style & your romantic partners

Because of, no. Contributory, probably.

The worst was a guy who tried to argue with me about whether a denim tuxedo was ok to wear in Manhattan, pointing at other examples on the streets of Midtown. I was like, these are not good arguments, I do not want to date those guys either.

lol felicity dated a guy who liked denim tuxedos

i have never done this?

the closest i've come is this girl i was seeing (not that seriously, either) started laughing one day while looking in a catalog. "Oh my God," she said, "this t-shirt is so funny! Will you look at this? It's a t-shirt that says RUNS WITH SCISSORS on the front. Isn't that HILARIOUS?"

This was years and years ago wayyyyy before the Augustine Burroughs book. I left town a few days later and didn't call her when I got back--for a host of reasons, but her insiting that the t-shirt was HILARIOUS sealed the deal.

were you dating the snorg girl?

don't let yourself go.
it's a dealbreaker.

Because of, no. Contributory, probably.

otm.

the only example i can think of from my life is w/r/t really bad tattoos...like a bunch of emo band names in olde english lettering... but that was only a couple of dates and there were other issues there too.

I thought we already established that men don't really care how you
dress until they want to break up with you and are looking for reasons?

-- Laurel, Thursday, June 26, 2008 6:05 PM (12 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

this is b.s.

but by the time it becomes a problem, or a perceived problem, things have probably completely gone south anyway.

like what kind of excuse is that to break up??? it doesnt even make sense. 'you're not stylish enough for me'???

i mean the whole trick w/ coming up w/ an excuse to break up is to come up w/ something that doesnt hurt their feelings, where "i reject the choices you make regarding your appearance" does exactly the opposite

i once dated a guy with terrible terrible tattoos and he was the one who dumped ME. in comforting myself about the dumping, i used his terrible tattoos as consolation. not sure if this counts.

also i once avoided calls from a guy because he had a vanity license plate that said "SKA GUY" but i felt bad about that later because he was a nice person.

lol SKA GUY

i have overlooked questionable style decisions far more than i have rejected on account of them.

oh man. you did the right thing with ska guy.

When the bad style decisions start to grow on me, that's when I know I really like the guy.

yeah but seriously, he was nice. there was nothing seriously wrong with him other than SKA GUY. i also sabotaged our second date (the first was where i saw the plate) by wearing deliberately schoolmarmy clothing. if i recall, i think i wore an ankle-length sweater skirt and a turtleneck. ha. (this was 1997)

i dated someone once who showed up in a speedo to the beach, which i was mortified by. i just made him get a normal swimsuit though and it was fine.

i have overlooked questionable style decisions far more than i have rejected on account of them.

Same.

L and I have an ongoing "argument" about whether or not it's ok for men to wear espadrilles. I say only if you're Spanish or Greek and at the seaside. He disagrees but still hasn't had the guts to get any since we've been together.

yup, me too.

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ok, that is one thing i would NOT put up with.

my boyfriend just basically refuses to shop for himself or spend money on clothes. i bought him a new pair of jeans for his birthday because his other pair had a hole in the crotch. i might buy him like, a polo shirt to wear when he meets my mom.

I just don't encourage men to even flirt with me or think it's going anywhere if they dress too badly. So the issue never arises. That said, though, I have my own definitions of "too horribly" and they include both formal and informal looks, it's nothing to do with dressing "up" or anything.

there are two varieties of questionable style that we're talking about here (or i am, at least)
(1) the people who try way too hard and in the wrong direction (ie, bad tattoos, SKA GUY, overly gelled hair, etc)

(2) the don't-give-a-fuck people who are like "yeah, i've worn this yellowed Ren and Stimpy t-shirt since 1993...and?"

i sort of appreciate the latter's lack of concern, whereas the former can be embarrassing.

yeah the latter is preferable for sure. the second is kind of endearing.

omg i just remembered the guy who wore shorts over his sweatpants.
holy crap that was bad.

laurel what are some examples of 'too badly'?

xp ll wtf no one does that

oh nooooooo
i just remembered the guy who wore long-underwear under his jeans!

(2) the don't-give-a-fuck people who are like "yeah, i've worn this yellowed Ren and Stimpy t-shirt since 1993...and?"

i sort of appreciate the latter's lack of concern

-- La Lechera

ty for this!

m@tt phillips did that. he also had a tricked out ford taurus. (this was in high school)

long underwear UNDER jeans is totally defensible depending on the temp tho rite? putting shorts over sweats is just...i mean theres not really anything you can even say

Shorts over sweatpants: why?????

