i have a great big HUGE crush!

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today i ran into a friend of mine that i have known for 3-4 years. we always had a platonic friendship, but the last couple of times i have seen him have been quite different ... the air has been thick with sexual tension and we flirt like crazy. anyway he gave me his phone number. and i know several reasons why i should call him (like cos i LIKE him and stuff) but i also can think of a few reasons why i shouldn't call him such as:
1. i am scared i will make an ass of myself cos i am shy.
s. there is the possibility that seeing him could upset a person we both know and love dearly.

so should i call him?

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i think you should. Recently I've taken the more active approach, and admitted to someone I had a crush on that I liked him. However it's not a happy ending for me, but I don't regret having told him.

And don't worry about making fools of yourself, he would probably appriciate that you had the bravery to make the first move.

― jellybean, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

you could impress him with your counting skills!!

― mark s, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

okay then smartie pants, but what would YOU do?

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

3. i think you should call him
k. i myself would find a reason why the affair is doomed from the off and tell myself this reason and convince myself and not call him

― mark s, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i myself would find a reason why the affair is doomed from the off and tell myself this reason and convince myself and not call him

hey, get your own life-story ;)

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

call hi call him anytime call him

― ducklingmonster, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

*hijacks her own thread*

hey duckling the roof of the meridian caved in last night!!! rock!

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

dunedin sound so biblical at moment - apocalyptic mandala

― ducklingmonster, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

when are you coming back?

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

tuesday. and yes i am trying to work out your crush so stop avoiding the issue

― ducklingmonster, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

yay! duckling returns!

its no-one on "the scene" but i think you may have met him a few times.

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Oh, go for it, say I. Life is short, after all, so make the most. :-)

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i know who it is. you should phone him

― ducklingmonster, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

oh bull you do. who do you think it is?

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

ummm, gavin shaw?

― duane, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

no thats who you like, dummy.

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

gavin and duane up a tree k-i-s-s-i-n-g. i will email my guess to u di

― ducklingmonster, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

isn't that why they were in the polamorous love cult together?

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

duckling is a smart cookie

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

tank u. Do i get a prize?

― ducklingmonster, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i'm sure that can be arranged.

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

okay. so when should i call him? tomorrow night? in a week? i will need to be drunk to do it, but i've stopped drinking, so where do i find the courage?

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

di your life suddenly seems strangely parallel to my entire high school term.

― ethan, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Why not call him right now? Ask him what he's doing tomorrow night.

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

oh no not today. maybe tomorrow i think.

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

does anyone wanna call him pretending to be me so i don't have to do it? yee i'm such a wooss.

― di, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I suppose I could try, but he would suspect.

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

mount the fellow

― mike hanle y, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

hanle y now you are just being lewd.

― di, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i am going to phone him tomorrow. you can all beat me to death with my own shoes if i don't.

but what about the mutual friend? should i let this person know in advance? or should i wait and see if there is anything in this crush before i upset the apple cart?

― di, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Talk to your mutual friend first and say you were thinking of calling him to hang out for a bit. Judge accordingly.

― Ned Raggett, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Your own happiness worth making an ass of yourself for, and the person will get over it.

― Ronan, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

did u call?

― ducklingmonster, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

no. i convinced myself that *crush* would never do anything that might upset our *friend* so i decided it was a waste of time trying.

― di, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Ah, that would be suggestion number "k." from Doctor mark s.

(Personally, I think you should call him. He did you give his number instead of asking for yours, did he not?)

― felicity, Friday, 18 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i called him last night, to see what he was up to. he were going to bed! due to 5000 word article deadline monday that he hasn't started, but said if i knew anything good happening he would come with. i was myself on my way to a party but i made it sound unfavourable cos i didn't want "first date" to be in a room full of strangers.

he has my number now. the ball is in his court. i'm relieved about it cos i REALLY don't like calling people. i spent an embarassing amount of time last night running to and from phone-booth before gettin the nerve.

do ya think he likes me, a wo-wo-wo-oh?

