Calif. teacher resigns after leaving family for student

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Hormones be funny stuff. Make brains melty.

Aimless, Thursday, 1 March 2012 19:49 (thirteen years ago)

vili looks different than i remembered

Laura Lucy Lynn (La Lechera), Thursday, 1 March 2012 19:50 (thirteen years ago)

the phrase "hideous couplings" springs to mind

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 19:54 (thirteen years ago)

sex really can do some fucked up shit

surm, Thursday, 1 March 2012 19:55 (thirteen years ago)

I give them two months

Big Mr. Guess U.S.A. Champion (crüt), Thursday, 1 March 2012 19:58 (thirteen years ago)

she looks v. young for a teacher

FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:00 (thirteen years ago)

i think like the woody allen thing you should stay away from relationships with a person if you knew that person when they were a kid. especially if they were a kid like two weeks ago. and doubly especially if they are your daughter, in the case of woody. maybe if you ran into them in a bar and they were sad and 30 it would be different. and if they weren't your daughter.

scott seward, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:05 (thirteen years ago)

wish someone would interview the student at length

Mordy, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:06 (thirteen years ago)

lol NV

Vaseline MEN AMAZING JOURNEY (DJP), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:06 (thirteen years ago)

Soon Yi is not Woody's daughter

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:07 (thirteen years ago)

creepy

omar little, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:08 (thirteen years ago)

technicality. her brother is her step-son.

x-post

scott seward, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:09 (thirteen years ago)

haha i love stories like this

goole, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:09 (thirteen years ago)

really warms the heart

Big Mr. Guess U.S.A. Champion (crüt), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:11 (thirteen years ago)

is teacher-student sex a uniquely american kind of freakout?

goole, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:11 (thirteen years ago)

god no

FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:12 (thirteen years ago)

lol @ genetics, legal standing, and facts of day-to-day life all being a "technicality"

xp

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:12 (thirteen years ago)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2076594/Mark-Westcott-Married-teacher-sex-girl-pupil-ski-trip-jailed.html

FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:12 (thirteen years ago)

no i agree there's nothing creepy about a relationship with yr stepchild who was 10 when you started dating their mother, Shakes OTM

FPocalypto! (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:13 (thirteen years ago)

seems like there have been stories every week like this in la for the past month or so

puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:14 (thirteen years ago)

I didn't say it wasn't creepy I said she's not his daughter. which is a fact.

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:15 (thirteen years ago)

well there was that california school that had some much more hideous shit going on too

goole, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:15 (thirteen years ago)

yea that's an entirely diff thing that was fucking crazy

puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:16 (thirteen years ago)

I know a girl who started dating her high school math teacher right after graduating. they're not still together. tbf I believe he was in his 20s. still weird to me though.

Big Mr. Guess U.S.A. Champion (crüt), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:18 (thirteen years ago)

My high school honors English teacher divorced his wife so she could marry is daughter's best friend. She was in her late 20s at the time; he was just past 50 IIRC.

Vaseline MEN AMAZING JOURNEY (DJP), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:31 (thirteen years ago)

I'm gonna assume you mixed up some nouns there

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:32 (thirteen years ago)

no, some pronouns

he married his daughter's best friend, one of his former students

Vaseline MEN AMAZING JOURNEY (DJP), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:33 (thirteen years ago)

http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/j/MSNBC/Components/Photo/_new/120301-teacher-student-relationship-9a.photoblog600.jpg

i like how their heads are tilted just so, v nice photo

lag∞n, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:36 (thirteen years ago)

hands

Laura Lucy Lynn (La Lechera), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:41 (thirteen years ago)

I kinda want ZS to animate their heads Roxbury steez.

Flagpost Sitta (Phil D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:44 (thirteen years ago)

Man, that girl is so lucky

valleys of your mind (mh), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:46 (thirteen years ago)

sorry, I couldn't resist, that's the default reaction when male student hooks up with teacher

valleys of your mind (mh), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:47 (thirteen years ago)

when i heard the story on the radio this morning the way they glossed over the details actually made me think "oh, so he made the decision to resign so he could be with her and not hide it, i guess that's somewhat honorable as these things go" but no it looks like he was on some kind of leave and then asked to resign so yeah

some dude, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:48 (thirteen years ago)

He also called his girlfriend's mother's allegations a "pack of lies" and urged people to be careful in choosing what to believe.

I have never heard this phrase used outside of that Phil Collins song before

some dude, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:50 (thirteen years ago)

Any sort of power balance disparity makes this sort of thing fucked up. Age difference only the tip of the iceberg.

