pfork grappling w misogyny aka sage francis review

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I'd be curious to know what ppl think, particularly about this para.:

Possibly the last interesting facet of this phenomenon is how people with staunchly progressive politics and who countenance no hate speech in their everyday lives can switch these precepts off like a faucet when confronted with the hypnotic strains of the latest 50 Cent single. Maybe we're too postmodern to apprehend values so contrary to the ones we profess as anything but satirical cultural criticism. Or maybe we've just been lulled into compliance, taught that the small voice of the conscience is the priggish influence of Tipper Gore, to be suppressed and disregarded.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 17:54 (twenty-one years ago)

A bit rich coming from a Ryan Schrieber publication.

Leon the Fatboy (Ex Leon), Friday, 11 February 2005 17:57 (twenty-one years ago)

itz stoopid.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 17:58 (twenty-one years ago)

Let's poll the Suicide Girls.

Jordan (Jordan), Friday, 11 February 2005 17:59 (twenty-one years ago)

It's REALLY stupid.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:00 (twenty-one years ago)

freddy krueger's values never meshed with mine either, but i got big love for freddy.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:00 (twenty-one years ago)

having said that, fiddy cent scares the crap outta me. he looks like he could bite my head off. he's a creepy dood.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:02 (twenty-one years ago)

know who else is struggling with misogyny? those guys in the ying yang twins-- check it out: http://riffcentral.blogspot.com

Nick Sylvester, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:03 (twenty-one years ago)

Sage Francis is a cornball

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:04 (twenty-one years ago)

fiddy has also brought his mumble down so low in the latest vids i've seen -the game one and the ho house one-that i'm fairly sure that his next single iz gonna be an instrumental and in the video he's just gonna stare at the camera nodding his head making me pee in my pants.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:05 (twenty-one years ago)

icrazy Nazi-emo-Hyena-faced whore rod is on a rampage at a Sage Francis show!

latebloomer (latebloomer), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:06 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't get why 50 would scare you. All he knows how to do is smile limply.

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:06 (twenty-one years ago)

I was listening to the Def Jam box set the other day and "P.W. Botha gets the gas face!" kinda sums up Sage Francis's whole thing.

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:07 (twenty-one years ago)

I have a feeling that the Ying-Yang Twins aren't struggling with misogyny at all. In fact they seem to be wholeheartedly embracing misogyny.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:08 (twenty-one years ago)

his smile scares me too, anthony. i'm afraid he's gonna eat me for breakfast.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:09 (twenty-one years ago)

I was going to say, Ying-Yang Twins seem to be rubbing misogyny into their skin like it's hotel lotion.

Also, 50 Cent is about as scary as a really muscular blouse.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:10 (twenty-one years ago)

The thought of a blouse like that terrifies me.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:10 (twenty-one years ago)

Ha, the analogy is working!

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:11 (twenty-one years ago)

Horror movie villains are presented as evil - for the movies to work, you're supposed to dislike and fear them. This might sometimes be the case with offensive lyrics but I don't think it is most of the time. There's a different kind of identification working, I think. Even if I choose to treat "Drips" or something in that way, I think that's more a case of me adding a level to it on my part which isn't the case with most horror flicks, where that level is right there in the film's presentation itself.

I think it's a valid question. Maybe everyone's just dimissing it because it's an old one.

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sundar subramanian (sundar), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:12 (twenty-one years ago)

I mean, it is something that I think is an issue with I dunno Stones songs too but that doesn't mean it's not still an issue with rap lyrics.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:13 (twenty-one years ago)

I think it's a valid question. Maybe everyone's just dimissing it because it's an old one.

I think this is very OTM. I also think that the role of the emcee as a storyteller as opposed to a moralgiver is germane to this discussion.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:13 (twenty-one years ago)

i didn't say that anyone else had to be scared of fiddy, he just creeps me out is all.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:15 (twenty-one years ago)

can we, like, be given a specific "rap hate" quote to react to? I'd rather not generalize and to be honest I can rarely tell what the fuck Fifty is saying.

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:15 (twenty-one years ago)

Umm, I guess I'm going to get dogpiled for admitting this, but I can relate to what I take to be the gist of that paragraph (i.e. in order to enjoy mainstream hip hop of the 50 Cent variety you have to "bracket" the homophobia, same deal as in dancehall singles about chi-chi men etc. etc.). I already said something like this on that endless "dahnce" vs. "hip hop" thread though. As a fag, you just get used to this shit- your identity is shorthand for lame/impotent/worthy of death, that's just the default setting of how aggro masculinity gets packaged and sold to the teenage male spending Mom and Dad's money on records that make them feel temporarily powerful (see also Eminem's "faggot means weak, it doesn't mean homosexual" ideological mirage for more of same)- I'm tempted to say the same holds for The Angry Samoans "Homosexual" and The Meatmen's "Tooling for Anus" in US hardcore, but they are weirdly fixated/latent/over-the-top. But now that I think about it, there isn't such a difference between the "ha ha we're pretending to be fags" skit that starts "Tooling for Anus" and the faux snap queen skit about Ja Rule's gay boyfriend on "Get Rich or Die Trying".

Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:15 (twenty-one years ago)

not necessarily because his unintelligble, just that it takes a little effort and I rarely bother.

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miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:16 (twenty-one years ago)

(Well, it's also being dismissed because it's being put forward by a website that sells advertising to a female-only porn site but I've argued before that the elveation of the avoidance of hypocrisy as the intellectual ideal is both unrealistic and unhelpful in terms of advancing discussion on sensitive topics.)

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:16 (twenty-one years ago)

it may be an old question, but it certainly hasn't been answered to my satisfaction. i would imagine a lot of people feel the same way.

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mark p (Mark P), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:17 (twenty-one years ago)

I dunno anybody who loves gay-bashing in rap songs or "switches off their precepts." If it was a chorus or something where it was in your face most people I know wouldn't like it. Most people I know think 50 is pretty frikkin' anonymous and boring. I just hope I don't have to listen to Sage Francis to prove it.

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:20 (twenty-one years ago)

I dunno anybody who loves gay-bashing in rap songs or "switches off their precepts."

what are the other options?

mark p (Mark P), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:21 (twenty-one years ago)

I like Sage Francis but 50 Cent is good too.
I thought 50's most misogynist song (PIMP i assume) was one of his worst. I'm not sure how much that's related to misogyny and how much is that everything about it was pretty worn.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:21 (twenty-one years ago)

Wait, does anyone really believe this guy's premise that fans of hip hop or rock or dancehall who have beliefs diametrically opposed to those espoused in that music just blithely ignore those differences? Cuz that's the part that seems the stupidest to me.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:22 (twenty-one years ago)

It's not like I don't get offended by stuff. I do. Neil Labute, Spielberg, Father Of The Bride Part 2, lots of stuff. I take it for granted that some art will rub me the wrong way and say things that I don't want to hear and that I won't always agree with it. I avoid most art that I think will make me wanna throw up.(But I don't always avoid things that I think might make me feel uncomfortable.)

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:23 (twenty-one years ago)

I would like the author to address the suicide girls thing.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:23 (twenty-one years ago)

i like that paragraph; it's unusually contemplative for music writing. only thing i might disagree with is the last line, which suggests that we suppress the voice of conscious that arises in us because it is "priggish." I would say that the real reason we suppress it is because it is inconvenient to our way of exploring the world and enjoying ourselves, and therefore easier to justify. which is not to suggest that you can't necessarily espouse such beliefs and listen to music that exudes sentiments contrary to those ideals, but then we're getting into the argument of whether consciously and repeatedly subjecting oneself to ideas that we intuitively feel are wrong is damaging to one's growth, personal sense of morality and ethics, and self.

his face was burned off in a flaming crossbow accident (King Kobra), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:24 (twenty-one years ago)

As far as YY Twins and misogyny goes, it's all sex/power fantasy shit and personally it depends on whether I'd be offended by the inverse. It wouldn't bother me if a bunch of women sang about how their pussies are gonna rub my dick to a bloody nub or whatever. I'm not saying women should LIKE the track (obv as rape and sexual violence is more of an actual threat such things might feel more genuinely threatening) but I'm saying I don't feel like much of a hypocrite for enjoying it.

x-post there's always the option of not liking blatantly homophobic raps, mark.