― di, Saturday, 19 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Hey, congrats, Di! Hope you'll invite him to something soon . . . or crush will call you . . . or that you're just happy to have hit the ball back over the net. :)

― felicity, Sunday, 20 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Echoing Felicity there -- hurrah! May goodness happen.

― Ned Raggett, Sunday, 20 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

good work!

damn successful relationship bastards....

― Ronan, Sunday, 20 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

six months pass...

that guy was such a dick. i hung with him one night and he kept going on about how great it is that rock stars have groupies. lame-o! whaddaya know, i have another great big huge crush now.

― di, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

But crushes are sooooo nice though, aren't they?

― C J, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

No, crushes are horrible.

― rosemary, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

crushes are nice, they are harmless and mental. its love you have to avoid, that shit can make you really really sad.

― di, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Being crushed on can be kinda nice, though it's not happened much with me! Ah well.

― Ned Raggett, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

The most classic kind of crushes are the secret ones, so you may be underestimating yourself, Ned.

― felicity, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Perhaps...but I tend to look at myself as through a glass darkly, if that's not too cryptic.

― Ned Raggett, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't think anyone has ever had a crush on me. I feel better about that now - knowing they are supposed to be secret! I can pretend!! Yay!!

― C J, Sunday, 21 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I very rarely have crushes. I would dearly love for it to happen more often.

― Sean, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Well, I'm just not going to attempt an answer to the initial question because it's too close to the bone of recent events in my life, and - given that I managed those events like a bull in Llardo accessory store - my response would be invalid.

I do, however, have a related question about crushes: What is wrong with a person who attracts crushes [particularly from younger women] but also seems to be a no hoper when it comes to relationships, love, and dating? [A chocolate fish to anyone who can answer satisfactorily this perplexing question.]

― debaser, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

hey debaser, i can't answer your questions, but can i ask where in new zezland you are from?

― di, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Auckland *sigh* but my heart remains in Dunners.

― debaser, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

crushes are nice, they are harmless and mental. its love you have to avoid, that shit can make you really really sad.

Truer words were never spoken. Crushes are lovely. Taking them out of the crush stage never equals anything except crushing disappointment. Hence, why they are called crushes.

Love = utter and completel shite. Crushes = amusing and entertaining waste of time. Best of all = random, anonymous sex with beautiful and therefore perfect strangers.

― kate, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

its love you have to avoid, that shit can make you really really sad

Love = utter and completel shite...Best of all = random, anonymous sex with beautiful and therefore perfect strangers

Evidently, the age of Romance is truly dead. For me, however - well - I'm rather fond of big concepts like Love and Romance {as long as they don't conform to that sexist/patronising/Victorian shite}. I don't enjoy random anonymous sex and I find crushes to be the most scary of all human affections. You're all so cynical. Vote love; vote romance - you have nothing to lose except a few otherwise boring Saturday nights and your own insecure conviction that a heart kept in a box still functions as a heart. Love, damn it, love.

― debaser, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

i generally don't enjoy random anonymous sex either. i think i just prefer wanking.

― di, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

oh i don't know, i'm only 22 what do i know about these things?

― di, Monday, 22 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

oh i LOVE having crushes. well praps not the ones that are on like, a really good friend and end up making you act like an ass. but apart from those i LOVE them. haven't had one in quite a while, so if you're cute and charming and beguiling i suggest you come visit me, now. i'll bake cookies and stuff.

― petra jane, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Love is great if it's reciprocated.

― love, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

no, it just makes the self-delusion easier. mutual love = socially acceptable co-dependence.

jaded? moi?

― petra jane, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I could tell you a thing or two about love or romance and the destruction they have wrecked on me and my sanity/life, but you know, this forum probably holds about 22,000k of that already, no need to prolong the carcrash.

― kate, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Good god, you girls are depressing.

― nathalie, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Exactly. Who needs meng when you have stoats.

― Sarah, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

But Sarah, stoats are stoatally different (arf arf). Do you have any? Stoats, I mean.

