and yeah it can be bonding but the most important means? or the safest means? i dunno i can't conceive that that's always and everywhere true.
― FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:15 (twelve years ago) link
allied to yer more leisure time/demand for entertainment
Just thinkin out loud by text here
― Streep? That's where I'm a-striking! (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:16 (twelve years ago) link
More leisure time? Not in the work-till-you-drop UK!
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:16 (twelve years ago) link
i feel like i work with and meet a lot of people for whom "being funny" is more important to them than the sense of what they're trying to communicate. i feel like i have been that kind of person, often.
this thread is for thinking out loud, obv
― FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:17 (twelve years ago) link
Well, a knee-jerk response I often have in my head is that people are frightened of seriousness 'now', and use a continual low-level humour, or non-directional irony in their writing and speech out of fear of assertion and subsequent contradiction, and therefore argument and thought. It's almost become an adjunct of 'niceness'.
Tend to associate this with 'comedy' as a present cultural thing.
But, thinking further, I'm really not sure about that 'now'. English (in particular) notoriously obsessed/associated with mocking, belittling, cynical humour. (Can't speak for the distinction of this from other nations really, but I have a vague sense of having gained this impression from a reasonably wide range of historical reading).
Can't carry on thinking this through here now, 'cos I got work to do, but I think it's a thing - just where that 'thing' is located in time and national space, and if or how it's changed are thorny matters.
― Fizzles, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:17 (twelve years ago) link
It's almost become an adjunct of 'niceness'.
This is horrible.
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:18 (twelve years ago) link
Of course humour is a very important bonding tool, but it has penetrated into areas where, y'know, I don't want to bond. I can do without bonding with my fruit smoothie, for instance. I can do without bonding with sheets of paper that are giving me instructions. I would really rather not bond with these things, and I find it incredibly rude and presumptuous that they seem to think it's okay.
― emil.y, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:18 (twelve years ago) link
I feel as though those are two widely accepted social truths, and I wonder if this feeling - that a sense of humour is near-vital to artistic communication - is an expression of our age or of western culture or of human thought in general?
http://img2.imagesbn.com/images/102970000/102977274.jpg
― Mordy, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:20 (twelve years ago) link
oh emily that is another thing yes, humour infecting even the dryest of informational material.
― FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:20 (twelve years ago) link
xp to nv
Earnestness/sincerity are perfectly fine in many ways, but as personality traits aren't they v close to the bottom of the list of 'positives' you'd ideally be looking for in ppl you've to spend time with?
I know that's what you're asking tho (lol beg the question)
― Streep? That's where I'm a-striking! (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:23 (twelve years ago) link
Thought this was going to be about the tyranny of the excelsior thread.
― Averroes's Search Engine (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:24 (twelve years ago) link
Not as long as they're funny with it
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:24 (twelve years ago) link
'incredibly rude and presumptuous' seems a v strong reaction tho.
― Streep? That's where I'm a-striking! (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:24 (twelve years ago) link
i dunno that i'm asking completely that, but the terms we think about it are telling i think. like surely you cd be pretty earnest most of the time without being a huge pill. and of course the qualities i'm looking for in friends aren't necessarily the same qualities i'd want from a co-worker or a writer or an MP or my doctor
― FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:25 (twelve years ago) link
The funniest people I know are all serious
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:26 (twelve years ago) link
Really? To be honest I thought I was being quite restrained. I find false attempts at closeness by marketing types to be personally violating and demeaning to all of my real relationships. I hate hate hate hate it.
Also, sincerity is totally not at the bottom of my list of positives. Earnestness has a slightly different connotation, though.
― emil.y, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:28 (twelve years ago) link
Yeah, what's wrong with sincerity anyway?
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:29 (twelve years ago) link
i think i might be looking for the same qualities in all those ppl, though, again the element of risk/trust that seems to me to be implicit in reaching out through humour is important. aching sincerity is great in its place but doesn't invite me to participate, i dunno.
