Students once would only dare to approach a lecturer with a meek knock and a humble "Excuse me, professor". But now they bombard lecturers with e-mail messages at all hours of the day to make banal or impertinent queries in a manner that ranges from the overly familiar to the downright rude.
UK academics say e-mail is erasing the boundaries that traditionally kept students at a healthy distance. Students hit the send button at all hours, even on Christmas Day, addressing their tutors by their first names only and often in a style so informal that the message ends in "hugs" and "kisses".
One lecturer received this from a drama undergraduate: "Hey. do u have to quote from all the plays u r referrin 2 in the drama essay or just paraphrase? thank." Another regularly receives e-mails signed "hugs 'n' kisses", "cheers mate" and "see you in class!"
One student expected his lecturer to reply immediately to the following:
"Sorry I lost the handout that gave me the essay title - I know it's due in tomorrow so can you send it again, Pete?" The essay referred to had been set a month earlier.
The examples emerge from an informal Times Higher survey of UK academics - who were only too pleased too divulge their experiences. Today's e-mail correspondence also increasingly reflects students' perception of themselves as paying customers.
One sent an e-mail to his tutor threatening to "take his fees elsewhere"
unless he had a prompt response about why he had failed a module.
Another wrote: "I see no point in retaking this exam unless you can provide me with feedback of where I underperformed. I hope you can supply this to me at the nearest opportunity."
― NickB (NickB), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:19 (twenty years ago)
― NickB (NickB), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:21 (twenty years ago)
Too right, mate!
― mark grout (mark grout), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:26 (twenty years ago)
It does. (In particular, I see nothing wrong with the last message quoted, at all! And what is so bad about 'see you in class!'?)
Students communicate differently these days, is all. If there's a problem it's that they are not getting clear information about who can/should deal with their problems and when and where their tutors are available.
The word 'impertinent' shouldn't be used of anyone over eighteen. And they ARE paying customers. (Ones that can't construct proper English sentences maybe but that's not a crime.)
― Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:27 (twenty years ago)
beside you'd think most tutors would be glad of the hugs'n'kisses
― secondhandnews (secondhandnews), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:32 (twenty years ago)
wot do u fink lol wtfhugz'n'luvzt33ch
― Onimo (GerryNemo), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:33 (twenty years ago)
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:34 (twenty years ago)
If any of the academics I work with were having this problem, I'd tell them to set up an autoreply or something, saying what kinds of messages they can/will respond to and when they are available to answer questions.
― Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:35 (twenty years ago)
XPOST - Archel OTM. It would be great if the Autoreply said "Undergraduates who do not show proper respect will receive no replies".
I like the guy who moaned about receiving a mail on Xmo day. What was he checking his mail for then? LOSER.
― DV (dirtyvicar), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:37 (twenty years ago)
― Dogfight Giggle (noodle vague), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:37 (twenty years ago)
THIS IS A NATIONAL DISGRACE
― steal compass, drive north, disappear (tissp), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:39 (twenty years ago)
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:40 (twenty years ago)
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:41 (twenty years ago)
The class system is alive and well, I see.
― steal compass, drive north, disappear (tissp), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:46 (twenty years ago)
― enrique, a postgrad, Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:47 (twenty years ago)
― Anna (Anna), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:47 (twenty years ago)
-- Pashmina (vietgrov...) (webmail), Today 11:34 AM. (later) (link)
Yes it is. But if worded better, it's not unreasonable to ask for.
xpost with a name like F, that's just giving no expectation at all!
― mark grout (mark grout), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:50 (twenty years ago)
― Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:52 (twenty years ago)
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/02/21/education/21professors.html?ex=1298178000&en=361f9efce267b517&ei=5090&partner=rssuserland&emc=rss
― Mike W (caek), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:54 (twenty years ago)
― dave $1.83 (dave225.3), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:55 (twenty years ago)
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 10:55 (twenty years ago)
From the TH3S:
"UK academics say e-mail is erasing the boundaries that traditionally kept students at a healthy distance."
From the NYT:
"At colleges and universities nationwide, e-mail has made professors much more approachable. But many say it has made them too accessible, erasing boundaries that traditionally kept students at a healthy distance."
Could just be from the same press release, mind.