Then again, such disparities are kind of hot if they're somehow coded as rule-breaking and not exploitative?

valleys of your mind (mh), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:50 (thirteen years ago)

So I guess what I'm saying is that I will never find a middle-aged dude hot so this is just gross and exploitative

valleys of your mind (mh), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:51 (thirteen years ago)

He also called his girlfriend's mother's allegations a "pack of lies" and urged people to be careful in choosing what to believe.

I have never heard this phrase used outside of that Phil Collins song before

― some dude, Thursday, March 1, 2012 3:50 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

lol true

lag∞n, Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:52 (thirteen years ago)

In five years she's going to be all "I wonder if he ever finished that novel"

valleys of your mind (mh), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:53 (thirteen years ago)

He also called his girlfriend's mother's allegations a "pack of lies" and urged people to be careful in choosing what to believe. then broke into an air drum solo.

Flagpost Sitta (Phil D.), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:53 (thirteen years ago)

I have a friend whose husband was the teacher in a similar scenario. Dude went from "likable goof" to "most batshit guy I know IRL" in sixty seconds flat after he got caught

unlistenable in philly (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:54 (thirteen years ago)

I have had similar firsthand experiences with people in similar situations and they are always, erm, eye-opening.

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:55 (thirteen years ago)

- colleague of my dad's who perved it up w/ 13yo student, got caught, went to jail, and now... teaches kids in another state!
- friend of my wife's who had a relationship with her high school physics teacher
- acquaintance who once complained to me about how "hard" it is to be a hs teacher because of the preponderance of hot young chix

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:57 (thirteen years ago)

in all cases it's just "wtf are you thinking/you are insane"

be scientific, douchebag (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:57 (thirteen years ago)

One of my close friends in high school had a Dad who was a HS teacher at a different school across town. He had an affair with a senior student (18 at the time, he was in his 50's) - she got pregnant and he left his family and married her. Creepiest, weirdest situation EVER. I don't even know if they're still together but that whole period of time was like, "I'm sorry..you what now?"
It completely changed my view of her dad. He had taught me and a friend of mine for a while, we thought he was the greatest teacher ever, the coolest Dad in the world...and within months we were all just rallying around our friend and her Mom, and he became a stranger to all of us, including his own family. It was just awful.

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 1 March 2012 20:59 (thirteen years ago)

- acquaintance who once complained to me about how "hard" it is to be a hs teacher because of the preponderance of hot young chix

the only way you could possibly feel this way is if all your information about being a teacher in hs comes from watching pornos

Mordy, Thursday, 1 March 2012 21:00 (thirteen years ago)

I can kind of understand in a distant way. There were some girls who definitely looked older when I was in high school in the way some women look kind of vaguely between 16 and 30. Most high school kids, though, look... like high school kids. And the ones who look really mature usually like they're 35 by the time they're 22. And if you speak to them while they're in high school, they usually have the mindset and maturity of a teenager!

valleys of your mind (mh), Thursday, 1 March 2012 21:04 (thirteen years ago)

Nice use of air quotes there

xpost

You're a notch, I'm a legend (Bill Magill), Thursday, 1 March 2012 21:04 (thirteen years ago)

And if you speak to them while they're in high school, they usually have the mindset and maturity of a teenager!

this a million times no matter what they look like. and not just usually. always.

Mordy, Thursday, 1 March 2012 21:07 (thirteen years ago)

http://www.myspace.com/gonjalocc

utopian dipshit (buzza), Tuesday, 13 March 2012 22:16 (thirteen years ago)

mordy u need a hug

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 13 March 2012 23:02 (thirteen years ago)

<3 plax

Fozzy Osbourne (contenderizer), Tuesday, 13 March 2012 23:43 (thirteen years ago)

yeah plax is pretty lovely, Mordy, gotta rep for him/her (?). But I will still make good on yr hug if you need it. For I am the UN.

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 13 March 2012 23:46 (thirteen years ago)

i actually enjoyed plax's posting more before the dn change. i don't know if the dn augured a new posting style, if i have subconscious resentment towards judith butler, or what.

Mordy, Wednesday, 14 March 2012 00:01 (thirteen years ago)

re hugs i will gladly receive + dispense at inevitable soon-to-be-planned philly phap. virtual hugs always feel a little cold to me. u know. numbers hugs feel like aluminum.

