Here are 10 cute ways to ask a girl out over text.
1. I’ve wanted to try this new restaurant, and they have your favorite food. What time are you free?
Assume that she’ll say yes. This is an ideal text to send after you’ve engaged in a few text conversations. Most girls will smile at the idea that you remembered something they told you, such as their favorite dish. Please make sure the mood is light before texting her this question and not opening the dialogue. Lead into the question instead.
2. Good morning, are you free for lunch?
It may seem simple, but many girls like to receive “good morning” texts. It shows that they’re on your mind or that you care enough to send a text first thing in the morning. Don’t worry if she doesn’t text back right away. Keep in mind that schedules may conflict, but if she’s interested, you should hear back from her by the end of the day at least.
3. How’s your day going? Would you like to have dinner?
Show her that you’re interested in what she has going on by asking about her day. Too often, guys send short texts with no substance. Engage her thoughts and emotions by being cordial and caring simultaneously. Girls appreciate guys that care and show interest in their daily activities.
4. I hope you rest well tonight. Would you like to meet for coffee or breakfast in the morning?
The “good night” text should be sent after you’ve been communicating via text for a while. However, saying good night is a great way to lead into asking her out casually. Make it a point to say something more than good night but indicate the same, such as I hope you have a good night or rest well tonight.
5. I’m so proud of you and can’t wait to see you. Let’s go out and celebrate!
Congratulatory moments are one of the easiest and less intimidating ways to ask a girl out over text. Keep in mind that you don’t want to make it sound too casual. Your goal is to let her know that you’re interested in her and want to date her. Make sure to include how excited you are for her and that you’re proud of her accomplishments.
6. I’ve missed talking to you, let’s get together for dinner.
This is a great way to reintroduce yourself into her life if communication has been non-existent lately. Be clear about your feelings, and it’s okay to say that you’ve missed her. This lets her know that you like to spend time with her and miss doing so.
7. I enjoy talking and texting with you and would like to take you out.
This is a straightforward text that explains exactly what you want. There’s no beating around the bush or sugar-coating at all. You state your intentions and await her reply. Girls appreciate honesty and a guy who can express himself. This is a form of pure self-expression at its best.
8. I have an extra ticket to that movie you wanted to see. What time should I pick you up?
Now, you may not already have the ticket, but it leads to opening the door to a movie date. If you know that she likes going to the movies or she’s mentioned once that she’d like to see, go ahead and text her to make it a date.
9. I have this event coming up and would like you to accompany me.
If you’ve received an invitation that includes a plus 1, ask her to accompany you. It may be a wedding, dinner, or other formal affairs. This sets the pace for a second date because attending an event is less intimate but still considered a date.
10. My family is getting together this weekend. I’d love it if you’d join me.
Inviting a girl to spend time with you and your family is big. It would be best if you only introduced her to the family once you’re exclusive unless she’s already familiar with the family. Having her around you and your family allows her to see you in genuine form. She can see what type of person you are and find out what’s important to you in life.
Poll Results
| Option | Votes |
| 7. I enjoy talking and texting with you and would like to take you out. | 3 |
| 1. I’ve wanted to try this new restaurant, and they have your favorite food. What time are you free? | 1 |
| 9. I have this event coming up and would like you to accompany me. | 1 |
| 8. I have an extra ticket to that movie you wanted to see. What time should I pick you up? | 1 |
| 6. I’ve missed talking to you, let’s get together for dinner. | 1 |
| 4. I hope you rest well tonight. Would you like to meet for coffee or breakfast in the morning? | 1 |
| 2. Good morning, are you free for lunch? | 1 |
| 10. My family is getting together this weekend. I’d love it if you’d join me. | 1 |
| 5. I’m so proud of you and can’t wait to see you. Let’s go out and celebrate! | 0 |
| 3. How’s your day going? Would you like to have dinner? | 0 |
― my hands are always in my pockets or gesturing. (Karl Malone), Sunday, 12 December 2021 22:43 (three years ago)