Palestinians Compensate for Lack of Jew-killing Opportunities by Turning Against Their Women

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Palestinian "Honor"
By Sharon Lapkin
January 20, 2006


When Israel began erecting a separation barrier in late 2003 to protect its citizens from the seemingly endless procession of suicide bombers, Palestinian society responded by redirecting its destructive urges inward. All revolutions are said ultimately to turn upon themselves and devour their own children. And, when suicide bombing became an increasingly difficult means of enhancing family prestige, Palestinians shifted the focus onto their female offspring to restore the balance.

Suicide bombings in Israel had developed into a bloody and lucrative industry for Palestinians who carried out 39 attacks in 2002. But, since Israel began constructing its anti-terrorist fence, the Palestinian human-bomb industry has been reduced to bankruptcy by producing only 11 attacks in more than two years.

Honor killing, on the other hand – which has always been an integral aspect of Palestinian life – began gathering momentum. With horrifying zest, weapon-wielding fathers, brothers, uncles and sometimes mothers, hunt down their daughters and sisters and commit shocking acts of violence for real and imagined immoral transgressions.

The Arab motivation for murdering their own daughters flows from the same cultural wellspring that produces suicide bombers. The defensive form of honor, called ird, is consumed with female sexual purity and manifests itself in the murder of its own to restore family honor, whereas the offensive manifestation, sharaf, requires positive actions implemented to heighten social status and increase family honor. As Palestinian society retreats from its failure to infiltrate the daily life of Israeli citizens with death and destruction, it compensates by killing its own and depositing ird in its honor bank.

Soraida Hussein, head of research for Jerusalem’s Women’s Centre for Legal Aid and Counselling said, “Honor killing is nothing new... what is new is the whole wave of killing in 2005.”

In May 2005, the BBC reported, “In recent months there has been an increase in honour killings in the West Bank and Gaza...Women's rights activists say they cannot explain the upsurge.”

During a particularly brutal spate of honor killings in early 2005, five Palestinian women were murdered in four separate incidences over a short period of time. Faten Habash spent six weeks in hospital after she threw herself from her family’s fourth floor apartment window. Upon her return home, her father bludgeoned her to death with an iron bar.

Two days later, Maher Shakirat attacked his three sisters. The eldest, Rudaina, was eight months pregnant and had been admonished by her husband after he claimed she’d had an affair. Maher forced his sisters to drink bleach before strangling them. The youngest, Leila, escaped but had serious internal injuries from the effect of the bleach.

Rafayda Qaoud shared a bedroom in her Ramallah home with her two brothers. After they raped and impregnated her, she gave birth to a baby boy who was adopted by another family. Her mother then gave Rafayda a razor blade and ordered her to slash her own wrists. When she refused to commit suicide, her mother pulled a plastic bag tightly over her head, sliced open her daughter’s wrists and beat her with a stick until she was dead.

Palestinian feminist Abu Dayyeh Shamas claims that: "Men feel they have lost their dignity and that they can somehow restore it by upholding the family's honour. We've noticed recent cases are much more violent in nature; attempts to kill, rape, incest. There is an incredible amount of incest." One women’s group reported over 400 cases of incest in the West Bank alone in 2002.

Anthropologist James Emery explained in 2003, how “among Palestinians, all sexual encounters, including rape and incest, are blamed on the woman.” Men are always presumed innocent and the responsibility falls on the woman or girl to protect her honor at all costs. When 17-year-old Afaf Younes ran away from her father after he allegedly sexually assaulted her, she was caught and sent home to him. He then shot and killed her to protect his honor.

And when a four-year-old toddler was raped by a 25 year-old man in 2002, her Palestinian family left her to bleed to death because her rape had dishonored the family.

Emery described a Palestinian merchant explaining this cultural view of femininity as "A woman shamed is like rotting flesh, if it is not cut away, it will consume the body. What I mean is the whole family will be tainted if she is not killed."

Recently in Gaza and the West Bank, Hamas has defined a new role for itself in guarding the morality of young Muslim women. A group of men who identified itself as a Hamas “morality squad” attacked 19-year-old Yousra al-Azam after she had sat at the beach with her husband-to-be and another couple. She was shot in the head and died in the street as her murderers beat her with batons. The growing influence of Hamas with its fundamentalist interpretations of Islamic law is concerning women’s groups, which fear it will gain power and moral legitimacy in the coming elections.

The Guardian, reported official figures from the Palestinian Women’s Affairs Ministry in 2004, where it claimed 20 girls and women were honor-killed and a further 50 committed suicide. Another 15, it claimed, had survived murder attempts. And in 2005, the official figures reached 33. However, this official recognition of the sharp rise in reported honor killings is a limp excuse by a society that condones, camouflages and ignores most of its crimes against women.

According to Dr Shalhoub-Kevorkian, a criminologist from Hebrew University, the real figures are much higher with almost all murders in the West Bank and Gaza most likely to be honor killings. In a two-year period between 1996 and 1998, Shalhoub-Kevorkian uncovered 234 suspicious deaths in the West Bank alone, which she believes were honor killings. Palestinian police do not record these deaths as murder but as deaths due to "fate and destiny.” Shalhoub-Kevorkian believes the real number of honor killings may in fact be 15 times higher than the official figures.

In 2005, Amnesty International issued a public statement that called for the Palestinian Authority not to resume executions of those convicted of murder, rape or collaborating with Israelis. It simultaneously called for an end to the “impunity so far afforded to those responsible for certain crimes” including “honour killings.”

