On this Thread, we apologize for Boorish ILXing at the Expense of Others

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- I apologize to Hstencil for informing him I was looking forward to his wake as a retort for some snipey comment he'd made about me being a whiney, headstrong New Yorker.

- I apologize to Lauren for summarily turning my fangs on her after she quite clear-headedly came to Stence's defense (not that he needed any, but still...it was a nice and admirable thing for her to do.

- I apologize to Amateur!st for coming across like a dismissive prick on his recent thread about rockism. I didn't mean it to be snipey, but given other exchanges he and I have had in the past, it'd be perfectly understandable of him to interpret my comment that way.

I hope these apologies are acceptable to the individuals concerned. Anyone else want to clear the air?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 29 May 2004 18:40 (twenty-one years ago)

Ask me tomorrow....

Nichole Graham (Nichole Graham), Saturday, 29 May 2004 18:43 (twenty-one years ago)

I think you should apologise to Good Charlotte and Shania Twain as well. They have feelings too.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Saturday, 29 May 2004 18:44 (twenty-one years ago)

no they dont.

:|, Saturday, 29 May 2004 18:46 (twenty-one years ago)

A lonely death this one will die, Alex. (Rather unfortunately.)

Fr4ncis W4tlington (Francis Watlington), Saturday, 29 May 2004 19:31 (twenty-one years ago)

Don't think so. Wait til Tuesday, and watch the sorries flow.....

Nichole Graham (Nichole Graham), Saturday, 29 May 2004 19:34 (twenty-one years ago)

je ne regrette rien

edithpiafbär (llamasfur), Saturday, 29 May 2004 19:35 (twenty-one years ago)

I apologize to my roommate for her sexual antics becoming somewhat public.

Gear! (Gear!), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:00 (twenty-one years ago)

I apologize for Jon Williams.

Ian Johnson (orion), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:01 (twenty-one years ago)

you all can still suck my asshairs.

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Is that a date, Jess?

Michael Daddino (epicharmus), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:06 (twenty-one years ago)

That was boorish

Gear! (Gear!), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:07 (twenty-one years ago)

well i'm a boor.

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:12 (twenty-one years ago)

also a boar.

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:13 (twenty-one years ago)

i apologise for the italics thing, i was in a kind of playful mood, almost kitsch, if you could see what i was wearing

charltonlido (gareth), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:14 (twenty-one years ago)

I retract my apology to my roommate, for she is currently playing her Shawn Mullins CD.

Gear! (Gear!), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:20 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm not trying to guilt trip anybody. I just think I need reminding that I should be a bit more respectful of others from time to time.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:21 (twenty-one years ago)

I apologize to my roommate for her sexual antics becoming somewhat public.
-- Gear! (drink_to_remembe...), May 29th, 2004.

NOOoooOOoooOOOOO!

Fr4ncis W4tlington (Francis Watlington), Saturday, 29 May 2004 20:58 (twenty-one years ago)

under the circumstances shouldn't that be "bore" ?

i apologize for nothing. history will absolve me.

mike bott, Sunday, 30 May 2004 04:53 (twenty-one years ago)

i'm sorry, so sorry...for just about everything. even stuff i had nothing to do with

latebloomer (latebloomer), Sunday, 30 May 2004 05:47 (twenty-one years ago)

I apologize for nothing. a true warrior of blackness never regrets!never

Vas Djifrens (latebloomer), Sunday, 30 May 2004 05:55 (twenty-one years ago)

will be final post for now.

latebloomer (latebloomer), Sunday, 30 May 2004 05:55 (twenty-one years ago)

astral energies weak, vessel latebloomer awakens...

latebloomer (latebloomer), Sunday, 30 May 2004 05:57 (twenty-one years ago)

sorry I made fun of Alex in NYC's age, gloating over my youth. Pointless and totally unserious, but fun at the time.

AaronHz (AaronHz), Sunday, 30 May 2004 06:21 (twenty-one years ago)

I apologise to myself for wasting hours of my life on okstupid. ILX is such a better waste of time.

jel -- (jel), Sunday, 30 May 2004 08:38 (twenty-one years ago)

i apologise for seemingly having less worthwhile to say these days thus spending most of my ILX energy being annoyed at other posters and criticising them (albeit usually in a 'jokey' fashion) for committing such cardinal sins as copycat threads, defending trolls and saying something is good/bad without an 8000 word explanation detailing exactly why.

stevem (blueski), Sunday, 30 May 2004 11:59 (twenty-one years ago)

i apologise to the splooge for calling his Bevely Knight thread "The worst thread ever" when in fact the just-initiated Girls aloud thread will be the worst.

jed_ (jed), Sunday, 30 May 2004 12:18 (twenty-one years ago)

I apologise wholeheartedly to esoj/the surfacenoise and hope that one day he forgives me for my unprompted burst of insanity last Friday week.

ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Sunday, 30 May 2004 12:29 (twenty-one years ago)

i apologise to Alex in NYC for the Courtney Love thread.

don (don), Sunday, 30 May 2004 13:07 (twenty-one years ago)

i apologize for 100% of my posts made to ilm before may 2003 and for about 90% of the posts made after that

mark p (Mark P), Sunday, 30 May 2004 13:19 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm not sorry for any of my song choices on the ILM top 1000 perfect pop song thread.

jel -- (jel), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:03 (twenty-one years ago)

FUCK YOU ALL

http://www.steele.com/pirosmani/animals/boar.jpg

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:08 (twenty-one years ago)

that photo is the greatest thing I've ever seen

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:10 (twenty-one years ago)

dave hasnt looked so well in ages

charltonlido (gareth), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:12 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm sorry I haven't been posting more Fred Durst pics on random threads lately.

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:16 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.beethovenmc.com/images/events/billboard/large/06.jpg

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:16 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.steele.com/pirosmani/animals/ram.jpg

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:19 (twenty-one years ago)

what the f...

dyson (dyson), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:28 (twenty-one years ago)

jel is struck with fear, "do i really have to cross to the other side of shepherds bush" he thinks to himself, "yes, if i really want that poison record, i will have to venture east, ealing broadway hmv is out of stock"

charltonlido (gareth), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:32 (twenty-one years ago)

Sinister Picnic, 1999.

http://www.steele.com/pirosmani/animals/3deers.jpg

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:33 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.phattbastard.com/phattbastard/djur/img/0038.jpg

Gear! (Gear!), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:34 (twenty-one years ago)

"san francisco, tell me about it, how far? jeff mills?"

http://www.steele.com/pirosmani/life/man_on_donkey.jpg

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:34 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.phattbastard.com/phattbastard/djur/img/0052.jpg

Gear! (Gear!), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:35 (twenty-one years ago)

"jel is struck with fear, "do i really have to cross to the other side of shepherds bush" he thinks to himself, "yes, if i really want that poison record, i will have to venture east, ealing broadway hmv is out of stock"

haha, dude, but, I'd try Uxbridge first!

jel -- (jel), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:36 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.phattbastard.com/phattbastard/djur/img/0089.jpg

Gear! (Gear!), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:36 (twenty-one years ago)

get out of my house aja, Jaz Coleman is coming to stay, ok?

charltonlido (gareth), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:37 (twenty-one years ago)

I apologize for the dog-tossing

Gear! (Gear!), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:37 (twenty-one years ago)

This is the thread where you shout for the moderator

http://www.steele.com/pirosmani/life/cock.jpg

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:38 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.phattbastard.com/phattbastard/djur/img/0124.jpg

Gear! (Gear!), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:39 (twenty-one years ago)

GLASTO 2004 IS GO!!!

http://www.steele.com/pirosmani/life/gumno.jpg

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 30 May 2004 16:40 (twenty-one years ago)

They're in 77.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:15 (fourteen years ago)

gracias.

Daniel, Esq., Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:15 (fourteen years ago)

you're okay with me, LJ. no worries, you've usually got something unusual to say. a compliment.

i apologize for all the people i annoy by expressing half-formed opinions on subjects i don't really understand at great length. plus everybody who's ever had to read my Deep Thoughts On Race Relations. same thing, really, but yeah.

having taken an actual journalism class (contenderizer), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:17 (fourteen years ago)

does that include your "deep thoughts on gender dynamics," too?

sarahel, Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:19 (fourteen years ago)

this --

ILX is my playground, my dandled trinket.

― acoleuthic, Tuesday, September 14, 2010.

made me think of this --

keep in mind that our narrator into these events is someone who likes to think of the English language as a Victorian jack-in-the-box

― feel free to answer my Korn Kuestion (HI DERE), Tuesday, September 7, 2010

also, can't find satisfactory definition of "dandled trinket."

Daniel, Esq., Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:21 (fourteen years ago)

kinda like what Michael Jackson did with his kid on the balcony

sarahel, Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:22 (fourteen years ago)

haha! that's actually the definition i found:

dandle vb (tr)
1. to move (a young child, etc.) up and down (on the knee or in the arms)
2. to pet; fondle

Daniel, Esq., Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:23 (fourteen years ago)

I apologize for derailing threads, abandoning threads, and attention whoring. (You didn't get the worst of the last one, thank God.)