― Emma, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

YES! Admittedly the stoat is on Toms PS2. I think I don't have NEARLY enough stuffed animals, perhaps I should get myself one of the toys that I stupidly gave to someone else in a misguided spirit of niceness.

― Sarah, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Crushes are overrated.

― sundar subramanian, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Fancying someone is shit unless you're with them or unless you're a mentalist.

― Ronan, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Starry you want to go down Merton Mills and get yourself a frog of your own - and some venison sossages.

Not having crushes is SO GREAT!

― Tom, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Crushes are evil. The best thing is meeting someone, becoming good friends with them, then discovering you're completely and totally in love with each other.

I'd like to find the person who romanticized "opposites attract" and smack them with a hose for making it that much harder for people to find someone to connect with. (I'm looking at YOU, MC Skat Kat!)

― Dan Perry, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Totally on the money. I think better than what Dan said is to kiss first and then actually meet the person and find you get on with them. This way there's no awkward in between stage or difficult relationship progression rubbish.

― Ronan, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Cor Ronan how do you kiss someone before you've met them? How do you know if you even want to if you haven't met them?

― Emma, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

bah leave me alone! I mean before you've got to know them, I don't have such special powers sadly, far fucking from it.

― Ronan, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Ronan's scenario is good, too. Basically, compatible friends make the best lovers. (Heavy emphasis on "compatible" there; everyone knows the trap of falling for someone who's great as a friend but absolutely frightmarish as a SigOth.)

― Dan Perry, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

b-b-but how do you know you even want to if you haven't met them

This coming from someone who was on the side of fancying someone for how they look in the long and contentious fancying thread a while back! How the mighty have fallen!

― Ronan, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

kill all SiGoths!!

― hopkins s, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Well presumably if you meet someone you are allowed to look at their face to see if you fancy them or not. I wasn't reckoning with some kind of system whereby you have to look at photos of people first. I am talking about real people not slebz.

― Emma, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Based on the converstation between Emma and Ronan, I'm going to create an industry where I develop technology/methodolgy that allows people to make out without ever meeting. The field will be called snography. (If this turns out to be lucrative, I may branch out into shagraphy.)

― Dan Perry, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Dan, I think you've been preempted by the Internet there...

― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

ha this is all made odder by "meet" being Dublin slang for snog in some quarters. obv. the most awkward slang word ever, "you met her met her? MET HER? OH!".

― Ronan, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Ronan has discovered the fermata!

― felicity, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

the fermata + mr pissman = RUN!!

― mark s, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

YARGH. You have given me the Fear.

― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 23 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

so I totally have a crush on this guy that's living in Dunedin for not very much longer. Yesterday we went driving around together listening to AM radio and drinking juice. He kept on threatening to throw me out of the moving car, I wonder if that means he likes me.

It's terrible having a crush, I've decided. It makes me feel crazed and scatterbrained and forgetful. And I am useless at 'playing it cool'. Practically the first minute I met him, I said "I like you!", so obviously my life is wrecked now. Also, I am running out of ideas about how I can make him want to hang out with me.

― rainy, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

is he the same guy that you were telling me about on sunday?

― di, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

yeah i'm hopeless w/ crushes too. i go really shy (yes ME! SHY!) and say dumm shit. the guy who this thread was originally about sux even more because he thinks i should make appropriately feminine music. what a dick. i can't believe i ever liked that guy. my new crush doesn't know i exist.

― di, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

yeah Di, that's him.

― rainy, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

As someone who's terribly susceptible to developing serious crushes, I'm interested: what, if anything, does this particular proclivity say abt. one's personality type?

― Mark, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

i think everyone has crushes. the only thing it says about you is that you are human!

hey petra i'm coming up north this summer. do i get cookies?

― di, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

watch out Petra might lock you in a cupboard!

― rainy, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Petra seems to want to capture all the Dunedin people for her safekeeping! I now tremble in fear that I too will be packed away in Hamilton.

― Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 24 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

but ned you forgot about the COOKIES!

