"pro tip"
love bad/good faith - such an important concept
― Mordy, Friday, 22 December 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link
alternatively you're stuck with charitably/uncharitably i think
I was just thinking about "bad faith" strangely enough
As an accusation it stinks of the assumption that the end goal/result has already been decided and the right/wrong line has been drawn
Pretty fucking abhorrent imo but hey
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Friday, 22 December 2017 18:51 (six years ago) link
i think the opposite - accusation of bad faith suggests that the result is not prejudiced bc there's new information to be considered. good faith readings might bring that information to light. bad faith readings assume that the result has already been decided so no new information is worth treating charitably.
― Mordy, Friday, 22 December 2017 19:09 (six years ago) link
No we agree I referred to bad faith
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Friday, 22 December 2017 19:22 (six years ago) link
"beat" as screenwriting jargon
― difficult listening hour, Friday, 22 December 2017 19:30 (six years ago) link
"comrades" as leftist jargon
― crüt, Saturday, 23 December 2017 05:36 (six years ago) link
oh man, yes^
― flappy bird, Saturday, 23 December 2017 05:53 (six years ago) link
nah it's good
― difficult listening hour, Saturday, 23 December 2017 06:17 (six years ago) link
picky tea
― kinder, Saturday, 23 December 2017 09:22 (six years ago) link
have i complained about the "you don't get to..." formulation as a substitute for "you shouldn't do...""you don't get to tell me what i think" etc.― Mordy, Friday, December 15, 2017 2:10 PM (one week ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
"you don't get to tell me what i think" etc.
― Mordy, Friday, December 15, 2017 2:10 PM (one week ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
timely revive of please temp-ban Mordy from the Thatcher Is Dead thread shows that you have!
you don't get to tell me what i think deems― Mordy , Tuesday, September 17, 2013 5:07 PM (four years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalinkwhen i first started hearing that "you don't get to tell me" formulation was pretty formative too― Mordy , Tuesday, September 17, 2013 5:08 PM (four years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― Mordy , Tuesday, September 17, 2013 5:07 PM (four years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
when i first started hearing that "you don't get to tell me" formulation was pretty formative too
― Mordy , Tuesday, September 17, 2013 5:08 PM (four years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― how's life, Saturday, 23 December 2017 12:37 (six years ago) link
comrades is good not bad, it smokes out the class traitors
― mark s, Saturday, 23 December 2017 12:50 (six years ago) link
i'm not saying in which direction
"leftish jargon" is annoying and bad.
― xyzzzz__, Saturday, 23 December 2017 13:08 (six years ago) link
"Solidarity" might be "leftish jargon" but this is also good.
― xyzzzz__, Saturday, 23 December 2017 13:09 (six years ago) link
timely revive of please temp-ban Mordy from the Thatcher Is Dead thread shows that you have!― how's life, Saturday, December 23, 2017 7:37 AM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― how's life, Saturday, December 23, 2017 7:37 AM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
And of course by the principle of 'we mock the things we are to be', I just told my cat 'you don't get to go on the porch - that's not part of your privilege'.
― how's life, Saturday, 23 December 2017 15:13 (six years ago) link
"mom" (ie calling Beyonce "mom")
"my son" (ie the "don't talk to me or my son ever again" meme)
― billstevejim, Monday, 25 December 2017 06:25 (six years ago) link
"Bad faith" needs to be talked about much more, not less
― Dan I., Monday, 25 December 2017 06:35 (six years ago) link
ugh so self righteous though and annoying i hate it
― flappy bird, Monday, 25 December 2017 23:43 (six years ago) link
i can't believe this has never come up on this thread, but i really hate when people (especially well-known musicians, it seems like) say
"_____ really gets me off"
e.g., "contemporary classical music really gets me off", which frank zappa just said in a radio segment i was listening to
― Karl Malone, Friday, 29 December 2017 17:37 (six years ago) link
bleccccch i loathe the insertion* of sexual language/imagery where it doesn't belong. it's disgusting.
* yes i used this gross word on purpose
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 29 December 2017 19:56 (six years ago) link
ime, "getting off" has to do with excitement in general, within which sexual excitement is only one possibility among many.
― A is for (Aimless), Friday, 29 December 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link
I get off on 57 Chevys / I get off on screamin' guitars
― twas in the fleek midwinter (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 29 December 2017 20:06 (six years ago) link
not buying iteven if the usage has expanded, the framework within which "getting off" exists is still a sexual one
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 29 December 2017 20:09 (six years ago) link
Zappa just fooling around there tbf.
