semi surreal casual racism - dud, or dud and it does yer fukcing head in a bit as well?

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i am in this little shop this morning, buying something. The female half of the couple who own said shop is serving me. There is a beep from outside, like as in car horn. The womyn says to me, in a sort-of resigned voice - "they want it all their own way, don't they. They just want everybody to get out of their way". I had no idea what she was on about until she elaborated "the pak!s". The husband comes in. It turns out that he has parked his car across a lane entrance, and the (anglo-asian) driver of another car has beeped his horn at him, because he'd rather he moved out of the way than reverse down a narrow and twisting lane. In the minds of the people from the shop, this is because he is a "p/-\ki", to use their term. I was kind of freaked out by this, and all I could think of say was "i don't think race is a factor in how good a driver you are". I know that at nearly 40 I should be able to tune stupidity like this out, but it annoys me, and in this instance, the sheer incongruity of it sort of threw me a bit. Sorry, I know I've gone on about stuff like this before, but it bothers me a bit. The casual nature of it, the illogic, and the fact that they assumed b/c i'm white, that i'd agree with them perhaps? How many people think similar stuff? These people aren't even old. They lost a customer to-day, anyway.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 08:27 (twenty-two years ago)

word.

mark grout (mark grout), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:30 (twenty-two years ago)

Is this a common thing up-Northernwards? I remember being shocked, the first time that we played Manchester, we went to a chippie down the street after the gig, which seemed to be run/staffed by Asians. As we were waiting for our chips, this gaggle of young men came in, and, as they were ordering, just let loose this barage of racist bile. The counterstaff seemed to just ignore them, as if this were the sort of thing that just happened every day, didn't try to chuck them out of the shop or anything. We didn't know what to do. On one hand, we just felt this cringing embarrassment, but on the other hand, the lads were obviously very drunk and we didn't want to get our heads kicked in for saying "oi, mate, you're out of order". It was very very strange.

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:34 (twenty-two years ago)

it's not that common, except with older people in my experience. We don't get much in the way of organised racism, for example. obviously things are different in the north west, and parts of yorkshire that are in the news. as a kind of counter-example, the only place i've seen hardcore skinheads in racist/fascist regalia was in london (albeit abt 10 yrs ago)

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:39 (twenty-two years ago)

uh, no. First of all, you're 40 and you still spell 'woman' with a Y. gimme a break. It's 'W-O-M-A-N.'Second, these exact sort of liberal knee-jerk responses to what you call racism is ruining this country more than racism itself. Of course your waitress was ignorant, but do you really think your self righteous expression of white guilt is going to have the slightest effect on her? She'll just think you're an insufferable asshole and go on believing what she was conditioned to believe, as you go on to believe what YOU were conditioned to believe. Get over yourself.

roger adultery (roger adultery), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:40 (twenty-two years ago)

attitudes like the woman in the shop's need to be challenged as they are lazy, ignorant and misguided. i have no problem with pashmina raising it as an issue here.

stevem (blueski), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:43 (twenty-two years ago)

"liberal response to racism worse than racism?"

"waitress?"

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:46 (twenty-two years ago)

I don't really get roger's point. She might well think he's an insuferrable asshole, but the more people refuse to go along with her, the more she thinks it's normal plain speaking. She'd probably be surprised by how many of her customers find her hatred repugnant. And thick as she might be, she's surely going to catch on if she never sees those people back in her shop.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:49 (twenty-two years ago)

Totally disagree with roger, who be on da pipe this morning by the looks of things. Or angry trucker speed, who knows? Norman (ooh Norman, he called you a LIBERAL! Duck and cover!) completely right to tell them off, just as I was right to tell off the woman who ran the lettings agency in New York and was whining about towelheads (post Gulf War I) while she waited for me to sign paperwork and hand over $150 registration fee. She's still fucking waiting. I will not support small business owners who I hear using racist language, and I have a lot of friends who take the same action.

There are two ways racists stop being racists: they meet someone of another race that they bond with and get over it, or they DIE.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 09:59 (twenty-two years ago)

i agree with N and suzy but also harbour a dislike of the word 'womyn' which to be honest is fairly irrelevant to the discussion so i'm not sure why it was brought up

the surface noise (electricsound), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:00 (twenty-two years ago)

Pash uses a lot of odd spellings, I don't see anyone complaining about those.

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:02 (twenty-two years ago)

I use womyn for the same reason i use ov or thee. i just like odd spellings.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:04 (twenty-two years ago)

'the more she thinks it's normal plain speaking' should read 'the less she thinks it's normal plain speaking', sense fans.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:05 (twenty-two years ago)

Nothing to do with TOPY, Norman?

If you're white prole scum wearing this season's shoulder-chip, I don't really care about hurting your feelings or making you feel like I'm some kind of asshole because I've had the audacity to correct your lunatic ravings in public. Plus, you're also giving me a free portion of misogyny with your racism because you will inevitably be pissed off because SOME GURL has corrected you in front of your equally stupid mates. Also when I hear 'Pak!' as a term of abuse, I've often asked the person what part of Pakistan the object of the insult is from. They are often stumped, especially if the answer is actually India or Somers Town or something. Also popular around Brick Lane: 'actually Bangladesh hasn't been called East Pakistan since '71, you knob. Get over yourself.'

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:10 (twenty-two years ago)

e, er i used to be a bit of a ptv fan in the past, yes.

the term "white liberal guilt" is a great signifier, isn't it? out of the three words, only the first applies to me. I don't feel guilty because someone else who happens to share skin pigmentation w/me acts stupid. Not ever, I just feel annoyed because a/stupidity is annoying and b/said person is taking me into their confidence b/c they think i share their views about this MERELY BECAUSE I SHARE THEIR BLOODY SKIN PIGMENTATION.

