x (Liz :x), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

Bloody hell Marcello. Enough with the paranoia already.

RickyT (RickyT), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

Tom, I suspect that the threaded nature of Usenet discussions tends to make killfiles more effective, because not only can you remove someone's postings, but all replies to their postings. Due to the linear nature of our threads, (ie one topic, one discussion - in theory) killfiles might seriously disrupt your ilx experience.

Then again, it's your choice whether to use them or not. And I can see why some people might not ever want to see certain people's postings (intolerable political ideaologies, for example). It can be done on the client side easily enough, so I don't see why we shouldn't do it server side.

Andrew (enneff), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

No way. It should be left up to the reader to choose to ignore posts; to wilfully ignore someone regardless of what they have to say strikes me as a bit petty. Very pessimistic gut feeling commences when considering this possibility for ilx.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Marcello - Nicole suggested it on the moderator thread: I said it was a big deal and needed debating. I think a break from the boards might do you a lot of good but that's not the issue and it's certainly not my decision to make.

Can we actually debate the killfile idea now please?

Tom (Groke), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ricky has a good point re: server resources. At this stage we really need all the computing power we can get.

Andrew (enneff), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

FWIW I am against it. I certainly wouldn't use them. I do think the moderators should have the power to ban IP addresses but I was thinking more of incidences where a bot might spam the boards rather than where a poster goes, um, postal.

The question is - does my personal distaste for them stay personal, or would my (or anyone's) enjoyment of ILX be diminished if they knew other people weren't participating/couldn't be heard fully?

Tom (Groke), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

Sounds like a very bad idea to me -- even if you don't like someone's views or style, it's all part of the experience of ILX. Might be a case for it if someone is being specifically targeted for abuse by another poster, but that very rarely -- if at all -- happens here, at least on the threads I see.

alext (alext), Monday, 25 November 2002 13:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think it's a bad idea,and all my reasons have pretty much been stated up thread.

Plinky (Plinky), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

i think it's a bad idea: it means no one would know what anyone ELSE had been able to see - with outright bans (which i'm also not a fan of, unless it's a spambot), at least everyone is on the same page

mark s (mark s), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think it's a bad idea, and would like to echo Boss Andrew's point about ILX's structure being such that deleting all posts from a person would lead to massive crossed wires.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

the thing is, ilx has, for the most part, got by without it (and the fact of the matter is, on the occasions when someone does go postal, it'll get a load of responses anyway, and you'll be able to see what everyone else is saying in response)

i personally dont think its a good idea (plus server utilization issues)

(although part of me is amused at the thought of someone ranting on, but with no audience whatsoever!)

gareth (gareth), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

As I'm the only one who's ever had a senseless thread deleted, I can understand why some people might want this option. It can be effective if someone's previous posts or threads have really been offending you.

But it also destroys the spontaneity of this medium, and breeds distrust and paranoia into this community, which by definition is very large, free, and open to any and all who would wish to post here. Just think of all the new posters you guys get every week - I can't think of too many other e-communities which have sucha thriving/welcoming vibe to them...but administering killfiles would hamper the open-society feel of it all. It would be akin to cyber McCarthyism, "let's get our contingent to vouch for killfileing so-and-so!" could be used as a secret weapon to drive people apart and blacklist them, no? and for those who use it, they'd be lost on the threads where the blocked posters are communicatign with those who don't have a problem with them.

So no, I think it'd change thevery nature and structure of your electronic family. If you have a major problem with someone's posts or a certain thread, just shout for the moderator who might be able to do something (like take down the offensive thread).

V, Monday, 25 November 2002 14:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

um, just saw this thread. back on the "shout for mod thread"...

Yes, I'd vote against that. I can easily choose not to read the posts of any particular person if I were ever so inclined. I'd be annoyed if I had set that for X and then read this thread where it all kicked off from something X said. I might not even grasp for a while that a post was missing, it would just stop making sense.
Then again, Nicole wasn't trying to make use of such a feature compulsory, so what do I care?

-- Martin Skidmore (martin.skidmores@btinternet.com), Today 2:11 PM. (Martin Skidmore)


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all graham's improvements to date have allowed us to personalize the way threads are presented -- this will change how they read from person to person in a substantial way. if a thread isn't the same from person to person, that's an important change.
-- Alan (AlanTrewartha@yahoo.co.uk), Today 2:14 PM. (Alan)

Alan (Alan), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

i do like the way ilx relies on trust. it would be a shame for this to be lost

gareth (gareth), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

Another vote against such an idea.

jel -- (jel), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think the real question here is whether we actually have the power, physically, emotionally, or spiritually, to alter the threads themselves. All evidence to date suggests that they are crystalline in structure, and cut like diamonds by the moderator's steady hands.

Every day on ILX we forge art. Boundlessly collaborative and imaginative, we maintain our collective consciousness post by post, thread by thread.

Ladies and gentlemen, not only do I believe that we should not implement this feature (which would eventually be our downfall), but I believe that it is a metaphysical impossibility to do so.

Andrew (enneff), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

here, here.

jel -- (jel), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

I never read anyone else's posts anyway.

Sam (chirombo), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:40 (twenty-one years ago) link

This is stupid. ILX is not at the point of needing this.

Jonathan Williams (ex machina), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

another vote against, please. the benefits to the few people who would choose to use such a feature would surely be outweighed by the confusion of invisible double posts, guesswork responses, backtracking etc. - not to mention i don't think any bad blood between regulars would be any easier for the rest of us to wade through (or help defuse) if threads were filled with "is [x] killing my posts?? fuck [x]!!"

jones (actual), Monday, 25 November 2002 15:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

no, no, no. and in fact, i would encourage people to be even more tolerant than at present. i can remember a few things being deleted that didn't seem problematic at all...

ron (ron), Monday, 25 November 2002 15:56 (twenty-one years ago) link

The only thing I'd suggest, if you want to make it easier for people to ignore the posts of those they don't want to read: bring the name of the poster up to the top of each entry. The only problem with doing that it might preclude redemption.

Sean Carruthers (SeanC), Monday, 25 November 2002 15:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

Yeah, it would be dumb. I've only thought about when upset/angry etc. I was thinking maybe you could have the option to put some kind of marker before certain people's posts, which could be used for good, and evil?

(Andrew, I set up an admin type page to show the current processes, and as far as I can tell, it isn't a problem with processing power so much as concurrency issues with the Lastread table. I'll rewrite the whole thing once my computer comes back from being repaired, whenevr that might be)

Graham (graham), Monday, 25 November 2002 16:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

the marker idea's good, graham

jones (actual), Monday, 25 November 2002 16:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

I dont understand this marker concept - can you explain?

Tom (Groke), Monday, 25 November 2002 16:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

Well, you know like the Unread Messages marker, just soem coloured text before the post to make you notice it's by your favourite/least favourite poster - something like that.

Graham (graham), Monday, 25 November 2002 16:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

It strikes me as a little ridiculous, the whole idea, I mean is anyone going to get that mental about things.

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 25 November 2002 16:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

no no no.

mitch lastnamewithheld (mitchlnw), Monday, 25 November 2002 17:07 (twenty-one years ago) link

Could Nicole explain what she wanted it for (on email I guess)?

Graham (graham), Monday, 25 November 2002 17:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

(i only mean that if this discussion is the result a serious demand for an option like this, the marker thing is a better idea than killfiles)

jones (actual), Monday, 25 November 2002 17:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

what mitch said.

mark p (Mark P), Monday, 25 November 2002 17:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

if you're dead set on some idea of a 'marker', though, why not change the text of the offending person's post (maybe black text against a black background - you know, the kind that you can highlight to read if you want) but for pete's sake, please don't eff with the threads

mark p (Mark P), Monday, 25 November 2002 17:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

Against. You could also end up with massive gaps in the conversation, or end up reiterating other people's points.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 25 November 2002 17:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

i wonder what regular poster could inspire such distaste!!

s trife (simon_tr), Monday, 25 November 2002 18:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

see, we do hate you jess!

dee aitch (david h), Monday, 25 November 2002 18:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

please add my vote for No to the list.

donna (donna), Monday, 25 November 2002 20:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

No. We'd still like someone to donate us an Xserve though.

Ed (dali), Monday, 25 November 2002 21:01 (twenty-one years ago) link

I've just looked at this and I vote NO to every idea. come on, the whole point of this is discussion and sometimes that will get heated but let's be sensible about this.

I'm serious: that is the road to hell, as chris rea has said.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Monday, 25 November 2002 21:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

Okay, sorry I brought it up. It was just a question.

Nicole (Nicole), Monday, 25 November 2002 22:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

It was a good question and I'm glad somebody brought it up - best to debate these things!

Tom (Groke), Monday, 25 November 2002 23:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

It wasn't really much of a debate, it was more a "How dare you ask such a question?" type thread, but I suppose that's what I get for asking.

Nicole (Nicole), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 00:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

don't take it too personal nicole, i think the strong reaction also has to do with the fact that tom took up the question and actively asked what people think. that made it a much bigger deal than you probably intended...

ron (ron), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 02:01 (twenty-one years ago) link

I find it odd that people seem to be so against this idea, so I'll say something in its favor. I didn't use killfiles for a long time on usenet, but eventually I did, and I didn't find that it drastically upset my reading experience. It made it more efficient - I killfilled people whose posts I thought would not interest me, because they had consistently not done so. But I knew when messages were being killed, and when there was a thread that interested me I could read the killed posts in it, too, to make sure that it didn't suffer from lack of continuity.

to that end, people might not want to killfile just because other posters are crazy or abusive or because they have bad ideas, but maybe just because they're boring, or because their posts, whatever their merits, happen to not be of interest to the person doing the killfiling.

killfiles could also be used in the opposite direction, to highlight in some way posts of interest. it's not all negative.

both of these sorts of goals are not necessarily the free-exchange-of-ideas killers people seem to be making them out to be, but rather more efficient ways of doing what I suspect many people already do, which is read selectively.

Josh (Josh), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 03:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

Nicole, people are disagreeing with the idea, and explaining why. Please don't come off like you're being put in your place or anything. Many people stated their disagreements before they knew you brought it up.