― Whiney Houston (Tom D.), Friday, 29 December 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link
people used to say they got "turned on" to records and films and philosophies and stuff. seems like a boomer thing, maybe tied to the 60s sexual revolution.
― AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 29 December 2017 20:11 (six years ago) link
i can't stand it when someone says "turned on" about music eitherit's my uncool conservative belief i guess
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 29 December 2017 20:17 (six years ago) link
turn on tune in drop out
― Mordy, Friday, 29 December 2017 20:23 (six years ago) link
You know what really gets my dick hard? Helping out my friends
― Number None, Friday, 29 December 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link
you shouldn't blow your complaining wad on carnal phrases
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Friday, 29 December 2017 21:14 (six years ago) link
https://media1.tenor.com/images/37461ceac99a26ae325d2faa194c95d7/tenor.gif
― kinder, Friday, 29 December 2017 21:19 (six years ago) link
'shooting your wad' goes back to musketry. the wad was the assemblage of powder, bullet and wadding you rammed in to prepare your musket for firing. once you had shot your wad, you probably didn't have another chance at whatever game you were shooting at, because reloading gave it plenty of time to scram if you missed it the first time.
― A is for (Aimless), Friday, 29 December 2017 21:48 (six years ago) link
one that bugs me is people using the word "penultimate" just to let you know they know ~how to use it right~ like they can't just say second-last or whatever and be CHILL
― flippy bard (Will M.), Friday, 29 December 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link
‘one in the same’ in place of ‘one and the same’ (which they are not)
― estela, Saturday, 30 December 2017 04:42 (six years ago) link
a dude i edit is good but flowery, so
ctrl-f 'in order to'ctrl-f 'within'ctrl-f 'ly-' (sorry we are AP)
― mookieproof, Saturday, 30 December 2017 05:01 (six years ago) link
failson, and especially its verb form
― El Tomboto, Saturday, 30 December 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link
Whenever I think of it I think of Donald Faison
https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/adventuretimewithfinnandjake/images/5/58/Donald_Fasion.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20120401223432
― twas in the fleek midwinter (Ye Mad Puffin), Saturday, 30 December 2017 17:34 (six years ago) link
People misusing “nonplussed” or any word and then being like “well language evolves you know”
― flappy bird, Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:27 (six years ago) link
flappy bird, that begs the question about what we're really disinterested in.
― sympathy for the tasmanian devil (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:29 (six years ago) link
is misuse of nonplussed just due to confusion btwn it and nonchalant? or is it mis-derived somehow from "not plus."
― Mordy, Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link
it's because it kind of sounds like what people think it means
― Number None, Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link
only if plussed meant enthusiastic
― Mordy, Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link
it doesn't have to
― Number None, Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link
or i guess not enthusiastic - just having any kind of reaction? it's a kinda weird association tbh. which makes me think it's maybe just confusion bc of nonchalant which means what ppl seem to think nonplussed means.
― Mordy, Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:51 (six years ago) link
I really don't think it's confusion with nonchalant
I've actually thought about this a lot
― Number None, Sunday, 31 December 2017 17:55 (six years ago) link
This was mentioned above, my pet theory is that it rhymes with "not fussed"
― Bitcoin Baja (wins), Sunday, 31 December 2017 18:11 (six years ago) link
See also ppl thinking "craven" means shameless - this is everywhere these days and I'm pretty sure it's just cause it sounds a bit like "brazen"
― Bitcoin Baja (wins), Sunday, 31 December 2017 18:12 (six years ago) link
Maybe it's something to do with all of the 'un-' words we have denoting passive states.
unconcernedunperturbedundisturbedunimpressedunemotionalunruffledunmoved
If we don't have another meaning for 'nonplussed', we're inclined to hear it as falling in this category.
― jmm, Sunday, 31 December 2017 18:13 (six years ago) link
Like "craven", tv chefs/critics etc using 'unctuous' to mean, idk, attractively oozy rather than just greasy/oily
Nonplussed dates back to Google Plus and means something you couldn't even be bothered to 'plus one' ("like")
― kinder, Sunday, 31 December 2017 19:15 (six years ago) link
also patently/blatantly although I guess that's not so bad as the intended meaning is usually the same
― kinder, Sunday, 31 December 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link