are you better off than you were 4 years ago?

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Yes. I'm en route to a career change and a higher salary.

Raymond Cummings, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 03:50 (eleven years ago) link

Overall yes. My only complaint is that the bad job climate has made me cling to my job for much longer than I would have otherwise even though I feel pretty emotionally done with it.

Moodles, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 04:05 (eleven years ago) link

no, and thanks for reminding me

mookieproof, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 04:12 (eleven years ago) link

Yeah have a proper grownup career and the Good Neighbor Next Door program means I could buy a house hypothetically for like $20-30k, thanks $$$$Obama$$$$

ms fotheringham (Crabbits), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 04:17 (eleven years ago) link

Also DJP are you adopting a child for realsies?

ms fotheringham (Crabbits), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 04:19 (eleven years ago) link

Yes. 4 years ago was total crap, and in fact, when i look at my entire family, they are all better off than they were 4 years ago.

I remember hearing about the first TARP bailout on the radio and congresspeople saying "Oh we are getting all these calls from voters, and they are all saying don't do this bail-out!" and yet they went and voted for the bailout anyways and it just made me so pissed off. That whole moment was one big notch on the voting-doesn't-matter scoreboard.

Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 04:23 (eleven years ago) link

technically yes but expenses are way up so it feels like no, but when you look at the books it's yes

we don't wanna miss a THING!!! (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 05:31 (eleven years ago) link

anecdata for president

Intent to Distribute (buzza), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 05:37 (eleven years ago) link

Absolutely yes

O_o-O_O-o_O (jjjusten), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 06:02 (eleven years ago) link

As one of those small business owners the right keeps talking about, I can prob attach some hard percentages to that, but on a str8 quality of life side, I was able to go back to a just over 40 hour work week from 70+ in the summer of 2012.

O_o-O_O-o_O (jjjusten), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 06:07 (eleven years ago) link

Fuck, that sentence sucked. Meaning I have steadily dropped hours (voluntarily and as a salaried dude) from 70+ in 2008 to 40.5 in 2012.

O_o-O_O-o_O (jjjusten), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 06:13 (eleven years ago) link

I still grind 24 hours a day but that's because I rule at life

we don't wanna miss a THING!!! (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 06:36 (eleven years ago) link

Yes. I went from college and $9,000 AGI to 1% (i.e. Paul Ryan's "fading Obama poster" allusion didn't resonante).

Allen (etaeoe), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 06:49 (eleven years ago) link

Despite that, we've still saved enough to take extravagant Asian vacations and adopt a child.

i missed this, congrats DJP!

4 years ago i still had a proper job plus all the savings i was building up in order to go freelance, so lol @ the idea of being economically better off now, but in every other respect i am immeasurably better off

lex pretend, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 07:34 (eleven years ago) link

i worked in tech for the financial industry basically from 2000 until the end of 2008, when everything collapsed, including my job, directly because my clients were shady credit card hucksters who got dragged down with the subprime fiascos. I still do tech but for legal services now and have a promising job. so yes, absolutely better off.

akm, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 07:39 (eleven years ago) link

As a Britisher I won't vote, but yes, I am individually and we are as a couple most definitely. But, that's almost entirely down to the fact that we've got two new jobs each in the last four years, and thus increased our income by nearly 2/3s in that time. We've also (when all the stuff goes through) made a 5% profit on the flat we bought five years ago, which isn't much, but when other areas of the housing market have seen prices plummet, is pretty damn good. We've been able to afford a brand new (lease) car, are buying a new and substantially bigger house, have taken far more holidays than we could ever afford before, and are generally just much better off. Of course, as your income increases so do your outgoings generally so we're still a long way away from being flippant with money. And we have no savings. But there you go.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 07:51 (eleven years ago) link

Hell no, but not because of anything Obama did. Unless he's been secretly plotting my downfall.

Old Lunch, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:05 (eleven years ago) link

I didn't realise Britishers weren't supposed to vote. Sorry! I put "only economically" because to be fair, I was economically much worse off 5 years ago, because I had been made redundant from a finance related job during the banking crisis.

