Now that we're approaching the four year anniversary, I thought we could have repository of our early days memoriesThose first Zoom calls.. people crossing the street to avoid each other... wiping down groceries with alcohol... meeting friends in the park but sitting in a giant circle.. coyotes howling in the Financial District
I was just putting toilet paper away, and I still have a roll of this really awful stuff that I bought four years ago.. made in vietman, visible wood chips in the paper, and it cost nine dollars for four rolls at a convenience store
Anyway, this is where we can share the good, the bad, the sad
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:32 (one year ago)
Funny, I never suffered a toilet paper shortage -- I was usually the guy who brought my parents toilet paper from the store and leave it early in the morning outside their door.
The first week felt like a vacation: we were supposed to come back in April, remember? But on a vacation things are open and you can hang out with friends. The psychological toll didn't become apparent until early or mid April. It sucked.
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:34 (one year ago)
Yeah, I remember when they warned that this 'could last as long as six weeks'(!)
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:36 (one year ago)
I started my last in-office job on March 16, 2020. (My previous full-time in-office job had ended in May 2017; I'd been freelancing and doing contract work from home since then.) On Wednesday, March 18, we were told we would be working from home for the time being. My initial 90-day contract was not renewed at the end of June, because the job was doing social media for a medical school and there was basically no activity to share, other than media hits by professors being interviewed about Covid.
― Tahuti Watches L&O:SVU Reruns Without His Ape (unperson), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:43 (one year ago)
I remember going to the store for the first time when we had to stand outside in line because only a certain amount of people were allowed inside the store at one time. I felt extremely maudlin and dissociated.
I also remember another grocery trip to a large international market where the store music started playing the Sufjan Stevens song "Chicago." At first I thought I might be dead bc this was all too surreal to be real, and then I realized I wasn't dead and this was reality and I started crying in the frozen food aisle near the pierogi/dumpling area.
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:44 (one year ago)
i remember lots of walks in the phoenix park, which we were lucky to have on our doorstep at the time.
― close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:45 (one year ago)
On April 20 we celebrated a good friend's birthday -- my first contact with people outside my family -- in his backyard. Just four of us. We had three tables set up about twenty feet apart. Masks to use the bathroom.
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:45 (one year ago)
Yeah, my wife and I were standing in line outside Target and the woman ahead of us felt like we were too close; she looked back at us and exclaimed, "Six feet! Six feet!" We took a step backwards and she visibly relaxed.
Trying to remember when we switched from just wearing bandanas over our faces to actual masks. It was probably only a few days but it seemed like longer.
― Tahuti Watches L&O:SVU Reruns Without His Ape (unperson), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:46 (one year ago)
Hardly anyone was driving so the air smelled so clean for months. I wish it could have lasted forever.
― peace, man, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:47 (one year ago)
oh god i just remembered teaching online the first few weeks and one of my students had her autistic 12 year old son at home too (because obvs he wasn't going to school either) and he was giving her a very hard time and screaming "I fucking hate you" so loud that she had to mute. But she didn't know how so we all heard it :(
i remember finding some solace in the truth that no one knew what they were doing and we were all just doing our best, whatever that means.
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:49 (one year ago)
I was just in a grocery store last weekend that had faded strips of red tape on the floor, six feet apart leading up to the cash register
We'll probably be seeing these reminders for years to come
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:51 (one year ago)
I had a bag of surgical masks from, like, 2011 left over from a bad cold. I used them and whatever shitty fabric masks you could buy on Amazon before they became available. To think that KN95 masks didn't become easily available until mid '21!
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:52 (one year ago)
I remember the first few days when we'd all been sent home, taking long walks around our neighborhood with bandanas and balaclavas around our noses and mouths. A few days into it (though in retrospect it feels much longer), my mom had handmade some masks she sent out to the whole family. Obviously those turned out to not be "safe" masks anyway, but it's a strong memory of the second half of March 2020 for me. Those were the days of the "flatten the curve" signs in some houses, while things were quiet just before the sirens became near constant to the nearby hospital.
I specifically remember the day we turned the corner and saw the field tent in the hospital parking lot that had been constructed, literally, overnight. That was really a "holy shit" moment for me.
