the word "redneck"

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Is this word offensive? If not, why not? In Britain, a lot of liberal-minded people find "chav" offensive, but think nothing of using "redneck". Although the roots of the word are pretty snobby - people with red necks ie they're manual labourers out in the sun all day. "Redneck" is not just about an attitude or political stance, it's also got class/race connotations, hasn't it? It's basically a denigrating term for white, non-urban working class people isn't it?

Napoleon Bonaparte III, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:29 (twenty years ago)

Yes. n/a. Yes. Yes.

Onimo (GerryNemo), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:30 (twenty years ago)

Ask Jim Goad

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:30 (twenty years ago)

(though it depends who's saying it and why)
xpost

Onimo (GerryNemo), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:31 (twenty years ago)

You might be...

Huk-L (Huk-L), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:39 (twenty years ago)

Is this word offensive? It probably should be, it sometimes can be

If not, why not? Because it's difficult to immediately identify who is allowed to use the term in self-reference or when talking to another person of the same credentials in a non-insulting, inclusive fashion, vice people who should shut their fucking mouth (see the "n-word" for a sort of counterexample).

"Redneck" is not just about an attitude or political stance, it's also got class/race connotations, hasn't it? I would say it is completely about class/race connotations, much like "white trash," it has very, very little to do with any kind of political mindset or attitude, any moreso than, again, the "n-word"

It's basically a denigrating term for white, non-urban working class people isn't it? You mean those stupid sharecroppers and indentured servants who never could figure out how to get out of debt and end up having long familial traditions of enlisted military service? Yeah, them. They can go fuck themselves. They're white, after all.

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:40 (twenty years ago)

I mean white people who can't get college degrees and office jobs in America - how stupid do you have to be?

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:41 (twenty years ago)

Anyway, I enjoyed the Jim Goad book

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:42 (twenty years ago)

it makes me think of old pop, in an oak.

Sororah T Massacre (blueski), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:42 (twenty years ago)

Are Marine Biologists rednecks?

Huk-L (Huk-L), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:42 (twenty years ago)

Wetnecks

Onimo (GerryNemo), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:43 (twenty years ago)

In the way people use it, it's not really like the "n" word though. No one is going to use "nigger" on ILX. But if you do a search for "redneck" you'll find hundreds of them. Which makes me think liberal-minded people think it's an OK word to use.

Napoleon Bonaparte III, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:45 (twenty years ago)

I don't think so; Chav causes concern because it has oodles of untermenschen hate for people based on pretty generalised lifestyle picks (jewellery, tracksuits) or their ages (youths) or where they are from (provincial overspills and dead-end towns). I've always thought redneck - whilst originating in a similarly generalising way - was more about attitutdes and beliefs rather than any sneering per se. I'd have thought the equivalent term in the US was something like trailer trash.

It comes down to the difference between ascribing a generalised group stereotype on people based on what they think as opposed to who they are. The former is fair game in my book.

Dave B (daveb), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:47 (twenty years ago)

i thought 'chav' only/primarily caused concern because of the Romany origin?

Sororah T Massacre (blueski), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:49 (twenty years ago)

xpost with Dave B
I don't agree. "Redneck" is a combination stereotype, taking in both what people are and what they think. After all, you're never going to call a wealthy, patrician suit-wearing capitalist a "redneck" are you, no matter what he thinks.

jz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:52 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, I just fucking explained why that is.

For example, only about three people who post regularly to this board have the credentials to say "nigger" and not get shouted down. But if you want to talk about white trash or rednecks, that's fine, because hey, they're white like us.

Then you all wonder why the fuck people living in the heartland/southeast, shopping at Wal-Mart because the Nissan plant pays about $23K a year feel and act persecuted even though "their party" controls all three branches of the federal government right now - massive, massive, massive cultural disconnect, exploited at will by the likes of Rove.

If I was called a redneck by a coworker without them also being a self-acknowledged person of less-than-stellar flyover country roots then I would probably think about filing an HR complaint.

ILX usage is a really extroadinarily poor way to judge a term's relative offensiveness IRL.

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:53 (twenty years ago)

Are any of the people posting to this fucking thread American besides me?

you're never going to call a wealthy, patrician suit-wearing capitalist a "redneck" are you, no matter what he thinks.

Oh, Hi, fucking welcome to Earth, My name is Tom

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:54 (twenty years ago)

After all, you're never going to call a wealthy, patrician suit-wearing capitalist a "redneck" are you, no matter what he thinks.
-- jz (j...), December 15th, 2005.

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zzzzzz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:55 (twenty years ago)

Quickly: in my exp "redneck" is specifically applied to Southerners, too -- if the person in question has all the same qualities but is from the North, one might say "roughneck" instead. I have no idea where I got this distinction, I think it's one of those things you hear while working in restaurants....

Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:56 (twenty years ago)

OK, so you can be both patrician and redneck. Nonetheless for me, redneck also has some class connotations: it's essentially a white, working class guy with stereotypical right wing views. And I guess there are variations on the theme which take in the likes of Bush.

jz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 15:58 (twenty years ago)

Where does Trailer Trash fit into this taxonomy of misanthrophy?

Dave B (daveb), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:04 (twenty years ago)

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Onimo (GerryNemo), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:10 (twenty years ago)

It comes down to the difference between ascribing a generalised group stereotype on people based on what they think as opposed to who they are. The former is fair game in my book.

-- Dave B (dave.boyl...), December 15th, 2005.

hmm, so if we stereotyped the white british working class's mindset, and gave it a name like 'chav', that'd be fair game?