Sweatpants under skirts I get but why shorts over? To keep it all in there while you work out?

you better be in alaska if you are wearing long underwear under your jeans, is all i'm sayin

Sweatpants under skirts I get but why shorts over? To keep it all in there while you work out?
I KNOW. (1) wore sweatpants on a date (2) decided to embellish with shorts? they were like soccer shorts (umbros?) and this was like 1992 so hey, an ounce of forgiveness for the times, but still. totally, completely unredeemable BECAUSE it was a deliberate decision, not one made out of apathy or lack of interest. he had to TRY to put those shorts on over the sweatpants.

btw they were gathered-at-the-ankle-with-elastic sweats, not like track pants.

you better be in alaska if you are wearing long underwear under your jeans, is all i'm sayin

Wait, what? If Ian doesn't do this, I'll be shocked. We are talking about the man who wears multiple sweaters at once.

I mean, people with no body fat who live in cold places and want to be warm should TOTALLY wear long underwear under their jeans. I think that's a valid lifestyle choice.

no ian doesn't do that, but my ex bf rob did. they were also really light acid wash jeans.

with lots of holes in them.
in 2004

LOL Umbros. Good thing they're reversible so he could have multiple shorts over sweats looks for the price of one.

We used to wear sweatpants under our high school P.E. uniform shorts in our North Chicago suburban high school when it was cold outside. We were forbidden from wearing the sweats over.

Maybe it was some extension of that look.

hahaha i actually remember people doing that at my school - i knew the shorts over jeans/sweats thing seemed terrifyingly familiar

i might buy him like, a polo shirt to wear
you really shld do this - it will look totally cute! he dresses kinda similarly to a friend of mine who recently picked up just a regular ol' green polo shirt and actually really likes it (tho it will never usurp the t-shirts) and he somehow looks like a million bucks in it

I knew Laurel was going to defend the long underwear under jeans.

The sex appeal of MEN who WORK in the WINTER DRIVEWAYS of ROCHESTER or UPPER PENINSULA and need to be WARM.

we wore sweatpants under shorts during PE/outdoor education, too. the reason strikes me now as being really silly: if you had school logo sweatpants, then you could wear them on their own, but if you didn't then you had to wear your school shorts over them.

i have dated a number of men with dubious and/or bland style and i have taken them all shopping
AND THEY LIKED IT

How else could you be sure you went to the same high school?

xp

yeah thats how it was for us too! i was always impervious to cold weather so never had to resort to it but this is some serious nostalgia trippin for me here xp to lauren

www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jJWQkVgDs4

our pe uniforms were ugly as sin.

wait, how does long underwear have anything to do w/ "style"?? its cold climate wear

long underwear is fine if you are in a cold climate going skiing or something else outdoors. but it is awful to wear it just around town.

Long underwear can be warmiong as well as stylish, if done right.

warmioing

warmoing

omg denim tuxedo

not only omg denim tuxedo but that he was pointing out many examples of denim tuxedos on the streets of new york?? was this 1979?

One look I really do not care for on men is the Henley button-front, possibly long underwear-inspired neckline, PARTICULARLY combined with visible chest hair. This would be a deal breaker for me.

I have had grooming deal breakers. Not so much clothing ones.

xp it was 1996

Wait - you mean denim tuxedo as in just jeans and a denim jacket, right? Too much denim. Would be better if it had been an acutal denim tux though. lol.

ohhhhh haha i am tired
and also it was fun imagining tuxedos made of denim + ruffly shirts

i'm trying to read this thread, but have reached an impasse at the "denim tuxedos" thing.

L'OMG

a/k/a Canadian tuxedo, apparently.

This is like hockey hair (mullet).

HAHAHA. Canadian tux! Who knew?

I don't have any issue with the long underwear, I mean you can't see it on the outside (if no ripped jeans, ugh) anyway! I'm not a person who's normally cold in winter nor could I fit another insulating layer under ANY of my clothes without it being fatty and uncomfortable, but I respect the rights of skinny people with poor circulation everywhere.

One look I really do not care for on men is the Henley button-front, possibly long underwear-inspired neckline, PARTICULARLY combined with visible chest hair. This would be a deal breaker for me.

jezzus fucking christ, what kind of weirdos are you interfacing with on a daily basis??!!