Plus, what is this littlejohnish b/s world where complaining abt racists is actually worse than racism? That's fucking insane, that is.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:21 (twenty-two years ago)

OK, I'm going to be devil's advocate for a while...

Plus, what is this littlejohnish b/s world where complaining abt racists is actually worse than racism?

Not necessarily the same thing, but it can be just as bad.

When I was about nine or ten, one of the other mothers of the class decided to forbid her daughter from playing with me or going to my house because "Kate's parents are South African. That means that they are racist." The *assumption* that my family were racist due to their former nationality was a racist assumption.

That said, I think you *can* assume that someone using racial slurs *is* probably a racist. So my little story does not apply in this case... Anyway!

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:32 (twenty-two years ago)

if someone is assuming you want to listen to their racist babble, you should assume they are open to correction.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:36 (twenty-two years ago)

If they give their opinion, you should be able to give yours.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:37 (twenty-two years ago)

Fucking hell, Kate: I thought they left SA because they didn't like apartheid all that much.

Apparently according to l'Etranger here, nobody likes a complainer, Norman, it totally fucks with the status quo.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:37 (twenty-two years ago)

well that used to annoy me in the '80's, where there was this indie rekkid called "we hate all you white south african bastards" or something like that, and it always struck me as one of the dumbest soundbites, like, ever.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:38 (twenty-two years ago)

funnily enough calum raised a similar point to pashmina's a while back when he mentioned how incensed he felt that a fellow white Scotsman was making dubious remarks about Jewish people expecting our dearly departed pet fiend to agree, which he didn't, of course.

stevem (blueski), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:40 (twenty-two years ago)

The irony being that my parents said that the racism they saw in Fairfield County, CT - where these remarks were made - was possibly worse in some aspects than the racism they were fleeing in SA.

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:40 (twenty-two years ago)

Norman that record was by Microdisney and you're not the first person I've seen remembering the word "white" in the title when it wasn't there. It seem to happen fairly often, which is interesting (to me, at least).

Kate: in what aspects was it worse?

Tim (Tim), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:42 (twenty-two years ago)

what a relief to know Microdisney only discriminate against nationalitites and not actual races...

stevem (blueski), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:43 (twenty-two years ago)

i didn't know you were familiar with Microdisney's work, stevem.

the surface noise (electricsound), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:46 (twenty-two years ago)

I know what Kate means about posh WASP enclaves with their covenants and tendency toward having 'service' provided by brown persons on reverse commute. But there are TONS of places like this.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:47 (twenty-two years ago)

I watched the fabulous "Stone Tape" the other day (a ghost story by the guy that wrote Quatermass etc). It's about a bunch of electronics boffins trying to steal a march on "the japs" and at one point there is a buttock-clenchingly awful "impression" when a guy puts some white paper in his upper lip to look like giant white upper-teeth and guffs out a stream of engrish-type hilarity.

It was originally broadcast in 72 and is thankfully over very quickly, but it does annoy, when it's totally incidental to the story which is otherwise masterfully told and had me quite goosebumpy at the start of the final sequence.

Alan (Alan), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:48 (twenty-two years ago)

err Microdisney's first LP was called "Everyone Is Fantastic" and I don't think we were supposed to take that title uncritically either.

Tim (Tim), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:48 (twenty-two years ago)

"Everybody Is Fantastic", pedantry fans.

Also when WHYSAB was reissued on Creation, it was called "Love Your Enemies", similarly irony-riddled.

Tim (Tim), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:50 (twenty-two years ago)

I have a problem with this at work, the problem being when people say stupid racist shit I can't really do anything about it because it's a small office and I have to work with these people every day, and most of them have been here longer than me. We were talking about Mexican restaurants last week, and this girl (who is about my age, she's 26) said, "I just can't go in those places anymore, because of the dirty Mexicans." She's constantly talking about the "dirty Mexicans" in her apartment complex too. She says it in front of the boss and everyone else in the company. And she's part Latino too, which makes it weirder to me, though I guess a lot of Latin Americans and South Americans look down on Mexicans.

NA (Nick A.), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:50 (twenty-two years ago)

The first example I remember of the shockingness of CT racism (obviously this is filtered through a child's reccollections) was that our boy scout troup (which my mum ran) had two black children in it, even though they lived way across town. Why couldn't they just join a scout troup closer to home? Apparently, none of the other mothers would *have* black kids in their scout troups.

OK, this individual example is not "worse than South Africa" on a scale of racism, but it was just such shocking to see racism applied on a social and economic scale the same as if it were institutionalised. Having racism out in the open makes it much easier to fight or combat. Having covert and hypocritical racism seems just so much more insidious.

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 10:53 (twenty-two years ago)

Microdisney, yes! I actually typed out the correct title, but added the "white", b/c i thought i must be remembering it wrong. My memory says microdisney were pretty good, though it's been a long time since I heard them. The record title seemed dumb at the time, though perhaps there was irony there that sails/sailed right over my head.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:01 (twenty-two years ago)

white prole scum

mmmm, this kind of middle-class elitism is barely better than racism or misogyny. i am the aforementioned "prole scum" and am pretty offended by this - anyhow, i´m on a deadline so am not going to get too deep into this.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:07 (twenty-two years ago)

meaning to say not all "proles" = "scum"
some of us are pretty clever, reasonable people...