― Maxmillion D. Boosted (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:55 (one year ago)
I went to a local shop that first weekend and it was decimated, ransacked even. That afternoon, I drove to a farm shop (not quite as posho as it sounds, but not far off) and there was this apocalyptic atmosphere: huge queues, the stink of slurry in the air, everyone wild-eyed and frantic. At one point, a white van pulled up, driving aggressively close to the queue; three huge blokes got out and pushed their way to the front. I remember thinking 'fuuuck, this could escalate quickly'.
― I would prefer not to. (Chinaski), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:57 (one year ago)
I had a bag of surgical masks from, like, 2011 left over from a bad cold. I used them and whatever shitty fabric masks you could buy on Amazon before they became available. To think that KN95 masks didn't become easily available until mid '21!― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, March 12, 2024 2:52 PM (six seconds ago) bookmarkflaglink
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, March 12, 2024 2:52 PM (six seconds ago) bookmarkflaglink
I had a pack of n95s in my desk from about a decade earlier as well. A colleague came to work sick - coughing, sneezing, etc. - and I marched down the street to CVS because damned if I was going to catch this guy's cold. But when I got back to my desk, I was too embarrassed to wear them, so I just caught his cold anyway. I found them in my desk when I snuck back to the office in May 2020 to nab my monitors and docking station, and was like "score!"
― peace, man, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:57 (one year ago)
also everyone was sewing masks and giving them to friends. i gave an erstwhile ilxor (carl agatha) an old vintage dress that she turned into masks, and my sis in law (who has since contracted and died of cancer) made a bunch of masks for the family too.
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 18:58 (one year ago)
same! same hospital too iirc
― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:00 (one year ago)
Good topic. Out and about right now, but will jot down some thoughts later.
― clemenza, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:02 (one year ago)
The period in February 2020 just before the formal UK Lockdown was really scary: I work in the UK public sector and rumours were abounding that Ministers had just been briefed that tens of thousands of people were expected to die, and were shocked and 'scared shitless', and that government was exploring requisitioning football stadiums to store the bodies.
My "Holy Shit" moment was walking through Camden Market on the afternoon of 13 March 2020 after a work event and it was apocalyptically deserted.
― Dr Drudge (Bob Six), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:04 (one year ago)
ha, yep! assuming it is indeed.
― Maxmillion D. Boosted (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:09 (one year ago)
It was April. All the restaurants were closed and most of them hadn't figured out how to convert to take-out, yet. We would walk through our neighborhood streets around suppertime smelling hamburgers being grilled everywhere we went. It became a joke.
We have always cooked our own meals at home, so our diet was far more varied than hamburgers. otoh, I recall the challenge of making one grocery shopping trip to buy 15 to 17 days worth of fresh food for two and not having any food spoil before it was eaten, shuffling along in the line of people waiting to be admitted to the store, six feet apart, wearing a homemade cloth mask. People were always polite, but we didn't converse.
The public library closed and stayed that way for many months. We're big readers, but luckily I always have at least 30 books waiting on the shelf. The main problem became finding reading material that could be enjoyed when everything in life was skewed and depressing. We ran through a lot of our old DVDs on nights we would normally have read books.
― more difficult than I look (Aimless), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:09 (one year ago)
I was sent home from work right around March 16th or 17th, with a laptop.. I didn't even have home internet! But my quick-thinking girlfriend called the library and I borrowed a wifi hotspot for three weeks until I could get something more permanent through work
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:11 (one year ago)
key memories- wearing an N-95 for the first time at the farmers market: couldn’t breathe right, felt so panicked, felt like I was in a horror movie, all i could see were masks everywhere & scared eyes, got back to the car & had a massive panic attack - going to the supermarket: checkout attendants looking so scared behind perspex barriers; toilet paper shelves completely empty; watching couples double up on TP and join separate checkout lines & feeling RAGE - our office went remote by march 20th iirc and we stayed permanently remote to this day. thought i would hate it, did at first, but love it now wouldnt trade it for anything
― werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:12 (one year ago)
We were very lucky: our public libraries resumed curbside service the first week of May! You'd reserve the book online, then pick it up.
The second week of June the libraries reopened to the public with limited occupancy and face masks required (and a security guard enforcing the rules). THAT was my lifeline. I'd spent hours at my laptop and browsing the shelves for stuff I'd never usually read.