― di, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

my new crush doesn't know i exist.

damnit, that rules me out. *sad smiley face* all the same, YESYES...any preference of what flavour cookies? i'm considering experimenting w peanut butter and choc ones this weekend, nummynum.

― petra jane, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

petra YESYESYES! also - my Mum makes choc chip bickies w/ condensed milk = recipe for my kidnapping! furthermore i am big fan of vegan chocolate cake, its denser and moister than that other stuff.

― di, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

well then you better get yr butt up here before my domestic GODDESS of a flatmate moves, cause her vegan chocky cake = the stuff of legends. i'm too retarded to bake cakes, i think the oven hates me.

― petra jane, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

All this cookie talk is num. I might have to demand a sample or two.

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

i am stuck at work and can't go to lunch for hours!! BASTARD CAKE TALK!!!

― Dave M., Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

crushes are nice when you're young because they're fun and make you giggly and excited and you write loads of diary entries about every little bit of attention your crush gives you. but LOVE is just so much bettah! it makes you giggly and excited but lasts longer than a crush. and when the giggly and excited feeling is over, you still have the love feeling left. ok, you can all go an puke now, but I AM CHEESY AS FUCK AND PROUD!

― sand.y, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

it ... lasts longer than a crush.

not necessarily. CRUSHES last untill you get bored/distracted/fed up which can be quite a while, but LOVE only lasts as long as it takes to discover the ANNOYING PERSONAL HABITS! i'll stick to my self- deluded fantasy universe thanks, at least it doesn't clip toenails into the sink.

― petra jane, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I get crushes on straight girls and am too scared to talk to them and then I get crushes on lesbian girls and am too scared to talk to them too - unless I'm drunk, then we snog and arrange too see each other again and then because I'm sober when we meet again I'm too scared to talk to them. I have a crush on one of my best friends who is single and lesbian. I've had a crush on her for three years. I'm too scared to tell her. But I do get the occasional hug when we're drunk. I wish she had a crush on me.

― toraneko, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

but petra jane, i was thinking more along the lines of the crush slowly developing into LURVE. so, you get a crush, and then fall in love, and only then discover the annoying habits. i have only really been in love once (now) and it all started with a crush. and anyway, annoying habits don't really annoy me *that* much (probably because i have so many of them too). although i would seriously draw the line at clipping toenails into the sink. it's better to clip them in bed and then find toenail bits lodged into your back when you wake up the next morning.

― sand.y, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

it's better to clip them in bed and then find toenail bits lodged into your back when you wake up the next morning.

i love it when girls talk dirty.

― Dave M., Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

annoying habits don't really annoy me *that* much (probably because i have so many of them too)

those are the annoying habits i hate the most! i hate being reminded of my faults. i don't like turning crushes into the real deal anyway cause that person's real personality is never as dashing or romantic as my subconciously-invented script for the crush-version them. and i would rather be single and deluded than find ~*~tRuE lOve~*~ and have my illusions shattered in the process.

― petra jane, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

oh yeh, and may i say i've turned a longtime crush into a very happy and successful and nice relationship and he doesn't cut his toenails in the sink/bed but still it's not nearly as wonderful as the nauseating thrill of the CRUSH! it's always gonna be a let-down.

― petra jane, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

toraneko by the law of human desire she probably DOES have a crush on you and is saying to herself AT THIS VERY MINUTE "bah why does not toraneko feel abt me as i do abt her"

(ok i typed the "klaw of human desire" first, which is bettah)

― mark s, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

this is probably really bad advice toraneko but what i would do is get drunk one night and kiss her and see what happens. if her reaction is unfavourable you can always blame the alcohol.

― di, Thursday, 25 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Hmm, I tried this once but she was so drunk she didn't remember (I did the coy, manipulative thing the next day of saying "I can't believe I kissed you last night"). Gol dang it.

― toraneko, Friday, 26 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Aaaargh! The Claw of Human Desire! Against it we are helpless!