SKA GUY

i have a couple henley tops

wau, also

Texas tuxedo
Montreal tuxedo
Guido tuxedo
Denim Dan
Mexican tuxedo
New Jersey tuxedo
jeans tuxedo
double denim disaster (also denim skirt)
Irish tuxedo (black denim)
Candian wedding dress (denim jacket + denim skirt denim shirt optional)

a/k/a Canadian tuxedo, apparently.

well now you are speaking words i understand

omg, i just read this entire thread. where the fuck have you guys been finding these charmers??!

i have the worst circulation ever (feet turn blue at the drop of the hat) and, uh at least used to be skinny, and have been on top of mountains in 0 degrees feel like -40 with windchill in very very thin racing suits so if someone can't man up and run their errands without long underwear i am highly disappointed in them.

dell, I think it's a Hollywood thing. Like Jude Law in Cold Mountain or whoever in O'Brother Where Art Thou? or other countless dirtyface movies.

like, i can never feel "bad" about myself as a human being ever again after reading some of this stuff

hating long underwear is so weird, sorry. its regular outdoor wear. i guess none of u folks go camping??

hmmm, is/was that kinda look really all the rage in l.a.?

YOUR BOYFRIEND WEARS TWO SWEATERS. :D

i hate long underwear b/c it looks disgusting. it looks like something one should strain food through

I love camping.

The point is that there is a time and place for everything, even long underwear and double denim. Manhattan is not the place.

deej i have said about 12 times that it is ok in cold climates. i have worn a shit ton of long underwear in my life for skiing. but it's sportswear, not casual wear.

and yeah it's really fucking ugly

Ew, no. It's just a look I see on the Hallmark specials on the family channel or whatever and would run screaming from IRL:

http://img5.allocine.fr/acmedia/medias/nmedia/18/35/18/47/18370162.jpg

haha ian wearing two sweaters is because he hates wearing jackets. he is so stubborn about clothing.

ha, point conceded. but i just have strong opinions on this shit. like, i refuse to wear sweatpants or pajamas, b/c i associate it with being sick. but, we all have our pet prejudices, so thank god for this board...

two sweaters is rad! i would totally rock that shit. and i will.

Yeah, I do not brake for lumberjacks, and that includes flannels, too.

xp I know. I don't understand what he has against jackets but....

winter '08, look out! here comes dell in all of his glory

How can you hate on pajamas?! Crazy.

Yeah, I do not brake for lumberjacks, and that includes flannels, too.

heavy lol's

but, BUT, flannels are beautiful!!

pajamas are anathema to me, i can't help it

flannels are attractive.

No way, McVeigh.

pajamas are kinda hateable
pajama bottoms are fine

lolaurel, get with the times, man!

i had this professor in college who was scottish and said in his brogue at one point during a lecture, "you can't wear sandals man, this is the sneaker age"

it's burned into my mind forevah

I once bought one of my exes beautiful blue & white striped classic men's PJs because they made him look like Paddington Bear.

that picture of jude law is so hot, it needs to be posted again

aw, i will make allowances for this paddington tribute

Fuck a flannel, that is some "doing shit around the house in January" kind of wear, and I do not want to see it out on my man (or prospective man) under any circumstances.

Do I think they make nice human beings look like horrible spectres that I must burn out of my brain? No, of course not. I just find them anti-smashable.

"Take my eyes, but not my boyfriend's flannel shirt."

Fuck a flannel, that is some "doing shit around the house in January" kind of wear, and I do not want to see it out on my man (or prospective man) under any circumstances.

Do I think they make nice human beings look like horrible spectres that I must burn out of my brain? No, of course not. I just find them anti-smashable.

-- Laurel, Thursday, June 26, 2008 3:02 PM (3 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

you're crazy

you will never date a guy into lumberjack chic

I don't mind a little chest hair, provided the man attached to it is appealing. Same for flannel, lumberjack garb, construction worker wear, Ren and Stimpy t shirts (I didn't make that one up), etc. If it makes sense, I don't care if you wear it. If it doesn't make sense? Dubious fashion.

Like Rrrobyn, I have taken men shopping. And they have enjoyed it.

flannel shirts is beautiful. if saying so makes me a bad man, then...

I associate flannels EITHER with the same people who wear khakis as "dress" pants, or with like grunge-y stoners. For the record, grunge = not my era, not my music, not my hairstyle, not interested.

