are you better off than you were 4 years ago?

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Despite that, we've still saved enough to take extravagant Asian vacations and adopt a child.

This makes me so happy, congratulations!

NR’s resident heavy-metal expert (Nicole), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:01 (eleven years ago) link

Congrats to DJP!

Better in almost all respects, especially economically, but this mostly nothing to do with either US or UK governments, but more to do with getting to the point in the academic career ladder of a permanent job. Worse only in having sustained a permanently disabling injury (but one which could easily have been much worse).

toby, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:02 (eleven years ago) link

Better economically but only in the sense that I've gotten married and it's been advantageous to file jointly.

Sandy Denny Real Estate (jaymc), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:13 (eleven years ago) link

Also DJP are you adopting a child for realsies?

Haven't done it yet, but yes

DARING PRINCESS (DJP), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:14 (eleven years ago) link

what dan isnt telling you is that that child is l0u1s jagg3r

max, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:15 (eleven years ago) link

omg

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:18 (eleven years ago) link

a) CONGRATULATIONS DAN & J! :D

b) I am hereby officially offering my babysitting services for not yet adopted but hopefully soon to be little Perry. Either that or you must bring child to all future FAPs so I can hang out with it.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:20 (eleven years ago) link

In answer to the question - better in every single way but not at all because of the government.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:22 (eleven years ago) link

Haha you can bounce lil Louis on your lap while you reach for your pint

Now I have "French Kiss" stuck in my head

Thx everyone, this has been in the works for a while and we finally decided to move on it in earnest last month. Gonna go back to not talking about it until it's a done deal now.

DARING PRINCESS (DJP), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:27 (eleven years ago) link

Good luck.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:32 (eleven years ago) link

Fantastic Dan, congratulations and best of luck!

Ismael Klata, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:33 (eleven years ago) link

otm

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:35 (eleven years ago) link

congratz dan.

this thread makes me wonder if a) ppl talking in thread are more likely to be ppl who feel they're better off but that ilx as whole is not so overwhelmingly positive (poll results will indicate this i guesS) and b) if ppl who post on ilx maybe due to stuff like internet access / education / literacy better situated to do okay even in times of economic depression.

Mordy, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:38 (eleven years ago) link

for the last 2+ years i have actually been working on recovery act grants and am in a much better place job-wise and salary-wise. 100+ jobs were created at my organization with ARRA funding. iit also gave me some good experience and now that i am looking for a new job i have been getting more responses and interviews. so yes.

john zorn has ruined klezmer for an entire generation (bene_gesserit), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:39 (eleven years ago) link

doesn't seem to say much more than ilx (avg age 33 or something) makes more money than four years ago who knew

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:40 (eleven years ago) link

It helps tbh that I actually finished college and then finished college again in the past 4x years. If I hadn't got my masters I wld be manager at a call center right now. The pay was half what I get now and, you know, the job was manager at a call center.

ms fotheringham (Crabbits), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:45 (eleven years ago) link

I am 33.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:47 (eleven years ago) link

so was Jesus!

a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:48 (eleven years ago) link

I hope everyone is factoring in inflation and the fact that they are four years closer to death

iatee, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:50 (eleven years ago) link

Four years further away for having NEVER EXISTED.

33 is a relatively fortunate age to be in the current climate, a lot of people will have had years of experience of working in a boom, it's a fuck of a lot better than being 21 and trying to get a first job or being in your 60s and seeing your pension evaporate.

Matt DC, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:52 (eleven years ago) link

And crucifixion potential! Don't get INRIed my fren
xp

ms fotheringham (Crabbits), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:52 (eleven years ago) link

ppl in their 30s are overall in a better position but they're also the ones who bought the bubbliest houses

iatee, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 13:59 (eleven years ago) link

huh, update i just got fukn promoted

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:00 (eleven years ago) link

like just now?

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:04 (eleven years ago) link

deems otm

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:04 (eleven years ago) link

this thread makes me wonder if a) ppl talking in thread are more likely to be ppl who feel they're better off but that ilx as whole is not so overwhelmingly positive (poll results will indicate this i guesS) and b) if ppl who post on ilx maybe due to stuff like internet access / education / literacy better situated to do okay even in times of economic depression.

I was definitely thinking b; part of me wonders if an argument could be made that the actual real middle class is better off now than they were 4 years ago but the poor are worse off, although some of that is definitely tied to the myopia caused by my social circles.

