i miss having great aunts who would call me "ducks". who calls you ducks anymore?
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 14:02 (eleven months ago) link
Try watching Coronation Street
― The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Friday, 27 October 2023 14:05 (eleven months ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1BOBK8iBQU
― The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Friday, 27 October 2023 14:06 (eleven months ago) link
Yeah anywhere in Derbyshire gives you a solid chance of being called duck
― Tim, Friday, 27 October 2023 14:21 (eleven months ago) link
Not “ducks” though, tbf
― Tim, Friday, 27 October 2023 14:22 (eleven months ago) link
it might have been duck. i just remember it as ducks.
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 14:28 (eleven months ago) link
it must have been duck, but it's over now
― real warm grandpa (Neanderthal), Friday, 27 October 2023 14:29 (eleven months ago) link
The only person who ever called me ducks was a former/erstwhile ilxor and I had no idea what she was talking about at the time and wondered why she was calling me ducks. It did not annoy me I just didn’t get it.
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Friday, 27 October 2023 14:31 (eleven months ago) link
I have definitely come across old English ladies calling people "ducks" in books or movies.
― read-only (unperson), Friday, 27 October 2023 14:31 (eleven months ago) link
i had an aunt with a shanghai china british private school accent from the early 20th century. she looked like douglas macarthur. she was friggin' awesome.
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 14:31 (eleven months ago) link
dougs
― close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Friday, 27 October 2023 14:42 (eleven months ago) link
I don't know if there's a thread for "words that people don't use much any more" but the proliferation of the word "foodie" seems to have died considerably since the pandemic
― ...eh you get the gist of it (dog latin), Friday, 27 October 2023 15:06 (eleven months ago) link
RIP
― immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 15:12 (eleven months ago) link
bullshit word. everyone likes food. we don't need a word for people who claim to enjoy it on a higher level because they have (or pretend to have) enough disposable income to throw at every new food fad
― Left, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:14 (eleven months ago) link
i kinda hated when every american on social media got gutted when there fave rock star died. nobody here ever got gutted before the internet. i blame ilx. also it just makes me think of fish. and freddie kreuger.
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:32 (eleven months ago) link
I just call food, fuel. I’m a fuelie.
― Jeff, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:33 (eleven months ago) link
"Cringe" is not a goddamn adjective! It's a verb! Use it right!
― Hongro Hongro Hippies (Myonga Vön Bontee), Friday, 27 October 2023 15:36 (eleven months ago) link
I hate when people say "there are no words." Of course there are! You just said them!
― henry s, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:37 (eleven months ago) link
yeah "gutted" is annoying and I associate it with the british and hyperbole, personally; it's akin to calling everything "brilliant". why go to these extremes.
― I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Friday, 27 October 2023 15:39 (eleven months ago) link
"Incredible" is also incredibly overused, to the point of meaninglessness.
― immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 15:47 (eleven months ago) link
gutted is fucking brilliant in the right context nothing else works
the more recent use cringe as adjective or noun is fascist and I hate it so much. it's based on a contempt for "weakness" and any hint of nonconformity and all the usual right wingntargets. leftists adopting it is a total capitalulation to fascism
― Left, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:49 (eleven months ago) link
*right wing targets
― Left, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:50 (eleven months ago) link
cringe
― close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Friday, 27 October 2023 15:51 (eleven months ago) link
i had no idea that "sketch" went back to the 70s! i thought it was a millennial invention.
https://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/31/magazine/31FOB-onlanguage-t.html
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:55 (eleven months ago) link
right wing people don't own "cringe" it's just a term that is commonly used to bully and lots of bullies are right wing, simple as that
― Evan, Friday, 27 October 2023 15:57 (eleven months ago) link
― sarahell, Friday, 27 October 2023 16:35 (eleven months ago) link
It’s more about a lack of self-awareness, which I can see being weaponized by assholes but I also see in a “punching up” context
― sarahell, Friday, 27 October 2023 16:38 (eleven months ago) link
I' m familiar with any modern usage. When I was younger people said "What's the sketch" to mean "What's going on".
― The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Friday, 27 October 2023 16:55 (eleven months ago) link
.. unfamiliar, that is.
― The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Friday, 27 October 2023 16:56 (eleven months ago) link
sarahell otm
― hat trick of trashiness (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 27 October 2023 16:59 (eleven months ago) link
'hella sketch' is something I'll occasionally utter
― Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:03 (eleven months ago) link
my niece and nephew use cringe and they're woke as hell
― the absence of bikes (f. hazel), Friday, 27 October 2023 17:07 (eleven months ago) link
do they say 'Cheugy' as well?
― Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:09 (eleven months ago) link
We said "sketchy," not "sketch."
― immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 17:24 (eleven months ago) link
creepazoid should make a comeback.
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:27 (eleven months ago) link
"spooky season"
― Tracer Hand, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:58 (eleven months ago) link
like i know you have a marketing calendar to fill but it's not real, it's not a thing, halloween exists and then it doesn't, that's it
― Tracer Hand, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:59 (eleven months ago) link
I actually like that one. I am generally fond of the word "spooky."
― immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 17:59 (eleven months ago) link
i do like silly season.
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:03 (eleven months ago) link
the whole endless halloween thing though...i'm sure there's a thread about it. my theory about endless holidays is that nobody goes to church anymore. same with disney worship and marvel worship. people gotta pray to something. they are a prayerful species.
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:04 (eleven months ago) link
star wars more fun than jeebus anyway. (my friend's professor father driving us back from empire strikes back going on about the parallels to the holy trinity and zzzzzzzz....we were like omg light sabers.)
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:06 (eleven months ago) link
either that or it's just about selling shit to the rubes
― Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:28 (eleven months ago) link
I hope you threw him out of the car.
― immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 18:29 (eleven months ago) link
i kind of want to do a Star Wars vs Jesus poll but i kinda don't
― no gap tree for old men (Noodle Vague), Friday, 27 October 2023 18:34 (eleven months ago) link
"creepazoid should make a comeback."
I never stopped using that one
― vodkaitamin effrtvescent (calzino), Friday, 27 October 2023 18:37 (eleven months ago) link
"either that or it's just about selling shit to the rubes"
same thing! tithing vs. limited-edition wolverine doll
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:41 (eleven months ago) link
i went to yankee candle flagship store here in deerfield once. holy crap. it was nuts. they make so much money. tons of christmas stuff but also dragons. i can't imagine spending lots of money on xmas stuff or halloween stuff.
― scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:45 (eleven months ago) link
lol we went there right after visiting your shop. It was extremely intense.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 27 October 2023 19:02 (eleven months ago) link
Also, I use sketchy/sketch all the time and have since I was a teen. I thought that was universal!
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 27 October 2023 19:03 (eleven months ago) link
I have no explanation for why I hate it so much but “turnabout is fair play” just annoys me. It’s not about the meaning, either.
Also “______ much?”
― just1n3, Friday, 27 October 2023 19:35 (eleven months ago) link