― Streep? That's where I'm a-striking! (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:29 (twelve years ago) link
heh i guess i'm more than usually averse to sincerity nm it's not ye it's me
― Streep? That's where I'm a-striking! (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:31 (twelve years ago) link
The funniest people I know are all serious― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, March 1, 2012 9:26 AM (4 minutes ago)
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, March 1, 2012 9:26 AM (4 minutes ago)
― Averroes's Search Engine (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:32 (twelve years ago) link
The sentiment or the phrasing, Tom?!
Earnestness is difficult, because it often seems to preclude humour, which in itself precludes something leavens conversation.
Sincerity, yeah, nothing wrong with that. To follow up my 'niceness' comment, that low-level pretty unfunny conversational humour often seems to undermine sincerity, it's a block on discussing things seriously, and seems to be an expression of an uncertainty that doesn't want to admit itself.
Whereas good humour will often illuminate sincerity, and be a consequence of it.
― Fizzles, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:33 (twelve years ago) link
Even Shakespearean tragedy uses humour as a release valve and/or commentary. Struggling to think of many great works of literature that don't utilise humour in some way.
The alternative is looking po-faced, and no one wants that when they're trying to make a serious point.
― Homosexual Satan Wasp (Matt DC), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:34 (twelve years ago) link
FUCK COMEDY
― lex pretend, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:39 (twelve years ago) link
FUCK "LIGHT" AND "HUMOROUS"
a bit flailing around rn but THIS IS A SUBJECT OF INTEREST TO ME because i want to ERADICATE IT
:)
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:40 (twelve years ago) link
^^^ Fronting.
― Homosexual Satan Wasp (Matt DC), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:40 (twelve years ago) link
Sentiment!
Lex virtually every r&b or rap quote you have ever posted has been humorous in some way. "Humour" =/= comedy.
― Homosexual Satan Wasp (Matt DC), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:41 (twelve years ago) link
Jesus imagine how terrible rap music would be if you eradicated all the humour.
This is something I struggle with so much.
It's that kind of British kneejerk thing of snark or "comedy" as a way of saying "yes, look, I'm being self referential and reflective about this" when actually it's almost the opposite of being properly reflective and becomes reflexive rather than reflective.
I don't see the problem with taking things seriously. The problem is that "humour" as become a kind of shortcut for "self aware" and yes, I think that self awareness is hugely important to make great art, but it's like humour is the easiest, cheapest and lowest form of self awareness.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:44 (twelve years ago) link
The problem is that "humour" as become a kind of shortcut for "self aware"
News to me
― Charles Kennedy Jumped Up, He Called 'Oh No'. (Tom D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:45 (twelve years ago) link
humor is, maybe, the most important way we connect with other people?
like maybe nothing will catapult you faster into the front of the group of people whom dayo esteems than by me discovering you laugh at the same things that I do, and more importantly, for the same reasons
― flagp∞st (dayo), Thursday, March 1, 2012 9:12 AM (28 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
This is very much true for me. I just feel like people who have a similar sense of humor to me just sort of get me better than those who do not. Someone can be perfectly pleasant and engaging but if we don't laugh at the same things I sort of know we're never going to be great friends.
I don't see a problem with taking things seriously either but think you can value both seriousness and comedy highly. Also agree with the thing about the funniest people I know being quite serious.
― wolf kabob (ENBB), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:48 (twelve years ago) link
if we don't laugh at the same things
Obviously I don't mean all the same things all the time but just in a general sort of way.
― wolf kabob (ENBB), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:49 (twelve years ago) link
Pretty otm. People seem to be terrified of sincerity anymore, and almost every cultural utterance seems tainted with an ironic smirk. But it's so often forced and unnatural and used as a distancing mechanism that I find it generally off-putting. As a society, we know how to follow the formula of a joke but we don't know how to replicate the soul of it.