Josh has the most cogent points in this thread thus far.

All philosophical issues aside, how would one guarantee the killfilees could remained killfiled? login name? e-mail address? IP address? If anyone was causing so much trouble as to be killfiled by certain people, they'd probably go to more trouble to easily circumvent what little form of profiling and identity ILXOR can track, anyway.

Killfiling posts from particular IP addresses would work to a small degree. But this would possibly be a load on the moderators, as they're the only ones who would have access to that information.

donut bitch (donut), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 03:34 (twenty-one years ago) link

brian, I think killfiles aren't usually supposed to be a guarantee that you'll never see posts from the killfiled person. as you say, the obnoxious ones probably wouldn't be bothered by having to circumvent whatever. killfiling based on login or email would be sufficient for many purposes.

of course, the respectable thing to do if you are using a killfile is to not talk about it so that people don't get all a paranoid. which is just what we are supposed to be doing now when we do not talk about people whose posts we are not interested in for whatever reason. er, not talk about the not being interested, I mean.

people who know that they aggravate lots of people might have a hard time not wondering if they are being killfiled, but perhaps this just means that they should work on being less aggravating.

Josh (Josh), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 04:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

what about the double post thing? people already skim threads poorly and reiterate points previously made - with killfiles up and running willy nilly this alone could turn homicidal-rage-inducing.

jones (actual), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 04:22 (twenty-one years ago) link

to me, efficiency is not as important as courtesy, and i don't really like the idea of talking to someone who's ignoring me, and me not knowing they're doing it.

ron (ron), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 07:02 (twenty-one years ago) link

no. dud. for same reasons as listed above. it would perpertuate insularity. if you want to ignore someone's thread (like mine - as jed, jez, jaz or WHATEVER that guy's name is, just ignore it).

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 07:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

and yes, i realise the irony that i will be the killfile hero if this happens! hooray! me so cool!

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 07:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

I can see the points for and against, but I'd rather you returned the unread messages function to those of us who don't have it first (I loved that function!).

Tim (Tim), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 10:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

Why have so few people contributed to this thread?

Sam (chirombo), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 10:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

loads have, you must have killfiled them all! ha ha.

One alternative compromise would be just to have a new option for how to display each post -- the default is the traditional "signature style" with name etc after the post, and a new more "Bulletin Board style" with the name etc before the post, maybe with the poster name in bold.

Further to this suggestion -- although "registered" ppl are already indicated by the shortname in brackets (in some views) perhaps this status could be more heavily signed.

Would that suit the original purpose of this thread? It would mean that the content of the thread remains the same, but perhaps making it easier to skim over/concentrate on posts by particular people.

Alan (Alan), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 10:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

i have just noticed this thread, and i'm with tim: is there any chance to get that beautiful red colour back? :-)
as for the killfiling, i'm against it.

joan vich (joan vich), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 10:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

is a killfile like those spiders in minority report?

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

its kinda ironic. thoughts about the people who want to 'puncture the cosy conformity/false community of ilx' etc etc, (and those that think they might be killfiled, which would pretty much curtail that aim). i mean, those threats to the continuance of ilx pretty much pale into insignificane compared to the tabloid/pilnky business. bloid exposure can do the work of a thousand trolls (who, actually, need to work extremely hard, and around the clock, to make any real difference)

gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

if the above post relates to me - yer wrong as i can't be arsed to 'kill the community'....

and those thoughts are sort of jimjonescultlike, are they not?

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:15 (twenty-one years ago) link

no one poster is going to 'kill the community', even if they tried really really hard

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

it wasnt about you, (another poster more or less posted this specifically on a thread the other week). even then, it wasnt really about that poster either. i dont really want to get into all this again to be honest, all i really mean was that as a space for people to discuss things/meet up/chat etc, the informal relaxedness would be changed

jim, thats what i meant. one person could not achieve such an aim, but this could (but, it wouldnt necessarily matter that much, as much of this has bled into going out/phone/email anyway)

gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:22 (twenty-one years ago) link

The 'unread messages' feature is one of the single most resource-greedy features one could hope to implement. (unfortunately)

Andrew (enneff), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

my feeling is that, now we are being, ahem, "watched," we all need to be a lot more careful about what is said on these boards. Today's comment on the Joni Mitchell ILM thread is a case in point - wouldn't the quote about rape be manna from heaven to your average pissed-off tabloid hack?

Anon 'cos I don't want to be googled in association with the quote!, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

oops, i meant to say, i put 'kill the community' in inverted commas for a reason, (ie, to suggest the mindset of someone with that attention), otherwise it does sound cultlike i agree!!!!!

yes, the damage i mean, is the realisation that everything you say is out there for anyone to see and use how they see fit (99% of the time of course this does not matter, but you can see what happens in the 1%). but perhaps this isnt damage at all, but something cautionary, a home truth

gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

The thing is Gareth that a positive mention in a big enough news source (if Q, say, decided we were the shit and put a link in its website column) could have a similarly pole-axing effect. What we would need to do is switch for a while - six months maybe - to registered posters only and put a limit on the number of registrations allowed. This would suck but it would be better than the alternative.

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

would it not be ironic if a non-troll (plinkky) brought the plague onto this board?

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

doom-e that's exactly what gareth said!!

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

would it not be ironic if a non-troll (plinkky) brought the plague onto this board?
i'm afraid i don't see the point of what you're saying

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

that would put me out of the running as i wouldnt want to belong to any club that would have me as a member....

mark s i'm going to email you tonight as i need advice!

mark s and suzy and marcello i have made you all fab. christmas cdrs!!!!! to be posted off before i jet off to new york!

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:34 (twenty-one years ago) link

I would agree with Tom (not a sentence you read every day from me on ILx!) - the six-month "registered users only" idea might be the best of a set of pretty undesirable but perhaps unavoidable options.

Sadly, I fear doom-e might also be right. But there's no real point apportioning blame now; we have to make the best out of the situation in which we currently find ourselves.

(hey doomie, thanks for the christmas cdr! look forward to it)

Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

no prob. marcello...

and i don't want to associated with a b*p message board (another thing to plinkky consideration is that).....

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

(The vilest irony in the whole situation is that my main paranoia is about 'immigrants' from other boards coming and destroying our culture with their foreign ways!)

Anon I think a hostile tabloid reporter could find tons to pick us apart with. When someone on ILX decides it's time to play Junior VICE Mag the policy is same as it ever was - you challenge them, you don't censor them. If nobody challenges them then maybe we deserve what we might get.

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

ok cool doom-e!!

anon cos i don't want to be googled: yes possibly we should, though that does actually give unreasonable leverage to posters who want to be jerks (ie instead of being just being ignored till they get bored they can send everyone else into a tizzy); also even if we are all angels for a spell now, we have many of us not been angels always

i have said before: the first thing st peter will do when we get to the pearly gates is take us through the ilxor posts we least want to see again

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

have you ever said anything that you would not want to be put in a tabloid for the world to see?

(the more i think about this, the more i am seriously beginning to see the funny side!!!!!)

gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

it's not the tabloids, it's the b*p mentality....

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

no doubt, but i'm just trying to put myself in the hack's position - you know, let's have a quick scroll to see what's on this internte message board (which x frequents) this morning - ooh i say what's this?

then again, if trolls want to troll, the only way of stopping them is to go to "registered only" for x amount of time. really the poster in question should be argued off the hustings by us, but then again if it wasn't him/her, someone else will come and do the equivalent. so it's 24/7 policing - not very practicable.

Anon 'cos I don't want to be googled in association with the quote!, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

in an ideal world, trolls wd be embraced and redeemed by our tuff love (like doom-e!!) (so that in turn, the erstwhile troll cd teach us what is missing from our narrow world!!)

this i fear requires 48/14 policing and the patience of all saints

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

(insert the appletons gag of your choice here!)

Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

The reporter had a very very obvious anti-Plinky angle here which she didn't use - the centre of the story is P's bf, not P and not us. I completely agree that those kind of comments are idiotic as well as offensive but are you suggesting we ban/block/delete them immediately? (Which really would need 24/7 policing to stop accusations of favouritism!)

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:56 (twenty-one years ago) link

someone email me when ilx is "pure shores"...

BHHAAHAHAHHABHAB...HHAHAHAGHAHGHDBHAHHA..!!!

doom-e, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 11:57 (twenty-one years ago) link

no, like i said that can't physically be done - everyone shd just perhaps think twice about posting something which "cara page" or equivalent is likely to use against us (even if ilx is a disposable accessory to the main pb story). self-vigilance and all that. even if only for a week or ten.

Anon, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 12:01 (twenty-one years ago) link

To be fair I think that is the totla mileage someone can get out of that story, and that Ms Page may well hve better things to do that worry about us all knocking around here trying to feel self important. The amount of notice random people take of other random news items is minimal - we may feel slighted that a newspaper took notice but ILE wasn't even mentioned by name. I am always prepared to stand by anything I have written, even if my excuse is "it was a lame joke".

I would not be in favour of any restriction to the current openness of the boards - let us cross bridges when we come to them rather than carrying around giant pre-fabricated bridges on the off chance we get to a river and breaking our back in the process. (Hmm, that's a bit laboured isn't it).

What exactly would a B N P supporter do round here anyway? ABuse Plinky? And we'd abuse them. Plus ca change.

(I also think the rape quote on ILM is actually very interesting, of course someone who rape someone has a good reason, a good reason as justified to themselves which of course lies outside the morality of the society that they live in. This is not oputside the realms of many similar discussions we've had on ILE and if we are scared of discussing them the the terrorists, or in this case the journalists, have won.)

Pete (Pete), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 12:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

OK then, seeing as you're prepared to come to the defence of rapists, let's hear you defend and/or justify them, then.

Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

Of course we have to understand the genetic/psychological mindset of the rapist, the family history of abuse, he thinks that he rises above society etc. etc....

No, as far as rape is concerned, I'm with Burchill; less understanding and more castrating.

Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:06 (twenty-one years ago) link

Understanding != defending or justifying.

RickyT (RickyT), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:10 (twenty-one years ago) link

Well you can play about with semantics all you want. There is no excuse for rape, no GOOD reason for rape, it is a horrible and bestial and stinking thing.

