Tea With the Flames: A QUEER New Year to Keep You Warm in WINTER 2020

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thank you for being a fiend

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 January 2020 17:51 (six years ago)

jeez Sarah Jessica needs some work

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 6 January 2020 17:59 (six years ago)

lol @ you both

surm, Monday, 6 January 2020 18:01 (six years ago)

i just finished redecorating my apartment, it's beautiful! now i just want to get a bar cart . . . . . . . . . this is gonna be a full on bach pad imma tell you right now

― surm, Monday, January 6, 2020 11:44 AM

i suggest modeling it on Rock Hudson's in Pillow Talk

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 6 January 2020 18:02 (six years ago)

omg. so hot. now i just need a party line!
also: i've been listening to a LOT of Doris Day. in the morning when i get ready. gay much?

surm, Monday, 6 January 2020 18:04 (six years ago)

que sera sera

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 6 January 2020 18:05 (six years ago)

queer sera sera!

surm, Monday, 6 January 2020 18:09 (six years ago)

We missed a bet not calling this thread FEAST OF THE ASS.

Maria Edgelord (cryptosicko), Monday, 6 January 2020 18:12 (six years ago)

#culo

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 January 2020 18:13 (six years ago)

hieeeee

clouds, Monday, 6 January 2020 22:54 (six years ago)

hey girl hey!

surm, Monday, 6 January 2020 23:00 (six years ago)

i'm having a situation with a coworker and i'm about to lose it on his straight white male ass
good morning!

surm, Tuesday, 7 January 2020 15:32 (six years ago)

that was super uncomfortable.

surm, Thursday, 9 January 2020 18:14 (six years ago)

i'm about to lose it on his straight white male ass

I am sure we're all reading this the correct way.

temporarily embarrassed thousandaire (Eric H.), Thursday, 9 January 2020 18:44 (six years ago)

Also, remind me what day again the Feast of the Ass is? I think I'm out of town.

temporarily embarrassed thousandaire (Eric H.), Thursday, 9 January 2020 18:45 (six years ago)

January 14th is the FEAST OF THE ASS

totally unnecessary bewbz of exploitation (DJP), Thursday, 9 January 2020 18:50 (six years ago)

Tuesdays are bad for me.

temporarily embarrassed thousandaire (Eric H.), Thursday, 9 January 2020 18:57 (six years ago)

ummmmmmmm so when are you getting married!??!??!?!?!?

surm, Thursday, 9 January 2020 19:32 (six years ago)

(not on a Tuesday i guess)

surm, Thursday, 9 January 2020 19:44 (six years ago)

No but I hope to make Feast of the Ass the reception theme!

temporarily embarrassed thousandaire (Eric H.), Thursday, 9 January 2020 20:04 (six years ago)

We're looking to do it in late September or early October.

temporarily embarrassed thousandaire (Eric H.), Thursday, 9 January 2020 20:05 (six years ago)

Ass hysteria!

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 9 January 2020 20:12 (six years ago)

i'm glad you waited to do it, v quaint

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 January 2020 21:46 (six years ago)

Quaint misbehavin'

temporarily embarrassed thousandaire (Eric H.), Thursday, 9 January 2020 21:49 (six years ago)

perfect time for a wedding. October weddings are my absolute favorite. perfect time to wear a jacket.

surm, Friday, 10 January 2020 16:01 (six years ago)

Hi queers. Holidays were a shit-show for me emotionally but I’m excited to be alive and mobile on this dreary day

flamboyant goon tie included, Friday, 10 January 2020 17:10 (six years ago)

what happened flambo?

surm, Friday, 10 January 2020 17:11 (six years ago)

Rather not focus on the bad but instead focus on the good, tbh?

There is something so appealing about a man with an enormous dick who is really only interested in touching the previously untouched, not about the nut or about showing off.

flamboyant goon tie included, Friday, 10 January 2020 23:12 (six years ago)

i like that image

surm, Saturday, 11 January 2020 17:33 (six years ago)

my new fling has an enormous d. he wants to put it in me. i'm not sure about it.

surm, Saturday, 11 January 2020 17:34 (six years ago)

what did y'all do this weekend?

surm, Monday, 13 January 2020 19:13 (six years ago)

Fighting a light infection and some latent depression, slept a lot. You?

