at the bar 2025

What is your diet?

Didn’t mean to start this yet
Answer was supposed to be a question
I blame zing touch

The missus and I are at Newark Airport as our flight back to Minnesota was delayed 5, oh wait, 6 hours, so it looks like we're grabbing the only open bar spots at Guy's American Kitchen (maybe there's an ILX thread or 4 worth checking out!?), and grabbing the Maine Beer County Lunch IPA (what kind of name is that? Shades of "Ruth's Chris Steakhouse" or "Fifth Third Bank"), which will be our balm to distract us from the sadness of a post-midnight arrival that awaits, and the inauguration of a rapist fuckstick donning (ahem) a bad mud-mask. "16 or 20 ounce?" OK, we'll do 20. At least the Notre Dame-Ohio State game is on. Sheesh.

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“I know you! You’re the girl from that app!”

I don't drink, but there's a bar in my town that makes really, really good burgers, so I wind up there about once a week. I was in there yesterday, half expecting it to be full of hooting drunks in MAGA gear, but it was almost empty and the few people there weren't talking politics at all.

Trying some n/as cause work tomorrow
Fun to say “Brooklyn special effects” out loud

tfw you pay with a 10 and you get change for a 20

10, 20 years ago,there were more people here my age. As I get older there are fewer

the age you were then, or the age you are now?

if the latter, I have noticed a decline in the presence of middle-aged barmen but I have no conclusions

now

you're out there keeping the faith

Cal what percentage of your income goes to alcohol

Using an after tax base, around 3 pct

If you take your hat off in the bathroom, there is a non-zero chance that it will fall in the toilet

It’s the bartender’s second day. I’m paying in cash and she’s counting pennies

Arriving when the bar opens on a weekday is a special feeling
It doesn’t hurt to have a four hour happy hour either

"Sorry We're Open" as the sign says

Now that old guy in the corner of the bar blowing his nose with three year old napkins from his coat pocket

the man that i always see there is the manager of a chain of beauty salons according to his card. discussed with the bartender old bottle crown royal and the waterloo distillery. he promised without the request to text me the next time the kyrgyz girl that stops by sometimes stopped by.

Sup dyl

Getting served with the comment “all you” vs the other bartender’s usual “here you go, player”

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3pqXLeSqTFLhr0Pa8hgrUp?si=XIHvK2n5S52KyQOd3KL39g&pi=CKoXCoLhRuy6S

Some nee additions

At an upscale place, feels weird but hey

Cute blonde waitress wearing white earmuffs

Went to a couple of mezcal bars in Mexico City last weekend, one where they burned some palo santo and the other where they played some excellent dub/experimental/post punk stuff all night with nice acoustic treatments and candles everywhere.

I was probably the least cool person at both places but had a blast. Both were packed.

despite being open only a few months, this bar has a team of regulars. but there are no other places to drink. i had this impression. the man behind the counter asks new arrivals where else they like to drink, so i know that i was not alone. people mention usually can only mention one other place nearby—a former vegan curry shop run by a former actress, which relies on her friends stopping by, cocktails dreamed up by her much younger boyfriend, and deep couches. it's too small, too insular, and too inconsistent to allow a groups of regulars to form. so we came here. i can't claim to be a regular. the beauty salon manager is here every night, but i might manage a few times a month. he never remembers me. the bartender has to remind him. my memory is better. he has a daughter in primary school and his wife won't have sex with him. he's the only one that drinks bottles of heartland. i know he's there until closing time most nights. there: i could be a bartender. i recognize other faces. they don't talk as much as the hair salon manager. i can assume they live in the neighborhood. maybe like me they get sick of staying home all day and need to leave at night. if they had real jobs, they would be drinking at a chain izakaya beside a metro station, or they would be happy to return home on a weeknight.

While sitting outside today, I’ve had two flying insects land on me. Spring is in the air

3:12

lost my headphones

bar has a public Spotify “jam” which allows customers to play songs. I got in swv’s “I’m so into you” and had DJ Sabrina the teenage dj’s “agent somebody” queued up when I received notice that I had been removed, in favor of the police’s “synchronicity II” smh

scumbags

a man is explaining to a woman the cold war

Fiddling again with the bar spotify jam. Got some little feat on

Never seen anyone yawn so intensely as this bartender while taking my order for my fourth

Spouse took me to a coffee shop/bar directly across the street from a subway stop in Vienna and the inner me was screaming that there’s no way this place could have existed in Brooklyn past the mid 00s. Right near a university and a smoking area I haven’t seen in years!

Praise be to the telepathic bartenders who know when to serve another without need for acknowledgment

i'm drunk, it was the drinks i had in front of the convenience store, not the old fashioneds

Strong zero?

it sounds a bit silly but i try to avoid strong zero because they've made me sick. of course i was probably just drinking too much. still i blame some unfamiliar artificial sweetener or whatever upsetting my stomach. i like the takara-brand canned highballs that are juiced with just a breath of artificial flavors like umeboshi shikuwasa yuzu. they cost the equivalent of 60 cents. i drank them in front of a convenience store despite having bought them in a grocery store. it seems okay to drink in front of a convenience store and not okay to drink in front of a grocery store for some reason.