A man convicted of killing his daughter or female relative can expect to serve a six-month sentence due to a 45 year-old Jordanian law still upheld in the West Bank and Gaza. More often than not, the woman’s murder is reported as suicide or accident or is simply not reported at all. Anthropologist Emery claimed that many murdered women are buried in the desert: “The secret of their fate... entombed with them in the sand.”

Human rights groups, amongst others, have claimed that the surge in serious crime, including honor killings, is the result of poverty and hardship created by Israel. And, while the barrier must have made life more difficult for many Palestinians, Israel cannot be seen to be responsible for the burgeoning crime rate and developing lawlessness of the Palestinian population.

In Britain, there is no physical barrier separating people and no Jewish government to blame for the dilemmas of the Muslim community. Yet a sharp increase in Islamic honor killings has been reported since the July 7 London bombings, last year.

Nazir Afzal, director of Britain’s Crown Prosecution Service, told Reuters, there has been at least a “dozen honor killings in the country in the past year.” This, he claims, is just a glimpse of the real problem. “There are other crimes, like rape, abduction and physical violence...”

Afzal claims that a number of Britain’s 1.6 million Muslims are “turning in on themselves...When communities perceive themselves to be under threat they tend to turn in on themselves, regardless of whether that perception has any basis in fact.”

This unprecedented cultural phenomenon in Britain demonstrates the senselessness of blaming Israel’s Jews for the barbaric and primitive behaviour of Palestinian society. In Britain – just as in the West Bank and Gaza – “They try to restore and reinforce their own social norms,” Afzal explains, “ They put pressures on their own members to conform and if they don’t...there is sometimes some kind of retribution.”

Since Israel diminished the capacity of Palestinian human-bomb-making by building a barrier, the honor-making potential of the Palestinians has been considerably depleted. As they turn inward and commit savage and pitiless crimes upon their own women in order to achieve anamorphic honor, it is clear that the problem is one of cultural depravity rather than Israeli oppression.

Because Arabs employ the two societal poles of honor and shame to govern their behaviour, actions are dominated by the avoidance of shame and the acquisition of honor. Thus, every relationship and experience emanating from other, unchartered sources are inhibited and suppressed. Both honor and shame require an audience in order to become activated concepts. And the loss of the suicide bombers’ audience has created a chaotic shift in focus while the perpetrators seek a new audience to restore their lagging sense of sharaf.

archer, Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:13 (nineteen years ago)

hi there

latebloomer (latebloomer), Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:20 (nineteen years ago)

“In recent months there has been an increase in honour killings in the West Bank and Gaza...Women's rights activists say they cannot explain the upsurge.”

... because their husbands won't let them.

Er... I mean: all they need is another way to vent their energy, like more sports and hooliganism. Doesn't Palestina have a soccer competition?

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:27 (nineteen years ago)

Somehow I didn't expect this thread would generate the same kind of outraged response as did the one about the horror of a Palestinian being asked to play his fiddle at a check-point.

archer, Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:30 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.thesavedsect.com/articles/CurrentAffairs/NoDignityExceptIslam.htm

More on the need to maintain honour: A fatwa against George Galloway and Big Brother.

archer, Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:48 (nineteen years ago)

archer, what were you hoping for when you posted this?

this article is absolutely hateful. it's obviously motivated by a desire to demonise Muslims and Palestinians rather than any concern for the victims of honour killings.

Cathy (Cathy), Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:53 (nineteen years ago)

Cathy OTM.

Another article by Ms. Lapkin.

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:57 (nineteen years ago)

Her point here: "it is clear that the problem is one of cultural depravity"

Her point in that other article: "The number of rapes committed by Muslim men against women in the last decade is so incredibly high that it cannot be viewed as anything other than culturally implicit behaviour."

or: "it's their culture, stupid!"

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 18:59 (nineteen years ago)

I may be wrong, but I suspect that if I'd posted an article about a fundamentalist Christian family having left a raped 4 year old to bleed to death because her rape had brought dishonour upon them, I don't think you'd be saying "this is obviously a hate piece intended to demonise Christians. What about the root causes?" Why exactly is that?

archer, Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:08 (nineteen years ago)

Because it's okay for people on ILE to be virulently bigoted towards Christians. Do keep up.

Dan (Have You Never Read A Religion Thread On Here Before?) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:10 (nineteen years ago)

(Alternately, there's already enough "People who have religious beliefs are insane and should be rounded up" nonsense floating around here without having to bring in "plus they're brown-skinned terrorists with massive penises" bullshit like this, so kindly fuck off.)

Dan (FIN) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:14 (nineteen years ago)

Dan OTM. (you should legally change your name to that, in fact)

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:15 (nineteen years ago)

I don't think this article has anything interesting to say, so I'll make a different point altogether. It is worrisome that Palestinian society is so oriented toward violence and struggle. Hamas seems to be the political and social force with the most legitimacy in the PA, and its a militant group and Islamic fundalmentalist. What happens when the PA becomes fully independent and must function as a regular country? Can a culture of violence be easily shed?

Super Cub (Debito), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:21 (nineteen years ago)

I don't think this article has anything interesting to say, so I'll make a different point altogether. It is worrisome that American society is so oriented toward violence and struggle. The Revolutionaries seem to be the political and social force with the most legitimacy in the US, and its a militant group and Christian fundalmentalist. What happens when the US becomes fully independent and must function as a regular country? Can a culture of violence be easily shed?

Dan (Not Perfect, I Know) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:24 (nineteen years ago)

But this *is* obviously a hate piece intended to demonise Muslims. I have read perfectly sound coverage of honour killings in the UK (as well as rabid Muslim demonising coverage), and any fool can tell the difference.

