"No, I think they have devolved. Sitcom women have gone back to the role of the doting, harried wife, like in "The King Of Queens". Working women are more likely to be found on procedural dramas, like the various "Law and Order" or "CSI" shows."
First of all, I have never read Bitch Magazine. I'm sure it's wonderful. But the co-founder of Bitch Magazine needs to go back and watch a few episodes of The King Of Queens. Carrie Heffernen is most decidedly a working woman. She works a lot! And tons of episodes are devoted to her workplace and the problems she has there. And there are lots of other episodes that are all about her trying to change jobs and boy oh boy does comedy ensue. the episode where patton oswalt's character tries to help her lose her Queens accent so she can get a fancy job at some posh place is a good example. she even makes more money than her husband! and she is hardly doting. shrill and annoying and, yes, harried, but not doting. I know everyone on ILX hates The King Of Queens, but it bugs me when people get something so wrong just to prove a point. And does she have a point? working women are everywhere on t.v. and more common than not. sitcoms probably do have the higher percentage of momz who don't work (when the momz aren't dead), but still...
i am not a woman. though i am womanly and have womanly curves. honey, i have legs that go on forever! so, it would be nice to hear from some.
in conclusion, this is the thread where i defend The King Of Queens and people weigh in on how television has changed since MTM threw her hat in the ring.
and not to say that teevee isn't COMPLETELY sexist at times, but i don't think there was even one smart, competent, professional woman in a flak jacket who could trace the path of a bullet thru a human skull on t.v. in the 70's, let alone 400.
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 17:42 (nineteen years ago)
what shows are there today of single working women?
― teeny (teeny), Sunday, 6 August 2006 17:48 (nineteen years ago)
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 17:54 (nineteen years ago)
and aren't there like a dozen dramas (SVUs, CSI thingers, etc., with female leads? Patricia Arquette and Jennifer Love Hewitt, right?
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 17:58 (nineteen years ago)
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 17:59 (nineteen years ago)
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:00 (nineteen years ago)
teri hatcher on desperate housewivesthe redhead from melrose place on desperate housewives? (is she working on the show now?)calamity jane, et. al on deadwoodthe gilmore mom maybeis that show w/ the cute redhead and andy dick and eric roberts still on? very mtmcandice bergen, the girl from happy gilmore, parker posey on boston legalthat new julia-louis dreyfus thing still on?kate on lost?there's probably one on er right?
gilmore and desperate housewives (and the julia louis-dreyfus and cute redhead ones if still on the air) strike me as only ones that could be said to be 'about' those characters
ruling out procedurals is sorta gaming the table
― j blount (papa la bas), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:05 (nineteen years ago)
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:08 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:11 (nineteen years ago)
Women get a better gig on the second-rate procedurals - Close To Home and all of those.
― milo z (mlp), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:11 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:18 (nineteen years ago)
what about grass? (i have never seen)
also, certainly, the wives were the star on big love.
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:27 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:31 (nineteen years ago)
best/most three-dimensional character on Grey's Anatomy - Dr. Bailey
― milo z (mlp), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:34 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:35 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:38 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:39 (nineteen years ago)
-- scott seward (skotro...), August 6th, 2006. (scott seward)
http://www.nostalgiacentral.com/images_tv/policewoman_672.JPG
also, crazy(like a fox) first lady seducing nixonian prex on 24 last season as a delay tactic and then wearing a wire to get him to confess and bringing him down - classic! (not the best example of "working woman" granted, but awesome nonetheless)
― timmy tannin (pompous), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:42 (nineteen years ago)
― Laurel (Laurel), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:50 (nineteen years ago)
Of course, there's another way that representations of women could improve, and that would be, for instance, a more positive representation of any and all things feminine, including more positive representations of sissy, feminine men in the media. How's that project doing?
― Momus (Momus), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:52 (nineteen years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:53 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:54 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:56 (nineteen years ago)
yeah, i get it. it's as old as the hills in sitcom land. honeymooners/ilovelucy/ad nauseum. and i would have taken raymond as a better example. still, her comment is weird. sorta like saying: no, things have gotten worse, except on these dozens of shows that gazillions of people watch! you know?
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:57 (nineteen years ago)
i don't mean to be glib about it… but do you really want to sit through a show show featuring an indecisive, mincing, sissy male character making weak choices and girlin' it up? and even if you do, how much of the rest of the (american) viewing audience does?
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:58 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Sunday, 6 August 2006 18:59 (nineteen years ago)
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:06 (nineteen years ago)
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:09 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:09 (nineteen years ago)
are those really (really?) the qualities in a man that you would characerize as feminine? curses for making me take a side with momus, but you've fallen in to his trap. i suspect he used the term sissy ironically, but uh, you didn't.
