The U.S. and France: Why the dislike?

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In another thread someone wrote this: "the americans hate the french because it is the only opportunity they get to externalize self-hatred. because the french and the americans are very similar, and neither likes what they see in the mirror, thats the reason for the antipathy"

Do you think there's any truth in that?

Lovelace (Lovelace), Sunday, 14 May 2006 23:40 (nineteen years ago)

no

lf (lfam), Sunday, 14 May 2006 23:41 (nineteen years ago)

thank you

Lovelace (Lovelace), Sunday, 14 May 2006 23:42 (nineteen years ago)

http://countrystore.blogspot.com/images/French_monkey.gif

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 14 May 2006 23:44 (nineteen years ago)

The Will Ferrell NASCAR movie addresses all of this. Be patient.

Cunga (Cunga), Monday, 15 May 2006 00:16 (nineteen years ago)

yes, in fact i have said the same thing many times. aside from language, america has more in common with france than it does with england. after a certain point the similarities break down, but in the 1790s everyone would have agreed with that without even thinking too much about it.

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 00:44 (nineteen years ago)

i read an article today about how segolene royal might become france's first female president. it made me want to move there immediately.

brooklyn of the stone age (Jody Beth Rosen), Monday, 15 May 2006 00:59 (nineteen years ago)

Many of the riots and unrest in France of late -- and even their rejection of the European constitution -- have been based on a rejection of Anglo-American style free market economics. There's a perception that Americans (and the British) work harder, yet have fewer benefits and a worse standard of living than continental Europeans. That the market is harsh, unregulated and Darwinian.

"Villepin's new law catalyzed anxiety among the French because its message to the young seemed to be that they should no longer expect good jobs and security," says William Pfaff in the New York Review of Books ("France, the children's hour").

Momus (Momus), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:05 (nineteen years ago)

(Not to mention the rubbish food and wars the Americans seem to bring in their wake.)

Momus (Momus), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:05 (nineteen years ago)

There's a perception?

Aren't those facts?

pleased to mitya (mitya), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:36 (nineteen years ago)

b/c we have an odd sense of history re: the american view of the french WWII surrender, w/o remembering that whole "surrender of cornwallis in 1782 to the french(and some american) troops & navy" thing

kingfish doesn't live here anymore (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:43 (nineteen years ago)

no... that isn't quite it.

sonore (sonore), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:46 (nineteen years ago)

To what extent does american dislike for france precede WW2? i've always thought of it primarily in the modern context of de Gaulle (and his successors) laboring under the impression that France was still a superpower.

I've never heard/read anything particularly negative about the French surrender to the Nazis. (I mean, pretty much everyone did in the end, didn't they?)

pleased to mitya (mitya), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:48 (nineteen years ago)

"I've never heard/read anything particularly negative about the French surrender to the Nazis."

really?? the vichy government and all that? i have.

scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:52 (nineteen years ago)

the surrender and the aftermath are two different things though. i don't remember much about the surrender. i should read a book!

scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:57 (nineteen years ago)

it has something to do with deodorant and shaving

timmy tannin (pompous), Monday, 15 May 2006 01:59 (nineteen years ago)

The only Frenchman I hate is Tony Parker. (And Le Pen, etc., but mostly Tony Parker.)

milo z (mlp), Monday, 15 May 2006 02:00 (nineteen years ago)

also, the whole snooty bit

kingfish doesn't live here anymore (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 15 May 2006 02:08 (nineteen years ago)

yes, in fact i have said the same thing many times. aside from language, america has more in common with france than it does with england. after a certain point the similarities break down, but in the 1790s everyone would have agreed with that without even thinking too much about it.
-- Tracey Hand (tracerhan...), Yesterday.

i take issue with this - i assume by 1790s you are referring to the anti-monarchic revolutions that occurred in america and france. they were similar in what they were rebelling against, but they had extremely different ideas about freedom and the role of government. america was working with a negative conception of liberty ('freedom from') while france was more interested in positive liberty (freedom to do). this has persisted for the most part, with the notable exception in america of affirmative action and the welfare state. and still, affirmative action is only allowed under the guise of "righting historic wrongs." it's a restriction of negative liberty that seeks to redress a similar past restriction.

both countries may come off as self-absorbed assholes to the rest of the world, but i don't think they're coming from the same place.

lf (lfam), Monday, 15 May 2006 04:44 (nineteen years ago)

xpost lovelace

that's what i meant by no

lf (lfam), Monday, 15 May 2006 04:45 (nineteen years ago)

The current animosity is a direct result from the US actions during WWII. Copy-pasting from http://mondediplo.com/2003/05/05lacroi

N 1941-42 the United States intended that France, together with soon-to-be defeated Italy, Germany and Japan, was to be part of a protectorate run by the Allied Military Government of the Occupied Territories (Amgot). According to the agreement of November 1942 between Admiral Jean-François Darlan and US General Mark Clark, which secured France’s commitment to the Allied cause, Amgot would have abolished its national sovereignty, including its right to issue currency.

Some US historians believe this plan stemmed from President Franklin D Roosevelt’s antipathy towards Charles de Gaulle. Roosevelt saw him as a dictator-in-training and sought to prevent him from ruling post-Pétain. (Marshal Henri-Philippe Pétain led the pro-Nazi government of unoccupied France at Vichy,1940-44.) The argument that Roosevelt intended to establish universal democracy is compelling but wrong (1).

