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the more recent use cringe as adjective or noun is fascist and I hate it so much. it's based on a contempt for "weakness" and any hint of nonconformity and all the usual right wingntargets. leftists adopting it is a total capitalulation to fascism


No not really… I see it used more to describe someone or something trying to be something they are not … like white people acting black or older people in “hello fellow kids” mode

sarahell, Friday, 27 October 2023 16:35 (one year ago) link

It’s more about a lack of self-awareness, which I can see being weaponized by assholes but I also see in a “punching up” context

sarahell, Friday, 27 October 2023 16:38 (one year ago) link

i had no idea that "sketch" went back to the 70s! i thought it was a millennial invention.

I' m familiar with any modern usage. When I was younger people said "What's the sketch" to mean "What's going on".

The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Friday, 27 October 2023 16:55 (one year ago) link

.. unfamiliar, that is.

The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Friday, 27 October 2023 16:56 (one year ago) link

sarahell otm

hat trick of trashiness (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 27 October 2023 16:59 (one year ago) link

'hella sketch' is something I'll occasionally utter

Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:03 (one year ago) link

my niece and nephew use cringe and they're woke as hell

the absence of bikes (f. hazel), Friday, 27 October 2023 17:07 (one year ago) link

do they say 'Cheugy' as well?

Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:09 (one year ago) link

We said "sketchy," not "sketch."

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 17:24 (one year ago) link

creepazoid should make a comeback.

scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:27 (one year ago) link

"spooky season"

Tracer Hand, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:58 (one year ago) link

like i know you have a marketing calendar to fill but it's not real, it's not a thing, halloween exists and then it doesn't, that's it

Tracer Hand, Friday, 27 October 2023 17:59 (one year ago) link

I actually like that one. I am generally fond of the word "spooky."

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 17:59 (one year ago) link

i do like silly season.

scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:03 (one year ago) link

the whole endless halloween thing though...i'm sure there's a thread about it. my theory about endless holidays is that nobody goes to church anymore. same with disney worship and marvel worship. people gotta pray to something. they are a prayerful species.

scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:04 (one year ago) link

star wars more fun than jeebus anyway. (my friend's professor father driving us back from empire strikes back going on about the parallels to the holy trinity and zzzzzzzz....we were like omg light sabers.)

scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:06 (one year ago) link

either that or it's just about selling shit to the rubes

Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:28 (one year ago) link

I hope you threw him out of the car.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 27 October 2023 18:29 (one year ago) link

i kind of want to do a Star Wars vs Jesus poll but i kinda don't

no gap tree for old men (Noodle Vague), Friday, 27 October 2023 18:34 (one year ago) link

"creepazoid should make a comeback."

I never stopped using that one

vodkaitamin effrtvescent (calzino), Friday, 27 October 2023 18:37 (one year ago) link

"either that or it's just about selling shit to the rubes"

same thing! tithing vs. limited-edition wolverine doll

scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:41 (one year ago) link

i went to yankee candle flagship store here in deerfield once. holy crap. it was nuts. they make so much money. tons of christmas stuff but also dragons. i can't imagine spending lots of money on xmas stuff or halloween stuff.

scott seward, Friday, 27 October 2023 18:45 (one year ago) link

lol we went there right after visiting your shop. It was extremely intense.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 27 October 2023 19:02 (one year ago) link

Also, I use sketchy/sketch all the time and have since I was a teen. I thought that was universal!

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 27 October 2023 19:03 (one year ago) link

I have no explanation for why I hate it so much but “turnabout is fair play” just annoys me. It’s not about the meaning, either.

Also “______ much?”

just1n3, Friday, 27 October 2023 19:35 (one year ago) link

"so I did a thing much?"

Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 19:40 (one year ago) link

xp has a loaded history on ilx iirc

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Friday, 27 October 2023 19:58 (one year ago) link

when did people stop saying

as if!

and

not even!

?

Left, Friday, 27 October 2023 20:40 (one year ago) link

it used to be the coolest thing ever and then it just sort of faded away - do any gen Xers still talk like this?