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:25 (fourteen years ago)

does that include your "deep thoughts on gender dynamics," too?

― sarahel, Tuesday, September 14, 2010 5:19 PM (10 minutes ago) Bookmark

oh yeah. not that this does not constitute a promise to refrain from further adventures in thinking aloud.

having taken an actual journalism class (contenderizer), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:31 (fourteen years ago)

not = note, hereabouts

having taken an actual journalism class (contenderizer), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:32 (fourteen years ago)

i kinda appreciate your adventures in thinking aloud - i might be in the minority there, but whatever

sarahel, Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:32 (fourteen years ago)

thanks. and it's not like i have any self control anyway...

having taken an actual journalism class (contenderizer), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:33 (fourteen years ago)

well, you apparently don't throw things around your apartment - so you do have that.

sarahel, Wednesday, 15 September 2010 00:35 (fourteen years ago)

haha. i haven't seen any of l0uis j.'s posts today, but his mea culpa inspires me to search for all of them.

― Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, September 14, 2010 8:14 PM (57 minutes ago)

hahaha

markers, Wednesday, 15 September 2010 01:14 (fourteen years ago)

only 10 people read l0uis j.'s posts today but every single one of them went on to become a thread derailer

subtle like the g in 'goole' (dayo), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 01:18 (fourteen years ago)

lol

having taken an actual journalism class (contenderizer), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 01:19 (fourteen years ago)

i, for one, look forward to derailing some threads.

the 9/11 conspiracy thread, for instance . . .

Daniel, Esq., Wednesday, 15 September 2010 01:24 (fourteen years ago)

too much sensible talk and rational discourse in that thread ATM.

Daniel, Esq., Wednesday, 15 September 2010 01:25 (fourteen years ago)

just to let you all know, I have <3 for you, but I have to restate my post here with the added mea culpa that I'm a complete idiot and won't be posting for a few days

sorry again to everyone I offended tonight, you have my oath I won't act like this again

positive thoughts

acoleuthic, Monday, 20 September 2010 23:29 (fourteen years ago)

positive thoughts to you man, but cmon you'll be like this again at least once next week.

s'ok tho.

i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Monday, 20 September 2010 23:34 (fourteen years ago)

I shall stay my hand with stoic affability should such an episode as this overtake me once again.

― acoleuthic, Tuesday, September 14, 2010 9:21 PM (6 days ago) Bookmark

لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 20 September 2010 23:41 (fourteen years ago)

nine months pass...

http://www.pirosmani.org/pirosmani-org.jpg

post very much out of character:

sry c.a.d., i totally recognize the name really

i do think ppl who s-ban whiney for being whiney are causing the disneyfication of ilx tho

so brycey (history mayne), Wednesday, 13 July 2011 17:32 (thirteen years ago)

There was a dog in Mile End Park on Sunday that looked exactly like a Pirosmani animal

colby, Wednesday, 13 July 2011 18:24 (thirteen years ago)

three years pass...

how's life, I apologize for getting mad at you on what I believe was yr birthday, that was uncool. best wishes to you & yours.

sleeve, Friday, 17 October 2014 19:22 (ten years ago)

sb'ing this to get his attention. or maybe post in a phish thread.

I can't make my waterface turn into a *fart* (Sufjan Grafton), Friday, 17 October 2014 19:24 (ten years ago)

hmmm id rather set aside the albanian blood feud with hows life

the final twilight of all evaluative standpoints (nakhchivan), Friday, 17 October 2014 19:54 (ten years ago)

thats not an apology but its a sort of olive branch because feuds are boring

the final twilight of all evaluative standpoints (nakhchivan), Friday, 17 October 2014 19:56 (ten years ago)

seven months pass...

q unstable today sry

an absolute feast of hardcore fanboy LOLs surrounding (imago), Tuesday, 26 May 2015 15:36 (ten years ago)

two years pass...

i apologize

brimstead, Thursday, 27 July 2017 00:11 (seven years ago)

Think itt ppl should have to post the evidence also

jk rowling obituary thread (darraghmac), Thursday, 27 July 2017 00:17 (seven years ago)

I dunno, it's kind of fun like a corollary to the "thought better of" thread

El Tomboto, Thursday, 27 July 2017 00:37 (seven years ago)

Lol u.mean the " feverishly click on to see if some cunt is mischievously backdooring an argument with u itt also" thread

jk rowling obituary thread (darraghmac), Thursday, 27 July 2017 00:40 (seven years ago)

I would like to apologize to my ex-girlfriend ida, who I'm now being told is actually a lurker on this side, for calling her 'bad' on the thread about Bono from U2 not being able to count properly in Spanish. I was trying to make a joke along the lines of 'Fred Bove and the Bad Ida', but then thought better of it. You are cool, Ida.