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:08 (twenty-two years ago)

Roger - what the fuck are you on? 'Ruining this country'. This kind of language has peculiar resonances.

I know that at nearly 40 I should be able to tune stupidity like this out

Absolutely not - the sooner everyone calls racists what they are the better.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:13 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm pretty happy to classify my mum and sis as white prole scum if they are being racist, which they have been on many occasions.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:14 (twenty-two years ago)

obviously racism should be called out every time it´s heard (imho, preferably accompanied by a swift kick to the knackers or poke on the nose) and roger has clearly gone strak raving mental, but i do get a bit ticked off that it´s considered totally acceptable to voice one´s class prejudices, particularly in the context of a thread about how repellent other forms of bigotry are.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:18 (twenty-two years ago)

Stelfox- I agree.

I don't understand the association you're making between class and racism. Some 'proles' -- and I've heard that used with such hate that it can never for me be 'descriptive -- are racist; but so are many of the middle class, even if they don't use racist language.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:20 (twenty-two years ago)

Suzy - but why PROLE scum? Why bring the class thing into it at all?

Does 'prole' ever get used except as a derogatory term for working-class people?

(xpost with Enrique)

Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:22 (twenty-two years ago)

Are said persons scum because they are proles, or scum because they are racist? Or is the assumption (bad assumption!) that proles are necessarily racists?

Argh.

It is Friday afternoon, I still have a residual hangover, and we're talking about racism, classism and sexism. TOO HEAVY!!! TOO HEAVY!!!

I'm off to go hang out on the crush threads or something. Nigel, save me.

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:25 (twenty-two years ago)

The 'prole scum' is typical of suzy, unfortunately. I don't know why she does it. I guess in her mind you're only a prole if you act in scummy ways, but I don't really think you can drop the class-based meaning of the word just like that.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:25 (twenty-two years ago)

In the same way there's some good ol' black boys who aint niggers.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:26 (twenty-two years ago)

exactly: the words "white" and "scum" aint at issue here as both are correct. however, using "prole" as a perjorative is pretty problematic. then again, working in the media in london, it´s easy to forget that working-class people exist, have a voice or are capable of the slightest modicum of intelligence (unless that´s your background).

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:27 (twenty-two years ago)

< / stelfox´s class war >

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:28 (twenty-two years ago)

"Prole" is the opposite of "elitist"? ;)

Mark C (Mark C), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:29 (twenty-two years ago)

Yes, the only time we see Proles round Bloomsbury/Clerkenwell area is when we're hunting them! With foxes!

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:31 (twenty-two years ago)

(I shd say that as a northern prole myself {though i prefer peasant} i don't have a problem w/suzy's use of the term. I know what she's on about) apropos of nothing, except perhaps as a datum or something.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:32 (twenty-two years ago)

(+++ sorry for k-heaviness k8! all i did was report on s.th that annoyed me this a m and how it made me feel, and look what happened!!)

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:34 (twenty-two years ago)

N - funny, i was going to mention Chris Rock's skit about 'you got the black people...then you got the niggers'

stevem (blueski), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:34 (twenty-two years ago)

(Soz, is OK, Pash, it's not so much this thread that got my goat as the "equal pay" thread and the whole "oh, it's OK to have pay disparities between the genders because women don't work as hard or as long as men, what with them all running off and having babies, I mean, lifestyle choices" argument, but maybe I'm being oversensitive cause, like, it might be My Time Of The Month or maybe my biological clock is ticking or summit...)

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:37 (twenty-two years ago)

We were talking about Mexican restaurants last week, and this girl (who is about my age, she's 26) said, "I just can't go in those places anymore, because of the dirty Mexicans." She's constantly talking about the "dirty Mexicans" in her apartment complex too. She says it in front of the boss and everyone else in the company. And she's part Latino too, which makes it weirder to me, though I guess a lot of Latin Americans and South Americans look down on Mexicans.

The nerve of the person! "Dirty Mexicans" my ass. You're more likely to run into a snobbish and loud Mexican who cannot stand one speck of dirt on their perfectly coiffured hair than a "dirty Mexican". Geez Louise, if you're going to stereotype, at least use an updated stereotype! ;)

No really, though, what this person said is deeply offensive, especially to people such as myself, but I'm not really going to waste my time or energy being angry at her. She's just highly ignorant, and the rest of Latin America isn't exactly better than Mexico anyway, which is at least a "second world" country that is, like India and Malaysia, in the midst of their own Industrial Revolution. "Dirty Mexican" -- hah. "Macho, Posturing Mexican" would be more accurate. *laughs*

Many Coloured Halo (Dee the Lurker), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:40 (twenty-two years ago)

This kind of ties in with a thread over on ILM that turned (via Carmody) into a joust about the 'new establishment' and its lack of racism (ie Ms Dynamite being loved by the Telegraph, etc). Despite this kind of progress (tentative anyway) there seems more than ever to be open season on the white poor.
For some reason the new establishment media is actually much more socially homogenous (ie liberal white South Eastern) than it was 50 years ago (in the age of big local papers whose leading lights would work their way into Fleet Street - though obv. back then they were mostly male and all white), and words like 'prole' creep in.