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 11:06 (twenty years ago)
― enrique, postgrad, Wednesday, 12 April 2006 11:17 (twenty years ago)
This makes no sense at all.
addressing their tutors by their first names only
I don't remember any lecturers who would have expected to be addressed any other way when I did my degree. I'd sometimes sit with them in the refectory and chat with them just as if they were people like me, and astonishingly they seemed to cope without complaining to The Times.
This is laughable nonsense. The idiot with 'what's tomorrow's essay about?' is nothing to with email or mode of address, it's a student not doing what is required, which has always happened.
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 11:26 (twenty years ago)
― stet (stet), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:01 (twenty years ago)
astonishingly they seemed to cope without complaining to The Times.
The TAs I know complain about e-mails all the time, and it's a real problem for them. I think to just say they should keep a stiff upper lip is a bit silly.
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:04 (twenty years ago)
― steal compass, drive north, disappear (tissp), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:14 (twenty years ago)
when i read this story i thought i had read it before. they musyt have regurgitated the previous article then asked a bunch of people in the TH3S office what funny emails they had ever got.
― ambrose (ambrose), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:15 (twenty years ago)
And I'm not sure why speaking to reporters is suddenly a crime if you don't agree with what someone's saying.
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:16 (twenty years ago)
That said, given the similarity to the NYT article, perhaps that word appeared in the original press release.
― steal compass, drive north, disappear (tissp), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:18 (twenty years ago)
― dave $1.83 (dave225.3), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:21 (twenty years ago)
better than 100 phonecalls i say!
― i've dreamt of rubies! (Mandee), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:22 (twenty years ago)
I hardly e-mail any of my lectures and if I do, it's a) done in a professional manner even through I am on friendly terms with my lecturers and b) if it's only totally needed to clarify something.
― ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!! (ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!!), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:23 (twenty years ago)
― mark grout (mark grout), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 12:33 (twenty years ago)
Yeah, we did:
Students who e-mail too much (and the professors that don't quite love them)
― NoTimeBeforeTime (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 13:37 (twenty years ago)
― yuengling participle (rotten03), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:15 (twenty years ago)
― Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:21 (twenty years ago)
― steal compass, drive north, disappear (tissp), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:31 (twenty years ago)
And, x-post, saying you won't respond to e-mail is the sort-of perfect world option, but not a realistically workable one, unless you're a Dean or something.
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:34 (twenty years ago)
― someone let this mitya out! (mitya), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:35 (twenty years ago)
xpost are you people fucking serious? Do any of you know any teachers (besides the two upthread who already confessed to knowing such vile, lazy examples of humanity)? You all do realize that the fact that these students e-mailed then makes quite a few of them think they have the "right" to go complain when their last minute unreasonable "Whoops I was lazy LOL" demands weren't met? As in complain to the actual administration and higher ups and actually get teachers in trouble. My sister is a teacher, she's glad to answer students e-mails. But a 2am email from a frat boy who never attended class demanding lecture notes for the final exam at noon tomorrow is not the kind of thing she should be expected to be on call for, yet she has been, and has been reprimanded for not turning around the student's request!
Who said middle class internet users had an overdeveloped sense of entitlement? Not me.
I mean yeah I'm sure someone who is complaining "OMG my student expected me to explain the grade I gave them before they retook an exam" or "OMG my student signed off 'hugz'" is being a douche but you cannot convince me that almost every single one of you is lacking the critical skills to re-read the article and see where this actually IS a problem before you join the sides of morans.
― Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:45 (twenty years ago)
obviously that's absurd; it's the tone of the article people are reacting to. students *are* customers (shouldn't be but are) so it's rank class hypocrisy for tutors to claim to be above that.
my experiences have varied widely; my current superviser is totally uncontactable; the missus' tutor *replies* to emails on saturday evenings.
― enrique, postgrad mang, Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:49 (twenty years ago)
― Aimless (Aimless), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:52 (twenty years ago)
surely if a teacher/lecturer gets in trouble for not answering to an email within a certain timescale, they get the right to defend themself? i cant imagine any reasonable head of department etc upholding a students complaint such as the situation you posited.
i dont see why this issue has to either swing one way or the other....students can be unreasonable, and can be dicks, teachers can be unreasonable, and can be dicks. on both sides, the majority are fine, i would presume.
as for a sense of entitlement, well everyone has that. someone can complain abouyt their bus being late, or building a bus stop outside their house, their complaint will be recorded and if its unreasonable, it wont be taken further, and they'll be informed. they might sent an email in at 2am, i cant see why with email it makes any difference when they send it. if they were phoning at 2am, that would be different. saem with xmas day etc.
