I am so alone."
so have you ever referenced to ILXors to "real people" and had them wonder what the hell you were talking about and if so did you cop to your secret ILX shame?
― James Blount (James Blount), Friday, 28 February 2003 07:12 (twenty-two years ago)
― James Blount (James Blount), Friday, 28 February 2003 07:13 (twenty-two years ago)
― M Matos (M Matos), Friday, 28 February 2003 07:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― boxcubed (boxcubed), Friday, 28 February 2003 07:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris P (Chris P), Friday, 28 February 2003 07:26 (twenty-two years ago)
I explain it sometimes but my enthusiasm for ILX usually provokes a look of shock/pity on the face of whoever I'm explaining it too (the same thing happens when I bring up my fantasy baseball or football teams). I've tried to get friends to post on here to no avail (one of them even voted in the Pazz & Jopp!)
― James Blount (James Blount), Friday, 28 February 2003 07:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― James Blount (James Blount), Friday, 28 February 2003 07:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dave M. (rotten03), Friday, 28 February 2003 09:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Friday, 28 February 2003 10:55 (twenty-two years ago)
Friend: Are you talking to your over-literate indie kids again?Me: Oh, you've got the wrong impression. You just don't understand.Friend: [sideways look], okay, whatever.
― Anna (Anna), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:06 (twenty-two years ago)
― stevem (blueski), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Anna (Anna), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:15 (twenty-two years ago)
― Madchen (Madchen), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:18 (twenty-two years ago)
Also I have had too many conversations with Isabel along the lines of
"Are you in a bad mood?"
"Oh not really"
"What is it?"
"Well, you know the message boards?....."
― Tom (Groke), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:21 (twenty-two years ago)
me: "internet people"
C: "they're not real, you know"
― toby (tsg20), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:22 (twenty-two years ago)
"A friend of mine...[relates fact/story]"
"Oh is this someone you know from work? / Do they live in London? / etc/"
"No Mum they're an Internet Friend" (endures LOOK)
― Tom (Groke), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:22 (twenty-two years ago)
"Are you in a bad mood?""Internet kobold" "How awful!"
― mark s (mark s), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Friday, 28 February 2003 11:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Mark C (Mark C), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pete (Pete), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:22 (twenty-two years ago)
Toby - C knows I am real! Oh God, I'm starting to doubt my existence, it's like the Matrix, but worse.
― Anna (Anna), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:32 (twenty-two years ago)
(why do people forgive the big glaring plot hole in the Matress just because it has slowed down bullet nonsense in it).
― Pete (Pete), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:46 (twenty-two years ago)
because it has slowed down bullet nonsense in it!!!!
― Cozen (Cozen), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― Anna (Anna), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:51 (twenty-two years ago)
those werent sideways looks! those were audible comments like "indie losers";)*
*i have never read sinister)
― gareth (gareth), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― Cozen (Cozen), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pete (Pete), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:56 (twenty-two years ago)
yeah!
carsmile also told me abt the sinister-ILM connection in the karaoke FAP. very dodgy.
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Friday, 28 February 2003 12:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― Cozen (Cozen), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:02 (twenty-two years ago)
― Graham (graham), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:10 (twenty-two years ago)
Ha ha I have done this too. It's kind of embarassing.
― Nicole (Nicole), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:13 (twenty-two years ago)
This place is known to my friends and family as "The Discussion Group" which is good in a Canadian government panel kind of way. It sounds serious. Because of the phenomenon Tom accurately describes above I always preface thing-friend-told-me with "on the Discussion Group", or something like that, in order 1) to avoid said phenomenon and get it right out there and 2) to remind myself that I am actually a mentalist.
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:13 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:14 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dr. C (Dr. C), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:15 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nicole (Nicole), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:17 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:17 (twenty-two years ago)
― Cozen (Cozen), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pete (Pete), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pete (Pete), Friday, 28 February 2003 13:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― Madchen (Madchen), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:02 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:08 (twenty-two years ago)
But anyway, yes, I def need to start saying online cult instead.
― Sarah MCLUsky (coco), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:11 (twenty-two years ago)
2) I really think that "the look" i.e. how people react to how we talk about what we do has a lot to do with our own opinion of what we do, and our expectations of others i.e. if I say (as I do) "oh there's this guy named mark who hangs out on the same discussion board as I do and has all sorts of interesting things to say about influence" and present it like that: as concisely as I can, with the point being what mark has to say or what I had to say in reply, then it doesn't wind up sounding as weird as it does if I myself think it's weird.
that's probably massively unclear, but there's nothing for it, my sleep schedule is all messed up and communication is suffering for it
― J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:28 (twenty-two years ago)
Have a word, eh?
― N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:30 (twenty-two years ago)
*nearly suffocates trying not to laugh out loud in v quiet office
several friends of mine in oxford thought tom was imaginary for quite a while and i was just going and sitting in the pub on my own...
― CarsmileSteve (CarsmileSteve), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:38 (twenty-two years ago)
― Archel (Archel), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:39 (twenty-two years ago)
o god that's funny
― J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― CarsmileSteve (CarsmileSteve), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Cozen (Cozen), Friday, 28 February 2003 14:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 February 2003 16:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 February 2003 16:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― felicity (felicity), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:09 (twenty-two years ago)
Person: "So how do you two know each other?"Boyfriend and I, simultaneously: "MUTUAL FRIENDS."Person: "You met on the internet."Boyfriend (sheepishly): "Um, yeah."Me: "But through mutual internet friends!"
― Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:40 (twenty-two years ago)
Classic: having to explain why Dan is a bad mang every time I burst out laughing and exclaim "ASS PLATTER" every time I see a bar of soap now, until the end of time.
― Sean Carruthers (SeanC), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:48 (twenty-two years ago)
I think it was the one who designs the Golden Tee games but I am not positive. He walked quickly into the kitchen right afterwards.
― felicity (felicity), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:48 (twenty-two years ago)
Hey, wait a min-- I think I have just been insulted!
― felicity (felicity), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Friday, 28 February 2003 17:53 (twenty-two years ago)
I can't imagine Golden Tee friend would have cared, unless you said something like "we met on the internet" (=dating services and yahoo chat rooms) as opposed to "we post to the same message board." Message boards are "dorky" as opposed to "weird," and seeing as he makes video games for a living he's in no position to sneer at "dorky."
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― mitch lastnamewithheld (mitchlnw), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)
I am filled with fear. There's another one?
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― mitch lastnamewithheld (mitchlnw), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:40 (twenty-two years ago)
I have found the key difference.
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Mandee, Friday, 28 February 2003 18:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 18:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:04 (twenty-two years ago)
― duane, Friday, 28 February 2003 19:08 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:09 (twenty-two years ago)
Why did I know you would be the one?
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:11 (twenty-two years ago)
Okay, it's clearly Friday because I can't get past the above sentence.
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:14 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:15 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Friday, 28 February 2003 19:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:17 (twenty-two years ago)
(still I don't think either of us could take felicity - she's tough.)
― hstencil, Friday, 28 February 2003 19:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― gygax! (gygax!), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:21 (twenty-two years ago)
...Hello? Anyone?
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:22 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:27 (twenty-two years ago)
*cue Eon riff*
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:27 (twenty-two years ago)
gygax! - SB practice is Thursday night, not Tuesday night.
― hstencil, Friday, 28 February 2003 19:27 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Friday, 28 February 2003 19:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:37 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:38 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 February 2003 19:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 28 February 2003 20:04 (twenty-two years ago)