My momma made me learn this song: a gay Winter for 2015

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I've been gone for too long, think it's time to bring it back. It's the last day of the fucking year! How are we feeling about that?

hi!

hi Alfie! have you missed my blurbs?

Like the big time.

:P how have you been?

twas lousy year for me, gtfo

new years kiss for thee, surm

Few things are more promising than relief from a cold, i.e. I can drink again.

Morbs, you asked in the other thread: The Gay Revolution was terrific and every ilxor gay should read it.

and for thee, morbs. i hear you.

hello!

hey girl hey

oh i want to read 'the gay revolution' - 'gay LA' is on my bf's bookshelf and i wanna read that too. first tho, gonna get crackin' on those ferrante novels

relieved this year is over, not especially optimistic about next year. but tonight should be fun, anyway.

it would be cool to go to some big gay thing in cali this year but i'll probably be saving for what will hopefully be my own apartment sans roommates instead.

i was the highest bidder on these for a few days. i'd go higher but i measured my feet and i'm closer to an 11.5 D. i've always wanted to get custom-fitted wesco boots but they're pretty fucking expensive, you have to pay $99 just to send them your measurements.

anyway, i'm home alone on nye after spending a miserable night and morning with my bf. i think i have to make it 'just friends' and move on soon. next week is his birthday though. after that then, sad but ok. imagining finally getting the fuck out of salt lake. i've always hated it here. back to los angeles maybe. hopefully before i'm 40, lol.

i know no one is like here or whatever but i think i'll do a rant anyway. he was 'discombobulated' because he rushed to my place because i asked him what time he was coming over (wednesday is our 'date night', ugh, sorry) and there wasn't immediately anything to do when he arrived? and because he hasn't made it to the grocery store in over a week (like always!) and because there are piles of stuff everywhere in his house that he has made 1/10th of progress on cleaning up in literally over a year's time and somehow those are ok reasons for coming over and giving me the silent treatment. i've been very patient but i'm really coming to understand that his and my approach to time management are irreconcilable. of course i said it was ok on the phone because i want to be nice but i'm at a limit and i've got to start breaking out of this.

feeding oneself and not keeping stuff in piles on the floor / chairs / tables, i want a bf who can do those things

or alternately none at all

happy new year, friends

i know how exhausting it is to try keeping up a relationship where the other refuses to even meet you halfway, letting you do all the emotional work (and every other category of work tbh)

(not speaking of my current bf, ftr)

and he thinks I'm lazy too! Happy new year to everyone here. *mwah*

thx Alfred. we should have a drink, j0rdan. <3 donna. good luck matt.

oh hey a very sexy drunk guy flirted with me the second i walked in the bar last week. happens about once a decade. he was there with his husband (not my type). i think they're "open." i gave the hottie my business card. how gauche.

Watched the last 90 minutes of Creed with a damp face yesterday. I only cry at westerns and boxing mellers.

yeah, I was not expecting Creed to affect me. Michael B. Jordan was terrific and ooh boy a hottie.

i am fasting today and it's not fun!

used to hate thin sweaters talk about a 180

lol wrong thread

in other news my dealer just told me that my hair looks a mess, p sure it's a sign i need to reassess things in my life :P

happy new new, my dear beloved gaywads

happy! i just cut my own hair and i'm still alive!

was a bowl involved?

no thank GOD

just the buzzer - i'm p amazed i did not butcher it

omg I like COMPLETELY missed the last thread and now here we are in winter

based on some random posts i've seen, you've been happy lately Steve, which is a great excuse for not posting and great in general!

i'm reading a paper entitled "An4l Intercourse and Fec4l Incontinence" so none of you have to.

by Robin Wood?

sorry if that came off as uncaring; these days smooching is usually good enough for me, esp since snot and a cancellation from the Pianist kept me from getting my Christmas fuck.

oh right Christmas fuck!

forgot about that one this year. St Patty's fuck it is

soooooooooooooo it's almost Friday....!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm a bit stoned and have mixed a good gin and tonic before watching Gueros again.

ah this explains yr taste in cinemaaaah

lol

i'm a bit stoned and about to WRITE YOU SOME REVIEWS Alfred have fun with that

saw it already last summer, this is recess

Hello gays, I

- haven't smoked a cig since New Year's
- have an ass that makes contact with the seat of my pants now
- am back in the problematic poly situation that nearly killed me/my relationship last year but this time armed with self-esteem and better communication skills
- am going to see a Chinese doctor
- am playing Wind Waker again
- am reading Nazim Hizmet, Robert Glück, Tolstoy shorts and the Carrie Brownstein book
- am going to Sundance
- am feeling full of light and life and love

nice. cigarettes suck and asses are great.

um are you at sundance in an official musical capacity, if you don't mind me asking?