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:12 (one year ago)
I live in Wisconsin where the Tavern League has an insane amount of influence over local law for whatever reason. All the businesses and restaurants were closed but many of the bars were still open. It was so surreal to drive around at night and see the whole town dead except these little corner bars which were still all lit up.
― frogbs, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:13 (one year ago)
Mid-March 2020 and maybe like a day or two before we learned that a case had been reported in our office and on our floor (and, like, not shared publicly with the employees who were about to walk out in droves if we hadn't gone fully WFH the next day), but numbers were slowly increasing in Chicago and everyone was understandably on edge. I was walking down the street and saw two business dudes approach one another and automatically shake hands as business dudes do, and both of their faces just immediately melted into expressions of dread at the realization of the deadly plague that they had so casually passed on to one another (RIP, business dudes).
― Great-Tasting Burger Perceptions (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:21 (one year ago)
The weather in the first six weeks was incredible, particularly for the UK in April. We were only supposed to take an hour of exercise, but the countryside was so deserted that I was doing longer and longer loops from my house. One of my main memories is of opening farm gates with my elbows, and, if I absolutely had to use my hands, sanitising immediately. It was irrational but somehow the idea of infection pervaded everything.
― I would prefer not to. (Chinaski), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:26 (one year ago)
Same in South Florida -- the mildest of springs.
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:28 (one year ago)
I remember flying from LA to Atlanta just after Garcetti's stay at home order came out. The crew took an extra hour to clean the plane before we got on. It was surreal, I felt like I was in a movie.
― immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:36 (one year ago)
Remember the NYC morgue trucks? Such grim imagery, I kept thinking of The Andromeda Strain or some dystopian sci-fi movie
https://ei.marketwatch.com/Multimedia/2020/04/01/Photos/ZH/MW-ID515_NYCtru_20200401095435_ZH.jpg
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:37 (one year ago)
Definitely a time. My running assumption is that baking sourdough and watching Tiger King consumes a lot of memories then. In SF it was more this sense of a slow motion build that was in the air for weeks, thanks in part to regular flights between East Asia and here in particular. I remember seeing my first maskers in public in early February, then of course there was that cruise ship docked in the bay itself. The real tell was the slow reduction in gathering size over the final three weeks before lockdown — I went to a slew of shows then and was on the verge of another when hours beforehand the mayor basically said “That’s it.” It was a Friday so I locked up the library and I believe a day later told my supervisors that according to city regulations (my library is essentially a split between the city and my campus) we had to stay closed. Didn’t go back even quickly for an equipment overview for surely months; location didn’t reopen until last May.My one on-point comment at the time to Kate was that we were about to see who could actually live with themselves if they had to stay put and chill for a bit. I still think that the very idea of it drove people beyond a boundary that they have never recrossed; I get human connection and its need and all but the sense of a slew of extroverts who absolutely had no idea what to do was pretty clear.
― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:41 (one year ago)
i remember putting a lot of effort into cooking new things, planning movie nights, reading up on pieces of info on jobs that could be done around the place.
got very productive for a burst of the first six months or so
― close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:43 (one year ago)
(may not have lasted)
xp my ex and I actually drove out to see the cruise ship at the Port of Oakland... we actually got pretty close, there were no security staff and we just walked right up to it; a lot of ambulances coming and going
One of the first recorded deaths (maybe THE first recorded death in the U.S.) was a woman in Santa Clara, thought with hindsight there were probably many more - they just didn't know the cause of death at the time
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:45 (one year ago)
My one on-point comment at the time to Kate was that we were about to see who could actually live with themselves if they had to stay put and chill for a bit. I still think that the very idea of it drove people beyond a boundary that they have never recrossed;
*raises hand* I learned a few things that spring and summer. I'm an introvert but not shy. Except for an outdoor visit to my parents' on Fridays I was on my own seven days a week for weeks. It crushed me.
I'd do it again if I had to, only this time I'd insist on moving in with a friend.
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:47 (one year ago)
My brother lives by himself. The isolation was not good for him at all. He became absolutely convinced he had stomach cancer. (He didn't."
― immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:48 (one year ago)
I routinely met a couple buddies for beers down by the lake, starting almost immediately... I think we had a somewhat fatalist idea of our meetups because we didn't necessarily social distance as diligently as we should have
But those hangs helped save my sanity
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:51 (one year ago)
In retrospect, to keep from dredging up painful memories of how bad my mental health got some months, I try to hold onto the undeniable good (and there was, actually!) to come out of it. Which isn't to say I want to minimize the very real suffering or imply it was a good time, but I remain ever thankful that I was able to have a lot more time with my school age kid than I would have through those first 18 months or so.
― Maxmillion D. Boosted (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:53 (one year ago)
Yeah, as the relative safety of outdoor activity became clear, I used to go to a friend's for an outdoor happy hour a couple times a week. She wouldn't even let me in the house: I'd go around the back and she'd bring a drink out to me. She wouldn't let me tip.
― poppers fueled buttsex crescendo (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:54 (one year ago)
After waking up at 5:30 a.m. every workday and commuting two hours each way for 14 1/2 years, I felt peace! It helped that remote work technology had caught up by then. As an introvert it was great (I lived with my brother though, and had two cats, so not alone. The cats loved us being home all the time.). For the first several months also I didn't have any sick family or friends, until a close friend maybe had a medical emergency that was ostensibly not COVID but I still wonder.
― from a prominent family of bassoon players (Boring, Maryland), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 19:55 (one year ago)
A good friend lost his mom to Covid.. I knew her pretty well. She got it at a rehabilitation hospital that was neglecting safe practices.. he's still pretty bitter about it
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:00 (one year ago)
We moved out of the city in the middle of the pandemic, first to a rental and then bought a house. I will probably get rotten eggs with "check your privilege" written on them thrown at me for saying it, but I have a lot of good memories from that time. It was scary and strange, but we were very lucky to be able to do what we did. I got to watch a lot more of a crucial time in my kids' growing up than I would otherwise. I have really sweet memories like watching them learn to roller skate on the driveway, the fake "day camp" my wife invented for them where they learned about different countries, nice BBQs, long walks and hikes (and my kids learning to actually enjoy hikes), all kinds of absurd imaginary games and stories we invented, funny songs they made up, doing a puzzle late at night with my then 5yo when she couldn't sleep, seeing fox and groundhog in the yard and the kids giving them names, simple pleasures like pizza delivery seeming extra enjoyable, etc. I got really attached to an orb weaver spider I found in our yard spinning its web. I remember one night sitting in the back yard and I heard jazz, like actually surprisingly good modern jazz, wafting from the distance, and I just went walking and followed the sound until I found a very tiny outdoor socially distanced concert in someone's yard and watched from across the street.
It all sounds very corny and NPR and oblivious I know, but it was part of my experience. There was of course stress and isolation and worry too, but the feeling of the nicer parts of it is unlike anything I've experienced at any other time in my life.
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:05 (one year ago)
I wouldn't say the pandemic was a root cause of our moving from urban New Jersey to rural Montana, but the pandemic — and specifically seeing how many industries shifted to remote work much more seamlessly than one might expect, and how much people seemed to like that and refuse to "return to the office" later — definitely planted the seed in our heads that hey, we can live anywhere, there's no financial/professional reason we have to stay where we are.
― Tahuti Watches L&O:SVU Reruns Without His Ape (unperson), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:11 (one year ago)
we bought our home during covid, moved in in july 21
wouldnt have happened without covid savings and remote working
― close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:15 (one year ago)
I got to watch a lot more of a crucial time in my kids' growing up than I would otherwise.
Yeah, this is what I was getting at.
and specifically seeing how many industries shifted to remote work much more seamlessly than one might expect
And yet, so many of those very same industries (or at least companies) were already by 2023 furiously backtracking that, actually, "remote doesn't work". *insert all of the eyerolls here*
― Maxmillion D. Boosted (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:16 (one year ago)
yeah, our CEO was writing things about how 'we can't wait to get everybody back into the office!' Then she bought a house in Florida and hasn't brought that shit up again
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:17 (one year ago)
My one on-point comment at the time to Kate was that we were about to see who could actually live with themselves if they had to stay put and chill for a bit. I still think that the very idea of it drove people beyond a boundary that they have never recrossed; I get human connection and its need and all but the sense of a slew of extroverts who absolutely had no idea what to do was pretty clear.― Ned Raggett
― Ned Raggett
i'm managing to live with myself better than i used to. my ex-wife, on the other hand...