What's annoying is that - LOL Tories - in many ways I am better off. But that is because I am a middle-class, child-free home-owner whose disability does not particularly interfere with my ability to work in IT. But I'm still outraged that life appears to be economically a lot worse for people who are outside this tiny bracket of "people who are better off under the Tories." I kinda want to say "even if I am ~better off~ economically under you, I still think you're a pack of hyenas and want you and your politics gone. And this is not politics of envy, this is politics of outright disgust."

But sorry to bring LOL Britishers politics into a US thread.

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:07 (eleven years ago) link

Yeah, our situation has nothign to do with the Tories at all; it has a lot to do with our ages and educations and work histories, and a lot to do with the fact that our city and our employer have both been incredibly well-managed for the last decade and have managed to predict and thus offset / work around all the crap that's happened.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:23 (eleven years ago) link

If you're better off under the Tories it's because either:
a) you're a rich Tory
or
b) the Tories haven't yet figured out how to take your money and give it to rich Tories

Ich fart auf der Zug (snoball), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:26 (eleven years ago) link

As for myself, I don't have much money, but at least I'm not flat broke ike I was in 2002.

Ich fart auf der Zug (snoball), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:28 (eleven years ago) link

uh...
'flat broke like', I mean.
'flat broke ike' sounds like a mid 20th century Chicago street musician.

Ich fart auf der Zug (snoball), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:29 (eleven years ago) link

Flat Broke Ike wears a turqoise shellsuit and sings songs about how he's the son of god.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:30 (eleven years ago) link

It mostly down to being a homeowner because interest rates have been frozen at nothing for the past few years, which has kept mortgage repayments down. My mortgage repayments were nearly £300 a month more expensive 5 years ago.

But given I have no children and don't own a car there isn't really anything for me to spend that extra money on, so it just goes in the bank. This is the main source of my financial comfort.

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:31 (eleven years ago) link

  • no children/dependants
  • no mortgage
  • no outstanding loans/debts (a bank would have to be massively negligent to lend me money oh wait)
  • don't drink don't smoke (whatcha do-di-do-di subtle innuendos follow must be something inside)
  • no expensive hobbies
  • not particularly bothered with having the latest shiny-shiny tech gadgets

Ich fart auf der Zug (snoball), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:35 (eleven years ago) link

Also, my mortgage is about £400 cheaper than the average price of rents in my neighbourhood. Lack of affordable housing stock is definitely the Tories' fault.

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 08:37 (eleven years ago) link

Absolutely here, tho if you'd asked me even 2 weeks ago I may not have said so. I have a higher salary, a better job, an adorable bf, i've paid down a big chunk of debts recently, and tho I am paying way more rent, it kind of evens out with the other financial/lyfe things, so. I mean to me, money ain't the be all and etc.

frances boredom coconut (Trayce), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 09:02 (eleven years ago) link

wait lol I had the same job 4 years ago haha. well ive had one payrise since then, only the one tho*grumble*.

frances boredom coconut (Trayce), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 09:02 (eleven years ago) link

I am, but that's mainly because I've gone from working in an underpaid 9–5 to being a freelancer, so I'm working much longer hours, and things like new laptops and other computer equipment I can claim as expenses.

Chewshabadoo, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 09:37 (eleven years ago) link

still have the same amount (€0) in my account the day before payday, but it's all going on the basics these days and money is a constant 'thing'. Rent doubled recently and i'm struggling to adjust tbh.

Still taking thrifty trips, vouchered meals out, amn't starving and can afford broadband, and the job is safe so i can p much carry on in an ok way forever.

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 09:53 (eleven years ago) link

i'm not in the US obv but, god yes. i earn literally twice as much as i did then, now, and i am secure in a job rather than on a trainee contract that's about the end.

am i happier? well...

Know how Roo feel (LocalGarda), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 10:08 (eleven years ago) link

about to end*

Know how Roo feel (LocalGarda), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 10:08 (eleven years ago) link

"We're hiring you as a trainee Mayan Year 2012 Endtimes Administrator. It's a short term contract only."

Ich fart auf der Zug (snoball), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 10:12 (eleven years ago) link

i am fucking skint at the moment tho cos i am spening 3k on a diploma. two more months of instalments to go, it's horrible.

Know how Roo feel (LocalGarda), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 10:17 (eleven years ago) link

spending, jesus, ilx is like my lazy typing zone

Know how Roo feel (LocalGarda), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 10:17 (eleven years ago) link

Economically? Definitely, yes, not quite at earning twice as much as 4yrs ago level but not far off. General feeling of having more options as well, which helps.

