Is the US a dystopia?

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option 3 ftw

imago, Friday, 10 December 2021 20:35 (four years ago)

US perfidy always comes back to tea

rob, Friday, 10 December 2021 20:41 (four years ago)

not really

ciderpress, Friday, 10 December 2021 20:57 (four years ago)

hm sounds like you're either a "no" or "The Beatles" but afaict you can still secretly vote however you wish

rob, Friday, 10 December 2021 21:03 (four years ago)

it's going to take a lot of restraint not to shoehorn this in to thread connections

rob, Friday, 10 December 2021 21:06 (four years ago)

I figured it was what it was for.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Friday, 10 December 2021 21:18 (four years ago)

least serious answer is the correct one

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Friday, 10 December 2021 21:31 (four years ago)

by that you mean "yes"?

Evan, Friday, 10 December 2021 21:33 (four years ago)

oh misread "least" as "last" nevermind

Evan, Friday, 10 December 2021 21:34 (four years ago)

This question is unhelpful and I have no idea why it is being asked.

Van Horn Street, Friday, 10 December 2021 21:45 (four years ago)

Badly trimmed shrub = dystopiary

Jeremy Ironist (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 10 December 2021 21:50 (four years ago)

Dropped the clay - dyspottery

When Young Sheldon began to rap (forksclovetofu), Friday, 10 December 2021 21:51 (four years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jeu3iH0R_GM

So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 10 December 2021 21:53 (four years ago)

I mean, pulling up the forecast today and seeing tornado warnings for Chicago in mid-December doesn't make me not think it's a dystopia.

a superficial sheeb of intelligence (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Friday, 10 December 2021 21:58 (four years ago)

an imagined state or society in which there is great suffering or injustice, typically one that is totalitarian or post-apocalyptic.

not imagined, authoritarian rather than totalitarian and pre-apocalyptic instead of post IMO

so maybe it's not a dystopia but merely dystopic

papal hotwife (milo z), Friday, 10 December 2021 22:21 (four years ago)

dystopic? I dunno. but ilx is def dyspeptic today.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Friday, 10 December 2021 22:26 (four years ago)

I did not remotely intend this thread to be serious, but there's an argument to be made that 1492 counts as the apocalypse

rob, Friday, 10 December 2021 22:30 (four years ago)

Can the apocalypse be local?

Americans rly struggle with not being the world and i think its quite telling tbh

fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Saturday, 11 December 2021 01:10 (four years ago)

let it beatles

hopefully this review helped someone (Neanderthal), Saturday, 11 December 2021 01:13 (four years ago)

Climate catastrophe is going to be pretty universal IIRC.

papal hotwife (milo z), Saturday, 11 December 2021 01:14 (four years ago)

which is v little to do with the point about 1492 is it

fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Saturday, 11 December 2021 01:17 (four years ago)

you can get with dystopia, or you can get with datopia

hopefully this review helped someone (Neanderthal), Saturday, 11 December 2021 01:19 (four years ago)

just throwing this out there but maybe dystopia fans are blind to dystopias

let's make lunch and listen to five finger death punch (Noodle Vague), Saturday, 11 December 2021 02:02 (four years ago)

I dunno I think most fans of the crust punk band Dystopia probably would agree that the USA is a dystopia fwiw

bovarism, Saturday, 11 December 2021 02:19 (four years ago)

let me see, is the US a dystopia.

the republican party is trying to actively KILL a lot of people. let me just see how that plays in the polls

The approval rating among those who voted for [Biden] has dropped from 80% to 69% in the April survey. There have been notable declines among Americans 18-34 and suburban residents, both of whom, in dramatic swings, now register net negative views on the president.

As bad as Biden’s number may be, the polling data for Democrats in Congress is far worse.

Republicans now sport a historic 10-point advantage when Americans are asked which party they prefer to control Congress, holding a 44%-34% margin over Democrats. That’s up from a 2-point Republican advantage in the October survey.

In the past 20 years, CNBC and NBC surveys have never registered a double-digit Republican advantage on congressional preference, with the largest lead ever being 4 pints for the GOP.