When you were inventing a comparable Christian story, archer, you used the term "Christian fundamentalist", ie extreme, non-representative Christians. This article just condemns Muslims, Arabs and Palestinians as all sharing a murderous, backwards culture.

If you actually want to talk about the plight of women in the Arab world, post a reasonable article. I suspect, however, that you don't.

Cathy (Cathy), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:24 (nineteen years ago)

Suicide bombings in Israel had developed into a bloody and lucrative industry for Palestinians...

The authoress of this article did not stoop to explain the word "lucrative" in this sentence. This doesn't speak well for her professionalism and tends to cast doubt on the fairness of everything that follows.

Somehow I didn't expect this thread would generate the same kind of outraged response...

Heavens! These Palestinians! If they insist on acting like animals, then we ought to round them all up in cattle cars, put them in cages, then slaughter and eat them. It is only reasonable.

That better?

Aimless (Aimless), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:31 (nineteen years ago)

Comparing U.S. revolution to Israeli/Palestinian conflict is quite the stretch.

I think I make an interesting point, but you're free to dismiss it.

xpost

Super Cub (Debito), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:34 (nineteen years ago)

I don't think it's a point that is particularly unique to Palestine.

Dan (Everyone Is Violent) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:36 (nineteen years ago)

I don't think it is either, but this thread is about Palestine (sort of). This thread is a can of worms. I'm not posting anymore.

Super Cub (Debito), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:40 (nineteen years ago)

All threads about religion are. So are threads about politics, sex, race, music, whales and Killing Joke.

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:45 (nineteen years ago)

Dan, I never mentioned skin-colour, nor did the article. For what it's worth I don't think race has got anything to do with any of this.

archer, Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:53 (nineteen years ago)

I dont think anyone does...

Lovelace (Lovelace), Saturday, 21 January 2006 19:56 (nineteen years ago)

cathy otm again.

one can be right and be a troll at the same time.

teeny (teeny), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:01 (nineteen years ago)

An honest question: Why wasn't the poster of the thread about the check-point fiddle-playing incidenct denounced as inciting hatred against the Israelis? I'm not a troll. I'm just trying to understand what seems to me to be double-standards. I'm not even arguing that what are apparently double-standards aren't inappropriate. I'd just genuinely be interested in an explanation of why such a minor incident provoked such immediate venom, but when incidents of far greater hatred on the other side are pointed out the first impulse of ILE posters is to blame the messanger and to impute hateful motives to anyone who merely cites the hatred that exists on the other side.

archer, Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:20 (nineteen years ago)

It's called "perceived position of power".

Dan (You're Welcome) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:23 (nineteen years ago)

And when a four-year-old toddler was raped by a 25 year-old man in 2002, her Palestinian family left her to bleed to death because her rape had dishonored the family.

Something tells me the facts of this event have been simplified into a grotesque caricature, in the service of promoting misunderstanding. Nothing says "propaganda" like attributing motives to actions, without sufficient foundation.

In fact, this one sentence (presented as a stand alone paragraph) is a marvel of interesting technique. The victim is a "toddler", which is an emotionally-laden adjective chosen to promote sympathy. Nothing wrong with that.

However, the rapist is described quite neutrally "a 25-year old man" with no other attributes given, as if the mere drab fact of being 25 years old was the only worthwhile thing to convey about him.

Finally, the family of the victim is specifically described as "Palestinian" and they are lumped all together as a faceless, unanimous group who collectively "let" the toddler bleed to death.

This last bit is really lovely. That construction manages very artfully to imply that the entire family was equally responsible and equally heartless. They appear as a collective entity only, without individual thoughts or conflicting judgments. It even manages to imply that the death of the toddler was foreseen as the consequence of their actions, and therefore the choice was not to "treat the child at home", but rather "to let the child die".

archer, you've been had. This thing, the more I look at it, is a concoction, a recipe, a contrivance, a trap laid for the uncautious reader. You fell in.

Aimless (Aimless), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:27 (nineteen years ago)

remember what's her name, whitey mcamerican, who drove her kids into a pond or something? killed them?

gear (gear), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:30 (nineteen years ago)

scott peterson, bro who killed his pregnant wife?

gear (gear), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:31 (nineteen years ago)

there's crazy people everywhere

gear (gear), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:31 (nineteen years ago)

(xpost) SUSAN SMITH

Dan (She's Available!) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:32 (nineteen years ago)

enchantress : o

gear (gear), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:36 (nineteen years ago)

Dan OTM. (you should legally change your name to that, in fact)

-- StanM (Stan10...) (webmail), January 21st, 2006 2:15 PM. (StanM) (later) (link)

Well, Nabisco has to move to Massachusetts first.....

A BOLD QUAHOG (ex machina), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:39 (nineteen years ago)

did scott petersen or susan smith kill their kids because they dated an "unsuitable" guy or because they dressed and acted provocatively?

you're not making anyone a service by making such ridiculous comparisons.

Lovelace (Lovelace), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:39 (nineteen years ago)

Ooh, someone make me a service!

Dan (Give It Wings And A Quiff) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:40 (nineteen years ago)

but surely you see the MASSIVE difference in the motiv for killing someone?

there is no reason to try and equate them.

Lovelace (Lovelace), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:42 (nineteen years ago)

It is probably true that Islam does a particularly thorough job of codifying the woman-abusing tendencies of about 95% of the world's cultures. But why single out Palestinians as opposed to, say, Pakistanis? Hmm?