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:25 (twenty-one years ago)

if something strikes me as really offensive I might wince at it, but if the rest of the song is great I'm not gonna turn it off, what's the point of that? It's the whole "baby with the bathwater" thing. I agree with Alex in SF that this premise that people just "turn off" parts of their brain while listening is sorta weird and difficult to substantiate.

I also don't understand the Suicide Girls asides - why anyone would say the Suicide Girls site is an example of mysogny? (So it's run by self-hating women?!? wtf)

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:25 (twenty-one years ago)

OMG SAGE FRANCIS THINKS HOMOPHOBIC MUSIC IS ACTUALLY HOMOEROTIC HE IS SO SMART OMG

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:27 (twenty-one years ago)

Andrea Dworkin to thread.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:28 (twenty-one years ago)

ppl, the whole review sucks. there's a line about how he have to stop opening our gullets wide and swallowing whatver rappers stick down it.

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:29 (twenty-one years ago)

The review would have been better -- and would have touched on Dan Perry's point about emcee as a storyteller as opposed to a moralgiver -- had it referenced the pfork review for Sage Francis's non-prophets project: The biggest testament to the looser nature of this album compared to his last is the inclusion of a fully developed song by his most popular alter ego. Riding a bass-heavy doorknocker with a foreign vocal sample, "Xaul Zan's Heart" is one of Sage's funniest performances to date, as he plays the role of a misogynist pseudo-pimp that claims to be "deeper than Sage Francis," "the life of the search party," and a "fairy godmotherfucker," closing the song with the rousing line, "I am womanizer, hear me whore." Whatever Sage is trying to say about sexism, it seems more complicated than this review.

subgenius (subgenius), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:29 (twenty-one years ago)

alex i think the relative lack of discourse surrounding misogyny in hip-hop (and i say this knowing full well that liz-mendez berry's piece FINALLY got published in the vibe this month) speaks to what i assume is the author's intent up above. i don't think he's suggesting that anyone's blithely ignoring the issue, but i do think he's tentatively prodding at the framework of willful ignorance that surrounds some hip-hop, yeah. i don't believe that every well-meaning, liberal person who owns get rich had a waking, conscious moment where they grappled with the content and decided to soldier on - there's a much more insidious sublimation going on there..

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mark p (Mark P), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:32 (twenty-one years ago)

and check out this half-assed rowback: The vast majority of hip-hop isn't harmful or hurtful,

if you believe that listening to people express misogyny, homophobia, and bloodlust is harmful and hurtful, then the vast of majority is, in fact, harmful and hurtful.

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:32 (twenty-one years ago)

"I dunno anybody who loves gay-bashing in rap songs or "switches off their precepts." "

Wait, that's exactly what I'm saying I have to do in order to enjoy certain hip hop songs/artists. Listening to the Ying Yang twins just the other day, the line "Faggot you better watch your mouth" slides by and you flinch and just move on. But the finch is exactly that internal moment of thinking "this is fucked up, oh well, whatever, it's not surprising, anyway . . " and then you move on. The positives about the music outweigh its negative side, but the negatives are there. I don't think the claim is "while you are listening to homophobic rap lyrics you are temporarily endorsing them or altering your beliefs".

Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:33 (twenty-one years ago)

(also, the suicidegirls thing is a red herring. there's a difference between low-calorie porn and hip-hop's worst offences.)

mark p (Mark P), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:34 (twenty-one years ago)

I also don't understand the Suicide Girls asides - why anyone would say the Suicide Girls site is an example of mysogny?

It's not, but it's weird that this guy's trying to make a point about misogyny, objectivication of women, and how we tune those things out when it's convenient for us, all while there's a Suicide Girls ad banner flashing right beside his review.

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:34 (twenty-one years ago)

gotcha, drew

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miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:34 (twenty-one years ago)

I need to go pick up that copy of vibe.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:34 (twenty-one years ago)

(well, not literally beside his review, but all over PFM. You know what I mean)

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MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:35 (twenty-one years ago)

People may also get tired of this question because people with 50 Cent's characteristics get knocked for it whereas anyone kinda indie-colored gets the free pass of considering it ironic or satirical or amusingly transgressive. (Oh hell, why pussyfoot around this: there tends to be a line of working-class black = "dumb enough to be a misogynist" as opposed to middle-class white = "too smart to actually be racist.) In the end I'm more scared by the ("faux?") racism of the Rye Coalition list Pfork published -- not to mention the constant "joke"-racism that keeps me afraid to even look in on the Pfork message board -- than the misogyny or homophobia of hip-hop. Maybe obviously, since I'm a heterosexual-male non-white person, and I'm sure I've learned to bracket those things in hip-hop like everyone else, but there's still a kind of gestural level to it in hip-hop that's less disconcerting than the actual creepy inner conflict I always sense with fake-racism.

That said, I wouldn't make fun of the paragraph at top; it's totally valid. We all of us kinda suspend that stuff in order to enjoy music that's just good music, but you can't suspend it entirely. And if you do suspend it entirely, you risk running into -- to borrow a phrase from Bush, which I never thought I'd have recourse to do -- the whole soft bigotry of low expectations thing. Similarly, I can rarely bring myself to completely look down on the corny-indie-fuxxor habit of getting ultra-excited about any hip-hop that goes positive or conscious and doesn't have those characteristics; you do enough of that suspension act and it's sometimes a relief to get a break.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:35 (twenty-one years ago)

but flinching isn't switching off your precepts, drew, it's letting your beliefs conflict with the stuff you hear. i think the claim is that while we listen to rap, our political beliefs aren't importamt.

imagine that, not always filtering life through your political beliefs!

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:37 (twenty-one years ago)

nabisco OTM OTM OTM.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:37 (twenty-one years ago)

"Possibly the last interesting facet of this phenomenon is how people with staunchly progressive politics and who countenance no hate speech in their everyday lives can switch these precepts off like a faucet when confronted with the hypnotic strains of the latest 50 Cent single."

This sentence reads like it came straight out of The Onion.

cdwill, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:37 (twenty-one years ago)

(So it's run by self-hating women?!? wtf)

shakey, what a completely ridiculous thing to say.

mark p (Mark P), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:38 (twenty-one years ago)

It's not, but it's weird that this guy's trying to make a point about misogyny, objectivication of women, and how we tune those things out when it's convenient for us, all while there's a Suicide Girls ad banner flashing right beside his review.

The revenue of which is being used to get this review - making points about misogyny, objectification of women, & willful (or trained) obliviousness re: objectionable material (thank you Nabisco!) - online & out there for folks to talk about DO YOU SEE?

Here's a link to a PDF version of the Elizabeth Mendez-Berry article (posted on S/FJ's site).

David R. (popshots75`), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:39 (twenty-one years ago)

I know several people who work for Suicide Girls, I think they'd be pretty pissed to be told what they're doing is mysognistic.

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Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:40 (twenty-one years ago)

"people" = women

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:40 (twenty-one years ago)

(Oh hell, why pussyfoot around this: there tends to be a line of working-class black = "dumb enough to be a misogynist" as opposed to middle-class white = "too smart to actually be racist.)

OTM

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:41 (twenty-one years ago)

That horrific Nickelback song to thread!

David R. (popshots75`), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:42 (twenty-one years ago)

what i don't get is this part of the review:

"Of course, I don't think Sage Francis is going to make anyone change their minds or behavior, and he doesn't seem to think so either."

i don't like this. it makes the album sound pointless.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:42 (twenty-one years ago)

"alex i think the relative lack of discourse surrounding misogyny in hip-hop (and i say this knowing full well that liz-mendez berry's piece FINALLY got published in the vibe this month) speaks to what i assume is the author's intent up above."

EXCEPT that there is a relative lack of discourse surrounding misogyny in all MUSIC or maybe even all of LIFE. So the reviewers example is faulty because for people who actually grapple with misogyny OUTSIDE of 50 Cent songs are definitely grappling with the misogyny in 50 Cent songs (esp. if they still like 50 Cent.) But yes for people for whom misogyny isn't something on their radar then yes I think it is very easy to ignore or whatever.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:42 (twenty-one years ago)

I would go a step further than Nabisco and say it's either "black" vs "white" or "working-class" vs "middle-class" in that equation.