If I had to think of a purely dumpable style offense, it would probably be a stubborn adherence to tighty whities.

wait, you would actually date someone who was wearing a ren and stimpy shirt?? lift yr standards, child!

my dude would never let me take him clothes shopping. i think getting him into a dressing room would be like trying to get a cat into a bath.

and yet, i let him drag me into comic book stores all the time!

i have two of these: http://store.americanapparel.net/t457.html

tighty whities.

yeah, kill that shit. please.

future men's underwear thread is beckoning

i call them plaid flannel shirts and i am a-ok with them

dell have a friend who wears firefox tshirts and hes cooler than you

max, you're dirtyface.

no you are

lol i usually wear those thermal henleys under flannel when its cold out

i am anti-flannel due to attending high school/college during the purported grunge era. you all can do what you want, but i will abstain.

bout a billion xposts there

Dumpable offense: hugely oversized Tshirts and baggy denim shorts. Actually just "denim shorts".

i totally wear those, tho not the AA brand xxxps to max

a firefox t-shirt is ok, but i seriously doubt that your friend is cooler than me. i am like god, but slightly wiser and powerful. and obv. the coolest person in the history of the planet, barring mickey rooney

I don't remember your chest hair peaking insouciantly out from your AmApp so it must be ok on you.

I have dated men and not liked their style before but I end up in this really uncomfortable position of never saying anything about their clothes because I don't know where to start and I don't want them to feel weird or bad about it. Like, I'm trying to acknowledge that it's my own problem but then I'm paralyzed.

i went to highschool in this era too but i actually lived on the west coast, so maybe i am immune to flannel backlash as i have my whole live seen plaid flannel shirts around as a non-trend

oh xposts

my husband has been known to wear a ren and stimpy t shirt to bed and he is better looking and way cooler than dell.

hahaha

you laugh, but you have no idea how good looking/cool he is
hold your tongue!

you gonna be so sorry someday for that "hahaha"

I am trying to reach back in my mind, but, try as I might, I can't think of anyone that I've ever dated whose personal sense of style gave me pause. Hmmm...

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i was laughing at myself, La L. I don't doubt that he is a beautiful and amazing man!! There's actually quite a few of us in the world

My last ex had style that I rly liked and we have apparently not worked out romant-wise, but it was SUCH a relief and a good feeling to approve of his look and actually find him and his style attractive and go out together without feeling mismatched.

i really like my girl's style but we dont dress anything like each other

you gonna be so sorry someday for that "hahaha"

-- La Lechera, Thursday, June 26, 2008 1:16 PM (18 seconds ago) Bookmark Link

someday . . .

Come to think of it, I might even posit that I like style-free dudes more than overtly stylish ones. I would rather be the stylish person in a relationship. (Which is good, because I am married to a man who wears a ren and stimpy tshirt to bed)

One day dell will find himself in bed with a woman wearing a Ren and Stimpy shirt and be sorry

Hm yes I do sort of like having similar style, not required but def a bonus. I SO OFTEN see couples in which girl is substantially out-dressing boy, and I can fall for the hoodie and Chucks as much as anyone but if you're going out or especially "out", DO YOUR HOMEWORK.

someday . . .

i know, i'm kinda scared.

kidding, KIDDING! it's all love here, right? love of STYLE!

One day dell will find himself in bed with a woman wearing a Ren and Stimpy shirt and be sorry

-- felicity, Thursday, June 26, 2008 3:20 PM (58 seconds ago) Bookmark Link

i dont know about that

dell how did deeznuts get your password?

he will be so very very sorry

dont get me wrong me and my chick look good together we just dont match

One day dell will find himself in bed with a woman wearing a Ren and Stimpy shirt and be sorry

yes, precisely that...or else thanking god that i am "in bed with a woman"

Amanda, I'm with you on that one. It's especially cute if the guy is generally a mess but anomalously picky about one or two really specific style details.

xp

am i being as obnoxious as deeznuts sometimes leans into? I apologize if so.

Hm yes I do sort of like having similar style, not required but def a bonus. I SO OFTEN see couples in which girl is substantially out-dressing boy, and I can fall for the hoodie and Chucks as much as anyone but if you're going out or especially "out", DO YOUR HOMEWORK.

-- Laurel, Thursday, June 26, 2008 8:21 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii there

most of the time i go out i am wearing my work clothes though...i would dress more casually if it were possible

I dunno. If a man is doing homework, I want it to be about something more interesting than the cut of his pants.

One day dell will find himself in bed with a woman wearing a Ren and Stimpy shirt and be sorry

-- felicity, Thursday, June 26, 2008 1:20 PM (4 minutes ago)

i would love to find myself with the woman who was the layout artist and writer for the Ren and Stimpy show and i would never be sorry.