And I am quite happy for Cara Page or anyone else to quote me on that.

Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

Marcello, I'm not defending rapists, though I think someone should when they come into a court of law as accused rapists. I was solely discussing the line
"i think when a man chooses to rape a woman he has a very good reason."
If you look at that sentence construction it is quite clear that it is the man who has a good reason as justified to himself. I would imagine commiting most pre-meditated crime would also fit into this are of having a good reason. That is one of the purposes of a court of law is for after all, to decide whether that good reason is - in the eyes of society - a good reason. I'd be bloody hard pushed to find one for rape.

The rest of the post that came from regarding the politics an sexual orientation of Joni Mitchell was much more offensive. As of course was the fact that you were accused of writing it. It is unlikely though that tabloid hack is bursting with glee in finding the "Internet Mentalist Against Rape". If she was to she can add my name to the naysayers.

Pete (Pete), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:14 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think the understanding isn't enhanced by an "obviously the rapist thinks he's justified" argument though.

As moderator I am probably over-sensitive to the state of the boards at any given time. I don't think it's a case of carrying around bridges; I do think it's a case of making sure we have the ability to do something in unpleasant situations.

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:18 (twenty-one years ago) link

Yeah, the notion that I had anything to do with that post did concern me. I certainly didn't want to be associated with that. Believe it or not, there are lines which even I won't cross, and speaking light of rape is certainly one of them.

In general, though (and this is not having a go at you Pete, it just knee-jerk annoyed me), it just seems to me that it's always men who want to try to "understand" the mindset of the rapist. Most women (if you believe vox pops and polls; if there's proof otherwise, I'd like to know of it) just want them to be rendered physically incapable of perpetuating such an assault on any other woman in the future.

One other perspective, of course, is that a fair proportion of society (including a good chunk of the legal profession) undoubtedly still DO see "good" reasons for rape (she was asking for it, she was a slag, she did not fulfil her duties as a wife) which are echoed by most of the media - the Daily Mail's rabid hatred of any female who isn't a humble, servile middle-class housewife, for instance.

Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

Marcello, I would not argue with your last post at all. But I am very annoyed by the implication that it is impossible to utterly condemn an act and at the same time seek to understand why said act occurred. Comprehending why it happened is not the same thing as excusing it.

RickyT (RickyT), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

Grrr, posts crossing in the interweb.

RickyT (RickyT), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think that the very legal/moral weaselling Marcello is talking about has been allowed to dictate the terms of our understanding of rape.

Also Marcello isn't it the case that men *ought* to be trying to understand it - as a human and a male I want to understand the factors that make other humans and other men commit terrible acts so I can best avoid them. Admitting my potential for hatred or cruelty or even rape or murder seems a healthier starting point than a Mailesque division of society into 'people' and 'Beasts'.

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

Or to put it very simply, the reason we should try and understand sex crimes of any kind is to stop first offences, not second ones.

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

(if i have a moment later i might post a coupla quotes from neal ascherson's lrb review of anthony beevor's book on berlin 1945)

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

They are the same factors which exist in you and me, Tom. We both have testosterone, we both get turned on, we both (I would assume!) fantasise about having sex with thousands of different women we see on the street, in the office, on the bus, on the TV. It would be unnatural if we didn't. But we have the "safety switch" in our minds which stop us from unilaterally turning these desires into unwanted action. Why do we have them and others don't? Is it all to do with genes, conditioning and/or upbringing? Or because of a Dworkin-esque vision of an oppressive male community which still view women as fair game for anything?

I sometimes wonder to myself in my more Meldrew-esque moments whether extreme preventative measures shouldn't be taken for the greater good, but that brings a whole lot of other dubious issues into play, like eugenics, so I generally keep such thoughts private.

We definitely need, however, to try to understand more how things stand from the point of view of the victim.

Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

embraced and redeemed by our tuff love (like doom-e!!)

cutest post ever! (kittens included!)

ron (ron), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 15:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

(i feel really silly about saying that silly stuff. i was being silly in a bad way. i don't think it's necessarily bad to treat rape in an un-serious way but if it caused problems then it's not good.

i own the first joni mitchell lp, too. i bought it at the cjtr record fair. i have a cassette of court and spark, too.

i'm sorry for causing any bad trouble.

that was rap-rock sincerity.)

d k (d k), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 05:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

Aww.

Andrew (enneff), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 06:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

"i don't think it's necessarily bad to treat rape in an un-serious way."

you're just digging a bigger hole for yourself, aren't you? you pathetic fuckwit.

GET THIS INTO YOUR STUPID SKULL. RAPE IS SERIOUS. RAPE IS HORRIBLE. RAPE IS ONE OF THE WORST FUCKING CRIMES A MAN CAN EVER DO TO A WOMAN. RAPE DESTROYS LIVES. RAPE IS NOT A JOKE.

DO

YOU

FUCK

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UND

ER

STAND?

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 08:10 (twenty-one years ago) link

marcello youre retarded and i hate you

s trife (simon_tr), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 08:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

Marcello, you need to take a break.

Andrew (enneff), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 08:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

Hey what's with people not being able to see the subtle parts of other people's args. lately? Q: Are we not men?

Dan I., Wednesday, 27 November 2002 09:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

Hmm. So anyone speaking out against rape on this board is considered "retarded." I see.

The one thing you ought to consider before posting anything like that is the effect that it might have on people outside the "charmed circle" of ILx regulars who might come across it. Someone, for instance, who has been raped or whose loved one has been a victim of rape. That consideration should take priority over any attempts to "shock" or be "subtle." End of story.

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 10:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

you're totally right, but there's no need to overreact.
i think of you as a smart man. keep it cool, please.

joan vich (joan vich), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 10:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

Marcello, much as I admire the chivalry, you might consider giving someone who's been in that situation *themselves* first crack at telling off someone who makes light of rape.

suzy (suzy), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 10:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

no there is NO but about it, i am right. with things like this i am not going to sit in a corner and mumble it, i will stand up and SHOUT it. too bad if no one else has the guts to do it.

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 10:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

what do you mean with 'have the guts'?
writing in capitals about SOMEONE'S FUCKING SKULL? the guy was ashamed. it's not enough for you, i can understand that. but do you really think you're helping at all to make him change his mind with your attitude?

joan vich (joan vich), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 10:40 (twenty-one years ago) link

MY attitude? Who posted that stupid post to begin with? Who posted what was supposed to be an apology to which he couldn't resist adding a stupid remark? So it would appear that it is HIS attitude which requires revising, so if he has really changed his mind, he can come on back here and apologise properly. I think I make myself sufficiently clear.

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 10:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

one of my close friends in leeds was raped recently

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 11:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

sometimes, after the friends that have died, the friends that have been stabbed, the friends that have been raped, i'm still surprised by the variety of reactions and ways of coping that people use to cope, one of these has been the one that has been criticized above

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 11:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

apologies, i made it look like the rape happened to more than one person, i meant to put friend as it has happened to one friend (the other instance was a few years ago and she beat him round the head with a stone and ran off)

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 11:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

is there some way that thread titles could be changed, so that if half way down they start being all about something else the title might reflect that? How far back up this thread do I have to go before it's about killfiles?

DV (dirtyvicar), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 12:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

whilst, i admire marcello taking a stand, the thing is, with any shock to the body, death or injury, it is near impossible to gauge one's reaction to trauma. people who have suffered trauma, make light of it or ignore it or suffer badly.

i.e. a friend's father died and he told me that he was happy that he did not have to repay the money that was recently lent. never under-estimate a mind that is dealing with shock. it can come out rather different than what you would expect.

but rape taken in a non-serious way by someone who has not been raped? dud. dud and more duds.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 12:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

yeah but doom-e what if you recognise it and still suffer from it?

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 13:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

what about rape taken in a non-serious way by someone who has been raped?

dwh (dwh), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 13:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

do we have any examples of this?

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 13:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

I doubt it. But the point I was making is that Rape is absolutely (in its technical meaning) morally abhorrent.

dwh (dwh), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 13:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

Also poss. it could happen on basis of people who have suffered trauma, make light of it.

dwh (dwh), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 13:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

Marcello, I'm not defending rapists, though I think someone should when they come into a court of law as accused rapists.

Also, the point here is that in a court of law the alleged rapist would be being defended on a point of FACT (ie Did he actually put his penis there?) or a point of LAW (ie Is it rape under the law to penetrating orally, having already estd the fact.) They wouldn't be defending them on moral grounds, but technical grounds.

dwh (dwh), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 13:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

And also, extension of that point: they are not at that point "rapists". That's what all the jiggery-pokery in court is for. Anyway. Back to Killfiles.

dwh (dwh), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 13:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

yeah but doom-e what if you recognise it and still suffer from it?
-- Marcello Carlin (marcellocarlin@h...), November 27th, 2002.

Well, that's what happened to me, Marcello - and to put it simply - it changes you. You are different. It's a rebirth and a difficult one at that into the world again.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:02 (twenty-one years ago) link

Current events are making me wish we had kill-file capability.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

can't kill file the world, dan.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

Yes, but generally I can choose whom I want to speak to. (Although in this case, that's achieved easily enough by avoiding certain threads.)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:15 (twenty-one years ago) link

Yes, but generally I can choose whom I want to speak to. (Although in this case, that's achieved easily enough by avoiding certain threads.)

exactly. it's not i love stepford wives.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:18 (twenty-one years ago) link

But to properly counter your argument, even out in the real world if someone is in my vicinity saying irritating things that I don't want to listen to, I always have the option to ignore them or leave. Killfiles are another way of allowing people to ignore each other.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

check out dan p bigging up apartheid!

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

killfiles censor things that you don't want to be expose too. you don't give yerself the option at all.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:40 (twenty-one years ago) link

check out dan p bigging up censorship! woo-booty-tipper gore-woo!

