Dear America: Please Get Over Ireland and Italy Already

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Sidenote to the pub vs. bar thread: while posting there I got rebothered by the intense fetishization of Irish and Italian culture in the U.S. Obviously massive waves of Irish and Italian immigration have a lot to do with it, but there's something beyond that, something that makes Nth generation Americans who are 1/8 everything from Portuguese to Polish focus in on the 1/8 that's Irish or Italian and go on and on about it. They are not only the prize ethnicities for indeterminately white people but the great loved, fetishized, and exalted Old World cultures of America: onto them are projected all of the supposedly most admirable traits of Old World post-peasant culture. It's as if the great European melting pot of American white people have just settled on these two cultures as the ones to pretend they have any link to, in the form of cheap Celtic music and dream-vacations to the Emerald Isle and put-on New Yorkish Italian attitude.

Talk about that.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:24 (twenty-three years ago)

Don't ever move to Boston, dude.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:27 (twenty-three years ago)

martin scorcese to thread.

gygax!, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:30 (twenty-three years ago)

Well at least more of the people in Boston are actually Irish right? Not college girls named Sophia Petropolous with "Celtic" back tatoos?

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:31 (twenty-three years ago)

it's pretty remarkable given that Italians and Irish were among the most scorned people in the US 100 years ago - maybe that's the point somehow?

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:36 (twenty-three years ago)

I think the point is that those are the only two groups of europeans that are recoginised as ass-kickers. who goes 'don't fuck wit me - I'm one quarter french'?

James Blount (James Blount), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:38 (twenty-three years ago)

Nitsuh they are certainly two but I'm not sure you can make the sweeping statement as above. Also, I am surprised by your inclusion of Italy. Ireland I see more of. The Italian thing may be more of a media thing?

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:39 (twenty-three years ago)

There was some great Onion article about the overidentifying with Ireland a while back -- can't seem to find it in the archives. (But in the meantime, you can chortle about this.

I am Euromuttboy but the last name's Irish and there's plenty of Irish and Scottish blood on both sides of the family. Don't fetishize it but don't mind it -- there's also French, Italian, German, English...

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:41 (twenty-three years ago)

You may also want to delay those moving plans to Nova Scotia, New Brunswick, PEI, Newfoundland, Ottawa, Toronto or North Bay (or is it Thunderbay) for awhile too.


who goes 'don't fuck wit me - I'm one quarter french'?

The Quebecois, les Metis and ME, an Acadian.

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:44 (twenty-three years ago)

We need more American fetishizing of Greeks and Scots.

donut bitch (donut), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:45 (twenty-three years ago)

and Huguenots!

JD (JND), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:46 (twenty-three years ago)

A Fun Story -- fella I know whose ancestors are Quebecois, though he was born and raised in the States, goes and studies at the Sorbonne for a year. He learned his French from his parents, and it's very much an upcountry spin on the Quebecois dialect by all accounts. In one of his classes he asks his first question or makes a comment and the professor says something like, "What is this peasant French you are speaking?" The guy gets up -- he's six foot six and not only built like a rugby player but IS a rugby player -- and says, "It's Quebecois French, that's how I learned to speak it, and you'd better not have a problem with that!" Professor immediately shuts up and says nothing more to him about it.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:47 (twenty-three years ago)

I am thinking much more of Ireland, Mary, but I wound up giving Italy equal time because I've had the same mindboggling conversation on both ends during the past two years.

(a) One St. Patrick's Day -- I was standing in a bar with some guy I'd just met, and he went on for about ten minutes about how he'd recently been to Ireland and it was a powerful experience to see "his people" but now it was just so sad and heartbreaking to see what's happened to that beautiful old Irish culture. In the interest of actual two-way conversation I said something like "Yeah, dude, I know how you feel, my family's from Ethiopia," to which he actually went "No no no, but this is Ireland, you know," etc. etc.

(b) Same thing except substitute drunk girl at party going sloppily on and on about how she was going to Italy and would really, you know, "connect" with her history and her culture &c. After ten minutes cue me: "Yeah, it really is a pretty interesting experience" and so on, and her basically like the Irish guy.

I hated the Irish guy more, though. Pretend we're just talking about Ireland, then, fine.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:49 (twenty-three years ago)

God, I sound like Dave Q, I apologize for this thread.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:50 (twenty-three years ago)

Faith and begorrah. *flees the wrath of Ronan*

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:50 (twenty-three years ago)

But Nitsuh I don't think it's so awful I mean you can't really blame people for wanting to connect to something...even if it is misguided...

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:55 (twenty-three years ago)

nabisco, you are right.

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 20:56 (twenty-three years ago)

Mary, that's why I'm apologizing for sounding like Dave Q. Because it's not that I mind, so much, or carry unspeakable hatred in my heart over it -- but at the same time it's awfully silly, sometimes almost tragic, and it comes at the expense of both finding out anything about the real actual world beyond hazy American cuddly-Irish-peasant fantasies AND admitting that this, here, is our culture, like it or not. I mean, are there any other nations on Earth where people are so keen on feeling like they're a part of some other culture? What does that say about us?

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:01 (twenty-three years ago)

that we're a nation of immigrants?

James Blount (James Blount), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:03 (twenty-three years ago)

Wherein everyone competes to stay that way?

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:03 (twenty-three years ago)

you're a nation mixed from descendants of immigrants.

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:05 (twenty-three years ago)

I said a while back that I loved killian murphy's name.
So, is that Irish or Scottish? I can't remember.

My mom reminds us occasionally of our scotch-irish blood, but that was several generations ago, so...

Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:05 (twenty-three years ago)

plus - gangster fetish

James Blount (James Blount), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:05 (twenty-three years ago)

My mom reminds us occasionally of our scotch-irish blood,

your ancestors were heavy drinkers?

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Yup.

Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:06 (twenty-three years ago)

hahahaha. I am Irish and Italian. When I was a kid, my "ancestors" from those countries were still alive, tho. But that fake stuff is annoying. Only thing is, the Italian thing comes in handy - when you want to scare people, you tell them you have mafia ties.

Remember that sketch from "The State", where everyone was a stereotype - they had a Jew, an Italian, etc. Then in one sketch, they had an Irish person with red hair who wore an Aran sweater and a Notre Dame hat.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Exactly since it feels like we have no overriding sense of American identity, we fetishize these small bits, antecedents. Actually, though, I've heard lots of people say that the first time they felt any sense of America as its own culture was when they left it.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:07 (twenty-three years ago)

One time my sister & I went to an Irish bar that was owned by Irish immigrants, and my sister went up to the bar and ordered a drink called the "Irish car bomb" - I was extremely embarrassed.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:08 (twenty-three years ago)

kilian murphy=irish.

scotch=liquor.

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:09 (twenty-three years ago)

How would you say that then? Scot-Irish?

Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:10 (twenty-three years ago)

Another thing that bugs me is Columbus Day. We never celebrated this day when growing up - it seems to be an Nth generation thing.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:10 (twenty-three years ago)

scottish-? scots-?

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:11 (twenty-three years ago)

Hmmm... Maybe it's Scots-Irish then. It always sounds like Scotch- when my mom says it.

But never-the-less, alcoholism is in the family tree.

Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:14 (twenty-three years ago)

Everything nabiscos said in this thread I agree with.

lawrence kansas (lawrence kansas), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:15 (twenty-three years ago)

You never hear about people wanting to be Polish. I think it's because I've never heard of the "Polish mafia".

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:16 (twenty-three years ago)

People resisting melting pot urge taking flak in US shocker.

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:19 (twenty-three years ago)

I should reframe this question, maybe, because okay: I do understand why Americans are so keen on clinging to some idea of culture that extends beyond the 18th century. Nevertheless it strikes me as funny to imagine that those groups most culturally entrenched in a nation that's never really been all that keen on actual immigrants should have this growing trend to desperately associate themselves with culture electively -- to pick an attractive culture and try to force it into themselves where it wasn't already there. (Holy moly: Momus to thread!)

Top 10 Prize Cultural Ties for Americans

1. Irish
2. Native American
3. Italian
4. Latino (for not-so-Latinos only)
5. "African"

Also per Tracer and Kerry: really, why Irish? To be completely honest, from what I've seen among college-aged males Irish affiliation serves primarily as an excuse for binge drinking. I see the obvious arguments that there was a ton of Irish immigration, and Irish culture is "close" enough to the prevailing English-derived culture of America, and the Irish were easy to quickly consider "white," but still -- it seems to me that it needs some unpacking. Also: if not for the World Wars, would Germany be a big one here, too? (It only is in certain parts of the Midwest, from what I can tell.)

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:23 (twenty-three years ago)

Also Noodles the point is that the people I'm talking about are well melted: they're not resisting, they're desperately trying to unmelt themselves.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:24 (twenty-three years ago)

You never hear about people wanting to be Polish.

Pete Baran to thread!

Nabisco what did yr Irish guy think was so bad about 'what had happened' to Ireland?

It's not really even an immigrant thing so much as a metropolis-regions thing (partly anyway) - in Britain for instance the nation urbanised rapidly over relatively few generations so there's this need to overstate or fake a felt connection to 'the countryside' (Robin C to thread too!) and this is a more extreme cousin of the same imagined-utopia thing.

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:25 (twenty-three years ago)

People resisting melting pot urge taking flak in US shocker.

Unless I'm misreading, nabisco isn't talking about anyone who's resisted the melting pot -- he's talking about the people whose grandparents and great-grandparents and great-great-grandparents melted in ages ago -- people who were raised without any ethnic identity beyond "American" -- but who have suddenly decided "Fuck it, I'm Irish," because they saw a particularly moving Liam Neeson movie. Or because the IRA makes them sad. Or they look good in green.

If he's NOT talking about those folks ... well, I am. And fuck em :)

Tep (ktepi), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:27 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't know much of anything about my ancestry, and for that I am thankful. I think it's so depressing that people cling to a culture that their ancestors abandoned decades, or even centuries ago. A good friend of mine comes from a predominantly Swedish family, and they are so obnoxious about Sweden--everything in their house is decorated in white and red, they eat a lot of meatballs, and have "God Bless Sweden" embroidery all over the house.

