start a victory garden and ration your IRRATIONALLY ANGRY feelings, part 3

xxp yerac bonkers talk

I found Hole to be unlistenable on that tour, SY was majestic both nights I went

and aslo remember ppl w/ poor judgment clearing out after Hole

I like Sonic Youth's music but they are tiresome as fuh live. I think I have left 3-4 shows before their set or after 1-2 songs (I was even with ian one time where we both decided it wasn't worth staying a set change for them to come on because we timed it late and missed Dinosaur Jr and oh well.)

well there's the problem you didn't stay long enough. I do remmeber them closing that Lollapalozza with the face melting Diamond Sea and then encoring w Schizophrenia / White Cross / Teenage Riot. Lotsa cool lights too.

I also sort of remember the whole rest of that lineup sucking except Jesus Lizard

oh, i have never been to a lollapalooza. This was from seeing Sonic Youth so many other times and deciding it wasn't ever worth it again.

Only saw SY once, at a Lollapalooza, and man, it was everything Hadrian mentioned and more.

https://i.imgur.com/svCDjoL.jpg

Also saw Coolio and Yo La Tengo on the side stage, not a combo you see every day.

http://i.imgur.com/v5mORqo.jpg

- "And playing in the Mindfield, kids these days have no idea!"

People who instant message you "Hey I've got a question", then wait for you to respond before asking the question. Just ask it!

No those people are heroes - if you haven't been asked the question you won't feel any pressure to answer it!

agree with latter

a bold and exciting take.

Much worse if they need to do a bunch of small talk before getting around to their request

"Can I ask you a question?"

"You just did."

"Can I just ask a short question?"
"Apparently not."

Also, the people on a recurring meeting's conference call who announce who they are regularly. "This is Mike. I wanted to say..." We work with you, and know your voice, unless you're trying out a Jimmy Stewart imitation.

re: IM, I'll say "Q when you have a moment" to avoid accidentally popping up on their screen and interrupting a (non-statused) presenter. And like Andrew says, to let them answer at their convenience. I work with a number of people whose questions are your immediate #1 priority, and I like to avoid that, if possible.

> to let them answer at their convenience

if you ask the question they can answer it at their convenience. plus they know what the question is 8)

I swear to heaven, swiping through dating apps, for every person who self-identifies as an entrepreneur, there are 3 who identify as an entrepenuer.

just assume it means they are unemployed

indeed entrepenurious

amatuers

Are some of them restauranteurs?

Taking into consideration the accompanying photos, I think some of them may mean "will date for cash"

Re train seats, I always find that "Hi, I hate to be the sort of person who says 'You're sitting in my seat', but..." usually works. On a packed train recently the seat reservations computer display things weren't working, which certain people had interpreted as the reservations being cancelled, that was quite an argument...

I know car stuff deserves its own IR thread, but twice in the last week I've yielded to cars or people who totally have the right of way, but when I'm sitting there waiting for them to move the driver/pedestrian shoots me a look and impatiently waves their arm, like, "aren't you going to go!?" And it pisses me off, because no, I'm wasn't going to go, they have the right of way and I don't want to hurt anyone. So then I'm basically forced to rescind my yield and cut them off, which throws off the rhythm of traffic.

Also, the pedestrian is invariably surprised by you being there to turn at all, because they have headphones on and they're engrossed in their phone and it's a wonder they even look up and notice they're on the curb and about to stride into the street.

anyone who wants to interrupt right-of-way rules to earn themselves a lil karma bell is a dickhead

this x1000

in western MA this is the norm—dummy thinks s/he is being kind to a single driver by stopping to let them in, meanwhile backing traffic up for a dozen cars behind them

People who do this annoy me so much! I love the drivers who stop and wave me on when there's traffic coming in the opposite direction as well.

With the amount of time spent trying to figure out what they're doing, it would have been quicker if they hadn't stopped to let me go.

It is the worst. Ugh.

I love the drivers who stop and wave me on when there's traffic coming in the opposite direction as well.

jfc this happened to me on my bike last week - obviously it's my ultimate responsibility not to cycle in to the path of oncoming traffic but please don't encourage me to.

a very close friend of mine had her life pretty much destroyed in those circumstances.

traffic is too fucking dangerous to be whimsical

I've said it already 1000 times about "friendly drivers", but to see someone from Chicago say this is scary.

then they get annoyed waiting for you to wait for the oncoming traffic to stop to actually get out grrrr

Trousers with fewer than seven belt loops.

Really? I always make mine with 5 which seems to be the right support points. Not really studied it overly but it does seem to work right.
front between pocket and fly, side around where the side seams are and centre back.

I’m a big fan of six loops, but it’s rare to encounter even that many. For decades I’ve semi-often had to remake the centre back loop on otherwise well-wearing five-loop jeans and trousers bcz it’s so load-bearing that it wears through.

I can’t tell if seven seems luxurious or aggressively prophylactic. Three spaced across the back, two by the fly, two perched at the front of the hips?

I prefer one loop, and my belt just hangs from my waist like a coiled bullwhip.

The car thing is otm, it’s so arrogant to think that the road rules are yours to magnanimously dispense with as a favour. Leaves everyone else uncertain as to which rules you’ll be following and which you find optional, i.e. breaks the covenant between road users.

The covenant between road users = above all, behave predictably.

dummy thinks s/he is being kind to a single driver by stopping to let them in

Huh? I would literally never get out onto the main road in rush hour if someone didn't let me out (in). Am I missing something?

There's maybe some situations where this makes sense, like if you are trying to get out of a driveway or parking lot into a street full of busy, slow, non-stop traffic, but in general, cars on a main street should not be yielding to other cars that don't have the right of way because it is unpredictable and messes up the flow of traffic.

exactly

yes - moodles otm

in heavy slow moving traffic it's an understandable courtesy, but stopping free-flowing traffic behind you in order to do this is a decent argument for capital punishment

Well ok then.

Things is, when I'm trying to get out into the rush hour traffic and THERE'S CLEARLY A QUEUE and you (not you folks obv) STILL DON'T LET ME OUT?!? And so you end up with your car stopped in front of me on the main road staring determinedly at the car in front in front hoping I'm not giving you my very hardest Paddington stare (because I am).

in this situation are you indicating?
hate when cars just sit there waiting to be let out but you don't know which way they're going

Your side street must lead eventually to a street where there is a light or stop sign or roundabout or traffic circle that allows you to merge into traffic without relying on hope and the goodness of strangers. You might have to travel east for a block to get west, but it's gotta be there somewhere.

I have made somewhere around 20 or 25 pairs of jeans over the last few years. & most of them have had 5 belt loops which seems to have worked well they are the trousers I wear most of the time.
I just looked at what must be a similar design to the pair that wore out and I have been using the parts of as pattern pieces for what I've made. That has the extra 2 loops on. I think I stopped doing 7 after the first few pairs because they seemed extraneous to need.
So I am surprised that somebody is emphasising that there should be 7 or more. Why do you need more? Do you find the waistband sags at points that don't have the support or something

(I'm guessing the optimum number would differ according to the size of the waistline)

Why do you need more? Do you find the waistband sags at points that don't have the support or something

Yeah. There are sags between the back loop and the side loops on my 5-loop jeans, and I recently got a pair of 7-loop jeans that look and feel much better.

I'm not really angry as such but i dunno what the right thread would be and i can't be arsed to start a new one, anyway there's this "an Orchestral Rendition of Dr Dre" thing and really, fuck off with this shit fffs