On an emotional/personal level this is probably impossible to answer. Yes in one significant way, no in another. Would have been a lot worse without the Yes factors though.

Matt DC, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 11:11 (eleven years ago) link

financially : yes.

in every other aspects of my life : no.

mark e, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 11:19 (eleven years ago) link

Joining in "congrats DJP" derail!

Andrew Farrell, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 11:33 (eleven years ago) link

laid off in 4/09, still not making what I was then.

Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 11:34 (eleven years ago) link

DJP and Mrs. DJP will be excellent parents. Many congratulations.

see inlaycard for details (suzy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 12:04 (eleven years ago) link

Yes, thank you Australian exceptionalism economy worringly over-reliant on selling minerals to China.

Architecture & Immorality: The Mr Kelly Story (King Boy Pato), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 12:40 (eleven years ago) link

british people can vote on this, obama is basically world president anyway

iatee, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 12:55 (eleven years ago) link

not until we see his birth certificate that proves he was born on earth

DG, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 12:57 (eleven years ago) link

Despite that, we've still saved enough to take extravagant Asian vacations and adopt a child.

This makes me so happy, congratulations!

NR’s resident heavy-metal expert (Nicole), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:01 (eleven years ago) link

Congrats to DJP!

Better in almost all respects, especially economically, but this mostly nothing to do with either US or UK governments, but more to do with getting to the point in the academic career ladder of a permanent job. Worse only in having sustained a permanently disabling injury (but one which could easily have been much worse).

toby, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:02 (eleven years ago) link

Better economically but only in the sense that I've gotten married and it's been advantageous to file jointly.

Sandy Denny Real Estate (jaymc), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:13 (eleven years ago) link

Also DJP are you adopting a child for realsies?

Haven't done it yet, but yes

DARING PRINCESS (DJP), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:14 (eleven years ago) link

what dan isnt telling you is that that child is l0u1s jagg3r

max, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:15 (eleven years ago) link

omg

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:18 (eleven years ago) link

a) CONGRATULATIONS DAN & J! :D

b) I am hereby officially offering my babysitting services for not yet adopted but hopefully soon to be little Perry. Either that or you must bring child to all future FAPs so I can hang out with it.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:20 (eleven years ago) link

wrong thread

iatee, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 15:40 (eleven years ago) link

And why do you think that's OK?

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 15:40 (eleven years ago) link

Even if it's true?

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 15:40 (eleven years ago) link

OK, no, this will just make me a screaming ball of fury if I carry on, and I'm not doing it at quarter to 5. Just... no.

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 15:41 (eleven years ago) link

Nobody said it was OK.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 15:41 (eleven years ago) link

for the last 2+ years i have actually been working on recovery act grants and am in a much better place job-wise and salary-wise.

hey hey, me too! same story. so my answer is yes, financially. and personally? yes. falling in love helps A LOT.

surprised at the overwhelming number of yes votes. this is the rare poll i'm interested in seeing the numbers.

ou th (anky), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 21:35 (eleven years ago) link

All contributions from 'bank of mum and/or dad' - e.g. towards mortgage deposits - should be declared in your assessments.

Bob Six, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 21:50 (eleven years ago) link

we bailed out that fuckin bank tbph

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 22:21 (eleven years ago) link

lol

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 22:23 (eleven years ago) link

you carry on lollin, i'll type out my latest entry in the family probs thread ;_;

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 22:32 (eleven years ago) link

Deposit for our flat came from my father-in-law.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 06:30 (eleven years ago) link

after 3 years acting up in a role, it is the only one being abolished in a restructure that has been "pending" for 4 years, fu darraghjinx

itt: i forgot that he yells at a butt (sic), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 07:02 (eleven years ago) link

I mean congrats

itt: i forgot that he yells at a butt (sic), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 07:08 (eleven years ago) link

I was just doing my accounts and I'm almost exactly the same as I was four years ago. Which is disappointing because I changed my job and took a big hit to my earnings about six years ago in the hope that I'd be able to build them back rapidly, and more, but it hasn't happened. I can't blame the government or anyone, except myself for being fearful and lacking hustle. I'm about a third down on my peak, so thanks America for not having six-year terms. Even though I'm older, happier, etc that's still pretty rubbish I feel.

