― Tom (Groke), Monday, 30 September 2002 12:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pete (Pete), Monday, 30 September 2002 14:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― jess (dubplatestyle), Monday, 30 September 2002 14:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 15:06 (twenty-two years ago)
I can't agree with murder.
― jel -- (jel), Monday, 30 September 2002 16:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― donna (donna), Monday, 30 September 2002 19:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― Leee (Leee), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 00:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Queen G (Queeng), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 06:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 07:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 07:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 07:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 11:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 11:53 (twenty-two years ago)
I would hope not. Kiwi was anti-abortion, or at least unsure of the ethics. Toraneko was advocating killing babies. I think if you had to choose sides it's a no-brainer. Abortion good/bad is not an obvious question (ie an argument exists), whereas infanticide good/bad is very obvious (ie no argument exists (or so I thought)).
in other words this is a better reason :Because everyone (bar Toraneko) accepts it is wrong to kill children, and that there is no controversy to discuss?
― Sam (chirombo), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 11:59 (twenty-two years ago)
speaking as someone who's discovered himself to be a good deal more argumentative and difficult than his self-image of 2 yrs ago allowed for, there are nevertheless endless good pragmatic reasons for not joining full battle at any given moment — with ppl you know and like (= toraneko) it's straight selfish preference, as often as not; with ppl you don't yet know so well (= kiwi) it's easier to cut yr losses re loss of potential future good moments, cz you simply haven't had time for so many yet (i actually think kiwi's been perfectly straightforward and open — and brave, given the general tenor of the boards — abt his beliefs on several threads, so i'd rather he wz cut more slack than he gets (kiwi: DON'T POST WHEN DRUNK!!)
i don't think contesting toraneko's position is a no-brainer: i used to think something pretty similar myself (mine was more extreme: as a consequence of what birthing entails, a mother is entitled to kill anything born of her at ANY AGE)
(this was a consequence of line-in-the-sand moral logic as much as anything, an approach i now find a lot less convincing)
― mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:15 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sam (chirombo), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:22 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sam (chirombo), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:23 (twenty-two years ago)
as it happens i just finished reading his book Valis this morning and this two year old kid (well who knows really, she might have been christ reborn or a robot) was killed in it.
he's fucking crazy (in a good way). but also his sister (?) died at a very young age too.
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:32 (twenty-two years ago)
Real answer why I didn't respond to toraneko - like Julio, I missed the sentence.
My view on abortion: Protection-worthy human life does not begin at some magic age, and more like a 'when does blue become green?' thing. Lots of issues are like thisbut that doesn't mean you have to say 'well in that case it's all green', as kiwi seeks to do.In abstract terms, I think the whole 'it's a woman's right to choose' argument is a red herring and plays into the hands of pro-lifers (if they want to be known by that stupid name then let them). I mean if it *were* a fully conscious human being in there then this argument would just look stupid. But at the same time, I know that in the real world, outside of philosophical debate, it very much is bound up with issues of women's protection of their own lives and bodies.
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:37 (twenty-two years ago)
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:42 (twenty-two years ago)
I have just remembered that made this same point in a house debating competition at the age of 14 ha ha. I won, too.
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 12:54 (twenty-two years ago)
"it's so odd/nuts that it must be pretty deeply ingrained": you're the one who's avoiding rocking the boat (yr own boat)
― mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― the pinefox, Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:05 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:05 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:09 (twenty-two years ago)
"thinking seriously" = "rocking yr own boat"
― mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― the pinefox, Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:30 (twenty-two years ago)
is it hard to imagine such a position, let alone to imagine being convinced by such a position? maybe it is: but that's what i'm gettin at — do we avoid talking about certain things because we absolutely know where we stand, or because we're (deep down) insecure about where we stand?
― mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pete (Pete), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 13:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 14:00 (twenty-two years ago)
in other words, you actually are prepared — given the urgent personal need — to think seriously about toraneko's position, even though (or possibly because) you're fairly confident you wouldn't have to betray yr beliefs (=tear yrself apart) doing so
it's the "it's nuts"/"it's just relativism" lines that i distrust, cz to me they are evasions not criticisms — there really aren't very many "absolute relativists" (whatever that wd mean), and a lot of the foax who say they are (haha s.fish) just ain't....
i don't imagine my entire belief system is logical or coherent, though i think i'd prefer it to be: engaging (seriously rather than dismissively) with stuff from way outside it is part of the process of discovering where its weaknesses or contradictions are (as in "here's some stuff you never thought of, howdja like it")
― mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 14:17 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 14:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 14:32 (twenty-two years ago)
N: OTM
― the pinefox, Tuesday, 1 October 2002 14:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 14:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― gabriel rodriguez-doerr (gabe), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 14:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― the pinefox, Tuesday, 1 October 2002 15:10 (twenty-two years ago)
there are very few absolutists also
― mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 15:14 (twenty-two years ago)
Medical ethicists have been argueing about infanticide for a long time and when is is and isn't okay.
e.g. Baby is born with major abnormalities and won't survive without ongoing medical attention and even then may not survive. Should it be euthanised? Should it be starved to death (this is apparently pretty much the standard)? Should every medical procedure possible be done to preserve the life? Should a finite number of medical prodedures be done and what then if they fail - euthunise or starve to death?
How long should a baby born with no brain or spinal cord be kept "alive" using a life support machine for?
Who decides what happens with the abnormal baby? The doctor? The mother? The father? If one of the parents chooses is this then infanticide?