The US was concerned that France, although weakened by its 1940 defeat, might reject the plan, especially if its presidency went to De Gaulle, who had vowed to restore French sovereignty. It feared France might use its nuisance capacity as it had when it opposed pro-German US policies after the first world war. France would not have wanted to relinquish its empire, rich in raw materials and strategic bases. The US had long called for an open door policy for goods and investments in all colonial empires (2). The US relied on twin strategies: ignoring De Gaulle, and dealing with Pétain’s regime with a combin ation of accommodation and toughness. It realised that Vichy, like the Latin American regimes dear to its heart, was more malleable than a government with broad popular support.

The US plan for a "Vichy-sans-Vichy" took shape. French elites supported the idea: they clung to the Vichy regime, which had restored privileges taken away by the pre-war republican government, and were eager to make a painless transition from German rule to the pax americana.

After December 1940 the US prepared to send troops to North Africa, with Robert Murphy, Roosevelt’s personal envoy. It attempted to cap italise on a symbol of French defeat: General Maxime Weygand, commander-in-chief during the German invasion and Vichy’s delegate- general to French Africa until November 1941. When this failed, it turned to General Henri Giraud. Soon after, US forces landed in Morocco and Algeria on 8 November 1942. The next to be wooed was Admiral Jean-François Darlan, stationed in Algiers, a collaborator who served as Pétain’s vice-premier and foreign minister from 1941-42. He remained at Pétain’s side when Pierre Laval returned to power in 1942-44 (3).

General Clark had Darlan sign an agreement on 22 November 1942 placing North Africa at the disposal of the US and making France a "vassal" state, subject to "capitulations" (4). The US assumed unprecedented rights over French territorial extensions in Africa, including overseeing troop movements; ports, airfields, military defences and munitions, communications networks and the merchant navy. The agreement also provided for US requisitions of goods and services; tax exemptions; extraterritorial rights; and US-determined military zones. Joint commissions would be responsible for law and order, current administration, censorship and economic policy.

Laval had sealed his fate by hoping for "a German victory" . Assisted by his son-in-law, René de Chambrun, a collaborationist corporate lawyer with dual US/French citizenship, Laval believed the US pledge that he would play a key role after a separate peace agreement, pitting Germany, Britain and the US against the Soviets, was reached. But US support for Laval was not compatible with French internal power struggles, and the separate peace proposal failed to take into account the Red Army’s key role in crushing Hitler’s Wehrmacht.

Darlan was assassinated by an anti-Vichyite with Gaullist connections on 24 December 1942. The US turned to General Giraud, who briefly served with De Gaulle as co-president of the French National Liberation Committee (CFLN), founded in 1943. After the battle of Stalingrad which marked the end of the German advance, Giraud was supported by senior Vichy officials, including Maurice Couve de Murville, overseas finance minister, who defected to the Allies in 1943. His supporters included industrialists such as Jacques Lemaigre-Dubreuil, a former member of the pro-fascist Cagoule group, who headed Lesieur oils and the Printemps department stores. Also onside were collaborationist bankers such as Alfred Pose, chief executive officer for the National Bank of Commerce and Industry.

Pierre Pucheu was the next Vichy official to embrace the US option, joining Giraud in Algiers. No one personified the Vichy regime better than Pucheu. In 1941 he became Darlan’s industry minister and then interior minister. He had served as a fundraiser for the fascist French People’s Party . He also championed economic collaboration with Germany and anti-communist repression, working on behalf of the Nazi occupation (including selecting communist prisoners executed in 1941 in retaliation for the assassin ation of German officers, and establishing special sections - anti-communist tribunals).

Spurned by Giraud, Pucheu was imprisoned in May 1943 and sentenced to death; he was executed in Algiers in March 1944. This appeased the communists, whom Pucheu had martyred; but de Gaulle was also warning the US and Britain, and frightening those who expected US saviours to supplant the Vichy regime. In 1943 a police officer joked: "The French bourgeoisie always presumed that US or British soldiers would fight on its behalf if the Bolsheviks won" (5).

The US depicted De Gaulle as a rightwing dictator and a puppet of French communists and the USSR. But it had to abandon plans to impose the dollar in liberated territories. On 23 October 1944 the Allies officially recognised De Gaulle as head of the French government: the USSR had recognised France’s true government two and a half years before. On 10 December 1944 France signed a treaty of alliance and mutual security with Moscow, to offset US power. De Gaulle described it in glowing terms (6).

Excluded from the Yalta conference in 1945 and dependent on the US, France became a key part of the US sphere of influence. But only vigorous resistance, internal and external, had saved it from becoming a US protectorate.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Monday, 15 May 2006 05:36 (nineteen years ago)

The whole "Royale with Cheese" thingamagigy. Empiricism vs. Rationalism.
Also, I assume not too many French immigrants in relation to the English, Dutch, Irish, German, Italian, Slovic, etc. peoples that comprise the European part of our ancestry, so maybe that's one prejudice that never got filtered out by comingling.

slugbuggy (slugbuggy), Monday, 15 May 2006 06:57 (nineteen years ago)

"Royale with Cheese" is the rational?

think you are underestimating the french connections

"The following States were part of Louisiana: Louisiana, Mississipi, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Missouri, Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Illinois, Indiana, Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota, North Dakoata, South Dakota"

there were a lot of immigrant from france after the french revolution and they gave you the statue of liberty a while later, too

etc

RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 07:42 (nineteen years ago)

foreigners in having oversimplified visions of each other SHOCKAH

lf (lfam), Monday, 15 May 2006 08:24 (nineteen years ago)

Well, I meant those to be separate but you have a point. Calling something a "Quarter Pounder" does sound rather empirical, though.