― Andrew, Friday, 26 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

'Claw of Human Desire' makes me think of the grr argh monster at the end of Buffy. But that's ok, cause it is kinda cute...

― petra jane, Friday, 26 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Did you see him sing on the musical episode? It was cute indeed.

― Andrew, Friday, 26 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

yes, singing grr argh monster was adorable. Second Cutest Buffy Male, OFFICIAL.

― petra jane, Friday, 26 July 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

six years pass...

Damn this spring! I've got a semi-reciprocated crush on a co-worker that I though I had shaken a 6 months ago. I wouldn't normally be worried but it's driving me batty, and I don't really want to cheat on my gf, who's gonna be away for the next 3 weeks. Aaaagh!

― NotEnough, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:11 (seventeen years ago)

I do realise ILE is not my blog, I do apologise.

― NotEnough, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:12 (seventeen years ago)

break up with your gf now shag the work person then get back together with gf when she returns

― ken "save-a-finn" c (ken c), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:13 (seventeen years ago)

What, for 3 weeks? I need to give reasons, I can't just drop the breakup bomb.

― NotEnough, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:17 (seventeen years ago)

dont break up with your girlfriend

stop spending time with the coworker

― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:18 (seventeen years ago)

Anyone who writes the phrase "semi-reciprocated crush" is getting played.

― Matt DC, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:19 (seventeen years ago)

http://dcist.com/attachments/dcist_nicole/cathy2.jpg

― Dr. Phil, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:20 (seventeen years ago)

imo there is almost no more common dumb relationship decision than breaking up with your significant other bc of a crush

― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:21 (seventeen years ago)

but maybe its one of those mistakes everyone has to make once

― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:21 (seventeen years ago)

i has a crush but she is moving to SF in june ;_;

― cutty, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:21 (seventeen years ago)

Anyone who writes the phrase "semi-reciprocated crush" is getting played.
― Matt DC, vendredi 3 avril 2009 16:19 (1 minute ago) Bookmark

Wise words

― baaderonixx, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:24 (seventeen years ago)

to crush is just to fancy someone, right? as in get some sense of responsibility?

― Old Big 'OOS (AKA the Cupwinner) (darraghmac), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:24 (seventeen years ago)

My brain tells me not to split with gf, and I won't because she's lovely. I'm just sounding off because spring is in the air and rabbits will do what rabbits do.

Anyone who writes the phrase "semi-reciprocated crush" is getting played

She doesn't strike me as the kind to play me, but then maybe that's what she wants me to think...

― NotEnough, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:27 (seventeen years ago)

you're a rabbit?

― Old Big 'OOS (AKA the Cupwinner) (darraghmac), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:27 (seventeen years ago)

http://www.jubchuqun.com/Journal/pictures/birds&bees_051706.jpg

― NotEnough, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:29 (seventeen years ago)

i guess i'm just not the 'crush' type.

― Old Big 'OOS (AKA the Cupwinner) (darraghmac), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:33 (seventeen years ago)

I have a huge crush on a 6 foot 8 army dude who is leaving 2 weeks.

― Hard like armour, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:39 (seventeen years ago)

i'm not 6 foot 8 sorry

― ken "save-a-finn" c (ken c), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:40 (seventeen years ago)

or leaving

― ken "save-a-finn" c (ken c), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:41 (seventeen years ago)

(sorry to give the wrong impression)

― ken "save-a-finn" c (ken c), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:41 (seventeen years ago)

If you are thrilled by someone, even thought you have a partner, then do it, because you never know where attraction, passion and lust can lead you. Don't be swayed by security and comfort. Excitement and fireworks are what life is all about.

― Hard like armour, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:43 (seventeen years ago)

Ken C. darling, your wit and intellect were there long before I saw Mr Army Dude. He is but a passing fancy.

― Hard like armour, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:45 (seventeen years ago)

i agree with armour. if you aren't married then do whatever you think feels right.