it's hard to sort the memories out. i'm glad i have a journal for it. it all blends together in my mind. transition, COVID, Trump's invasion of Portland, the slow collapse of my marriage. looking at my journal i talk about there being what i termed at the time a "phony war". it was serious and not at the same time. there were all these random product shortages. everything seemed like a harbinger to me then. it seemed like everything was going to fall apart. so much of a sense of personal disappointment. i'd just socially transitioned a little over three months before, i was just on HRT. after a lifetime of isolating, of avoiding people, i wanted to get _out_, i wanted to be _social_, i wanted to be _me_. i wanted people to see who i really was. for a lot of people, covid isolation allowed them... to see who they really were, without being judged by other people. it helped a lot of people to transition. the wave of COVID transitions, i think of that as a new generation, a separate generation. i felt differently.
looking back i see what i remember. a lot of fear. a lot of panic. when the smog hit that august i pretty much lost it completely. i think i quit ilx at some point because i couldn't handle communicating with other people like that.
― Kate (rushomancy), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:22 (one year ago)
All I did was practice viola, play video games, cook my way through Marcella Hazan and drink too much every night. It was a weird year. I didn't want to reach out to friends over text or call them because I had nothing to talk about, nothing was happening, which was weird.
― braaam.flac (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:30 (one year ago)
I remember the 4th Feb 2020, my son's 18th birthday and the last time I travelled on a train and also the last time I visited a public swimming pool. iirc it was a few days after the first UK cases and I was nervy + pulling my t-shirt over my mouth on the train and my son was getting annoyed with me and pulling it back down, he does the same if I pull it over my face when he does a disgusting fart in my proximity! I was convinced my mum and stepdad would soon contract it because he goes in Wetherspoons and casinos every evening and she was dismissing it as nothing to worry about when I told her to try and minimise the time she spends in supermarkets and shops. As it turned out neither of them or myself have ever contracted it yet.
What sticks in my memory is about a week before lockdown and buying milk and bread was a struggle, walking past this 50-something bloke with a bag of clinking bottles that looked like a random hodgepodge of just any booze that was left on the shelf. And he had a really grave look on his face and said good luck to you, lad.
And more ominously I was nervously queueing in the Co-op, and it was panic buying season. There was a very scared looking woman in front of me who was the only mask wearing person in the shop and she had half a dozen bottles of white wine in her basket. In front of her was a loudmouthed high-viz bloke having some banter with the tiller about how he was an essential worker and it wasn't right there was no milk or bread left for him. Tiller replied, you only water daffodils in the park, what's so essential about that m8. Then the whole queue went momentarily frozen when he said: no the council have moved me from Parks, they want me to dig graves now.
― vodkaitamin effrtvescent (calzino), Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:32 (one year ago)
wow, I just went momentarily frozen...
― henry s, Tuesday, 12 March 2024 20:36 (one year ago)
oh man! Through early 2021 in my neighborhood the foxes emerged.
― the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 March 2025 02:39 (two months ago)
Was out early last Sunday, biking around the neighbourhood on a rainy morning, and noticed almost no one was out. It gave me a stark flashback of 5 years earlier. What’s weird is, despite having reflected on that time a lot, what stands out to me now is the taste of coffee I was making at home at that time, and a kind of dryness in my skin. There are other emotions that seem to be uniquely specific to that experience, but the memory of that coffee seems to be a kind of sensory shorthand now.
I find it useful to remind myself that all this did happen, if only to put the kind of anxiety and insecurity I’m prone to (not to mention many reactionary social and political turns), in context (“oh right, that’s why I’m so afraid that my life will suddenly fall apart due to unpredictable events outside my control”). I definitely don’t like ruminating on this time, but my sense is a lot of processing is left to be done 🫤
― ed.b, Tuesday, 18 March 2025 20:41 (two months ago)
Did I miss it, or was there almost no fanfare about the fifth anniversary of March 11
Various programs on NPR have been doing a look-back, but yeah, the anniversary is somewhat muted
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 18 March 2025 21:49 (two months ago)
Was just thinking: can you imagine if covid had hit today, in Trump 2.0 world? At least there were still some competent gov officials to lead the response five years ago
Today they would ban the vaccine, ban mask mandates, and RFK Jr would be in charge of the death panels... then they'd shut down the CDC for being too woke
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 18 March 2025 21:51 (two months ago)
None of which would matter, because the headlines would be wall-to-wall "China lab declares biowar on west"
― Elvis Telecom, Friday, 21 March 2025 19:49 (two months ago)
https://i.imgur.com/uoDM2r1.jpeg
― papal hotwife (milo z), Monday, 24 March 2025 20:06 (two months ago)
We were staying with my parents because we were getting building work done at our house (which all got shut down, obviously, so the stay was extended long past the initial two months), and I remember how little traffic there was on the road, and how people would bring their dogs down to the green at the end of my parents' road and hang out and chat to each other, and the dogs would run around with each other, because nobody was allowed to go to the off-lead places they would normally go. And it didn't matter because there was nobody around, really. I remember how little traffic there was, and how loud the dawn chorus seemed as a result, and how the weather was oddly warm and sunny that March, so people sat in their front gardens and waved to those of us who were out and about.