I went out with a guy a long time ago that was so big about his Irish heritage. He watched "Michael Collins" a lot and made a trip to Ireland yearly. It was fucking annoying.

Mandee, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:27 (twenty-three years ago)

it's OK to like other cultures but...what mandee said.

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:29 (twenty-three years ago)

But Nabisco, how can it be top ten? I mean it's not like people are faking what their tenuous links to the 'Old Country' are. They just happen to have Irish ancestry, or etc.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:31 (twenty-three years ago)

My brother is the most Italian-looking guy you can imagine - big nose, thick eyebrows, olive skin...yet he is obsessed with Ireland and Irish culture, sings in the Irish tenor style, etc. When I point out to him that he looks very Italian and reminds me of my Italian grandfather, he gets kind of pissed. I guess it's just not "romantic" enough and Italians are "dirty" or something - not that he comes out and says this. And yeah, "Irish" for white American boys has kind of frat boy / drinking associations.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:31 (twenty-three years ago)

nabisco makes it clear to me now.
But I want to know for all those versed in the ways of PC: Are southern Italians counted amoungst Latinos?

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:33 (twenty-three years ago)

Not in America.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:35 (twenty-three years ago)

Nabisco what did yr Irish guy think was so bad about 'what had happened' to Ireland?

From what I gathered, he wasn't even talking about Northern Ireland troubles but about the death of some imaginary rural-Ireland peasant idyll, the collapse of the economic viability of the picturesque farming hamlet and whatever hardships and dislocations have stemmed from that. (Those poor Irish with their economic modernization.) I wasn't completely clear on what he meant, but whatever he was talking about it was apparently worse than anything that's ever gone on in Ethiopia.

Noodles: no, they're not.

Mary: I am thinking of those cultural ties that people, all other things being equal, foreground in their senses of identity. I think if you take a given youngish American person who is 1/4 Irish, 1/4 Danish, 1/4 Swedish, and 1/4 Dutch, chances are that that Irish portion will have been teased out to occupy much more of their self-identification that any of the others. The same is true of Native American ancestry to a massive extent: people who are 7/8 everything in Europe ever and 1/8 Cherokee will inflate that last bit to create a sense of their own exceptionalism, even if they've never met or associated with a full-on Cherokee in their lives. I hate to generalize but I do think this is a trend that tends to be broadly true of significant groups of people.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:37 (twenty-three years ago)

Also, there are Irish here in America who are all too willing to take advantage of people's insecurity about their roots. (BTW my grandma's first cousin is the gun-runner in this article)

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:39 (twenty-three years ago)

I think it has to do with being Irish or Italian actually meaning something in terms of patterns of assimilation and communities of interest -- no other "white" ethnic groups ever lived in comparible ghettoized conditions and then assimilated so completely into "America" did they? (Jews maybe, sorta, but then there's plenty of Jewish identity stuff goin' round anyway). And for most foax this isn't some many generations ago, but relatively recent past -- like within the past 60 years or so.

Nick Tosches actually gives a good sense of what it meant to grow up "Italian" when he did.

In Chicago it STILL means something to be Irish, at least in most areas of the city. The police force is, for example, something like 60% irish as is the city government and the democratic machine is probably somewhat more.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:40 (twenty-three years ago)

Jews maybe, sorta, but then there's plenty of Jewish identity stuff goin' round anyway

And there's a smaller trend of people attempting to reclaim Jewish heritage they might not actually have, in Texas and the Southwest -- descendents of the Spanish colonists who, because an unknown number of those colonists were secretly Jewish, have started to celebrate Jewish traditions in addition to the Christian ones they've been brought up with for the last four hundred years. There's a term for it I'm not remembering because it was only brought up in passing in my Spanish Colonial history course -- maybe someone else will know what I'm talking about, though.

I grew up in New Hampshire, which is about as whitebread as you can get, and you run into the I'm-Irish-because-my-great-grandmother's-maiden-name-was-Fitzhugh thing a lot: my brother did a long stint in the New Hampshire prison system, where there are so few black inmates that although the gangs still split along ethnic lines, there are only two types: the Puerto Rican gangs and the Irish gangs. A large number of the guys in the "Irish gangs" have Polish, French, and German names.

Tep (ktepi), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:50 (twenty-three years ago)

Here in Cleveland, (it used to be, but getting better) you had little chance of being elected unless you had an Irish or Italian last name.

lawrence kansas (lawrence kansas), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:51 (twenty-three years ago)

I am thinking of those cultural ties that people, all other things being equal, foreground in their senses of identity

Then why aren't "African" and "Hispanic/Latino" tied for number one on your list, followed by "Asian"?

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:52 (twenty-three years ago)

See The Ethnic Myth by Stephen Steinberg. (I have more thoughts on this but they must wait until I have some time...)

Amateurist (amateurist), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 21:59 (twenty-three years ago)

Something funny happened to me last week regarding "the prize ethnicities for indeterminately white people".

Some guy asked me for money in some sort of slang and I said, "No I don't have anything. Sorry."

"So that's how it is with you WHITE GUYS, is it?" he asks.

I look at him and he is a white guy covered with acne. White, not tan.

I say somewhat snottily, "And YOU'RE not white?!"

To which he responds, "No, I'm Sicilian!"

And I thought that everyone must just be begging to be a minority these days. Since when are Sicilians not white? Also, since his skin was pretty much my skin color, how did he know I wasn't Sicilian, too?

Scaredy Cat, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:01 (twenty-three years ago)

Sterling is OTM.

What's mysterious about getting a reputation for kicking ass when you run Chicago? I love the Italian mob trade names: The Outfit (Chicago), The Five Families (NY).

Ethnicities to watch: the Russians, and the Hong Kong Chinese. The Hong Kong organizations are responsible for most of the heroin in New York, I forget what they're called, "tongs" or something.

There are some extremely dark-skinned Sicilians. It is difficult to say whether they are people of color or not.

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:02 (twenty-three years ago)

Sicilians generally are a lot darker, they also hate to be confused with their more productive countrymen in the north.

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:03 (twenty-three years ago)

Nitsuh -- I don't know if I could agree with you about that 1/4 thing -- I'm 1/2 'Irish' and 1/2 "German' and what I actually fetishize is my mom's Irish Catholic working class upbringing in Buffalo. Yes, her dad was a cop. That fifties period of inner city lifestyle and sharply defined parts of the city for each ethnic group -- South Buffalo in my mom's family's case--before everything shot out to the suburbs is much more romantic to me than any Back to Ireland fantasy.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:04 (twenty-three years ago)

There are some extremely dark-skinned Sicilians. It is difficult to say whether they are people of color or not.

Hee hee hee... I'm sorry, I don't mean to poke fun or anything, but these types of awkward juxtapositions are the most entertaining part of debates on racial politics for me.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:05 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't think we can really say yet that Asians foreground their Asian-ness -- quite the opposite!

"African" is surely up there, probably rivalling Irish, though it's just more densely concentrated in a smaller number of people. I don't think Latino really goes so far up, because the number of people who claim it completely out of proportion to their actually being it is actually smallish. (Though they're out there.) But yeah, granted, "African" is just as seriously fetishized as Irish, probably even more so. Africans are the Irish of Africa.

Is it just a massive sense of loss? Everyone in this country feels that his or her lineage necessarily gave something up to be here, and that that thing can possibly be recovered, trained back into existence?

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:05 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't mean to poke fun or anything

I do!

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:08 (twenty-three years ago)

What's mysterious about getting a reputation for kicking ass when you run Chicago?
The down side of this is that if you live in Chicago and try to intimidate someone by telling them that you're related to Mayor Daley, it doesn't work, because there are so damn many Irish here. The ruse worked better for me when I was in college, and non-differentiated white kids thought it was exotic and "cool" (at the time I didn't realize how patronizing they were).

On the other hand, I am related to Dan Ryan, of Dan Ryan Expressway fame. Not that this amounts to squat or makes me immune to traffic tickets.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:08 (twenty-three years ago)

Africans are the Irish of Africa.

Explain this :)

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:09 (twenty-three years ago)

Yeah, okay Mary, what you're describing to me sounds like a realistic attraction to a culture that's actually there, that's extant in your family and in some sense offered to you: I hope I don't sound like I'm trying to generalize here, only point out a trend.

The funny bit is that I shouldn't complain about this, because there's a reasonable chance that I'll have grandchildren or great-grandchildren walking around someday saying "Yeah, you know I'm part Ethiopian, I'm totally going to go there someday and really, you know, connect."

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:09 (twenty-three years ago)

haha, "County Expressway"

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:10 (twenty-three years ago)

Could it just be third generation children trying to be unique in school as they develop an identity?

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:10 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't think we can really say yet that Asians foreground their Asian-ness -- quite the opposite!

This runs so counter to my experience that my mind is boggling.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:10 (twenty-three years ago)

Africans are the Irish of Africa?

This makes no sense nabisco.

They're the inhabitants of africa. By definition even.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:11 (twenty-three years ago)

(Mary and Sterling IT WAS A JOKE: I just meant that many black Americans, for the same sorts of understandable reasons, do the same fetishization of Africa-in-general as white Americans do with Ireland. Probably more strongly, and again for obvious reasons. In proper terms the joke would have run "Africans are the Irish of black Americans" but it was funnier the other way.)

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:12 (twenty-three years ago)

& dan how do asians foreground their asianness?

mainly at berkely they tried to assimilate or sometimes to identify with black culture (done hilarously in "How High").

& nabisco I totally disagree that black americans fetishize africa for similar reasons that white ones do ireland.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:14 (twenty-three years ago)

I get the sad feeling I'm the only one who liked that joke.

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:15 (twenty-three years ago)

If you need to open your mouth in order to intimidate someone in Chicago, then you are not related to the Daley family closely enough for it to be worth explaining.

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:15 (twenty-three years ago)

Is it just a massive sense of loss? Everyone in this country feels that his or her lineage necessarily gave something up to be here, and that that thing can possibly be recovered, trained back into existence?

I don't think that it's a sense of loss -- I'm not sure if people think that that their lineage gave something up to be here -- I think it's just a sense of not having anything to identify with, which could very loosely be construed as loss...