“If the election were tomorrow, it would be an absolute unmitigated disaster for the Democrats,″ said Jay Campbell, partner at Hart Research Associates and the Democratic pollster for the survey.

yes it's a full blown dystopia

my hands are always in my pockets or gesturing. (Karl Malone), Saturday, 11 December 2021 02:23 (four years ago)

nah but rich people have never had it better tho

let's make lunch and listen to five finger death punch (Noodle Vague), Saturday, 11 December 2021 02:24 (four years ago)

A 4 pint lead is difficult to overcome tbh. sorry

bovarism, Saturday, 11 December 2021 02:29 (four years ago)

Can the apocalypse be local?

Americans rly struggle with not being the world and i think its quite telling tbh

― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Friday, December 10, 2021 8:10 PM (one hour ago)

I was addressing "the apocalypse" that it could be argued helps to confirm the US as a dystopia, the subject of this important poll. So I guess I do think it can be local, idk, why not? Anyway Columbus never even entered future-US territory, it's more of a symbolic hinge year for everything being terrible from then on

rob, Saturday, 11 December 2021 02:31 (four years ago)

I'd figure most people using the term think in the sense of dystopian science fiction and I kinda think 2021 has quite a few elements that seem like out of such.

earlnash, Saturday, 11 December 2021 02:35 (four years ago)

There's no utopia that's not someone's dystopia, and vice versa.

Infanta Terrible (j.lu), Saturday, 11 December 2021 16:15 (four years ago)

The notion of local dystopias is an interesting one. Could be that there was an egalitarian paradise unfolding just a continent or two over from Mad Max.

Rep. Cobra Commander (R-TX) (Old Lunch), Saturday, 11 December 2021 16:33 (four years ago)

If the US ticks all the boxes- and there's a case- then clearly plenty of very nice places to live in exist besides so id say thats a clear yes

fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Saturday, 11 December 2021 19:04 (four years ago)

Have we ever not been? Slave state — apartheid state — Vietnam/Watergate — Corporate state — Fury Road (2016-present)

a man often referred to in the news media as the Duke of Saxony (tipsy mothra), Saturday, 11 December 2021 22:25 (four years ago)

the people in the mayfield candle factory that collapsed worked 12-hour shifts that paid $8 an hour. 110 ppl were inside. 40 ppl are still unaccounted for. they haven’t recovered a survivor since 3 am. pic.twitter.com/CsIIfLw3Pc

— Tracy Moore (@iusedtobepoor) December 11, 2021

papal hotwife (milo z), Sunday, 12 December 2021 05:12 (four years ago)

it’s legal in kentucky to fire someone for refusing to work mandatory overtime

— Tracy Moore (@iusedtobepoor) December 11, 2021

papal hotwife (milo z), Sunday, 12 December 2021 05:14 (four years ago)

The notion of local dystopias is an interesting one. Could be that there was an egalitarian paradise unfolding just a continent or two over from Mad Max.


This applies to a ton of dystopian fiction I think - first thing I thought of is the handmaid’s tale, where it’s made explicit that the way society is structured in Gilead is different to neighbouring countries. A lot of the classic dys/utopias seemed to involve a traveller ending up in one of these societies (& sometimes returning) & there is no suggestion that the conditions of the society explored are universal

coombination gazza hut & scampo bell (wins), Sunday, 12 December 2021 11:49 (four years ago)

Zardoz is another one. Although The Eternals are mainly a bunch of insufferable bores and their egalitarian paradise is pretty lame, but you wouldn't complain about it if you were being held captive by Charlotte Rampling.

calzino, Sunday, 12 December 2021 13:16 (four years ago)

Slave state — apartheid state — Vietnam/Watergate — Corporate state — Fury Road (2016-present)

We didn't start the fire, etc.

ma dmac's fury road (PBKR), Sunday, 12 December 2021 14:04 (four years ago)

Let's see what all we have...you got this one.

US combined laissez-faire capitalism on it's drug industry and combined with heroin blow-back from the 'war on terror' created the opioid epidemic for fun and profit killing over a million Americans since 1999.

earlnash, Sunday, 12 December 2021 15:21 (four years ago)

Getting back to the topic at hand, Le Guin wrote a book about a moon. Also was there some Cold War global political framework in her gender-bender book? I don't recall.

Climate catastrophe is going to be pretty universal IIRC.