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:11 (twenty years ago)

"we"

Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:14 (twenty years ago)

But doesn't a typical redneck hate niggers? I mean, yeah they're both offensive terms, but "redneck" usually refers to a Southern, working class, conservative bigot. A good-old boy from the South who isn't racist is just a "hick". So Hick and Good-old-boy are more offensive than Redneck.

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:16 (twenty years ago)

I suppose another reason 'redneck' isn't viewed as being offensive is because it isn't as cut-and-dried as other ethnic slurs. Because it's difficult to apply it to an ethnic group, since the real racial defining attribute of rednecks is that they have no clear lineage besides, you know, "white" (and typically southern, yes, but tell that to the rural midwest).

"trailer trash" is a word rednecks use to talk shit about other rednecks.

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:16 (twenty years ago)

sorry pash i forgot ukilx wasn't like 98% middle-class.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:17 (twenty years ago)

I'm with whoever said/implied that "redneck" was acceptable because it had no racial connotations. Or, more correctly, that it has no minority racial connotations. In my experience it also applies to people from the south. I'm not sure about this redneck v. hick differentiation.

And yes, I'm American. But only because I can't find any women with EU passports to marry me.

Mitya (mitya), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:19 (twenty years ago)

But doesn't a typical redneck hate niggers?
Doesn't a typical nigger hate kikes? What the fuck!

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:19 (twenty years ago)

blurst thread ever

Sororah T Massacre (blueski), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:21 (twenty years ago)

Does anybody else grasp the concept that telling a white boy from the south with draftee roots and long-obscured european origins (e.g. desperate enough to take work from pilgrims just to get the hell out) what you think "redneck" refers to is basically the same as having Dan come onto a thread where you are discussing why the n-word is or isn't an offensive term and telling him why the n-word doesn't mean him?

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:23 (twenty years ago)

xpost - I knew someone (ie YOU) would read that as offensive...

Point taken.. My opinion on what Redneck means to me.

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:24 (twenty years ago)

I'm with whoever said/implied that "redneck" was acceptable because it had no racial connotations. Or, more correctly, that it has no minority racial connotations.

So racial slurs are OK as long as they're not aimed at a minority racial group? Because whatever it is, "redneck" is most definitely racial. You don't hear too many black guys being referred to as "rednecks".

Napoleon Bonaparte III, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:27 (twenty years ago)

My post was quickly typed sarcasm -- acceptable should've been in quotes.

Mitya (mitya), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:29 (twenty years ago)

The establishment is more comfortable with insults based on class/culture than it is with race.

Mitya (mitya), Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:30 (twenty years ago)

That's essentially Jim Goad's book in a nutshell. Except that "establishment" in this case is really the "liberal establishment" because republicans try to avoid talking shit to their own voters

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:34 (twenty years ago)

jim goad is a racist

zzzz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:36 (twenty years ago)

Oh he's a wife beater too apparently but I think we've already had the argument on ILM about 40,000,000 times about whether or not you want to judge everything else a person does or says based on their personal foibles

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:50 (twenty years ago)

And really I'm not sure what he's said that's racist, particularly, any more than shit Spike Lee has said that could be construed as same

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 16:51 (twenty years ago)

yeah i should add that doesnt make him unintelligent or wrong about everything

zzzz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 17:21 (twenty years ago)

Tom OTM throughout.

Here in DC, I've several times heard the term "trailer-trash Ph.D.'s"--that is, biochemists, linguists etc. whose degrees are from, say, Arizona State. Just in case those folks thought they'd worked their way into the ruling class or something.

Stephen X (Stephen X), Thursday, 15 December 2005 17:50 (twenty years ago)

It could be, depending on who says it, but mostly the rednecks are proud of their redneckin' and are insulted if you think they aren't in on the joke.

http://www.emsshirts.com/images/redneckfire.jpg

There's a bunch of this gear for sale at the mall in my hometown. Every single design has Confederate flags on it.

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 17:52 (twenty years ago)

After all, you're never going to call a wealthy, patrician suit-wearing capitalist a "redneck" are you, no matter what he thinks.

I disagree, I think there are rich rednecks, like some of my dad's golf buddies, certain Texas oilmen (cf Syriana)..

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 17:55 (twenty years ago)

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/sports/autorace/longterm/1999/nascar/nascar.htm


'The Apocalypse Is Upon Us'

"We're redneckin' now!" Linda bellows.

I guess we are. I didn't know redneck was a verb but if it is, it no doubt covers what we're doing now, which is sitting on top of an old school bus, drinking beer and moonshine whiskey, sucking those raspberries and watching race cars scream around a track. If this isn't rednecking, I can't imagine what would qualify.

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 17:58 (twenty years ago)

dar1a I was trying to get to that aspect too, it really hit home for me though when my whiteboy cracker ass first heard dave chappelle use "real niggerish" as non-derisive modifier

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:02 (twenty years ago)

I disagree, I think there are rich rednecks, like some of my dad's golf buddies, certain Texas oilmen (cf Syriana)..

yeah. my friend's dad is a self-identified redneck and also a ge executive.

lauren (laurenp), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:05 (twenty years ago)

"mostly the rednecks are proud of their redneckin' and are insulted if you think they aren't in on the joke."

this was my impression too.

AaronK (AaronK), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:32 (twenty years ago)

Not to mention that massively popular Gretchen Wilson song..