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:16 (twenty-three years ago)

Also: really Dan? I'd like to think it's not stereotyping on my part to say that Asian immigrants can be pretty assimilationist. But I don't know that we've had really heavy Asian immigration for long enough to see what that means a few generations down the road.

Sterling: what distinctions would you make between the two? I only think of them as vaguely similar in that both have an American person with no particular sense of a heritage actively striving to reincorporate one. The terms of it, obviously, are very different, but I don't see those root impulses as being vastly removed from one another.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:17 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't think there's anything wrong with illusions. People without them are very unhappy people.

What am I doing on a debate thread?

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:18 (twenty-three years ago)

I mean, the obvious difference on the black side is that there's a social and even physical distinction of difference and minority status here, so Africa becomes this place that functions on some level as "where I should be" were one's ancestors not removed from it; that removal also caused a really big disconnect from a former culture that -- unlike the case with Ireland -- is actually unknown to the people seeking it out, and not entirely accessible, so what gets taken from it isn't anywhere as close to a realistic picture as even the Ireland one, and is mostly just tokenistic, more historical talismans to go with the enforced "difference" of being black in America.

Mary: I don't know but please stay -- your posts are all actually sort of making me feel like a jerk, which means you must be making points I need to deal with.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:22 (twenty-three years ago)

i am neither italian nor irish. my mother is a british immigrant, and my paternal grandmother is a Polish immigrant. and i understand that Polish-Americans also embarrass Poles (as much as Irish-Americans and Italian-Americans embarrass the folks in their respective motherlands).

Tad (llamasfur), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:23 (twenty-three years ago)

(yr. latest post preempted some of this, but here it goes anyway)

nbsco: on that level, sure, but the REASONS for that striving are completely different -- back to africa tended to develop in periods where assimilation was out of the question -- and the time-sense of that striving is different -- like there's an identification with africa TODAY, but a sense of a "lost" Ireland -- and the LOCUS of that striving is different -- like Mary's story about it getting tied more to an indigenous immigrant experience -- and finally the MEANING of that striving is different -- it represents a political outlook on the black side and an anti-political (culture as a REJECTION of issues of immediate community of interest) outlook on the white one.

All as massive generalizations of course.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:28 (twenty-three years ago)

oh you earthlings!!

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:28 (twenty-three years ago)

You never hear about people wanting to be Polish.

I'd like to be Polish. I think it sounds exotic. Well, the part of Germany my father's ancestors were from is now Poland, so, almost...

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:29 (twenty-three years ago)

great thread. difficult to add anything relevant, especially as i dont even live in america!

Nabisco: your posts are all actually sort of making me feel like a jerk, which means you must be making points I need to deal with.

No! every single point you have made on this thread makes 100% sense to me (albeit as a foreigner, which perhaps on an americentric thread isnt the back up you need. heh!)

gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:33 (twenty-three years ago)

haha nabisco, I agree that you don't see the root impulses for Asian and African assimilation as being vastly removed from one another.

The premise of post-Columbian America is immigration. There is no more reasoned basis for drawing inferences of similarity between the experiences of particular groups of immigrants than there is for generalizing about the attitudes of the majority itself because there is no fixed majority at any given time. This was the important lesson of "Gangs of New York."

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:33 (twenty-three years ago)

I think maybe Mary and Nabisco are saying the same thing. For the grandchild or great-grandchild of immigrants, there's a sense that there WERE strong family traditions when said ancestors came to America, religious and culinary and linguistic, that have disappeared over the generations. And it seems like now the family's not as strong a unit or as interesting because of it, and the younger people can't understand the older people as well. It's only when those traditions are gone that they're really missed, before they're gone people are happy that they're assimilating!

This may not be the case with the specified nationalities, though. My mother's family was from Armenia, and I think if they were from Ireland or Italy or Sweden or Mexico I'd feel the same way. I don't know why there's a specific fascination with Ireland and Italy, it's just easier to sell t-shirts because the stereotype is that they party a lot.

Maria (Maria), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:35 (twenty-three years ago)

Sterl: At Harvard, the Asian community tended to be tighter than the black community. It was a pattern you'd see over and over; someone you knew freshman year and hung out with a good amount would suddenly not only stop hanging out with and socializing with non-Asians, but would only hang out with people from their particular ethnic group (this was particularly true with many Korean-American students). In the community at large, I definitely see a strong sense of Asian identity out here (but then again Boston is a city that tends to encourage isolationism and "circling-the-wagons", so it's possible that what I'm seeing here isn't happening elsewhere).

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:37 (twenty-three years ago)

coolest thing about being of Polish descent -- having a name that anglophones find unpronounceable (you should see or hear some of the ways my name has been mangled). and having relatives with similarly-unpronounceable last names (i.e., my relatives with the last name "Jendrziejczyk" -- try to pronounce that correctly!)

worst things about being of Polish descent -- (a) the food (borscht and kielbasa) and the folk-music (polka) suck. (b) when yer ethnicity is not ignored, it's slandered.

Tad (llamasfur), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:37 (twenty-three years ago)

best thread ever

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:41 (twenty-three years ago)

(any of the Australian ilx0rs (specifically, from Sydney/Melbourne) want to comment?)

Ess Kay (esskay), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:43 (twenty-three years ago)

Maybe our next NYC FAP should take place at Ellis Island and we will all our trace our roots then have faux ethnic infighting!

Thanks Nitsuh -- I hope it doesn't seem like I'm all over you all of a sudden -- I just ended up here due to a dearth of superficial threads today.

Actually when I was in college I was much more anti-- the type of thing you are talking about.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:44 (twenty-three years ago)

(I love you too, Felicity. From here on out I exclusively date Asian women.)

(Mary also gets love for using an approximated N-dash!)

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:46 (twenty-three years ago)

mmmm, pierogi. mmmmm, polka. I'd rather have those than Irish food and Irish folk music. Thank god I grew up in a mostly Polish neighborhood.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:47 (twenty-three years ago)

Felicity's out then! (She's not exclusively Asian.)

I want some Polish food RIGHT NOW.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:50 (twenty-three years ago)

seriously, i don't give ethnicity that much thought unless prodded. like when i was in grade school, i had a Social Studies teacher who "urged" me to write a paper on Solidarity because she thought that I'd be interested in it because of my ancestry. or when i did a college internship at a company where everyone was either Italian or Jewish. or (at my old firm) when i had to put up with one particularly obnoxious Jewish co-worker who was going around talking about "Polish death camps" and "Polacks are all anti-Semites" (thankfully, she was the exception -- one of my former co-workers is an Orthodox rabbi whose Dad knew Jan Karski, and who told the obnoxious co-worker to knock it off).

Tad (llamasfur), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:50 (twenty-three years ago)

I hope you told her that she was instrumental in making ever Polish person she met seem like an anti-Semite, Tad.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:52 (twenty-three years ago)

haha pete SHEEP

zemko (bob), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:52 (twenty-three years ago)

A "Once Upon a Time in America" NYCFAP will be great! We can all reenact our historical roles!

I will spend the time at each bar building up "nations" of empty beverage containers on the bar tables and then fleeing the evil dictator commie wait staff when they try to impose their "Checkist" culture on me, to seek hope anew in a brave new bar. I hope I wake up at a sewing machine in NoLiTa, they have the cutest stuff down there!

What will everyone else do?

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:53 (twenty-three years ago)

(Check adverb placement, Mary, grammar is our friend! Anyway that's not what I meant and Felicity's surely too well-dressed for me anyway.)

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:54 (twenty-three years ago)

that's not possible, you sweet talking bastard!

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:56 (twenty-three years ago)

I will alternate between regaling y'all with stories filled with larky wit, when I'm not seriously debating the big issues such as Romanticism and such.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 22:59 (twenty-three years ago)

"I said a while back that I loved killian murphy's name. So, is that Irish or Scottish?"

why thank you. i can confirm that it is irish, but i also use the rather unique "one l" spelling of the name.

weasel diesel (K1l14n), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:01 (twenty-three years ago)

girls go for the irish accent hella bad.
i blame hollywood, the media machine.
my mom grew up in peru and my grandfather was the son of an irish immigrant.
it make me feel pretty close to my roots you know? i adore the spud.
i am waiting for the day ben affleck stars as "the lost incan" or brad pitt plays
"the triumph of drunken irish uncle buck" for my proper day of gloating.
also, i like to blame bono for everything.
its bonos' fault.

kephm, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:07 (twenty-three years ago)

At the next NYCFAP I will make pot luck dinners (Long Island potato farmers) and tea (British) while smoking (Southern tobacco farmers).

rosemary (rosemary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:14 (twenty-three years ago)

Urgh. The native american fake-ass cultural tie thing really gets to me. The king of this shit is fucking Ted Nugent.

Dan I., Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:14 (twenty-three years ago)

When we got to Uni, all my Asian friends from high school ditched me to hang out with Real Asians (fellow immigrants), one of several reasons why I think race is meaningless without culture. This doesn't mean that a disproportionate amount of my friends today aren't Asian (hence my difficulty in finding people to have serious conversations about rock with, hence me being right here, right now).

Is there a liberal need to identify with a minority? The fact that I can might explain why I no longer feel guilty about anything.

B.Rad (Brad), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:16 (twenty-three years ago)

I prefer fake ties to real ones. Isn't any cultural tie a yearning for an (impercived) lack?

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:18 (twenty-three years ago)

Yis'll never beat the Irish.

DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:18 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't wanna get over you
It doesn't matter what you do

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:21 (twenty-three years ago)

Mandee, why would a family clinging to their Swedish ancestry decorate their house white and red?

chris sallis, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:22 (twenty-three years ago)

more generally, there's something kind of sweet about the way Americans can basically invent ethnic backgrounds for themselves. And it's funny the way having an ethnic background is so important, in a way that it isn't for most Europeans.

someone mentioned the Scotch/Scots-Irish... I gather this is an ethnic group known only in North America. I'm not entirely clear whether they were ethnically cleansed from these islands at some point in the past, or whether it's just another name for the descendants of Scottish planters in Ulster who then decided that they'd rather go to the Americas.

DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:23 (twenty-three years ago)

Chris, I was wondering about that, too! Are they Danes pretending to be Swedish?

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:25 (twenty-three years ago)

Ed and suzy are clinging to their Swedish ancestry?