I also agree with Alex in SF in that this a symptom of a wider issue which appears (in the context of this review and in most discourse I see about hip-hop) in the minds of most white people to be the fault of black people.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:45 (twenty-one years ago)

The revenue of which is being used to get this review

Oh, I don't object to it -- however PFM pays their bills is fine with me -- but surely Mr. Howe was aware that SG ads: PFM = his point about wilful or trained obliviousness: hip-hop. Or maybe he wasn't aware.

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:48 (twenty-one years ago)

"Here's a link to a PDF version of the Elizabeth Mendez-Berry article (posted on S/FJ's site)."

Thank you very much for the link, Dave.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:51 (twenty-one years ago)

"SG ads: PFM = his point about wilful or trained obliviousness: hip-hop"

sorry to harp on this, but I really do think this is a weak point, as Suicide Girls is *not* analogous to Snoop rapping about bitch-slapping women or whatever. (I second the request for an example of 50s lyrics, cuz I really don't listen or pay attention to him)

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:52 (twenty-one years ago)

"I also agree with Alex in SF in that this a symptom of a wider issue which appears (in the context of this review and in most discourse I see about hip-hop) in the minds of most white people to be the fault of black people."

the rationale people use is that rap is so popular and thus hypothetically more damaging to the wee ones listening to it (and thus, a bigger target for the ire of morally outraged folks.).

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:54 (twenty-one years ago)

I mean, am I the only person on this thread that doesn't accept the Dworkin/Mackinnon argument that pornography by its nature is mysogynistic and inherently harmful to women?

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:56 (twenty-one years ago)

Misogyny in rap is more damaging than misogyny on television or in movies or in ROCK or in real people's home or in school or in. . . uh huh, yeah.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:56 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't think Scott's saying he agrees with that perception, Alex, just that that's how high-handed moralists tend to present their argument.

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:58 (twenty-one years ago)

If you are allowing your wee ones to listen to "Get Low" without any type of parental filtering or explaination, I don't think you can really blame Li'l Jon for that one.

I mean, am I the only person on this thread that doesn't accept the Dworkin/Mackinnon argument that pornography by its nature is mysogynistic and inherently harmful to women?

I agree with you, Shakey. Seriously.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 18:58 (twenty-one years ago)

*whew*

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 18:59 (twenty-one years ago)

something like The Meatmen is interesting to compare to the hip-hop stuff, but those guys are (were) so fringe and marginalized that it doesn't really enter the discourse. But then, I don't really think of them as homophobic per se. They hated everybody. They were equal-opportunity haterz. I don't think of the Ying-Yang Twins as being purely misogynist either. It's just one component of this really bleak and desperate worldview. I think what was simultaneously attractive and repellant about that album is just kind of the intense level of self-loathing, self-hatred that comes through in their personas. I mean, the lyrics about them drinking themselves into oblivion and fucking the floor, and drinking by themselves and fucking by themselves. It's more about the whole 'death rock' thing that Frank Kogan talks about all the time -- "Don't hang around 'cause two's a crowd" -- a rejection of everyone else -- than it is some kind of pure hatred of women. And it makes for compelling, if often ugly art.

Stormy Davis (diamond), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:00 (twenty-one years ago)

For what it's worth, there wouldn't be a single weekly paper in the U.S. without the support of the sex industry. Not that that excuses anybody--just pointing out how probably 99% of anything intelligent that's been printed about misogyny in hip-hop has been funded.

That Sage Francis record is a drag. He makes it sound like if you respect women, you will become a tedious crank who drops lame, ancient dick-as-mic metaphors. Somehow that doesn't seem to me like the best way to bring about equality and understanding etc.

Keith Harris (kharris1128), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:03 (twenty-one years ago)

sorry to harp on this, but I really do think this is a weak point, as Suicide Girls is *not* analogous to Snoop rapping about bitch-slapping women or whatever.

I wasn't referring to SG = "the content on the SG site", I specifically meant the situation where we have SG ads appearing all over PFM. Anyway, this is off-topic, and I wasn't intending to derail the thread.

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:06 (twenty-one years ago)

Incidentally I should mention that most of the hip-hop I listen to with any regularity is radio-type popular hip-hop, in which elements of what we're calling "misogyny" have pretty much been toned down to extremely-extreme objectification -- something lots of white rock bands have done in the past, to greater or lesser extents, without really getting called on it. (By which I mean hair metal as much as the Rolling Stones.) And I do think this has a little to do with a certain national habit in the US of liking to identify or speculate about what's "going wrong" with black people or "black culture" -- I can't think of any other group in the country that gets so much armchair speculating about what its problems are.

That said, I'm sure as you trend away from the radio-friendly you get much more active and cringe-worth forms of misogyny and homophobia; and of course even the extreme-objectification is problematic, hugely problematic. And really I think the only thing that'll tone it down is the presence and hopefully the vocal protest of women as a market category for these records. I mean, you're not gonna clean up rap by having white people complain about it; you're not gonna clean up rap by having older black people complain about it in some paternalistic way; but when college-aged black women -- a money market! -- are getting annoyed at Nelly, that might do something. And I don't think the result will be to neuter hip-hop, but just to expose the market that's always existed for people talking in different modes. Hell, look at Tupac: Thug Life or not, the guy pulled a massive female audience just by occasionally getting emo-earnest about stuff.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:07 (twenty-one years ago)

plus Pac loved his mother. Just like Usher! they're such nice boys...

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 19:09 (twenty-one years ago)

I dated a girl who followed up our relationship by getting into porn because she needed money. I told her it might not be the best way to go about it, she said she just wanted to make one, but the money was fairly good, so she kept at it for awhile. Fucked her up monstrously. Of course, some women can probably do it and have no issues after the fact, but still...

This thread reminds me of how I can only listen to half the songs on Death Certificate these days and virtually none on Efil4zaggin

Riot Gear! (Gear!), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:12 (twenty-one years ago)

that vibe article is amazing.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:14 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't agree that old 'white rock' never got called on its sexism. Just read Christgau's reviews or Charles Shaar Murray's. But, really, changing the subject to what questionable things Pitchfork might do or other artists or art forms might do (I agree) doesn't mean that it's not a problem in lots of rap lyrics, which people point to because they're so popular. I dunno, I think a lot of mainstream rap might go further than nabisco suggests. I gave the Eminem example. (I don't know that much about 50 Cent, beyond the hits and whatever my old housemate and his friends listened to.)
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sundar subramanian (sundar), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:20 (twenty-one years ago)

The Eminem example is fantastic because you will get people saying, "Look, it's ironic! Isn't he funny???" These same people will then talk about how misogynistic 50 Cent, Ludacris, Dr. Dre, Snoop Dogg, and pretty much every black rapper on Earth who isn't Common or Young MC is.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:23 (twenty-one years ago)

Has everyone read Joan Morgan's "The Nigga Ya Hate To Love"? It's a village voice piece she wrote in 1990 about Ice Cube. You can find it in the Rock She Wrote book.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:24 (twenty-one years ago)

Suicidegirls aside, there is a kind of creepy anti-female vibe to a good number of pfork pieces. That's why I can't take this article too seriously.

Leon the Fatboy (Ex Leon), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:25 (twenty-one years ago)

Dan OTM

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:26 (twenty-one years ago)

I know, Leon, I really regret that "Bitch Better Have My Max Tundra" article.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:28 (twenty-one years ago)

I agree with you, Dan. I think rap has always been a great excuse for people to let loose with a whole buncha racism masquerading as moral outrage. And rap has always played on that in a punkrock/we are yer worst nitemare kinda way. (It sells records either way.)

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:29 (twenty-one years ago)

I mean, am I the only person on this thread that doesn't accept the Dworkin/Mackinnon argument that pornography by its nature is mysogynistic and inherently harmful to women?
-- Shakey Mo Collier (audiobo...), February 11th, 2005.

No I agree. I think thats one of those examples of Liberals, by attempting to be super-liberal, winding up extremely conservative.

David Allen (David Allen), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:30 (twenty-one years ago)

that Vibe article is great, yeah

Riot Gear! (Gear!), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:32 (twenty-one years ago)

Eminem definitely an interesting example. Isn't there some skit where he shoots a fan in the head after receiving a blowjob? Am I remembering that wrong...?

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 19:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I just laughed when I read that. I don't know what that makes me, but god.

David Allen (David Allen), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:35 (twenty-one years ago)

The Eminem example is fantastic because you will get people saying, "Look, it's ironic! Isn't he funny???" These same people will then talk about how misogynistic 50 Cent, Ludacris, Dr. Dre, Snoop Dogg, and pretty much every black rapper on Earth who isn't Common or Young MC is.