I mean it's a cultural thing, uh, kind of the cracker version of keepin' it real, right, as opposed to being standoffish, uptight, snobby, fancy, thinking you're better than other people. I mean you might win the lottery or go to school and become a rich lawyer but you still hang out at the bar with your rowdy friends drinking Coors. But even though I worshiped Dale Earnhardt as a kid, I probably destroyed all my redneck cred by turning into a French speaking liberal who did time in the Ivy League.. d'oh.

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:34 (twenty years ago)

Quickly: in my exp "redneck" is specifically applied to Southerners, too -- if the person in question has all the same qualities but is from the North, one might say "roughneck" instead.

Nah, there are plenty of rednecks in California. I think white trash and trailer trash are offensive but not redneck. Or rather the term redneck is purposely offensive to a certain type of person that deserves offense while white trash and trailer trash are casually, callously offensive in a classist way.

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:41 (twenty years ago)

Thanks walter for being able to read

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:44 (twenty years ago)

Does anybody else grasp the concept that telling a white boy from the south with draftee roots and long-obscured european origins (e.g. desperate enough to take work from pilgrims just to get the hell out) what you think "redneck" refers to... + Thanks walter for being able to read = huh?

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:48 (twenty years ago)

sorry, what did you say? I can't read redneck.
xpost

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:49 (twenty years ago)

"type of person that deserves offense"

wtf

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:54 (twenty years ago)

"Redneck" seems to stretch across the southern half of the US; "hick" seems to stretch along the northern half.

Mostly just agreeing with Tom.

The complicated thing about the terms is that they work the opposite direction as "nigger," which refers to basic race-category stuff first, and then has been finessed by some people into referring to specific behaviors or cultural affiliations (cf that Chapelle reference above). "Redneck" for the past few decades has been probably perceived by people to refer mostly to cultural affiliations -- which is why they feel okay saying it, as if it refers strictly to stuff people do by "choice" and is therefore open for picking on. But of course the flip is that it works in the same categorical way as "nigger," as Tom has been explaining all along.

The cultural-affiliations part of it has been reclaimed way more than anyone's done for "nigger" -- we have proud self-professed rednecks in all sorts of positions, and plenty of the values and cultural mores of redneckdom are totally popular and beloved in this country. And there are times when it's really tempting to use the word in really neutral descriptive ways, ways having to do with cultural description. But the flip side of that is shitty enough that it's worth taking the extra time to say "he's really into bass fishing," just in case.

(Ha: middle-class immigrants and "rednecks"/"hicks" have vexed enough culture-relationships to get through as it is!)

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:56 (twenty years ago)

"type of person that deserves offense"

wtf

You know. Rednecks.

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 18:58 (twenty years ago)

"values and cultural mores of redneckdom"

This indicates a bit of a disconnect .. I always though of a Redneck as a bigot first, and a fisherman, well, not at all really. And really only since Jeff Foxworthy (or maybe just before that) has Redneck become a term of endearment.

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:01 (twenty years ago)

Hahahahahaha!

It's kind of nice to see confirmation that ILX is equal-opportunity when it comes to being completely condescending and offensive to demographic groups.

Dan (Tom, I Got You) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:01 (twenty years ago)

xpost

No, I don't know.

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:03 (twenty years ago)

I know that ILX has a great and storied history of turning assholes into reasonable people but seriously, is the effort really worth it?

Dan (Fuck Off, Walter) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:04 (twenty years ago)

NB I think it's partly the way "redneck" has been reclaimed that makes it have less and less to do with class. These days there are plenty of middle-class and even super-wealthy people who -- partly because of that success -- feel a need to keep it real and claim unchanged redneck history and cultural affiliations. Which is a total basic American desire, right, the making-good but staying right there with your roots, etc. For those people "redneck" just means a lot of minor things -- down-to-earth and uncomplicated, interested in a bunch of "common-man" leisure-time shit, whatever; it's for people totally outside of that that "redneck" comes with connotations of violence or racism or or whatever.

The race-blur is still funny: can anyone imagine a dude like Chapelle doing a Foxworthy-style "you may be a nigger" bit? (I suppose there's that one Chris Rock segment that trends really, really close to this.)

xpost DIY I can't think of any good reason racism would be first on your redneck-association list. Okay, well, I can think of one good reason, which is the civil rights movement -- but post-that I think racial attitudes for "rednecks" have moved in the same directions as they have for the culture at large (maybe not starting from as good of a place, but still moving in the same direction). And when people say "redneck" now they mean a bunch of geographical and cultural stuff, not "southern good-ol-boy racists." When people say "I gon't get NASCAR, what do all those rednecks see in it," they're not claiming racists like cars -- they're making insinuations about these people's class and attitudes (which may include an accusation/expectation of racism built in there).

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:05 (twenty years ago)

The gigantic difference between "redneck" and "nigger" is that someone could say in mixed company, "Oh don't mind me, I'm a redneck," and most people would laugh and not think twice about it. No black person with even a hint of self-interest would dream of doing this.

Dan (Where Does Society Give Tangible Kudos For Being A Nigger?) Perry (Dan Perr, Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:09 (twenty years ago)

Well yeah, exactly -- there's at least one half of totally affectionate redneck value-loving. Plus the illusion that it's about personal cultural inclinations and behavior FIRST and category SECOND, whereas "nigger" is about category first and inclinations second -- like, the way the word works is that all black people are "niggers," there's no elective about it.