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:27 (twenty-three years ago)

English poster in American condescension shocker. I think you may be overstating things to say that it is important for Americans. I don't think it's been important for anyone who has answered here on this thread, in any quantiifiable way.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:27 (twenty-three years ago)

(DV is Irish, Mary...)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:28 (twenty-three years ago)

Mandee, why would a family clinging to their Swedish ancestry decorate their house white and red?

I think she was making a point about just how stupid it all is...*sigh*

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:28 (twenty-three years ago)

Oops!

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:29 (twenty-three years ago)

hahaahahahhaa

gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:30 (twenty-three years ago)

It's important for me! I got no place else to go! Where am I gonna go, home to K'Ukrania??

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:30 (twenty-three years ago)

i largely agree with nitsuh here, if only because in the last five years or so my family have become the "irish people". (esp. obnoxious considering that my mother is ADOPTED and my father [birth father] is a mutt of mostly german and french.) thankfully i think this coincided with the "peaking" of irish-mania over here.

jess (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:32 (twenty-three years ago)

the more I think of it the more I like the idea of picking your ethnicity when you turn 18. I think I'd go for either being Swedish or being an Australian Aborigine.

DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:35 (twenty-three years ago)

Of course having an ethnic background isn't important for Europeans bc they already have a culture they can all rally around. (Obv. for the many immigrants living in Euope it's a different story.) This is maybe what I meant by the 'club culture' Felicity.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:35 (twenty-three years ago)

If anyone ever asks about my heritage I say redneck. It seems the most appropriate.

Nicole (Nicole), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:35 (twenty-three years ago)

The idea that asians don't foreground asianness is also completely counter to everything I've seen. The "got rice" in the tricked out honda civic crowd? The Korean Church kids? The "bhangra" teams full of Tamils and Pakistanis? What's the difference between these and a bunch of black kids in giant Avirex jackets in 90 degree weather or a bunch of south boston "Irish" with Red Sox tattoos screaming "Loouuuuu!" when Nomar's best friend comes to the plate?

The east-coast hardcore scene also seems sort of irish-identified; so the boys get to do their beatdowns while the girls get cool looking tattoos -- everyone's a winner! Italians of course have their gangsters and Rocky to look up to.

Everlast is a perfect example of the male, euro-american personality crisis. Didn't he start out as some sort of Rockyesque Italian boxer character, then he became Irish, then he became muslim, then he became country?

I think all these guys are just trying to keep their women in the family.

Kris (aqueduct), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:36 (twenty-three years ago)

THANK YOU KRIS for backing me up on that!

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:37 (twenty-three years ago)

Yeah ethnicity is a construct anyway -- I'd like to be from India -- those bindis rock.

I won't make assumptions about where Kris is from (burnt once not twice) but is it safe to assume that Asia in America and Asia in UK is two very different things?

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:37 (twenty-three years ago)

kris is right about east-coast hardcore at least in the mosh-metal sense. esp odd when you couple it with straight edge.

jess (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:38 (twenty-three years ago)

But there's little attention in the U.S. to actual events in Italy. Little knowledge. I don't even know if Berlusconi is President or Prime Minister, or if I spelled his name right. (Didn't Italy change its organization of their govt. sometime in the last decade?) And I'll bet most Americans of any ethnic descent have no idea, say, what side of the war Italy and Ireland were on in 1944.

Frank Kogan (Frank Kogan), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:38 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't know if this is the same in the Americas, but a friend who moved to the Basque Country was mystified at the extent to which "Irish" was a synonym for "good time". When we were out there visiting we saw posters for an "Irish Disco" at which patently no Irish people would be present. Likewise there are loads of "Irish" bars boasting no distinctively Irish features whatsoever.

In America, what's seen as being so good about being Irish? A friend who went to Australia said that playing up Irishness is a great way to score, everyone loves someone who uses "Tis" and talks about the poetry of the landscape.

DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:39 (twenty-three years ago)

Its organization of their govt

Not to mention its organization of my grammar.

Frank Kogan (Frank Kogan), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:40 (twenty-three years ago)

Of course having an ethnic background isn't important for Europeans bc they already have a culture they can all rally around. (Obv. for the many immigrants living in Euope it's a different story.)

yeah, obviously.

I'd be curious as to what extent Australians and New Zealanders are into having ethnic backgrounds. Can anyone advise?

DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:40 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh, Asia in NZ = Asia in US = East Asia
Asia in UK = South Asia right?

B.Rad (Brad), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:41 (twenty-three years ago)

The men are hott! They are into suppressing ethnic backgrounds.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:41 (twenty-three years ago)

haha frank i bet most americans dont know there was a war in 1944.

dv, the "irish bar" is a fixture of ANY town, at least on the east coast. it's cultural shorthand for something american at this point.

jess (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:41 (twenty-three years ago)

"I think she was making a point about just how stupid it all is...*sigh*"

Sure, only I would have thought anyone going so far as to embroider "I Love Sweden" all over the place might also have confirmed the colour scheme of the Swedish flag before commencing interior decoration.

chris sallis, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:43 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm imagining this family with their Swedish slogans all over the place and the Zimbabwe flag displayed prominently over the fireplace...

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:44 (twenty-three years ago)

What's the difference between these and a bunch of black kids in giant Avirex jackets in 90 degree weather or a bunch of south boston "Irish" with Red Sox tattoos screaming "Loouuuuu!" when Nomar's best friend comes to the plate?

I love ethnic humor. What's the punchline?

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:44 (twenty-three years ago)

In NZ Euros play up any non-Euro backgrounds (esp. Pacific) but don't care about types of Euro - many exceptions though, accounting for the absurd number of bagpipe players here (note that I consider "any" absurd).

B.Rad (Brad), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:45 (twenty-three years ago)

my mom wouldn't recognize them as stereotypes.

jess (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:46 (twenty-three years ago)

(that's not a very good joke, tho)

jess (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:46 (twenty-three years ago)

You're forgetting about the scots-descended Dunediners Brad.

My (English) parents emigrated to Dunedin in the 1970's and encountered plenty of residual animosity towards the sassernachs.

chris sallis, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:49 (twenty-three years ago)

Scots-Irish: Scot-descended Irish who ended up in the U.S. in the 19th century, usually dirt poor in Appalachia or the deep South. Huge effect on U.S. Southern music, hence eventually huge effect on U.S. popular music.

Frank Kogan (Frank Kogan), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:50 (twenty-three years ago)

Punchline to joke: back seat conception.

Kris (aqueduct), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:51 (twenty-three years ago)

Tend to have red hair.

Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:51 (twenty-three years ago)

Whoops that's a riddle not a joke (IOW not funny).

Kris (aqueduct), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:53 (twenty-three years ago)

Sorry Brad, you hadn't forgotten about them! But it's still quite a major exception!

chris sallis, Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:54 (twenty-three years ago)

Well let's subdivide further: I should say that the Asian population of the Midwest, anyway, has what looks like a different slope of assimilation. My view on this may be distorted by having gone to a school with a really large Asian student population (both East and South), most of whom on a social level didn't do a whole lot to draw such lines.

(Frank gets at the other thing that bothers me about the culture-borrowing -- that what's bothered tends to be stuff about food, folklore, manner, visual culture, and stereotype, but not necessarily so much about actual hard "culture." I'm sure for many those first things are a gateway to hard culture, but it's the dabblers and dress-up artists we're picking on here, right?)

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 4 February 2003 23:59 (twenty-three years ago)

haha ronan and i were just talking about "irish bars" and it never even occurred to me that he would have never heard of BENNIGANS.

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:01 (twenty-three years ago)

I mean the difference is that it's different! It's fun to be recognized and to recognize certain funny things about yourself, and your "ethnic identity." It's like laughing about the fact that our Asian relatives always give us poor-quality designer knockoffs when they come to visit. And it's always particular ones, like Gucci and Pierre Cardin. But the serious side of it, too, is Asia has particular relationships to the US, like the cheap child labor, that would be different from the relationship to the US of other immigrant "source" continents.

So it's bonding but in a particularized or generalized way at any particular time. I love diversity, yes (I have no choice about it) but I would say it's more fun to trade stories with "otherly" ethnicized friends than just all sitting around agreeing that "Yes, I find that when my overseas relatives visit from the homeland, they behave graciously, after their own fashion, although they occasionally betray their foreign origins." Some people might say "yes, I find that I have no humorous stories about foreign relatives because they all secured passage on the Mayflower." It's all good. I would say that what Dan and nabisco are trying to articulate is actually an "American" trait if there are any.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:02 (twenty-three years ago)

Accidentally comparing international cuisine to marijuana: Classic or Dud?

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:02 (twenty-three years ago)

B-but I didn't forget... What's hard culture anyway?

B.Rad (Brad), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:03 (twenty-three years ago)

plymouth rock landed on us

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:04 (twenty-three years ago)

it's the dabblers and dress-up artists we're picking on here, right?

Alex, what are you doing here and will you please put nabisco back.

I will subdivide until I get to the level of individual people and then I will probably stop.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:09 (twenty-three years ago)

Who will form your feet and legs and who will for your arms and torso?

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:10 (twenty-three years ago)

When I point out to him that he looks very Italian and reminds me of my Italian grandfather, he gets kind of pissed.

What, to prove he's Irish?

N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:11 (twenty-three years ago)

Who will form your feet and legs and who will for your arms and torso?

a Transiti-ylvanian?

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:14 (twenty-three years ago)

I love this thread for more reasons than I can count. Yay intelligent people with senses of humor tackling big issues! :-)

I shall attend this planned FAP by representing my culture proudly, namely that of Geek.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:16 (twenty-three years ago)

the united colors of voltron

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:17 (twenty-three years ago)

Fly the Transformers colors high, and sing the Robotech anthem!

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:20 (twenty-three years ago)

The IRA makes Americans sad? Really? You try having places you go daily blown up, you try having friends dead, or scarred for life and fucked over mentally because they still have over 30 pieces of glass in their back. Americans LOVE the IRA. I'm surprised more of 'em haven't moved onto cheerleading for Al-Qaeda now that even the Real IRA have declared a ceasefire.