Frederik B, Thursday, 27 July 2017 00:49 (seven years ago)

Ouch

If my ex is on here lol ur husband is a fat oaf and well u kno it lol

jk rowling obituary thread (darraghmac), Thursday, 27 July 2017 00:51 (seven years ago)

OTM

weird echo of the falsies (Tom D.), Thursday, 27 July 2017 00:59 (seven years ago)

four years pass...

brad nelson I apologize for using gendered sexist insults, you were right to call me out on it

thinkmanship (sleeve), Sunday, 13 March 2022 21:12 (three years ago)

i apologize for engaging in what probably came across as "what-about-ism" in a thread about landlords and property ownership a year or so back.

sarahell, Sunday, 13 March 2022 21:42 (three years ago)

one year passes...

I apologize to tipsy mothra for my posts on the mixology thread yesterday, which may have come off as combative or defensive. I got agitated because, for whatever reason, I felt the need to prove my bona fides on the subject of cocktail history. I've been too embarrassed to open the thread since then.

jaymc, Tuesday, 2 May 2023 03:25 (two years ago)

fwiw it didn't come off like that to me

Vaguely Threatening CAPTCHAs, Tuesday, 2 May 2023 16:18 (two years ago)

me neither!

The Terroir of Tiny Town (WmC), Tuesday, 2 May 2023 16:48 (two years ago)

one year passes...

I apologize to budo jeru and everyone else for throwing another tantrum. And I apologize to ILX as a whole for my periodic "acting out"-bursts and cringey sanctimony in general. I know that sudden rage can be a real serious trigger to folks and I truly regret any emotional pain I've caused any posters over the years. Probably won't be coming here too much for awhile. Again, sincerely, I am sorry.

brimstead, Saturday, 18 January 2025 19:46 (four months ago)

What?

calstars, Saturday, 18 January 2025 19:48 (four months ago)

<3 brimstead

i was searching for your most recent post, just because i was about to bump the milk carton thread. i know times have been rough recently and, well, i can't speak for budo and i didn't read that thread closely, but hope we can all forgive each for just about everything except for repeated, ongoing purposefully hurtful behavior. you certainly aren't like that, and we're all allowed (i think) to mess up on occasion, as long as we acknowledge it and really try to do better. i think you did acknowledge it, and i've seen many time that those bad moments aren't who you are. hope you're well wherever you are <3

z_tbd, Tuesday, 21 January 2025 19:10 (four months ago)

all the same, i support taking a step away for a while and it's done me a world of good to do it a few times. just come on back and say hello sometime soon, if you can. :)

z_tbd, Tuesday, 21 January 2025 19:12 (four months ago)

brimstead, i sent you an ilx mail, let me know if that doesn't work. i'm not upset in the slightest and hope you're taking care

budo jeru, Thursday, 23 January 2025 18:12 (four months ago)

just sending <3 to brimstead, i hope you're ok

Bernard Quidbins (NickB), Saturday, 25 January 2025 23:10 (four months ago)

so many people on here not here anymore! a veritable who's who of ye olde ilx.

i apologize to butt boner and lagoon for the evil thoughts i had about them and everyone else on the politics thread last year. i blame trump. my ilx experience is much mellower now that i stay away from that foul foul thread.

i know! i was just THINKING evil thoughts! i didn't even have to apologize! but what the hell...sometimes its good to get rid of stuff.

scott seward, Sunday, 26 January 2025 00:24 (four months ago)

hey i’m good, appreciate the thoughts, you are all good people

budo jeru, i appear to no longer have access to the email address i used to register to ilx, but i appreciate you reaching out <3 relieved no hard feelings

brimstead, Sunday, 26 January 2025 00:44 (four months ago)

how is gareth, i wonder? he could be cryptic. in a fun way. and stence and amz. sheesh. not your average internet tough guys. i know that alex and strongo are out there. fighting crime.

scott seward, Sunday, 26 January 2025 01:24 (four months ago)

love u brimstead

I wonder abt hstencil sometimes too

sleeve, Sunday, 26 January 2025 02:14 (four months ago)


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