And "redneck" has totally different connotations depending who says it. If you call yourself a redneck, it's understood that you're just describing your background culture, and presumably in neutral or positive terms -- just explaining where you come from. If someone calls someone else a redneck, it's not always clear how much bite and classism and stereotyping is playing into that -- unless, like Tom said, you've already demonstrated some sort of understanding of the demographic. E.g. I'm met loads of immigrants who think of everyone as a "redneck," in really broad-stereotyping and unspecific ways (to the extent that "redneck" just seems to mean "white American person"), and it's the same sort of group-and-culture snobbery that often comes back in the other direction.

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:18 (twenty years ago)

OK Dan I'm imagining that Dave Chappelle skit right now and I am afraid I am going to laugh so hard I have to try to explain it to a coworker and then lose my job 40 times over

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:23 (twenty years ago)

What about "country bumpkin" and "hillbilly"?

baked beans (Royal Bed Bouncer), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:29 (twenty years ago)

For those people "redneck" just means a lot of minor things -- down-to-earth and uncomplicated, interested in a bunch of "common-man" leisure-time shit,...

Yeah, I know that that's what it's come to mean in recent history.. but it's reminiscent to me of how the Civil War was about "State Soveriegnty, not slavery."

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:39 (twenty years ago)

I like that Malone-in-racing-suit pic

kingfish holiday travesty (kingfish 2.0), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:40 (twenty years ago)

nabiscOTMBOT

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:41 (twenty years ago)

It's ok to hate rednecks, you guys. I promise. They hate you, too!

baked beans (Royal Bed Bouncer), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:42 (twenty years ago)

It's funny how many air america-stylee liberals have no problem calling people rednecks, white trash, etc.

Lars and Jagger (Ex Leon), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:44 (twenty years ago)

It's funny how many air america-stylee liberals have no problem calling people rednecks, white trash, etc.

This drives me nuts. It's like ppl haven't been to the country before.

OH WAIT.

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:47 (twenty years ago)

(I just embarrassed myself by posting this to the wrong thread):

The funny thing about redneck-bashing is that it works in these ever-expanding circles. In a small middle-US town, you'll probably have a gap between middle-class educated families and working-class outskirts-of-town "hicks" or "rednecks." Blow that up to the US as a whole, and you have this stereotype gap between coastal and big-city people versus "red-state" or small-town people. Go to Europe, and you have those kinds of attitudes directed toward the whole US. It's like nesting dolls, or something.

And so for obvious reasons I started getting peeved by this stuff a whole lot more when I moved to NYC and found that being from the midwest at all provoked some of the same stereotypes and maybe snobbery that I always saw flying around internally at the high schools I went to. And I got even more super-bugged over dinner in London, hearing this jackass at the next table offer his analysis of the 2004 election.

Interestingly enough I feel like maybe redneckdom is poised to become the next issue of interest for "sophisticated" coastal liberals; maybe the whole "red-state" idea is creating genuine curiosity instead of just the usual sneering. I feel like I've seen a few different documentaries cropping up on NYC PBS about this over the past year -- like really "intimate" Hoop Dreams kinds of things following the lives of poor, rural kids.

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:49 (twenty years ago)

I'm no air america liberal, and i used to live in the country, which is why i have no problem calling certain types of country people 'rednecks'.

baked beans (Royal Bed Bouncer), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:50 (twenty years ago)


He was born in West Virginia,
His wife's name's Betty Lou Thelma Liz
And he's not responsible for what he's doing
'Cause his mother made him what he is.

Up against the wall Redneck Mother,
Mother, who has raised her son so well.
He's thirty-four and drinking in a honky tonk.
Just kicking hippies' asses and raising hell.

Miss Misery xox (MissMiseryTX), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:51 (twenty years ago)

I like that Malone-in-racing-suit pic

I just now noticed the pine-tree air freshener.

Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:51 (twenty years ago)

The funny thing about redneck-bashing is that it works in these ever-expanding circles. In a small middle-US town, you'll probably have a gap between middle-class educated families and working-class outskirts-of-town "hicks" or "rednecks." Blow that up to the US as a whole, and you have this stereotype gap between coastal and big-city people versus "red-state" or small-town people. Go to Europe, and you have those kinds of attitudes directed toward the whole US. It's like nesting dolls, or something.

Another related phenomenon is the small town guy who can't stand the people around him, and aspires to move to a coastal city, and then after moving to the coastal city, aspires to be European.

baked beans (Royal Bed Bouncer), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:55 (twenty years ago)

I just now noticed the pine-tree air freshener.

hahahah holy shit

"Find one in every car. You'll see."

kingfish holiday travesty (kingfish 2.0), Thursday, 15 December 2005 19:59 (twenty years ago)

Another related phenomenon is the small town guy who can't stand the people around him, and aspires to move to a coastal city, and then after moving to the coastal city, aspires to be European.

I have seen this. I think I work with one of these dudes.


At a very basic level, I think of anti-redneck as being anti-fun. Shooting guns is FUN. Driving something really fast is FUN. Drinking beer in the woods with your friends is FUN. Living in the country and doing shit outside is FUN.

I just love how close redneckin' and hippy dirtbaggin' get to each other sometimes. NH, the Northeast Kingdom of VT, North Carolina, and NoCal (I imagine) are some of the best places to observe the asymptotic convergence of 'necks and hippies.

My favorite: the hick dude that discovered pot in high school, turned on to psychedelics, professes to be free of hatred and/or prejudice, is "down" with black dudes and whoever else, and still lets slip the occasional racist epithet or blinkered political observation. I LIKE this guy. He is GOLDEN and KIND.

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:11 (twenty years ago)

NB (I don't know what this means): I grew up in rural MN and "some of my best friends were rednecks."