Don't get INRIed my fren

this reads like an alternate lyric to "Jumper"

DARING PRINCESS (DJP), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:05 (eleven years ago) link

the actual real middle class ?

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:07 (eleven years ago) link

xps ya i mean i am actually better off than i was twenty minutes ago

All congrats Djp

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:08 (eleven years ago) link

the actual real middle class ?

as opposed to ppl making $250K+/year in their household or people making under $30K/year for more than one person who still get lumped into "the middle class" for political rhetorical purposes

DARING PRINCESS (DJP), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:10 (eleven years ago) link

yeah

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:11 (eleven years ago) link

in the uk ppl would describe the actual real middle class as ppl w/ $250K+/year in their household

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:13 (eleven years ago) link

in ireland it's anybody with a job who actually needs to work

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:15 (eleven years ago) link

No, the real middle class is the people in the middle. The UK average national income is something like £20k. People who want to define "middle class" as £250k+ are just playing semantic games because we have this stupid tradition of thinking of the "upper class" as being only inbred idiots with titles.

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:19 (eleven years ago) link

semantic games

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:20 (eleven years ago) link

in ireland it's anybody with a job who actually needs to work

― Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, September 4, 2012 2:15 PM (4 minutes ago)

so what about the ppl who made bank prior to 2k8 and diversified

ireland is ill suited to having its own native leisure class

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:21 (eleven years ago) link

they're all in portugal tbf

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:23 (eleven years ago) link

luséire class

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:24 (eleven years ago) link

Oh. I've just worked out who "Nilmar" is.

my god it's full of straw (White Chocolate Cheesecake), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:25 (eleven years ago) link

Another UK person here, but three years ago I bought a flat, which 4 years ago I would not have believed would be possible. And as WCC says the interest rate has been low for 3 years so my mortgage rates have been much cheaper than rent.

On the other hand, my 3-year bonus rate on the mortgage just ended, and things like food and bus ticket prices are creeping up faster than my pay. And I last went on a "proper" holiday, where "proper" means not just a long weekend in this country or visiting family in Ireland, in... 2006?

So I feel better off than 4 years ago but worse off than 3 years ago.

(Though really I have not had to tighten the belt, we still eat out and drink too much and get too many takeaways and waste money on shiny impulse buys and buy food which we don't even bother to eat before it goes off. Could really do with learning to budget.)

still small voice of clam (a passing spacecadet), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:27 (eleven years ago) link

Oh. I've just worked out who "Nilmar" is.

feel bad for people who aren't as dumb as me - every few months I meet about a dozen new ilxors, it's amazing, all these new people. eventually people say "oh that's mark" or whoever but if I miss the thread where they say it I will literally never know

we don't wanna miss a THING!!! (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:31 (eleven years ago) link

I seldom have a clue who anyone is if they change their username.

Sick Mouthy (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:34 (eleven years ago) link

i have no idea who nilmar is, where is that one thread

thomp, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:35 (eleven years ago) link

four years ago: recently made unemployed from a job i was overqualified for
now: recently made unemployed from a job i was even more overqualified for

on the other hand, i am now more qualified and can fail on a theoretically broader set of levels

thomp, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:36 (eleven years ago) link

shit i actually thought it was nilmar honorato da silva

Randy Carol (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:37 (eleven years ago) link

ikr

Einstürzende Joebarton (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:38 (eleven years ago) link

i have no idea who nilmar is, where is that one thread

he used to post as 'nude spock'

DG, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:38 (eleven years ago) link

nilmar must be regretting that totally opaque writing style :(

congrats Perrys

itt: i forgot that he yells at a butt (sic), Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:40 (eleven years ago) link

<I>ppl in their 30s are overall in a better position but they're also the ones who bought the bubbliest houses</I>

37 now, didn't buy a house until I was 35, who's laughing now everyone else that's who.

Andrew Farrell, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:48 (eleven years ago) link

$250k a year in their household is like £157k or so, that's a couple of people earning £75k each. That's a fuck of a lot of money for most people but if you looked at the lifestyle it provides, in the South of England particular, a lot of people would think "middle class" or "upper middle class". That says as much about costs vs standards of living as it does about British attitudes to class.

Matt DC, Tuesday, 4 September 2012 14:52 (eleven years ago) link


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