That's funny, I always thought that white critics were more likely to single Eminem out as the symbol of hip-hop homophobia because they didn't want to be accused of being racist for criticizing a black artist.

x-post

subgenius (subgenius), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:42 (twenty-one years ago)

my memory is that the critics fell all over themselves canonizing Eminem as the "first white rap star" etc. He was appreciated as a "controversial" guy selling millions of records.

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 19:46 (twenty-one years ago)

you're both right, actually.

goddamnit pitchfork is down and I sooooo want to link to that fuck-crazy Air 50.000 hz Legend review.

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:47 (twenty-one years ago)

I think the way people criticize homophobia in hip-hop is slightyl different from the way people criticize misogyny. Also, a lot of the attacks on Eminem's homophobia seem to have a "But aren't you gay????" subtext to them.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:47 (twenty-one years ago)

I admit I was ignoring this thread because Sage Francis isn't on my radar at all but damn there's some good stuff here.

I'm sure this was addressed at various points, based on my skim -- I think Drew in particular -- but is there any reason (or rather, *should* there be any reason) to expect a consistency in your own reactions to art based on specific subject matter and reference?

(Then again what do I know, I don't listen to lyrics. ;-))

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:48 (twenty-one years ago)

Good lord, Miccio!

http://pitchforkmedia.com/record-reviews/a/air/10000-hz-legend.shtml

I can't wait to write a review that includes a sentence starting "The obvious comparison that my girlfriend should have made..."

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:50 (twenty-one years ago)

Wow - 9/11 DID change everything!

David R. (popshots75`), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:51 (twenty-one years ago)

The obvious comparison that my girlfriend should have made is to the Chemical Brothers, who took a similar stylistic leap on their last album, 1999's Surrender, even though staying the big-beat course would have been the easier and more profitable thing to do. But for some reason Spike Lee's work also comes to mind: there are plenty of hits and misses, but the experience is worth it for the invigorating knowledge that this critically established artist isn't afraid to take his art in new directions. Plus, my girlfriend and I love that Spike always slips a hot sex scene into his films.

Wow! What a prick!

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Someone whould mail that guy the story about the dude whose ex ripped off one of his nuts.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:52 (twenty-one years ago)

SIGNIFICANT OTHERS OF PEOPLE HERE: PLEASE ALWAYS MAKE OBVIOUS COMPARISONS TO MAKE YOUR MAN/WOMAN/ENTITY HAPPY.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:53 (twenty-one years ago)

(Or tranny or hermaphrodite or...)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:53 (twenty-one years ago)

sherpa?

David R. (popshots75`), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:54 (twenty-one years ago)

DID I MENTION I'VE BEEN HAVING SEX LATELY?

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:54 (twenty-one years ago)

If there are hermaphrodites lurking on ILM they totally need to start posting now. It's a perspective we're completely lacking: "I love Tegan, but Sara gets on my fucking nerves."

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:55 (twenty-one years ago)

I can make a film and make you my star
You'll be a natural the way you are
I would like you on a long black leash
I will parade you down the high streets
You've got the attraction
You've got the pulling power
Walk my doggie, walk my little sex dwarf
We can make a scene we'll be a team
Making the headlines sounds like a dream
When we hit the floor you just watch them move aside
We will take them for a ride of rides
They all love your miniature ways
You know what they say about small boys

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:55 (twenty-one years ago)

Working on a sex farm
Trying to raise some hard love
Getting out my pitch fork
And poking your hay

Scratching in your henhouse
Sniffing at your feedbag
Slipping out your back door
I'm leaving my spray

Sex farm woman
I'm gonna mow you down
Sex farm woman
I'll rake and mow you down

Sex farm woman
Don't you see my silo risin' high
Working on a sex farm
Hosing down your barn door
Bothering your livestock
They know what I need

Working up a hot sweat
I'm scretching in your pea patch
Plowing through your beanfield
Planting my seed

Sex farm woman
I'll be your hired hand
Sex farm woman
I'll let my offer stand
Sex farm woman
Don't you feel my tractor rumbling by
by-by-byyyy

Working on a sex farm
Wolfing down some cornbread
I'm turning on the tv
Joining the grange.

David R. (popshots75`), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Farmist.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:58 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't think it's entirely fair to hold up PFork reviews from four years ago and treat them as if they'd been published yesterday but it does make for some outstanding comedy.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:58 (twenty-one years ago)

holy shit @ that Air review!

eman (eman), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:58 (twenty-one years ago)

Incredible comedy. Whether or not it's entirely fair...well, it ran then, the main editors are still the editors now (aren't they?)...*shrug*

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 19:59 (twenty-one years ago)

I always appreciated how hard Marc Almond tried to be seedy and sexy in Soft Cell when the end result was, more often than not, hilariously over-the-top comedy. (Sex Dwarf = best song on the album)

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 11 February 2005 19:59 (twenty-one years ago)

why can't i access it? I think pitchfork has 86ed my IP address.

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:00 (twenty-one years ago)

Entirety of review:

---

I wouldn't say she was a lost cause, but my girlfriend needed a music doctor like I needed, well, a girlfriend. That is, desperately. Call it a perfect match. She'd spent too many years clubbing to have more than a passing knowledge of non-techno music, and I'd spent too many years shucking to have more than a passing knowledge of monogamous sex. The results have been fast, effective, and largely painless. She's taken to the Pixies, and I've taken to, um, lots of sex.

Air's debut, 1998's Moon Safari, is not only a pop classic of retro-futurism; it also provides a damn fine soundtrack to the otherworldly act of sex. Needless to say, we became well acquainted with the album, which both of us were already fond of to begin with. Their soundtrack to Sofia Coppola's directorial debut, 2000's The Virgin Suicides, was a similarly fluid pour of analog synths, but the album was a less pop-oriented, more minor-key affair. And if you've seen the movie, you can understand why I wouldn't want to do "the beast with two backs" while listening to its irrevocably-linked score.

So would Air's official follow-up to Moon Safari be a return to coital form? I'll let my girlfriend do the talking:

"Weird."

That would be the opener, "Electronic Performers." She wasn't necessarily turned off by the deep bass thumps that rip into electronic handclaps. Or the occasional heavy rapping, like the landlord at your door a day after the rent's due. And it definitely wasn't the radar beeps or the fluctuating machinations of the keyboard. I think it was the vocals. Accompanied by a natural piano, a distorted voice sings, "We are the synchronizers/ Send messages through time code." And it is weird, like something Dean and Gene Ween would come up with. But with lines such as, "We need to use envelope filters/ To say how we feel," the track is also an oddly beautiful lament.

"The Radiohead voice!"

Yes, a whispery version of the fitter, happier Macintalk voice makes an appearance on the love song, "How Does It Make You Feel?" But a real voice-- resident keyboardist Roger Joseph Manning Jr.-- sings the ELO-inspired chorus. The beat, meanwhile, is cut from the exact same mold as The Virgin Suicides-- from the dark, ambling pace all the way down to the angelic voices coalescing in the background. But whereas that album-- and "the Radiohead voice," for that matter-- remain serious to the end, this song concludes with a funny moment. After listing off his feelings, the male computerized voice receives an abrupt retort from a female computerized voice: "Well, I really think you should quit smoking."

"It's like rock-n-roll."

"The Vagabond" makes you wish for a full-length Beck/Air collaboration. But at first, it's all Beck: a harmonica solo, folky acoustic strumming, Beck's distinctive, marble-mouthed vocals, and tolls ringing in the background. You'd think he donated a b-side from Mutations. That's when Air's laser-gun atmospherics shoot forth. The drums that kick in midway are also decidedly more similar to Air's previous work. Beck even ends the number with his trademark falsetto and a cackling laugh a la "Hollywood Freaks," so yes, she's right: this is rock-n-roll. But then again, a moment later she said, "Honey, isn't rock-n-roll a weird name?"

"Is this the same album?"

By the halfway mark, "Lucky and Unhappy," the poor girl had been thrown for more than one loop-- not to mention "Radian," Air's most overwrought Bacharach-inspired track to date. And now here was this untraceable throbbing, this eerie computerized whirring, voices of different distortions, and an acoustic guitar to ground it all; then a skittering beat and a swirling orchestra; and even later, static popping and off-key keyboards.