M. V. (M.V.), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:44 (nineteen years ago)

Can I just remind people that this topic is titled "Palestinians Compensate for Lack of Jew-killing Opportunities by Turning Against Their Women"?

Dan (Sub-FoxNews At Best) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:48 (nineteen years ago)

"Palestinians Compensate for Lack of Jew-killing Opportunities by Turning On Their Women" would have been nice too, though.

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:50 (nineteen years ago)

The Arab motivation for murdering their own daughters flows from the same cultural wellspring that produces suicide bombers. The defensive form of honor, called ird, is consumed with female sexual purity and manifests itself in the murder of its own to restore family honor, whereas the offensive manifestation, sharaf, requires positive actions implemented to heighten social status and increase family honor. As Palestinian society retreats from its failure to infiltrate the daily life of Israeli citizens with death and destruction, it compensates by killing its own and depositing ird in its honor bank.

This paragraph says 'Arabs'. I'm confused - which group should I be outraged at - Arabs or Muslims??

patrick bateman (mickeygraft), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:51 (nineteen years ago)


...and you would not believe how thoroughly anti-Jewish these gentile right-wingers in the U.S. are. They don't think of Jews as 'white', although they fancy themselves too 'oppressed' by the Jewry to be allowed to say so publicly....

patrick bateman (mickeygraft), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:53 (nineteen years ago)

Why can't we all get a long..., er, (what was the next word again?)

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:55 (nineteen years ago)

the israel-palestine conflict is a separate issue from honor killings. and honor killings are condemned by many muslims, as well. i realize that that article is trying to push an anti-palestinian agenda by implying that they're violent animals who need to kill someone, anyone.

but that doesn't mean that honor killing is the same as isolated murders. they're different in very important wasy, such as that there are justifications for honor killing, that it can be socially acceptable or encouraged, and that it sometimes goes unpunished. driving your kids into a lake in the us doesn't work that way.
honor killing is not something made up by racists who hate islam, even though this particular article is bullshit. it's really unfair to the women hurt by it to be so relativistic as to say that we can't say anything negative about it until our society is perfect and all inequalities between countries and ethnic groups vanish.

Maria (Maria), Saturday, 21 January 2006 20:56 (nineteen years ago)

Maria is OTM.

Dan (Lock Thread, Start Over Without The Asshats) Perry (Dan Perry), Saturday, 21 January 2006 21:01 (nineteen years ago)

are you calling me an asshatt? please explain how what I said is anything different from marias post. I implied all that she specifically said.

Lovelace (Lovelace), Saturday, 21 January 2006 21:10 (nineteen years ago)

plz delete thread i beg of u

J (Jay), Saturday, 21 January 2006 21:18 (nineteen years ago)

Quick! Before they...

http://www.diamondtalk.com/forums/images/smilies/83/fite.gif

Too late.

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 21 January 2006 21:22 (nineteen years ago)

I think as a test of our "double-standards" someone should start a thread with the title "African-Americans Compensate for Lack of Opportunities to Rape White Girls by Shooting One Another in Drive-Bys." I'm sure our hatred of rape and gunplay will make us completely receptive to that sort of bald groupthink demonizing.

nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 21 January 2006 21:47 (nineteen years ago)

Ooh, someone make me a service!

(Give It Wings And A Quiff)

http://www.ffuniverse.nu/ffta/img/04.jpg

"Someone call for a good servicing?"

kingfish kuribo's shoe (kingfish 2.0), Saturday, 21 January 2006 21:49 (nineteen years ago)

"I think as a test of our "double-standards" someone should start a thread with the title "African-Americans Compensate for Lack of Opportunities to Rape White Girls by Shooting One Another in Drive-Bys." I'm sure our hatred of rape and gunplay will make us completely receptive to that sort of bald groupthink demonizing."

But black American culture doesn't celebrate the rape of white girls. Palestinian culture DOES celebrate the slaughter of Jews. It would be a good analogy otherwise.

archer, Saturday, 21 January 2006 22:20 (nineteen years ago)

I think this article is crap. But there is definitely a double-standard in the way Israel and Palestine are discussed around here and the violin thing is a pretty good example. I don't see anyone making these kinds of rationalizations for the Israelis when someone denounces their "culture of violence and brutal apartheid" "society built on terror and oppression," etc.

Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Saturday, 21 January 2006 22:46 (nineteen years ago)

nabisco, insofar as I can see, momus is so entirely taken up with his own thoughts and ideas, such as are suggested by your posts, that he quickly loses interest in your thoughts and ideas, except as they can be used to develop his own. And if misunderstanding you is more fruitful for the development of his own argument, then he will easily slip into that misunderstanding, because his self-regard is too overwhelming a force not to overpower his regard for your ideas.

No disrespect was intended, because his intentions were directed elsewhere.

Aimless (Aimless), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:04 (nineteen years ago)

One of my best friends is Palestinian. He's Christian.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:12 (nineteen years ago)

xpost (and yes, Aimless, yes)

Arf, yeah but see how everyone here is arguing against phantom liberal positions that no one has ever expressed? I haven't seen a single soul here claim to be so sensitive to culture that he or she approves of honor killings. My guess is that most people here would favor any practical actions that would bring them to an end; "cultural sensitivity" is not making anyone okay with this practice, or even making them suspend judgment.

