tipping

making me tear up!

i quit my delivery job btw, now i am broke but happy but eventually sad because i'm broke.

I hope there's some requirement that the server gives good service. Wouldn't want to reward some surly asshole.

tip on pre or post tax figure?

always thought it was on the post-tax but noticed the other day on the bill it had a suggested amount, which was 20% of the pre-tax

tipping is a feeling

Huh, I've always gone with post-tax just because that's the big number at the bottom of the check. I guess pre-tax probably makes more sense in the abstract, but, eh, servers gotta pay tax on stuff too, I don't mind the difference. Or is there really high tax on food where you are? It seems like 15-20% of 5-10% is kind of a trivial number, compared to the price of the food.

tipping is on pre-tax, but generally the kind of people who care aren't tipping so well anyway

Sorry to revive this.

Anyway, I buy coffee at a local coffee shop. Two bags, in which I ask them to ground for french press. Total comes in to about $42. On top of that, they give me a free coffee drink, which I usually get a latte. How much would you tip on this?

Hmm. I don't buy bulk coffee so I'm not sure. The grinding is something they kind of normally do, but feels a little "extra" right? My gut would say to tip something around the price of what the free drink would have cost.

If the grinding is something they normally do for customers as a service, I don't think it needs to be tipped at all tbqh

Never apologise for reviving this thread! I love it!

Anag, wouldn't making coffee be "something they normally do for customers as a service"?

(By which I mean, isn't a tip most often applied to things done normally as part of a service? And then an extra special big tip applied to something extra / especially good?)

My gut would say to tip something around the price of what the free drink would have cost.

maybe a little less than this but otm. a couple bucks at least.

my instinct is not to tip for the ground beans because mentally i think of that as 'groceries', oddly

"mentally i think" uh haha

mentalist

Actually, it was $32 this morning. Price seems to go up and down each time.

if i get a $12 haircut in the US, i give the guy $15, right?

I'm guessing most customers just go for whole bean, so it does feel like extra. I did $3 this morning. Will probably do $4 next time.

yeah, for a total of $27 xp

$3-4 sounds pretty all right, I can't imagine complaining seeing three bucks go in the tip jar!

Would you tip a butcher?

Maybe if he gave you a free turkey leg at the end.

To me the little-freebie is just a nice little opportunity for a moment of recognition between customer and employee - - - you get something you would have bought anyway, the money you would have paid for it leaves your wallet anyway, but both people involved feel like they stepped out of robotically carrying out formal transactions and "gave" something to the other. It's nice.

really feel like half the time I over-tip, especially when doing so after paying by credit card at restaurants, and under-tip other times. hope the universe averages these out when tallying my karma

caek buddy my tip is to shell out a little more for a haircut

My butchers (who hand out gratis stock/dog bones to those who need them) have a tip jar. If I got, say, £2.65 in change, the 65 pence goes in the jar. They generally tape a one-sheet, bold-type political screed onto this jar, about the suckage of the UK government etc. It's like reading the fevered thoughts of a non-racist, Murdoch-hating cab driver.

yeah he seemed kind of unimpressed but was a v low key guy so it was hard to tell. i will fix it next time.

I meant to bump this, not to ask but to tell: if I am carrying four cases of Penta water you just spent $100 on to your car a block away and you don't even give me a dollar, you are a disgusting savage.

http://i.imgur.com/7bNiXkd.jpg

http://gawker.com/5980177/pastor-refuses-to-pay-restaurants-auto+gratuity-asks-server-why-she-deserves-a-bigger-tip-than-god

should prob be posted in the reddit thread

peoples opinions on tipping are kinda just a black hole

Any pastor who considers his tithing "a tip" should go back to seminary school.

"Hey, God! Keep the change."

http://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/coin-flip-mcduck.gif

How do pastors who are getting paid by the church tithe? Do they have to kick it up a level or something?

10 percent to Brigham Young football program.

does god's portion come out pre-tax or what

http://consumerist.com/2013/01/31/waitress-who-posted-no-tip-receipt-from-pastor-customer-fired-from-job/

applebee's otm

yeah I have mixed feelings cause obv that pastor is a dick but I'm not sure I like the new world where one person being a dick gets their phone number on 4chan etc because some blogger/reddit/etc decided they were the dick-o-the-day

Yeah, no, but it's pretty lame to be like "I only wanted the person I was insulting to see that I was insulting her. Now that EVERYONE knows I insulted a defenseless server I'm so MAD AT U."

well he's a crazy person, for one

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/documents/tipping-pastor-apologizes-687234

The folks at The Smoking Gun have interviewed the pastor who left the receipt.

“My heart is really broken,” she tells the site. “I’ve brought embarrassment to my church and ministry.”

The pastor claims that though she scratched out the automatic gratuity on the bill, she left a $6 cash tip at the table. She also alleges that the restaurant charged her the 18% tip anyway.

She left a $6 tip on the table for a party of 20?!?!?! Fuck this person with a chainsaw tbqh.

well this is going to help all of the "'Canadians' don't tip" stereotypes

js

*ha

that pastor was apparently led to christianity after finding herself homeless and pregnant in the late 90s - how does one go from that situation, to being a pastor, to being the kind of person who treats people, who are barely making a living, with such little respect?

and she doesn't apologize anywhere in that interview - she's embarrassed for herself and on behalf of her church, but she doesn't seem to feel that bad for the waiter she stiffed.

Stiffed and got fired!

Which is probably exactly what Jesus would have done so

well this is going to help all of the "'Canadians' don't tip" stereotypes

― Ima R.A.E.D. (DJP), Thursday, January 31, 2013 9:23 AM (2 minutes ago)

otm.

wasn't there a "Christians don't tip" piece posted upthread too?

there's also often "blah people don't tip" talk