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

i guess the counter argument to that dan is that you can leave ilx at any time?

eg. a lot of the people here apparently used to post on a.m.a? but no longer? people made the decision to leave there when there was nothing more to be gained (i never read it so i have no idea of the reasons).

but somehow this doesnt seem satisfactory, as more would be lost than gained? (not an argument in favour of killfiles, but i understand the desire not to have to read the b*p crap that is imminent here)

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

woah, i've just read the MC posts, and now i'm completely lost. what???

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

i think it's an unsatisfactory compromise. either make it "registered users only" or put up with the fact that on a public forum ppl are gonna come and stir things up, for whatever reason. this is like deciding to walk down the street but wrapping yourself in double glazing to do it. it is insulating yourself from the world. you'll never be hurt but you'll never be touched either.

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

IP banning and killfiles are different questions. The former would be a last resort way of stopping high levels of spam or extreme poster-on-poster harrassment (extreme as in "making threats" level i.e. 'The Truth'). Killfiles would completely change the board's dynamics.

Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 15:56 (twenty-one years ago) link

now i'm even more confused. plenty of times i walk down the street, there'll be a bunch of lads shouting and taking the piss - i ignore them. a bunch of kids tend to throw stones from the balconies of the flats near us at peoples heads, i tend to walk on the other side of the road. a bloke with firey eyes came up to me last week to take money off me, i looked right at him and shouted "DNEPROPETROVSK!" and hurried off, a bunch of people tried to hassle us in the pub the other week, we went somewhere else.

i didnt engage with these people, i do not have the time or energy. if this is wrapping yourself in cotton wool, show me the people who dont

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:02 (twenty-one years ago) link

yes, well sadly gareth that's what you get for living in kentish town. hampstead it ain't. similarly ilx is not unk's troll-free private saloon. it is not a gated community. if ppl actually came on here threatening to chuck bricks at you, then yes they would be got rid of pretty posthaste as tom e indicated, but the incidence of that on ilx would seem to me to have been pretty minimal.

again, though, the killfile idea to me seems too much like separatism, it's name and shame, it complicates communication, it makes too many assumptions about posters and it's likely to drive more ppl away than would be prepared to stay. there are only so many kitten threads you can have.

Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:18 (twenty-one years ago) link

A killfile is the discussion board equivalent of spying a particular person that you don't want to talk to down the street and avoiding them. It's about as relevant to apartheid as choosing to walk down a street that isn't hosting a white-pride rally.

Marcello, for someone who proclaims himself to be wildly talented and clever, you certainly haev a talent for saying painfully stupid things.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

It's hardly a question of people choosing kittens over "the truth, told like it is" by ILX's hardcore life lesson crew. I mean for christ's sake....

Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

not exactly what i'm talking about ronan....

but dan, it will/would change the dynamics of the board - but hey, the b*p are going to do that anyways if that plunky guy has his way.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

i dont live in kentish town anymore (interestingly there was a time when i'd have said where i live on ilx. those days are GONE!!!!)

but i would extend my analogy to people who bug you on the bus, boring people in pubs, girls that slime onto you etc. you know, i havent got time for everyone!. no physical threat from these people, but still, i'm busy!

i dont agree with the killfile facility even so, in life you have to deal with people you have no respect for, the same is true online, to an extent this already exists but is extremely small.

yea, i'd rather not bother with such people, but, you know, if n4z1s come here, fine, i've no problem with that, i've got my own killfile facility. the off button

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

oh, and you can never have enough kitten threads, and if/when this board turns into the hardcore life lesson crew with n4z1s in tow, i'll come back here with millions of kittens and little donkeys!

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:34 (twenty-one years ago) link

doom-e and gareth in agreement shocka'...

hey, has anyone see Michael Moore's new movie - what do you think of his manipulation of the facts to get his point across. I always find that the fundamental flaw with Moore. He shifts things around to fit in with his worldview. But enjoyable nonetheless.

Anybody see My Little Eye?

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:36 (twenty-one years ago) link

I agree that introducing the ability for people to filter out people they don't want to read would change the dynamics of the board. Whether it would be a change for the better or worse is purely a thought experiment where everyone will come to a different conclusion based on past experiences with discussion forums with killfiles/extrapolations of how people will use and/or abuse killfiles. On Usenet, I HATED the flamboyant, self-serving *plonk* culture that had grown up around the killfile, but that doesn't mean that the ability to mark out posts from someone you have no interest in reading ever again is by definition a bad thing. (As far as I'm concerned, the only thing conlcusion that can be drawn from Usenet's killfile culture is that people will use every opportunity they can find to act like assholes.)

The last time I had this argument was four years ago and I was on the other side of it. Hmm.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

i would like to point out to everyone that i'm allergic to cats and kittens thus my dislike of the kittens threads - hives, I will have you know.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

the last couple of weeks have left me dangerously close to the off button i must admit. after all, i've got everyones email address, and i'm finding myself enjoying emailing the people i like far more than the board because i dont get aggression rammed down my throat, i dont get the pity me posse going postal, i dont get fucking b*p shit, i dont get people telling me i'm a cunt for liking the wrong music.

and michael moore is a smug tedious irritating patronizing man, i want to learn things and told things i dont know, not talked down to, its like class for 13 year olds. he could do so much better if he actually tried

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

Haha me too Dex!!

TBH I longed for a killfile facility but Usenet was a very different place. Even if they were in place the whole *plonk* thing was dud dud dud.

Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

i dont live in kentish town anymore (interestingly there was a time when i'd have said where i live on ilx. those days are GONE!!!!)

this is scary. and sad.
i don't think it should get this radical.

joan vich (joan vich), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

gareth your a kitten for liking the wrong music.

hope this helps.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

gareth your a kitten for liking the wrong music.

hope this helps.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

i dont live in kentish town anymore (interestingly there was a time when i'd have said where i live on ilx. those days are GONE!!!!)

this is scary. and sad.
i don't think it should get this radical.

joan vich (joan vich), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

I wasn't referring to you doom-e.


I have to say I've been less inclined to go and see the Moore film since I read Pete's post about it which highlighted the same thing which you say. It's obviously a massive student talking point, especially since I do Journalism.

Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

gareth your a kitten for liking the wrong music.

hope this helps.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

this is scary. and sad.
ooops!! :-)

joan vich (joan vich), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

Woah.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

why is everyoen saying everything twice all of a sudden?

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

this is scary. and sad.

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

why is everyoen saying everything twice all of a sudden?

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

the kill file has caused a glitch in the matrix.

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

the kill file has caused a glitch in the matrix..

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

hope this helps.

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

Woah.

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

why is everyoen saying everything twice all of a sudden?

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

http://www.crescentmusic.com/diana/KittenPages/Marayna/dsc01356.jpg

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 16:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

sneeze!

joan vich (joan vich), Wednesday, 27 November 2002 17:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GET THEM AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 17:07 (twenty-one years ago) link

damn you kids, damn you kids and yer kittens....you have not heard the last of me!!! *frantically shaking fists*

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 17:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

it must psycho-somatic but i feel my skin grow itchy just for looking at pictures of kittens...

doom-e, Wednesday, 27 November 2002 17:14 (twenty-one years ago) link

one year passes...
please?

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Monday, 12 April 2004 13:30 (twenty years ago) link

please???

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Monday, 12 April 2004 13:31 (twenty years ago) link

REALLY FUCKING PLEASE?!

Kingfish Balzac (Kingfish), Monday, 12 April 2004 13:35 (twenty years ago) link

it's the commas, isn't it?

cozen (Cozen), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:09 (twenty years ago) link

Would it be okay if in the interim I just went hog-wild on deleting the fucking stupid threads? Because that's what I'm doing right now.

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:19 (twenty years ago) link

ILX's lack of a consistently enforced troll policy and moderators' inability/unwillingness to follow even the vague policies that are stated in the FAQ led me to killfile myself, bit by bit, over time.

I'm not the only person I know who has done this.

As you can see I still lurk, however, bcz I do/did like some of the people here. Also it's Monday.

TOMBOT, Monday, 12 April 2004 14:29 (twenty years ago) link

I'm not going to blame the moderators for anything, cause they're doing work I don't want to do and probably doing it better than I would. I would use a killfile if we had one, especially if it provided the option of only ignoring threads started by X, not posts by X on other threads. I'm not jonesing enough for it that I'd be really upset if it wasn't provided, though.

In the interim I'm more than okay with Dan deleting the fucking stupid threads, as long as he leaves the stupid fucking threads.

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:33 (twenty years ago) link

The current policies are stupid. The biggest historical problem is that the current moderation policy was put into place with the not-so-secret agenda of isolating one person from the boards.

ILX should be a register-to-post board. The "Show All Details" link should go to the moderators only. People should post to the board with the implicit understanding that anything they right may be subject to deletion.

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:40 (twenty years ago) link

ILX should be a register-to-post board.

i agree with this.

Kingfish Balzac (Kingfish), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:46 (twenty years ago) link

I 100% agree.

gygax! (gygax!), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:55 (twenty years ago) link

Is there a reason this isn't already the case? (I vaguely remember it being brought up on a Shout thread, but those were so hard to follow when they exploded that I don't remember the details.) I mean, is it just that it hasn't been done, or have people argued against it?

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:59 (twenty years ago) link

I argued against it, but I don't care anymore.

N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:01 (twenty years ago) link

People have argued against it; the most pertinent argument against it is that our main coder may not have the bandwidth to implement this change.

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:02 (twenty years ago) link

I'm cool with whatever.

jel -- (jel), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:04 (twenty years ago) link

I seem to remember someone's argument against the register function as it would dissuade more posts by the random googlers.

gygax! (gygax!), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:05 (twenty years ago) link

yeah - how tragic that would've been.

Kim (Kim), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:07 (twenty years ago) link

mine was that i didn't see how it would stop people bent on annoying, and might deter potentially interesting newcomers. but random googlers seem to have got much more annoying lately, so yeah, whatever.

N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:07 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah but then we wouldn't have this:

Britney can i get your sister jame spears Email

Aaron W (Aaron W), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:08 (twenty years ago) link

Doesn't it sort of enclose us a bit?

I also sympathise with the "but whatever" viewpoint.

What's the current crisis???