But by analogy: I feel similarly (if to a different extent) about the death penalty in my own country. And -- similarly -- I wouldn't hesitate to point out that the reasons we have a death penalty involve a lot of pervasive culture stuff that's wound into every one of us: not "a few bad apples," but a way of thinking -- a way of thinking that I myself am a product of! So what do I condemn: the entire project of American culture? Including myself? No, I criticize the strains of thinking in this culture that create that stuff, the parts that make our culture "worse." This is the only way you can deal with culture, because you can't make it go away -- you can't replace it with some kind of neutrality, and you can't embarrass and condemn people into choosing a new one! The only fair rhetoric here is to condemn actions first and strains of thinking second; the only fair approach is to hope to advance and reshape a culture. Because when you tell a populace that its culture is simply wrong -- that you condemn each and every pocket of its thinking -- then you are implying that there's only one solution: you're implying that the culture needs to go away. And since the culture is inextricably linked with the people, you are advocating -- by a series of extensions -- something a little bit like genocide. This is the extreme of the project that Archer has going, see?

nabisco (nabisco), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:13 (nineteen years ago)

...genocide. This is the extreme of the project that Archer has going, see?

Yes. See my first post in re: cattle cars.

Aimless (Aimless), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:16 (nineteen years ago)

archer has pretty much suggested that, nabisco. it's a totalizing position s/he takes, which requires a total solution.

"Islam ... should be proscribed"

"should be banned"

"they should be barred from contact with more civilised people"

"there is NO alternative ... other than refusing to tolerate the presence amongst us of large Islamic populations"

how exactly this could be done s/he won't say, but history provides plenty of unfortunate examples.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:29 (nineteen years ago)

wait a minute, "maine coon cat"???!!

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:31 (nineteen years ago)

WTF guys, why are you STILL referencing the racist prick?

(xpost HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA yes)

Dan (Football Is On, Denver Getting Pwned) Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:32 (nineteen years ago)

Marvellous initial trolling, coming strong out of the blocks with a deliberately polarised position. good attention to detail in the degradation of spelling. Minus one point for caps. Good recovery from ILE, excellent use of trivia and bemusing sidetracks. Minus two points for not making any "Archer's Goon." jokes but nonetheless jolly well done anyway. The pools panel awards a home win.

Matt (Matt), Sunday, 22 January 2006 21:39 (nineteen years ago)

momus is so entirely taken up with his own thoughts and ideas, such as are suggested by your posts, that he quickly loses interest in your thoughts and ideas, except as they can be used to develop his own

I find that completely ridiculous, considering the praise heaped on people who derailed the thread with accounts of their evening, recipes, etc. I was addressing Nabisco's points very precisely. And I still find his position shaky. For instance:

What I'm talking about is not an issue of "bad apples" or "a few troublemakers." It's about the difference between cultures and aspects thereof.

What does that mean, the difference between cultures and aspects thereof? Especially as Nabisco then proceeds to agree with my "warp and weft" definition of culture? Rather than explaining, Nabisco simply attacks a straw man version of me, dragging in "neutral cosmopolitanism":

What I think is peculiar is that your rhetoric is a bit baby-with-the-bathwater revolutionary; it presumes the possibility that people can abandon their cultures entirely and become a part of the supposedly "cultureless" western-cosmopolitan world you're consistently in favor of... What you're asking for should be cultural change, not cultural death

Where am I saying that people can or should abandon their cultures? Pure projection!

Nabisco's second statement is more reasonable -- I'm glad that he's abandoned the idea that condeming actions and not cultures, ideas and not people is "basic". It isn't basic at all, but extremely problematical. By agreeing to the "warp and weft" idea Nabisco seems to have retreated from the view that it's a simple separation to make. But his reformulation

The only fair rhetoric here is to condemn actions first and strains of thinking second; the only fair approach is to hope to advance and reshape a culture.

is wishy-washy in the extreme. The separation between actions and ideologies is less firmly stated, but persists as some kind of time gap. And it's still untenable. And how does a culture reshape itself when it's already expressing itself in everything it does? We know how cultures reshape other cultures; by invading them and imposing new governments on them: the US in Iraq. But is that "fair"? And didn't it involve, precisely, a certain amount of the genocide Nabisco is trying to discredit the cultural determinist position by associating it with?

I'd recommend this discussion about relativism, which touches on a lot of the issues in this thread (but not the recipes).

Momus (Momus), Sunday, 22 January 2006 22:38 (nineteen years ago)

The reason nobody uses overt right wing arguments is that they're pretty nasty: keep the powerful powerful, make the rich richer, grab what the other guy has, life's a Darwinian struggle, kill or be killed, etc etc. But clearly the whole history of reformism, civil rights, identity politics etc has not been to provide a rhetorical fig leaf for power plays and right wing realpolitik, flattered though we may be that they're interested in using our arguments to make them look better.

Momus makes an interesting point here - for the past, say, twenty years or so, right-wingers have had to 'package' their arguments through 'liberal' appeals. Why no one bothers to point this out to them, I dunno...

What this has done, in effect, is make the 'hard right' rather bitter and isolated, since to make any sort of argument that (superficially) validates personal freedoms and women's rights is somewhat emasculating to them.

patrick bateman (mickeygraft), Sunday, 22 January 2006 22:42 (nineteen years ago)

Wait, so only external forces count when a culture changes?

Dan (Suffragists And Abolitionists Don't Count) Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 22 January 2006 22:44 (nineteen years ago)

I'm not saying that change can only come from outside, just questioning whether change that comes from inside is really change.

Momus (Momus), Sunday, 22 January 2006 22:56 (nineteen years ago)

Wait, so only external forces count when a culture changes?