Then I went to an Ivy League school, did some arty shit, moved to Chicago and lost what little credibility I had to begin with.

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:18 (twenty years ago)

Main Entry: no·ta be·ne
Pronunciation: "nO-t&-'bE-nE, -'be-
Etymology: Latin, mark well
-- used to call attention to something important

Dan (Helping Out A Fellow Hastings Refugee) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:24 (twenty years ago)

Ah, so. Thanks, Dan.

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:27 (twenty years ago)

I grew up rural and something about it pushes ALL the wrong buttons; I couldn't get away from gun-toting teenaged boys fast enough (they always threatened to shoot my cats). Only in the last couple of years have I been able to visit and not get schpilkes in my tucchus after about three days. There's something about that particular feeling of being trapped, having all options cut off, knowing that YOU'RE not the crazy one but being entirely alone in whatever belief is in question...a very special kind of panic that is not at all FUNZONE.

Sorry, my issues are showing. Back to topic.

Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:28 (twenty years ago)

(I had virtually the same experience as giboyeux with the important distinction that, as a black person in that town, I lost whatever "cred" I might have had when they discovered that I couldn't dunk a basketball because, and this is a direct quote, they'd "never seen one who couldn't dunk.")

Dan (Fuck You, Dude From My Memory) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:32 (twenty years ago)

Laurel also OTM.

Some people are country, some are city. And there's a lot of intentional misunderstanding between them both.


xpost: holy shit, dan, are you kidding/! I mean, I'm not *surprised*, but still. God.

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:33 (twenty years ago)

My favorite: the hick dude that discovered pot in high school, turned on to psychedelics, professes to be free of hatred and/or prejudice, is "down" with black dudes and whoever else, and still lets slip the occasional racist epithet or blinkered political observation. I LIKE this guy. He is GOLDEN and KIND.

This is essentially the political character of the vast majority of east tennessee, in my brief experience

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:37 (twenty years ago)

Heart's in the right place.

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:39 (twenty years ago)

Oh, I'm totally serious. This happened my sophomore year and came from a dude whom I'd known since first grade. That, mixed in with lovely track meet experiences where guys on the bus would say (another direct quote), "Man, look at the niggers on that team! Oh Dan, I don't mean you, you're different," and being told by my junior year history teacher (H4rtm4n, who just so happened to be the football coach who refused to let my brother play even though he would score a touchdown every time he touched the ball and was talented enough to be a wide receiver for the Air Force Academy until he got injured) in private away from the rest of the class that the story he told about his father calling MLK an idiot was the sanitized version and he thought I should know that his father called MLK a nigger, and etc etc etc; let me just say that there is definitely a particular mindset that I associate with the word "redneck" and it is not in the least bit complimentary.

(xpost) I think it is fair to say that it is much easier to view the guy you've described as "GOLDEN and KIND" if you are white.

Dan (Wouldn't Live There Again If You Paid Me) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:42 (twenty years ago)

I also don't think I've ever encountered anyone on ILX who acts like a redneck.

Dan ("Idiot" Is Another Story) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:43 (twenty years ago)

(xpost) I think it is fair to say that it is much easier to view the guy you've described as "GOLDEN and KIND" if you are white.

I also recognize that this is a massively unfair thing to write.

Dan (I Know My Faults) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:45 (twenty years ago)

Not only is that guy GOLDEN and KIND, but he also gets ARRESTED for playing the BONGOS in the NUDE.

Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Thursday, 15 December 2005 20:57 (twenty years ago)

At a very basic level, I think of anti-redneck as being anti-fun. Shooting guns is FUN. Driving something really fast is FUN. Drinking beer in the woods with your friends is FUN. Living in the country and doing shit outside is FUN.

If doing those things = redneck then I guess me, and most of my extended family, are rednecks. All this time I never even knew! Seriously, though... maybe urban types consider all people who live in the country and aren't very educated rednecks, but when I was growing up in Texas 'redneck' implied a xenophobic, uneducated, violent, bigot, who was proud to call himself a redneck.

There are so many sub-classification of country folk to explore! Don't lump them all together as rednecks. There are bible-thumping church ladies, slack-jawed yokels, bumpkins, hillbillies, hicks, shit-kickers, and I'm sure many more.

(xpost)I also don't think I've ever encountered anyone on ILX who acts like a redneck.

Rednecks hate computers. Computers are for pussies.

baked beans (Royal Bed Bouncer), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:00 (twenty years ago)

You haven't been to college football message boards lately, have you?

Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:02 (twenty years ago)

If doing those things = redneck then I guess me, and most of my extended family, are rednecks.

I think your grammar seals the deal.

Dan (Me Am A Redneck????) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:03 (twenty years ago)

hahah

baked beans (Royal Bed Bouncer), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:04 (twenty years ago)

I also recognize that this is a massively unfair thing to write.

No, it isn't.

Not only is that guy GOLDEN and KIND, but he also gets ARRESTED for playing the BONGOS in the NUDE.

hahaha

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:06 (twenty years ago)

when they discovered that I couldn't dunk a basketball because, and this is a direct quote, they'd "never seen one who couldn't dunk.")

http://www.jedisparadise.co.uk/childrenstv/Collectables/Harlem%20Globetrotters%201974.jpg

O RLY? (eman), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:11 (twenty years ago)

do people in the north/europe think everyone with a Southern accent is a redneck?

Miss Misery xox (MissMiseryTX), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:20 (twenty years ago)

COME ON PEOPLE, "REDNECK" IS NO MORE OFFENSIVE THAN CORNY INDIE FUXOR!

