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Tbh you could say that itt and might not meet resistance

linoleum gallagher (Neanderthal), Monday, 24 July 2023 01:10 (two years ago)

haha, i didn't want to bum anyone out on there!

scott seward, Monday, 24 July 2023 01:17 (two years ago)

but apparently i still needed to get the thought out somewhere...

scott seward, Monday, 24 July 2023 01:17 (two years ago)

because yeah kid creole is no joke, but you clarified and i think u all correct.

jk no idea what u refer to here. the mysteries of the PYHSTAADNTP thread continue

toenail fungus (Hunt3r), Monday, 24 July 2023 01:30 (two years ago)

i was listening to kid creole earlier today on the hi-fi! I, Too, Have Seen The Woods from 1987. on vinyl. sounded nice. very dense.

scott seward, Monday, 24 July 2023 01:47 (two years ago)

these “anti city” country songs seem to express jealousy of city people.. like “we do things a little different round here”, uh no you dumbass you’re doing the same stupid white people shit you’ve been doing forever.

brimstead, Monday, 24 July 2023 15:02 (two years ago)

no no no YOU'RE the one who is insecure ya city-slicker! Why don't you just relax a bit and leave your big city job, return to your home town for christmas, reconnect with an old fling that never left, put on a matching sweater and fall in love and leave all that city business behind!

But his face would not turn into hot Kirby (Evan), Monday, 24 July 2023 15:12 (two years ago)

Try that in a small public toilet

linoleum gallagher (Neanderthal), Monday, 24 July 2023 15:13 (two years ago)

you couldn't release Bob Roberts now because it's milder than the real stuff it's supposed to be satirising.

the world is your octopus (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Monday, 24 July 2023 15:14 (two years ago)

Camaraderie, one of the central features of our current cultural moment is that reality surpassed satire in approximately 1999.

Satirists cannot conjure up absurdity as fast as the world produces it. You can't do satire in a world where actual events are more absurd than a satirist can think of.

Then reality (not content with its victory over satire) decided to press the accelerator in 2015, and hasn't looked back.

This is part of why everyone loves to say SNL isn't funny anymore (kids, offa my lawn; old man yells at cloud, etc.)

Some people call me Maurice Chevalier (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 24 July 2023 15:31 (two years ago)

These murderers should be in jail. Those other ones should be released.

xyzzzz__, Monday, 24 July 2023 15:35 (two years ago)

Complain and complain and complain and complain and complain

Let's talk about local tomatoes (Noodle Vague), Monday, 24 July 2023 16:11 (two years ago)

the next bob roberts would probably be someone more like tom macdonald (the alt right rapper) though presumably much more talented and better groomed

your original display name is still visible (Left), Monday, 24 July 2023 19:33 (two years ago)

hopefully not ye

your original display name is still visible (Left), Monday, 24 July 2023 19:35 (two years ago)

i took that personally for a minute but blame booze

Let's talk about local tomatoes (Noodle Vague), Monday, 24 July 2023 19:55 (two years ago)

maybe when trump is in jail and desantis has given up, the gop will settle for lil dicky in 2024

the world is your octopus (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Monday, 24 July 2023 21:28 (two years ago)

probably big dick energy is required for success tho

sarahell, Tuesday, 25 July 2023 18:30 (two years ago)

sometimes reading this and other threads i get the feeling that there's an enormous class gulf on ilx that some posters are not even remotely aware of

budo jeru, Wednesday, 26 July 2023 21:49 (two years ago)

what posts in particular give you that idea (I'm sure there is a gulf on ILX just as there is in any other online place)

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 21:53 (two years ago)

if i'm not mistaken, everyone on ilx makes at least 100k + bennies.

scott seward, Wednesday, 26 July 2023 22:41 (two years ago)

sometimes reading this and other threads i get the feeling that there's an enormous class gulf on ilx that some posters are not even remotely aware of


“do you know how expensive california is”

why yes, i lived in a truck for four years in order to survive, all while working full time and showering etc at the gym or in the local river.