When I was in New York last year I almost walked out of a bar which proudly displayed a signed picture of Gerry Adams and Martin McGuinness. And I've always been more understanding of the Catholic argument than the Protestant. But Americans don't CARE - supporting the IRA is like having a poster of Che Guevara on their walls but not having a clue about what he did, like buying a Niggas with Attitude album when you're (gasp) white.

Incidentally, some Northern Italians refer to Sicilians as Marocchini (Moroccans), if that gives you an idea.

Mark C (Mark C), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:25 (twenty-three years ago)

haha ronan and i were just talking about "irish bars" and it never even occurred to me that he would have never heard of BENNIGANS.

I wish I had never heard of Bennigans, lucky man...

Nicole (Nicole), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:33 (twenty-three years ago)

I agree that in New Zealand there is much more emphasis on non-Euro culture or heritage. In terms of cultural groups and festivals etc.

But there is an Irish thing. There are circles in NZ where completely non-Irish types wank on about the troubles etc. They did not seem to have anything like as much time or sympathy for the plight, eg, of the Timorese. There are also a lot of Irish bars. Why do people go there? does anyone go there?

isadora (isadora), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:34 (twenty-three years ago)

The Irish bars in New Zealand are like, the worst ever!

N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:35 (twenty-three years ago)

woah, Mark C in the house! I am sorry you were upset, but do you realize how mentalist it is to conclude that all 250 million Americans love the IRA from what you saw in one bar in NY? It would be like saying the English people are for the war beause of a letter one of them signed. Maybe you have another basis for this generalization (if so, pardon me) but this is certainly news to me and I know a few Americans.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:38 (twenty-three years ago)

I talked to the Americans. Most of them didn't like NWA either.

from russia with love (bnw), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:43 (twenty-three years ago)

Molly Malone's in Wellington is good. The point I neglected to make is that NZers seem to be heavily Anglo-identified. The US has always had an anti-Anglo streak, which is understandable historically. But as far as I know you don't get aged Aussies who still call England "home" - admittedly they're dying off quickly here, but a cultural hangover remains so that what's cool here is still ripped off from London.

B.Rad (Brad), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:44 (twenty-three years ago)

I am sorry you were upset, but do you realize how mentalist it is to conclude that all 250 million Americans love the IRA from what you saw in one bar in NY?

I have to agree. Most of the people who hang around those faux-irish pubs are absolute cretins anyway, they're certainly not representative of the American attitude toward the IRA.

Nicole (Nicole), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:45 (twenty-three years ago)

In Australia you do get a certain element fetishising convict ancestry, although you would have to believe that the hulls of the First Fleet were exclusively inhabited by downtrodden parents non-violently stealing a loaf of bread for their poor children. And if you are related to a bushranger (ie, Ned Kelly), even better.

Mostly, though, migration is too recent to get the false connection to the “homeland”. When your grandparents don’t speak English, and you speak Arabic/Italian/Greek etc at home, then the former culture’s pretty close. There’s more a celebration of migrant culture than old world culture, if that makes sense. The experiences of the Lebanese and Italians in Australia are often closer than the experiences of the Lebanese Australians and their cousins in Lebanon.

By the way, this is my first post. I’ve lurked for a while. Hi.

Fidelma, Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:51 (twenty-three years ago)

There is this mock "English" restaurant in Montreux, Switzerland which is called like "English Pub" and has the words "The Real English Bars Where Nice People Meet" [sic] painted on the sign.

Someday I will scan in my photo of this place.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:54 (twenty-three years ago)

wow, so many deep thoughts.. .

I think the idea of a sense of loss is strongest. Perhaps the fact that most of America is paved over with WalMarts and Chili's makes people yearn for a collective identity that's more unique than the Awesome Blossom. Can you blame 'em?

My "ethnic" identity is very important to me even though it only comes from one parent. I think it's also tied up in a sense of place-like, saying to understand the Irish idealization thing you really need to go to Boston. Well I'd say the Irish/Italian thing is pretty small here. I really don't *know* any Irish/Italian Texan families. Most people have some but I don't think any are as close as 3rd or 4th generation even.

Here, b/c the land that is now Texas was once Mexico, and Mexicans are mutts themsevles (Indians and Europeans) identifying with Mexican culture is very important and culturally predominant. For me, I've had to dig a bit. My Mexican father grew up in Chicago and was actually rather ashamed of his heritage, never taught me Spanish, etc. I've tried to take this back. I look at it as a way of understanding my present and this world around me even more, not just a way of reliving a disconnected past.

That Girl (thatgirl), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:55 (twenty-three years ago)

Hi Fidelma! :)

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:55 (twenty-three years ago)

Something from earlier needs explaining: Scots-Irish are those shoved out in Highland Clearances to Ireland (Ulster, mainly, and often Protestant) and many of these then mixed there and came to America (my surname traces to Enniskillen; it's in the memory bank along with all grandmother conversations).

It's just folk tales, and I think Americans are basically very interested in geneology - their own and each others'. I'm mostly Scots-Irish but the real impact I got from my ancestry showed up in the kitchen in the form of Swedish, Polish and French food, and in the half-French Bohemianism of my granny.

Living in London as an American with an 'obviously' Irish surname has made me cautious of discussing regional politics with people I don't know well.

suzy (suzy), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:56 (twenty-three years ago)

OK, there's a sherlock holmes theme pub in brno in the czech republic. it is exactly like every single other pub in brno inside. EXCEPT. it has a mannequin with a tweed overcoat and a deerstalker on in.

RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:56 (twenty-three years ago)

half-French Bohemianism

wow, you do have roots in lots of places. etc. : /

RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:58 (twenty-three years ago)

Yay Fidelma, another intelligent Antipodean, smash the trans-Atlantic hegemony! But I'm (somewhat) Chinese, and I've never been to China - if I feel any connection to Grandpa's old village in Guangzhou, is it false?

B.Rad (Brad), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 00:59 (twenty-three years ago)

In my native culture, we have a way of telling the poseurs from the "4 REAL" people. We set them on fire. If they burn, then they were 4 REAL.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:01 (twenty-three years ago)

It does seem as though many second-generation Asian-Americans adopt "Anglo" names in place of their Korean, Chinese, etc. birth names (i.e. a Korean girl in my French class who goes by "Sarah"), while it has been a trend in recent generations for African-Americans to give their children African-sounding names (perhaps this trend has reversed itself slightly since the 1970s).

Another thing I've noticed is that Jews of my mother's generation (born in the 30s–50s, second or third generation immigrants) were often given very non-Jewish names, like Diane, Marlene, Edward, etc. while many Jews of my generation have names straight from the Old Testament, or even Ashkenazi names like Meier, etc. Something to do with the anxiety of assimilation I suppose as noted upthread.

Also, I decree that any future Chicago FAP will have to include a visit to the Red Apple on Milwaukee Blvd., where we can stuff our faces full of kielbasa and potatoe pancakes while we continue this debate. (They also serve bottles of some impronouncable, but very tasty, Polish beer.)

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:02 (twenty-three years ago)

I am so there.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:04 (twenty-three years ago)

Why is Mark C trying to have a monopoly on sadness?

N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:05 (twenty-three years ago)

RJG, Only four places really but grandparents were extremely keen to pass on memories to family writer; three of them had immigrant parents so stories were fresh, and one of these was born stinking rich so stories offered were things like being taken to see Sarah Bernhardt on stage.

I also like telling stories about people in my family that make them more quintessentially, cinematically American to people in my neighbourhood.

(Oh Amateurist, what about those sick chili dogs with every single available relish?)

suzy (suzy), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Dad's given name is "Ng". There are obvious problems with this.

B.Rad (Brad), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Hurrah Fidelma! More people = good.

Irish pubs -- I assume if I am at a pub in Ireland I'm all right.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:10 (twenty-three years ago)

Uh, sorry Brad, maybe I used the word "false" unwisely. Although, I think that if you only hung out with other people who came from Guangzhou and insisted on supporting the local Guangzhou footy team, then it would get a bit weird. But then, my mum is Irish, and my dad's background is Irish, but I hate that St Patrick's day crap.

A girl at my school had to elope because her boyfriend's family and her's were from warring vilages in Greece. Cultural detritus is bad.

Fidelma, Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:12 (twenty-three years ago)

"Helen" is popular for Korean-American girls because it sounds like many very common Korean given names.

"Grace" is popular for Korean-American girls because the previous generation fetishized America at a time when Grace Kelly was a popular actress (if by "fetishized," you include "were happy to be liberated by").

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:13 (twenty-three years ago)

What about Kim? ::ducks::

suzy (suzy), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:15 (twenty-three years ago)

Seeing the Chinese team at the World Cup last year left me scrambling for some trace of Korean ancestry. Surprisingly, I found it.

B.Rad (Brad), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:17 (twenty-three years ago)

hahaha, is that really a Korean thing? I thought it was more a Vietnamese first name but I get my information from Doonesbury.

My brother's friend calls Bul-go-gi "Bull-dog-gy." See, we laugh about everything. :)

woohoo B.Rad!

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:20 (twenty-three years ago)

It really sucks that we didn't go to the Korean restaurant RIGHT NEXT DOOR to my flat.

suzy (suzy), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:26 (twenty-three years ago)

"B.Rad" is Dutch, I think. Names have been screwed up on both sides of my family so much that it's a relief tradition allows me to call my ridiculously numerous relatives "Uncle", "Cousin" etc.

Anyway, we're all African.

B.Rad (Brad), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:28 (twenty-three years ago)

re:NZ B.Rad is OTM; though I'll qualify Pacific backgrounds to Maori backgrounds (& only in the last 15 years or so) - still too close to dawn raids etc etc for islanders & that. Supporting this is a lot of, say, the scholarships/goverment funding/etc - the proverbial 1/64th Maori (at my high school, there was this blonde 63/64 German . . .) gets access to a lot more goverment support & that with one without (ie people embracing backgrounds for pragmatic as well as sentimental/identity reasons etc). Has there been discussion on the work 'pakeha' yet? (speaking for myself, I try & disown as much foreign ancestry as possible to try & make myself an indigenous pakeha (haha maybe because all my ancestors are weavers from Cornwall, bah) - this is a very dubious thing to do obv.).

(& hi, fidelma!)