I think I’ve seen mention elsewhere of people drinking outside of convenience stores. Is it a scene? Are there seats or just standing around?

i'm sure some japanese anthropologist has already written a definitive history of drinking in front of convenience stores. if not, they will. i know it's associated with suburban juvenile delinquents. in the movies, they stand out front and hassle girls and old men. but as far as i've seen, they just need somewhere to hang out and run into friends. i didn't witness any hassling when i lived way out in the countryside. a warm summer night in front of the 7-11 probably beat running up the tab at whatever family restaurant was closest. you wouldn't want to drink at home. but i got the habit when i worked at a restaurant and everyone would meet up after our shifts in front of a lawson midway between the two train stations everyone was headed to, then drink until right before the last train. it was cheaper and required less commitment than going to a bar. we had to be back in the morning for lunch prep. i guess it was a phenomenon before the pandemic, guys putting down a few beers before heading home, people just hanging out, lonely drunks that prefer the street to their dingy apartments, small parties getting lit before taking the train to somewhere more exciting. especially if you widen this to drinking in a train station square with an adjacent convenience store, it was always an acceptable practice. that's how you should drink in koenji. buy an extra beer for the punks and old hippies that show up to jam there. but i think the peculiar sorts of lockdowns in tokyo helped popularize it. i forget the rule exactly but for a while, places that sold liquor had to close early. you didn't have to go home. you could still get loaded in front of a convenience store. after that, when it got too cold, you went to a karaoke, or you found a girls bar, since they somehow weren't subject to the same restrictions. it's a lot of foreign men drinking outside of family marts in shinjuku and shibuya these days. i think there are infamous spots for that but i couldn't name them. maybe near dogenzaka or kabukicho. those guys can't squat and there's usually nowhere to sit, so they pace, maybe by the end of the night sprawl on the pavement.

Backgammon bros at the bar

Some girl at the bar next door

One bartender looks like a young female Ozzy and the other has chessboard pants

with the pieces? or just checked pants

Just the pants

i mean nevermind

i sent an email to a jazz bar in uguisudani asking if i missed the show and skipped the twenty five dollar cover how late they would be open. they said we're open until midnight. the melodica free jazz was still going. let me order the man beside me a shot since i'm already up.

Vs Boston , watching it up north 2

A lesbian couple started a conversation with me over my library book: more people should discover this wonderful resource, etc.

the lesbians are always otm

otm

Lady talking about her ex was really into 2012 and she had to comfort him when the world didn't end. But he still went through with the Anthropology degree.

Free martini night

!!!!! How is that allowed?

Virginia’s ABC would be cuffing the bartender right now.

Well, just for the cognoscenti

reading a book at yr sports bar

It’s a 3 server , 2 ‘back night

Eschewing bars that close at midnight. Currently sitting in a bar that closes at 1am, thinking about when bars used to close at 4am.

I have a certain tolerance for bar music but when RHCP comes on, you never seen a dude put his EarPods on faster

Calstars = Nick Cave

you should put on your conehead and enjoy

Wilburys on and windows open

The bars I hold in highest regard are the ones that have a urinal with a plastic housefly next to the drain

Chica goes outside. She opens new earphones from the package, leans over into the street and vomits

One TV playing Taken starring Liam Neeson with closed captions, the other TV playing MTV Classic with the sound on

Last week I left my hat here and today manager hands it back to me. That’s the kind of respeck I command here

A bar can do without a first mate, or a coxswain, or a few nameless ghouls, but it needs a captain

Yeah, Captain Morgan!!!111!! Lolllllllllllllll

Drinking miller light and listening to Steve miller nbd bau

Two-decade spot closing soon
Getting in some last licks

I’ll be here when you vomit on the sidewalk. It’s ok

Chica singing along with the verses of “waiting for tonight”

New spot is better than it has any right to be, but it’s missing a foot rail along the bottom of the bar. I mentioned it to one of the owners

Flat bud light never tasted so good

Bro gotta hole in his ear for an earring except there’s a cigarette hanging in there

Aggressive barback

“I’ll have 27 Bud Lights please”

At the sports bar watching sports on my phone

I guess they're grilling some brisket & brots on the 4th at the 'other' bar next to my local, the one that has Fox on the TV all day long and still allows smoking

That’s where I’d be

she used to bartend at the other place that burned down. i hear her talking about her daughter, who saw a cassette and asked her mom, “you play movies on those right? like a dvd?”

nine bar rotation

After paying in cash all day, I can’t cover the next one, and will use what’s left for coffee tomorrow morning

Mascara overdose
Chica only got four eyelashes left

If you’re at the bar and you smell shitty weed and hear someone coughing…that’s me around the corner

...losing my religion..

28 Beers Later

I’m slowly melting into a pool of lukewarm water waiting for my crush to walk in

One of the last days playing first violin at closing OG spot
Owner seems carefree wearing a cheap trick t shirt

chica telling a story and whipping her long curly locks in my face

I met her in a Kingstown bar
We fell I love I knew it had to end

Cloudy Wednesday nothing vibe

I love bars
Bar culture
Hanging out
Meeting people
Rapping with servers
But I am so tired of losing control

Dude do you have a day job?

Drunk and hot girl in a 90s stone roses hat picked up my cap and stuffed it in my face and told me to stop laughing and eat a dick

Some people pay good money for that!

Believe me there’s a cavern in my wallet the size of New Mexico