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 13 January 2020 19:27 (six years ago)

talked to a visiting British pop journalist at Julius'

went to a party and chatted up an adorable hetero man i have a hopeless crush on

saw a couple old restored movies at MoMA

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 13 January 2020 19:28 (six years ago)

that sounds glorious, when were u at Julius? i was there on Friday night.

also been fighting a cold. i hooked up with a friend and watched some good movies. INSIDIOUS is great!!!!!!!!!! that was some scary shit. and yesterday i finally got around to playing/recording some music thank goodness.

what do you do when you get depressed to fight it flambo?

surm, Monday, 13 January 2020 19:30 (six years ago)

i was there Saturday around 7. pre-SRO

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 13 January 2020 19:38 (six years ago)

an unusually quiet weekend except for a happy hour. Saw 4K Trouble in Paradise yesterday.

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 13 January 2020 19:42 (six years ago)

@ surm, I ask for extensions on my deadlines, I go for walks, I cook, I smoke weed and watch movies in the evening.

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 13 January 2020 20:18 (six years ago)

<3 love those remedies. extensions, weed and movies are all part of my arsenal too.

surm, Monday, 13 January 2020 20:19 (six years ago)

went to the desert with my husband. a lovely time, got in some hiking and a li’l hot tub canoodling

donna rouge, Tuesday, 14 January 2020 00:30 (six years ago)

sounds great, big desert fan here

ingredience (map), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 01:30 (six years ago)

i'm moving into a (really cute and nice) trailer with my bf next month.

ingredience (map), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 01:32 (six years ago)

donna where did you guys go?

ingredience (map), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 01:33 (six years ago)

also: I had a really fucking powerful gummy bear for the Lubitsch film

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 01:35 (six years ago)

tsk tsk

if you can't get high on Lubitsch alone...

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 01:56 (six years ago)

I'm in Boston, enjoying the skyline somehow?

temporarily embarrassed thousandaire (Eric H.), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 02:56 (six years ago)

that sounds nice! the skyline in Boston is indeed mesmerizing. donna your vacation sounds p much perfect.

surm, Tuesday, 14 January 2020 16:48 (six years ago)

i can't recall any detail of Bos skyline aside from Citgo sign next to Fenway

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 17:00 (six years ago)

has anyone here ever gotten a nose job?

surm, Tuesday, 14 January 2020 21:09 (six years ago)

is that like a blow job

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 22:04 (six years ago)

u know what you're practically glowing through the computer screen, i am very happy for your new life!

surm, Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:53 (five years ago)

don't do it, surm, it'd be a deprivation for you and whoever else

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 March 2020 20:59 (five years ago)

then again as someone who usu indulges via... parties... i wonder if coronavirus should change that

hmmm, no

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 March 2020 21:01 (five years ago)

o right u like the parties

that's very sweet of you, what you said, i'm really juggling the options. it feels weird so far, you know it's only been a month. i look kinda disastrous so i probably need to plan like a salon day.

surm, Thursday, 5 March 2020 21:13 (five years ago)

oh shit i’ve only just realised these threads are full queer now. hello fellow queers!

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:05 (five years ago)

oh snap! i didn't know you were queer! weeheeeeeeee!!!

surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:08 (five years ago)

(by that, i mean i didn’t feel right posting in what were nominally gay threads)

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:08 (five years ago)

yes we're very queer now
i never liked the word gay tbh, i don't even identify as gay even though i'm a man who likes men!

surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:09 (five years ago)

xp yeah, i went through a whole bisexual coming-out process last year, complete with counselling and therapy groups

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:10 (five years ago)

that's amazing! so proactive and positive.

surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:11 (five years ago)

oh i completely get that, the label thing can be frustrating when attraction/identity are so much more complicated

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:11 (five years ago)

<3 are you like seeing people now?

surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:12 (five years ago)

no change to my life at all, i just didn’t want to keep hiding who i am (although it’s properly grand to see a staggeringly hot dude at a carnival and grab my mate and say “just don’t talk to me for the next 20 seconds, just don’t”)

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:15 (five years ago)

:D :D :D love it

surm, Friday, 6 March 2020 21:16 (five years ago)

<3

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:16 (five years ago)

It would be presumptive of me to identify as queer tbh. But luckily this thread welcomes all kinds!

crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:22 (five years ago)

Instead of celibacy, I gorge on Muriel Spark novel.s

Welcome, Autumn! We need to expand the membership.