― papal hotwife (milo z), Saturday, December 11, 2021 1:14 AM (yesterday) bookmarkflaglink

which is v little to do with the point about 1492 is it

― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Saturday, December 11, 2021 1:17 AM (yesterday) bookmarkflaglink

It is though (unless I'm misreading). The USA is the biggest historical contributor to the climate crisis. An argument could be made that if 1492 never happened, there would be no global crisis. Same for much of global environmental destruction -- Amazon forest all gone? Thank Ronald McDonald.

recovering internet addict/shitposter (viborg), Sunday, 12 December 2021 18:51 (four years ago)

Local teachers in South Dakota “Dash for Cash” to help their classrooms by fighting over $5,000 in $1 bills while the crowd hoots and hollers. pic.twitter.com/azwGJKhaKU

— Eoin Higgins (@EoinHiggins_) December 12, 2021

mookieproof, Sunday, 12 December 2021 23:29 (four years ago)

they're going to remove that rug at some point

my hands are always in my pockets or gesturing. (Karl Malone), Sunday, 12 December 2021 23:34 (four years ago)

and then charge them for it!

calzino, Sunday, 12 December 2021 23:37 (four years ago)

An argument could be made that if 1492 never happened, there would be no global crisis.

Are we talking a world where Europe never came into contact with the Americas?

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 13 December 2021 10:32 (four years ago)

I can’t live without potatoes

A Pile of Ants (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 13 December 2021 14:19 (four years ago)

-LL McCooljay

hopefully this review helped someone (Neanderthal), Monday, 13 December 2021 15:46 (four years ago)

It would have happened eventually.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Monday, 13 December 2021 16:40 (four years ago)

I can’t live without potatoes

OTM

When Smeato Met Moaty (Tom D.), Monday, 13 December 2021 16:56 (four years ago)

Lol, Neanderthal.

Santa’s Got a Brand New Borad (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 13 December 2021 17:14 (four years ago)

more like a dyslexic quality

budo jeru, Thursday, 4 December 2025 15:38 (two months ago)

It probably sounds more eloquent in Persian

Modollno Kahn (Boring, Maryland), Thursday, 4 December 2025 15:41 (two months ago)

before they ran it through Google translate? probably

budo jeru, Thursday, 4 December 2025 15:42 (two months ago)

Heh

Modollno Kahn (Boring, Maryland), Thursday, 4 December 2025 15:44 (two months ago)

i thought only i could complicate an idea like that maybe i should learn farsi

beige accent rug (Hunt3r), Thursday, 4 December 2025 17:57 (two months ago)

it doesn’t seem that complicated to me, just reminds me of Naomi Klein’s Shock Doctrine

brimstead, Friday, 5 December 2025 00:04 (two months ago)

I think the gist of it is comprehensible.

Modollno Kahn (Boring, Maryland), Friday, 5 December 2025 00:16 (two months ago)

https://i.postimg.cc/rwX9Kpbh/cotton.png

mookieproof, Friday, 5 December 2025 06:49 (two months ago)

https://prospect.org/2025/12/10/for-profit-school-opening-in-for-profit-ice-family-prison/

rob, Thursday, 11 December 2025 14:22 (two months ago)

Mods, please change the thread title to "The US is a dystopia."

il lavoro mi rovina la giornata (PBKR), Thursday, 11 December 2025 14:25 (two months ago)

Beyond Plunderdome: U.S. rolling dystopia thread

paper plans (tipsy mothra), Thursday, 11 December 2025 14:36 (two months ago)

"Far more Americans say they’d like to live in the past than in the future"

45% of U.S. adults say that if they could choose, they would live sometime in the past. That includes 25% who would live less than 50 years in the past and another 20% who would live more than 50 years in the past.

40% of adults say they’d live in the present.

14% say they’d live sometime in the future. That includes 5% who would live less than 50 years in the future and 9% who would live more than 50 years in the future. For decades, researchers have asked people questions about the past and future, including whether life today is better or worse than it used to be. In many cases, the responses tilt toward nostalgia.

Elvis Telecom, Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:06 (one month ago)

I mean, I think that's a pretty common vibe everywhere. The past is, on a surface level, a very comforting place - in the past at least you know there is a future. The future from the perspective of the present - a future not yet lived and at the mercy of everything bad happening right now - is pretty fuckin' terrifying, if you ask me.

I said awfully coy u are. (stevie), Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:11 (one month ago)

white americans want to live in the past, not sure about everyone else

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:14 (one month ago)

I mean, I'm far from nostalgic, for the obvious reasons, but I really do miss the days before we were all perpetually online and meals didn't all cost $20.

