Teen time

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My eldest is 15 now and he has kind of decided that "home" is a place for him to crash, and get fed occasionally. It's making me kind of sad. I like that he's grown up and independent. And his whole attitude is so often combative and hectoring that it's frankly relieving sometimes when he's away. But I miss our little family nights, our dinners, our board games, our movie time. I knew that as soon as he left home, went to university etc, that this would happen, that those days would end. But this feels a bit soon!!

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Friday, 6 September 2024 11:27 (three months ago) link

Sorry to hear Tracer, I remember those feelings well. Still kinda feel them a bit I'm sure. Of course you know in the end this is a good necessary phase of development but yeah hugs, I know these blues

Yuwen Hu's army (Noodle Vague), Friday, 6 September 2024 11:54 (three months ago) link

I saw a meme thingy that said “My teen when I’m explaining something important” and it was a clip of Bill Withers singing “I know I know I know I know I know I know…” and it is the truest thing I have seen.

At its worst, I find myself counting down the time until my teen moves out. But when that happens I’ll probably be sad and crying, so oh well.

Cow_Art, Friday, 6 September 2024 11:57 (three months ago) link

Sympathies, TH.

stone cold jane austen (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 6 September 2024 12:01 (three months ago) link

One of my favourite Viz letters ever btw runs something like "Pretend you're a teenager by slagging somebody off for 15 minutes and then asking them for a lift."

Yuwen Hu's army (Noodle Vague), Saturday, 7 September 2024 12:11 (three months ago) link

two weeks pass...

In the same proverbial boat with our younger one, Tracer -- down to the age. It's close to devastating.

Now off to find the Withers meme.

Andy K, Thursday, 26 September 2024 14:56 (two months ago) link


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