Yeahhhhh *smiles in front of mirror* "A blessing and an inspiration" *tries again* "A blessing and an inspiration"

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"A blessing and an inspiration" *tries again* "A blessing and an inspiration"

i am unfamiliar w/ the concept of an ass that does NOT make contact with the seat of one's pants; diagram, please.

you certainly have a lot of thoughts on butts Jordan xo

so like last night i got drunk but not too drunk but drunk, and i made myself dinner at like 2am, which consisted basically of an avocado salad and then rice krispies for dessert, and now i feel like i can't eat anything

i honestly just want cream cheese

that's all!

i've been a bit of a slut this past week, it seems. it's been fun.

This is fun too: http://www.spin.com/2016/02/sam-smith-howard-ashman-we-should-date-oscars-academy-awards-foot-in-mouth/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter

feel like i've known a lot of sam smiths in my life

good for you patron sailor! i need to figure something out. i have a thing on Sunday with another guy w/ a BF \o_O/

j0rdan is never gonna get in the gay mafia after what he tweeted about the Oscar twinks last week.

The Oscars had twinks?

S Smith and the waxy writer whose role in history he was unaware of!

Sam Smith hardly a twink. For that, try the GayVN awards.

i kneel at the twink throne

i have a date tonight omg

Louis Garrel was dashing and self-deprecating; his film stinks tho.

why do I sense that telling him this would turn him on

my date was cute! also young, which is pretty new for me. we had cocktails and afterward i drove him home & we made out in my car. to be cont'd.

I have started going to the gym! I have officially become ~one of them~

i will be the last holdout

L Garrel is quite self-effacing and direct-seeming, just a bit disappointing; but i'd still drink the bathwater.

i started going to the gym again recently too. it's a tiny one, only has treadmills/ellipticals, weight machines and free weights, and i am so clueless about how to use the machines - i think i might cop a personal training session or two if only for that reason

I have fallen back into the thing that was destroying my life last year
But we've talked and set up boundaries and we're all for it 100% and I'm not depressed any more and I'm, what's the opposite of cautiously optimistic? decisively optimistic

i have a job now? in an office? working super long hours but it's interesting (at least it's interesting two days into it) and rewarding and intellectually stimulating.

i am supposed to decorate my office in a way that conveys my personality and i'm trying to think of art or posters or something that are both gay and office appropriate.

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are you required to decorate your office? My cubicle has a shelf for books. C'es tout.

it is...encouraged?

it was indicated to me by someone who has been here a year longer than me that personalizing offices is smiled upon by the partners etc. etc.

and tbh i will be spending long enough hours here (six day weeks!) that making this room slightly warmer and comfier probably is for the best.

i would just paint the walls black

photos of Lubitsch + nude Jake on mine

so what's the word on scruff v clean-shaven these days

team facial hair til the day i die tbh

Left my razor's power cord in Chicago last summer.

Should I go see Warhol's The Nude Restaurant at surm's workplace tomw night?

well i am

the Bad Muslim emailed me. musta got dumped wants a roll in the hay.

order a double at the nude restaurant then

he's going away for the weekend now, the shit.

had a loverly time tonight in Providence with Patron Sailor! xxoo love ya

i had such an awesome time! A+ show & hang time, thanks for coming thru town!

Went on a date with a former student -- a first. No self-consciousness on either end. It went quite well.

we need a spring thread, you lollygaggers.

is there a spring thread yet? its snowing here today

a friend was having a party because he's moving away, and he told everyone the party is drag themed and to come dressed up blah blah blah

so of course i show up and im the only one in drag, whoops lol

i think that's festive :) :) it's supposed to snow here this weekend!

guys i'm so happy

Hello!

Me and bf are back with other couple, now I'm wondering if there's something wrong with me that all I want to do is lie in bed and cuddle with my lover and can do so for days on end and all else in the world seems stupid

^^ good pop songs are made out of this

also v Clarissa Vaughn fwiw

i'm in a highschool hair stage, like it flips out and up in the front

how do we feel about this?

Two new additions to my lexicon:

Young men who act cute but are not? Twaren'ts.
Men who aren't cute or young and never were? Tweren'ts.

my name is twight've been

just bypassing spring, eh inverts?

I can't bypass spring w/out recording my reunion with rev last week in Seattle:

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sweet