Don't self-analyse; don't look back.

Ismael Klata, Wednesday, 5 September 2012 08:39 (eleven years ago) link

That's one for 'only non-economically' I guess.

Ismael Klata, Wednesday, 5 September 2012 08:41 (eleven years ago) link

my bad sic ;_;

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 09:07 (eleven years ago) link

I was going to answer no to this because my wife's been unemployed for just over a year and money is a bit tight, but 4 years ago my wife was also out of work, and that was because she had TB instead of lack of employment opportunities, and I was earning less, so actually we are quite a bit better off.

Colonel Poo, Wednesday, 5 September 2012 09:33 (eleven years ago) link

Financially and in terms of relationships with friends, etc.: much better off. However my health has worsened dramatically so...it's a tossup.

NR’s resident heavy-metal expert (Nicole), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 13:41 (eleven years ago) link

for the last 2+ years i have actually been working on recovery act grants and am in a much better place job-wise and salary-wise.

hey hey, me too! same story. so my answer is yes, financially. and personally? yes. falling in love helps A LOT.

surprised at the overwhelming number of yes votes. this is the rare poll i'm interested in seeing the numbers.

― ou th (anky), Tuesday, September 4, 2012 5:35 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

hey anky, what projects are you working on? i'm working on "communities putting prevention to work" which is public health funding. our city had a visit from biden's office where he toured a bunch of the different successful projects across the city and it was pretty cool.

john zorn has ruined klezmer for an entire generation (bene_gesserit), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 13:47 (eleven years ago) link

anyways - personally, it's a toss up for me because things could be better but i am not unhappy and feel like i've grown a lot as a person (not to be overly sincere).

john zorn has ruined klezmer for an entire generation (bene_gesserit), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 13:48 (eleven years ago) link

i am in basically the same exact place as i was 4 years ago, only i don't really feel as energetic all the time. but not worse off, and content.

i will note that my politically-induced stress/rage/paranoia has been reduced substantially now that we don't have bush years wtf shit happening all the time. i do still wonder whether anyone in the white house will ever talk frankly about how much of the federal budget is being used on private security contractors around the world and why, but that's another story.

me, i'm fine 4 years later.

these albatrosses have no fear of man (La Lechera), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 13:55 (eleven years ago) link

I'm better off. I have an MA now, and no more student debt. Healthier and less stressed-out all the time. Things are okay.

jim, Wednesday, 5 September 2012 14:21 (eleven years ago) link

I'm way better off economically, but only as a couple - I still earn less at my US job after 4 years than what the minimum wage now is in NZ. But Ytth is earning twice as much, working for a young company that maybe wouldn't have survived the recession under a republican president.

just1n3, Wednesday, 5 September 2012 14:40 (eleven years ago) link

nothing has been done about climate change, so we are all worse off, esp you crazy ppl who have just had kids.

Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 14:49 (eleven years ago) link

YES, I'm living my lifelong dream!

*tera, Wednesday, 5 September 2012 14:50 (eleven years ago) link

Morbs (miserably) otm

How's My Modding? Call 1-800-SBU-RSELF (WmC), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 15:03 (eleven years ago) link

guilty lol

these albatrosses have no fear of man (La Lechera), Wednesday, 5 September 2012 15:04 (eleven years ago) link

Absolutely doing better now than four years ago. Better job, no longer living with my father-in-law, published a novel. Of course, my diabetes hasn't gone away, and we're no longer living with the FIL because he died, but still, things are looking up.

誤訳侮辱, Wednesday, 5 September 2012 15:37 (eleven years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Wednesday, 19 September 2012 00:01 (eleven years ago) link

still curious about the results of this

Mordy, Wednesday, 19 September 2012 00:07 (eleven years ago) link

that's because they're not out yet

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Wednesday, 19 September 2012 09:57 (eleven years ago) link

The ilxor demographic is likely to skew more toward "better off" than the USA at large, so it will be hard to read much into it.

Aimless, Wednesday, 19 September 2012 15:33 (eleven years ago) link

Plus as individuals we're all four years further up the ladder - not true of the economy as a whole.

Ismael Klata, Wednesday, 19 September 2012 15:57 (eleven years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll's results are now in.

System, Thursday, 20 September 2012 00:01 (eleven years ago) link


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