Songs from the album's second half provided little relief. "Sex Born Poison" pairs a vocoderized voice with the Japanese vocals of Buffalo Daughter; then, for good measure, adds what sounds like digital Ping-Pong-- or maybe the noises "Mike Tyson's Punch-Out!!" makes while Little Mac is popping King Hippo in the gut and mouth. After opening with a thick electro-pulse and digi-congos, the chantey "People in the City" reaches a simple acoustic epiphany-- think the Beta Band's "Dry the Rain"-- before descending into muddled feedback and heavy electronic gurgling. And the final number, "Caramel Prisoner," is an ambient come-down-- kind of like a rollercoaster coming to rest with a bloody, broken-nosed Fabio aboard.

"I like it, but it's kind of all over the place."

I'm a little scared to admit it, but we're on the same page here. The barely cohesive 10,000 Hz Legend is both a concern and a relief. There's only one truly catchy song-- the Low-era Bowie-esque "Radio #1"-- but it doesn't have quite the same bounce (not to mention single potential) as "Sexy Boy." So you probably won't hear any of these songs on the radio, and I can say with absolute certainty that this won't be Details' album of the year, as Moon Safari was. I don't say this because it matters, but rather to indicate that Nicolas Godin and Jean-Benoît Dunckel have steadfastly refused to be pigeonholed. For better or worse, this is not Moon Safari Redux.

The obvious comparison that my girlfriend should have made is to the Chemical Brothers, who took a similar stylistic leap on their last album, 1999's Surrender, even though staying the big-beat course would have been the easier and more profitable thing to do. But for some reason Spike Lee's work also comes to mind: there are plenty of hits and misses, but the experience is worth it for the invigorating knowledge that this critically established artist isn't afraid to take his art in new directions. Plus, my girlfriend and I love that Spike always slips a hot sex scene into his films.

-Ryan Kearney, May 29th, 2001

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:01 (twenty-one years ago)

Ned: Well, Ryan is, obviously. I think Scott, who's only been managing editor for a year maybe (?) has had nothing but a good influence on Pitchfork.

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:01 (twenty-one years ago)

Oh so YOU say you Chicago booster. (I KID!)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:01 (twenty-one years ago)

that pitchfork review is like whoa.

"the otherworldly act of sex"!!

mark p (Mark P), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:01 (twenty-one years ago)

"The Underworldly act of sex" = wanking over K. Beckinsale.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:02 (twenty-one years ago)

(to "dark and long")

mark p (Mark P), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Mmmmmm .... Crap Accent I Love You

(oh man now it's part of the thread?)

David R. (popshots75`), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:03 (twenty-one years ago)

Drink from the BOX

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:03 (twenty-one years ago)

...mmm Beckinsale I love you everything everything MEGAMEGAPITCHFORK MEGAMEGAPITCHFORK RYAN RYAN RYAN FOR YOU BOYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY....

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:04 (twenty-one years ago)

i have never forgotten the subtle beauty that is this review

miccio (miccio), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:05 (twenty-one years ago)

rioja rioja reverend ryanschrieber deep blue chicago the water on stones

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:05 (twenty-one years ago)

*dies laughing*

i don't dream. (Saddle Creek.) i emo much.
you know what i mean. Yay "Electric Dreams."
and my Numan League with the Radiohead and my Jay-Z.
this is my beautiful dream.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:06 (twenty-one years ago)

hurt. the necessary 0.0.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:07 (twenty-one years ago)

The "TS: Tesco Vee v Eminem" is a thread that's been waiting to happen for a very long time. I'm going to go out and get shitfaced rather than start it

DJ Mencap0))), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:08 (twenty-one years ago)

Drew should start it, actually.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:09 (twenty-one years ago)

"(Then again what do I know, I don't listen to lyrics. ;-))"

so, ned, you voted for pig destroyer in the pazz & jop based on the music, not on the lovely and poetic lyrics???

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Well spokenword jazzbeat slams aren't NORMALLY my thing...

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:10 (twenty-one years ago)

how could you miss the keatsian qualities of a song like this?:


11. Torture Ballad

the tape across your mouth says more than your words ever could you're
squirming and screaming as I tease your eyes with glowing needles crawl slug
drag your shattered legs behind I know no matter how much I hurt you she'll
always love you more than me but all of this isn't for the sake of her love
it's for the sake of my jealousy

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:12 (twenty-one years ago)

La Belle Dame Sisters of Mercy

Okay, answering myself to get back on track more:

is there any reason (or rather, *should* there be any reason) to expect a consistency in your own reactions to art based on specific subject matter and reference?

I don't think there is a reason but I don't think that one can or should assume is the case with any other potential listener -- which may seem obvious but as the MIA threads showed, what could seem to be abstract and/or noncontroversial for one could have a very specific and grounded meaning for another, and that brought a lot of people up sharp. Not a unique or sudden development, merely a new example of same.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:13 (twenty-one years ago)

"the tape across your mouth says more than your words ever could"

this is actually a pretty clever line even if you are anti-torture.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:13 (twenty-one years ago)

haterz at pfork never been to the candy shop.

the candyman (mike h.), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:40 (twenty-one years ago)

this thread needs some ll cool j lyrics. hmm, "boomin system" or "jigglin baby"?

sage hatin on VICE magazine yet?
m.

msp (msp), Friday, 11 February 2005 20:53 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm late to this thread, but I think it's a good paragraph--at least, speaking personally, I find a lot of hip hop unlistenable because of the misogyny / homophobia. It just stops being a pleasurable experience for me. I yeard that YY Twins song for the first time the other day and was blown away by how awful it was and how awful it made me feel to listen to it.

I also don't get the mentality that says you can enjoy a song even though the lyrics are sickening--for me anyway the lyrical content is inseparable from the musical form. Eminem is a great example. I definitely have friends who think Eminem is deep and ironic and think 50 Cent is misogynist and hateful and are fine with it--which, obviously, has a pretty inescapable racial subtext.

I hope this changes--there are a lot of songs I want to love, but can't because of it.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Friday, 11 February 2005 23:58 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm late to this thread, but I think it's a good paragraph--at least, speaking personally, I find a lot of hip hop unlistenable because of the misogyny / homophobia. It just stops being a pleasurable experience for me. I yeard that YY Twins song for the first time the other day and was blown away by how awful it was and how awful it made me feel to listen to it.

I also don't get the mentality that says you can enjoy a song even though the lyrics are sickening--for me anyway the lyrical content is inseparable from the musical form. Eminem is a great example. I definitely have friends who think Eminem is deep and ironic and think 50 Cent is misogynist and hateful and are fine with it--which, obviously, has a pretty inescapable racial subtext.

I hope this changes--there are a lot of songs I want to enjoy, but can't because of it. And the Vibe article was great. You don't have to argue for some inseparable connection between art and action to see the connection that does exist between them in these particular instances.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Friday, 11 February 2005 23:59 (twenty-one years ago)

whoa, crazy, double post--oops

mrjosh (mrjosh), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:00 (twenty-one years ago)

"I'm late to this thread, but I think it's a good paragraph--at least, speaking personally, I find a lot of hip hop unlistenable because of the misogyny / homophobia. It just stops being a pleasurable experience for me. I yeard that YY Twins song for the first time the other day and was blown away by how awful it was and how awful it made me feel to listen to it."

So wait, how is it a good paragraph again? Isn't what you are saying (that YOU do think about how misogynistic/homophobic is and that it does affect your enjoyment ability to listen) in exact opposition to what the writer is claiming (that well meaning progressive people like you switch off that ability to think critically about music when confronted with viewpoints that you might find repugnant and just listen anyway)?

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:09 (twenty-one years ago)

haha at last I reach the end of this thread and yes, just one post from a woman in a thread almost entirely about misogyny. in another shocker, Nicole is otm:

Suicidegirls aside, there is a kind of creepy anti-female vibe to a good number of pfork pieces. That's why I can't take this article too seriously.