― ambrose (ambrose), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 14:59 (twenty years ago)
For the students, university isn't just about doing the work, it's about learning how to manage your time and prioritize tasks. If you don't even know what the essay topics are and the work is due the next morning then you're basically fucked and no amount of friendly email banter will change that.
If any student threatened to take his/her fees elsewhere then I'd laugh in their face, for reasons which should be obvious (this is a required course for you, dumbass ... I'm sure your parents will be thrilled to hear that ... etc.)
― NoTimeBeforeTime (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:00 (twenty years ago)
― steal compass, drive north, disappear (tissp), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:01 (twenty years ago)
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:02 (twenty years ago)
2xpost
― NoTimeBeforeTime (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:03 (twenty years ago)
Enrique, both students and those who teach them come from a variety of backgrounds. Obviously becoming a lecturer moves you into a particular social strata, but are you seriously saying university students are the downtroden working classes?
― Anna (Anna), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:04 (twenty years ago)
!!! its a bit obvious what the analogue is;
"From: Mr IdiotTo: Me the opressed massSent: 17:49 GMT
Subject: OMG report!
Hey X!
Oh dear I really ned that report for tomorrows board meeting! If i dont get it then we totally cant get any money to improve buses in the world! I know i never asked for it or told you about it until now, but i need 1000000 words by 9 am tomorrow about buses disguised as trasm and improving patronage.
Thanks
Idiot,
Demanding department"
― ambrose (ambrose), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:08 (twenty years ago)
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:11 (twenty years ago)
― Jimmy Mod: My theme is DEATH (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 15:12 (twenty years ago)
1) Students thinking they can turn in their assignments via email, then saying "my email didn't go through! sorry this is late." Basically, I've made a "you can't email your assignments to me unless we discuss it first" policy.
2) There is a weird quality of rudeness to it at times. Emails that being: "Hey. I can't come to class today. Tell me what I missed?" feel a little weird because I go to the trouble of learning their names and they seem to not know mine. I usually just tell them to come by my office hours to find out what they missed.
3) Deserted office hours: It is RARE that someone comes by my office anymore to discuss their grade, ask a question, or seek out help. I don't really mind if they try to do this through email, really, but I think it's more effective to communicate in person. Again, though, it's simple to default to the "come to my office hours" reply.
As far as handouts, lecture notes, assignments sheets, etc., there's a very simple online system (blackboard) where I post all that stuff, and students are responsible for getting it themselves if they miss class. It's a good system, I think.
― not sure about pickles (Jacqui Pickles), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 22:49 (twenty years ago)
Might be me, but I remember this being the case back in the early nineties when I was a TA myself.
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 23:10 (twenty years ago)
― Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 23:22 (twenty years ago)
I've been a TA/lecturer of some variety since 1997 and seems like there's been a marked drop-off in the last 3-4 years, but I've never really had people pounding my door down.
on the first day of class you explain what the policy about email is along with explanations of the grading policy. That way there aren't as many hard feelings because you're not being arbitrary about it and everybody knows going into the situation what the rules are.
I'd say putting it all in the syllabus isn't a bad idea, either; that way it's all in writing and they've had it in their hot little hands from day one.
― not sure about pickles (Jacqui Pickles), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 23:27 (twenty years ago)
Yeah but Amst makes a good point on it:
honestly this stuff hasn't really become a problem, it's just a few students who seem to make unreasonable demands. and it's easy enough to deal with them, you just say that you can't help them with that. and you have to have a backbone and realize that even if they seem upset, they'll get over it, and they need to learn to fend for themselves.
Given that students, no matter their sense of entitlement, are in an inferior position, a few pissy emails should not bug a professor. "Email hell" my ass. There is no such thing. You outline what kind of emails you will and will not answer early on, and you do not answer the unreasonable or impertinent ones. Problem solved. The tone of this article bugs me, because it's like a bunch of professors going, "What's wrong with these kids that they don't even have enough respect to...!" etc. Who fucking cares? Control your class.