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:10 (twenty years ago) link

how about killbillfiles instead?

jel -- (jel), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:12 (twenty years ago) link

the thing making me drift off the most, is that now it's hard to get through more than 25% of the threads (even if I have some excess of free time, like today)

Kim (Kim), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:16 (twenty years ago) link

yeah, I've started doing that thing of only opening threads by people who's names I recogonise.

jel -- (jel), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:18 (twenty years ago) link

yeah - they're pretty much all mince at the moment. i blame the easter weekend

N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:19 (twenty years ago) link

(As a regular poster, I stopped reading 75% of ILE about a year ago and am all the happier for it)

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:21 (twenty years ago) link

i get more use out of my dancing banana everyday. it really is quite handy.

Kingfish Balzac (Kingfish), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:28 (twenty years ago) link

I think it's grand, but as I said on the last big meta ILX is out of control now. It belongs to more people than ever, and hence to noone at all. We just keep on trucking.

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:30 (twenty years ago) link

Ronan otm, I think being able to -- or interested in -- reading a decreasing percentage of threads is just a natural side effect of growth and age, not automatically a bad thing. (Sometimes it's also a bad thing, like when a troll starts twenty idiot threads, etc.)

The dissuading-posts-from-googlers thing is something I sympathize with since I'm one of the people who discovered ILX at random (although not through google), but I don't think it would be out of line to add a line or two to the FAQ about how ILX isn't a big cliquey mccliquety clique and people posting for the first time won't get their heads bitten off.

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:34 (twenty years ago) link

(Sympathize with "thinking it could be a bad thing to dissuade them," that is.)

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:37 (twenty years ago) link

I think making ILX required registration offers advantages and disadvantages. I don't like putting people off generally, and that will. On the other hand, random types starting loads of irritating or repetitive threads is annoying. There isn't a perfect solution, a right balance. I guess ILX is comfortably big enough that we shouldn't worry too much about not attracting enough people to keep going, so maybe the balance is tilting towards registration. It would take a fair amount of rewriting, of course.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:41 (twenty years ago) link

What does registration entail, exactly?

Michael Daddino (epicharmus), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:47 (twenty years ago) link

I guess ILX is comfortably big enough that we shouldn't worry too much about not attracting enough people to keep going

I suppose though it'd be nice to attract new people!

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:48 (twenty years ago) link

for everyone I mean, I don't mean that as a diss to the few hundred people who post here.

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:48 (twenty years ago) link

I agree, I just mean the large size maybe tilts the balance against that argument a little. As for what it would entail, I guess that would depend on discussion and how it was coded.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:54 (twenty years ago) link

What's going on? I was thinking ILE had been uncharacteristically nice and sane and enjoyable recently - unless someone's gone k-mental over the last 24 hours without me noticing.

I agree with N. really. I don't understand how compulsory registration would dissuade hardcore trollers, although it would possibly make them easier to ban.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:57 (twenty years ago) link

I don't see how having to log in to post stops us from attracting new people. It does makes it harder for for them to be a random nuisance if they *aren't* attracted to the place.

Kim (Kim), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:02 (twenty years ago) link

What does registration entail, exactly?

Registration would at a minimum mean that a user would have to pick a username and log in to post to the forum.

I suppose though it'd be nice to attract new people!

Yes, it would; however, I don't think that making people log in before than can post would drive away every single new person who stumbled across the site. Some people would be turned off by having to log in, but other people are already turned off by the intraposter bitching that already happens on the forum while others are turned off by the scads of attention given to obvious trolls. If we can't please everybody, we might as well just please me and do what I say. (That last statement is mostly a joke, although it does seem to me that the views of everyone who has argued about ILX moderation has held that position as the cornerstone to their argument.)

As far as the argument concerning regular posters not being able to make anonymous posts when discussing sensitive issues, my personal take on that is that if you don't feel comfortable associating yourself with a particular issue or airing your personal business on a publically-accessible data-persistent forum, perhaps you shouldn't join in that particular discussion (or perhaps you should register a seperate "sensitive issues" user for yourself if you wish to share some info but don't want the general readership to instantly associate it with you).

(xpost Matt, you may have missed the spate of threads Gr4p3 S0d4 started today that kicked off this whole discussion. Most of the threads going today actually have nothing to do with this discussion and it probably wouldn't be an issue if GS hadn't also gone on an idiotic thread revival kick late last week.)

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:02 (twenty years ago) link

What's going on?

I don't think there's a current crisis or anything, really; not to speak for Jess, but based on what he said on some other threads I think he revived it because of the (((((whateverwhatever))))) threads (which Dan might have since deleted? I don't know).

It sort of makes more sense to talk about it when there isn't a crisis, really, because then we're not just talking about the solution to a specific problem at hand and losing track of general usefulness.

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:04 (twenty years ago) link

oh, xpost, yes

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:04 (twenty years ago) link

It would certainly make trolls easier to ban - how much easier would depend how it worked.

As for anonymous posting, that could be offered as a feature - the fact that you are logged in doesn't make that impossible, it would just be yet more coding to do.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:05 (twenty years ago) link

I don't think what's described above would make them much easier to ban - if I remember the registration system correctly, you can breeze through it in 15 seconds with a random name/password generator. If we implemented something where you needed to reply to a messaeg sent to your stated email address, that would be considerably more of a deterrent (though surely a pain in the arse to implement).

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:11 (twenty years ago) link

'mince' = ?

Like Ronan and DC I do not understand where this is coming from.

Perhaps unlike them, I do not understand the technological aspects neither.

the bellefox, Monday, 12 April 2004 16:14 (twenty years ago) link

I just got back from 3 miserable days in Wakefield W Yorkshire, w/no int4rw3b access. What did I miss?

Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:14 (twenty years ago) link

Nothing major really, just some extremely irritating sub-par trolling.

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:15 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, that was sort of what I was thinking. Otherwise it serves no purpose that I can see.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:16 (twenty years ago) link

Oh well. Keep on deleting, Dan, good work, thanks!

Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:18 (twenty years ago) link

Dan's thoughts are generally sound (of course I would say that). But I hesitate to vote to solely go register-only for posts, for reasons Tep and Martin have noted.

My thought is, as Tom noted and Dan followed up with, there is simply too much vagueness and confusion on the policies. Limiting the number of mods for this board was actually for the good, but if the mods themselves figure that said policies and approaches need a revision, I have full trust in their judgment to do so for the good of ILX.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:19 (twenty years ago) link

There's really nothing that can be done to fix things or make them any better.

El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:35 (twenty years ago) link

just floating ideas out...it seems that when ilx works, it works pretty well, but when it's disrupted, it all goes to hell. Perhaps there could be two modes: a free mode (ilx as we know it) and a lockdown mode (only registered people can post, and no new registrants are accepted [also troll would be unregistered by mod of course]). We go into lockdown when someone comes in just to be an idiot. Lockdown mode would suck for known ilxors who aren't registered (although they could still lurk), but it would frustrate troublemakers. I don't think it would do much one way or the other for random googlers, as they usually just pop in for a bit anyway.

teeny (teeny), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:35 (twenty years ago) link

DEFCON 4

gygax! (gygax!), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:37 (twenty years ago) link

I think Teeny's idea is cool but possibly untenable (unless of course lockdown mode includes ILE somehow turning into a robot, in which case I say DAMN THE TORPEDOES; LET'S DO THIS)

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:39 (twenty years ago) link

can we listen to 187 lockdown, in this theoretical lockdown phase?

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:39 (twenty years ago) link

One more vote for registered users only, plz.

Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:43 (twenty years ago) link

yeah the programming logistics of that one might be a killer but it's pretty cool to say ILX LOCKDOWN.

teeny (teeny), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:43 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, what Nicole said is true. I do still wish there was still smaller board with ilx sensibility posters though. If anyone knows of one, by all means let me know. k bye.

Kim (Kim), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:53 (twenty years ago) link

Personally, I'm kind of in 2 minds abt registered mode, mainly b/c I'm on a couple of boards which are registered posters only, & you have to have an emai address etc, and they're worse than this by a long way.

My personal feeling, and I've felt this for a while, is that the default setting for threads should be to have search engine indexing turned OFF.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:57 (twenty years ago) link

I'm not sure the size of the board is relevant really - considering there are, what, 300 people posting on the various forums the quality of postings is generally pretty fucking high. We don't really get THAT many trolls so surely one every few weeks is fairly easy to deal with as long as there's a coherant policy (possible exception the REALLY persistant ones like C***m.)

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 12 April 2004 16:59 (twenty years ago) link

The register-to-post requirement would be a prerequisite to enabling a killfile, wouldn't it, or at least a useful one? (There's no point in killfiling anything in the "Your Full Name" field, because people change them all the time, but login names are static.) So, whether or not that requirement has public benefit beyond the killfile, and whether or not the killfile itself is a good thing, are two separate questions.

(It's not always clear in today's posts above when people are talking about one and when they're talking about both, especially now that we've drifted to more general "what to do about wankers" talk.)

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:07 (twenty years ago) link

I do still wish there was still smaller board with ilx sensibility posters though. If anyone knows of one, by all means let me know. k bye.

Me too. I think it's just a matter of too many people posting here now, the amount of posts are overwhelming and the sensibility has changed. So registering, etc. doesn't really do anything to rectify that.

El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:10 (twenty years ago) link

Yes, that is exactly what I meant. I suppose nothing technically stops us from creating a quieter sub-forum right here, but perhaps the "sub"ness would ruin it. It feels like a weird/wrong idea anyway, but then, so did the idea of ILE at the beginning, so I dunno.

Kim (Kim), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:18 (twenty years ago) link

the amount of posts are overwhelming and the sensibility has changed.

After re-reading the first part of this thread I'm somewhat glad of that.

It's less to do with number of posters and more related to quality of posters - increased board usage has enhanced ILE and ILM as much as its diminished them. Who in their right mind wants to read every thread anyway, even back in 2001?

You can't keep the tone of ILX the same forever but you can try and ensure that what it changes into is worthwhile as well. Anyway, this is totally off-topic and maybe not the place to discuss this.

I'm sure you enjoy ILE a lot more than you let on Nicole ;)

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:31 (twenty years ago) link

Yes there hasn't been an incident like the first part of this thread for sometime.