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0086540/#animationX20department

omg she married someone i know!!! nevermind.

yeah, guys, i'm sorry if i was being a jerk.

that woman is also the singer april march

See, the cut of his pants is actually interesting to me. I would like him to care about that.

yeah, guys, i'm sorry if i was being a jerk.

-- dell, Thursday, June 26, 2008 3:31 PM (10 seconds ago) Bookmark Link

not a jerk just a little ... excitable. chill

Hahaha labs, I know, I couldn't help thinking about that as I posted! It's okay, though, it doesn't mean I don't love Dr Carl Sagan.

xp uh what? dell should chill?

absolutely, the only things worth getting worked up over are flannels and long underwear

heheh

nah, i realize that i come off badly at times. but that's in part why i love myself.

deej, don't you have an argument about aviator frames to lose?

Well I think it's a question of personal taste, sartorial as well as romantic.

i dont remember arguing about aviator frames?

deej, it's time you did your homework

j/k
i have no idea what you guys are arguing about at this point

let's just agree that we all love STYLE!!

i think ive probably just been contradicting a lot of laurel posts

(and our romantic partners, for those of us who are lucky enough to have such in our lives)

i love style, but ultimately i don't care if my man does

i like a girl with extensions in her hair
bamboo earings, at least 2 pair
a fendi bag and a bad attitude

deej and La L. otm

You may remember arguing with deeznuts about aviator sunglasses from such threads as "aviators - cool or fool" from one week ago.

oh
i just said they werent 'trend immune' - aviators have gone in and out of style plenty of times

i remember the days when they were pretty much exclusively the style of highway patrolmen

i love style
http://www.othercinema.com/fall2005/Unabomber-sketch.png

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c70/TerranceDC/jude-law.jpg

haha gratuitous

i like a girl with extensions in her hair
bamboo earings, at least 2 pair
a fendi bag and a bad attitude

lol

That Jude picture is awesome but I wonder how old it is because I don't think he has that much hair anymore.

for the first time in my whole life i have a boyfriend whose style i love - he's super casual, wears jeans/shorts and t-shirts, but he wears t-shirts that are the right size (not super huge and not tight), and jeans/pants/shorts that fit well. and sneakers/trainers that are cool. like someone said above, i don't want my man to be super fashion aware, and all about style, i just want him to not look like a douche and embarrass me. in fact, he's def influenced my fashion choices more than i've influenced him: previously, i would NEVER have considered outdoor/sporty wear but he has swayed me to the darkside.

i've had to take every single one of my ex bfs shopping: two of them insisted on wearing fuckin tapered jeans which i will NOT ABIDE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. that shit needs to die a sudden death. it's one thing to be a cool indie dude or whatever wearing that shit with all the other cool stuff, but OMG my ex bfs were such terrible dressers. when i took my last ex shopping for a new pair of jeans ('new jeans, or you start walking 10 feet behind me in public') i picked out a pair that had the SLIGHTEST hint of bootleg and he was all WTF THESE ARE HIPPY FLARED BELLBOTTOMS. fucking loser.

bf also wears 'knickers' or male capri pants specially designed for cycling, which he says everyone gives him shit for wearing, but i don't why, i think he looks particularly hot in them (he's got beautiful, BEAUTIFUL legs, and such nice ankles).

aw!! :)

i'm not even gonna start on this thread because my eye is still well and truly appled-out atm

yeah i can honestly say that i wouldn't change a thing about the way my bf dresses (first time EVAH!!)

"this t-shirt is so funny! Will you look at this? It's a t-shirt that says RUNS WITH SCISSORS on the front. Isn't that HILARIOUS?"

I fucking hate tapered jeans. I'm tall and they just make my legs look ridiculously skinny. Boot cut or straight leg is the only way.

how many men here have had the experience of a new girlfriend going "shopping" with them in a thinly-diguised effort to spruce them up?

also: i own a ren and stimpy t-shirt, replete with orange nickelodeon "splat" logo near the bottom hem; i haven't worn it since college, though

also - Laurel are you saying you don't find Tony Leung irresistable in his flannel shirt near the end of Chung King Express??

how many men here have had the experience of a new girlfriend going "shopping" with them in a thinly-diguised effort to spruce them up?

Not my wife though, an ex.

I refuse to do the "shopping with", I don't really understand the wider range of menswear in detail and I want my bfs to have style of their own (or to be developing it), I have no interest in being responsible for dressing them. Plus, I don't know, it's too cliche! I don't like the idea of taking my men shopping.

i have my 1998 girlfriend to thank for the pair of Jean-Baptiste Rautureau shoes that I still wear to this day, avail at half price for $100 in those days.. she treated me like an old worn-out shoe later but I got a pair of shoes that may actually last a lifetime and for that I am truly, truly grateful - I would never have headed into Freelance if it weren't for her

In dashing Asian action stars, I prefer Chow Yun-Fat's insouciance, actually (and I haven't seen Chung King Express in over a decade).