― Gilbert O'Sullivan (kenan), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 23:32 (twenty years ago)
Please Sterling Don't Hurt 'Em
― ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!! (ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!!), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 23:44 (twenty years ago)
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 23:46 (twenty years ago)
― Gilbert O'Sullivan (kenan), Wednesday, 12 April 2006 23:49 (twenty years ago)
― Thermo Thinwall (Thermo Thinwall), Thursday, 13 April 2006 02:24 (twenty years ago)
― Gilbert O'Sullivan (kenan), Thursday, 13 April 2006 02:28 (twenty years ago)
― edward o (edwardo), Thursday, 13 April 2006 02:28 (twenty years ago)
― martin m. (mushrush), Thursday, 13 April 2006 03:06 (twenty years ago)
I wanna be in Prince's drama class!
― naus (Robert T), Thursday, 13 April 2006 03:48 (twenty years ago)
"Darling fascist bully-boy, give me an A+ you bastard."
― Trayce (trayce), Thursday, 13 April 2006 03:52 (twenty years ago)
― Mr Jones (Mr Jones), Thursday, 13 April 2006 04:22 (twenty years ago)
Yes, that's exactly what I was thinking. Ha ha!
― martin m. (mushrush), Thursday, 13 April 2006 04:32 (twenty years ago)
― J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Thursday, 13 April 2006 04:49 (twenty years ago)
Hear hear! Along similar lines I would get so JACKED at students asking me a) if they could go to the toilet b) "Is this number right" [whilst pointing at a number in the middle of several hundred other numbers written in their lab book].
― badg (badg), Thursday, 13 April 2006 04:50 (twenty years ago)
Bingo.
I didn't find any of these examples nearly as offensive as they were obviously meant to be. They varied from reasonable to mildly inconvenient. 'See you in class!' - For heaven's sake, what on earth is wrong with saying that?
― ratty, Thursday, 13 April 2006 04:52 (twenty years ago)
i don't find the level of email unmanageable.... i just write replies that are appropriate to the maturity/reasonableness of the question(s). if the question is unutterably stupid then i just won't respond, and the student will in all likelihood figure it out on their own. it's a mild annoyance at times. i find that you can reduce the number of emails if you just make everything very very clear on the syllabus and don't switch stuff around after that. ta'ing for professors who are disorganized leads to many, many emails from confused students.
i do appreciate a certain degree of formality when students write to me (and vice versa), if only so they don't make the mistake of thinking i'm their friend more than their teacher, which can lead to "how dare you flunk me?" sorts of problems.
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Thursday, 13 April 2006 05:01 (twenty years ago)
-- Anna (Fieldingann...), April 12th, 2006.
no, not at all, although erm, well, you know, they're students, they don't have much money--less than employed working-class people their age--and what money they have is borrowed, so no they aren't 'bourgeois' particularly. likewise, lecturers aren't bourgeois, they're poorly paid salary-earners.
but the lecturers are clinging deperately on to their cultural capital, and by complaining that students see themselves as customers they are trying to get the students to believe their myth. to their chagrin because they are service providers, not whatever romantic idea of the intellectual they themselves were inculcated into.
so that's why it's class hypocrisy, the refusal to face up to cold reality.
― enrique, postgrad mang, Thursday, 13 April 2006 08:26 (twenty years ago)
See, it's not the service, it's the conditions of service that are at issue here. Otherwise you'd get lecturers who have studied for 20 years asking the same salary as dick head wall st wanktards who get a starter of 80 k a year and bang up to 200 plus options.
― Queen Get those fucking unwashed outta my class, Thursday, 13 April 2006 08:37 (twenty years ago)
― Konal Doddz (blueski), Thursday, 13 April 2006 08:39 (twenty years ago)
-- Queen Get those fucking unwashed outta my class (pihil10...), April 13th, 2006.
but for capitalism... i mean, no, they wouldn't because unis don't make that kind of money.
some students have a lot of money. plus i don't really see what bearing the idea of students being customers has on whether or not it's acceptable for them to make the sort of demands the article describes. -- Konal Doddz (stevem7...), April 13th, 2006.
well, no-one's saying these students are anything but idiots, but you don't get articles about idiot customers in other contexts, and that's because lecturers don't see themselves as workers like anyone else.
― enrique, postgrad mang, Thursday, 13 April 2006 08:48 (twenty years ago)
Ever worked for the NHS?
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Thursday, 13 April 2006 08:56 (twenty years ago)
― Trayce (trayce), Thursday, 13 April 2006 08:59 (twenty years ago)
(I actually lost count the amount of times customers would have a go at me, personally, because Random House hadn't released a paperback of The Da Vinci Code yet.)