What does that tell us? Alot of things I think, some good some bad.

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:33 (twenty years ago) link

ie this is not a 'how do we make ILE better?' thread and more a 'how do we minimise the damage a small number of wankers can do?'. (xpost)

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:34 (twenty years ago) link

I don't think it even needs to be looked at as damage, to be honest. I'll be frank: I would killfile people who I don't think are harmful or malicious or anything like that, they're simply people I don't want to read, and whose threads I don't want to read. It would make going through ILE faster.

Discussions about killfiles phrased in terms of preventing malice, abuse, etc., are always going to end up absorbed into a more general discussion of How To Deal With Wankers / ILE Is So Terrible (and there seems to be some of that in the initial thread discussion here, too).

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:39 (twenty years ago) link

According to the Admin stats, posts went up 400% in the past year. If that were to continue we'd be looking at 2 million posts a month in 2 years time.

We have to decide whether we want ILx to be a nice cosy village, where everyone knows each other and people can deal with the yokel village idiot or a sprawling metropolis with different quarters and a multitude of strange and sometimes unpleasant posters. I think however the latter is inevitable and despite the drawbacks probably more interesting.

Billy Dods (Billy Dods), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:44 (twenty years ago) link

I'm sure you enjoy ILE a lot more than you let on Nicole ;)

I wish that was the case.

El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:47 (twenty years ago) link

It can't be a nice cosy village any more, that's the point - ILE is and has been for some time made up of about six or seven subcommunities (mostly but not wholly geographical) a lot of which barely talk to one another at all - illustrated by the fact that Try Glasgow More, This Is The Thread Where I Say, various London threads and Aussies/Kiwis all sit constantly at the top of the forum.

But its not necessarily an either/or thing - I'm sure that the increase in massive 'chat' threads like those listed above, which didn't really exist a year ago, has been the biggest factor in pushing up the number of posts but people who want to talk about Derrida or Iraq or Premiership football still know where to go and the problem occurs when one type of thread starts to predominate over the other.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:51 (twenty years ago) link

I am an ILX nomad!

jel -- (jel), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:53 (twenty years ago) link

I think the start of those sort of enclave threads is pretty bad really. But we've argued about all this already.

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:54 (twenty years ago) link

ILanneXed?

jel -- (jel), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:55 (twenty years ago) link

That's the thing, the big meta issues can't be regulated, and there's no underlying code to them which can be tweaked; if every discussion about smaller, manageable, changeable issues degenerates into the big meta whoosis, they're never going to get anywhere.

(This is probably why town meetings work so badly.)

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 17:58 (twenty years ago) link

maybe we should just spend the rest of the day marching about with torches and pitchforks!

jel -- (jel), Monday, 12 April 2004 18:02 (twenty years ago) link

Okay, but only because I don't like in the South anymore, and it's less likely to be misconstrued.

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 18:03 (twenty years ago) link

"live," not "like." Weird.

Tep (ktepi), Monday, 12 April 2004 18:03 (twenty years ago) link

oh yeah, I was thinking of those horror films where they go after dracula or what have you.

jel -- (jel), Monday, 12 April 2004 18:11 (twenty years ago) link

yeah, who's in the house on our hill though? I guess we can still mill about at random. Could be fun.

Kim (Kim), Monday, 12 April 2004 18:13 (twenty years ago) link

I like what DC says about subcommunities.

Example of subcommunity: Tottenham Hotspur fans.

I still don't understand the general issues, naturally.

I hope it won't become impossible for me to read, or post to, ilx.

the bellefox, Monday, 12 April 2004 19:22 (twenty years ago) link

I've just realised that (for me) the volume is mainly a format problem - it was all the x-posts, x-posts, x-posts!!! that did it. ILX is beginning to function as a big chat - in a bulletin board, discussion format. You need to be *right there* in order to participate, which is fun (chat is fun!) but it sucks eggs when you aren't.

Kim (Kim), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:50 (twenty years ago) link

I think it always had the potential to be a big chat, though, and the examples of a lot of people engaged in a thread at once stretches back to near the foundation of the board.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:52 (twenty years ago) link

I know Ned - it's just that now it's the default.

Kim (Kim), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:56 (twenty years ago) link

Again though, I guess it's kind of useless to complain about. Sorry.

Kim (Kim), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:58 (twenty years ago) link

You're right though. It's fine in some threads but it can be annoying when you're putting together a lengthy, reasonably argued post on, say, an Iraq thread, and when you finally click 'Submit' there are 15 xposts and the conversation has moved on and someone's already got there ahead of you anyway.

This is possibly the best argument for the existence of smaller boards like ILB.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 15:01 (twenty years ago) link

Or for Christ's sake. Can we just do this please?

Broheems (diamond), Sunday, 18 April 2004 07:29 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, I used to think that it was a really pointless idea.

But now I really, really, REALLY think it's both urgent and key.

Volume is not a problem for me, but friction is. I would love to have the ability to killfile certain posters. And I would love for other posters to have the ability to killfile my posts instead of making personal nastiness.

Super-Kate (kate), Sunday, 18 April 2004 07:56 (twenty years ago) link

Killfiles might mean that people feel more comfortable with making posts that are responses to posts that are 15 posts old, since after all they might not see those 15 posts -- and once that becomes a more regular flavor of the flow of threads (which it should be already, but oh well), then Kim and Matt DC's problems might be solved.

On the other hand, I really suggest they not worry so much about the narrative flow and post something to a part of the conversation that ended 50 posts ago anyway. I do it all the time: It's great.

...in bed. (Chris Piuma), Sunday, 18 April 2004 16:18 (twenty years ago) link

Bad idea, bad manners to boot.

suzy (suzy), Sunday, 18 April 2004 16:39 (twenty years ago) link

If the appropriate people plan to consider this, should the discussion (if they want one) be on the Moderators Request Forum? It would affect more than just ILE, and even aside from ILM there seem to be a number of forums now with regular activity and users who don't post here.

(Of course, if they don't plan to consider it or if it's prohibitively difficult to implement, discussion is largely moot anyway.)

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 16:52 (twenty years ago) link

REGISTRATION PLZ THX

Markelby (Mark C), Sunday, 18 April 2004 17:15 (twenty years ago) link

I'm still against killfiles for all kinds of reasons, and as far as I am awarewe mods haven't reopened the discussion of late. I think it would make ILE incomprehensible.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 18 April 2004 17:17 (twenty years ago) link

There are people on ILE who I think are absolute morons. It would not, however, occur to me to simply block/filter their posts. It would make it impossible to follow conversations where others were replying to something I haven't seen. My best Killfile is in my head.

If Killfiles are going to be the case, you might as well just solidify your cliques with invitation-only message boards and accomplish what it is that you really want to accomplish--only talking to people you like, or who agree with you.

Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 18 April 2004 19:33 (twenty years ago) link

i'm not so much in favor of registration, but am definately for registration...

Kingfish Disraeli (Kingfish), Sunday, 18 April 2004 19:44 (twenty years ago) link

There's an enormous difference, since a killfile is, in of itself, intent-free. It could be used simply to filter out our frequent trolls, who clutter up the board without contributing anything, and whose invisibility would not be to the detriment of anyone or anything. It could be used by those posters who already ignore the bulk of posters, and make their reading experience easier. It could be used by posters who cannot abide each other and whose occasional inability to simply ignore each other makes ILE less pleasant for other people. Etc., etc. It's not like the availability of killfiles has made Usenet particularly difficult to read.

More importantly, "I wouldn't want to use it" is not a persuasive or meaningful response to the many people who have said "I would." No one seems to have put forth much of an argument that someone using a killfile is going to make ILE less interesting/pleasant/user-friendly for people who aren't.

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 19:46 (twenty years ago) link

i really just revived this thread as a joke after all those OMG PUNKROOLZ threads. i could care less. i read ile these days purely to keep up with 10-15 people that i like. which is as it should be, i think.

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Sunday, 18 April 2004 19:47 (twenty years ago) link

Martin just did. It would make threads very hard to follow.
xpost

Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 18 April 2004 19:49 (twenty years ago) link

Martin made a statement, he didn't put forth an argument. I think he's wrong. I think ILE is frequently incomprehensible as it is, or at least includes many threads which require a good deal of effort to sort out if you weren't here when they were "live." Other posters have said the same. Killfiles aren't new, they just aren't here; they don't seem to have made the world a rough place elsewhere.

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 19:50 (twenty years ago) link

I think the arguments for killfiles are weaker than you think, and there are some strong ones against them. On the weak-pro side, bear in mind that the reason C@lum was not banned was that he had a floating IP, and has posted under several different IDs - so how would this killfile thing eliminate his posts?

The problems with it are, I think, important ones. Would you not be able to read questions set by people you had killfiled? Even if they had turned into great threads full of your favourite people? But my biggest concern is that they would make the boards unreadable. If I have killfiled a good few people, any comments I make anywhere will ignore what they have said - I'll repeat things and miss points and think I'm replying to the last post, and therefore don't need to make clear to what I am responding, but there may be several other posts I'm not seeing. This applies to everyone else, all of whom have their own kill-lists so even if I don't use it I suffer the consequences. (Actually, as a mod I would feel obliged not to use them at all.) I read a "just fuck off" or "OTM" and I don't know if it's to the previous post I see or something else. I'm not in any usenet groups, and don't know how they work, but I can't see how we could entirely avoid these problems - how prevalent they would be would of course depend on how many people used them, and how much.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 18 April 2004 19:56 (twenty years ago) link

Just because it's imperfect doesn't mean it's bad, though, particularly when it's something set by each individual user, and that they're obviously going to be aware of the drawbacks. Presumably anyone using it would feel that the advantages outweighed them. There are disadvantages to ILE not being invite-only, too, but the existence of disadvantages isn't in itself meaningful: there seems to be a consensus that the disadvantages of that level of privacy would outweight the advantages.

And it still seems to come down to "I don't think this would work well for me, I wouldn't enjoy using killfiles," which doesn't have much to do with whether or not other people should be able to.