This is kind of a formless idea, but it can be instructive to look at the television commercials that come out of a particular era in trying to get a sense of that era. '80s commercials seem so earnest about wanting to sell the good people a product, whereas today they're jokey and barely about what's being sold and, more often than not, fairly inhumane. To the extent that we accept that marketers have their finger on the pulse of society, it seems like a fair metric by which to measure how we interact as a society.
This is a big, big topic that I have lots of thoughts about. Let me get them properly in order.
― SNEEZED GOING DOWN STEPS, PAIN WHEN PUTTING SOCKS ON (Deric W. Haircare), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:52 (twelve years ago) link
"Humour" as a shorthand for "self aware" = "oh look, we are laughing at ourselves by laughing at our subject matter, we are aware that taking things seriously is kind of uncool, therefore we are using this kneejerk humour to distance ourselves from it, and show that we are in on the joke and also self aware."
This thread is clearly going to delineate along the usual lines of those for whom humour shows some kind of camaraderie and those for whom it's a slightly presumptuous assumption of intimacy. I'm not going to draw any cultural conclusions, but I tend towards the latter. But I'm also one of those po-faced fules who values sincerity.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:54 (twelve years ago) link
People seem to be terrified of sincerity anymore, and almost every cultural utterance seems tainted with an ironic smirk
this seems a little overstated. there's plenty of sincerity to be found all around you. maybe not on the L train but
― Mordy, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:56 (twelve years ago) link
Struggling to think of many great works of literature that don't utilise humour in some way.
First thoughts are Greek tragedy (they're presented next door to satyr plays, iirc? but the things themselves are dead serious), Paradise Lost, the works of William Wordsworth. maybe even some shakespeare… there's not much fun in Coriolanus or Timon is there? (I may be forgetting the light relief scenes)
Very big generalised rough idea would that you need quite a serious belief system, and a belief in some ultimate high seriousness that can be found in art – I think that's there in Romanticism & its descendants through high modernism (in Europe, horrors of 1st half of the century have a part to play in earnest art too); it's not there so much now - we tend to be suspicious of things that claim high purpose and have no time for entertainment.
& then there's a secondary british argument about puritan or non-conformist tradition, maybe, that creates an art with less time for joking (is the Pilgrim's Progress funny? I remember it being really, really not).
I'm prone to liking stuff with jokes (or facing terrible universe with bitter stoic laughter etc), but unseriousness can be a real irritant – feel like Beckett is often pushed, nervously, as 'actually very funny', which is true, sure, but dodging some of the heart of it.
― woof, Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:57 (twelve years ago) link
it's pretty hard to be sincere without being funny
― the "intenterface" (difficult listening hour), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:58 (twelve years ago) link
guess it could almost be reduced, even for argument's sake, to two outlooks- 'the world is a serious place, in spite of it all' vs 'the world is a humorous place, in spite of it all'.
― Streep? That's where I'm a-striking! (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:01 (twelve years ago) link
When I'm writing something it comes naturally to me to insert maybe a little bit of humour. But often I read back something after it's published and just think "what was I doing?!". Humour is an effective tool but a dark art. One shouldn't wield it unless one knows what they're doing.
― Alexandre Dumbass (dog latin), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:04 (twelve years ago) link
irony is pretty much our primary tool as a feeling species and eventually when all of us who grew up in the 1990s are finally dead people will remember that the word doesn't mean "making fun of stuff" but refers to an attunement to the failure of expectations that is at root deeply humble, and that since probability and not physics is on some level the mother of the sciences lacking or failing to develop this sense is like never understanding that objects move when you push them, i.e., you won't ever have any idea what's going on
― the "intenterface" (difficult listening hour), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:08 (twelve years ago) link
Learning to be funny is a hard path for the uncool adolescent to take, but it bears rich fruit.
So by the time you get to college if you have figured out how to make people laugh turning it off is going to seem dangerous.
IMO.
― Nicholas Pokémon (silby), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:09 (twelve years ago) link
Also had a prof who apparently didn't understand sarcasm, pretty weird to not be able to reliably use that register with someone. He just gets concerned when people are sarcastic at him.