― cutty, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:52 (seventeen years ago)

but break-up first

― bnw, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:53 (seventeen years ago)

dont break up with your girlfriend

stop spending time with the coworker

― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Friday, 3 April 2009 15:18 (34 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

― lo (cozwn), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:54 (seventeen years ago)

armour's post is some christopher mccandless type level bullshit

― lo (cozwn), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:55 (seventeen years ago)

'Hopefully they'll menage before I reach my garage'

― bnw, Friday, 3 April 2009 14:56 (seventeen years ago)

― Hard like armour, Friday, April 3, 2009 10:43 AM (13 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

its always good to get a lot of different opinions but seriously my advice is just about 100% the exact opposite of this

― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Friday, 3 April 2009 14:59 (seventeen years ago)

unless you are 18 in which case you should probably break up with your girlfriend and watch this new crush relationship fizzle and die so you can learn a lesson

― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Friday, 3 April 2009 15:00 (seventeen years ago)

leave the girl, and the job. build a new life for yourself in the wild.

― Hard House SugBanton (blueski), Friday, 3 April 2009 15:01 (seventeen years ago)

Must admit, had to google McCandless. My POV is from coming out of a 10 year relationship & finding out that it wasn't the first time I'd been cheated on. The old adage "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em". Never thought I'd join that camp, but all experiences are leading me to believe we are not meant to be monogomous.

― Hard like armour, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:02 (seventeen years ago)

And if you are discreet and no-one finds out about it, then where is the harm?

― Hard like armour, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:04 (seventeen years ago)

― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Friday, 3 April 2009 15:06 (seventeen years ago)

that's what jeffrey dahmer said

― bnw, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:06 (seventeen years ago)

why would you want to beat someone you had a crush on?

― Local Garda, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:09 (seventeen years ago)

Jeezus!

― Hard like armour, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:09 (seventeen years ago)

crush someone you have a beat on

― Old Big 'OOS (AKA the Cupwinner) (darraghmac), Friday, 3 April 2009 15:16 (seventeen years ago)

P.S., cutty & bnw - yes & yes. I have retained some standards. They've just shifted somewhat from the morals that were instilled in me by my wonderful parents. Now I find myself turning to the darkside - the "me, me, me/take, take, take" generation. There's only so much you can give before you start to think, "Hey, you know what, I'm not such a bad person, maybe people should give back to me for a change."

― Hard like armour, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:19 (seventeen years ago)

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/5/5e/Yleisperuna_2008.jpg/180px-Yleisperuna_2008.jpg
would mash

― snoball, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:19 (seventeen years ago)

lol @ "christopher mccandless type bullshit"

― mark cl, Friday, 3 April 2009 15:21 (seventeen years ago)

HLA yuo are a sick degenerate and i wish u ill

― the most brazen explosion of clitoral lust in folk-metal history (cankles), Friday, 3 April 2009 15:50 (seventeen years ago)

St1ff like b0nar

― Dr. Phil, Friday, 3 April 2009 16:27 (seventeen years ago)

Anyone who writes the phrase "semi-reciprocated crush" is getting played.

― Matt DC, Friday, April 3, 2009 2:19 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark

― just DO THE STANKY HOOS plain and steen (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Friday, 3 April 2009 16:39 (seventeen years ago)

As is the way with these things, I've gone home, had a JD+coke and a wank, and suddenly the crush is cured. That wasn't so hard - I didn't even have to sleep with anyone!

― NotEnough, Friday, 3 April 2009 16:41 (seventeen years ago)

should change username to easilysatisfied

― ken "save-a-finn" c (ken c), Friday, 3 April 2009 16:42 (seventeen years ago)

shit, that's how i stay in relationships too.

― Old Big 'OOS (AKA the Cupwinner) (darraghmac), Friday, 3 April 2009 16:47 (seventeen years ago)

lol

― cutty, Friday, 3 April 2009 16:54 (seventeen years ago)

mostly lol, but kinda true.......