I met a woman in the carpark of the supermarket one day, almost in tears because she was so nervous going into any enclosed space. She'd forgotten to bring her list with her and couldn't remember any of the stuff she needed to buy, so she'd just walked straight back out of the supermarket and now would have to rejoin the queue to get back in, which could be another half an hour before she was even able to shop again. I helped her to make a basic list on her phone and we both agreed that it was all terrible and stressful.
― trishyb, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 11:21 (one month ago)
That reminds me of a famous photo of a chap looking at his shopping list in the supermarket - in front of empty shelves, stripped bare by panic-buyers. The BBC has a "week in pictures" section that doesn't seem to be browsable, but it is Google-able, and this one from 14-20 March 2020 has a similar image of what appears to be Theresa May thoughtfully putting toilet rolls back onto the shelf:https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/ace/standard/976/cpsprodpb/0D58/production/_111361430_gettyimages-1213437934.jpg
It's fascinating to contrast that article with the "week in pictures" section from one week before, where COVID is presented as something that mainly affects Italy. There's an image of a maskless Joe Biden arguing up-close with a worker at a Fiat-Chrysler plant. The article from the week before mentions that the US death toll at the time was 12. From that point onwards the images are wall-to-wall COVID.
It reminds me that Italy was hit first. I remember that the mayor of Florence came up with a poorly-judged advertising campaign early in the pandemic encouraging people to hug Chinese tourists, which didn't age well. He won re-election as mayor the year before and ended his term in 2024 with ascendency to the European Parliament, so it doesn't seem to have hurt his career.
― Ashley Pomeroy, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 12:40 (one month ago)
the other day my friends and I were trying to remember when it became de rigeur to mask; we agreed that it happened here around the last week of March. I had a box of medical masks left over from a bad cold in 2010. By early April every store had made masking a requirement. But Amazon wasn't selling N95s until well into 2021; until that point I double-masked.
At the time Dad still worked five days a week. He went in every morning at 5:30 in the first half of the pandemic to disinfect phones, keyboards, and other office equipment at his AOG factory. He made masking an ironclad rule -- as far as I know he didn't get a (mild case of) COVID, caught at a funeral, until late 2022.
― the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 12:46 (one month ago)
My office was in the midst of relocating and folks had been packing stuff in crates for a couple weeks when the shutdown came. We had all been given a single N95 mask and bottle of hand sanitizer a few weeks prior. The news started coming out that hospitals in our area were out of basic PPE. I was able to get into the office to collect a few things and liberated all the masks I could find, which I got into the hands of our kate78 who got them to appropriate medical folks. I think she was the last person I saw face-to-face for 4 months.
― Jaq, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 13:57 (one month ago)
Probably in April 2020, a group of my neighbors began banging on pots and pans in their driveways, usually in the early evening, which I guess was supposed to show support for healthcare workers on the front lines of the pandemic
It died down save for one little girl, about 7 or 8, who dutifully kept up the pot banging for months... I would hear her before I saw her, but she was absolutely committed to this ritual long after everyone else had given it up
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 19:44 (one month ago)
The idea of thousands of businesses being closed to the public seems so unreal now. We could have a zombie outbreak and not a single state in the US would lockdown.
