Not a fag, just shy

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so for the 4th time in a month, i had a conversation with someone who thot they were queer in high school, everyone of these dialouges consists mostly of them being shy and not liking girls alot, and since they didnt like girls, they must like guys. for someone who spent high school sure he liked boys, this kind of thinking flummoxes me, where does it come from ? i mean wouldnt you know who you liked cause of who you jacked off to ? or is it more complex ?

― anthony easton (anthony), Friday, 22 November 2002 16:52 (twenty-three years ago)

Sometimes it's not a question of who you wank over, but who approaches YOU first. I wanked over Bobby G, but there was barely a John Bender at my school, let alone a Bobby G, and even he wouldn't have touched me with a bargepole. The first person that actually expressed an interest in me sexually was a woman. When you're 17, you're open to suggestions.

― kate, Friday, 22 November 2002 16:54 (twenty-three years ago)

so how do we determine sexual idenity. is it an act ? does the term queer have any value ? what do we do with the shy boys who dont want to fuck, and think that there are only two options. also can i take that sexual ambiguity and rub it all over one of the 4, the one who i have a massive, raging hard on for ?

― anthony easton (anthony), Friday, 22 November 2002 18:09 (twenty-three years ago)

i thought you were going to become a monk.

― dan (dan), Friday, 22 November 2002 18:43 (twenty-three years ago)

with boys like this roaring arround ?

― anthony easton (anthony), Friday, 22 November 2002 19:08 (twenty-three years ago)

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