I'm not somebody who is particularly picky what style you have but if it's not well defined and not somehat important to you, it's not going to work out between us, seeing as I dress the way that I do and am almost completely impervious to outside suggestion. It's never been so much that I would be inclined to break up with someone because of their style as never to bother going out with them in the first place, though I can attest to the fact that I have seen a whole host of ladies for whom my first thought was, 'We really need to get you out of those clothes.'

'and into a dry martini know what i'm sayin'

I like the vision of rrrrrrobyn as pick-up artist that I'm having.

It's certainly an excellent way to pick me up.

it wld be the perfect line to use if a cute guy was caught in a thunderstorm outside my apartment and i happened to be in the entranceway at the same moment he ducked in for shelter

except that i only have like 1/8th of a bottle of jameson in my cupboard
i should deal with that situation

I have two bottles on wine on call, but the only men in my neighborhood are my roommates and the Satmar Hasids. No thank you.

ohman ^ hilarious b/c today on my way to work i biked past this tall hasid guy who was walking along and thought "whoa you are a very good lookin man" - this is the first time that thought has ever crossed my mind in the 3 years i have lived in this neighbourhood

What the hell, for real? I never, ever see good-looking Satmars. The girls, yes. The boys.........no. I don't know how they do it.

I have actually been wrathful with the young boys lately because they have no manners WHATSOEVER about riding you down on the sidewalks on their bikes and scooters. They literally look at me and then ride a 2-foot wide tricycle directly at me on a 3-ft wide sidewalk. I'm not sure what they think I'm supposed to do, but I don't mind disappointing them.

haha yeah for a second i thought some hipster was just doing a v good imitation. which would've been weird and crossed some kind of line.

fact: the bike shop/store in my neighbourhood does quite good business fixing the small bicycles & tricycles of such children. what they are doing to break them so often, i do not exactly know.

haha actually speaking of hassids, style and romantic partners, ian and wants us to go as a hassidic couple for halloween this year.

Re maintenance, I think part of it is that they pass them down and/or between families v frequently -- I never see boys over 13 (oh that magical age) riding bikes, so bikes get transferred to next youngest brother/s (never to girls, I have seen exactly one girl riding a bike and she was about 5 and looked fiercely, angrily focused on catching up to the boys ahead of her -- I wish her luck). Besides that, the young boys in my nabe seem to play basically unsupervised -- have seen kids riding around on 100% flat tires, for instance.

OMG LINDSAY DO IT.

i dress like a hassidic woman most of the time anyways (sensible shoes, holla). i just need the wig.

No way, lady. You need tan stockings with the back seams, and a wig WITH a scarf turban over it. Plus a nicely shapeless A-line skirt that comes exactly 4 inches below your knees, plus a matching and also-shapeless jacket with at least 3/4-length sleeves. Come to my neighborhood, there are lots of stores.

I just want to put it out there that I saw a Mennonite woman in southern Ontario yesterday, and we were wearing the same pair of sensible black flats. Awesome.

Halloween costumes are how people express who they want to be, on some subconscious level.

cf the one year I dressed as hunter s thompson and the other year I dressed as Steff from PiP?

or rather I think I'm just lazy about halloween

"sensible shoes, holla" is a great phrase btw

uh oh
when i met SKA GUY it was halloween and i was dressed up as a "death peacock". (i had some sort of giant spangled feather thing on my head and a tail and probably a miniskirt, if memory serves.) i can't remember what he was wearing.

the other year I dressed as Steff from PiP?

-- El Tomboto, Friday, June 27, 2008 12:20 PM (27 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

omg <3

bell, in addition to everything Laurel said, you need one of those black vinyl Harrods bag for that authentic Satmar look.

I want to go as Edith Prickley for Halloween. or Zoe Tamerlis in Ms. 45.

'Er indoors never puts a foot wrong.

She's four foot 11 and tidy, so she can wear just about anything that's cute and completely get away with it (including purple ffs). She doesn't ever go overboard, though.

The girlfriend before her (this is 10+ years ago, and she was psycho) was as dowdy as fuck. Saw her on a tram a few years ago, she looked EXACTLY like Ruth out of Six Feet Under.