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:20 (twenty years ago)

My experience is that most people from cities larger than 500,000 people think people from cities smaller than 500,000 people are rednecks; the north/south divide is a something of a red herring, particularly when you start looking at the number of northerners/midwesterners who rock Confederate flags.

Dan (Firebomb The Country) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:22 (twenty years ago)

GOOK IS JUST ANOTHER WORD

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:22 (twenty years ago)

I just saw Dukes of Hazzard this weekend and the varying comments the General Lee got rolling into Atlanta were hilarious.

Miss Misery xox (MissMiseryTX), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:23 (twenty years ago)

king of the hill dealt with southern redneck classification expertly thru the tom petty character, i cant tell yall how many dumbass yankees or europeans have told me they consider the hills to be rednecks

zzzzzzzz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:25 (twenty years ago)

(I don't mean to say that the South isn't looked down upon by Northern/Coastal US society because that would be a fucking bonkers argument to try to defend; I'm making more of a "they are chucking stones out of the window of their glass houses" statement.)

Dan (Clarification) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:27 (twenty years ago)

I think mostly that confusion about what precisely people mean by "redneck" -- along with egregious stereotyping mis-use and cruel classist applications -- basically mean that anyone who says it should be thinking really hard about what he means and taking great care to ensure that it's being said in such a way that people will understand what he means. Which in most cases amounts to just not saying "redneck" too often.

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:27 (twenty years ago)

it's funny because 3 years ago I would be agreeing with walter on my pie-in-th'-sky idea that all slurs and offensive terms were silly, sticks-and-stones-may-break-my-bones style but I've grown up and now understand the world I live in a little bit and now I'm like yeah, that reasoning is for 15-year-olds who have just discovered semantics.

I'm pretty embarrassed at how long it took me to become normalized to the point where I could grasp this, actually.

whether you starve in the appalachians or you starve on a share you still starve. hillbillies = rednecks in all aspects but topography

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:28 (twenty years ago)

But see the hills is exactly the kind nesting-doll thing I'm talking about! (Plus also the immigrant-double thing!) The Hills would be on the Not side of the redneck divide within the context of the show, right, but then you leap up a couple concentric circles and they're totally switched. The line on this is ever-shifting, and where you put it kind of says more about your own background than the person you're trying to put on the other side -- e.g. if someone thinks of the Hills as hillbilly rednecks, that tells us more about their lives than the Hills'. (And seriously, cf the Kahn "you inbred hillbillies" running thing.)

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:31 (twenty years ago)

(Similarly like the Hills looking at the Luann side of the family as the maybe "white trashy" one says as much about Hill-values as Luann-family values, etc.)

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:32 (twenty years ago)

nitsuh thats what i meant by dealing with southern redneck classification, like to me & other southerners its clear the hills arent rednecks but to lots of ppl in the uk or vermont or whatever theyre indistinguishable from ass-raping deliverance yokels

zzzzzz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:33 (twenty years ago)

If you make fun of someone for being a "redneck" you're making fun of their culture not their race, class or geographical roots. Redneck culture may correlate strongly with poor white southerners (just like corny indie fuxorism may correlate with middle class college students in Chicago) but it's not exclusively about those aspects. You can be a Nascar loving military vet and not be a redneck.

I don't hate rednecks but I do hate certain things that might be identified with rednecks like guns, the republican party, a romantic view of the confederacy, anti-intellectualism, or ridiculously large trucks. If it's the word itself you find offensive then I can find a different label to use when describing that type of lifestyle.

xpost to the "gook" comment

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:35 (twenty years ago)

it's funny because 3 years ago I would be agreeing with walter on my pie-in-th'-sky idea that all slurs and offensive terms were silly,

I absolutely do not believe that and it's not at all what I have been arguing.

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:36 (twenty years ago)

the same thing happened with 'yankee' right, outside the u.s. it means american, in the u.s. it means northerner, in the north it means new englander & in new england it means like new hampshire or something

zzzzzzzzzz, Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:37 (twenty years ago)

In a small middle-US town, you'll probably have a gap between middle-class educated families and working-class outskirts-of-town "hicks" or "rednecks."

yep. My parents were pretty worried about me picking up the Appalachian accent & being mistaken for, uh, a hillbilly.

Another related phenomenon is the small town guy who can't stand the people around him, and aspires to move to a coastal city, and then after moving to the coastal city, aspires to be European.

JE NE COMPRENDS PAS CE QUE VOUS DITES

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:37 (twenty years ago)

xpost

In New England, it means they suck.

dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:37 (twenty years ago)

If you make fun of someone for being a "redneck" you're making fun of their culture not their race, class or geographical roots.

This is exactly why America should be burned down and started over. Aren't liberals supposed to be the nice ones?

Dan (Jesus Christ) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:40 (twenty years ago)

Yeah here's our problem: You think it means bigotry and republicanism, and I think it means where I come from. So when you use it, it means you think I'm stupid and hateful and backwards. And when I use it, it means my family is from sharecroppers and lumberjacks in the south. So don't ever use it on me. Even though it would otherwise be a perfectly descriptive term.

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:43 (twenty years ago)

hillbillies = rednecks in all aspects but topography

No, no, no, no.

REDNECK =
http://www.bandittransamclub.com/Snowman.jpg

HILLBILLIE =
http://members.cox.net/renpics/images/grz.jpg

Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:45 (twenty years ago)

Aren't liberals supposed to be the nice ones?

