It doesn't seem to matter how many stories like this get published; the deniers dismiss them and listen to their 'trusted' scam artists. However, here is that Oregonian story, in full:
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Fedor Zarkhin - The Oregonian/OregonLive
In southern Oregon, hard hit by the delta wave, families reckon with loss
Justin Comer wasn’t scared of COVID‑19, until he was.
“Get a vaccine or don’t, I don’t care,” the 32-year-old Roseburg sawmill worker wrote on Facebook in December. “But it’s when people try to tell me what to do that it becomes an issue. We will all get COVID at some point.”
The woman who became his wife that June, Darian Comer, agreed. Both dismissed masking and repeatedly pointed out what they saw as contradictions in public health requirements. Both thought there hasn’t been enough time to see if the vaccine is safe long-term, Darian Comer said.
Nowhere has the state been hit harder during the COVID-19 delta wave than southern Oregon, even as widely available vaccines decrease the death toll in more urban parts of the state.
As vaccines have become widely available, Portland area counties have seen a steady decline in COVID-19 deaths. Portland area residents accounted for about 19% of all COVID-19 deaths in Oregon since July, compared to about 40% of all deaths before the delta wave.
The rural counties of Douglas, Jackson and Josephine counties have seen the opposite. The counties accounted for 27% of all COVID-19 deaths since the delta wave began — nearly three times their share of the population — up from 11% of all COVID-19 deaths through July of this year.
Yet as state and local health officials have worked tirelessly to promote COVID‑19 vaccines, their messages have, in many cases, been ineffective. Mandates have tightened and deadlines have come and gone. With full federal approval, vaccine hesitancy gave way to vaccine resistance in many of Oregon’s rural counties.
The Oregonian/OregonLive sought to shed new light on the decision at the heart of a bitter political divide. We spoke in-depth with families of four people in Douglas and Jackson counties who have lost — or nearly lost — loved ones to COVID-19 and found that for some, even a brush with death isn’t enough to convince a skeptic that vaccines are worth it.
About eight months after writing his Facebook comment in January, Comer and his wife both got COVID-19. He did not survive, dying in an Oregon Health & Science University intensive care unit bed on Oct. 6.
And yet Comer’s wife sees the COVID-19 vaccine much the same as she did before her husband got sick and died, even as nearly 2.9 million Oregonians have gotten vaccinated against the disease.
“If it really worked, people would be lining up to get it,” the 27-year-old Roseburg native said of the COVID-19 vaccine. “You know, nobody wants to get sick. Nobody wants their family members to die.”
HESITATION REMAINS
Southern Oregon has among the lowest COVID-19 vaccination rates in the state and the highest case and death rates since the delta wave came to Oregon over the summer.
Public health officials have long connected COVID‑19 case rates to attitudes towards the disease, especially whether people get shots and follow basic measures like wearing masks.
A key part of public health officials’ battle with COVID‑19 remains public perception. Convince people the disease is dangerous, perhaps more of them will mask up and cases will be lower. Answer people’s questions about the vaccine, perhaps more will decide to get a shot.
In Oregon, as in the rest of the country, that kind of public health messaging has had limited effect, especially after pandemic restrictions became more a symbol of tyranny for the political right than a health measure to save lives. As vitriol grew on both sides of the political spectrum, Oregonians found it harder to decide who to trust.
The COVID-19 vaccine is a touchy subject in Douglas County, so much so that Roseburg resident Diana Gwaltney had to all but corner her husband on a drive to the coast to talk to about it.
As they made their way west down Oregon 38 that August weekend, Gwaltney overcame her own fears about the vaccine and explained why she thought they should get vaccinated: If either of them was hospitalized with COVID-19, the family of three could face financial ruin.
Before the delta wave, both Gwaltneys were on the same page about not getting vaccinated. Then, come around June, people in the grocery store where she works started getting sick, some much more so than others. That’s when she started to see COVID-19 and the vaccine differently.
After hearing her out, 37-year-old Caleb Gwaltney was on board.
“He said that he agreed,” Diana Gwaltney, 52, said, “and that’s when we knew that we were going to do it.”
But, neither of them, in reality, was fully convinced. And, she said, she let life get in the way, until it was too late.
“We just didn’t do it. I mean, that was the last conversation we had about it,” she said. “Before we got sick.”
HOSPITALIZED FOR MONTHS
Diana and Caleb Gwaltney don’t know for sure how they got COVID-19, but they think it was at a dinner with a friend a few weeks later. Everyone hugged, no one wore masks. The day after the gathering, the friend said she tested positive for COVID-19. Then, Diana and Caleb did, too.
Caleb Gwaltney barely survived that COVID-19 infection. He spent nearly three weeks on a ventilator at Oregon Health & Science University. Doctors at one point told his wife to “have that conversation” with the rest of the family about him possibly dying.
And while he is now conscious and, by all accounts, out of the woods, the post-infection ordeal could last his life. Just last week, doctors said he might never be able to use his right foot again because the muscles in it had atrophied while he was hospitalized.
But while she counts herself lucky, Diana Gwaltney seems on the verge of tears when talking about their ordeal.
Their 10-year-old son saw his father in November for the first time since he was hospitalized.
Gwaltney ran a barbecue cart in Roseburg and she is a manager at a Southern Oregon grocery store chain. With the food truck and barbecue smokers parked outside their house, half of their income is gone, Gwaltney said. She doesn’t know how they’ll pay the bills.
But as the family starts to come out the other end of their COVID-19 ordeal, they remain in a community that appears unaffected by what she has gone through.