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 20:00 (twenty years ago) link

(And like I said up top: I'm not bothered by not having killfiles. I'd use them if we had them, but they don't seem easy to implement unless there's some kind of existing code which would be easy to adapt. But a lot of the arguments against them seem either misguided or lazy.)

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 20:01 (twenty years ago) link

I have no firm opinion on this. I don't think I would use them because it wouldn't filter out the rndm gglrs nor would it make the asshole regulars actually really GO AWAY.

stockholm cindy (Jody Beth Rosen), Sunday, 18 April 2004 20:11 (twenty years ago) link

I don't think my argument was at all that I wouldn't use them, therefore we shouldn't have them - it's that every person who uses them makes the threads flow a little less rationally, makes them liable to be less clear to read for everyone else, so I don't think the individual choice is all that we have to consider. I do think that loss of clarity and flow is a big enough drawback that I don't think the advantages of being able to ignore some of the persistent trolls and some people you don't like (and most of us can manage these things anyway, without killfiles) don't outweigh it.

Registration is a different matter - these things are entirely different debates, with entirely different pros and cons.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 18 April 2004 20:14 (twenty years ago) link

I'm not convinced the flow would be that much affected. It depends on how many people would use it, I guess, and things can potentially tricky there: if too few people would use it, there's no point in having it; if too many people would use it (sufficiently differently), there'd essentially be multiple boards coexisting without seeing each other.

I just rankled at the suggestion that killfiles are necessarily cliquish, nearly as much as I do at the gang of Eeyores who feel the need to bleat that it's all terrible anyway, so why bother pretending it can be improved.

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 20:23 (twenty years ago) link

Same here--I didn't mean to put forth that I wouldn't USE them an as argument. But like you said Tep, it's hard enough to follow as it it--Killfiles seem like they would make threads into even more of bedlam-like howling fueled by ambiguity and misunderstanding--which is a definite disadvantage to everyone.

Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 18 April 2004 20:24 (twenty years ago) link

I think Martin and Orbits points about readability are valid.

Ask For Samantha (thatgirl), Sunday, 18 April 2004 20:58 (twenty years ago) link

I still think it would be nice to mark a thread as "one I'm not interested in following" and either have it not show up in New Answers or be greyed out. My "killfile"-ish needs are on a thread basis, not a poster basis.

It also seems like killfiles (on a poster basis) would only really work if we required logins.

...in bed. (Chris Piuma), Sunday, 18 April 2004 21:18 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, thread-killfiling, or whatever we want to call it, seems like it would do a lot of the things pro-killfile people want (invisibilizing sudden floods of threads by a googler/troll/whatever, things like that; even simply marking as invisible any threads you know you're not gonna read, especially if you go long stretches of active-ILX time without logging in, which can push threads you were reading off of the default New Answers page) while having minimal impact on readability and flow.

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 21:22 (twenty years ago) link

(It seems like it would be easier to implement, too, but I could be wrong about that.)

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 18 April 2004 21:23 (twenty years ago) link

There are, in any given month, more threads that I want to ignore than there are posters. This makes me think that ignoring threads will kill the server quicker. And also I'm personally still in favour of being surprised (though less so every day).

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Sunday, 18 April 2004 21:28 (twenty years ago) link

How about obligatory registration?

(my 2p's'th - ILE is by and large a mature forum and newbies are less welcomed and have a harder time getting into the community, not tthrough malice, just human nature. So the problem of "discouraging new blood" is a bit of a red herring as established regulars aren't *really* interested in meeting new people anyway. Jess summed it up accurately with his "I only read 10-15 people" post. I'm all for idealism, but not when it compromises the readability and attitude of this here forum.)

Markelby (Mark C), Sunday, 18 April 2004 21:42 (twenty years ago) link

i have never seen evidence of any new poster with the right attitude (i.e. not dropping in to troll or ask for hair dye advice) being shunned by the community at large

the surface noise (electricsound), Sunday, 18 April 2004 21:47 (twenty years ago) link

no registration, no killfiles, nothing.

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 18 April 2004 22:00 (twenty years ago) link

DETECTIVE KILLFILE INVESTIGATES

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 18 April 2004 22:00 (twenty years ago) link

Ronan, you have cheered me up, this dreadful Sunday night.

N. (nickdastoor), Sunday, 18 April 2004 22:01 (twenty years ago) link

ILE is by and large a mature forum and newbies are less welcomed and have a harder time getting into the community, not tthrough malice, just human nature. So the problem of "discouraging new blood" is a bit of a red herring as established regulars aren't *really* interested in meeting new people anyway.

I'm really not sure if this is true - I like it when I see a new name talking about a subject I'm interested it. Even more so if I find out they live in London. But then there are also people who have been posting for months or even years without me noticing them, probably.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Sunday, 18 April 2004 22:10 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, the 10-15 people thing is pretty much bollocks in my case. I'm quite prepared to admit that I'm only interested in new people of a certain range of sensibilities. I don't know how much this has to do with this Detective Killfile business, but anyway.

N. (nickdastoor), Sunday, 18 April 2004 22:14 (twenty years ago) link

Jess summed it up accurately with his "I only read 10-15 people" post.

I think he was referring to threads started by familiar people. It's pretty hard to avoid reading posts by people you don't know.

Andrew (enneff), Sunday, 18 April 2004 23:18 (twenty years ago) link

I'm personally for a system like:

Everything is publicly visible. Registration is required to post. Registration requires email verification. (ie the system sends you an email with a special string in it which you must then put back into the system to have your account activated - this should be familiar to most net users)

The pros:
- Any problem users can be banned, and thus forced to re-register to post again. Re-registration would require them to get a new email address thus causing them to waste some time, making it generally more difficult to disrupt the board.

The cons:
- Random-googler syndrome would be cut down drastically. (if we made the signup procedure as straightforward as possible, and made it so that it takes you back to the page you clicked the 'sign up' link from after you've validated, then this could be remedied somewhat)
- Becomes more difficult for people to establish gimmick personas (although I don't see this as much of a problem, really)

It could still be possible to post anonymously - except moderators would be able to see who posted what. (although we'd require some sort of active request to see that info - similar to the IP-searching that is required now - so that privacy could still be observed while nuisance posters censored)

Killfiles are something that I don't think are really necessary, especially if my above suggestions are implemented.

Andrew (enneff), Sunday, 18 April 2004 23:26 (twenty years ago) link

strongo otm.

cozen (Cozen), Sunday, 18 April 2004 23:41 (twenty years ago) link

I think he was referring to threads started by familiar people. It's pretty hard to avoid reading posts by people you don't know.

yes. maybe it wuold be a good idea to ad the naem of the person that potsed the thread next to the title on the new asnwers page so people can see if the thraed is by soemone they trsut and like.

the last forum i patricipated in before ilx was taekn off google and made loging in madnaroty and wihtin six monhts the plaec was ful of inbred "thraeds where i say"s and lol and fap thraeds and nothing but. so iam against it. i know im not a regular poster here and all but trsut me if you gate tthis comunity you will miss the trolls and the goglers one day.

:|, Monday, 19 April 2004 00:02 (twenty years ago) link

how big was that forum?

I used to be on metafilter, which is just fucking huge and impossible to keep up with, and which has always required registration. But it's a great resource too, if you can get past all the rules-lawyering. Registration is usually closed, but the guy who runs it periodically opens up registration whenever the server can handle it. I really think the server should dictate what we do.

I'm not sure to whom we're directing all these ideas and complaints to anyway.

teeny (teeny), Monday, 19 April 2004 00:12 (twenty years ago) link

I think the whole idea is kind of passive-aggressive. Let's just say who we hate and why we hate them.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 19 April 2004 00:16 (twenty years ago) link

And then, once named and shamed, the hated may only post in "I Love to Be Hated," a board that will one day discover the cure for cancer.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 19 April 2004 00:18 (twenty years ago) link

how big was that forum?

huge. itwas about 70s notsalgia originaly, then many sub boards were added. 60s, 80s, 90s, films music, yuo name it. the board where posters just talkd about thier everyday ocurences was the most entertainign part. the heart of it if you wil. until itwas made acessible (read & write) to loged in posters only.

:|, Monday, 19 April 2004 00:30 (twenty years ago) link

Even someone you think you despise based on their online witterings can come up with a valid point or argument which leads you to reassess them.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 06:50 (twenty years ago) link

The "oh, it would interrupt the flow of conversation" complaint is meaningless. The flow of conversation would be interrupted only if *everyone* had killfiles in place. It's an *optional* feature for a reason.

And using Killfiles is "bad manners"? Like posting the same rubbish on every single thread or continual baiting of another poster is *not* bad manners?

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:08 (twenty years ago) link

I emphatically DON'T want registration to be made mandatory. The random googlers that join the flow of conversation is one of the joys of ILX that makes up for the hairdyepimp threads.

On my email, I have a "junk" folder where I can banish repeat offenders off the face of my inbox. I just wish I had the same option on ILX, that's all.

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:18 (twenty years ago) link

Hmm. I think ALL points made anti-killfiles are perfectly valid and outweigh the meagre 'pro' positions offered. At any rate, it seems a lot of work for the people who run the ILX server to have to write the code to enable it just because a handful of posters can't be relied upon not to bait one another or exercise an adult level of self-control over their own posts. I do find little internecine squabbles between posters who have 'moved on' in all other aspects of their lives to be tedious in the extreme, and I suspect I am not alone in holding this opinion.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:48 (twenty years ago) link

correct, you're not alone

the surface noise (electricsound), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:48 (twenty years ago) link

If the majority of long-term ILX posters weren't obsessive compulsive in some way or other about their posting habits, then there wouldn't *BE* an ILX in the first place.

I mean, think of the benefits, Suzy, you could have an entire message board comprised of nothing but Momus-posts and never have to deign to talk to any of the other flora and fauna.

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:53 (twenty years ago) link

Any random Googler worth reading would bother to register, in my opinion.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:56 (twenty years ago) link

Grow up, Kate. Now. Please.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:56 (twenty years ago) link

Don't you have a celebrity to namedrop on Popbitch or something, Suzy?