The general assumption is the the standard American mindset was/ is shaped out of British Empiricism, while French culture is informed by Continintal Rationalism, as much as that means anything. I also assume any American university student who had to deconstruct the phone directory in order to root out the underlying hegemonic constucts harbors some sort of resentment towards Derrida and all that lot. Also, art-school chicks who think they're French but aren't are the worst kind of crazy, and won't date the rest of us anyway. Actually, I think that's a good metaphor for the American-French relationship right there. It's like one of those high-school couples that outwardly claim to hate each other 'cause ones a dumb jock and the other's a sensitive, Plath-reading intellectual but you're always catching them coming out of the supply closet together with their clothes all mussed up.

Yeah, that whole Louisiana thing. Big part of our history, but even today many American cities will have an identifiable Chinatown, Little Italy, Polish sector, Germantown, predominantly Latin or African-American areas, or whatever, but if you speak of places where there's a discernable French influence most people can only name New Orleans and that vicinity or north of the border in Canada. Also, American history is largely assumed by many Americans to be the schlep from the east coast to the only other good part, the side way over there in the west, so that middle section is kinda a footnote.

slugbuggy (slugbuggy), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:17 (nineteen years ago)

Actually, many cities probably have a larger German or Irish or Eastern European whitey population than strictly WASPs, and whitey in general is probably the minority in many or most major urban areas.

slugbuggy (slugbuggy), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:32 (nineteen years ago)

its because the french are bad at pop culture. Apart from the random cult figure - Gainsbourg, the occasional filmmaker, etc. - the US looks at France and sees a big blank. No TVs, no movies, no music, no books - and yeah, no (recent) immigrants or other direct communal connection.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:38 (nineteen years ago)

seriously?

RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:42 (nineteen years ago)

sure. ask the average American to name one thing from France in the last 50 years and I'd wager you'd get more blank stares than answers (and half those answers would be Gerard Depardieu)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:43 (nineteen years ago)

I think it's just as likely that it's because the americans are bad at watching subtitled movies, etc, or anything that isn't american

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RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:44 (nineteen years ago)

(also why isn't M. White all over this thread?)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:44 (nineteen years ago)

The only Frenchman I hate is Tony Parker. (And Le Pen, etc., but mostly Tony Parker.)

why u hate my dad?

mookieproof (mookieproof), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:45 (nineteen years ago)

ask the average american to name one thing from any foreign country like germany, austria, italy, spain, portugal, etc, etc

RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:47 (nineteen years ago)

xpost

Citing Nebraska and South Dakota as part of the "French influence" on the US is a wonderful way of getting us NOT to take an argument seriously, although we do appreciate your history lesson. (Don't forget Russia's important role while you're at it.) Sure, the Louisiana Purchase was from France, but I don't see that having any significant relation -- at least on the US side -- on attitudes toward France. You'd be better off raising what is known in the U.S. as the "French and Indian War."

pleased to mitya (mitya), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:47 (nineteen years ago)

well, we seem to like kung fu movies.... I admit I'm making some aggressive generalizations here, based partly on my own prejudices, in regards to American views of the French but really, the French never come up in American conversation. Never. Unless yr discussing global politics and how skeevy they are. THere's no French immigrant community over here proudly trumpeting their culture and giving us a taste of things, and nothing they produce makes a dent over here. And this is not necessarily the case with other European countries - particularly with music (we're all happy to investigate German techno or swedish psych rock or whatever but the French...? uh, MC Solaar? what else have they done since Gainsbourg?)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:47 (nineteen years ago)

did I even say the "french influence" that you're pretending to quote in your extra-obnoxious post?

perhaps YOU are the reason the french dislike americans

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RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:56 (nineteen years ago)

"ask the average american to name one thing from any foreign country like germany, austria, italy, spain, portugal, etc, etc"

this is not true (well okay maybe its true for portugal and austria but it is much worse in the case France). again, just thinking musically, Germany = Can, Kraftwerk, all kinds of recent techno stuff, etc.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:58 (nineteen years ago)

Tracer's right politically, but I think at least part of this issue is more cultural. Even for the UK, France once represented the height of culture for the Continent, in terms of sensual and aesthetic sophistication (or worldliness). The US, on the other hand, has a national character shaped by deliberately unworldly Puritans -- and shaped by a long-standing insecurity about basically being perceived as savage hinterland yokels compared to European civilization. (Hence our constant mantras about wisdom residing in simple folk, right down to 1980s slobs-versus-snobs movies.) So we still construct France -- especially French things -- as very refined and sophisticated, and at the same time have a corresponding knee-jerk antipathy to what we've chosen to regard as their being snobby elitist gay dandies.