― Nicholas Pokémon (silby), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:10 (twelve years ago) link
Humour as a shorthand for self-awareness usually smacks of insecurity and defensiveness to me. That said, when you see things (especially in the corporate world) that are really po-faced and serious or just idiotic and unaware how ridiculous they are it can be pretty fucking funny.
― Homosexual Satan Wasp (Matt DC), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:11 (twelve years ago) link
Point is humor is just a decent way of building up a wall around yourself and your feelings. It's also a good way of taking that wall back down. Regarding yourself with complete seriousness is as broken as being a joke-telling ironic reactive cipher.
― Nicholas Pokémon (silby), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:13 (twelve years ago) link
yeah, this rings true for me, too. a sense of humor is obviously very important, and i agree that there's humor of some sort or another in almost all great film & literature, but "intelligent" internet culture does seem to have cultivated a kind of hostility to sincerity. more often than not, this seems defensive, the avoidance of risk by keeping it light.
personally, i strongly disagree that earnestness and sincerity are close to the bottom on the list of qualities i value in others. quite the opposite, tbh. i like people who are willing to honestly speak their minds and engage directly with ideas. people who can and will do this, who are smart, open-minded and humble about it, are quite rare, i find. absent humor, that sort of earnest exposition can become quite dull, but humor without something substantial to say quickly becomes horribly grating.
― Little GTFO (contenderizer), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:14 (twelve years ago) link
I often tone down the humour in my music writing but feel like there's a definite need retain an element. Anything likely to be read by an audience of people who are passionate about the subject can be as serious as you like, anything that's going to attract a large number of people who don't really care and are just reading to pass the time, and possibly learn something, has a lot more pressure to be 'engaging'. The most direct way of doing that is through a light tone with a bit of humour.
I try to do the same thing when i'm writing in my day job - anything that can make someone smile is probably going to have a much better chance of sticking in the memory. A lot of marketing copy-writers seem to be really bad at it though.
― Mohombi Khush Hua (ShariVari), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:15 (twelve years ago) link
i've linked to this before, but this is one of my favorite essays about anything, ever:
http://www.gutenberg.org/files/4352/4352-h/4352-h.htm
Try, for a moment, to become interested in everything that is being said and done; act, in imagination, with those who act, and feel with those who feel; in a word, give your sympathy its widest expansion: as though at the touch of a fairy wand you will see the flimsiest of objects assume importance, and a gloomy hue spread over everything. Now step aside, look upon life as a disinterested spectator: many a drama will turn into a comedy. It is enough for us to stop our ears to the sound of music, in a room where dancing is going on, for the dancers at once to appear ridiculous. How many human actions would stand a similar test? Should we not see many of them suddenly pass from grave to gay, on isolating them from the accompanying music of sentiment? To produce the whole of its effect, then, the comic demands something like a momentary anesthesia of the heart. Its appeal is to intelligence, pure and simple.
...
This intelligence, however, must always remain in touch with other intelligences. And here is the third fact to which attention should be drawn. You would hardly appreciate the comic if you felt yourself isolated from others. Laughter appears to stand in need of an echo, Listen to it carefully: it is not an articulate, clear, well-defined sound; it is something which would fain be prolonged by reverberating from one to another, something beginning with a crash, to continue in successive rumblings, like thunder in a mountain. Still, this reverberation cannot go on for ever. It can travel within as wide a circle as you please: the circle remains, none the less, a closed one. Our laughter is always the laughter of a group. It may, perchance, have happened to you, when seated in a railway carriage or at table d'hote, to hear travellers relating to one another stories which must have been comic to them, for they laughed heartily. Had you been one of their company, you would have laughed like them; but, as you were not, you had no desire whatever to do so. A man who was once asked why he did not weep at a sermon, when everybody else was shedding tears, replied: "I don't belong to the parish!" What that man thought of tears would be still more true of laughter. However spontaneous it seems, laughter always implies a kind of secret freemasonry, or even complicity, with other laughers, real or imaginary. How often has it been said that the fuller the theatre, the more uncontrolled the laughter of the audience! On the other hand, how often has the remark been made that many comic effects are incapable of translation from one language to another, because they refer to the customs and ideas of a particular social group! It is through not understanding the importance of this double fact that the comic has been looked upon as a mere curiosity in which the mind finds amusement, and laughter itself as a strange, isolated phenomenon, without any bearing on the rest of human activity. Hence those definitions which tend to make the comic into an abstract relation between ideas: "an intellectual contrast," "a palpable absurdity," etc.,—definitions which, even were they really suitable to every form of the comic, would not in the least explain why the comic makes us laugh. How, indeed, should it come about that this particular logical relation, as soon as it is perceived, contracts, expands and shakes our limbs, whilst all other relations leave the body unaffected? It is not from this point of view that we shall approach the problem. To understand laughter, we must put it back into its natural environment, which is society, and above all must we determine the utility of its function, which is a social one.
― TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:16 (twelve years ago) link
i don't know how anyone can survive in this world without recognizing the inherent ridiculousness of human existence
― congratulations (n/a), Thursday, 1 March 2012 15:16 (twelve years ago) link
imago -- what if the fart jokes were in Latin?
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:41 (three years ago) link
an eight-legged essay of fart jokes!
― calzino, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:43 (three years ago) link
what's the difference between a Cambridge Don and a Fart Joke?
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:44 (three years ago) link
It is a truth universally acknowledged by all ilxors that eventually ones beautifully conceived threads will just end up as methane repositories.
― Call of Scampi: Slack Nephrops (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:46 (three years ago) link
. . . subtile et leue peditum Libonis . . .
― pomenitul, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:47 (three years ago) link
somehow I knew Catullus would make it here
― imago, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:50 (three years ago) link
i think imago just misses his old m8 nakh very much
Indeed.
― Duncan Disorderly (Tom D.), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:52 (three years ago) link
ok i'm going to read the fart thread, and award some sort of grotesque quasi-excelsior to the Least Unfunny Post therein
― imago, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:53 (three years ago) link
Brian Eno - An Ending (Ascent)
― Josh in Chicago, Sunday, 21 March 2021 12:40 (two days ago) bookmarkflaglink
i was almost amused imagining the actual song to be about a fart, so this wins Least Unfunny, but it was all about as horrific as i had feared
― imago, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 16:59 (three years ago) link
Thank goodness you survived yr perilous journey into puerility, plz loosen yr ascot and have a lie-down before you succumb to the vapors
― Clem McFlannery's Clam Phlegm Cannery (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:05 (three years ago) link
ah yes the smell of Old Lunch ... sorry, I would rather watch Bosom Manor re-runs
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:15 (three years ago) link
I dunno, I'm just tired and sad and would prefer a thousand Cuddlestein Mountains to a single perfectly-formed barb right now. And I don't want to start a fight or anything, you know I consider you a bud, imago, but the least funny stuff on Excelsior threads is you telling people that the thing they laughed at isn't funny, and that they should feel bad for finding it funny, and that the poor person who made the post in the first place and didn't even post it in that thread is also a bad person, and that in fact all of us are terrible humans for not living up to your standard of highbrow wit.
― emil.y, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:17 (three years ago) link
I also miss nakh, though.
emil.y otm -- policing the excelsior thread is nagl
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:19 (three years ago) link
Maybe I would make better jokes if we had a thread where someone took nakh's jokes and Big-Birded them to me.
― peace, man, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:20 (three years ago) link
Honestly, I do think being able to craft a good barb or retort is a great skill, used wisely. But I also like fart jokes and puns. Why not sample everything on the humour platter, rather than restricting yourself and everyone else to a single type?
― emil.y, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:23 (three years ago) link
xp - I forget, were you formerly "the useless moderator how's life"?
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:24 (three years ago) link
She don't lie, she don't lie, she don't lie... methane
― succor MC (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 17:57 (three years ago) link
xp - yes, but I understood that one.