Morning Dew key (Neanderthal), Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:24 (one month ago)

i want the climate of the pre-industrial age

Modollno Kahn (Boring, Maryland), Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:27 (one month ago)

people don't know the future. and astonishingly, they don't know the past, either.

tbh i'd like to slap the fuck out of them til they see and admit the present.

look, he's country's own david bowie- deal with it (Hunt3r), Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:31 (one month ago)

i'll take any time hunt3r isn't slapping the fuck out of me

map, Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:32 (one month ago)

lol

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:35 (one month ago)

In a political sense, I guess I miss the era when Pat Moynihan would go get a single malt with Ed Meese or whatever

That sense of courtesy & collegiality is just completely gone these days

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:37 (one month ago)

xp i deplore violence and am weak and ill suited to it. truly apologize.

look, he's country's own david bowie- deal with it (Hunt3r), Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:39 (one month ago)

lol i was just giving you guff

map, Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:41 (one month ago)

check, thanks map. also i'm not sure i see the present that great, working on it. i've got the "living in a crime state now more than ever" blues

look, he's country's own david bowie- deal with it (Hunt3r), Thursday, 18 December 2025 00:42 (one month ago)

now here's some real dystopia

American Academy of Pediatrics loses government funding after criticizing RFK Jr

Cuts, which affect projects focused on issues including early identification of autism, made without prior notice to AAP

The US department of health and human services (HHS) has terminated several multi-million-dollar grants to the American Academy of Pediatrics following the association’s criticisms of health secretary Robert F Kennedy Jr’s policies...

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 18 December 2025 01:15 (one month ago)

When everyone is dead nobody criticizes you

Morning Dew key (Neanderthal), Thursday, 18 December 2025 01:16 (one month ago)

white americans want to live in the past, not sure about everyone else

Was it Chris Rock or Dave Chapelle who said that no black person wants to get into a time machine and go back any farther than about 1980?

Instead of create and send out, it pull back and consume (unperson), Thursday, 18 December 2025 01:20 (one month ago)

That’s was Louie CK

Heez, Thursday, 18 December 2025 07:57 (one month ago)

A school district board in upstate New York is investigating school officials amid accusations that the district may have confined elementary school students inside wooden “timeout” boxes.

Images of the boxes, which resemble tiny padded cells, first spread on social media last week, after a former member of the Salmon River school district school board accused officials of building them to seclude children with disabilities. The images unleashed an immediate uproar in the small district, which teaches about 1,300 children and lies on the border between New York state and Canada.

Andy the Grasshopper, Monday, 22 December 2025 22:04 (one month ago)

oh, and this heartbreaking bit:

One parent of a minimally verbal child said his son told him: “If you are happy or if you are sad, this is the place you have to go to calm down.”

More than 60% of Salmon River students are Native American.

Andy the Grasshopper, Monday, 22 December 2025 22:05 (one month ago)

white americans want to live in the past, not sure about everyone else

― Andy the Grasshopper, Wednesday, December 17, 2025 4:14 PM (two weeks ago)

speaking as a white person, yeah, i did used to want to live in the past

it is kind of weird to realize that my white "privilege" is, in large part, the "privilege" to be an ignorant, miserable person who's a danger to herself and everyone else

btw, hi, i haven't been around much lately, mostly because i've been focusing on spending more time off the internet, partly because i've had writers block, partly because it's increasingly difficult to not accidentally commit sedition

it's like when you go on american radio and it's hard to remember to not say "fuck"

or go on youtube and have to remember to not say "fuck", i guess, cuz then you get demonetized

anyway i'm doing really well actually, personally. as far as america... please don't take my silence for consent or agreement. it's more that, uh, i live in a fascist surveillance state and i happen to be somewhere on the (extremely long) list of that state's targeted groups. i support venezuela's right to self-determination and the venezuelan people.

Kate (rushomancy), Saturday, 3 January 2026 17:45 (one month ago)

A school district board in upstate New York is investigating school officials amid accusations that the district may have confined elementary school students inside wooden “timeout” boxes.

Images of the boxes, which resemble tiny padded cells, first spread on social media last week, after a former member of the Salmon River school district school board accused officials of building them to seclude children with disabilities. The images unleashed an immediate uproar in the small district, which teaches about 1,300 children and lies on the border between New York state and Canada.