Ess Kay (esskay), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 01:44 (twenty-three years ago)

fromma now on I'm gonna talka like this. I gotta emphasize this quatta Italian descent I gotta goin on. Especially since it's the quatta I gotta my last name from.

Now THAT'S a spicy meataball, eh?

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 02:07 (twenty-three years ago)

I have to agree. Most of the people who hang around those faux-irish pubs are absolute cretins anyway, they're certainly not representative of the American attitude toward the IRA.
Most of the people collecting $ or hanging pictures are Irish-born, IME. But maybe I think that because I don't go to fake Irish bars.

Kerry (dymaxia), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 02:20 (twenty-three years ago)

Well I think we can do some good work here separating generalizations from trends: there is a certain subset of Irish-loving Americans for whom the IRA is this proud old-country relic, like a warrior-culture heritage thing, and yes these people probably aren't perceiving these issues as they likely would if they were immediately involved in them. But yes, this is by no means a generalization about Americans or Irish-Americans as a whole, not in the least.

I am very much in favor of Felicity's approach to ethnic difference and history, and I feel that way largely because what she's describing strikes me as the post-immigration experience of actually Seeing Things As They Are: like yeah culture exists, and it's fun and interesting, and certain elements of it can be cause for concern but most of it, from the standpoint of anyone who's in the least stradding two of them, is just harmlessly funny. I could go on for hours about hilarious shit Ethiopians do, and I'd hope that pretty much anyone could do this with whatever culture they come from. My complaint in starting this thread -- which I've been overstating a bit, but I'm glad I did because this thread is turning out really nicely -- is with those people who really stretch to create that culture when it's not really How Things Are for them. I invoked Momus earlier but the more I think about it I don't entirely include him: he's pretty up-front about just being really into Japanese culture, and doesn't seem to try and pinpoint some genetic directive for it or pull any cred out of it.

Actually! That's another of the big reasons the whole fetishizing thing bugs me, because it seems to say that if one is however much genetically, say, Irish, then one should naturally involve oneself in Irish culture. Whereas this was precisely the issue I spent a lot of my youth arguing with my family about: just because I'm genetically Ethiopian I didn't see any huge reason to be any more involved with other Ethiopians than with, say, Cambodians or Indians or Swedes. So maybe I should be happy about the utterly non-Irish people who fetishize Ireland (although I do wish at least some of them would pick some other culture, any other damn culture, to be interested in).

Anyway back to what Sam said, which I think is important: why do so many Americans have a sense of our culture as a non-culture? I mean, I understand why -- it is new, it lacks the deep history of Old World cultures -- but on some level I look forward to a future where Americans can cope better with the culture of their own invention and actually engage with it as an actual culture instead of just something to be invoked when engaged in political or military action.

It's not so much that I'm always pro-assimilation, but actively trying to disassimilate seems a little silly and self-important to me. Sometimes I just want to say: you're American, deal with it. It doesn't make you non-special, and it doesn't particularly make you "interesting" to cobble together some flimsy story about how your great-great-grandfather came from Ireland and that's why your alcoholism is actually quaint and lovable. (No really, I've heard this.) And it just seems so damned ahistorical so much of the time, as evidenced by the faint laughter of actual Irish people.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 02:49 (twenty-three years ago)

I agree with what you're saying about disassimilating. But what would you say might be the Americans' "culture of [our] invention"? (please don't say rock n roll and coca cola.)

That Girl (thatgirl), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 02:55 (twenty-three years ago)

Ray Kroc & Sam Walton own yr ass

Millar (Millar), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 03:17 (twenty-three years ago)

hey ray kroc's on his way out and sam walton's ant food now. so what else ya got??

That Girl (thatgirl), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 03:44 (twenty-three years ago)

Nitush seems totally otm -- I've had elements of this same conversation to friends, but Nit and I are in the same town and I suppose are noticing the same things. I think there probably is a certain level of reasonable and tangible pride with moving from ghettoization to acceptability not only without sacrificing national identity, but in part because of rallying around it, and the Irish and Italians are possibly the only American ethnic minorities that accomplished that trick, to date. (certainly the Irish in Chicago did this.) Plus, they simply seem to be the only two formerly marginalized ethnic minorities of any great number who can a)comfortably assert their heritage (this unfortunately eliminates any non-whites, for whom an assimilation that negates physical ethnic traits is too often not an option)and b) feel that they need to. There is no national sense of Swedish or Dutch or Polish culture -- and most Baltic or Ukranian or Balkan or even Russian families I know are too close to the experience of immigration to be able to fake it. In my experience, the immigration-to-assimilation process hasn't taken place in most cases, and there are few Americans who are 1/8 any of these minorites let alone feel that their ethnicity's American experience has been watered down. I'd guess the "next" Irish or Italian ethnicity, as it relates to this thread, may be Greek-Americans.

have any Americans who don't live near or in major cities responded? Is any of this true in suburbs or rural America?

scott pl. (scott pl.), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 04:38 (twenty-three years ago)

(re: "who can a)comfortably assert their heritage" -- that bit didn't come off right. I don't mean, of course, to suggest that minorities can't/don't retain their identities or cultures.)

scott pl. (scott pl.), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 04:42 (twenty-three years ago)

(I suppose that was a verbose, convoluted way of saying I don't see any other American ethnic minorities other than the Irish and Italians who would or could show this possibly 'false' Nth generation pride en masse. Germans, maybe, were it not for recent history.)

scott pl. (scott pl.), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 04:53 (twenty-three years ago)

have any Americans who don't live near or in major cities responded? Is any of this true in suburbs or rural America?

I live in what passes for a major city now (New Orleans), but at the time I was seeing the "kiss me, I'm Irish" thing, I was in southern New Hampshire, a little over an hour outside of Boston. Southern NH is a weird place: it's largely "immigrants" from other parts of the country who came in when Digital, Wang, Lockheed-Martin, etc., put plants in to avoid the taxes in other states and take advantage of the available land and proximity to Boston. So not only isn't there much in the way of ethnocentric communities (there are some German communities upstate, and you still find remnants of the old French-Canadian ghettos here and there), you don't even really have a whole lot of "regional culture" beyond the basic New Englandiness of postcards, apple orchards, and the abomination of the lobster roll.

I suspect that's one reason I don't have much of a New England accent (beyond saying "wicked" a lot and having to remind myself that a milkshake isn't a milkshake) -- my parents weren't from there, and neither were any of my friends' parents (literally, all of my closest friends' parents had moved there from other states).

Anyway, point being, like I was saying above: these folks weren't, as far as I can tell, reclaiming their Irish heritage, i.e. a set of traditions and culture specific to their family which had been watered-down through assimilation, so much as they were adopting a generic, stereotypical Irishness which revolved around Gaelic, vilifying the British, the Druids, and pretty much everything this side of Lucky Charms. (And it all picked up speed when House of Pain hit the radio.)

But much of the rest of this thread suggests that never would've happened in southern NH if it hadn't been happening in the rest of the country.

Since I do live in New Orleans now, I'll point out that the whole issue of ... what should we call it, white ethnic identity? ... is a different can of worms down here. I think I'd have to live here much longer to be able to talk about it with anything resembling understanding.

Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 06:47 (twenty-three years ago)

What's a milkshake?

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 06:52 (twenty-three years ago)

In New England (well, northern New England, anyway, I don't know how they feel about things South Of Boston), a milkshake is just milk with flavored syrup. A frappe (just "frap" not "frap-pay" or "frap-ee") is the ice cream + milk + flavoring thing that everyone else calls a milkshake.

(And when I was a kid, if you just said "shake," you meant something from McDonald's, which I mention to keep this on topic and point out the green shakes you can get to celebrate St Patrick's Day!)

Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:03 (twenty-three years ago)

Oooh when is St. Patrick's Day? Maybe Gareth will be here then. Last year I had the unfortunate experience of working on the Upper East Side when unbeknownst to me, St. Patrick's Day began. I felt the ph34r. Much Central Park spillage.

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Eh, well, I'm originally from rural America and.. well, my father's family is Swedish .. I don't feel a huge need to appropriate some idea of any of those cultures exactly. But who's to say there still aren't some ties even several generations down? He remembers grandparents who spoke to him in Swedish.. and.. a culture that your great-grandparents came from, that influenced your grandparents, that influenced your parents, is going to have some effect on you - perhaps a diffuse one, and one you can't separate from other influences, but something. And for instance, when my father left this town in Minnesota where everyone was Scandinavian & moved to a small town in the Appalachians, there's suddenly a disconnect, and perhaps more of a tendency to identify with your origins because very, very few people are Lutheran and Scandinavian.
Did anyone consider religion's role in this, incidentally? That many Irish and Italians are Catholics in an mostly Protestant nation..

Not sure about the milkshake thing south of Boston, I'll have to investigate. Rhode Island has milk with coffee-flavored syrup, (coffee milk) .. I can't bring myself to try it.

daria g, Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:08 (twenty-three years ago)

There actually IS a strong polish community in Chicago with its own section of town. If anything, I think that it hasn't assimilated ENOUGH to be noticed.

Also on the asian thing: at berekely asians did hang together and stuff, but they very much didn't identify with "asian" culture -- no dragon posters on walls or canto-pop cds or whatever mainly.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:19 (twenty-three years ago)

Sterling, there are several Polish neighborhoods here. We've got more Poles than any city except for Warsaw. There is a reason that I didn't have school on "Casimir Polaski Day."

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:22 (twenty-three years ago)


(Oh Amateurist, what about those sick chili dogs with every single available relish?)

I see those chili dogs and raise you meatballs swimming in pork gravy, and fried gizzards, and chocolate pudding for dessert.

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:25 (twenty-three years ago)

Sterling, you're right though about the Polish community (communities) not being as visible as they might, because of a lack of eagerness to assimilate too quickly. Case in point: the Chicago Polish Film Festival features Polish films without subtitles.

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:27 (twenty-three years ago)

Funny thing that's occurred to me: Americans will continue to feel as if we don't have a culture so long as so much of our national wealth comes from exporting that culture to other nations, thus making it a global background noise and not something we can claim for ourselves! I mean, we could say Coke is our culture (the American Irish fetish certainly finds room for Guinness), but it wouldn't be special -- we've got everyone drinking it. And if Hollywood movies don't speak to a very particular culture then I don't know what does -- but we're pretty keen on imagining everyone loves those, too, so we turn to quaint Irish pictures for a sense of place.