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:31 (five years ago)

thank you!

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:37 (five years ago)

and let's talk about Hawt Guys You Have Seen.

have you done the deed yet?

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:39 (five years ago)

“done the deed” bahahahaha

fwiw i identify as queer because sometimes it’s easier than having to explain things (including the 1990s)

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 6 March 2020 21:42 (five years ago)

Lately I've been really enjoying mangling Twitter slang irl. "I enjoy to see it." "I hate to see that." "And that's the that on it, question mark."

meaner stinks meat bake it cone (flamboyant goon tie included), Sunday, 8 March 2020 21:43 (five years ago)

i'm back on twitter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

surm, Monday, 9 March 2020 16:08 (five years ago)

You picked quite a time to make your return!

crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Monday, 9 March 2020 17:14 (five years ago)

why, has sumthin been happnin

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Monday, 9 March 2020 17:51 (five years ago)

Same thing, just more of it and infinitely worse.

crusty but malignant (Eric H.), Monday, 9 March 2020 17:59 (five years ago)

oh no

surm, Monday, 9 March 2020 18:40 (five years ago)

the cancelled f1 grand prix is in my neighbourhood, lewis hamilton suddenly has three days off, and so do i

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Friday, 13 March 2020 02:22 (five years ago)

godspeed

DJP, Friday, 13 March 2020 13:29 (five years ago)

do any other singles over the age of 40 think you've had sex for the last time?

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 14 March 2020 23:17 (five years ago)

Because of COVID? I don't think that's gonna be the case at all, I think once the virus starts to go into remission there'll be a massive sex party

meaner stinks meat bake it cone (flamboyant goon tie included), Sunday, 15 March 2020 02:11 (five years ago)

I had funtime with a guy who left Seattle two weeks ago!

End times!

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 15 March 2020 02:24 (five years ago)

not a good time in my life for there to be a sex strike

surm, Tuesday, 17 March 2020 06:21 (five years ago)

captain trips has obliterated my queer connections

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Thursday, 26 March 2020 06:53 (five years ago)

SPRING already

worst spring ever

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 26 March 2020 12:09 (five years ago)

How is everybody holding up?

I'm finally out of my depression and getting some work done! Hooray!

we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:10 (five years ago)

Dunno how I'll survive without a man's arms around my cock for the next six months.

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:14 (five years ago)

Grindr should start an offshoot app called Sheltr that's specifically for gays looking for a quarantine buddy

we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:43 (five years ago)

(I would prob use Sheltr regardless of quarantine, all I want is somebody for whom I can cook breakfast)

we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:44 (five years ago)

not even thinking about sex much

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 26 March 2020 16:47 (five years ago)

Work is keeping me occupied roughly 80% of my waking hours these days, which is to say I am holding up.

coronoshebettadontvirus (Eric H.), Thursday, 26 March 2020 17:23 (five years ago)

Following a routine has been pretty easier.

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 March 2020 17:35 (five years ago)

I have been waking up at 8/9am, making coffee, blinking and realizing it's 3:30pm. I don't know where my days are going. Ugh!

we have no stan but to choice (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 26 March 2020 19:21 (five years ago)

two weeks pass...

Omg guys

surm, Friday, 10 April 2020 14:17 (five years ago)

How are we, do we have a spring thread

surm, Friday, 10 April 2020 14:17 (five years ago)

I'm a month sex-free!

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 10 April 2020 14:19 (five years ago)

sex appreciates it

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Friday, 10 April 2020 22:13 (five years ago)

atm i’m so deprived of humans that every person i see on the street is unusually hot

karmic blowback for dissing pip and jane baker (Autumn Almanac), Saturday, 11 April 2020 01:38 (five years ago)

OMG
Same
It’s gotten to the point where literally at the grocery store today I was checking out guys with face masks on

surm, Sunday, 19 April 2020 19:16 (five years ago)

I have been banned from the streets

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 19 April 2020 19:35 (five years ago)

self-isolating LGBTs of SPRING 2020

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 19 April 2020 19:36 (five years ago)


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