start a victory garden and ration your IRRATIONALLY ANGRY feelings, part 3

i realized constant loud opening and shutting of doors over and over drives me insane. not slamming of doors, but my roommate this morning has opened and shut a door audibly about 10 times in the last 5 minutes.

like why the hell don't you just leave the door open if you are going to keep going in and out of it rather than opening and shutting it each time? (it's not the bathroom!)

this is though also the roommate who has left unflushed turds sitting in the toilet 4 separate times....and this dude's my age!

btw I am moving in January and probably getting a place of my own again maybe a house.

people who ask me for help with shit (like my mother), then the moment I ask any follow-up questions, they're nowhere to be found for 30 minutes, so I can't move on until they reply, and my time winds up being monopolized.

going on 40 minutes trying to help my mother find her Federal EIN for her company that she somehow knew 3 months ago but doesn't know now, and it could have been done 35 minutes ago if she'd answered any of the questions I asked.

"legitimate interest"

yet another way to make protecting yourself from tracking almost impossible

fuck yes, where did that suddenly spring from?

if we're talking about irrational though how about 'strictly necessary cookies', no they aren't.

how about i’ve already “confirmed my choices” about a million times on your garbage tracker shit, and your “strictly necessary” cookies that i can’t opt out of might be ABLE TO REMEMBER THAT FACT

what they don't tell you is that if you don't let them save the cookie that remembers your choices then it won't remember your choices.

Pillow cases, duvet covers and anything else that has decorative buttons to fasten closed. What a pain.

seriously I don't have time for this bullshit that's what zippers are for

yeah agree
i have none of that nonsense in my house

Tire pressure monitoring systems. Is there anything more useless in a vehicle? In theory, of course it would be great to be notified when the air in your tire gets low. In practice, in both cars we've owned with this feature, the light comes on whenever the temperature swings more than 20-30 degrees in 24 hours, particularly when it drops in the fall.

OMG, I have steered clear of these threads during my entire ILX lifetime but mine basically doesn't really work at all at this point, but definitely has that problem.

Is there anything more useless in a vehicle?

Yes. My friend has a car with an altimeter. Also, my car came with a low outdoor temperature alert, which I had to deactivate.

they have to be fitted by law in europe and the uk

"Since November 2014, all new passenger vehicles sold in the EU must be equipped with a tyre pressure monitoring system (TPMS)."

"In the UK on 1 January 2015, legislation came into force stating that for these vehicles, an inoperative or faulty TPMS sensor would result in an MOT failure."

Mine has been fixed many times but never gets well.

It makes tires way more expensive to replace. If the sensor is bad, they can just put a normal tire on and advise you to ignore it.

Fortunately, there is an extremely easy fix for the TPMS light being on: place a half-inch strip of electrical tape directly over the TPMS warning light. Voila! You won't see it ever again.

Note: this also works for the "check engine" light, but it is not recommended.

lol

My frustration is that, given the ever fluctuating temps over the course of a Midwestern fall and winter, mine is just constantly on no matter how diligent I am about keeping the tires inflated.

they aren't reliable for that cold air reason, but i'd never cover it up or ignore it because i've been saved twice by it from being on the side of a highway with a flat. then i get paranoid if it goes on from cold thinking that i'll be wrong in my assumption about the cause. can't live with em can't live without em i guess

When it gets cold, tire pressure will go down.

Generally when tire pressure is low enough to be a problem, one can detect that with these things called "eyes." Or by using a normal tire guage.

Time was a man could kick his tires in the street.

i'm not stupid! not if you run over something on the road is what i'm saying

Fair point, harbl.

Mine has two tiers of lights. One that sort of tells you that something is wrong in general with the balance that is always on and then another one that switches on for a particular tire when the weather changes or when the tire is really flat. And yeah, whenever I have to have it changed it is expensive and takes a long time since I take it to the dealership and they have to send it over to the other dealership or whoever it is the actually still fixes it.

Oh yeah, one time I had to go through this as well at inspection time since the two that I hadn't had to change for other reasons already were bald.

One time my tire pressure light went off and i stepped out of the car to look at the left rear tire and there was a bear hiding underneath, waiting for me.

All I could think was "Not again"

Bear say high (pressure) to you?

Slight variations in touchscreen keyboards. I have an iPhone for work, a Sony android phone for personal and a Samsung android tablet. They all have qwerty layouts but accessing shift - alt - ctrl - symbol - emoji type stuff is all different. This means muscle memory messes me up every time I switch devices.

Ugh

AFAIK, the keyboard on all those devices is just an app that can be replaced by a third-party variety which would then hopefully work pretty much the same on all platforms? I've been using Microsoft SwiftKey myself on my last few Samsung phones.

