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Boomer is beginning to annoy me for similar reasons, mainly because kids use it to mean anyone over the age of like, 30 which renders the word pointless. No boomer is less than 60-65 at this point! FFS there's millenials with adult kids at this point.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Thursday, 11 January 2024 02:39 (ten months ago) link

kids are always going to poop on their elders; that they can't even correctly classify us should make it that much easier to ignore

mookieproof, Thursday, 11 January 2024 03:03 (ten months ago) link

also i know some karens and carins and that whole thing is shitty but tbh at least their names aren't euphemisms for toilets/procurers of prostitutes/front-line soldiers who get dumped by their sweethearts

mookieproof, Thursday, 11 January 2024 03:08 (ten months ago) link

Boomer is beginning to annoy me for similar reasons, mainly because kids use it to mean anyone over the age of like, 30 which renders the word pointless. No boomer is less than 60-65 at this point! FFS there's millenials with adult kids at this point.

We're having a discussion about this at work lately, because there are real differences between old Boomers and young Boomers in terms of communication, degree of online-ness, etc., and it's really necessary to use two different strategies to market to/communicate with them — a one size fits all approach is doomed to failure.

Tahuti Watches L&O:SVU Reruns Without His Ape (unperson), Thursday, 11 January 2024 04:02 (ten months ago) link

H.P.: Karenception

CthulhuLululemon (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 11 January 2024 04:07 (ten months ago) link

by definition the very youngest boomers are now 59yo and the oldest are 77

still too young to be president apparently

mookieproof, Thursday, 11 January 2024 04:11 (ten months ago) link

We boomers will always have Bill Clinton and Dubya to live down.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Thursday, 11 January 2024 04:12 (ten months ago) link

My 80+-year-old parents are VERY adamant that they are not Boomers, but war babies. The distinction (if it ever mattered) will stop mattering soon.

CthulhuLululemon (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 11 January 2024 04:28 (ten months ago) link

Biggest difference for war babies was that they entered adulthood as a much smaller cohort. They tended to have easier career paths (less competition for desirable openings) but much less social/cultural impact or influence. They weren't as flattered or catered to by big business.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Thursday, 11 January 2024 04:42 (ten months ago) link

I am sure that's true on the macro level, but my parents are weird. My father was born in Los Alamos because his father was a not-insignificant Manhattan Project figure; his career path led him to Vietnam (which was decidedly NOT easy). My mother lost her father early and struggled to get by at all; she worked three jobs for most of my life, yadda cubed.

Now, I know most everybody is dealing with something you don't know about, and privilege is most definitely a thing, and anecdotes are not data. But when I think of my own specific parents' career paths or lives, "easier" is not the first word that springs to mind.

CthulhuLululemon (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 11 January 2024 05:09 (ten months ago) link

nothing said about a group larger than one person is true of any one person we might all put that into practice now we have had an awakening here today hmmmm?

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Thursday, 11 January 2024 09:30 (ten months ago) link

I'd like to blame it all on the aussies but I could imagine someone doing this in a trendy part of london too

US VC money has enabled franchising of Karen's Dinner, there's a couple in Britain (London and Birmingham), one in Dublin and one in Denver Colorado.

Hello I'm shitty gatsworth (aldo), Thursday, 11 January 2024 09:35 (ten months ago) link

karen's diner particularly egregious because if one profession has to deal with actual karendom a lot surely it's waiters

Daniel_Rf, Thursday, 11 January 2024 10:37 (ten months ago) link

The one near me went OOB. I assume the others did too.

steely flan (suzy), Thursday, 11 January 2024 12:19 (ten months ago) link

that is a noise actual karens make and all

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Thursday, 11 January 2024 12:19 (ten months ago) link

Karen is played out, but Chad is still going strong.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Thursday, 11 January 2024 14:17 (ten months ago) link

Waiting for a Trixie revival.

Jeff, Thursday, 11 January 2024 15:07 (ten months ago) link

My first cabbage patch doll's name was Trixie Alice.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Thursday, 11 January 2024 16:55 (ten months ago) link

!

Pictish in the Woods (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 15 January 2024 11:17 (ten months ago) link

"Pazz & Jop"

Kim Kimberly, Monday, 15 January 2024 18:51 (ten months ago) link

two weeks pass...