― peace, man, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 18:27 (three years ago) link
no offense, but I get you and man alive confused.
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 March 2021 18:29 (three years ago) link
not all mans
― jammy mcnullity (wins), Tuesday, 23 March 2021 19:06 (three years ago) link
BEST JOKE I HAVE RECENTLY HEARDThere are 2 kinds of people, those who can extrapolate from incomplete information
― Tsar Bombadil (James Morrison), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 00:53 (three years ago) link
Privileged to be a guest at the consecration of a new bishop @LiverpoolMet yesterday. Some subtle wit here from @Pontifex in the papal mandate for a Liverpool bishop. pic.twitter.com/GZEbnULJOy— Crispin Pailing (@crispin_pailing) September 4, 2021
― calzino, Sunday, 5 September 2021 08:34 (three years ago) link
i didn't get it, then i read the comments, now i get it but i'm angry
― cheesons to be rearful (Noodle Vague), Sunday, 5 September 2021 08:53 (three years ago) link
I guess I still have some schoolboy latin because I got it right away & smh, my nightmare is being around ppl for whom this kind of stuff is the pinnacle of witAlso not sure what is “subtle” about this bit of local pandering
― siffleur’s mom (wins), Sunday, 5 September 2021 09:33 (three years ago) link
the pope doing this = fine, w/e, have funpeople guffawing about it like it's the most witty thing ever written = fuck right off
― fc_TEFH28mo (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Sunday, 5 September 2021 09:37 (three years ago) link
some of the deeply weird anglican/catholic latinists/priests in the replies/quote tweets really got off on this. Which is what I find very amusing.
― calzino, Sunday, 5 September 2021 09:38 (three years ago) link
see also: cunts who laugh at bad humping jokes in Shakespeare
― cheesons to be rearful (Noodle Vague), Sunday, 5 September 2021 09:40 (three years ago) link
OMG THE ACTOR DONE A HUMP MIME I THINK MY SIDES HAVE SPLITTED
country matters amirite
― Left, Sunday, 5 September 2021 13:53 (three years ago) link
I did get the Latin on my second try, but I admit my first thought was "you're going home in a fucking ambulance". Which tbf I probably would have found funny coming from the Pope.
― emil.y, Sunday, 5 September 2021 15:58 (three years ago) link
the humor of tyranny
― Duke Detain (Neanderthal), Sunday, 5 September 2021 16:00 (three years ago) link
is that like when stalin joked about how he was going to purge you one day and you had to laugh
― Left, Sunday, 5 September 2021 16:42 (three years ago) link
the final form of banter
― Left, Sunday, 5 September 2021 16:45 (three years ago) link
Banter road leads to Belsen
― cheesons to be rearful (Noodle Vague), Sunday, 5 September 2021 18:31 (three years ago) link
Stalin's idea of top bantz with priests was after decades of bulldozing down churches, confiscating monasteries and sending clergy to the gulags he called some chief hierarchs during the war and said what is wrong with you miserable fuckers - we need to work together here!
― calzino, Sunday, 5 September 2021 18:42 (three years ago) link
Cops bantering with the people they arrest, another manifestion of the same thing.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 5 September 2021 18:52 (three years ago) link
this dog outfunneyed the pope
in mexico this dog walked through a parade for the pope thinking it was for him pic.twitter.com/wCBw9AMWWp— Humor And Animals (@humorandanimals) September 5, 2021
― glumdalclitch, Sunday, 5 September 2021 18:58 (three years ago) link
the tyranny of humour and animals etc
― glumdalclitch, Sunday, 5 September 2021 18:59 (three years ago) link
"the humor of tyranny"
a genuinely funny imo example of this is the scene in To Be or Not To Be where the actor playing Hitler walks onto the set to a chorus of "Heil Hitler's" and responds "Heil Myself".