Say what you like about Julie Burchill, at least she's called people on this.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:49 (twenty-two years ago)

oh, and i´d better point out that the shoulder chip is never just this season´s for us "proles": comments like suzy´s make sure they stay in style.
one pretty important point to add is that, sadly, it´s human nature for the disenfranchised/disenchanted to want to find someone to look down on, too (refernce my comments on threads abt dancehall and homophobia) and as long as class prejudice is considered acceptable, racism and misogyny will thrive among blue-collar white people.
you don´t exactly have to be noam chomsky to work out that loaded words like "prole" carry a very special set of negative associations, but the knock-on effect of such attitudes is easy to underestimate.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 11:51 (twenty-two years ago)

Prole = C2DE. That's a big chunk of my background. All racists are scum, Norman's racists were white and were proles. No more, no less - and I'm disappointed in N. for having the audacity to guess at what is in my mind and SHARE with the group.

Dave's point about people who feel disenfranchised picking on the even less privileged is spot on, but I don't have respect for people who perpetuate a cycle of bullying whatever their parents did or where they come from. It makes me more, not less, likely to label a bully-in-turn stupid, scummy or both. It obscures the more pernicious racist elements in the governing/corporate classes who like it that brown people are even cheaper to run than paranoid working white folks who can't follow puppet strings to their logical end.

I think it's relevant to point out that racism is actioned differently by different social classes in most cases. The rich/influential racist makes policy and economic choices which benefit whites (see: slavery, sweatshops, Colonialism, 'let's call 'em asylum seekers' etc.); the middle classes are the ones in management roles who can't quite see why they have to change the syllabus (or be changed by the syllabus) or give the job to someone better qualified than their white golf buddy eg. institutionalised racism; the working/prole/tabloid classes throw the words around and the blows, too, and are made stupid and paranoid by the better educated and better paid, who become the people electing BNP councillors. They are utter TOOLS in every sense of the word. Obviously there are some examples of crossover behaviour but largely I believe this structuring to be correct.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:01 (twenty-two years ago)

I still don't see why it was relevant to stick prole next to scummy in this case, suzy. Was it because pashmina was talking about a shopkeeper (who he said actually co-owns the shop so won't be 'C2DE' anyway)? I don't see how the rest of your post has anything with class - I'm sure you wouldn't let a middle class racist get away with saying things like that either.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:12 (twenty-two years ago)

Suzy It does work, but it changes in emphasis. In your thing the racism in the top tiers is 'at a distance'; the working class racism not. The point is that 'the middle class' != 'the managerial class' - there's the mass of people, or a vast bulk, between these poles, and their racism is what I think the first post here was on about - I dunno 'lower middle class' or something. Your structure leaves out the people between tabloid readers and golf players - ie the Daily Mail readers (and actually Guardian readers). They won't vote BNP, but they aren't comfortable in odern Britain.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:13 (twenty-two years ago)

i can't work out quite how suzy decided that the couple pashmina encountered *were* "C2DE" based on the information he imparted (small shop selling what?): that assumption seems to me the dangerpoint in her argt, which leads to the reading that she's using "prole" purely negatively (which i take it - since it applies to herself and her own background, minnesota white working class - she in fact isn't) (that said, it's not a usage i like, not least bcz it's one of abt ten million words in brit english which is used to obfuscate class, cultural and economic, rather than clarify) (i don't like ABCDE either)

x-post w. n

mark s (mark s), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:13 (twenty-two years ago)

haha also i don't like "middleclass", which i think is the least illuminating word of ALL!!

mark s (mark s), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:14 (twenty-two years ago)

*starts impenetrable argt abt how the ambiguity of the term 'petit bourgeouis' in classical marxism is necessary, as the crux point of hegelian motion*

mark s (mark s), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:16 (twenty-two years ago)

suzy, i´m not having a dig at you per se, but you do say this sort of thing quite a bit. looking down on people from a slighty higher social vantage point is a dangerous thing to do. my family (not my old man or my mum, i hasten to add) regularly come out with all manner or shite like norman´s describing, but it´s not because they´re "proles". it´s because they´ve not had the same opportunities to open their eyes as me. they´re in that position where people like richard littlejohn actually MAKE SENSE and reactionary, racist opinions breed fastest. Using words like "prole" in this context (pushing working-class people further into the dirt) make wankers like him (with all his points about "bleeding heart liberals" and "the metropolitan elite") appear all the more valid and pertinent and the kind of attitudes toward the mass of the british population displayed by the liberal media actively help these ideologies to grow.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:18 (twenty-two years ago)

"The English have, in addition to their bourgeoisie, a bourgeois aristocracy and a bourgeois working class" — Confused of Manchester

mark s (mark s), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:23 (twenty-two years ago)

"bourgeois working class"

i guess that´s what i am!

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:24 (twenty-two years ago)

Mark: Nail: Head

Class:Cultural:Economic

Bourgeois != 'Middle Class'

But - hey, perhaps things have changed a leetle since 1844?

Friedrich E (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:25 (twenty-two years ago)

I am lumpen prole aristocracy! Woo!

kate (kate), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:28 (twenty-two years ago)

i used to think i knew what "middle-class" meant. then i moved to London!!

Norman's post is a great one. it reminds me VERY much of elevator convos among almost universally "older" men about wanting to bend the secretary over the back of a chair, etc and feeling expected to grin and join in. ladies you would not BELIEVE what guys will say to each other about you. but if you ever actually get down with one of them and their mate's like "so how was it??" you'd be amazed at how quickly they change the subject!!

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:28 (twenty-two years ago)

God, bourgeoise working class! Unvarnished truth stares you in the face sometimes! I am going to refer to myself thusly in future. if the cap fits blah blah blah.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:28 (twenty-two years ago)

anyway i´m going to have to catch my bus now to go sightseeing - was just killing time. am going to write article on iceland called "day in the life of a geyser"!