Dan (Time Becomes A Loop) Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 22 January 2006 22:59 (nineteen years ago)

It's the same problem you get in the phrase "to pull oneself up by one's own bootstraps". I mean, how does that work? To pull oneself up, one needs purchase against something not-oneself. An "outside".

Momus (Momus), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:09 (nineteen years ago)

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Zwan (miccio), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:12 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah Momus I'd actually like to talk about this more, but not with you; it's really disconcerting to me how fond you are of the kind of point-by-point deliberate-misunderstanding argument style that's usually preferred by teenagers and trolls. Which is to say that you weren't addressing my points "precisely" -- you were scanning my wording in terms of how it related to your points, which is a whole other thing. Hence your snotty interpretations of "abandonment" and such.

But look, I'll clarify one thing. This thing should be fairly obvious, I'd think: it's quite possible to separate one aspect of culture from others, no matter how pervasive that aspect is. This is why abolitionists didn't need to argue that, say, men shouldn't wear pants, or American music should use a pentatonic scale: most pragmatic people start with the bits that are directly related to the problem, and work from there.

The bit where you're saying that people "can or should abandon their cultures" is the same bit where you think it's useful to "condemn" a culture based on its negative aspects. I mean, what the fuck, dude: what's the alternative? Usually when we "condemn" something it means we'd like people to stop doing it; apart from that the word is meaningless. And this is the difference I'm talking about: do you condemn the culture (and theoretically ask people to do the impossible, to abandon their culture), or do you condemn the specific strains of thinking you find problematic? Do you ask e.g. Palestinians to rethink their ideas of the roles and rights of women, or do you ask them to rethink the entire fact of their being Palestinian?

And yes, this means condemning actions and ideologies, not culture -- i.e., making the slightest bit of effort to separate the problems in people's ways of being from the entireties of their ways of being. (Just because this is "problematical" doesn't excuse us from the work of attempting it.) One thing you're gonna have serious trouble demonstrating to me here is how the latter has ever been anywhere near as effective in producing change as the former has.

nabisco (nabisco), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:15 (nineteen years ago)

The fact that nothing exists in a vacuum does not invalidate the idea that the seeds of change can come from an internal source. You are playing a semantic game that I don't really find useful or illuminating, even from the standpoint of thought experiment.

Dan (Sorry) Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:17 (nineteen years ago)

A much simpler way of putting all that might be this. It's a massive problem that Palestinians would commit honor killings. It's not a massive problem that Palestinians would care about their families. Those two things -- the problem and the non-problem -- are inextricably related; the honor killing depends almost entirely on notions of family unity, as do a lot of things we'd consider quite positive. Now it might sound nice, in an abstracted head-up-ass way, to say that one "condemns" Palestinian culture based on this stuff. But what does that even mean? It seems incredibly pointless to me, and beyond that we've seen firsthand how it can slip over into actual demonization. It seems to me that anyone who actually cared about practical change and progress would avoid condemning the entire culture (and by extension, personhood) of Palestinians, and instead condemn the part that doesn't work. That part may have roots and associations that trail all through the culture at large, but that's not our issue quite yet -- and in most cases where cultures advance beyond their worst tendencies, it's in exactly that manner, stamping out the worst tendencies and working your way in. And this is constantly demonstrated by the fact that cultures consist of various individuals, all of whom can and do believe completely different things -- which has nothing to do with this "few bad apples" notion, and everything to do with Momus's strange hivemind notion that a culture cannot produce its own critics.

nabisco (nabisco), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:32 (nineteen years ago)

I must have missed the part where Momus was urging people to condemn peoples and nations en bloc. I thought he was saying that it's possible to generalize about ideologies and cultures in intellectual good faith.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:43 (nineteen years ago)


I think the problem I have with your position here, N, is that you're obsessed with "single entities" as the only acceptable unit of definition.

When a person says "Israel does X" he means something specific -- the actions and policies in question are being carried out by a democratic state, a single entity. When a person says "Palestinians do X," he is talking about nothing at all.

You're only an "entity" if you have a specific form of government? Otherwise you're nothing, and nobody can say anything about your culture?

"if you really want to talk about 'liberal values,' one of those is to avoid condemning whole national or ethnic groups for some behavior that exists within them"

We can't talk about cultures, just individuals?

people of the same color and nationality as you are not the only ones on the planet who are separable as individuals... it does very little good beyond demonizing people to aim vague condemnation at a "culture" of separable individuals

Paradox: you're obsessed with judging individuals rather than cultures because you belong to the culture of the US!

(That bit was x-posted with your "simpler way of putting this".)

in most cases where cultures advance beyond their worst tendencies

Right, so we're getting to the idea of cultural condemnation here. But "worst tendencies" for whom? For you, outside the honor killing system, and outside the culture. Within Palestinian culture it may well be seen quite differently, as the word "honor" implies. So who is "stamping it out and working your way in"? It's a projected you, as you would be if you lived in that culture; a fiction, an impossibility. You from that culture would not be you as you think as an American today.

the fact that cultures consist of various individuals, all of whom can and do believe completely different things -- which has nothing to do with this "few bad apples" notion, and everything to do with Momus's strange hivemind notion that a culture cannot produce its own critics.

It's not a hivemind notion, it comes from the deconstructionist idea that language thinks us. And I don't think cultures consist of individuals who can and do believe "completely different things" -- as I said above, the fact that that's a specifically American view, and that you're an American saying it, tends to suggest otherwise.

Momus (Momus), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:54 (nineteen years ago)

If it is seen differently within the culture why the hell are these terrified women running away/fleeing the country/killing themselves?