― papal hotwife (milo z), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 19:47 (one month ago)
I think the Swedes did nothing at all, no lockdowns, no mask requirements.. but my experience there tells me they're pretty natural at social distancing even without a deadly pandemic
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 19:50 (one month ago)
lol Andy, I love that
― Hedwig and the Angry Ents (sleeve), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 19:55 (one month ago)
(sorry, the little girl story not the Swedish response)
the other day my friends and I were trying to remember when it became de rigeur to mask; we agreed that it happened here around the last week of March. I had a box of medical masks left over from a bad cold in 2010. By early April every store had made masking a requirement. But Amazon wasn't selling N95s until well into 2021
It's interesting that when masking FIRST started to seem like a good idea, my then-partner and I were ahead of the curve because he already had a bunch of N95 or equivalent masks and gloves and other PPE for work purposes. He wasn't shy about wearing them when it came from his "personal stash." Later when it became a culture war thing he swung hard the other way and became contemptuous about all masking and complained often about when it was required in work circumstances and refused to observe any safety standards in his personal life. I was losing my mind and he was having unvaccinated people over as house guests. We probably got away with it because we were out in the country, it was spring/summer/fall and we were seeing people outdoors and with maximum open windows and ventilation, and population density in the area was generally low.
― Ima Gardener (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:06 (one month ago)
I was losing my mind and he was having unvaccinated people over as house guests.
Sorry obviously not in 2020 as there was no vaccine, but well into '21, '22, a lot of his friends never got vaccinated--maybe he wouldn't have either except I bullied him into it every time. What a waste of my energy.
― Ima Gardener (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:12 (one month ago)
became contemptuous about all masking
I got called out by some redneck for wearing a mask at a Grocery Outlet, probably late 2020
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:12 (one month ago)
lol yesterday for some reason I remembered the woman in the local Hannaford grocery store wearing a lace mesh thong over her head because they had a mask requirement at the time and she wanted to be really sure everyone knew that she was having big feelings about it.
― Ima Gardener (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:16 (one month ago)
the most relatable COVID meme was something along the lines of 'I'm terrified of forgetting to carry a mask because people might think I'm a Republican.'
being delivered by a penguin or labrador retriever for some reason.
― papal hotwife (milo z), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:22 (one month ago)
'I'm terrified of forgetting to carry a mask because people might think I'm a Republican.'
for sure that thought crossed my mind in '21 and early '22.
― the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:24 (one month ago)
my sister, Oct 2021:
"I’m at the “grab a random mask off the floor of my van and dust it off before I go in the store” stage of the pandemic, you?"
― Hedwig and the Angry Ents (sleeve), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:25 (one month ago)
five years out, should we expect some movie or TV show about the early days? Or is it too soon?
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:30 (one month ago)
I demand a romcom
― Hedwig and the Angry Ents (sleeve), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:30 (one month ago)
(like, the reverse of io's story)
― Hedwig and the Angry Ents (sleeve), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:31 (one month ago)
I remember having just had COVID and done the two-week isolation, the rule in the UK back then, and going to the shops to buy stuff without a mask and it definitely was weird to see people gawping at you as part of the weird surveillance/righteousness many adopted at the time. Tho of course seeing people not wearing masks sometimes made that an easy way to think about others.
― LocalGarda, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:31 (one month ago)
xxp Socially Distanced, with Jennifer Anniston and Channing Tatum
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:32 (one month ago)
LG they shoulda given you a lanyard or something
― Hedwig and the Angry Ents (sleeve), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:34 (one month ago)
"NOT INFECTED"
I remember calling out some guy in the 7-11 for not wearing a mask at the peak of that. he responded "I'm vaccinated", to which I said "thank you for that, but you can still transmit it"
― Hedwig and the Angry Ents (sleeve), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:36 (one month ago)
has there been a movie about Major Tom or whatever his name was? Probably Anthony Hopkins or Gary Oldman trudging around the garden path, maybe not the most compelling cinema
― Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:37 (one month ago)
We had this period in the States b/w April and July, ending with the Delta wave, when as people got vaccinated the CDC didn't provide further guidance. OK, you got the jab, do you go back to isolating? What now? Then they said, OK, go live your life. Then Delta hit.