Yeah, that's worked out well.


Yeah here's our problem: You think it means bigotry and republicanism, and I think it means where I come from.

Where did I mention the word bigot?

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:53 (twenty years ago)

I do hate certain things that might be identified with rednecks like guns, the republican party, a romantic view of the confederacy, anti-intellectualism, or ridiculously large trucks.

Dan (Some Of Us Can Do This Wild Thing Called "Inference") Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:56 (twenty years ago)

Sorry, I had thrown you and dave225 into the same mindset-boat. I haven't come up with a label for you yet, will get back when I do.

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 21:57 (twenty years ago)

a romantic view of the confederacy,

Gee, you think that means bigotry? I thought that was just "heritage" or as Tom says "it means where I come from."

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:00 (twenty years ago)

Kiss my fuckin' ass, and my dad's ass, and my grandad's ass, and his dad's ass, and his grandad's ass, you stupid little shitweed.

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:02 (twenty years ago)

So is the Confederate flag a symbol of racism or a symbol of the good ol' South? I've got nothing against Southerners (some of my best friends, etc..) ... the flag/the term can be seen as "where you're from" or as "what you stand for" .. and in some respect it's always going to be incorrect, because they're both iconic and out there for everyone to have an opinion.

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:09 (twenty years ago)

Gee, you think that means bigotry? I thought that was just "heritage"

In other words, "Heritage, Not Hate".

The most unconvincing catch-phrase of the past twenty-five years.

Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:12 (twenty years ago)

Tom, even if you and your family might have the most valid claim on the word redneck and how to define it, I don't think how you're using the word in this thread is how the vast majority of people, including self-identified "rednecks", understand it.

Dan I. (Dan I.), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:20 (twenty years ago)

Dude I still don't get why anyone would think there's some big moral difference between making fun of someone's culture and making fun of someone's race -- this kind of distinction can only exist in America, where we like to pretend people are able to just electively choose their entire cultural affiliations. But look: a person has no more choice about growing up among gun-rack ruralites than he has about his ethnicity. Making fun of someone for having a "redneck" background is exactly as bad as making racist jokes at an Asian person whose parents happened to run a laundry. I mean, what the fuck? The majority of group conflicts on Earth aren't about race -- they're about cultural prejudice. Take Rwandan genocide -- you think that stuff is about "race?" You think it's about arcane ethnic blood distinctions of Hutu and Tutsi? No, it's about the same cultural divides that lurk inside the redneck thing -- people who act different and think different things and have different cultures. "I'm making fun of your culture, not your race" is so fucking NOT an excuse, for fuck's sake. (Besides which I don't really believe you're the sort of person who'd go around making racist jokes about Vietnamese people and then saying "no, hahaha, I'm making fun of Vietnamese culture! It's not racist cause I think Laotians are okay."

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:28 (twenty years ago)

WE'VE DONE THIS THREAD BEFORE

j blount (papa la bas), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:29 (twenty years ago)

That's in response to the batshit implications of this sentence: If you make fun of someone for being a "redneck" you're making fun of their culture not their race, class or geographical roots.

LIKE IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:30 (twenty years ago)

I suppose the batshittiness of that sentence stems from the batshit idea that race, class, and geographical roots don't affect or constitute major portions or a person's "culture."

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:31 (twenty years ago)

So at what point does one take responsibility for their actions and beliefs?

Dan I. (Dan I.), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:35 (twenty years ago)

Dan, who is that addressed towards? Because I don't think any of the people making the case that walter is an asshole are trying to also make a case that no one is responsible for their actions and beliefs.

Dan (And So On) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:37 (twenty years ago)

I was responding to that nabisco post. The actual individuals in Rwanda who held the machetes that lopped off heads are accountable for that action, aren't they? No matter how great the cultural force that prodded them towards participating in genocide?

Dan I. (Dan I.), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:41 (twenty years ago)

Dude I still don't get why anyone would think there's some big moral difference between making fun of someone's culture and making fun of someone's race

I guess because I think that it's an integrated part of the overall american culture rather than a separate foreign culture that I have no contact with. It's just a matter of degrees between a southerner saying he's allowed to reclaim the term because of where he was born and a northerner feeling free to use the term because he has been in contact with aspects of the culture his entire life. But then I'm sticking to the definition that "redneck" does not exclusively mean southern.

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:41 (twenty years ago)

ah fuck I misread shit. ignore what I was saying sorry.

Dan I. (Dan I.), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:43 (twenty years ago)

"redneck" does not exclusively mean southern.

It don't. Doesn't.

giboyeux (skowly), Thursday, 15 December 2005 22:44 (twenty years ago)

So wait, does redneck mean south of the mason-dixon or not, walter? Will you fucking settle on a definition instead of just weaseling around every time you get called out?

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:06 (twenty years ago)

At any rate, if you use a word in passing conversation, and someone comes along and says "hey, I think the way you just used that word was pretty offensive, I'd prefer if you didn't use it that way" you basically have two valid options: 1. Noise Bored, mind your own business, this is a private conversation and you're being nosy, First Amendment nyah nyah OR 2. I apologize, I will try to respect your request.

On this thread you came out and just start egging on people who defined themselves as "redneck" or said they came from "rednecks" and now you're trying to get me to defend my feeling a bit riled up about it because your definition of the word "redneck" is a person who deserves to be made derided and patronized. That is why you're an asshole. SAVVY?