― Old Big 'OOS (AKA the Cupwinner) (darraghmac), Friday, 3 April 2009 16:55 (seventeen years ago)

you should totally break up with her. if shes as lovely as you say she could be hooking up with all kinds of cute guys who are crushing on her and not someone else.

― I wish I was the royal trux (sunny successor), Friday, 3 April 2009 17:16 (seventeen years ago)

hard to crush on same person for any extended period of time after actually getting together with them. either gets better than a crush or gets old pretty quickly after that point.

― Old Big 'OOS (AKA the Cupwinner) (darraghmac), Friday, 3 April 2009 17:20 (seventeen years ago)

^^^

― Aimless, Friday, 3 April 2009 17:50 (seventeen years ago)

one year passes...

http://www.popsike.com/pix/20090118/120364331220.jpg

― not everything is a campfire (ian), Sunday, 3 October 2010 01:53 (fifteen years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkMa7gIcnCM

― markers, Sunday, 3 October 2010 01:54 (fifteen years ago)

mount the fellow

― she's one intense bitch, she rides a unicycle (arby's), Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:04 (fifteen years ago)

http://terriblywrite.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/breaks-shine-sex.jpg?w=216&h=194

― mookieproof, Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:05 (fifteen years ago)

cruel

― Astronaut Mike Dexter (Jimmy The Mod Awaits The Return Of His Beloved), Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:14 (fifteen years ago)

^^^should probably get some sleep imo

― mookieproof, Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:15 (fifteen years ago)

mad open breaks

― not everything is a campfire (ian), Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:27 (fifteen years ago)

http://www.clipartguide.com/_named_clipart_images/0511-0901-1902-3527_Drummer_Playing_Drums_clipart_image.jpg

― not everything is a campfire (ian), Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:29 (fifteen years ago)

wait a minute

― mookieproof, Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:40 (fifteen years ago)

I miss di.

― cathedral-sized jellyfish in your mind (Trayce), Sunday, 3 October 2010 02:50 (fifteen years ago)

my crush is on beer btw, dunno if i made that clear in the revive.

http://www.noodad.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/girl-with-beer.jpg

― not everything is a campfire (ian), Sunday, 3 October 2010 05:19 (fifteen years ago)

Beer does not like me. :( Beer confuses me, I can't work beer out, and beer never calls the next day.

― cathedral-sized jellyfish in your mind (Trayce), Sunday, 3 October 2010 05:22 (fifteen years ago)

beer is so simple, you are overthinking this.

― not everything is a campfire (ian), Sunday, 3 October 2010 05:24 (fifteen years ago)

Perhaps this is my failing ;_;

Srsly I have tried and tried with beer. I dont understand!

― cathedral-sized jellyfish in your mind (Trayce), Sunday, 3 October 2010 05:31 (fifteen years ago)

beer allowed me to say to the bartender last night "hit me baby one more time; I'm just joking about the baby part"

― I'm a Grizzily Bear Now (CaptainLorax), Sunday, 3 October 2010 05:41 (fifteen years ago)

it also allows me to be in the 5% of people dancing at a concert. fuck the nerds that cant drink enough beer to dance imo

― I'm a Grizzily Bear Now (CaptainLorax), Sunday, 3 October 2010 05:43 (fifteen years ago)

I guess that's not fair to nerds that can't dance even when they drink enough beer

― I'm a Grizzily Bear Now (CaptainLorax), Sunday, 3 October 2010 05:46 (fifteen years ago)

i can't dance but i do anyway !!! thanks, beer

― ciderpress, Sunday, 3 October 2010 06:19 (fifteen years ago)

I drink cider, I just pretend it is beer.

― cathedral-sized jellyfish in your mind (Trayce), Sunday, 3 October 2010 06:40 (fifteen years ago)

Uh, I dont imply I drink u tho ciderpress ;D

― cathedral-sized jellyfish in your mind (Trayce), Sunday, 3 October 2010 06:41 (fifteen years ago)

mike's hard apple cider
I would buy it

― I'm a Grizzily Bear Now (CaptainLorax), Sunday, 3 October 2010 07:08 (fifteen years ago)

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