the class divides on here are wild, not talked about, really frustrating to deal with sometimes.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 22:54 (two years ago)

what is your average yearly income (after taxes)?

c u (crüt), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 23:03 (two years ago)

Wish I could make over 100k and still post on a messaging board regularly

hrep (H.P), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 23:30 (two years ago)

Hell, I’d even settle for 50k

hrep (H.P), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 23:30 (two years ago)

I’m kidding, I don’t actually wish that and am very happy with my current financial position (besides wanting some more money to trade in my motorbike for a proper car, we’ll get there)

hrep (H.P), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 23:31 (two years ago)

i mean not to get to the very nub of it by asking in the most gauche terms possible but if by class divide do we really just mean spending money baby?

id imagine lots of ilxors have changed class through their 20s, 30s or whatever decades they have been posting on the site if so

Ár an broc a mhic (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 23:37 (two years ago)

when i look at the menu, i'm like "the prices don't matter to me, i could pay for all of the items together if i wanted", but i don't want to eat that much food so i'll just have the toast and a bottomless mug, please

z_tbd, Wednesday, 26 July 2023 23:56 (two years ago)

xp yeah i was thinking abt this this morning. i feel a very strong sense of anger about class system from both uk and us ilxors, but i think they’re talking about different things. class is much more fluid in usa i think

speaking for myseld, i make over 10x as much as i did when i started posting ($6.25/hr min wage)

the late great, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:09 (two years ago)

this is to say i think when usa ilxors talk abt class they are talking abt wealth, which i don’t think is actually anything like an actual class system (with peerage etc)

the late great, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:11 (two years ago)

otm

There used to be an idea of "old money vs. new money," but I don't think that's as prevalent any more.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:12 (two years ago)

I think Old vs. New probably still exists, but I don't circulate in those rarefied airs

Wasn't that Trump's whole insecure beef with the East Coast establishment? That he was considered trash from Queens and never invited to parties in the Hamptons, etc.

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:16 (two years ago)

i mean that exists now where i live in california. because of rising property values locals whose families own homes become old money, meanwhile ppl moving here from other places might be wealthy but their money doesn’t go as far because they’re not already settled and trying to buy into a crazy market. not to mention the craziness our prop 13 property tax system creates

but that’s pretty different than “you own an estate in malibu forever if you’re duke of santa monica”

the late great, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:17 (two years ago)

class is much more fluid in usa i think

It's not easy to pull together data to resolve this question, because a good study requires reliable data spanning multiple generations of individuals and their offspring, and census data about such economic matters is anonymized at the individual level. But the one study I've read about concluded that mobility between economic classes in the USA is fairly stagnant and not much different than the UK. What fluidity there is in the USA seems less about actual economic and social mobility than our having more laxity and latitude in our social attitudes about class.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:28 (two years ago)

i mean much more than spending $

the impulse to swoop in and swat the problem away is part of what makes it annoying

budo jeru, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:28 (two years ago)

the latter part of that post is v unclear to me tbh

Ár an broc a mhic (darraghmac), Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:30 (two years ago)

Add: The GI Bill probably did more for class mobility than any other event in US history.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:30 (two years ago)

class is interesting, the difference between what "class" means in UK / US could be an interesting discussion

what's annoying is to say "you're not talking about class, you're talking about wealth" when i didn't even specify what i was referring to

budo jeru, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:32 (two years ago)

thank you aimless for referencing one (1) study which i will take with one (1) grain of salt

the late great, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:35 (two years ago)

i’m already discouraged from looking into it further because of the issues you described so we’ll agree that because the question is too difficult to resolve i’m not wrong and you’re not right

the late great, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:36 (two years ago)

I would assume most people are talking about wealth tbh … I mean we can discuss Bourdieu and cultural capital but that is less politically relevant nowadays and is closer to rolling hipster studies

sarahell, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:37 (two years ago)

I don't know a whole lot about the UK class system, but it's almost 'caste' related, yeah? Like, you might be a wealthy footballer or rock musician but we can still hear your accent and you're not fooling anyone