― the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 25 March 2025 20:38 (one month ago)
When things started to open up again here, the medical advice was to limit social activities, be careful, continue social distancing, etc. Sewing club resumed in the craft shop in town, and I agreed to go even though I really didn't want to, because I didn't want the shop to go bust. Everyone agreed to mask and we would keep all the doors and windows open and be respectful of each other. We show up and one woman lets us know that she's been out and about with her family in restaurants and bars, no masks, and that they've all been visiting each other's houses regularly. She refuses to wear a mask while we're at sewing club because IT AGGRAVATES HER ASTHMA, and I just got so mad at her that I got up and left. Never went back. Never spoke to any of the other women in that club again.
― trishyb, Tuesday, 25 March 2025 22:47 (one month ago)
It’s a little strange to think that my partner and I were both resigned to getting it because of his job, and then neither of us got it until after he left that job (in an emergency room, he left partly because he acquired PTSD from watching so many people die).
― butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Wednesday, 26 March 2025 00:37 (one month ago)
That's awful. I hope he is doing better.
― trishyb, Wednesday, 26 March 2025 12:52 (one month ago)
five years out, should we expect some movie or TV show about the early days? Or is it too soon?Ari Aster's next movie, Eddington, is supposedly set during the pandemic.
― jaymc, Wednesday, 26 March 2025 13:15 (one month ago)
I've seen more than a few movies that show characters masked and/or addressing COVID.
― the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 26 March 2025 13:34 (one month ago)
Ari Aster's next movie, Eddington, is supposedly set during the pandemic.
Oh, hope the pandemic doesn't interfere with his love of marmalade sandwiches.
― a ZX spectrum is haunting Europe (Daniel_Rf), Wednesday, 26 March 2025 13:45 (one month ago)
The height of the COVID crisis is a significant factor in The Pitt
― Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 26 March 2025 14:04 (one month ago)
I'm sure I'm forgetting something, but I think the only film I've seen that mentions it is Glass Onion, which sidesteps it in a great way.
― Andrew Farrell, Wednesday, 26 March 2025 21:31 (one month ago)
The last few episodes of Joseph Gordon-Levitt’s ‘Mr. Corman’ tv series addresses COVID but not in any way that would make you want to watchw
― Elvis Telecom, Saturday, 5 April 2025 20:22 (one month ago)
I'm sure I'm forgetting something, but I think the only film I've seen that mentions it is Glass Onion
Bad Luck Banging Or Loony Porn, Three Thousand Years Of Longing, Kimi, Magic Mike's Last Dance (Mike's furniture business tanked), Borat Subsequent Moviefilm, Sick (Kevin Williamson / John Hyams slasher)... Wheatley's In The Earth?
― Nancy Makes Posts (sic), Sunday, 6 April 2025 03:06 (one month ago)
Hamaguchi's last couple films too iirc.
― the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 6 April 2025 09:41 (one month ago)
I think the only one of those I've seen is Three Thousand Years of Longing - which rings a bell as regards some mention of masks. I suppose there's a distinction between "this is being used as a time setting", like brick phones for the 80s; "this is a force applied to the characters / the setting", like 'this is set during the Great Depression'; "the characters' reactions to this tell them something about them" (Glass Onion fits here); and Borat Subsequent Moviefilm, which I hadn't looked up the plot of before, and holy fucking shit.
― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 6 April 2025 10:48 (one month ago)
The really good Starz series Counterpart with JK Simmons eerily predicted a very covid-like outbreak, complete with masking and PSA's... in 2017
(It's too bad this show didn't get better distribution)
― Andy the Grasshopper, Monday, 7 April 2025 17:31 (one month ago)
Really recommend reading Masque Of The Red Death post-COVID, if you haven't already.
― LocalGarda, Monday, 7 April 2025 17:33 (one month ago)
COVID was also a major plot point in the second season of The Morning Show.
― better than ezra collective soul asylum (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Monday, 7 April 2025 17:34 (one month ago)
Wasn't there a movie about a movie being made during COVID? I think it was a comedy, with an ensemble cast featuring Pedro Pascal, among many others. Then again, he's in everything. I bailed after about 10 minutes of it when it was on Netflix.
― henry s, Monday, 7 April 2025 18:08 (one month ago)
Yeah, the most recent Judd Apatow: The Bubble
― Lithium Just Madison (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 7 April 2025 18:15 (one month ago)
Discussion of that kind of stuff: Rolling Covid in Pop Culture Thread
― Lithium Just Madison (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 7 April 2025 18:16 (one month ago)