^

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 3 February 2024 09:06 (nine months ago) link

words to do with fermentation eg

“scobie”
“poolish”

ugh so gross. stop

Humanitarian Pause (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 3 February 2024 09:07 (nine months ago) link

scoby don’t

Boris Yitsbin (wins), Saturday, 3 February 2024 09:35 (nine months ago) link

Tracer how else do you want us to say "two weeks pass..."

rob, Saturday, 3 February 2024 14:45 (nine months ago) link

a fortnight transpires?
fourteen suns set?

rob, Saturday, 3 February 2024 14:45 (nine months ago) link

bimonth

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Saturday, 3 February 2024 18:00 (nine months ago) link

every month is bimonth

Left, Saturday, 3 February 2024 18:05 (nine months ago) link

what ever happened to straight smarck month thats what i wanna know

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Saturday, 3 February 2024 18:09 (nine months ago) link

Hey now
You're a smarck mouth
Get your game on

Virginia Wolfman (Ye Mad Puffin), Saturday, 3 February 2024 18:44 (nine months ago) link

read the room

ivy., Monday, 12 February 2024 16:53 (nine months ago) link

bi- and semi- as a modifiers for frequency of occurrence always slow me down, my brain has to run an extra calculation

Also: usage of "20th century" to describe "the 1900s" and so on

a hyperlink to the past (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 12 February 2024 17:35 (nine months ago) link

Sixmonthly, twoyearly tho? Yuck. Even worse

a hyperlink to the past (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 12 February 2024 17:37 (nine months ago) link

"20th century" to describe "the 1900s"

According to the accepted cultural and legal definition, I am 69 years old. It is just as true that I am currently in my 70th year of life. Young kids get this distinction and insist on being e.g. five-and-a-half instead of just five.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2024 18:06 (nine months ago) link

Oh I know it's correct, I'm not disputing it, I just find it annoying.

Had no idea you were 69! Nice

a hyperlink to the past (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 12 February 2024 18:26 (nine months ago) link

I have been hearing “perfect” as an acknowledgment of any sort of response to a question.

“Date of birth?”

“12/21/73”

[types into computer] “Perfect”

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 12 February 2024 19:38 (nine months ago) link

Repeat for the next 6 questions

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 12 February 2024 19:38 (nine months ago) link

verbal tics that mask the void in one's soul

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2024 19:45 (nine months ago) link

I kind of hate "mate", as in "How are you, mate". I'm pretty sure I've never said it in my life.

The British Boy of Film Classification (Tom D.), Monday, 12 February 2024 20:06 (nine months ago) link

Just ran some errands and unconsciously said “perfect” to various clerks multiple times and felt shocked and appalled at myself afterward, sorry world

a hyperlink to the past (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 12 February 2024 20:31 (nine months ago) link

Today I learned that Tom D. is probably not Australian

Virginia Wolfman (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 12 February 2024 21:30 (nine months ago) link

also not Argentinian

the absence of bikes (f. hazel), Monday, 12 February 2024 21:31 (nine months ago) link

I have been hearing “perfect” as an acknowledgment of any sort of response to a question.

Had dinner in a restaurant in San Diego about ten years ago and the waiter, strong ex-Marines vibe, responded “perfect” to literally every meal order or request. Became surreal pretty quickly.

assert (matttkkkk), Monday, 12 February 2024 21:56 (nine months ago) link

hm. i see it as an analog of "very good," which i normally assume to mean "request in good order and understood."

a single gunshot and polite applause (Hunt3r), Monday, 12 February 2024 22:08 (nine months ago) link

i don't use it, as it does sound like "in excellent taste" or something.

a single gunshot and polite applause (Hunt3r), Monday, 12 February 2024 22:09 (nine months ago) link

I've caught myself saying "perfect" lately in exactly this way. It bugs me, and I have no idea where I picked it up. Taking this thread as a caution.

ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Monday, 12 February 2024 22:25 (nine months ago) link

I couldn't imagine using "perfect" non-sarcastically. "Someone tore open a package of diapers and changed their baby in the store aisle." "Perfect."

Tahuti Watches L&O:SVU Reruns Without His Ape (unperson), Monday, 12 February 2024 22:30 (nine months ago) link

I searched my WhatsApp chats for “yeah perfect” and had to stop scrolling after thirty instances.

Roman Anthony gets on his horse (gyac), Monday, 12 February 2024 22:34 (nine months ago) link

I find myself overusing "very well" in the same way that some people use "perfect."

Another option is "good choice."

Whenever I am interacting with musicians doing covers (which may be a bit too often), I find myself saying "that's a good choice for you." Which may be bad instead of good.

My wife has admonished me about saying things like "I am glad you're having fun" or "I am glad you're interested in these things" to our daughter, when the topic is k-pop or v-tubers or whatever. I am working on figuring out the right response.

Virginia Wolfman (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 12 February 2024 22:50 (nine months ago) link

Lol puffin. Hope you figure that one out with your daughter

All "mate" haters please identify yourself so you can be appropriately killfiled.

H.P, Monday, 12 February 2024 22:53 (nine months ago) link

The amount of joy I get returning from travelling and being able to put "mate", "cheers", "gday", "howzitgoan" etc. back into my vocabulary/being able to lean back into my accent, is immeasurable

H.P, Monday, 12 February 2024 22:56 (nine months ago) link


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