That has nothing to do with actual French people, or anything -- just saying I think that's the dynamic in really base-level American pop culture. We do the same thing with the English.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:02 (nineteen years ago)

your average american has heard of can? mine hasn't even heard of kraftwerk

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RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:03 (nineteen years ago)

Actually in our construction the British are stiff fusty snobs, while the French are flamboyant mime snobs.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:05 (nineteen years ago)

AIR = FRENCH BAND

jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:06 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah I'm also loving the idea that Can, never mind recent German techno, is a household name in America.

However, the word "things" is pretty ill-defined. I mean, is being familiar with various pilsners or wines (depending on country), or foods for god's sake, counting as "things"? Because you'd have a better chance arguing average citizens know about those things than this bullshit ILM nonsense about musicians.

Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:06 (nineteen years ago)

I think yr average american music fan has heard of kraftwerk and, probably to a lesser extent, Can. tho this would def. be a subset of "average american" (who, asked to identify something German would probably say volkswagen or beck's - and note that france does not have a similarly exported beer or car...)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:07 (nineteen years ago)

the US looks at France and sees a big blank. No TVs, no movies, no music, no books

America just can't be bothered to look is more like it. What else is new. A small class of Americans prides itself in being 'multi-cultural, or cosmopolitan, or whatever (sometimes to the point of self-parody) and the rest of the country, partly due to an assimilationst rejection of the 'old world' that would warm the cockles of Lou Dobbs' heart, partly due to a cultural arrogance born of a newish and growing sense of cultural and moral superiority (that hides the 19th century's sense of cultural inferiority), and lastly 'cause we have spent the last 17 years being the only 500 lbs. gorilla/lone superpower on the planet. Since the French, in their senseless folly, sometimes conspicuously attempt to avoid following the lead of American culture, that rejection leads Americans to think of them as snooty.

Whatever French disdain there is of the U.S. has two seperate sources that have occasionally converged: ancien régime nostalgist, jingoist, and ultra-Catholic hatred for protestantism, miscegenation, democracy, and English; and a more recent leftist fear of Anglo-American, free-trade, capitalism bent on enslaving mankind in a workler's nightmare and stealing all of the planet's resources. Recent generations in both countries, informed, if the word can be used with a straight face, by the crassest ignorance, the most fuzzy romanticism, and some of the most inexcusable stereotypes have created a tradition in both countries of mutual, more or less cordial disdain for the other that the powers that be have learned to exploit quite well.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:07 (nineteen years ago)

how quickly you forget le car (xp)

mookieproof (mookieproof), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:08 (nineteen years ago)

Is Antonio Banderas a "thing"? Etc.

xpost France doesn't need someone to name a beer of origin, they have a plethora of wines, that's a silly argument.

Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:08 (nineteen years ago)

ooh jaymc's got me with Air! Shit.

and yes, of course "things" is vague but honestly next to nothing French makes it to America! they have no visible presence in popular consumerist culture. they get the foodies with the wine and cheese, but how large a percentage of the population is that...

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:10 (nineteen years ago)

like champagne

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RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:10 (nineteen years ago)

as usual I defer to M. White's eloquent summations.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:11 (nineteen years ago)

and note that france does not have a similarly exported beer or car

Shakey, you've hit it on the head. The French have shit beer (mostly) 'cause they prefer wine and an American assuming that nothing's going in Frankreich 'cause there's no beer is missing the point. Air is known here 'cause it works at the margins of an esthetic that Americans or Brits or whatever can understand, but what if your pop-music consciously sets out not to move in directions accessible to American teenagers? I mean, honestly, I think France is frankly as Americanized as any non-English speaking country in this day and age, but I don't always like French acts but I don't begrudge them doing something that some self proclaimed arbiter elegantiae for musical taste in London or a music industry exec in L.A. doesn't like or understand.

Part of all of this comes from an expectation, I believe, that unlike, say, Indonesians or Angolans, the French are 'white people' in a western mode that should be following our lead and when they don't, people are all 'who the fuck do they think they are?' when they would never make the same accusation about Algerians making rai or the rich musical panoply of India, for example, 'cause they wouldn' have the same expectations.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:17 (nineteen years ago)

I also think that Yanks and Frogs spend way too much time trying to get offended by each other.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:21 (nineteen years ago)

Oops, that should have read:

les ricains and frogs

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:22 (nineteen years ago)

http://zoouz.free.fr/divers/Alizee.gif

RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:23 (nineteen years ago)

Lovelace, in response to your question, there is half-truth in that statement. Two countires with republican ideals and traditions that go back to the Enlightenment and that have rarely been lived up to.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:26 (nineteen years ago)

You guys are nuts. Americans do not have a total blank in terms of associations with France. Ask them about France and you will get wine, smelly cheese, high fashion, berets, mimes, and Pepe LePew. You will get baguettes and striped shirts and snails for dinner and snotty maitres d'. This is a fucking CARTOON, obviously, but that's what American antipathy toward France is based on. (It has nothing to do with the cartoonishness of it; there are countries that Americans have cartoon notions of but nevertheless love.) (And that particular cartoon is no more cartoony than the German cartoons of fat men in lederhosen eating sausage and drinking beer alongside cold angular automotive engineers and Mike Myers in Sprockets.)

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:26 (nineteen years ago)

Well, fuck. Gauguin, Cezanne, Victor Hugo, Balzac, Duchamp, Rimbaud, Flaubert, Verlaine, etc. etc., but that's a bit father back.