― Andy the Grasshopper, Monday, December 22, 2025 2:04 PM (one week ago)

my (public school) first grade teacher used to make girls stand in garbage cans with duct tape over their mouths for talking in class. i mean i guess theoretically she _could_ have done something like that to the boys but she never did. i'm not saying that to excuse or ameliorate in any way what this district is doing. that's just what this reminded me of. no, i don't particularly want to live in the past.

Kate (rushomancy), Saturday, 3 January 2026 17:48 (one month ago)

When I was a kid they had this thing called the "Owl Squad" that was mostly janitors and maybe a gym teacher who would come and drag kids that were acting up or throwing a fit out of the class room

Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 3 January 2026 17:50 (one month ago)

I'm sorry but Trump announcing he's running Venezuela until a transition takes places almost beats the images of MAGA falling over each other on the Capitol 5Y ago, and it's three days earlier in the year. I am amazed at how the guy keeps outdoing himself.

Naledi, Saturday, 3 January 2026 18:32 (one month ago)

One of the elementaries that I went to put kids (including me) into wooden boxes with benches inside when we acted up, as well. I was also spanked a handful of times, and tied to my chair by an older teacher in kindergarten. No, none of this helped me at all.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Saturday, 3 January 2026 18:51 (one month ago)

My sixth grade teacher would put you up against the wall, grab a handful of skin on your neck and lift up until you were standing on your toes, at which point you were expected to answer his line of questioning as to why you were "acting up." Which we all thought was par for the course. In hindsight, that man should have been jailed.

henry s, Saturday, 3 January 2026 20:12 (one month ago)

My grade school at least called yr parents in to witness the paddling. That escalated a bit when my younger sister went through the same grade school, they made the local news when a teacher started putting kids in the hot box (storage closet next to school furnace). Then there was the teacher that threw full cans of Campbell’s soup at the poor kid who was acting up b/c all the kids knew he was getting sexually abused at home. We all saw his Polaroids he brought to school and tried to tell deaf ears.

BlackIronPrison, Saturday, 3 January 2026 20:28 (one month ago)

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What in the Gestapo is going on in Grand Rapids?

Watch this activist get arrested *mid-interview* for speaking out against U.S. action in Venezuela.

https://bsky.app/profile/brandonfriedman.bsky.social/post/3mbotdcbjsc2q

rob, Monday, 5 January 2026 19:12 (one month ago)

that's fucked up!

Andy the Grasshopper, Monday, 5 January 2026 19:24 (one month ago)

Whoa

Xpost

Clever Message Board User Name (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 5 January 2026 21:28 (one month ago)

Awful teachers and schools

Clever Message Board User Name (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 5 January 2026 21:29 (one month ago)

And that Bluesky post, jfc

Clever Message Board User Name (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 5 January 2026 21:29 (one month ago)

three weeks pass...

The Kill Line: What America looks like on Chinese social media

In the latter half of 2025, a phrase began circulating widely on Chinese social media: “The Kill Line” (杀线). It is not a slogan invented by policymakers or academics, nor a meme meant purely for ridicule. It is a sharp, unsettling, and revealing metaphor used by ordinary Chinese commentators to describe how American society appears from the outside. The Kill Line names an invisible threshold in the United States: a point at which a single shock, medical, financial, or legal, can push an otherwise productive middle-class citizen into irreversible collapse.

From within the U.S., this reality is often discussed in fragmented terms: healthcare reform, student debt, housing affordability, gig work, or income inequality. From outside, however, these fragments cohere into a single systems-level diagnosis. The American Social Contract, Chinese observers argue, has an unusually high ceiling and an exceptionally lethal floor. You can rise spectacularly, but you can also fall so fast, and so far, that there is no meaningful way back. You can work hard and do everything “right” just to have one disruption kick you to the gutter.

What shocks many Chinese audiences is not that inequality exists; China is no stranger to inequality, but that the American system appears to tolerate extreme fragility among people who are otherwise working, educated, and contributing to society. A layoff that coincides with illness. A rent increase layered atop childcare and student loans. A credit score collapse triggered by a few missed payments. A modest car repair. In these narratives, the Kill Line is crossed not through moral failure or laziness, but through ordinary life events that happen to everyone. Once crossed, institutional responses shift from support to punishment: fees, penalties, loss of access, legal exposure. The system stops absorbing shocks and begins amplifying them.