The Lex (The Lex), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:12 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah, but I'm in the minority--most of my progressively political friends do manage to totally dig the stuff I can't. It could also be that they pretend to dig it, in search of 'cred' or something--but in any case I seem to be one of only a few people I know who can't deal with it.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:15 (twenty-one years ago)

So your progressive political friends don't think about misogyny, homophobia, racism, whatever in the music they listen to? That doesn't sound terribly progressive or political to me.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:21 (twenty-one years ago)

Sure, thus the contradiction pointed out in the article: that you can think of yourself as progressive and political in one context, and suspend those beliefs in another.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:24 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm inclined to believe it is more likely that you are underestimating your "friends" than it is they ACTUALLY don't think about the message (whatever it is) in the music they listen to. Perhaps they don't talk to you about it, because you've made it clear that your response to hearing music with ideas you don't like is to NOT listen to it and NOT engage with it.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:27 (twenty-one years ago)

Unless the idea is that they don't think very much about politics, but have sort of passive opinions about it. I can believe that people who don't think very much about politics also don't think very much about music and basically don't think very much period. I see a lot of not thinking all the time.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:32 (twenty-one years ago)

But what I don't see is a lot of people who are genuinely politically engaged, who have real well thought out opinions about misogyny and homophobia who then listen passively to music which advocates or represents ideas which are politically opposed to their own. They actively care about those ideas and the fact that they enjoy music which represents something they find difficult to reconcile upsets them greatly and they think and feel quite a lot about it (this is a phenomenon I think can be observed a lot among dancehall fans, for example--myself included.)

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:36 (twenty-one years ago)

But what I don't see is a lot of people who are genuinely politically engaged, who have real well thought out opinions about misogyny and homophobia who then listen passively to music which advocates or represents ideas which are politically opposed to their own.

me! I'm sorry, if I was less drunk I'd post a decently though out post, but all I can say now is that I see nothing inconsistent with believing certain opinions and enjoying art which ostensibly propagates opposing opinions. I mean, you may as well ask how atheists can enjoy music which is explicitly Xtian eg "Jesus Walks".

the homophobia/dancehall issue does concern me a lot, but more as a facet of the wider homophobia/Jamaica issue. misogyny/hip-hop stopped concerning me when I realised that Trina/Missy/Kim gave a lot better than they got, and all would wipe the floor with Fiddy let alone Sage Francis. hip-hop's always been a bit camp anyway.

The Lex (The Lex), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:44 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm not quite sure where you're going here--are you saying that I should "engage" with the "ideas" in the Ying Yang Twins song? I'm not some Puritan--it's more that I'm not so invested in the music emotionally to begin with that the problem of loving the music while hating the sentiments isn't a big problem for me. My distaste for the lyrics is sufficient to toss out my enjoyment of the music.

I think music / movies / art are gray areas where you're allowed to believe, for a limited time, in things you wouldn't believe in otherwise, which can be fun. Lots of art works this way. I agree with nabisco though about "working-class black = 'dumb enough to be a misogynist' ... middle-class white = 'too smart to actually be racist.'" I.e., I suspect that my friends also find this stuff objectionable, but that many of them think they're above it and it doesn't bother them quite as much as it bothers me. In fact it's the apparent firmness of their political beliefs that lets them feel this way. It's the idea that you can be above the words you read / the music you dance to / the lyrics you sing along to that weirds me out. Maybe that's more nabisco's point than the article's--but a lot of people think that way. You might be right that their politics simply aren't that developed, but it's still a real phenomenon that I see all the time.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:45 (twenty-one years ago)

And it's a notable phenomenon among music critics, since their passive, private enjoyment of misogyny and homophobia can translate into public endorsement of same.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:48 (twenty-one years ago)

"I'm sorry, if I was less drunk I'd post a decently though out post, but all I can say now is that I see nothing inconsistent with believing certain opinions and enjoying art which ostensibly propagates opposing opinions."

I don't think it's inconsistent at all actually. But I also don't think that people ignore the differences between their opinions and the opinions espoused by the music they listen to (esp. when the rifts between the two are massive.) And I think Atheists listening to "Jesus Walks" or Gospel or roots reggae are hyper aware of their respective differences.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:55 (twenty-one years ago)

'enjoyment' isnt something that can be handily measured but the set up where pleasure correlates so neatly to how much fidelity 'sentiments' have to oneself bugs me. and taking in objectionable stuff doesnt necessarily entail an aloof high horse passivity. and enjoying 'wait' doesn't translate into privately "enjoying misogyny" if that's what you meant.

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xcixxorx, Saturday, 12 February 2005 00:59 (twenty-one years ago)

And I think Atheists listening to "Jesus Walks" or Gospel or roots reggae are hyper aware of their respective differences.

not at the moment of listening, not if it's as powerful as "Jesus Walks". maybe at the time of thinking about it afterwards, but that's a different matter. great songs can take you there whether you believe in it or not.

I'm not sure how misogynistic I become when eg "Wait" 'takes me there' but then I don't think it's that misogynistic anyway (I explained why on the original thread).

The Lex (The Lex), Saturday, 12 February 2005 01:08 (twenty-one years ago)

Well, this is a long quote, but re: enjoyment and ethics this thread is all about George Orwell:

http://orwell.ru/library/reviews/swift/english/e_swift

"If one is capable of intellectual detachment, one can perceive merit in a writer whom one deeply disagrees with, but enjoyment is a different matter. Supposing that there is such a thing as good or bad art, then the goodness or badness must reside in the work of art itself- not independently of the observer, indeed, but independently of the mood of the observer. In one sense, therefore, it cannot be true that a poem is good on Monday and bad on Tuesday. But if one judges the poem by the appreciation it arouses, then it can certainly be true, because appreciation, or enjoyment, is a subjective condition which cannot be commanded. ... And aesthetic judgement can be upset just as disastrously — more disastrously, because the cause is less readily recognized — by political or moral disagreement. If a book angers, wounds or alarms you, then you will not enjoy it, whatever its merits may be. If it seems to you a really pernicious book, likely to influence other people in some undesirable way, then you will probably construct an aesthetic theory to show that it has no merits. Current literary criticism consists quite largely of this kind of dodging to and fro between two sets of standards. And yet the opposite process can also happen: enjoyment can overwhelm disapproval, even though one clearly recognizes that one is enjoying something inimical. Swift, whose world-view is so peculiarly unacceptable, but who is nevertheless an extremely popular writer, is a good instance of this....

It is not enough to make the usual answer that of course Swift was wrong, in fact he was insane, but he was ‘a good writer’. It is true that the literary quality of a book is to some small extent separable from its subject-matter. Some people have a native gift for using words, as some people have a naturally ‘good eye’ at games.... But not all the power and simplicity of Swift's prose, nor the imaginative effort that has been able to make not one but a whole series of impossible worlds more credible than the majority of history books — none of this would enable us to enjoy Swift if his world-view were truly wounding or shocking. Millions of people, in many countries, must have enjoyed Gulliver's Travels while more or less seeing its anti-human implications.... The explanation must be that Swift's world-view is felt to be not altogether false — or it would probably be more accurate to say, not false all the time. Swift is a diseased writer. He remains permanently in a depressed mood which in most people is only intermittent, rather as though someone suffering from jaundice or the after-effects of influenza should have the energy to write books. But we all know that mood, and something in us responds to the expression of it. Take, for instance, one of his most characteristic works, The Lady's Dressing Room: one might add the kindred poem, Upon a Beautiful Young Nymph Going to Bed. Which is truer, the viewpoint expressed in these poems, or the viewpoint implied in Blake's phrase, ‘The naked female human form divine’? No doubt Blake is nearer the truth, and yet who can fail to feel a sort of pleasure in seeing that fraud, feminine delicacy, exploded for once? Swift falsifies his picture of the world by refusing to see anything in human life except dirt, folly and wickedness, but the part which he abstracts from the whole does exist, and it is something which we all know about while shrinking from mentioning it. Part of our minds — in any normal person it is the dominant part — believes that man is a noble animal and life is worth living: but there is also a sort of inner self which at least intermittently stands aghast at the horror of existence. In the queerest way, pleasure and disgust are linked together....