It's not that we don't admire or trade across cultures but the geneological connection isn't the same as with other European countries, that is, we don't regard each other as blood relatives so much.

Maybe we should supplement Octoberfest with Wine-uary, Chateau Briapril, or Pinot Noirch celebrations. Drunkeness leads to strange bedfellows and all that.

Also, Lance Armstrong. Americans should stick to snowboarding.

slugbuggy (slugbuggy), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:28 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.clipartheaven.com/clipart/international/people_-_cartoons/frenchman.gif
http://www.gunshop.com/vin01/vc00008.jpg
http://www.tvdance.com/shop/-00-images/halloween-costumes/17371.jpg

(above: the #1 GIS results for "Frenchman," "German man," and "Spaniard")

Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:29 (nineteen years ago)

And that particular cartoon is no more cartoony than the German cartoons of fat men in lederhosen eating sausage and drinking beer alongside cold angular automotive engineers and Mike Myers in Sprockets.
You forgot the ice-blonde Aryan babes.

milo z (mlp), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:30 (nineteen years ago)

When I was in the UK, the German I met told me that they had a generally positive view of Americans as compared to Britishes.

JW (ex machina), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:31 (nineteen years ago)

That's Sweden, not Germany. German women are hausfraus, duh.

Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:31 (nineteen years ago)

americans hate pepe le pew??

J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:33 (nineteen years ago)

i'm trying to remember what charlton lido said about france and america and how similar they are culturally. it was something like a) both imagine themselves to have a unique destiny in world politics b) both imagine themselves as the inventors of modern democracy .. there was more, but i forget. i think french people, just to talk with them, seem much more american than english people do. there's a kind of "to hell with it" way of speaking and carrying on that you don't see much of in england until people get drunk.

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:34 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.haplessdilettante.com/images2/leghrn12.gif vs http://www.zewebanim.com/images/Looneytunes/pepe-le-pew.gif

kingfish doesn't live here anymore (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:35 (nineteen years ago)

Maybe the French thought we were fighting to keep Vietnmam French.

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:38 (nineteen years ago)

We americans like to imagine that there is an entire nation of dufus snobs out there looking down their noses at us, because we want to feel superior in our rigorously self-enforced native simplicity.

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:41 (nineteen years ago)

(xpost - Fluffy just said precisely what I'm trying to get at)

Actually, let me try a different way of summarizing the American pop culture take on these three.

In the American mythology, the UK is like a stodgy uncle: donnish, tweedy, stuffy, and learned. Our insecurity is that he will look down on us for being uncouth and uncultured and not knowing which fork to use; we associate being English specifically with having a high class status, with being refined. But we make up for this by pretending that we, in constrast, are youthful and vibrant and know how to have fun -- that we are rebels against that upper-class stodgyness -- and that we have hard-won wisdom the Brit lacks. But one at least takes the stodgy uncle seriously.

Whereas in this mythology France is basically feminized, which means we don't take it as seriously: we take it as being sensualist, "fancy," arty, pretentious. We accept its contributions mainly on "feminine" grounds -- we admire their sophistication and sense of refinement mostly in terms of things like perfume, wine, fancy dresses, and girls' names. But at some point we begin to mock their mimes and ridiculous Gaultier designs, and decline to take them seriously on political issues, because we imagine that we are manly and practical and get things done.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:44 (nineteen years ago)

Funny thing is, I like to imagine that there is an entire nation of dufus snobs out there looking down their noses at us, because I want to feel superior in my rigorously self-enforced native simplicity.

This is compounded by the fact that I am a Midwesterner, and that both my parents actually came off the farm, so not only do I hate the cartoon French, I hate cartoon Hollywood, cartoon California, cartoon NYC, and I even hate cartoon liberals even though I am one. And I like it.

Fuckin' fancy-pants panty-fanciers with their attitude. Fucking panty-waistitude. Fucking fancy-pantitude.

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:00 (nineteen years ago)

I hate everyone in Williamsburg even though I live there (although in the less cool zip code)

JW (ex machina), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:01 (nineteen years ago)

Jean Reno/Alain Delon vs Gerard Depardieu

kingfish doesn't live here anymore (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:06 (nineteen years ago)

Fuck, yeah!

http://joeyy.free.fr/RENO_jean/1.JPG

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:15 (nineteen years ago)

you could go on and on with all the differences and similarities, i guess, and many of them wouldn't work when the rubber meets the road. it is amazing how durable and deep the stereotypes go, though, and how true they often seem to be.

as far as the "dislike," it's entirely - 100% - a media construct, isn't it? there's something to the fact pointed out upthread that there was never a big french emigration to the US, and maybe there's some injury in the idea that france never "needed" the US the way that irish, italians, polish, russians etc did, at various stages in history, so america displaces it into the particularities of WWII, somehow blaming the french for needing the military might of the US to help dig them out from under the nazis. but even this has to be taught, nobody feels this in their bones, do they?

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:29 (nineteen years ago)

I'll go with [H.G.] Wells just cuz I never bothered to read anything by Jules Verne.