― calzino, Sunday, 5 September 2021 19:20 (three years ago) link
I hadn't seen this thread before so I'm just going to reply to the original question instead of the revive. Sorry to jump into the middle of a conversation! But this made me think about how two of my favorite songwriters are Springsteen and John Prine, and they're in many ways very similar in their preoccupations and the kind of stories they tell, and yet they have these very different approaches to humor that I think end up defining their reputations in a big way. Like, John Prine is known for his humor, it's one of the first things mentioned in all the articles that came out after he died, and that despite his having a ton of grim, grim songs in his catalog. Whereas Springsteen, who can be very funny when he wants to - you see it a ton in his concerts - I think has a general rep as a songwriter for intense seriousness unleavened by humor (or at least not intentional humor.)
And I think that's an exaggeration of both of them but it does get at something real. Like, John Prine's humor isn't a set of haha jokes so much as a kind of detached self-awareness and a constant sense of the absurdity of human existence, which is sort of relatable and distancing at the same time. He'll write something like, "The streetlamp said as it nodded its head, 'It's lonesome out tonight,'" or "bowl of oatmeal tried to stare me down/ and won," and you get the sense of someone looking at his own unhappiness from an ironic distance, like ah yes, we're all just wandering through this absurd, surreal world where streetlamps and oatmeal and knickknack shelves and whatever have opinions on how crappily we're living our lives. it me. it all of us.
But Springsteen will write "The dogs on Main Street howl 'cause they understand," and if you stop to think about that it's just as absurd, and yet you don't stop to think about it, the song doesn't let you. This is not funny, it's deadly serious, you are pissed off as fuck and those dogs GET IT!
And you'd think that lack of detachment and self-awareness would be a weak point, and I do think it repels some people, but also invites a really intense and wholehearted commitment once you get past that initial barrier. Like, if you listen to this you'd better be prepared to BE King Lear as a 30-year-old mechanic screaming at the sky for four and a half minutes, and if you can't do that without rolling your eyes, then go away, this isn't for you.
― Lily Dale, Sunday, 5 September 2021 20:28 (three years ago) link
Awesome post
I think the kind of facetiousness of Prine puts me off sometimes even tho I know, when I do listen to him, that I like him a lot
― cheesons to be rearful (Noodle Vague), Sunday, 5 September 2021 20:32 (three years ago) link
Thanks! Awesome thread question. I think I was lucky in that my first encounter with Prine was the album Common Sense, which might be his darkest one, and it definitely shaped my impression of his humor as sad existentialist absurdity rather than haha goofiness.
― Lily Dale, Sunday, 5 September 2021 20:37 (three years ago) link
there are Prine songs I have to skip b/c they are so dark ("Sam Stone"), but that's not the case with say "The River", Springsteen somehow manages to have this level of detachment there, where you are listening as an observer and not a participant? thanks for that post.
― sleeve, Sunday, 5 September 2021 20:49 (three years ago) link
Yeah, rereading that, I didn't mean to suggest Prine wasn't dark or immersive; I think he can be very dark, but I often get a double-exposed feeling even from his grimmest stuff, a sense of standing inside and outside the story at the same time, experiencing it and also seeing how it looks to others. Even when he dials the humor way down, that little self-mocking smile is still there: "Thought I saw a neon sign/flash my name with the time/ prob'ly didn't see a thing/ crazy dreams and a broken wing."
Springsteen - just thinking this out - I think maybe he deals more in characters who are lacking perspective and self-awareness; like that inability to step outside your own story and see yourself as absurd is something that appeals to him. So there are layered narratives and irony and humor, but you have to look harder for them, because the character doesn't know they're there. And his detachment, when he has it, mostly comes from somewhere else. Maybe in "The River" it comes partly from the framing device where you're listening to someone tell his story, and partly from the sense of resignation and inevitability he brings to it?
This could all be nonsense. It's easy to think of exceptions to everything I'm saying - what about the line about the car wash in "Downbound Train?" What about all of "Reason to Believe?"
Maybe I should start a Springsteen v. Prine thread.
― Lily Dale, Monday, 6 September 2021 00:19 (three years ago) link