It is often argued, at least by people who admit the importance of subject-matter, that a book cannot be ‘good’ if it expresses a palpably false view of life. We are told that in our own age, for instance, any book that has genuine literary merit will also be more or less ‘progressive’ in tendency. This ignores the fact that throughout history a similar struggle between progress and reaction has been raging, and that the best books of any one age have always been written from several different viewpoints, some of them palpably more false than others. In so far as a writer is a propagandist, the most one can ask of him is that he shall genuinely believe in what he is saying, and that it shall not be something blazingly silly. To-day, for example, one can imagine a good book being written by a Catholic, a Communist, a Fascist, pacifist, an anarchist, perhaps by an old-style Liberal or an ordinary Conservative: one cannot imagine a good book being written by a spiritualist, a Buchmanite or a member of the Ku-Klux-KIan. The views that a writer holds must be compatible with sanity, in the medical sense, and with the power of continuous thought: beyond that what we ask of him is talent, which is probably another name for conviction. Swift did not possess ordinary wisdom, but he did possess a terrible intensity of vision, capable of picking out a single hidden truth and then magnifying it and distorting it. The durability of Gulliver's Travels goes to show that, if the force of belief is behind it, a world-view which only just passes the test of sanity is sufficient to produce a great work of art."

Worth pondering with regard to hip hop misogyny, esp. that second paragraph.... Anyway, this is a more aesthetic explanation of what we've been talking about in purely racial / political terms, e.g., "In the queerest way, pleasure and disgust are linked together" when you disagree with the content but enjoy the form of a work of art.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Saturday, 12 February 2005 01:11 (twenty-one years ago)

I think Wilde would have some choice disagreements with Orwell on this subject.

Shakey Mo Collier, Saturday, 12 February 2005 01:21 (twenty-one years ago)

This is why you're generally better off listening to a) instrumental music b) music with indecipherable vocals (like grindcore or death metal) or c) music in languages you don't speak/understand. This is what I tend to do, and it keeps me happy, because I don't have to engage with a singer's repulsive views on women, gays, other races, or whoever else, or the hyperdefensive tidal waves of core-issue-dodging bullshit from that singer's fans.

pdf (Phil Freeman), Saturday, 12 February 2005 01:50 (twenty-one years ago)

...b) music with indecipherable vocals (like grindcore or death metal)...because I don't have to engage with a singer's repulsive views on women, gays, other races, or whoever else, or the hyperdefensive tidal waves of core-issue-dodging bullshit from that singer's fans.

like Burzum?

eman (eman), Saturday, 12 February 2005 08:21 (twenty-one years ago)

How in the world is Suicide Girls mysoginistic? Oh yes, there's still that bourgeois/conservative mindset that women and porn can't be linked in a positive way. Do you ever think of porn actors being exploited? No. Does the same apply to women? God forbid that the Suicide Girls really enjoy what they are doing. Many people still think that women in porn/erotica are exploited, pushed into it. As if. I mean, for *fucks* sake, I know some are, but overall I think most are like me: they enjoy porn.

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 09:15 (twenty-one years ago)

Just because they walked in willingly, that doesn't mean they don't get exploited once they're in. Porn has its up and down sides. The down side is a lot bigger. Note that most women in porn will advise other women not to make the same choice they did, however much they (the women already in) might enjoy and/or profit from what they do. Jenna Jameson has said multiple times that she would not advise her (hypothetical at this point) daughter to get into porn, and you can't really succeed on a level beyond that which she has already achieved.

pdf (Phil Freeman), Saturday, 12 February 2005 13:03 (twenty-one years ago)

I can understand she wouldn't advise her (hypothetical) daughter not to do it, because there's still a stigma (both for men and women) but to say they are exploited is wrong. It's an acting job for which they are paid, how is this exploiting women? Isn't it because there's still a bourgeois/conservative way of thinking? I mean, do you ever say this of men who are in pornography? No. Why of women?

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 14:10 (twenty-one years ago)

(to do it)

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 14:16 (twenty-one years ago)

it is interesting that all discussions of porn tend to ignore the existance of women-free porn

miccio (miccio), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:01 (twenty-one years ago)

True but there are articles written/discussions on male-only porn.
Here's just one: http://journal.media-culture.org.au/0410/08_cumming.php

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:10 (twenty-one years ago)

"cumming"? is it NSFW?

miccio (miccio), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:11 (twenty-one years ago)

Grrr, I wish I had my attention span back because I looked at the first sentence of that article and went YAWN WHER R TEH FUNNIES?

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:12 (twenty-one years ago)

it's text only. :-) there's sadly no pics of brandon lee. ;-)

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:13 (twenty-one years ago)

>I mean, do you ever say this of men who are in pornography?

Sure. Men are paid less than women, for one thing. But on the other hand, it's very rare that a video will feature men being slapped around, tied up, pissed on, etc., by women. On the other hand, I've seen videos where women were being screwed while having their heads shoved in buckets of water for almost a minute at a time. Hard not to call that exploitation, no matter the paycheck at the end.

Talking actual prices is instructive. Since I'm in the porn business, I know what the prices are. If a girl does a blowjob scene, she'll get $200-250. She'll get an additional $50 if the guy pisses in her mouth afterward. Is that exploitation (by the standards that, say, third world garment workers are exploited - i.e. they should be getting more money for what they're doing)? Would you let someone piss in your mouth for $50? Or, to go up the scale, would you let six guys fuck you in the ass, without condoms but with paperwork "assuring" that they were HIV negative (not assuring that they were free of, say, gonorrhea or chlamydia), for $1000? How about $1200? That's about the price ceiling, unless you're a big star (Jenna doesn't do boy-girl anal, under any circumstances).

pdf (Phil Freeman), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:13 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm sorry but comparing someone who willing lets you piss in their mouth for $50 should not be compared to a third world garment worker.

miccio (miccio), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:23 (twenty-one years ago)

It's just as much self-exploitation: they receive money to act. PDF, they can always say no and get another job. So I really don't understand why they accept the money and then complain about it? Secondly, it's consentual and it's acting: it's not really about enjoying themself but doing it in front of the camera so someone one else enjoys watching it (including women). And what Miccio says: they have other opportunities, something a third world garment worker doesn't really have.

But on the other hand, it's very rare that a video will feature men being slapped around, tied up, pissed on, etc., by women.

Because the business ASSUMES women don't like that sort of thing. I am sure there are women who do enjoy this. It's just that people still have the idea that only men enjoy porn. This is not the case at all. It's slowly changing but there's still this idea that women don't like "hard sex." (to put it in a simplistic way)

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:24 (twenty-one years ago)

if anything you should be comparing them to rock critics

(x-post)

miccio (miccio), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:25 (twenty-one years ago)

Um, exploitation or torture? There's kind of a gigantic semantic difference, the main similarity being that neither is particularly pleasant.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:25 (twenty-one years ago)

then who's the brandon lee or jenna jameson of rock critics? hmmm. ;-)

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:27 (twenty-one years ago)

>Secondly, it's consentual and it's acting

If I punch you in the eye, you get a black eye. If I wait until a guy with a hand-held video camera yells "action," then give you that black eye, how is that different?

pdf (Phil Freeman), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:50 (twenty-one years ago)

well if its non-consensual you now have evidence of assault

miccio (miccio), Saturday, 12 February 2005 15:53 (twenty-one years ago)

that Ying Yang Twins song is HILARIOUS. it's barely a song, i don't think i'd dance to it. the whispering just creeps me out too much.

anyway, maybe i go about life the wrong way but i tend to laugh at the most misogynistic rap out there because obviously i understand that some of these things are terrible portrayals of women and totally irresponsible, but i dunno, i feel like it creates a balance in the genre. if there isn't that shit, the check will not be created in order to balance it.

can i vote necessary evil?

note: sage francis is a nice dude. after that review i wrote him, he sent me some more obscure records (joe beats 'reverse discourse', for example). good times. i've yet to hear the new album.

Rollie Pemberton (Rollie Pemberton), Saturday, 12 February 2005 18:30 (twenty-one years ago)

pdf appears to be advocating the "maybe it IS rocket science..." school of rhetoric.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 12 February 2005 18:37 (twenty-one years ago)

But what I don't see is a lot of people who are genuinely politically engaged, who have real well thought out opinions about misogyny and homophobia who then listen passively to music which advocates or represents ideas which are politically opposed to their own. They actively care about those ideas and the fact that they enjoy music which represents something they find difficult to reconcile upsets them greatly and they think and feel quite a lot about it (this is a phenomenon I think can be observed a lot among dancehall fans, for example--myself included.)

Alex in SF be running this misogyny in rap thread shit. So OTM.