(Of course, none of this precludes me being a fuckwitt customer at times.)
― Chuck_Tatum (Chuck_Tatum), Thursday, 13 April 2006 09:10 (twenty years ago)
yes, and... i didn't see articles saying 'omg the sense of entitlement of these taxpayers!' flag up their stupidity, sure -- that's not the issue here.
― enrique, former nhs guy, Thursday, 13 April 2006 09:11 (twenty years ago)
isnt that the point? i mean, customers are wankers, but customer is king so you have to grin and bear it, the world keeps turning, dog bites man etc etc
― ambrose (ambrose), Thursday, 13 April 2006 10:06 (twenty years ago)
the only ones i think are unreasonable above are the asking for a handout 12 hrs before the work's due in, and the email in txt msg style is pretty dumb. but the last one seems completely reasonable to me.
― toby (tsg20), Thursday, 13 April 2006 12:12 (twenty years ago)
wrt lecturers not wanting to be seen as 'service providers' - from my experience, its been more a question of colleges trying to shorten courses so they can run more within the same time-frame, at the expense of the course and what can be taught within it, as if the course were a product and they should ensure how to keep its costs down as low as possible, to ensure the highest return.
― i am not a nugget (stevie), Thursday, 13 April 2006 13:23 (twenty years ago)
In my undergraduate experience it was usually because office hours were right during my other class, job, lab or sleep time (I *cannot* get to 8 am office hours!) People -- especially TAs -- need to have better office hours than "2 to 4 Tu Th". HINT: people with conflicts usually will have trouble attending at the same time a different day of the week
― Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Thursday, 13 April 2006 15:10 (twenty years ago)
Any other non-yanks boggling at the grammatical impossibility of this phrase? You can't come to an hour, for heaven's sake!
― Markelby (Mark C), Thursday, 13 April 2006 15:17 (twenty years ago)
― Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Thursday, 13 April 2006 15:19 (twenty years ago)
― Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Thursday, 13 April 2006 15:20 (twenty years ago)
― ambrose (ambrose), Thursday, 13 April 2006 15:25 (twenty years ago)
Jon's not making a distinction between US and UK use of the term GRAMMAR, is he? Come on now....
― martin m. (mushrush), Thursday, 13 April 2006 15:40 (twenty years ago)
― Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Thursday, 13 April 2006 15:42 (twenty years ago)
The next time this happens hold up your hand in a quietening gesture, saying, "Leave this to me."
Then turn to some random person and command them, "Take a memo, Ms. Smith. To the CEO of Random House. My customers demand that you release The Da Vinci Code in paperback. Please see to it, ASAP. Yours, etc, etc. -- and, Ms. Smith, please send that post haste!"
Turn back to your customer, smile and say, "Is there anything else I can do for you today?"
― Aimless (Aimless), Thursday, 13 April 2006 17:01 (twenty years ago)
Everyone I know says it that way. Everrrryone. :D
― not sure about pickles (Jacqui Pickles), Thursday, 13 April 2006 17:13 (twenty years ago)
― Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Thursday, 13 April 2006 17:13 (twenty years ago)
One of my classmates emailed Ang3la McR0bb13 calling her by her first name and got a reply basically saying "that's DR McR0bb13".
― tokyo nursery school: afternoon session (rosemary), Friday, 14 April 2006 03:18 (twenty years ago)
― the unbearable lightness of peeing (orion), Friday, 14 April 2006 03:28 (twenty years ago)
― tokyo nursery school: afternoon session (rosemary), Friday, 14 April 2006 12:10 (twenty years ago)
― toby (tsg20), Friday, 14 April 2006 12:31 (twenty years ago)
― Markelby (Mark C), Friday, 14 April 2006 12:49 (twenty years ago)
― yarn, Friday, 14 April 2006 13:03 (twenty years ago)
― emil.y (emil.y), Thursday, 4 May 2006 22:42 (twenty years ago)
― stet (stet), Thursday, 4 May 2006 22:45 (twenty years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Thursday, 4 May 2006 23:10 (twenty years ago)
― emil.y (emil.y), Thursday, 4 May 2006 23:22 (twenty years ago)
― emil.y (emil.y), Thursday, 4 May 2006 23:23 (twenty years ago)
― stet (stet), Thursday, 4 May 2006 23:25 (twenty years ago)