― Kim (Kim), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:09 (nineteen years ago)
Jack is back! (will&gracefanzunite)
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:13 (nineteen years ago)
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:24 (nineteen years ago)
― Kim (Kim), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:26 (nineteen years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:28 (nineteen years ago)
― Kim (Kim), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:34 (nineteen years ago)
Also, I was being slightly disingenous in my use of terms... overstatement to prove a point.
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:36 (nineteen years ago)
i don't see this. unless working hard is a masculine quality. i think non-sexist on t.v. can just mean showing people working and having a life and not being simply the "wife" or "girlfriend" or vehicle for T&A. and i do see that on t.v. not always, but its there more than it used to be. i think.
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:39 (nineteen years ago)
i like how on Medium, Patricia Arquette's husband plays the traditional "wife" role. He is always reacting to what she says and does. "what's wrong honey, another bad dream(he has to say this every show, poor guy)". "another bad day at the murder scene, dear?" he's good at it too. and he is always left with the kids when she has to rush off to a serial killer somewhere.
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:44 (nineteen years ago)
I've always wondered why a lot of viewers (often speciously) ascribe dramatic action by female characters to a sterotypically masculine model of being. Hence the 'most female characters are really male' statement? I don't buy it -- it's dangerously close to the 'male authors can't write female voices right... but they can write serial killers, aliens, and rapists' line of reasoning, which I find profoundly upsetting.
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:46 (nineteen years ago)
discussed somewhere else here recently, but Ripley in Aliens is a good example of an exception to the man played by a woman thing.
― Kim (Kim), Sunday, 6 August 2006 19:56 (nineteen years ago)
yeah, sure. on the dramas anyway. hargitay's character on Law & Order comes to mind. complex, emotional, empathetic, and strong.
― scott seward (scott seward), Sunday, 6 August 2006 20:05 (nineteen years ago)
― Kim (Kim), Sunday, 6 August 2006 21:08 (nineteen years ago)
― tokyo nursery school: afternoon session (rosemary), Monday, 7 August 2006 03:29 (nineteen years ago)
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/08/06/arts/television/06domi.html?_r=1&adxnnl=1&oref=slogin&adxnnlx=1154955618-qUPuq3De0nu2hParYhPOYg
― scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 7 August 2006 12:02 (nineteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Monday, 7 August 2006 12:21 (nineteen years ago)
― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Monday, 7 August 2006 12:39 (nineteen years ago)
http://www.oddcouple.info/pictures/oc1.jpg
― p@reene (Pareene), Monday, 7 August 2006 12:46 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Monday, 7 August 2006 12:48 (nineteen years ago)
― GILLY'S BAGG'EAR VANCE OF COUPARI (Ex Leon), Monday, 7 August 2006 12:55 (nineteen years ago)
Interesting. Female characters have to live up to higher standards? Bitch editor exhibiting her own sexism jumping to the conclusion that the queen of the king of queens is an old-fashioned submissive lady... Are we quicker to jump to negative conclusions about women, to find their faults, instead of finding their strengths?
Beth, being a housewife can feel like being a deadbeat - but it's really hard work! Planning dinner and driving is the least of it. What about the endless laundry loads? When I think deadbeat, I don't think cleaning/laundry. Besides that being engaged and there for your kids is extremely exhausting.
― Maria :D (Maria D.), Monday, 7 August 2006 12:57 (nineteen years ago)
― TOMBOT (TOMBOT), Monday, 7 August 2006 13:04 (nineteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Monday, 7 August 2006 13:08 (nineteen years ago)
There's also the perennial problem of looks: average-looking and downright ugly men still command leading roles and get the girls without comment being passed; leading female characters must be stunningly attractive, slim and well-groomed at all times. I watched some episodes of Boston Legal the other day and it's extraordinary how all the high-powered female lawyers are barely more than girls - young, single, ambitious and available, no messy families in the background - while the men are, erm, William Shatner.
― Archel (Archel), Monday, 7 August 2006 13:10 (nineteen years ago)
― Fetchboy (Felcher), Monday, 7 August 2006 13:29 (nineteen years ago)
This is the thing that pisses me off the most. My favourite refrain when watching telly is "you know, if he was a woman they wouldn't let him on telly looking like that", to be said about everyone from William Shatner (although I love William Shatner) to Nigel Lawson.
― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Monday, 7 August 2006 14:26 (nineteen years ago)
(there are also several good female characters on The West Wing, not all of whom are devastatingly attractive)
― ailsa (ailsa), Monday, 7 August 2006 15:01 (nineteen years ago)
I have only seen the first series of 24.
― Archel (Archel), Monday, 7 August 2006 15:04 (nineteen years ago)
er, x-post somewhere along the line
(despite crazy uncle otto, i mean momus, there is good stuff here. cheers! everyone.)
― scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 7 August 2006 15:11 (nineteen years ago)
Also, apparently Geena Davis sponsors some research group that looks at the media's attitude to women, and it starts young. They measured the male-to-female character ratio in the top-grossing children's movies of the last ten years, and it's something like three to one. They even measured the ratio of males to females in crowd scenes and found it stacked against women. Which I thought was quite interesting.
Also, the only really non-attractive woman I can think of on The West Wing is Nancy McNally (unless you count Mrs. Lanningham, but she falls into the "old geezer" category, which obviously takes her out of the running (not that it would take Paul Newman out of the running...)). But even then, the least attractive men on the West Wing are WAYYYY less attractive than the least attractive women.
― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Monday, 7 August 2006 15:20 (nineteen years ago)
Oh, I've just re-read the original post and realised we're meant to be talking about sit-com characters who are working women. Though we're past that now, and I think we've established that the co-founder of Bitch magazine is a bit of a fool.
So, for sitcom portrayals of harrassed, working, non-simpering, intelligent mothers, I give you Lois from Malcolm in the Middle.
(xpost, yeah, I was thinking Nancy McNally, Debbie Fiderer. Controversially, I might even include CJ, because although Allison Janney has what I think to be a beautiful sort of elegance about her, she isn't conventionally pretty)
― ailsa (ailsa), Monday, 7 August 2006 15:37 (nineteen years ago)
Maybe a better example would be Victoria Wood? Is Dinnerladies the answer to whatever the question is?
― ailsa (ailsa), Monday, 7 August 2006 16:24 (nineteen years ago)
― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Monday, 7 August 2006 19:04 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Monday, 7 August 2006 19:16 (nineteen years ago)
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Monday, 7 August 2006 19:30 (nineteen years ago)
Additionally, I wonder if Bitch Mag. thought to account for demographics in popularity. Sitcoms are the same old target that they have been for years (are their depictions perfect? No. Are they better than they were 10-20 years ago? Yes.), but I would argue that shows like "Laguna Beach" (which are popular with kids) are pretty regressive.
― Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Monday, 7 August 2006 19:55 (nineteen years ago)
― kingfish cyclopean ice cream (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 7 August 2006 20:52 (nineteen years ago)
(going on whether yer average punter in the street would rate them highly based on a mugshot - I could have a crush on most of them, really, based on character, but on looks alone...)
― ailsa (ailsa), Monday, 7 August 2006 20:55 (nineteen years ago)
― ailsa (ailsa), Monday, 7 August 2006 20:57 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Monday, 7 August 2006 21:06 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Monday, 7 August 2006 21:08 (nineteen years ago)
― ailsa (ailsa), Monday, 7 August 2006 21:09 (nineteen years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Monday, 7 August 2006 21:10 (nineteen years ago)
i think she is pretty too! and i thought french & saunders was funny. i was just using her as an example of a big woman who was a central character on a sitcom. they are uncommon here. (and they are usually black woman - often used as comic relief - or they are conchata ferrell. who i love. now she is on two and a half men with charlie sheen. her one glorious shining moment was the one and only time that she was the lead in a movie. *Heartland* with rip torn in 1979. nobody saw it. blount, i think, mentioned that sitcom with andy dick and eric roberts and that woman whose name i can't remember. she was a big girl. it wasn't very good though. and it didn't last long. but it did stand out and she was the star of it.) what really made rosanne revolutionary though was that she was a big woman (who looked like a lot of her audience. thus, a normal woman.) who got to have a sex-life. this was pretty major. the only recent example in the u.s. of plus-size women as somewhat major characters in a GOOD show that i can think of would be the gilmore girls. three characters even! although two of them are played for laughs pretty consistently.
― scott seward (scott seward), Tuesday, 8 August 2006 03:04 (nineteen years ago)
― Paul Eater (eater), Tuesday, 8 August 2006 03:08 (nineteen years ago)
SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER
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The series finale was the worst. Girls work for girls! Donna has been a major player in a two-term Presidency, one near-winner Presidential primary campaign and a Presidential campaign, but she gets stuck with the First Lady. WTF? Oh, and Jimmy Smits' Congressional Aide (Rana? Ranna? the lesbian) doesn't even get a policy job, she's now MRS. LANDINGHAM
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― milo z (mlp), Tuesday, 8 August 2006 03:14 (nineteen years ago)
The Bitch magazine woman? Yes, her name was Andi. The only character she seems to like on television is the one played by Mary Lynn Rajskub on 24. Except she can't watch 24 because it makes her too tense.
I thought it was kinda cool that the two founders of Bitch were both interns at Sassy. I don't know why I have never read Bitch. I'll buy anything. Is it better than Bust?