What about a woman who has not discoved that she is pregnant until it is too late for an abortion? What if she has some nasty hereditary thing and is not prepared to take the risk of passing it on?
Women suffering from post-natal-depression and other mental compromises are not usually convicted for killing their babies, are they?
If the baby is induced at time after 20 weeks (that's half-term for those who don't know) it quite possibly can be kept alive with lots of medical assistance. Is a >20 abortion an abortion or infanticide if it cries before it dies?
You guys don't read enough women's magazines. Infanticide is all over the place in them and it's very hard to ever feel that what the woman did was wrong.
e.g. Girl is pregnant but still gets periods through whole pregnancy and hardly shows at all and so doesn't realise she's preggers -OR- girl is preggers but somehow in major denial. Girl gives birth to baby in toilet (frequently at nightclub) thinking all she needs is a good crap. Baby dies in toilet due to hitting head/drowning/not getting the right attention to start breathing etc. -OR- Girl sees messy baby thing and tries to flush it or wraps it up in loo paper and shoves it in the bin either knowing or not knowing what it is. Baby dies, girl carries on dancing. I mean, sure, she's a mentalist and needs some counselling but would you convict her of murder?
I'm not talking about women casually killing their children willy-nilly. I'm talking about women in desperate situations, whether due to physical, medical or mental problems or their own or of the baby's choosing to kill their new-born.
I don't know where there should be a cut off point. I don't think my mum should be allowed to kill me at 29 years of age. I sort of suspect somewhere between one day and two years would be what I feel comfortable with, depending on what abnormalities, if any, a child has. On the other hand maybe I don't believe in any age limit because I do believe in euthanasia and if I was really ill or damaged to the point of being a vegetable then I would want my mum or someone else to kill me. With a non-abormal child then it's a bit arbitrary. Maybe a month or so.
Of course, defining abnormal becomes the next bit step.
― toraneko (toraneko), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 15:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― gabriel rodriguez-doerr (gabe), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 15:43 (twenty-two years ago)
''Baby dies, girl carries on dancing. I mean, sure, she's a mentalist and needs some counselling but would you convict her of murder?''
she should be held to account in a court of law surely?
''I don't know where there should be a cut off point. I don't think my mum should be allowed to kill me at 29 years of age. I sort of suspect somewhere between one day and two years would be what I feel comfortable with, depending on what abnormalities, if any, a child has.''
what abt the father's role in this? and with abnormalities it's all a matter of degrees isn't it? ppl with disabilities can lead a good life too.
''What about a woman who has not discoved that she is pregnant until it is too late for an abortion?''
why not give it away for adoption?
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 20:51 (twenty-two years ago)
OK so you put a lot of it as a consequence of mental probs but it's some of yr args that i'm having trouble with. but still...i'll try to 'figure this out' tonight. maybe i haven't read enough women's magazines...
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 20:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― Phil (phil), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 21:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 21:39 (twenty-two years ago)
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what bout withholding vactination to the weaki\est specimens of the species in the hope that thjey do not grow up and reproduce
― Electronic Bugaloo, Sunday, 23 March 2008 00:29 (seventeen years ago)
Would you include poor literacy as a weakness?
― Jarlrmai, Sunday, 23 March 2008 00:33 (seventeen years ago)
no, people likely to grow into sticklers for correct spellings/grammar would probably succumb to disease, only tough people would survive
― Electronic Bugaloo, Sunday, 23 March 2008 00:45 (seventeen years ago)
What if they were tough and had a penchant for a properly constructed sentence?
― Jarlrmai, Sunday, 23 March 2008 00:51 (seventeen years ago)
Then they would LIVE! and REPRODUCE!!
― Electronic Bugaloo, Sunday, 23 March 2008 01:07 (seventeen years ago)
holy shit. so many seriously broken brains above.
― sunny successor, Sunday, 23 March 2008 06:00 (seventeen years ago)
i'm not quite sure if i was being serious or not:-/
― latebloomer, Sunday, 23 March 2008 07:33 (seventeen years ago)
It was practised in both ancient Greece and Rome!
It was practised in both ancient Greece and Rome! -- Kiwi, Saturday, March 17, 2007 7:18 PM (1 year ago) Bookmark Link
fwiw
classic: adj. 1.[ ... ] 3. Of or characteristic of the literature, art, and culture of ancient Greece and Rome; classical.
― Aimless, Sunday, 23 March 2008 17:01 (seventeen years ago)
what about INFANTACIDE?
http://cache.viewimages.com/xc/3280256.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=4F84C7EF07395AB69314BA16F825F54AA55A1E4F32AD3138
― moonship journey to baja, Sunday, 23 March 2008 18:54 (seventeen years ago)
http://la.metblogs.com/archives/fanta.jpg
― latebloomer, Sunday, 23 March 2008 20:03 (seventeen years ago)
srsly guy sometimes i think it would have been better if I had died in my infancy
― Electronic Bugaloo, Sunday, 23 March 2008 20:28 (seventeen years ago)
So this is the most horrifying news story I've heard in a while:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/27/otty-sanchez-woman-accuse_n_245627.html
― ENBB, Wednesday, 29 July 2009 17:43 (sixteen years ago)
Woman Accused Of Killing Newborn, Ate Brain
wau
― karl...arlk...rlka...lkar..., Wednesday, 29 July 2009 17:53 (sixteen years ago)