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:11 (twenty years ago)

WALTER, wait, I think I've figured this out. You want to use "redneck" to describe a cultural group, basically -- a group of people with certain tastes, habits, beliefs, whatever. And that makes sense, because we all know there is a redneck cultural group; rednecks themselves know it, and that's why plenty of them will tell you flat-out that they're rednecks. But there's another side of it, and that's where the credibility Tom is talking about comes in. Apart from being a cultural group, being a redneck can also be a part of someone's identity -- just as much as ethnicity can be. It can be where someone comes from, what their history is.

The fact that you don't want to acknowledge that is precisely what makes you lack the credibility to call people rednecks. And understanding those two levels is precisely what gives some people the credibility to say it. If you talk dismissively about rednecks as a culture-group, you're also talking dismissively about some people's roots and culture, in a really deep way -- you're coming close to ragging on their whole recent ancestry, and they're not going to like it. I'm not sure anyone should be talking shit about "rednecks" without understanding that.

If you need an analogy, consider that there are lots of southern black people who have a culture every bit as distinct, good and bad, as "rednecks." And my guess is you wouldn't just talk about them as a culture-group and rag on their culture -- or if you were going to, you'd go out of your way to be sensitive to the fact that it wasn't just banal pop-culture decisions you were talking about, but an actual Culture, one with a history that's heavily ingrained in people's identities. Not just how some people behave, or what they like, but also on some level who they are and where they come from.

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:12 (twenty years ago)

So Tom, I'm getting confused .. Not trying to throw your words back at you or anything, but I'll refer to this quote for reference:
"You think it means bigotry and republicanism, and I think it means where I come from." ..

But you were also saying that the term was offensive - meaning Southern working class.. So is it offensive to you that other people use it because it's lumping you in with the stereotypical redneck? Or because you see it as just a generally derisive term for southern working class? I'm just wondering how you reconcile people who use it affectionately versus people who use it as a cultural/classist epithet.

Or maybe I'm missing your POV completely...

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:24 (twenty years ago)

I think his point is that the term "redneck" is really weighted with a lot of snobbish, classist notions about "where he comes from." And a lot of people use it in a way that relies really heavily on those derogatory connotations.

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:32 (twenty years ago)

yeah i remember circa vice discussion and momus defending racism and reclaiming blackface someone asking if any derogatory terms had actually been reclaimed and someone mentioning 'queer' and me mentioning 'redneck' and then (this being ilx) someone else saying that term can't be reclaimed cuz those people are animals.

j blount (papa la bas), Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:38 (twenty years ago)

And when people use a term in a way that relies heavily on those connotations, it isn't up to them to tell me which semantic qualities they meant to use and which they didn't. It's more like "hey i'd prefer you didn't use it at all, that's easier."

I mean if I used a derogatory term, I would never expect to be able to explain to somebody I inadvertently (or purposefully, in walter's case) offended that "oh well I just meant this and this and this part of the word, those things I was thinking about when I said it don't apply to you, so don't be offended" so why is this still an argument?

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:42 (twenty years ago)

xpost to blount, haha that rules, people rule, this board rules

TOMBOT, Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:43 (twenty years ago)

For the record I almost never call people rednecks. The only people who even spring to mind are some members of my family who completely and proudly fulfill every redneck stereotype but were born and raised in California. If I were to call someone a redneck I would mean it as insult which is what I meant by the "people who deserve to be offended remark."

I am certainly not the type of elitist liberal strawman who would call someone a redneck because they like Nascar or have a southern accent. I honestly didn't realize that there was a serious movement toward reclaiming the term redneck outside of a kind of humorous self-deprecating Jeff Foxworthy thing. I can see that there are certain people who are quite proud of their "redneck" traits in a way that I don't think has anything to do with the south or economic background (see the president) and I guess it's my problem that I kind of associate that with the "heritage not hate" crowd.

I understand that the word redneck refers to a certain segment of farming people but I don't think the current popular understanding of the word really bears much relation to that origin. Still I can see how someone from a farming background could be offended by the term no matter what the context and I'll think twice about my (very rare) use of the word in the future. I apologize for being an asshole on this thread and trollishly baiting you Tom.

walter kranz (walterkranz), Thursday, 15 December 2005 23:53 (twenty years ago)

Ha, yeah, Tom, I can certainly tell you with regard to racial stuff that people tend to seem vastly more offensive when they follow up the first thing with all that "no, I don't mean people like you, I just mean people like that" kind of explanation.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 16 December 2005 00:00 (twenty years ago)

Accepted, walter, now go out and buy the brother where art thou soundtrack and learn all the words.

TOMBOT, Friday, 16 December 2005 00:02 (twenty years ago)

O Brother Where Art Thou!? What the hell kind of redneck are you?

walter kranz (walterkranz), Friday, 16 December 2005 00:23 (twenty years ago)

see, this is why you can't call people rednecks, walter.

TOMBOT, Friday, 16 December 2005 00:24 (twenty years ago)

Hahahahaha OMG

Dan (It's Like The Last Twenty Posts Never Happened) Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 16 December 2005 00:25 (twenty years ago)

OK, sorry - I've been away .. one more thing ... if someone says, "I'm a redneck and proud of it." - does that offend you on the same level?

D.I.Y. U.N.K.L.E. (dave225.3), Friday, 16 December 2005 01:59 (twenty years ago)

eight years pass...

wasn't sure if this should go on one of the race threads

http://www.ajc.com/weblogs/get-schooled/2014/may/13/it-politically-acceptable-deride-hillbillies-and-r/

smhphony orchestra (crüt), Thursday, 15 May 2014 21:41 (twelve years ago)


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