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 07:57 (twenty years ago) link

im not sure people would register matt, i look at the dnbforum from time to time, to try and find out track ids on various tapes, but the registering thing means i never really got into posting at all

gareth (gareth), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:02 (twenty years ago) link

kate plz be nice to suzy!

cinniblount (James Blount), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:05 (twenty years ago) link

is it because i don't read the boards that much these days that I often see this thread, but never (knowingly) suffer from the problem that inspires it?

Jaunty Alan (Alan), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:06 (twenty years ago) link

See, if I killfiled Kate I'd have no idea she was being snide about me, and would have no opportunity to comment on the elements of cliché or hypocrisy in use in her recent posts, or to redress the balance.


suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:31 (twenty years ago) link

suzy plz be nice to kate!

cinniblount (James Blount), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:32 (twenty years ago) link

Hello, Pot. My name is Kettle. You're looking awfully dark today!

(Just because something is hypocritcal doesn't make the sentiment wrong.)

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:35 (twenty years ago) link

Kate, it's a big mystery to me as to why you've been so nasty to me here recently. It can't just be because I disagree with you about killfiles.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:39 (twenty years ago) link

No, it's in response to your sniping at me, and the dismissive, condescending and sometimes downright nasty attitude you've been showing towards me, and others, on ILX over the past few months.

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:42 (twenty years ago) link

I'm not familiar with messageboard technology, and I didn't even know such things as killfiles existed until I read this thread. I think the idea behind them is kinda scary and weird; why would you want to filter all of some other ILXor's posts? I can't think of any ILX regular who whould never have anything worthy to say, and it isn't that hard to just skip the stupid posts without any silly filter. Also, as someone said, they wouldn't work on persistent trolls, because they can easily do what Calum did.

However, I'm beginning to think mandatory registration might be a good idea. The amount of offensive/pointless googlers has been quite large lately, and I think anyone who would like post sensible things here wouldn't mind getting registered.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:42 (twenty years ago) link

Examples, Kate? Prove or move.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:45 (twenty years ago) link

This is quite... funny.

N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:47 (twenty years ago) link

suzy's been pretty much the same.

however, kate, you've been purdy damn snipey as of late.

just my observation, mind.

doomie x, Monday, 19 April 2004 08:48 (twenty years ago) link

Ding ding ding!

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:51 (twenty years ago) link

I've pointed them out on the threads where they've occured. Most recently on "Sophie's" anonymous posters thread. And there has been enough snideness in your posts on this thread to trigger my "pricklyness" or whatever.

Maybe Doomie is right and you haven't changed, I've just noticed it more lately.

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:53 (twenty years ago) link

Things which you find amusing in other people, when directed at others, suddenly become either annoying or tedious when directed at yourself. This is the way of things.

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:53 (twenty years ago) link

Still, shouldn't you discuss this privately, and not on this thread?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:56 (twenty years ago) link

shouldn'tcan

the surface noise (electricsound), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:57 (twenty years ago) link

Well, Suzy asked "WTF is your deal?" on this thread, so that's where I answered.

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 08:57 (twenty years ago) link

Well, read your comments upthread, you're not exactly innocent yourself.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 19 April 2004 09:00 (twenty years ago) link

Hence why I said "hello, pot, I'm kettle".

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 09:01 (twenty years ago) link

Look, I'm *really* not interested in fighting with Kate, as we're supposed to be friends and should really meet up and sort things out. My mail's been broken otherwise I would have taken it there.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 09:02 (twenty years ago) link

This is ridiculous, and there will be no more discussion in this administration thread between suzy and Kate over this most childish affair.

Andrew (enneff), Monday, 19 April 2004 10:52 (twenty years ago) link

I think if we do go for the registration option (and let's not forget that some poor person would have the not insubstantial job of coding all this), I think we should set ourselves to reconsider it periodically. I'm not sure how much of a disincentive to new posters it might be, but I think it might have some effect. We are big and growing, so it might easily be that this proves unimportant, but it's something to keep an eye on - if we just stabilise in numbers or the increase slows, no problem, but we need to stay alert to the early signs of withering.

I hope it would discourage many of the annoying trolls. A short statement as part of the registration process might make clear that we are not, for instance, a hair dye advice centre, so might reduce the irrelevant and misplaced stuff. If it's designed and implemented well, it shouldn't prove too onerous to join and therefore it shouldn't be too much of a disincentive.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 19 April 2004 11:27 (twenty years ago) link

Apologies, Andrew, but I don't feel as if I have been behaving badly toward anyone on ILX. My opinions on killfiles still stand as 'a crap idea'. NEXT!

Registration with a valid email might be worth exploring if the coding to do so isn't too difficult or time-consuming for the little code squirrels.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 19 April 2004 11:49 (twenty years ago) link

Why are we talking about registration etc when ILX isn't in any real crisis. I think registration will just push us further towards being like other internet message boards.

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:19 (twenty years ago) link

doesn't it seem like we get more than our fair share of pimp my chickenbear's hair dye threads though?

Ask For Samantha (thatgirl), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:26 (twenty years ago) link

Do not diss the chickenbear.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:30 (twenty years ago) link

my vote --> killfiles r gay.

bnw (bnw), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:39 (twenty years ago) link

There should be livefiles instead. You begin with an ILX that is blank, pure and commotionless. Then gradually you pick people to live and make disorder, and the place grows. Stop when you're satisfied with your mess.

Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:48 (twenty years ago) link

How'd you know who to pick if all you see is a blank space?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:50 (twenty years ago) link

Type random words with your hands in shoes until you find humanity.

Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:52 (twenty years ago) link

we should ban all snipiness on ilx unless it is funny.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:55 (twenty years ago) link

but it usually is anyway.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:56 (twenty years ago) link

Type random words with your hands in shoes until you find humanity.


Taken out of context, this is almost like a Zen aphorism.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:57 (twenty years ago) link

This is starting to sound more and more like a new media/digital arts project.

All the more so, because it would not actually work in practice!

Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 19 April 2004 12:58 (twenty years ago) link

And lets project it on a huge video screen in Times Square!!!

Andrew (enneff), Monday, 19 April 2004 15:09 (twenty years ago) link

Can I ask that any registration/killfiling decisions apply to ILE only and not to ILX - the newer boards are still in a vulnerable growth stage and I *really* don't think this stuff is as much of a problem on ILM (in fact the googlers there are quite enjoyable).

Tico Tico (Tico Tico), Monday, 19 April 2004 17:53 (twenty years ago) link

I used to post here, but you fucks just make me sick now. Moderate all you want...but its still going to be the makings for bullshit.

Lurker, Friday, 23 April 2004 16:15 (twenty years ago) link

*smooch*

Ask For Samantha (thatgirl), Friday, 23 April 2004 16:17 (twenty years ago) link

why would you want to filter all of some other ILXor's posts?

Er... because you don't want to read them. By way of example, kill files make usenet much easier to read. ILX doesn't quite have the signal-to-noise ratio of usenet yet, but as more and more people find ILX, the sheer aggregate number of threads and posts will increase. As it stands I only read half the threads anyway.

Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Friday, 23 April 2004 16:37 (twenty years ago) link

You homo.

Awww! I thought you were lurking?

Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Friday, 23 April 2004 16:52 (twenty years ago) link

then you're supposed to go get high, not bother us.

Ask For Samantha (thatgirl), Friday, 23 April 2004 16:55 (twenty years ago) link

man if this is felicity i'm gonna be so disappointed

cinniblount (James Blount), Friday, 23 April 2004 16:56 (twenty years ago) link

[ADMIN: DNFTT, please.]

Lurker, Friday, 23 April 2004 16:56 (twenty years ago) link

one month passes...
$100 if I can never see posts from jon williams that are just an image.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:14 (twenty years ago) link

Settings: Images off definitely helps.

VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:18 (twenty years ago) link

Hating on Jon is so 2003.

Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:20 (twenty years ago) link

Yesyes, but I have no problems with other images: they're generally small and apposite (or at least funny).

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:22 (twenty years ago) link

I LIKED Jon in 2003. He's taken my love and ran with it into some sort of monsterous obesity of bad chat transcripts.

Allyzay, Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:22 (twenty years ago) link

I have a Jon killfile...IN MY MIND. I don't even register his posts anymore. It's the next big thing.

Comment dits-on...eh... le NA? (Nick A.), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:33 (twenty years ago) link

Are you from the future?????

I still love Jon but not in...that way...anymore...

Allyzay, Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:34 (twenty years ago) link

haters

I LUV FAETTY (ex machina), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:34 (twenty years ago) link

Did you just hear something? No? Me neither.

Comment dits-on...eh... le NA? (Nick A.), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:35 (twenty years ago) link

Settings: Images off definitely helps.

Yeah, I highly recommend it.

El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:36 (twenty years ago) link

Dudes, I'm on dialup usually too!

I LUV FAETTY (ex machina), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:37 (twenty years ago) link

do you guys have 486s?

I LUV FAETTY (ex machina), Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:37 (twenty years ago) link

Jon come sex me up, you big baby.

Allyzay, Tuesday, 15 June 2004 17:37 (twenty years ago) link

three years pass...

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am0n, Monday, 7 April 2008 19:10 (sixteen years ago) link

Marcello OTM

Jarlrmai, Monday, 7 April 2008 19:10 (sixteen years ago) link

however, kate, you've been purdy damn snipey as of late.

-- doomie x, Monday, 19 April 2004 09:48 (3 years ago) Bookmark Link

Dom Passantino, Monday, 7 April 2008 19:20 (sixteen years ago) link

do you guys have 486s?
-- I LUV FAETTY (ex machina), Tuesday, June 15, 2004 1:37 PM (3 years ago) Bookmark Link

Catsupppppppppppppp dude 茄蕃, Monday, 7 April 2008 19:21 (sixteen years ago) link

DX2-50

Jarlrmai, Monday, 7 April 2008 19:24 (sixteen years ago) link

A turbo button is no longer seen on most mainstream personal computers.

Catsupppppppppppppp dude 茄蕃, Monday, 7 April 2008 19:25 (sixteen years ago) link

CHECKS OUT MY NEW MATHS CO-PRO look at dem povray renders.

Jarlrmai, Monday, 7 April 2008 19:39 (sixteen years ago) link


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