Mordy, Wednesday, 14 March 2012 00:05 (thirteen years ago)

Gonja Wolf

Abarham Lincoln posing (Abbbottt), Wednesday, 14 March 2012 01:47 (thirteen years ago)

I would absolutely go all the way to Philly to hug you Mordy, fyi

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 14 March 2012 01:56 (thirteen years ago)

Gonja Wolf was the singer in Guitar Wolf's short reggae phase, right?

― Three Word Username, Tuesday, March 13, 2012 10:14 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

key lol

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Wednesday, 14 March 2012 02:52 (thirteen years ago)

Rollin', rollin', rollin' . . .

NORTH RIDGEVILLE, Ohio - A North Ridgeville High School teacher has been indicted following an investigation into alleged sexual contact with a student.

Constance Yacobozzi, 28, was arrested at 10 a.m. Friday and posted bond, according to the Lorain County Sheriff’s Office said.

In November, North Ridgeville police said rumors were circulating among high school students that inappropriate photos of a teacher had been sent to some students via text message. According to police, the teacher was clothed in the photos, but in one she was wearing a bikini top. There were also allegations that Yacobozzi was having a sexual relationship with a student.

A teacher alerted the school board of the rumors, police said.

Yacobozzi has denied the allegations and was indicted on two counts of sexual battery. She was placed on administrative leave in November while police continued their investigation.

Read more: http://www.newsnet5.com/dpp/news/local_news/oh_lorain/north-ridgeville-high-school-teacher-indicted-for-alleged-sexual-contact-with-student#ixzz1pJGhbp7g

http://media2.newsnet5.com//photo/2012/03/16/Web_Pic_Tall_20120316143004_320_240.JPG

butvi wouls (Phil D.), Friday, 16 March 2012 19:30 (thirteen years ago)

well, no story this year is gonna beat the one about the teacher that fed his students his semen, so everything else is a race for second

3hunn O))) (J0rdan S.), Friday, 16 March 2012 19:39 (thirteen years ago)

nope, that one is tops!!

goole, Friday, 16 March 2012 19:39 (thirteen years ago)

hmmm, guess I do want to load all 453 comments

frogbs, Friday, 16 March 2012 19:41 (thirteen years ago)

haha frogbs

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 16 March 2012 21:17 (thirteen years ago)

that photo is weird

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 16 March 2012 21:18 (thirteen years ago)

frogbs's time away from ilx has done him well - he's killing

Mordy, Friday, 16 March 2012 21:20 (thirteen years ago)

honed and sharp as a tack

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 16 March 2012 21:21 (thirteen years ago)

three weeks pass...

(04-06) 19:16 PDT Modesto, Calif. (AP) --

A former California teacher who made national headlines when he left his job and family to move in with an 18-year-old student was arrested Friday on suspicion of sexually abusing a different student more than a decade ago, police said.

Christopher Hooker, 41, was arrested at his home and booked in Stanislaus County Jail on one count of oral copulation with a minor.

Police said the abuse occurred with a 17-year-old girl in 1998 when Hooker was a teacher at Davis High School in Modesto. The girl was a student at a different school, police said.

In a statement, police said Hooker befriended the 17-year-old. The department did not immediately return a call seeking clarification of how the two met.

Hooker appeared in court Friday. A judge entered a not guilty plea on his behalf, set his bail at $50,000 and assigned him a public defender, the Modesto Bee reported.

Hooker requested that his bail amount be reduced, and the judge set a hearing for Tuesday to consider the matter.

Police said the investigation started after Hooker announced his relationship in February with Jordan Powers, whom he taught at Enochs High School in Modesto.

Hooker has three children, including one who was a junior at Enochs.

The underage victim was discovered in the course of that investigation, police said.

Appearing on numerous national talk shows and in news interviews, Hooker and Powers maintained they didn't have a sexual relationship until she turned 18, but police are still investigating whether there was inappropriate contact before that.

In interviews for the "Dr. Phil" show and ABC's "Good Morning America," the couple can be seen holding hands and exchanging smiles.

Powers' mother, Tammie, confronted the couple on "Dr. Phil" and accused Hooker of brainwashing her daughter.

The couple maintains that, while they met when Jordan was 14, their relationship did not become physical until she was of age, making it permissible under current laws. California's age of consent is 18.

The Modesto Bee reported that Tammie Powers sent a text message to one of the newspaper's reporters Friday saying she and her daughter were catching a flight to an undisclosed location.

In response to the relationship between Hooker and Jordan Powers, a state lawmaker from Modesto last week proposed legislation that would ban student-teacher relationships regardless of age, even if the student is 18, and strip school employees of their pensions and retiree health care if they are convicted.