Trayce (trayce), Sunday, 22 January 2006 23:59 (nineteen years ago)

All the intellectual posturing here's missed something far more important - this is about men, abusing their position of patriarchy, destroying women.

I dont give a fuck about cultural sensitivity - the women themselves do not want to be raped by their own father and then killed because she dishonours him. They dont want their clitorises sliced off and vaginas sewn up. Please lets put this in a context of HUMANITY and not intellectualism or culture.

To be completely glib: won't someone PLEASE think of the women???

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:01 (nineteen years ago)

If it is seen differently within the culture why the hell are these terrified women running away/fleeing the country/killing themselves?

Killing yourself is also honor killing, alas.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:03 (nineteen years ago)

Good lord, Tracer that's my ENTIRE POINT! Momus's first post on this thread = "I disagree with Nabisco, it's possible to generalize in good faith." My subsequent posts to this thread = "that has absolutely nothing to do with what I said!"

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:04 (nineteen years ago)

In other words, half of why I'm annoyed and keep trying to stop myself from talking to Momus is that he's pretending to disagree with me for the purpose of advancing ideas that have nothing to do with anything I've said. I've spent this whole thread trying to differentiate between useful ways of generalizing about culture (i.e., picking out problematic ideas within them and attempting to revise them) and useless ones (e.g. issuing blanket or abstracted condemnations of the core of a society). If Momus's point is simply that we have the ability/obligation to criticize other cultures, he might as well pick someone else to pretend to argue with.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:07 (nineteen years ago)

won't someone PLEASE think of the women???

Afghan women in the driving seat is a BBC news story in which a "liberated" (in every sense) Afghan woman takes a driving test. Her driving instructor, an ex-Taliban, fails her. She is then called a "prostitute", a "bitch" and an "un-Islamic whore" by some men who've gathered to watch.

"We have freedom now," she said. "But we are not free to enjoy it."

It's a sad story, and of course we "condemn" the men. But by invading this nation and offering a freedom which may finally only be illusory (because it's our conception of freedom, and at odds with the culture -- the freedom to drive around in cars rather than to get on well with one's fellow citizens), perhaps we've "condemned" it too.

And what would it take for this woman to become free to enjoy the freedom the Americans have given her by invading and restructuring Afghanistan? Isn't there a tiny hint of genocide in the idea that what stands between "having" and "enjoying" freedom is... Afghan men? Or, if not genocide, culturecide?

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:20 (nineteen years ago)

OK, sorry. It was hard to understand where the point of contention was, and that explains it!

In other news --

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Five of "The 99," from left: Mumita (speedy), Dr. Razem (a gem expert), Rughal (mystery powers), Jabbar (expandable) and Noora (sees truth).

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/22/international/middleeast/22comics.html

"The 99" is a new comic book with superheroes who embody the 99 virtues most Muslims believe God to possess. We can only assume that one will be called "Maher Shakirat (Palestinian woman killer)"

xpost Momus I have to say that last bit is brilliant

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:23 (nineteen years ago)

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Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:34 (nineteen years ago)

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Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:35 (nineteen years ago)

I condemn all men of all cultures through the ages who have beaten, raped, scorned, denied education, murdered and opressed women simply because thats how things are.

Invading countries wont fix it; declaring "our democracy" the solution wont fix it.

Women can, should, and will be the ones who will create their own empowerment and freedom, as we have always done and should never become complacent about.

I'd like to see more people far better versed in feminism than I obviously am not, put some of that focus on this issue, instead of going on about racism and culture and obscuring the real horror, the actual issue, as men always like to do.

"Let us refine your terms". No - let us, thanks.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:37 (nineteen years ago)

Isn't there a tiny hint of genocide in the idea that what stands between "having" and "enjoying" freedom is... Afghan men? Or, if not genocide, culturecide?

Brilliant? Yeah see this is the part where I fail to see why Momus thinks he disagrees with me. My entire point of argument on this thread has been that putting "Afghan men" -- or even "Afghan culture" -- after those ellipses can lead minds toward genocide or culturecide, and even when it doesn't is completely useless in terms of solving the problem in question. My entire point of argument has been that what sits after those ellipses is something more like "ideas and behaviors pervasive among Afghan men/women and Afghan culture." And my entire point of argument has been that these problems get solved not by getting rid of Afghan people or Afghan culture, but by excising, as neatly as possible, the ideas and mentalities that are causing the problem.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:40 (nineteen years ago)

(And also that even when that distinction does require effort, and does require a level of abstraction, it's still sort of our duty to maintain it.)

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:45 (nineteen years ago)

You're leaving out power. Ideas and behaviors are enforced by those who benefit from them. In the case of Afghan gender relations, this would be Afghan men. So you're suggesting excising Afghan men as neatly as possible from... the planet? Seriously, it's like you're saying exactly what Momus is saying you're saying but I know you're not, so I'm confused.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 23 January 2006 00:50 (nineteen years ago)

"We have nothing against you, your culture or your religion. We just don't like the way you treat your women."

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 01:03 (nineteen years ago)

Please for the love of god can some women make some commentary here?