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:28 (twenty-two years ago)

Declasse = k-classic

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:30 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm still trying to figure out in what way this conversation was surreal because this is what I assume 75% of conversations amongst "homogenous" groups of people about people outside of their group to be like. ("Homogenous" is not restricted to race, of course; I have recently been examining things that I regularly say about people whom I have decided are "not smart" to associates whom I consider "smart" and have ended up horrifying myself.)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:38 (twenty-two years ago)

(IOW human being denigrating the "other" to the "similar" SHOCKAH)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:39 (twenty-two years ago)

one thing that's changed since 1844 (in the UK) = mass literacy

(he said, casually chucking the elephant in the room into the stagnant pol-economy millpond)

mark s (mark s), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:40 (twenty-two years ago)

Also to suzy's post that touched off the class debate, growing up I noticed a very strong tendency amongst upper-Midwest "alternakid" culture to be very nice and accepting of someone until that person commits some cardinal sin, at which point EVERY ASPECT of that person's life is open for ridicule and denigration with extreme prejudice with the implicit undertanding that the ire is individualized to the recipient, not generalized.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:43 (twenty-two years ago)

what seemed "surreal" to me wasn't the iow human being denigrating the "other" thing, it was the fact that somebody beeping their car horn b/c they wanted another driver to move out of the way was taken as some kind of obvious racial quirk!

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:45 (twenty-two years ago)

Mark - For serious. Not doubting ya. And democracy. And organized labour. The car. The telephone. The bicycle even. Pop music. World war. Chilled beer. Association football. The interweb. The Pill. Great days!

Dan - It's the language, but also the assumption a) about race and b) that other whites will appreciate a). It's surreal because it's relatively unusual behaviour (among ILX0rs) and because, I dunno, it seems so... odd. An odd thing to say, since as a racial assumption it's a bit receherche. It's not one I've heard.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:45 (twenty-two years ago)

Haha note to London ILXors: If you don't want to hear all sorts of illogical, nonsensical behaviors attributed to ethnic groups seemingly at random, DO NOT MOVE TO BOSTON.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:47 (twenty-two years ago)

(Um where I said "London" plz substitute "UK" thx)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:47 (twenty-two years ago)

that substitution is totally unacceptable and offensive dan

mark s (mark s), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:50 (twenty-two years ago)

Dan, I really hope you don't mean that the alternakids called you something nasty the first time you didn't fall in line with them, that's gross. My friends would probably call someone an asshole if they broke a 'rule' and the 'distancing' you speak of rubbished a person's aesthetic choices or dumber ideas in most cases, so we were a little more astute than that (see really great Pete Scholtes spoken-word history of First Avenue on City Pages site w/Matos contributions).

Mark: perhaps, but my mum is a shopkeeper with an additional staff of one, who she is related to, so roughly the same as Norman's racists, who if they rent the shop are prob C2 (my mum ownz, but she has the same attitudes from her renting days, meaning she does tend to think all nonwhites come with a How's My Driving? sticker). The only thing owning tells people like this is that they are now 'rich' enough to have all their money taken by the government to feed the Other's crack babies. Working class bourgeoisie: on a wage, not a salary.

I am entitled to harsh on people who share my background but haven't got a clue about race relations; again, they are stupid tools. My anger at these people for knowing no better is bound up in tons of frustration (and having to pick around some pretty entrenched racisms at home where yeah, you do have to tell my mom that classy people don't use the N word but only when all else fails). I'm not likely to go, poor diddums, he didn't have the education or eye-opening moment or enough motivation to change because this is a very simple right/wrong issue.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:54 (twenty-two years ago)

Dan, I really hope you don't mean that the alternakids called you something nasty the first time you didn't fall in line with them, that's gross.

No, not what I meant at all. There were still some things that were taboo (ie no race-baiting unless you were a scummy gutterpunk whom no one liked anyway), but in general once someone proved to be an asshole it was pretty much open season on them. (This may have been more prevalent in Hastings than in other areas where a social shunning really hurt because no one socialized with people who lived outside of School District #200.)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 12:58 (twenty-two years ago)

Enrique, but Norman's racist wasn't actually making any sort of serious statement about Asian people being impatient drivers, but articulating her resentment by pinning the nearest available negative association onto the object of racial hatred. Whether or not Asian men *are* more impatient is beside the point, she would have said exactly the same thing had the person in question been spitting on the pavement/refusing to work on Holy Days/killing the Queens swans/knowingly giving HIV to women. It's a classic Sun/Mail trick, obviously.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 17 October 2003 13:00 (twenty-two years ago)

It occurs to me in retrospect that another surreal thing (for me) is that I have never heard these people use such talk before. That is part of what weirded me out about it, it was kind of out of the blue.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 13:05 (twenty-two years ago)

Matt - that's what I mean, that's part of how's it's 'surreal'; there are more standard racist tropes that wd be just plain offensive. This combines being offensive with being -- odd.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 13:09 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm shocked that someone made it to nearly age 40 with this being the worst example of racism they've ever encountered.

bnw (bnw), Friday, 17 October 2003 13:32 (twenty-two years ago)

False assumption, bnw.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 13:46 (twenty-two years ago)

It's not about it being the 'worst' - it's partly that the UK has moved on a lot in, well, roughly the last decade I guess.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 13:51 (twenty-two years ago)

yes i took pashmina's quandary to be as follows: "ok there is toxic racism (to be reacted against in clear manner as all agree) and merely silly racism (pashmina's example), or is it in fact a mistake to make such a distinction?"

mark s (mark s), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:07 (twenty-two years ago)

Sorry if I assumed incorrectly. I guess I was gauging it on the level of outrage which seems a little disproportionate to what I'd expect.