We need a cultural superpower to eclipse us so we can notice our own circumstances. Maybe this Irish stuff is exactly the answer: once we're all reading Memoirs of Horrible Irish Childhoods Volumes 842-850, Faulkner and Twain will start looking like something to cling to!

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:30 (twenty-three years ago)

I mean, Americans can never feel like our culture is ours so long as we keep going around expecting everyone else on Earth to know about it (which, oh God, we collectively totally do). We flush with cultural pride mainly when Europeans say "you do what????"

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:32 (twenty-three years ago)

Sometimes your heritage, if I can use such a term so simultaneously loaded and benign, particularly on this thread, hits you when you're not expecting it. My mom's dad is from Puerto Rico (it's where my last name comes from, incidentally, not my half-Greek dad; the other half of me is Irish) but aside from my mom telling me about him playing some PR music and hanging out with his PR friends, my life was essentially Puerto Rico-culturally free. Having lived in NYC two years now, though, I tend to notice things--usually vague things--when I see Puerto Ricans on the street, usually stuff along the lines of "God, she looks just like my aunt." There's something interesting--and rather cool--about realizing how different my mom's family looked in the middle of Minneapolis, and how normal I thought it was, even though it wasn't. But I'm probably babbling.

M Matos (M Matos), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:37 (twenty-three years ago)

An interesting issue. Even those late-19th/early-20th c. reactionaries/folklorists etc. who identified the authentic American culture in the S. mountains could not help but verify this authenticity by trying to establish a direct link to the Br. Isles via a cultural continuity.

Anyway, personally I have only occasionally felt any desire to establish an "ethnic" identity for myself, perhaps because there is no there there---b/c my "roots" are in prewar Jewish life in E. Europe, there is no "homeland" to look to, only a history. I've often been somewhat repulsed by those who aggressively assert their Jewishness by aping the hackneyed cliches of Jewish life, so I can see a parallel w/what nabisco is complaining about. But still in moments I feel the lack he alludes to, so I understand the phenomenon.

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:41 (twenty-three years ago)

(at the FAPatriot, I will eat beans & rice with sprinkled feta and drink lots of beer)

M Matos (M Matos), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:43 (twenty-three years ago)

(I am doomed to scarf down gefilte fish and kreplach)

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:45 (twenty-three years ago)

i don't think that polish-american communities anywhere are all that big on asserting themselves. there are large polish communities in philadelphia and connecticut (i know, 'cause i have relatives in both places), but non-poles wouldn't know this -- maybe because they don't really assert themselves politically the way that Italians or the Irish (or Blacks and Jews, for that matter) have asserted themselves politically in either Philly or Connecticut.

it's both a blessing and a curse. it's a blessing because you're more tabula rasa, you don't have the ethnic identikit that certain other white ethnic groups have or always feel the need to be "polish" or call attention to yerself (unless yer being slandered for it). but it's also a curse, because Polish-Americans are not represented as proportionally as they could be -- and as a result, their interests aren't taken too seriously.

Tad (llamasfur), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 07:46 (twenty-three years ago)

frappes = awesome

cabinets = even better (cause they're called 'cabinets')

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:00 (twenty-three years ago)

rhode island's most famous cabinet freak - we miss you, buddy (yes, he was brought down on federal corruption charges)
http://www.projo.com/technology/shenews/photos/cianci74.gif

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Will the FAPatriot take place on the 4th of July? At the beach house?

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:26 (twenty-three years ago)

there was talk on another thread about a 4th of July FAP. I say the FAPatriot be an afternoon picnic in Central Park.

M Matos (M Matos), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:28 (twenty-three years ago)

Matos -- you are soo out of it -- we are gonna go to the Jersey shore.

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:33 (twenty-three years ago)

"jersey shore" is an ethnicity in and of itself.

Tad (llamasfur), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:34 (twenty-three years ago)

That's what I'm sayin'!

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:35 (twenty-three years ago)

have fun there, then

M Matos (M Matos), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:35 (twenty-three years ago)

What you don't leave the island?

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:36 (twenty-three years ago)

we shall see. probably, actually, not sure what if any plans are that day (it's in five months!)

M Matos (M Matos), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 08:45 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm 45th generation Roman.

Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 10:51 (twenty-three years ago)

SOrry, a little bit late I guess, but I was on strike yeseterday ()hows that for pushing forward my Polish ancestry!). Yes, I foreground my Polishness despite knowing absolutely nothing about being Polish beyond the fact that my grandfather, who died when I was four, being Polish. My surname is - non-conspicuously I must say - Polish, and well that's about it.

Nevertheless to be able to claim a small degree of exoticism is what it is about for me. To excuse away a degree of ability to drink, a liking for Gin and a certain sullen stoicism.

Pete (Pete), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 10:58 (twenty-three years ago)

Detriot also has a very large Polish Community - both fresh off the boat and 3rd & 4th generations. I'm actually 100% Polish, both my Mom and Dad from the polish areas of Detroit. I kinda regret that my Grandmothers didn't teach them Polish - but at least my great-grandfather's polish coffeecake-esqe recipe has been passed down - and the techniques and recipes for many other polish foods!

I didn't know that many people who claimed to be Italian or Irish, but I did grow up in one of the densest Dutch - Xian reformed areas of the US! My one Sicilian friend takes great offense at being called Italian!

When my brother describes his current girlfriend he has to say, "I'm dating an Italian - no - like actually from Italy."

marianna, Wednesday, 5 February 2003 11:04 (twenty-three years ago)

N is wrong, the Irish bars in Ireland are the worst ever.

Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 12:33 (twenty-three years ago)

Hey Marianna - it appears Crouch End has a large Polish community too...

Pete (Pete), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 12:45 (twenty-three years ago)

i don't think that polish-american communities anywhere are all that big on asserting themselves. there are large polish communities in philadelphia and connecticut (i know, 'cause i have relatives in both places), but non-poles wouldn't know this -- maybe because they don't really assert themselves politically the way that Italians or the Irish (or Blacks and Jews, for that matter) have asserted themselves politically in either Philly or Connecticut.
Fast Eddie Vrdolyak to thread!

Chicagoans ought to check out Hegewisch, the East Side, and the Illiana / Calumet Region, where the Poles are more "assimilated" and visible in politics, business and community affairs.

Kerry (dymaxia), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 15:40 (twenty-three years ago)

There's an old story about the guy from Hegewisch who goes to the optometrist. Doc points to the chart, CZYWLKSQTB, and says "Can you read that?"


Hegewisch guy says, "Read it? I dated his sister!"

Kerry (dymaxia), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 15:48 (twenty-three years ago)

My opinion of all this is...hold on, I have to clear a leprechaun from my window. Away with ye, little man! Enough of your shenanigans!

weasel diesel (K1l14n), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 16:12 (twenty-three years ago)

Only in America

Kerry (dymaxia), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 16:22 (twenty-three years ago)

Kerry, have you ever been to a Polish disco (in Chicago I mean)?

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 16:46 (twenty-three years ago)

No, I've never been to a Polish disco - that sounds interesting. I've only been to polka bars - Club 505 is really fun.

Kerry (dymaxia), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 16:56 (twenty-three years ago)

My Dad is suddenly heavily into his Irishness, which is a big surprise to me since we're Lutheran. Yes, it's annoying and false in all the ways described well above. He's even used the phrase "my people," it's crazy. He's a lit prof, so I can almost chalk it up to Yeats-Heaney fandom.

BUT in a certain way, I don't want to begrudge him his FUN. Or some kind of sense of BELONGING. I don't want to psychologize my dad too much here, but I'm resolutely American and have a huge reservoir of (pop)cult objects and ideas that I feel at home in and that animate my life. He's found his. I just wish he could see how plastic and American his need to plumb the depths of his Hibernian soul is, to make Irishness his THING.

g.cannon (gcannon), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:15 (twenty-three years ago)

Marc C: I don't know any Americans who romantisize the IRA. The NRA, on the other hand...

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:29 (twenty-three years ago)

IRA, how I love your sweet deferral of taxable ordinary income, let me count the ways . . .

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:31 (twenty-three years ago)

Coming to a screen near you: Taxman starring Samuel L. Jackson as the IRA's maverick CPA!

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:32 (twenty-three years ago)

he can marry the Taxing Woman!

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:33 (twenty-three years ago)

Kerry that picture is superb!

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:34 (twenty-three years ago)

http://ia.imdb.com/media/imdb/01/I/23/10/01m.jpg

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:38 (twenty-three years ago)

The sequel: "A Taxing Woman's Return" Really! hahahahaha.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 17:41 (twenty-three years ago)

:)

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:01 (twenty-three years ago)

Tracer - the punk rock stores are selling "Free Buddy" t-shirts now, & the local Fox station has a big scoop, they're playing the Plunderdome tapes on air. (How cool is it to have a scandal called Operation Plunderdome?)
I guess I figured out how Providence politics work when NPR had an RI politics hour & the host observed that Cicilline wouldn't have trouble getting things accomplished at City Hall because, after all, his father had been a lawyer who defended members of the Mafia.

daria g, Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:05 (twenty-three years ago)

Felicity, of COURSE I don't mean everyone. I'm sorry that my rancour obscured the fact that I mean a few sick, ill-informed individuals, though to be honest isn't that obvious?

The IRA gets most of its funding from the US; the mere fact that bars such as this one exist shows there is at best a tolerance and at worst a glorification of such things among certain people. I am sad that Americans had to deal with terrorism on their own turf before some of the more bigoted, pointless ones got a picture of how loathsome it is.

Mark C (Mark C), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:09 (twenty-three years ago)

The Taxing Woman sequel is great!

Mary: March 17.

rosemary (rosemary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:10 (twenty-three years ago)

Did you hear that Gareth?

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:18 (twenty-three years ago)

The IRA gets most of its funding from the US; the mere fact that bars such as this one exist shows there is at best a tolerance and at worst a glorification of such things among certain people. I am sad that Americans had to deal with terrorism on their own turf before some of the more bigoted, pointless ones got a picture of how loathsome it is.
I can't deny that there are a few people who romanticize the IRA - I and members of my family found this out when we told friends that one of our cousins was a weapons smuggler - "wow, that's so cool!" But the people who collect money often say it's for some charity. It's more naivete than insensitivity.