― scott seward (scott seward), Tuesday, 8 August 2006 03:43 (nineteen years ago)
― tokyo nursery school: afternoon session (rosemary), Tuesday, 8 August 2006 11:30 (nineteen years ago)
anyway, have we discussed crossing jordan? it seems to be only about 1/4 procedural. (ok, maybe a half)
also howabout lucky louie, where the doting harried wife also makes much more money?
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 10 August 2006 18:11 (nineteen years ago)
― gear (gear), Thursday, 10 August 2006 19:07 (nineteen years ago)
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 10 August 2006 19:28 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Thursday, 10 August 2006 19:34 (nineteen years ago)
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 10 August 2006 19:46 (nineteen years ago)
― horseshoe (horseshoe), Thursday, 10 August 2006 20:18 (nineteen years ago)
― scott seward (scott seward), Saturday, 12 August 2006 02:59 (nineteen years ago)
― Sir Dr. Rev. PappaWheelie Jr. II of The Third Kind (PappaWheelie 2), Saturday, 12 August 2006 03:37 (nineteen years ago)
I hate The Closer. All the annoying camerawork of Steven Bochco, all the boring of the Inspector Lynley Mysteries.
― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Sunday, 13 August 2006 07:47 (nineteen years ago)
MTM was the best, she'd get tired after a hard day at the office just like a real woman.
― sandy mc (sandy mc), Sunday, 13 August 2006 09:10 (nineteen years ago)
― scott seward, Saturday, 17 March 2007 18:19 (eighteen years ago)
― Aimless, Saturday, 17 March 2007 18:53 (eighteen years ago)
― A B C, Saturday, 17 March 2007 19:51 (eighteen years ago)
― accentmonkey, Saturday, 17 March 2007 20:57 (eighteen years ago)
― scott seward, Saturday, 17 March 2007 22:34 (eighteen years ago)
― scott seward, Saturday, 17 March 2007 22:48 (eighteen years ago)
― horseshoe, Saturday, 17 March 2007 22:50 (eighteen years ago)
― scott seward, Saturday, 17 March 2007 22:50 (eighteen years ago)
― scott seward, Saturday, 17 March 2007 22:56 (eighteen years ago)
i am not a woman. though i am womanly and have womanly curves. honey, i have legs that go on forever!
― Heave Ho, Sunday, 11 November 2007 16:41 (seventeen years ago)
is this a revivalism
― Catsupppppppppppppp dude 茄蕃, Sunday, 11 November 2007 17:14 (seventeen years ago)
I dunno, he likes his legs it seems!
― Mark G, Monday, 12 November 2007 16:05 (seventeen years ago)
i don't understand, was Mary Tyler Moore not supposed to be a good representation of a working woman? i think she's swell
― Surmounter, Sunday, 9 March 2008 17:50 (seventeen years ago)
of course, i can't be bothered to read an intro post that long so i'm not really informed on the gist. guess i just wanted to say that i don't see much wrong with MTM or her awesome show =P
― Surmounter, Sunday, 9 March 2008 17:51 (seventeen years ago)
surmounter, read the post
― max, Sunday, 9 March 2008 18:09 (seventeen years ago)
best theme song ever
― Jimmy The Mod Awaits The Return Of His Beloved, Sunday, 9 March 2008 18:16 (seventeen years ago)
MTM is guesting on that sitcom w/ Betty White tonight
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 19 January 2011 20:01 (fourteen years ago)
Maybe it will be like that St. Elsewhere episode where a psych patient kept addressing guest star Betty White as "Sue Ann."
― Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Wednesday, 19 January 2011 20:33 (fourteen years ago)
Do you think 30Rock is subliminally retrograde? I feel like there's something about the way it affirms Baldwin's traditional masculine power even if it does so with a wink. And much of the humor is about Lemon's underlying anxiety at her lack of a relationship or kids. OTOH I guess Baldwin's relationships with a congresswoman and a maid are equally fraught.
― hey boys, suppers on me, our video just went bacterial (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 19 January 2011 20:38 (fourteen years ago)
all my fave wed. shows are new tonight. dunno what bitch magazine would think of cougar town and modern family and the middle.
― scott seward, Wednesday, 19 January 2011 21:02 (fourteen years ago)
so sad that one of my fave t.v. nights is blighted by the horrible Better With You. HORRIBLE.
and its sad that one of my fave big ladies of teevee from the gilmore girls is on such a bad sitcom. mike & molly. it could have been good. but that big guy love interest is so horrible. the whole show should be about swoosie kurtz.
― scott seward, Wednesday, 19 January 2011 21:07 (fourteen years ago)
and my fave Parenthood RULES for women. great characters on there.
― scott seward, Wednesday, 19 January 2011 21:08 (fourteen years ago)