This framing resonates because it clashes with the mythology of American resilience that has long dominated global imagination. For decades, the U.S. projected an image of dynamism, opportunity, and self-reinvention. Anyone who works hard can achieve the American Dream. Total social mobility. The Kill Line metaphor suggests something else: a society optimized for efficiency and growth, but stripped of redundancy, forgiveness, and slack. In engineering terms, it is a system without safety factors. In human terms, it is a system that treats normal life events as personal failures rather than structural inevitabilities.

Chinese commentators frequently contrast this with what they call a “hard floor” at home. This is not nostalgia or propaganda; Chinese users are often brutally honest about corruption and inequality in their own country. Instead, it is an acknowledgment that family networks, state healthcare, and basic housing options still provide a buffer against total freefall. Life may be constrained, but annihilation feels very unlikely. In China, you can lose your job, but you will not be evicted from your home, lose healthcare, or go hungry. The comparison is not about which system is “better,” but about where risk is carried: collectively or individually.

Americans can learn from this external perspective is not a list of policy prescriptions, but a reframing of the problem itself. The Kill Line exposes how deeply American culture has internalized the idea that survival must be earned continuously, without interruption. It reveals how quickly empathy collapses once someone falls out of productivity. It shows how social trust erodes when people know that one misstep can erase decades of effort.

Perhaps most importantly, it highlights how invisible this precarity has become to those living inside it. When instability is normalized, it no longer registers as a design flaw; it feels like the weather. But to outside observers, the design is obvious. A society that cannot absorb ordinary human misfortune is not merely unequal; it is brittle and weak. And brittle systems do not fail gradually. They fail suddenly.

The Kill Line is not a prophecy of American collapse. It is a mirror. It reflects how the U.S. now appears to many watching from abroad: wealthy, innovative, and powerful, yet strangely indifferent to the survivability of everyday life. If Americans are willing to take this external critique seriously, it could open space for a deeper conversation about what it means to design a society that allows people to navigate ordinary life events without crossing a lethal kill line.

Elvis Telecom, Wednesday, 28 January 2026 01:15 (two weeks ago)

that roundup itself has the offputting whiff of AI but i never knew about this phrase? meme? pov? before so thank you

Tracer Hand, Saturday, 31 January 2026 22:33 (two weeks ago)

Resonates for me

survival must be earned continuously, without interruption

Two years ago I was unemployed and rapidly dying at Georgetown Hospital. I did a phone interview for a job while in intensive care and recovering from covid. Because mortgage, because kids, because college.

I mean, my ending was a happy one in that I got a liver, got that job, and the kid's in college. And my family did a whole It's a Wonderful Life "George Bailey? In trouble?" thang.

But I do wish that yawning terror - the bills won't stop arriving - hadn't been a factor.

calmer chameleon (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 1 February 2026 00:28 (one week ago)

YMP i have nothing but sympathy and respect for that track. damn, you earn it all. peace, and be well.

madame defarge supporters club (Hunt3r), Sunday, 1 February 2026 17:00 (one week ago)

Thanks Hunt3r, it's only in retrospect that one has room for the "to what extent does this reflect dystopia" Or what does this situation say about society?" In the moment it's all just the shiz one is going through.

And I try not to make every topic all about my transplant journey or begin too many sentences with "as a survivor of..."

Interesting that it takes an external perspective to put a name to this bind - that China has a phrase for it and we kinda... don't.

calmer chameleon (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 1 February 2026 17:07 (one week ago)

chinese social media users otm.

treeship., Sunday, 1 February 2026 17:15 (one week ago)

yeah. a not infrequent and amazing part of my recovery experience consists of me sharing something of my own frustrations or wins, and being impressed or astonished by the experiences shared back to me. these are people with whom i am a bit familiar, and their strength and endurance and courage does humble me. i can only thank them for sharing, and state my admiration— so often, i do. many people are so very amazing, and i probably have no idea.

madame defarge supporters club (Hunt3r), Sunday, 1 February 2026 17:29 (one week ago)

feel that. my PT, whom i mainly see for sports-specific issues, had a similar issue as i did last summer (blocked intestinal tract), but he was in the ICU for two days and they were sure he was going to die. we commiserate in a totally different way now— one of the things that happens is solidarity and mutual admiration for the resilience of such people.

anyway i admire you both!! and yes, Chinese social media users otm

a tv star not a dirty computer man (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 February 2026 20:14 (one week ago)

likewise, ty

madame defarge supporters club (Hunt3r), Sunday, 1 February 2026 20:37 (one week ago)


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