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/a/2012/04/06/national/a141920D94.DTL#ixzz1rKVRYPUu

Bee OK, Saturday, 7 April 2012 05:33 (thirteen years ago)

you kind have known something like this was going to happen.

Bee OK, Saturday, 7 April 2012 05:39 (thirteen years ago)

It's all just so... u_u

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 7 April 2012 06:50 (thirteen years ago)

this story just gets better and better!

Jilly Boel and the Eltones (Shakey Mo Collier), Wednesday, 18 April 2012 23:49 (thirteen years ago)

three months pass...

"No jail for me and that is only because of luck … no witnesses coming forward," the message reads. "He said he was of legal age, but he lied. I just can't help wanting these hot young boys … and they want me. Who am I to spoil a young man's fantasy. Damn."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/03/kristle-vandever-oregon-t_n_1738632.html

buzza, Saturday, 4 August 2012 04:45 (twelve years ago)

cut his pwnis off imo

the late great, Saturday, 4 August 2012 05:02 (twelve years ago)

haha oh wait it's a female teacher, cut off her head

srsly though my ex was telling me this is v common in mn and wi. can anyone confirm?

the late great, Saturday, 4 August 2012 05:24 (twelve years ago)

uh really?? i mean i think it's happened here but

goole, Saturday, 4 August 2012 06:08 (twelve years ago)

yeah she said everyone she knew in every high school agreed

the late great, Saturday, 4 August 2012 06:17 (twelve years ago)

maybe it was just a rumor among that clique

the late great, Saturday, 4 August 2012 06:17 (twelve years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjzNto68p5g

buzza, Saturday, 4 August 2012 06:25 (twelve years ago)

i didn't grow up here so maybe!

xp

goole, Saturday, 4 August 2012 06:29 (twelve years ago)

that letourneau thing seems to be defying expectations

the late great, Saturday, 4 August 2012 06:36 (twelve years ago)

All I know is, in my high school, someone gbx knew was seduced by a female teacher and claimed to have brain tumor to deflect attention away from the "affair" and my English teacher left his wife for his (mid 20s) daughter's best friend, so maybe this does happen in MN all of the time.

keeping things contextual (DJP), Saturday, 4 August 2012 12:40 (twelve years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmezIIrFQmY

Shrimpface Killah (Noodle Vague), Saturday, 4 August 2012 12:47 (twelve years ago)

this happens in schools all of the time!

thomp, Saturday, 4 August 2012 12:55 (twelve years ago)

two months pass...

http://espn.go.com/nfl/story/_/id/8479276/cincinnati-bengals-ex-nfl-cheerleader-sarah-jones-pleads-guilty-student-sex

always nice when love wins out in the end

la goonies (k3vin k.), Monday, 8 October 2012 22:23 (twelve years ago)

"Deters declined to discuss details of their current relationship, saying that the pair would discuss it on the "Today" show and "Dateline" on Friday."

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 8 October 2012 22:31 (twelve years ago)

Man you have to have some simple life needs to be 27 and think a teen is who you want to pursue

ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:24 (twelve years ago)

I just... male or female, I just *do not* understand how hooking up somehow becomes a good idea for a teacher with a student.

like, that's a line that looks like a third-world military checkpoint in my mind.

I've known teachers who have done it, who have entertained the idea of doing it, and the children of teachers who have done it and I will never comprehend that mindset

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:27 (twelve years ago)

why are america's teachers emotionally stunted????

Mordy, Monday, 8 October 2012 23:28 (twelve years ago)

and I know it's not as simple as 'oh this is a good idea' but, there's so many points on that road where turning back can happen/is an option. where 'this is wrong' is a song that's playing in your head.

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:28 (twelve years ago)

Well, a lot of people meet someone special at work and for teachers most of the people they meet are children

ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:31 (twelve years ago)

also "this is wrong" often sounds like "but feels SO RIGHT" to these people

stop swearing and start windmilling (Shakey Mo Collier), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:33 (twelve years ago)

true

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:34 (twelve years ago)

not their first or even worst bad choice in their life leading up to that moment perhaps

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:35 (twelve years ago)

"This is wrong and makes me feel bad in a pleasurable way"

ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:41 (twelve years ago)

nailed it

so to speak, cough

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 8 October 2012 23:44 (twelve years ago)

Maybe they really want to be on the "Today" show.

Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 9 October 2012 00:02 (twelve years ago)

At least they're drawing the line between the 'Today' show and Dateline NBC.

Mates of 808 State (S-), Wednesday, 10 October 2012 04:40 (twelve years ago)


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