That would mean learning a new keyboard then potentially finding out the apple version isn't identical to the android. I'll just stay irrationally angry.

Today's peeve - when you track your delivery driver to one street away then he fucks off to another part of town.

Ugh.

I’ve gotten into it a little with a couple of delivery guys recently because they weren’t wearing their masks properly and wanted to come in through the inner door past the outer lobby instead of dropping the packages there as instructed. They act hurt that I won’t let them do me this big favor of moving the packages a few extra feet at the cost of a few Rona droplets.

when you're playing Zoom games with friends on Steam and there's a tutorial and half the people talk over the tutorial then everybody complains they don't know how to play.

I hate muscle cars, or really any vehicle augmented to be aggressively loud for no reason. There's a guy down the street who has a Mustang (I think), and him just backing out of the garage sounds like an earthquake.

oh i love aggressively loud classic (esp muscle) cars

but i hate aggressively loud motorcycles or new cars

I love noise

I guess

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylhsbfQTPDQ

Agreed on the loudness hate. Living across from a gas station and just off the main thoroughfare, grateful for my street-side double panes. I don't hate the daytime muffler overcompensation, but the revving and roaring away between 11 p.m. and 5 a.m. - sorry, dude, you're a dick for your self-absorption. I want to pummel your car with a bat.

I'm not sure how irrational it is, but I'm finding myself increasingly angry by people who swat down any "politics talk" because it makes them uncomfortable.

We have a neighborhood email group that is generally pretty quiet, mostly just people asking for specific repair recommendations and the occasional older person complaining about "shifty" characters. This morning a neighbor shared some links to troubling stories about a judge up for reelection on our ballot, which I was thankful for seeing before I voted. But the moderator of the group responded within less than thirty seconds about how this was completely inappropriate and the group "needs to remain free from political discourse" blah blah blah. I don't know, this is exactly the kind of thing I would LOVE to hear from my neighbors, especially if it impacts our community so directly. I'm just so tired of this immediate shaming of any political talk whatsoever.

Maybe there should be a separate neighborhood politics board for the people who want that

I don't love it when people try to avoid politics or act like they are outside politics, but I understand not wanting to shit up neighborhood talk with political animosity.

Yeah I get the point about stirring it up, but I also feel like politely sharing resources and articles is a bit different from shouting about how great your preferred candidate is, but I suppose it's pretty hard to count on Americans not to stick with column A without sliding into column B. I was just happy to have some more resources about local judges which, in a very solidly blue state, is arguably the most important part of our ballots.

some people started a "no rules" discussion group after being told not to talk politics in the neighborhood FB group, and then the mods began kicking people out if they were anti-Trump

because being against something I am for is putting a restriction on my freedom

There's a local hot dog stand down the street that really offers so much more. Great burgers, super sandwiches, an array of sausages, etc. It's run by great people, very generous, and literally everything they make is delicious. Every week since the pandemic began they've been offering a family meal special, essentially a creative comfort food one-off that feeds 8+ people, give or take, for about $65-$75, which is an incredible deal. Of course that's typically too much food for a family of four with two picky teens, so we've only gotten it a couple of times, but they do usually offer the same meal as an an individual serving, too. (For example, this week is the Italian wedding soup, bread, caprese salad, and a big pan of lasagna bolognese, a ton of food, but you can get all that stuff as an individual meal, which honestly feeds two.) So there's that. But then they also have an array of others seasonal items and one-offs, from an incredible pot roast sandwich or meatball sub, so things like a gyro sausage (lamb sausage and lots of the usually gyro components) to a turducken sausage (with stuffing and gravy and cranberry on top) to the Rudolph around Christmas (it's reindeer, with blueberries mixed in the filling). All awesome. And this is on top of the everyday awesome menu which sometimes has its *own* specials. Like $5 burgers one day, buy-one, get-one another day, and so on.

I am irrationally angry because everything is so fucking good, from the fries up, but I just can't keep up ordering from them every single week, let alone every single day. Yet taking a week or two off means missing so much stuff that may not be offered again for months, if ever.

What a bunch of assholes.

nailing the spirit of the thread there

fuck those generous guys and their amazing selection of food

Shopping for a new fridge on an emergency basis, I kept seeing upgrades to "counter-depth fridge" for a more money. I assumed I didn't understand what this was, but, yup, it means you pay more money for a fucking SMALLER FRIDGE just so it lines up with your counter.

Just wait til you see what they charge for not including a handle or the outside of the door i.e. an 'integrated' model

people pay fortunes for fridges that pretend to be regular old warm kitchen cupboards