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Saturday, 12 February 2005 19:12 (twenty-one years ago)

But not all the power and simplicity of Swift's prose, nor the imaginative effort that has been able to make not one but a whole series of impossible worlds more credible than the majority of history books — none of this would enable us to enjoy Swift if his world-view were truly wounding or shocking. Millions of people, in many countries, must have enjoyed Gulliver's Travels while more or less seeing its anti-human implications.... The explanation must be that Swift's world-view is felt to be not altogether false — or it would probably be more accurate to say, not false all the time. Swift is a diseased writer.

If Swift's argument is that because millions in many countries enjoy Swift, there must in fact be something true about his worldview, is the same true about Eminem/50 Cent/controversial rapper du jour? I feel the Orwell piece is On The Money, but I don't think it's arguing what you think it is.

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Saturday, 12 February 2005 19:22 (twenty-one years ago)

I like that the people defending the pfork paragraph (like mrjosh and nabisco) have made much more interesting and original arguments than the actual idiotic review ;)

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Saturday, 12 February 2005 19:24 (twenty-one years ago)

anyway, maybe i go about life the wrong way but i tend to laugh at the most misogynistic rap out there because obviously i understand that some of these things are terrible portrayals of women and totally irresponsible, but i dunno, i feel like it creates a balance in the genre. if there isn't that shit, the check will not be created in order to balance it.

Maybe I'm out of the loop, but WHERE exactly is this "balance" in rap....the misogynistic stuff is everywhere...I don't see a whole lot of differing views (in the mainstream stuff that I come across, I don't really pay attention to underground rap anymore)....

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Saturday, 12 February 2005 19:28 (twenty-one years ago)

Also, on a related topic...I was just in Vegas for a business trip and ended up watching this BET Uncut or something (naughty videos really late at night)...and ended up seeing that Tip Drill video by Nelly for the first time....holy fucking shit....it was a crunk orgy....insane....the credit card in the strippers ass thing - jaysus...man....i dunno.

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Saturday, 12 February 2005 19:33 (twenty-one years ago)

i thought i stumbled into a PMRC chatroom here. sheesh! the tone [of the thread] is truly reactionary - what would ralph ellison do?

and xpost re porn: if those Americans among us (although we don't exclusive rights to it) lived in a full employment economy, it might be a different matter to employ the victorian morals that everyone knows are bogus and hypocritical anyway - there would be "civilized" options outside of sex work, and then the rational choice theorists among us could sneer, or harbor jealousy, at those who felt that porn/stripping/prostitution gave them the best return for their time spent at work. if anything the argument should be made that porn should be better regulated for workers and that salaries should be raised across the board. this doesn't mean that the freaky stuff would stop, but that it would be better compensated - after all, it's estimated that it's an industry as big as Hollywood, and after all, it keeps a number of independent rental houses afloat. You didn't think Antonioni and Bruckheimer rented that well anyway, right?

blackmail.is.my.life (blackmail.is.my.life), Saturday, 12 February 2005 19:40 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't know. What WOULD Ralph Ellison do?

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Saturday, 12 February 2005 19:44 (twenty-one years ago)

Max Hardcore to thread.

http://citypages.com/databank/19/893/article4117.asp

Pete Scholtes, Saturday, 12 February 2005 20:15 (twenty-one years ago)

Swift falsifies his picture of the world by refusing to see anything in human life except dirt, folly and wickedness, but the part which he abstracts from the whole does exist, and it is something which we all know about while shrinking from mentioning it.

He's right, but I guess I just don't believe in, and will never believe in, "objective" art criticism. I want to read about why someone loves or hates something. And part of that is recognizing the aesthetic merits in evil art.

See also Pauline Kael's review of Straw Dogs, which she called the first fascist work of art in movies, and rightly panned as such...

Pete Scholtes, Saturday, 12 February 2005 20:21 (twenty-one years ago)

I guess this relates to the Orwell quote, but I always figured there was something appealing to people about the repugnant stories or turns of phrase. Some sort of cathartic thrill, that the music is popular because of, not in spite of. It's like saying you love pork chops so much that you'd gladly eat them out of a dumpster. Or, maybe, there is something appealingly transgressive about eating out of a dumpster. Just spitballing here, I dunno. Interesting topic that, like Mark p said, has been discussed often but never resolved.

Mark (MarkR), Saturday, 12 February 2005 20:34 (twenty-one years ago)

and xpost re porn: if those Americans among us (although we don't exclusive rights to it) lived in a full employment economy, it might be a different matter to employ the victorian morals that everyone knows are bogus and hypocritical anyway - there would be "civilized" options outside of sex work, and then the rational choice theorists among us could sneer, or harbor jealousy, at those who felt that porn/stripping/prostitution gave them the best return for their time spent at work. if anything the argument should be made that porn should be better regulated for workers and that salaries should be raised across the board.

I am not joking, but I really don't understand what you are saying. Sorry, English isn't my first language. This ties in with the fact that English lyrics never *jump out* at me, I don't pay as much attention to'em and by the time I do, I have usually made my mind up about the song.

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Saturday, 12 February 2005 20:45 (twenty-one years ago)

(pork chops = beats; dumpster = rhymes)

Mark (MarkR), Saturday, 12 February 2005 21:13 (twenty-one years ago)

i think it's time to let that metaphor die, Mark ;)

Shmool McShmool (shmuel), Saturday, 12 February 2005 21:15 (twenty-one years ago)

x-post

Kael also recognized the turn-on of Straw Dogs, I should add.

Where does Dumpster Juice singing about porker punks fit into all this?

http://www.tt.net/vault/discos/dumpster.html

Pete Scholtes, Saturday, 12 February 2005 21:50 (twenty-one years ago)

I overheard the Dumpster Juice lead singer tell this joke after a show (to huge laughs from his "posse")

"How many cunts does it take to screw in a lightbulb?"

"How many?"

"None!"

*laughter all around*

I thought that joke summed up what DJ is all about pretty well.

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Monday, 14 February 2005 17:12 (twenty-one years ago)

For what it's worth - and that's not much - I saw Sage Francis back in Providence, twice, and dug him both times. I'll pick up the new CD - and see him on the 3rd at in LA.

Remy (x Jeremy), Tuesday, 15 February 2005 23:40 (twenty-one years ago)

For what it's worth, Sage Francis refused to do a phone interview with me this week to advance a show, claiming that his voice is shot. He's only doing e-mail interviews, which I politely declined. E-mail interviews? Harumph! And the guy supposedly has a journalism degree ...

Mr Deeds (Mr Deeds), Wednesday, 16 February 2005 03:57 (twenty-one years ago)

This review definitely increased my respect for pitchfork immensely. As did their hiring of Drew, as well as Julianne Shepherd. (not trying to kiss ass, just honestly impressed).

Sincerity trumps snarkiness any day.

Kevin Erickson, Wednesday, 16 February 2005 08:19 (twenty-one years ago)

I thought I heard once that he was never supposed to rap again or something, but he went ahead and recorded this album anyway. His vocal chords got ripped to shreds due to huge polyps or something. If that's true, I wouldn't do phoners either.

rob mackey (mackey), Wednesday, 16 February 2005 08:22 (twenty-one years ago)

I object to the insinuations upthread that believing Eminem gets away with his shit much of the time (he does through a combination of sheer musical power and control of his material) and that 50cent often doesn't (some of his thematic material, and I love and acknowledge many of his musical virtues, is pretty staid) has a radial undercurrent. Sample size of two, one of whom is a pretty singular artist.

Xgau made the argument that the Marshall Mathers LP actually unpacks the type of misogyny that was a big part of male pop-culture in the 1990s, and I agree with that - "drips" is the first time he didn't give himself the out clause, and I skip it because it is just misogynistic - something that can't be said for "Kim".

There are literally hundreds of hip hop records that either make something of thematic material that is broadly offensive in some way, or whose musical conception is so compelling that you recognise the artists as young people who you hope will learn some lessons in life and go with the music anyway. Such is life. Complacent misogyny is rarely worth pissing in the direction of, but someone tackling dangerous material, when they're up to it, can be thrilling, and holds out the possibility of staking out new political ground, meat and drink for staunch progressives.

plebian plebs (plebian), Wednesday, 16 February 2005 08:51 (twenty-one years ago)

that should be "racial" in the top para, obv

plebian plebs (plebian), Wednesday, 16 February 2005 08:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Heh.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 February 2005 13:55 (twenty-one years ago)

eleven years pass...

Dont be such an angry stalker, dude

calstars, Saturday, 10 September 2016 00:27 (nine years ago)


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