I think there is a distinction. The more 'toxic' tends to have more immediate and violent consequences. But the subtle kind is possibly more dangerous because it is more liekly to be overlooked and more difficult to stamp out.

bnw (bnw), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:14 (twenty-two years ago)

To be honest I was less shocked by the initial post than by the crazed response:

Of course your waitress was ignorant, but do you really think your self righteous expression of white guilt is going to have the slightest effect on her?

Like, wtf? 'White guilt'? Not being racist as 'self-righteousness'? Say what?

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:17 (twenty-two years ago)

Well, it does sound like an example of liberal white man getting a chance to don his righteous cape.

bnw (bnw), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:22 (twenty-two years ago)

bnw, it's just something that happened to me this morning that annoyed me a bit. I am not a "liberal", and i am not interested in "righteousness", so stop barking up the wrong tree, at least as far as what i feel is concerned.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:25 (twenty-two years ago)

Maybe this is an across-the-ocean thing but I can't see any hint of self-righteousness in Norman's post.

Tim (Tim), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:33 (twenty-two years ago)

What I really want to know is did she actually say "pak!s" with a clicking consonant?

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:47 (twenty-two years ago)

I think what bugs me about the example is that for subtle racism, its pretty obvious. I think that with discussions like these everyone rushes to identifiy them in the right and seems so eager to demonstrate how offended they would be at such a comment. Yet I think subtle racism is more intertwined in our politcal beliefs then we'd care to admit. I guess Norman's example was a step away from the typical racist strawman, but not far enough where it would challenge any typical ILXor. (Which wasn't his point, and is mainly a huge extrapolation on my part, but thats where I was coming from.)

bnw (bnw), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:47 (twenty-two years ago)

I'd always say something to a person who made a racist comment, because to let it pass would a) make me very uncomfortable and angry and b) complicit. I'm reliving too much of my recent US trip here, where I had to shoot this sort of talk down every day because members of my family were engaging in it, and the same person brought me up 'everyone's equal' *not* racist. At least it wasn't passed on to me.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 14:53 (twenty-two years ago)

I'd always say something to a person who made a racist comment, because to let it pass would a) make me very uncomfortable and angry and b) complicit

Eggs-ackley. Suzy -- didn't you mention the Isle of Man? That's even worse there. The reason the ferry is so slow is because you are travelling back in time to the pre-Windrush era. God. Never again.

Enrique (Enrique), Friday, 17 October 2003 15:00 (twenty-two years ago)

Meanwhile, I've by-and-large stopped saying stuff to people who make racist comments because I feel like I've been Black Ambassador To White People for pretty much my entire life and I'm really fucking tired of it.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 15:03 (twenty-two years ago)

(I just reread the previous and realized that that is a complete lie; I'm just nice about my correction rather than nasty. Also, if the racism is due to ignorance and not malice, does shunning the person who displays it teach them that what they're saying is wrong more effectively than disproving their words with your presence?)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 17 October 2003 15:04 (twenty-two years ago)

Much like I've felt like Sane Ambassador to the Insane?

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 15:09 (twenty-two years ago)

Dan, the serious answer to the ignorance/malice thing is, at least for me, to ask the person what they meant by what they said.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 15:10 (twenty-two years ago)

Suzy, Dan´s making sense here. But I´ve got to say something now. Having read similar posts from you on other threads (from restaurants to music to God knows what else), the "prole" comment was absolutely typical and I´m sorry to say it – as much as I agree with you on many things (even this issue at base level) – you´re one hell of a snob.
Re. "I'm not likely to go, poor diddums, he didn't have the education or eye-opening moment or enough motivation to change because this is a very simple right/wrong issue."
You know bloody well that wasn´t what I was saying at all.
Call people on racism/bigotry of any kind – it needs doing and I´ll stand right by you, provided you´re not using that person´s screwed up logic as little more than a convenient peg to hang your perceived personal social/intellectual superiority upon.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Friday, 17 October 2003 16:09 (twenty-two years ago)

Since I don't actually consider myself better than anyone, that's a bit silly.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 October 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)

mark -- richard wright makes the same arg. about mass literacy in American Hunger. any relation in ideas?

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 18 October 2003 04:54 (twenty-two years ago)

sterling no, i didn't know that

mark s (mark s), Saturday, 18 October 2003 05:52 (twenty-two years ago)

its a real compelling section of the book, which is fantastic mainly. (he does come off a bit self-righteous, more and less justifiably at difft. times) abt. the difference between russia and america and methods partially being that ppl. from poverty and etc. can learn to read in america.

relates to some of gramsci's arguments in "americanism and fordism". also (obv) perry anderson's Imagined Communities.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 18 October 2003 06:03 (twenty-two years ago)

three years pass...
1) black staff member says she imagines recently broken-up white staff member with "a big black man"
2) this exchange is recounted in wider group
3) white temp says maybe male black temp has some friends who could hook white staff member up (ie with a big black man)
4) deathly silence

the original hauntology blogging crew (Enrique), Friday, 26 January 2007 16:15 (eighteen years ago)

one year passes...

5) profit

blueski, Tuesday, 1 July 2008 14:52 (seventeen years ago)

Can someone remind me what Roger's real name was? I have this fear that I might one day wind up writing/talking about his music without remembering which one is him.

nabisco, Tuesday, 1 July 2008 16:36 (seventeen years ago)

DAD: There we go. The beginning of the end... points to menu items spelled out in Spanish
ME: What, you can't put second languages on an IHOP menu? Guess we had better print the whole thing in Cherokee.
DAD: What's going to have then? A picture of an omlette with UGH underneath it?