Left, Friday, 27 October 2023 20:42 (one year ago) link

that's so random

Andy the Grasshopper, Friday, 27 October 2023 20:44 (one year ago) link

"Fur baby"

This is cool though when used to describe incredible hirsute human infants

Halfway there but for you, Friday, 27 October 2023 22:51 (one year ago) link

Listen I am childless but have two dogs. Furbabies is AWFUL.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 27 October 2023 23:05 (one year ago) link

Most newborns are actually hairy. It's to keep them warm and they shed the hair soon after birth. That should be what "fur babies' is used for lol.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 27 October 2023 23:06 (one year ago) link

Sketchy in that sense is definitely American, I'd never heard it used like that before I met my late wife and we figured out it meant the same as "dodgy"

Colonel Poo, Friday, 27 October 2023 23:27 (one year ago) link

I don't think I ever heard sketchy until maybe 1996.

On the topic of fur babies, this is kind of a niche one, but as an owner of black cats, I'm not a fan of the term "voids".

Muad'Doob (Moodles), Saturday, 28 October 2023 00:02 (one year ago) link

Sketchy in the sense of 'dodgy' or 'highly questionable' has been around longer than I have and I'm 68.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Saturday, 28 October 2023 03:49 (one year ago) link

Yes - that's how I use it. Dodgy is exactly what it means.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Saturday, 28 October 2023 04:54 (one year ago) link

the more recent use cringe as adjective or noun is fascist and I hate it so much. it's based on a contempt for "weakness" and any hint of nonconformity and all the usual right wingntargets. leftists adopting it is a total capitalulation to fascism

respectuflly i cannot tell if this is a serious post or some kind of parody

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Saturday, 28 October 2023 04:56 (one year ago) link

This is cool though when used to describe incredible hirsute human infants

this gives me Galapagos (Vonnegut) flashbacks. I should re-read that one. I never feel like re-reading Vonnegut; I loved each book the first time and don't really want to go back.

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Saturday, 28 October 2023 05:01 (one year ago) link

Galapagos is, I think, an underappreciated book.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Saturday, 28 October 2023 15:00 (one year ago) link

One of my favorites of his

Muad'Doob (Moodles), Saturday, 28 October 2023 15:11 (one year ago) link

but as an owner of black cats, I'm not a fan of the term "voids".


Otm

mojo dojo casas house (gyac), Saturday, 28 October 2023 15:18 (one year ago) link

i had no idea that "sketch" went back to the 70s! i thought it was a millennial invention.

We used to use "sketch" in Ireland to mean keeping a lookout for authority. If you were keeping sketch and you saw the teacher coming, you'd hiss "SKETCH!" at everyone and they would stop messing.

I hate it when people are doing old-timey Shakespeare talk and they put "eth" on the end of the wrong words. "I was shooketh." No.

trishyb, Saturday, 28 October 2023 15:22 (one year ago) link

I just saw this in the Guardian and wondered if they'd just made it up...

“LFI’s strategy of conflictualising and systematically obstructing everything in parliament has also really angered its partners,”

The First Time Ever I Saw Gervais (Tom D.), Sunday, 29 October 2023 08:12 (one year ago) link

I just realised what Aussies use instead of ya'll! ya's! I.e. Whaddaya's doin? whaddayasreckon? canya's come over here?

#1 García Fan (H.P), Monday, 30 October 2023 05:40 (one year ago) link

Yeah our accent is close to Irish, cf “yiz”

assert (matttkkkk), Monday, 30 October 2023 07:38 (one year ago) link

yeah "gutted" is annoying and I associate it with the british and hyperbole, personally; it's akin to calling everything "brilliant". why go to these extremes.

― I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Friday, 27 October 2023 16:39 (three days ago) bookmarkflaglink

British professional sportspeople have two emotional states: gutted or chuffed.

fetter, Monday, 30 October 2023 11:05 (one year ago) link

"oh, and by the way"

anvil, Monday, 30 October 2023 11:13 (one year ago) link

or just by the way in general

anvil, Monday, 30 October 2023 11:13 (one year ago) link

the british and hyperbole

One of my favorite examples of this is people using "You're a star" at work. Uh, really? I just did my job and answered your q. Not sure that really makes me a star lol.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Monday, 30 October 2023 11:21 (one year ago) link


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