-- Shakey Mo Collier (audiobo...), May 15th, 2006 11:27 PM. (Shakey Mo Collier) (later) (link)

RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:30 (nineteen years ago)

there's one really big difference that i've not seen mentioned here, that americans have a much bigger respect for/fear of authority than french people do, which i put down mainly to the US being a very religious nation. if you are walking down a path in the mountains, for instance, and you see a sign that says "stay on the path," i think most americans will do that, but a french person will take it as an invitation to go off the path exactly at that point. intertwined in americans' fear/respect, which as i say comes, i think, from the predominance of religiosity in the united states, which works an infantalizing effect on the public (which has pros as well as cons), is a propensity for real maudlin emotion, often expressed towards "the nation" but just as often towards some kind of music, or for nuclear disarmament vigils; in any case it's a sense of bearing witness, backed ultimately by a moral authority. in my experience, french people have very little tolerance for this kind of thing.

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:36 (nineteen years ago)

catherine deneuve
isabelle huppert
juliet binoche
irène jacob

mookieproof (mookieproof), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:37 (nineteen years ago)

and why should I bother, exactly? (gimme a break I've read plenty of French authors - Flaubert, Camus, Sartre, De Sade, Derrida...)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:39 (nineteen years ago)

which is not say the french don't have morals, but they are almost embarrassed by them until some mysterious tipping point is reached, and the peoples' scorn and anger, expressed, it seems to me, almost always collectively, although the size of the collective varies, emerges with a brutality and speed which seems always to take everyone by surprise except the french themselves.

crossposts

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:46 (nineteen years ago)

but enough about my relationship

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:53 (nineteen years ago)

my wife's cousin's husband, a Really Nice Guy Who Votes Republican, refuses to drink French wine and shit like that. but i think it's more of a sporting thing than nabisco's (admittedly fine) deconstruction. with us vs against us, etc, and the french are less shy about being vocally against us than, say, the new-ish spanish government. it's all quite childish, not least with the yank retort 'you'd all be speaking german if it weren't for us' et al. but that's the level at which a lot of american anti-frogness is.

mookieproof (mookieproof), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:54 (nineteen years ago)

some serious gross overgeneralizing and non-OTMness all over this thread, but with the question at hand, how could it be otherwise???

timmy tannin (pompous), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:55 (nineteen years ago)

why don't you be more specific

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 21:58 (nineteen years ago)

(and btw I made all kinds of gross overgeneralizations and fessed up to it from the start so don't bother with my posts)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:01 (nineteen years ago)

well, don't want to get personal, there just seems to be a fair amount of self-loathing and condescension going on, but i will point out how your quote "americans have a much bigger respect for/fear of authority than french people do" is a bit hard to swallow given the history of the Vichy regime.

timmy tannin (pompous), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:07 (nineteen years ago)

i'm not talking about governments, i'm talking about my own personal experiences

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:09 (nineteen years ago)

fair enough, still doesn't ring true to my ears

timmy tannin (pompous), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:13 (nineteen years ago)

sure. ask the average American to name one thing from France in the last 50 years and I'd wager you'd get more blank stares than answers (and half those answers would be Gerard Depardieu)

les miserables (the musical)

Matt B. (Matt B.), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:14 (nineteen years ago)

and see above for some details about US support for the pro-nazi vichies in france until it became clear that they weren't long for this world.

in any case, the "authority" that i'm talking about here is very ill-defined, so i've left myself 1,000 escape hatches, but i think the basic point holds - the french simply do not like being told what to do, by the police, by the americans, by anybody. americans LOVE to be told what to do.

crosspost - timmy, have you ever been to france?

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:15 (nineteen years ago)

i mean, you don't have to have been in order to have something to say, i was just wondering

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:23 (nineteen years ago)

¿tracer, where do you actually live? (nothing to do with this thread, i just have a sense that you're like the wind)

mookieproof (mookieproof), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:24 (nineteen years ago)

yeah i've been there twice, certainly no expert

one thing i noticed is a rather heavyhanded police presence, gendarmes with fairly heavy duty weapons on full display kind of thing, not sure if that reinforces your point, or mine.....

timmy tannin (pompous), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:25 (nineteen years ago)

i'm not saying there's no authority, just that french people don't really respect it - that goes for the police force too, which goes some way towards explaining why the french police such notorious fucktards, they respect their own rules even less than american police respect american police rules

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:31 (nineteen years ago)

I'm interested in what Tracey said about Americans being more respectful of authority. I notice that almost everything in France is advertised in terms of "emotion" or "passion", whether it's an online television archive, a wine, a politician... It's the biggest cliche, and it's everywhere, a way to justify anything in terms which can't be refuted.

I don't see that appeal to emotion, to the "education sentimentale", the natural goodness of our emotions and passions, in American culture. In the US, a relentless practicality and thrift and ambition seem to be the ultimate selling point. Get organized, better yourself, succeed, relax, you've earned it, cheat nature, look younger than your age, etc etc. But certainly not "give in to your emotions, your passion". To love something too much in America is suspicious, fetishistic. Things are commodities, not to be dwelt on for their own inherent properties. And I think the French fear of Americanization relates to this very directly. This is the world of "les grands surfaces" (hypermarkets, shopping centres) which the French see arriving from the West and supplanting the world of "passion, emotion", the blue-jacketed peasant who loves the land, the butcher who loves meat, and so on.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:33 (nineteen years ago)

the French, however, invented the modern department store which, originally at least, succeeded in combining the pleasure of shopping with the utility of, well, shopping - cf. the book i've probably mentioned a dozen times here, "The Ladies' Paradise" by Zola, where the grandest fictional department store in all Paris is described in numbing, delirious detail - perhaps consumerism and its construction can be a kind of passion too?