Pleasant Plains, Tuesday, 1 July 2008 16:41 (seventeen years ago)

Your dad should avoid cosmopolitan, globally oriented establishments like the International House of Pancakes.

nabisco, Tuesday, 1 July 2008 17:29 (seventeen years ago)

It's right there in the name and everything.

nabisco, Tuesday, 1 July 2008 17:29 (seventeen years ago)

Cherokees hating omelettes is such an outdated stereotype

DJ Mencap, Tuesday, 1 July 2008 18:18 (seventeen years ago)

Roger still posts here BTW. I bought his new(ish) band's album yesterday, it's pretty good

DJ Mencap, Tuesday, 1 July 2008 18:19 (seventeen years ago)

what about that crazy Italian judge, who recently ruled that it was OK to incite hatred against the Roma, as he reckons they are all thieves?

The Real Dirty Vicar, Wednesday, 2 July 2008 13:44 (seventeen years ago)

lol 'hong kong garden' on bbc beijing olympic coverage

DG, Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:05 (seventeen years ago)

http://freep.com/uploads/images/2008/07/saggychart0709.jpg

forksclovetofu, Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:51 (seventeen years ago)

lol at disorderly contact

what about wearing shorts with no draws

and what, Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:52 (seventeen years ago)

I want ZS to animate that graphic.

forksclovetofu, Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:53 (seventeen years ago)

dude in graphic is son of
http://thingsgodtaughtme.files.wordpress.com/2007/04/mr-freeze.jpg

J0rdan S., Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:55 (seventeen years ago)

lol 'hong kong garden' on bbc beijing olympic coverage

wait waht, lol

HI DERE, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:02 (seventeen years ago)

Dude, they'll be breaking out "Mr Wu Is a Window Cleaner Now" by the time the games actually start.

Noodle Vague, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:05 (seventeen years ago)

^^^

yeah, that's a real OMGWTF post there!

Eisbaer, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:05 (seventeen years ago)

JOrdan, more like:

http://i170.photobucket.com/albums/u252/TheBraxcave/DrManhattan.jpg

Which explains why he needs the boxers.

Pancakes Hackman, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:06 (seventeen years ago)

MLS player explaining the on-field actions of another MLS player:

"He gets away with a lot of stuff because he's Blanco and he's from Mexico and he's a big name. But he can't do that stuff to any of my teammates.""

dan m, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:08 (seventeen years ago)

COMEDY!
http://cityhallblog.dallasnews.com/archives/2008/07/dallas-county-meeting-turns-ra.html

A special meeting about Dallas County traffic tickets turned tense and bizarre this afternoon.

County commissioners were discussing problems with the central collections office that is used to process traffic ticket payments and handle other paperwork normally done by the JP Courts.

Commissioner Kenneth Mayfield, who is white, said it seemed that central collections "has become a black hole" because paperwork reportedly has become lost in the office.

Commissioner John Wiley Price, who is black, interrupted him with a loud "Excuse me!" He then corrected his colleague, saying the office has become a "white hole."

That prompted Judge Thomas Jones, who is black, to demand an apology from Mayfield for his racially insensitive analogy.

With video! http://www.myfoxdfw.com/myfox/pages/News/Detail?contentId=6953163&version=4&locale=EN-US&layoutCode=VSTY&pageId=3.2.1

forksclovetofu, Friday, 11 July 2008 19:08 (seventeen years ago)

that's got to be one of the stupidest stories I've ever heard. If the idiot commissioner and the judge don't know that that term has absolutely no racial ramifications, then they're fucking idiots.

Bill Magill, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:40 (seventeen years ago)

bogglin' at comparison of "black hole" to "jewing someone"

bernard snowy, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:49 (seventeen years ago)

I think this was posted on the Uncle Tom thread? At any rate, oh how I want to shake these guys.

HI DERE, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:51 (seventeen years ago)

Price needs to learn the difference between a "black hole" and a "black a-hole"...the former is a figure of speech; the latter describes jerks like him.

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:55 (seventeen years ago)

Typical black reaction. You have to ask yourself - are these people REALLY that stupid. Unfortunately, the answer is yes, they REALLY are that stupid.

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:55 (seventeen years ago)

What happened to Dallas? Did they hire refugees from New Orleans to run the city?

No wonder the song "God Bless Texas" is so popular. The state needs all the help it can get, from anyone, including the big boss.

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:55 (seventeen years ago)

My goodness, it seems that Mr. Price needs sum edumacation vout the compression and densifications of stellar ojcectifacations. Go back to schoo; bozo and try this time to pass 5th grade science instead of making a career avout demonizing whitey

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:56 (seventeen years ago)

Yeah, there's idiocy enough to go around for everyone on that link.

forksclovetofu, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:56 (seventeen years ago)

It seems our Creator was very niggardly when handing out brains to Price and Jones.

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:56 (seventeen years ago)

Casual Anti-Semitism: Was eating at a local Indian spot recently and got to chatting with the owner (it was a slow afternoon for them). A really nice, funny guy. Talk of the upcoming US Elections. He: "Obama won't win. You know why? Because the Jews won't let him win." I didn't know what to say. It spilled out of his mouth as simply as if he had said, " You know why I own a restaurant? Because I like to serve food." Needless to say, I've found it impossible to go back.

Capitaine Jay Vee, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:57 (seventeen years ago)

"You should all feel so famous for electing these Bozo's"

Their brothas elected them. But then what would you have excpected. These same jokers also fawn over Obama as if he were The New Messiah, coming to save the world.