Kerry (dymaxia), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:33 (twenty-three years ago)

Mark C, I think the whole point of this thread is that you can say what you want, but for every generalization you make there's going to me a contrarian who says, "Well actually . . . " because of the yearning for recognition of individual freedom and identity and it may get you to refine your statement and perhaps even your thinking?

The whole terror and violence thing is not news to many American immigrants -- all my ancestors dodged bullets, literally, to get here.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:38 (twenty-three years ago)

The IRA gets most of its funding from the US; the mere fact that bars such as this one exist shows there is at best a tolerance and at worst a glorification of such things among certain people.

Sorry if my "because the IRA makes them sad" comment sounded dismissive, Mark, cause it's not how I meant it -- and it wasn't meant to necessarily imply that these borrowed-heritage-Irish folks are anti-IRA, either, but whether they're for it or against it (I've met both), "sad" seems to sum up how they feel. I'm deliberately understating cause I was being dismissive of their feelings: it has never come across to me as genuine sympathy for or outrage at either side, but simply a way to lend drama to one's life by associating oneself with an "exciting" ethnicity.

(And of course, I'm not suggesting Americans shouldn't have any feelings about the IRA, or aren't entitled to them -- I have family in Belfast, so I heard a lot of debate about the IRA from people who'd lived in Ireland long before I was hearing it in the college cafeteria, which might be why I have so little patience for what I see as jaded kids trying to snort an emotional high off of someone else's tragedy.)

Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:41 (twenty-three years ago)

mmm, perhaps we should remember that the IRA is essentially on ceasefire at the moment. All the yankee dollar that used to go to it now flows into the coffers of Sinn Féin, a political party. You may or may not think it a good idea that a political party receives most of its funding from outside the states where it contests elections.

DV (dirtyvicar), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:44 (twenty-three years ago)

so wait pete are you saying you don't kno baran = sheep in polish or are you ignoring said revelation on purpose?

zemko (bob), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:53 (twenty-three years ago)

(i am also polak, i wonder what happened to that lukasz guy on ilm?)

zemko (bob), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:55 (twenty-three years ago)

"I am sad that Americans had to deal with terrorism on their own turf before some of the more bigoted, pointless ones got a picture of how loathsome it is."

Marc C, am I wrong cause it really sounds like you are actually glad that America got its lesson on terrorism.

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 18:57 (twenty-three years ago)

That's not fair at all.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 19:11 (twenty-three years ago)

We need a new thread to siphon off all the hate.

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 19:12 (twenty-three years ago)

I didn't mean to be hateful, I just found the tone of Marc's post a bit condescending. (NB: I have met Marc and I luv him.)

Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 19:37 (twenty-three years ago)

by Frenchifying him? not French-frying, French-ifying. :)

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 20:23 (twenty-three years ago)

I would post some dancing leprechauns to this thread but I don't think nabisco would ever forgive me.

Amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 20:26 (twenty-three years ago)

post some dancing golems instead!

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 20:28 (twenty-three years ago)

i wonder how much Irish-American romanticization of the IRA is really about such people trying to be bad-asses -- in the same vein as suburban kids (of all colors) acting like gangsta rappers? that having a picture of, say, Bobby Sands is like having a picture of Tupac? (that is, the ones who don't go so far as to give money to the IRA)

Tad (llamasfur), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 20:28 (twenty-three years ago)

A bit of-topic, but, am I the only person here, who when she hears or reads the words "Martin Scorsese" immediately hears the "We want to perch on Scorsese's head" line from the Goodfeathers from the Animaniacs? Do I need to check into an institution?

Oh, and I am Danish, Scottish, and either Mexican or Native American or some blending thereof (my great-grandmother had a little affair and my paternal grandmother was the result - the great-grandmother never settled on who it was that she slept with - the story changed based on how much alcohol she had consumed and who was present to listen o the story).

I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 20:33 (twenty-three years ago)

i wonder how much Irish-American romanticization of the IRA is really about such people trying to be bad-asses -- in the same vein as suburban kids (of all colors) acting like gangsta rappers?

What's the Commitments quote? "I'm black and I'm proud"? Yeah. That was how it looked in high school, but that could've just been in response to House of Pain, too.

... not that I'm suggesting HoP were a bunch of actual badasses ...

Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 20:39 (twenty-three years ago)

Am I alone here in knowing nothing of my ethnicity, other than what I guess (with some confidence) from how I look? I was adopted, and know nothing beyond my looking obviously white. Culturally, I was brought up by English parents in England, but I might have Irish or Italian or Polish or whatever roots of which I know nothing.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 21:25 (twenty-three years ago)

I think you're dutch.

RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 21:36 (twenty-three years ago)

Why? It can't be my silky football skills, as you've not seen me play. (I hope it's not going to be something to do with sticking fingers in dykes.)

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 21:45 (twenty-three years ago)

< /Dan Perry>

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 21:45 (twenty-three years ago)

oude goude!!

mark s (mark s), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 22:25 (twenty-three years ago)

No no! When I said I was sad that there was an attack on NY (a massive understatement, as it happens; and I felt the fear, anger and sadness as strongly as I can imagine anyone who wasn't from the country and didn't have friends involved could feel it), and that's what I meant. There was no double meaning there, no snide undercurrent.

I *do* think a number of (though not, I'm sure, a majority of) Americans, from its leaders downwards, did not have a well developed sense of the emotional impact of terrorist activity before September 11th, and I was conjecturing this may now have changed. This, I think, may be a good thing.

Tep, thanks for the explanation. I guess in my ire I didn't really try and understand what you were saying.

What I do apologise for are my insensitive comments about moving onto Al-Qaeda in my first post. It was unnecessary and spiteful, although it was purely an outburst caused by the anger I was feeling once again.

I'm of Italian origin. Perhaps I should have just concentrated on that side of things :)

Mark C (Mark C), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 22:52 (twenty-three years ago)

How much coverage did the Oklahoma City bombing get overseas?

I would say that the Oklahoma Bombing (1994?) was the US's real first-hand taste of large-scale terrorism. They had to retrofit all the federal buildings and tightened up a lot of security measures.

Have they rebuilt the Pentagon yet?

I have a hard time asserting what other individals think, let alone a majority, for reasons I explained upthread. At least this is true for me, I shouldn't speak for others.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:11 (twenty-three years ago)

ha!

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:19 (twenty-three years ago)

what?

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:20 (twenty-three years ago)

are you still mad about the Korean-Ukranian mistreatment of the Ethiopian/American and bartender communities in Wicker Park?

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:22 (twenty-three years ago)

Yes, of course, I wasn't thinking of Oklahoma, apologies. All the same, McVeigh's actions were less politically motivated and more the work of a far-right nutcase with no easily definable intent. The WTC was something different, and far more akin to the work of the IRA. I'm not getting into whether the actions of one are more justified than the other, just that they both occupy the same spectrum.

And yes, they have rebuilt the Pentagon, though I'm not sure if everything is back to normal in that particular section.

Mark C (Mark C), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:24 (twenty-three years ago)

oklahoma got quite a bit of coverage here

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:24 (twenty-three years ago)

"Have they rebuilt the Pentagon yet?"

Yes.

j.lu (j.lu), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:25 (twenty-three years ago)

sorry, can any of our antipodean posters tell us whether all this ethnic background stuff is a special feature of North America or of immigrant societies in general?

DV (dirtyvicar), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:29 (twenty-three years ago)

haha, DV, I am getting a "samey" kind of vibe from Down Under, although I'm sure it's completely different in every way.

felicity (felicity), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:32 (twenty-three years ago)

Tep, thanks for the explanation. I guess in my ire I didn't really try and understand what you were saying.

I'm at least half-flippant (tiltant?) in most of my posts anyway, so it doesn't bother me to clarify when need be :)

Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:50 (twenty-three years ago)

(No, Felicity, I just thought that was cute. I still think the bartender was a valuable experience and hopefully funny to all involved. Plus: twice since then I've said to bartenders "you're just being a dick" and evidently I know how to say it now so that they actually seem to feel a little bad.)

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 5 February 2003 23:55 (twenty-three years ago)

I would just like to announce that I am Irish, Spanish, and Italian. I AM THE MOST POPULAR CULTURAL TOURISTS IN ONE NIFTY PACKAGE! FEAR ME FOR I SHALL RULE YOU ALL WITH MY ABILITY TO SLIP IN AND OUT OF THE BIGGEST CULTURES OF THE WORLD! I just have to marry a dude who is half black, half asian and our children will be the uberrace. TIGER WOODS ARE YOU LISTENING TO ME?

Ally (mlescaut), Thursday, 6 February 2003 03:33 (twenty-three years ago)

nine years pass...

"jersey shore" is an ethnicity in and of itself.
― Tad (llamasfur), Wednesday, February 5, 2003 3:34 AM (9 years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

lol six years before Snooki et al. prescient me.

der Truthahn des Giftes (Eisbaer), Friday, 24 February 2012 16:38 (fourteen years ago)

fuhgeddaboutit

Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Friday, 24 February 2012 17:00 (fourteen years ago)

three years pass...

This is interesting for someone like me who is 2nd generation Irish but who looks more Jewish/Arabic in appearance.

"DNA analysis of the Neolithic woman from Ballynahatty, near Belfast, reveals that she was most similar to modern people from Spain and Sardinia. But her ancestors ultimately came to Europe from the Middle East, where agriculture was invented.
The males from Rathlin Island, who lived not long after metallurgy was introduced, showed a different pattern to the Neolithic woman. A third of their ancestry came from ancient sources in the Pontic Steppe - a region now spread across Russia and Ukraine."

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-35179269

calzino, Tuesday, 29 December 2015 01:17 (ten years ago)

Not many Americans I know are all about bragging up their German ancestry. Hard to imagine why.

a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Tuesday, 29 December 2015 01:41 (ten years ago)

I'd read a few years ago that the main traces were back to modern day Turkey so its not hugely surprising xp

The difficult earlier reichs (darraghmac), Tuesday, 29 December 2015 01:55 (ten years ago)


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