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:40 (nineteen years ago)

I was wondering, along with a friend who like me is born of an American and French parent, if along with the cultural hatred the 'supply closet' love referenced above exists quite literally in the form of a relatively high number of intermarrying between the two countries. For instance, given the language barrier, it's strange that I know about from US-France marriages than US-British ones. I don't have any statistics on that, though..I wonder if they exist...googlers?

One thing's for sure, both countries' inhabitants are excessively proud so that clashes for obvious reasons. But what country is humble, really?

richardk (Richard K), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:52 (nineteen years ago)

Costa Rica.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:57 (nineteen years ago)

canada

xpost

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:58 (nineteen years ago)

I'm reading this guy's book Français et Américains right now which has some strange unique theories about these differences. The main theory seems to be that French women wean their kids too long which makes them fear not being able to handle the outside world, and American women stop weaning the kids too soon which makes them insecure emotionally while taking on the outside world aggressively. Obviously that's a vast oversimplification but then again so is all of this...

richardk (Richard K), Monday, 15 May 2006 22:58 (nineteen years ago)

that's funny, my impression is that, to exaggerate things, french parents barely notice their kids exist except when they do something wrong, while american parents smother them with attention and give them all kinds of "positive reinforcement" - i have a feeling this is just a consequence of france being more old-fashioned about things in general, though, cause i think american families used to be like that, too

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 15 May 2006 23:04 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.ocanadagear.com/graphics/pridebox-large.jpg

Ok yeah canadians.

tracery - yeah apparently the scolding-only approach fits in with a sort of passive way of asserting control and keeping the child from overreaching its boundaries and breaking away, etc...

richardk (Richard K), Monday, 15 May 2006 23:07 (nineteen years ago)

This is the world of "les grands surfaces" (hypermarkets, shopping centres) which the French see arriving from the West

France IS the West and yes, as Tracer pointed out they not only invented the department store (Au bonheur des dames is based on the Bon Marché, btw) but the super and hypermarket as well.

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 16 May 2006 12:37 (nineteen years ago)

Les pommes frites! Possibly Belgian, but hey, the nearby Artois is pretty chippy too.

See also les voyageurs, the 17th century traders and raiders who canoed up the Missisippi, thus enabling the Louisiana Purchase. Downtown Minneapolis is named after famous ones like Hennepin, Nicollet and Marquette.

I'm a bit French too, but from a Huguenot family. Those nice old C17 houses by Brick Lane in London? We built that shit! Also please remember the US WASP upper class distaste for Catholicism which YES is a part of the Puritan thing because the earliest settlers were persecuted by Catholic kings for 150 years until the 18th century.

suzy (suzy), Tuesday, 16 May 2006 13:03 (nineteen years ago)

Do you think that still holds, Suzy? Nowadays, at least, it seems more classist than actually religious per se (although maybe that's just the way you've framed the question).

pleased to mitya (mitya), Tuesday, 16 May 2006 13:06 (nineteen years ago)

Cold-shouldering Catholics is part of DAR WASP DNA for lots of reasons. At certain country clubs any excuse will do (including the classist one that took hold in the late 1800s and didn't lift until Kennedy became president and affirmative action started). But yeah if the only thing you know about your ancestors is that they were fucked over by the edict of Nantes or the odd de Medici, on the grounds of not following Catholicism, that's an older thing based on being persecuted at one time by a very powerful group and/or not recognising the Pope. It's a vintage, vestigal sectarianism as a response to being ethnically cleansed. As some of these people gave us Manifest Destiny this is probably part and parcel of the whole Puritan persecution complex.

suzy (suzy), Tuesday, 16 May 2006 13:48 (nineteen years ago)

the latest episode of "the unit" has an incompetent and arrogant french UN colonel being incompetent and arrogant and messing things up (w/ unecessary loss of life & injury) and the unit saying (not to the colonel or to anyone french but) "froggies" a lot and that they saved their asses in WWI and WWII and singing "the french national anthem" which is maurice chevalier's "louise" w/ silly french accents. oh, and, when bob brown threatens to show a video of the colonel messing up the situation, if the colonel doesn't allow them to use one of his planes to get back to the US, and the colonel tells him to stand to attention, soldier, and bob brown says he isn't his soldier and isn't in his army or his chain of command and that the colonel is two steps away from a serious state of health and the colonel says "and that would be worth your career" bob says (removing a toothpick from his mouth) "you bet your french ass"

RJG (RJG), Sunday, 21 May 2006 12:20 (nineteen years ago)

The French have shit beer (mostly) 'cause they prefer wine and an American assuming that nothing's going in Frankreich 'cause there's no beer is missing the point.

There is of course something very pot and kettle about any American who scoves at French beer.

DV (dirtyvicar), Sunday, 21 May 2006 13:02 (nineteen years ago)

har har!

pleased to mitya (mitya), Sunday, 21 May 2006 14:32 (nineteen years ago)

There is of course something very pot and kettle about any American who scoves at French beer.

???

