vulva

I can't describe what it actually feels like, though.

It's nothing like that.

Arguably yes for girls sometimes, cos they're the only ones who can be "technically a virgin". Otherwise, virginity's a technically meaningless notion.

This is true: not long after the encounter in which I'd imagined I was losing my virginity, the girl I was with declared "You know, you weren't actually inside of me". It didn't matter much, because I definitely was a couple of days later. But I still think of the first occasion as being the day I officially stopped being a virgin. It's the thought that counts.

am i really the only person who's a bit confused by this?

While we're on the subject of virginity, how does it work if you're a gay man? If two previously innocent boys have penetrative sex, are both of them losing their virginities? If it is both, what happens if they then have sex again but reverse positions? Do they lose a different kind of virginity (i.e. do they have two versions? does a hermaphrodite?). I understand that there's no actual laws governing these matters.

yeah, made me think of the virginity thing in Chasing Amy. but i've mentioned chasing amy is like three threads recently, and i don't want to sound like a broken record. nooch. skateboarding. kittens.

And the whole trying to come up with some sort of mechanical definition of losing virginity is right out of Chasing Amy.

Probably the best way to help Anthony would be a comparison with entering an arse, no?

(PS ewww.)

i can't deal with this, i'm going for a lie down.

Earlier I was wondering what receiving oral sex felt like for a guy. Interesting questions. Answers?

I can't believe I just owned up to that.

Honestly, if you allow for the fact that you don't have the variety of positions and so on, there's more variety than in "regular" sex. Sometimes it's like sex, only ... off. Not "off base," not "off kilter," not "off the money," but if you thought of sex as a straight line from "good" to "bad," this would be skewed from that line, hovering somewhere outside the coloring book. It's different; the difference isn't necessarily better or worse, although sometimes you feel like a nut and sometimes you don't. It's different.

Sometimes it's nothing like other sex, except for the "hey, there's something around my WELL HELLO THERE!" bit.

Sometimes it's boring. Sometimes it's annoying. Sometimes it takes too long, sometimes it goes too fast.

Sometimes it's smooth. Sometimes it's rough. Sometimes it's warm. Sometimes it's hot. Sometimes it's relaxing, and you could practically fall asleep, but in a good, easy chair, rubber spine, just had a beer, kind of way. Sometimes it'll drive you nuts. Sometimes you've got less control, sometimes you've got more, sometimes control isn't in the vocabulary. Sometimes it's just maintenance. Sometimes it's barter. Sometimes it's an appetizer, sometimes it's the meal, sometimes it's dessert, and sometimes you're a lust hobbit having second breakfast.

It varies a whole lot.

good job.

so how do the three entries compare?

I know I'm gonna sound like a sexual relativist ("Stop that, we're cousins!"), but it really ... depends :) I've known women from whom oral sex greatly surpassed nearly anything else we did together when getting our thing in action. I've known women who just plain weren't any good at it, and at their worst were bad enough that their efforts would kill the mood (dear young Tep, it doesn't do anyone any good not to find some diplomatic way of pointing this out, you really should, sincerely, yr friend older Tep).

And then you gotta compare it to the other entries, and man, that varies, too. I mean, there's a lot of Tabs A and Slots B in the world, and no two of them fit together exactly the same way ... and that's just independent of technique and position!

oral has never been my favorite so it's gonna be kinda hard for me to say on that one. when it's good it can be really great, maybe like vaginal but 'hungrier' i guess? but it's usually too much somehow and i lose the feeling before long and want to try something else.

vaginal is great. warm and soft, hot and slick, fantastic and intimate. though it's only great if your partner wants it too! but moving together, when the way each person moves makes both of you feel good............boy it's been too long!.......and though condoms aren't so bad it's usually a goodly amount better without. i've never had a girl who was too loose for me to feel good though i had a couple who were too tight and chafed me.

anal varies. with someone who doesn't like it that much it's nothing too great and it can be really hard to move around inside a tense butt and makes you feel like you're taking advantage so why bother? but if i'm with a girl who really likes it it's amazing. you can really feel each of the two rings gripping you and sucking you in and there's something so...i dunno, *deep* about the way you're joined. straight outta lady chatterley. i guess it's not THAT different from vagina but it's fucking hot and it reduces me to a mewling puddle of desire when i think about it or when a girl i'm attracted to tells me she likes it. let alone when i'm inside that girl and she's having an orgasm from it.

something about it. zowie. being single sucks!

what do ya think of that answer? ;)

I love reducing boys to 'mewling puddles of desire'

hey, so what's the difference between the entries for you? a girl once told me that having anal was like 'having my entire body fucked from my brain to my toes all at once'. i think she said vaginal was like a million hugs all at once. she was a little theatrical. i didn't think to ask her what she thought of oral.

she didn't smoke cloves, did she?

sounds like theater to me.

Anal's extremely intense. Every ounce of your being is focused on what is going right then, right there. Sometimes this can be unplesant, other times it's indescribly good. When it is the latter I want to worship the guy I'm with and give him babies.

Vaginal, is much sweeter, like hugs. The sensations aren't as focused or nearly as intense. The best part of it is the moment after he's all the way in. Someone is in you. . .that's great.

Oral - giving it. Can be tiresome sometimes but I'm pretty good at getting the guy off before I start to tire. I enjoy it b/c I feel powerful and love making someone feel good in bed.

Recieiving, there have been whole threads about this before i think.

"without her mouth"?

See? I told you!

ha, she did smoke cloves! stereotype #23432, zing.

"without her mouth"?

Nevermind, I forgot for a moment we were talking about a non-hypothetical person :)

what do you think it takes to make anal good? do you have better luck with smaller cocks? i laugh when i get penis enlarger ads because i'd rather my penis were a little smaller (thinner) if anal would be easier! of course i use tons of lube and time but i'm sure you know that not very many girls seem to really like anal. i totally respect that but i wish i had the magic touch!

i totally see how oral could get tiresome. holding your mouth open for so long, having your jaw start to hurt, man, i've gotta give props for that. takes a lot of love, or wanting to share pleasure anyway. good thing it's easy to do oral on a girl without getting tired, i'd gladly do it hours on end!

oral. . .i use my hands a lot and don't neccesarily repeat the same motions with my mouth over and over, until i'm ready for him to finish anyway. Variety is key I think.

that's just a sore jaw, then.

you know what really tires my jaw out? giving oral from above, like in 69 when i'm on top. makes me feel like it's gonna break! wonder why that is.

I'm not so sure 36000's going to cause too much heartbreak :)

It feels like a set of dead tongues that are worm like blood and has an aroma of secret sweaty anguish.

-- Mike Hanle y (mike), Tuesday, November 5, 2002 9:22 PM (5 years ago) Bookmark Link

wau

seconded.

My little group at work and our two female bosses riffed on the phrase "south mouth" for ~15 mins. today at the end of the shift.

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damn i wish i had me some vulva right now

Now, bottled:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_DSTZbS6LvA

i am crying right now

thom yorke how cd u betray us all like this

the comments are lol for that advert :)

i think i just threw up a little O.O

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