While she is adamant that her family could have been spared the trauma had Caleb Gwaltney been vaccinated, their experience is not enough for acquaintances to take COVID-19 seriously, let alone consider getting the vaccine that could prevent it.
A work friend was so sick that she told Gwaltney she could barely stand up without passing out, Gwaltney recalled. But she refused to get tested for COVID-19 or go to a doctor because “she didn’t want to be a statistic,” Gwaltney said.
“You know Caleb is fighting for his life,” Gwaltney said to her friend. “And you want to deny this in your mind? Because you just don’t want to believe in COVID?”
Yet Diana Gwaltney remains unvaccinated. She insists she will get the shots soon, she said, and her son is now all but begging to get a shot.
“It’s just my own fear of the unknown that keeps me, honestly, at this point, from going and getting it,” Gwaltney said. “But I’m going to do it.”
RECOGNITION, TOO LATE
The pot of beef, barley and vegetable soup simmered on the stove, filling the Oakland home with the kind of smell Kyle Brown would come to most days of the week, before the 43-year-old contracted COVID-19 and died.
For months, Brown’s parents tried to convince him to get vaccinated. He refused, however, telling his mother that not enough was known about the long-term effects of the vaccine. Conversations over dinner would get testy.
His mother, Diane Brown, would get frustrated. “It’s about your health,” Brown said. “It’s not political.”
He lived just a few blocks away in the town north of Roseburg and had dinner with them every night, after finishing up with work in a garage, where he would build “turbo-chargers” for racing truck engines and ship them off to clients around the country, Brown said.
When he was hospitalized with COVID-19 in August because he could barely breathe, Brown’s father texted him to say it would have been good if he had gotten vaccinated earlier. Brown replied that he had, in fact, gotten a shot of the Johnson & Johnson vaccine the previous month. He just didn’t tell anyone.
But the dose was not enough. After 19 days on a ventilator at Mercy Medical Center, Brown died — one of about 300 breakthrough deaths in Oregon and one of only 10 Oregonians under 50 to die of COVID-19 despite being vaccinated. He had an underlying heart condition that was only discovered at the hospital, Diane Brown said.
The Browns put a miniature replica Model S Tesla on top of Kyle Brown’s urn to honor their son, who had wanted to purchase the electrical vehicle “just to see what makes it tick.”
CHANGING MINDS
The day she announced on Facebook she was pregnant with twins, Libby McDowell, 36, also announced her husband needed help fighting COVID-19.
“This is not how I planned on doing this, but I am currently pregnant,” McDowell wrote Aug. 5. “I cannot do this without him. I need him, I can’t live without him.”
Her husband, Jamie McDowell, was in the Asante Ashland Community Hospital, fighting a severe infection.
The first time Libby McDowell visited her husband after he was hospitalized, they both tried to joke about the situation.
“How did you get in here?” he asked.
“Ain’t no mountain tall enough,” she sang, as he laughed. “Ain’t no river wide enough.”
“They’re turning me into a cyborg,” Jamie McDowell said, pointing the tubes and wires attached to his body.
But then he got serious for a minute, telling his wife he wished he had gotten the COVID-19 vaccine.
“He said he knew he had made a mistake in not getting vaccinated and that he would get vaccinated as soon as they said that he could,” Libby McDowell said.
But even though doctors initially assured her Jamie would be out of the hospital soon, he was not. The 46-year-old stayed on a ventilator for 20 days.
One day, a nurse told McDowell that if anyone was going to make it out of that intensive care unit alive, it would be her husband.
“That was a day or two before he died,” McDowell said. “It still feels really weird to say those words.”
Staff were planning to have him breathe with less assistance from the ventilator. But he became anxious, so they sedated him more fully, this time using a paralytic they hadn’t given him before. The man had a rare reaction to the chemical that stopped his heart, McDowell said nurses told her.
Sitting in the ICU hall, McDowell looked up and saw staff pumping at his chest, trying to bring him back to life. His parents and adult daughters came to the hospital and, about 40 minutes after staff started to try to save his life, it was over.
‘If he had been vaccinated ...’
Even as she grieves, McDowell is finding ways to blame herself for her husband’s death.
“I think about it constantly,” McDowell said. “I think that if he had been vaccinated, he probably would still be here.”
Libby McDowell said she never got vaccinated because she had only seen data showing it was safe when a pregnant woman is in her third trimester. After having a miscarriage earlier this year, she wasn’t going to take any risks. Jamie McDowell, meanwhile, didn’t want to get vaccinated because he was worried about long-term side effects.
“I didn’t push it too much. I wish now that I had,” McDowell said. “But I was also scared. What if he had a reaction?”
Now, McDowell hopes that her husband’s death could make a difference by inspiring others to get vaccinated. Multiple family members and friends have already told her they got shots because of what happened to Jamie.
Her brother, Alex Garecht, had similar reasons for not getting vaccinated as his brother-in-law: He didn’t like people telling him what to do. And he had figured he was young and strong.
But soon after Jamie was hospitalized, Libby starting posting on Facebook about what he was going through. As Garecht read the posts, he decided he had to do what he could to save his sister from going through that with another family member.
“I’ve always just thought, I’m young, I’m healthy — nothing to worry about,” Garecht said. “Jamie showed us different.”
Libby McDowell’s life has been devastated. With twins due in January, the first-time mother moved to Iowa after her husband’s death to live with her mother, who will help raise the children.
McDowell cries as she describes the kind of father she knows Jamie would have been for their daughters. She cries as she says that she will try to be all of that for them.
“I feel like I lost everything,” McDowell said. “I still, sometimes, I just can’t believe that this really happened.”
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