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 23 January 2006 01:08 (nineteen years ago)

trayce i don't think that is what nabisco is saying. you don't have to remove people who hold power from the planet, you have to fight the idea that it's okay to exploit that power and hurt women by using whatever power you have to influence those ideas.

but a part is not a whole, afghan men are made of more than oppression of women and so is afghan culture - for heaven's sake, afghan women are part of afghan culture too. yes, it is anti-relativist and probably insulting to people of a certain culture to attack certain types of behaviors or relationships, but i think it's ridiculous to imply that you can't separate that from the culture as a whole and therefore you must be attacking the culture as a whole. attacking discrimination against women in the us doesn't mean calling the entire economic, religious, and cultural history of the west worthless, it means trying to fix one element. it's wound up in many other things, but that doesn't mean it's monolithic and unchangeable.

Maria (Maria), Monday, 23 January 2006 01:49 (nineteen years ago)

you don't have to remove people who hold power from the planet, you have to fight the idea that it's okay to exploit that power and hurt women by using whatever power you have to influence those ideas.

But that is what I said! What I meant, in any case. I wasnt commenting against anything Nabisco said at all, I dont want to remove anyone from anywhere. I want women to gain empowerment.

I agree muchly with your post, all told, Maria :)

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 23 January 2006 01:52 (nineteen years ago)

(wait, are people confusing me and Tracerhand? Just checking)

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 23 January 2006 01:53 (nineteen years ago)

er yes, i was confusing you :) sorry!

Maria (Maria), Monday, 23 January 2006 01:54 (nineteen years ago)

I dont want to remove anyone from anywhere. I want women to gain empowerment.

But this is a bit like saying "I want to increase public spending and decrease tax". If women are given more power than they currently have, it must come from somewhere. It must diminish someone else's power. Some forms of power might also diminish other forms of power.

For instance, the Afghan woman learning to drive gains the power of mobility (assuming she can ever pass the test) but loses the power a non-combative relationship with Afghan men gave her. Cost benefit analysis is required! And part of that calculation will be the question "Can the post-invasion administration guarantee the conditions under which I enjoy American-style empowerment, even when my fellow citizens, the men with whom I need to collaborate if Afghan society is to continue, resist it?" She might also ask: "Is the West really committed to my freedom, or is that just a figleaf used to conceal ethnocentric hatred of Afghan culture and religion and concern for the West's own strategic interests?"

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 02:09 (nineteen years ago)

What does freedom mean when it just means freedom from context? What does power mean when it just means you'll need twice the strength to fight the people whose power your power threatens?

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 02:15 (nineteen years ago)

i don't think that's in conflict with what trayce's saying, though. removing power from someone isn't equal to removing that person: taking away a man's power to beat his wife doesn't take away the man, so leaving him that much less powerful is not a terrible thing. and empowerment doesn't have to look the same or come about in the exact same way in different regions or cultures. in fact, it's going to work better if it is defined by the women working in accordance with their cultures than by outsiders without much of a conception of how to deal with differences. who said anything about freedom from context? but why shouldn't people want to recast their contexts to have better lives (and if that's not possible due to imbalances in power, why should we celebrate *that*)?

Maria (Maria), Monday, 23 January 2006 02:21 (nineteen years ago)

It has to come from within the context, as you say.

"We don't like the way we treat women" = feminism.

"We don't like the way they treat women" = imperialism using feminism as a figleaf.

Just as

"We struggled to get the vote" = democracy.

"We bombed them to give them the vote" = imperialism using democracy as a figleaf.

The article that started this thread makes it very clear: criticizing other cultures (especially when backed up by superior military force, and actual invasion) is right wing aggression, whatever faux-liberal arguments it uses.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 02:46 (nineteen years ago)

But momus it still sounds like you're excusing violence against women because of the cultural context. Maybe I am misunderstanding you though.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 23 January 2006 02:52 (nineteen years ago)

But Momus, you've turned 180 degrees from what you were saying earlier:

It's perfectly liberal to make moral judgements about cultural-ideological blocs (which might indeed sometimes correspond with national or ethnic groups), and indeed it's a moral obligation at times. If we don't do this we can't fight the things we disagree with; we become political eunuchs.

Yes, I'm conflicted on this. The relativist, non-interventionist part of me is at odds with the judgemental-political part of me. But I did follow that statement with a proviso:

But I also disagree (of course) with Archer's position. He fails to understand why "asymmetrical multiculturalism" (or "double standards") are necessary. They're necessary because we have to take into account all the power relationships in a situation.

This is where it comes down to "tough choices". Given the choice between Palestinian men oppressing Palestinian women, and Israel oppressing Palestine, the latter trumps the former. It is a vastly more worrying asymmetry, and what's truly offesive about the article at the top of the thread is that it not only fails to condemn the greater aysmmetry, but uses the lesser one to justify it. ("This... demonstrates the senselessness of blaming Israel’s Jews for the barbaric and primitive behaviour of Palestinian society.")

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 02:55 (nineteen years ago)

Sharon Lipkin specializes in couching right wing arguments in left wing language. Another of her articles, Perpetuating Poverty, makes a parallel between Australian aboriginals and the Palestinians, then says that what's perpetuating the poverty of both groups is government handouts, UN agencies and clinging to "the right to return".

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 03:09 (nineteen years ago)

Lipkin Lapkin

Momus (Momus), Monday, 23 January 2006 03:10 (nineteen years ago)

sigh

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Monday, 23 January 2006 03:27 (nineteen years ago)

Ha: now I'm totally confused by what the actual points of contention here! But Maria, yes, thanks for understanding (and saying more clearly) the pretty simple point I was, umm, clinging to. Amid confusion. About stuff.

nabiscothingy (nory), Monday, 23 January 2006 06:53 (nineteen years ago)

yeah, stuff sucks.

kingfish kuribo's shoe (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 23 January 2006 06:59 (nineteen years ago)


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