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:57 (seventeen years ago)

Face it, the one's that got shipped over from Africa weren't the Albert Einsteins. Look at the gene pool in this country. They were living in the jungle with stone tools. The smart ones caught the slow ones and sent them over. They were selected for hard work. There are some smart "black" people, sure. But not the rule. More cross breeding will help.

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:58 (seventeen years ago)

John Wiley Price says dumb things a lot, but I still kind of like him. The worst part of his occasional misplaced outrage is the inevitable response from white talk radio hosts and columnists.

milo z, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:59 (seventeen years ago)

when barack obomba is president
this stuff will seem mild
get ready for war, white folks
the 3rd world is upon you

and what, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:59 (seventeen years ago)

its really bizarre that two black guys in dallas would be so responsive to the possibility of racism in casual speech

max, Friday, 11 July 2008 21:00 (seventeen years ago)

After reading those comments I kind of can't wait for the inevitable white race riot.

HI DERE, Friday, 11 July 2008 21:01 (seventeen years ago)

Can someone remind me what Roger's real name was? I have this fear that I might one day wind up writing/talking about his music without remembering which one is him.

-- nabisco, Tuesday, July 1, 2008 11:36 AM (1 week ago) Bookmark Link

http://www.media.wmg-is.com/media/portal/media/cms/images/200807/waiting-in-vain--cover-art-large_1214935958225.jpg

jaymc, Friday, 11 July 2008 21:05 (seventeen years ago)

lol ezra pound

Just got offed, Friday, 11 July 2008 21:06 (seventeen years ago)

that's got to be one of the stupidest stories I've ever heard. If the idiot commissioner and the judge don't know that that term has absolutely no racial ramifications, then they're fucking idiots.

-- Bill Magill, Friday, July 11, 2008 3:40 PM (31 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

good time to take a self-righteous stand!

deej, Friday, 11 July 2008 21:12 (seventeen years ago)

"self righteous" -great call

Bill Magill, Sunday, 13 July 2008 15:34 (seventeen years ago)

god if this keeps up ilx is going to turn into a whore

max, Sunday, 13 July 2008 15:54 (seventeen years ago)

i mean hole, a black hole

max, Sunday, 13 July 2008 15:54 (seventeen years ago)

ILX has turned into a singularity whence even light may not escape.

libcrypt, Sunday, 13 July 2008 16:13 (seventeen years ago)

woops yeah i just meant regular-righteous
good catch!

deej, Sunday, 13 July 2008 16:58 (seventeen years ago)

Casual Anti-Semitism: Was eating at a local Indian spot recently and got to chatting with the owner (it was a slow afternoon for them). A really nice, funny guy. Talk of the upcoming US Elections. He: "Obama won't win. You know why? Because the Jews won't let him win." I didn't know what to say. It spilled out of his mouth as simply as if he had said, " You know why I own a restaurant? Because I like to serve food." Needless to say, I've found it impossible to go back.

-- Capitaine Jay Vee, Friday, 11 July 2008 20:57 (2 days ago) Link

After some of the tactics the Clinton campaign tried in the primary, this is not an unreasonable point, but should be qualified as "Israel lobby". Of course, that's probably not precisely what he meant.

Most frustrating thing about the "black hole" video clip is that the anchors were too cowed to inject an explicit opinion or to state the objective fact that there is no nor has there ever been a racial connotation to that term.

Catsupppppppppppppp dude 茄蕃, Sunday, 13 July 2008 17:02 (seventeen years ago)

one month passes...

http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Sport/Pix/pictures/2008/08/15/460Spain_gesture.jpg

you'd think they might've heard of this thing called 'the internet'

DG, Saturday, 16 August 2008 13:03 (seventeen years ago)

andre agassi?

darraghmac, Saturday, 16 August 2008 15:23 (seventeen years ago)

no - chinese people, i think?

Frogman Henry, Saturday, 16 August 2008 15:27 (seventeen years ago)

http://www.guardian.co.uk/sport/2008/aug/15/olympics2008.olympicstennis

DG, Saturday, 16 August 2008 16:54 (seventeen years ago)

Racism in spain

deej, Saturday, 16 August 2008 16:58 (seventeen years ago)

So the racism in Spain falls mainly on the plain?

-- jaymc (jaymc), Monday, February 27, 2006 12:41 PM (2 years ago) Bookmark Link

deej, Saturday, 16 August 2008 16:58 (seventeen years ago)

It's seriously weird, the Spanish thing. A few weeks ago I was DJing at our night and I went to the bathroom, which is unisex, where there's a bathroom attendant guy, Simon, who is black. A Spanish guy and his girlfriend were ahead of me in the queue and as if out of boredom they started kind of taunting him and riling him and going "Africa, Africa......" etc.

Was just the most bizarre and fucking nasty racism from people who looked like students, I felt so angry I ended up telling the bouncer, who kicked them out.

-- Ronan (Ronan), Tuesday, February 28, 2006 5:14 AM (2 years ago) Bookmark Link

proto HOOS

deej, Saturday, 16 August 2008 17:05 (seventeen years ago)

jk but seriously what the fuck is up with Spain

deej, Saturday, 16 August 2008 17:07 (seventeen years ago)

twelve years pass...

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Eim29tQWAAEryRx?format=jpg&name=4096x4096

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 30 September 2020 15:01 (five years ago)

not a joke. i took that screenshot. you can try it yourself.

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 30 September 2020 15:01 (five years ago)


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