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:40 (two years ago)

i must have missed where anybody told anybody else they were talking about anything tbh but in defence of whomever stands accused there you're kinda half posting what you mean tbf

now tbf tbf this is ofc the exact thread for that and no onus accrues etc

Ár an broc a mhic (darraghmac), Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:42 (two years ago)

It’s the 21st century, when does class not mean wealth? I am obviously a few galaxies away from these circles, but I would imagine the multi-millionaire soccer player is not quite concerned about not having the invite to the Hampton, nor am I sure they’re not even getting invitations? If there’s no power in class divide aside from wealth, is there really class divide? Obviously royal families/major political figures are the exception.

hrep (H.P), Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:55 (two years ago)

I am speaking about something I know nothing about, but this something concerns 0.000000000000000001% of the population, whereas wealth differential defines the rest of the whole. From this, it makes sense to consider class difference and wealth difference as practical synonymous these days

hrep (H.P), Thursday, 27 July 2023 00:57 (two years ago)

xp at dmac: yeah, exactly! lol

budo jeru, Thursday, 27 July 2023 01:02 (two years ago)

Not sure that's true... I could win the lottery with $18 million dollars, squander it on fast cars and boats.. and not experience any class mobility whatsoever

Whereas some Yale alumni from Maryland may not have $18 million in cash, but he has family capital, perhaps land.. and he'll always be upper crust

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 27 July 2023 01:02 (two years ago)

Difference between wealth and money. You can have less money in the bank account than someone, but if you’ve got a mortgage on a nice piece of land with a bunch of equity in and they’re still renting, you’d be the wealthier one. Wealth is about more than the bank account, but the lottery winner’s got a better chance than anyone else of transferring that cash to some more lasting wealth if they’ve got some financial-smarts behind them

hrep (H.P), Thursday, 27 July 2023 01:09 (two years ago)

Sorry for thinking out loud things that are obvious to most, but yeah I probably had it wrong. The footballer, if all he does is buy a nice house, some boats, store enough money in the bank to have a few of his generations never have to work, is probably of a different class to a capitalist who with the same amount of money, buys a 1000 properties to rent/businesses to be run.

hrep (H.P), Thursday, 27 July 2023 01:13 (two years ago)

"i mean that exists now where i live in california. because of rising property values locals whose families own homes become old money, meanwhile ppl moving here from other places might be wealthy but their money doesn’t go as far because they’re not already settled and trying to buy into a crazy market. not to mention the craziness our prop 13 property tax system creates"

this is true, but it's also misleading since just because someone has a lot of equity in their house, it doesn't mean it necessarily does them any good. I have plenty of neighbors who probably own their homes outright with no or low mortgages in an area that is increasingly expensive; but they don't have any money. they are old and retired and their houses are falling apart. are they upper class? I don't think so. Are they 'wealthy"? on paper I guess.

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Thursday, 27 July 2023 01:19 (two years ago)

correct

i grew up in one of those rarefied environments - which are themselves diverse in a way, he likely has a neighbor who is -1.8M in the hole and another with +1.8Bn - and it’s like a revolving door around here.

90% of my friends from school don’t live here anymore, but even allowing for the fact i was hanging w hipsters who all fled to oakland or chicago or paris or portland, it’s just well known that there’s a lot of turnover. i think native portlanders might be able to relate!

land isn’t capital unless you’re doing something with it, and investing is risky. a lot of people made and lost a lot of mortgage money here. so if we’re going to associate class with geography, then that makes it look fluid to me!

the other thing that occurs to me is how geography itself (even capital) is not fixed. the neighborhood where i grew was a long street of edward hopper beach cottages, some from the 1940s, with huge front yards. this is capped with brady bunch single level ranch homes at each end. they tore down all of the cottages and built huge disgusting mcmansions that fill up the entire lot to the very edge, so it’s all “private space”. they cut down a bunch of old trees lining the road too, so they can look out i guess, while still being private

that’s what happens when they build a biotech investment hub in the big empty space between you and the rest of town, i guess!

the late great, Thursday, 27 July 2023 01:23 (two years ago)


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