America is no longer condemned to the products of the major breweries. We have a staggering plethora of small, quality breweries producing a vast array of different styles.

M. White (Miguelito), Sunday, 21 May 2006 17:54 (nineteen years ago)

No love for the French:

http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20060520/ts_afp/afplifestylebritainfrance
societyoffbeat;_ylt=Aq6SJV0s2ebKlXonSYWQWSus0NUE;_ylu=X3oDMTA3ODdxdHBhBHNlYwM5NjQ-

Lovelace (Lovelace), Sunday, 21 May 2006 20:15 (nineteen years ago)

Meh! The link doesn't work. Well here's the article:

LONDON (AFP) - The French have been voted the world's most unfriendly nation by a landslide in a new British poll published. They were also voted the most boring and most ungenerous.

A decisive 46 percent of the 6,000 people surveyed by travellers' website Where Are You Now (WAYN) said the French were the most unfriendly nation people on the planet, British newspapers reported.

The Germans have no to reason to celebrate the damning verdict. They came second on all three counts.

WAYN's French founder, Jerome Touze, told the papers he had been stunned by the thumping condemnation of his compatriots and sought to blame it on Gallic love-struck sulking.

"I had no idea that the French would emerge as such an unfriendly country," he said.

"I think our romantic 'moodiness' is misunderstood and I will be sure to pass on the message to my family and friends back in France to be a bit more cheerful to tourists in the future."

Italy was voted the world's most cultured nation with the best cuisine, while the United States was named the most unstylish with the worst food.

The British did not feature in the top 10 of any of the categories.

"The British fit in nowhere -- good or bad. It appears that we are so completely average that the voters did not include us in any category," the tabloid Daily Express commented.

"And to our shame, four percent of respondents -- all British of course -- said they would only talk to other Britons when they are abroad."

This unwillingness to talk to the locals appears to go hand in hand with respondents' perceptions of foreigners.

While most said Spain was the foreign country where they would most like to live, they said the Spaniards were nearly as unfriendly and ungenerous as the French.

To add insult to injury, British newspaper The Daily Telegraph put the boot in on Saturday by saying in an editorial that the French stank.

"The French may like to think that Chanel No 5 is their scent but we all know that garlic and stale Gitanes are much more representative."

Lovelace (Lovelace), Sunday, 21 May 2006 20:17 (nineteen years ago)

Aren't the French notoriously anti-semetic?

shookout (shookout), Sunday, 21 May 2006 23:16 (nineteen years ago)

what do you think?

RJG (RJG), Sunday, 21 May 2006 23:22 (nineteen years ago)

I've heard it said on more than one occasion.

shookout (shookout), Sunday, 21 May 2006 23:29 (nineteen years ago)

Awww yeah! On écrase la compétition!

Baaderonixx rides the neon lights (baaderonixx), Monday, 22 May 2006 07:28 (nineteen years ago)

The the Italians killed Christ.

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Monday, 22 May 2006 13:15 (nineteen years ago)

The the Italians killed Christ.


Italy was voted the world's most cultured nation...

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 22 May 2006 13:36 (nineteen years ago)

four years pass...

keep it real Sarkozy!

Dr. Lol Evans (Shakey Mo Collier), Friday, 17 September 2010 22:56 (fifteen years ago)

I would just like to point out that, while there have been significant waves of immigration to the USA from England, Ireland, Germany, Scandinavia, Italy, Poland, Russia, and Latin America, there has never been a real big wave of French immigration, as with Canada and the Quebecois. Thus, there is no ready-made well of nostalgic post-immigrant feeling for France residing in America, and they are more easily seen as 'foreign' to the american spirit.

Aimless, Saturday, 18 September 2010 01:22 (fifteen years ago)

there has never been a real big wave of French immigration, as with Canada and the Quebecois. Thus, there is no ready-made well of nostalgic post-immigrant feeling for France residing in America, and they are more easily seen as 'foreign' to the american spirit.

― Aimless, Friday, September 17, 2010 6:22 PM (17 minutes ago)

you need to go to Louisiana sometime, mon ami.

Fartbritz Sootzveti (Steve Shasta), Saturday, 18 September 2010 01:41 (fifteen years ago)

I know there's a big cajun contingent in Louisiana, but it is a creole culture that doesn't look directly to France as its country of origin, despite speaking French.

Aimless, Saturday, 18 September 2010 01:57 (fifteen years ago)

I think its more like the French have been here so long that their immigrant experience has passed out of modern memory

Dr. Lol Evans (Shakey Mo Collier), Saturday, 18 September 2010 01:58 (fifteen years ago)

i thought they came by way of canada too, does anyone really think of them as descended immigrants from france?

the girl with the butt tattoo (harbl), Saturday, 18 September 2010 01:59 (fifteen years ago)

yes, and it was a french colony, sort of a different thing

the girl with the butt tattoo (harbl), Saturday, 18 September 2010 01:59 (fifteen years ago)

i meant descended from

the girl with the butt tattoo (harbl), Saturday, 18 September 2010 02:00 (fifteen years ago)

there has never been a real big wave of French immigration, as with Canada and the Quebecois.

Acadian:Quebecois::USA:Canada

Fartbritz Sootzveti (Steve Shasta), Saturday, 18 September 2010 02:22 (fifteen years ago)


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