Have you cried in front of a painting ?

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have you done it for a tv show, a movie, a book, other media ? what makes painting different ?

anthony easton (anthony), Thursday, 28 November 2002 22:38 (twenty-three years ago)

I had tears in my eyes and could barely speak for some minutes after visiting the Monet Waterlillies series downstairs at the Orangerie = it doesn't seem so different from other forms to me.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Thursday, 28 November 2002 22:52 (twenty-three years ago)

no. never for a painting. and i cry very easily...

maybe paintings don't really have that time element to them, that would encourage emotional 'interaction' like films, or books.

hmmm waterlillies made you cry eh? I felt wonderment.

you two must be artists i presume?

aling (aling), Friday, 29 November 2002 08:18 (twenty-three years ago)

I've probably watered up listening to someone talk about paintings, but never from actually looking at them.

polyphonic (polyphonic), Friday, 29 November 2002 08:47 (twenty-three years ago)

haha I am unsure how I could get further from being an artist. I just love art. The time point is telling in some ways, in that there is no way for a painting to gradually draw you into a narrative and build up your feelings for characters and slowly push your emotions in the right direction for tears, but obviously I didn't well up at the sight of waterlilies because I mistook them for dying puppies or something, so that's not the whole story.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Friday, 29 November 2002 18:23 (twenty-three years ago)

paintings are large and complex = they require more than one look from you = there is a capacity for interaction

nevertheless, my ans. is no and I do not know why

Josh (Josh), Friday, 29 November 2002 18:56 (twenty-three years ago)

i have, in the rothko room at the tate, and any time i saw an agnes martin live-fuck agnes martin makes me weep.

anthony easton (anthony), Friday, 29 November 2002 22:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I have, actually, though I'd be hard pressed to tell you which one. Was in the MMA, I'm fairly sure. Oh! I remember now, but I think it might have been at MoMA after all. It was a picture of these strange savage half person/half animal creatures in the midst of a forest. I cried because it reminded me so much of my own alienation, yes, I know that sounds like a fucking pretentious thing to say, but it did. Funny because the scene ended up as a comedic moment in a bit of slash fan fict writing... odd.

Paintings can make me cry as easily as any other artform. I don't see a difference.

kate, Friday, 29 November 2002 22:04 (twenty-three years ago)

Roger van der Weyden's Descent from the Cross and Gerhard Richter's Sanctuary.

Michael Daddino (epicharmus), Friday, 29 November 2002 23:21 (twenty-three years ago)

You mean in front of the painting? Never mind, then.

Michael Daddino (epicharmus), Friday, 29 November 2002 23:22 (twenty-three years ago)

Cried at films, even when I consciously feel outraged at their cheap attempts at tearing emotions out of me. I cried at the end of Titanic, more than once. And the end of Spiderman got a sob out of me. I mean, does he have some sort of gladular problem?

Paintings... this reminds me of the Ferris Bueller scene where, to an accompaniment of a reconstructed Smiths song, one of the characters closes in on one particular painting, focusing on one figure until the viewer has trouble making anything out... I've had a tendency to focus on paintings in that way ever since I saw that film... which helped me appreciate a lot of art, oddly enough.

Al Ewing (Al Ewing), Saturday, 30 November 2002 00:29 (twenty-three years ago)

Al, that seems like a very counterintuitive method of improving one's apreciation of art, but I migh just try it.

As far as I can remember, I have never cried in front of a painting. I don't think I've even come close. In rare cases, music makes has made me cry. (Often I have to already be under a lot of stress for this to happen.)

I was just discussing with a friend the fact that I don't think I'm very good at looking at paintings. I can't seem to stand in front of them and patiently digest them. I get an overall, sort of schematic impression, and that's about it. On the other hand, I feel happy to have made the acquaintance of the work of a great number of artists. I think that when I get a feeling for a painter's overall style, that's about as far as I go. I don't necessarily get the nuances.

With music, despite the fact that I have no real musical training and don't play an instrument, I seem to be able to appreciate it on a more nuanced level. I think that overall I find it easier to pay attention to something that moves.

Rockist Scientist, Saturday, 30 November 2002 02:07 (twenty-three years ago)

Not to promote something I feel ambivalent about, but when I used to smoke marijuana, it seemed to increase my ability to engage with paintings. I wish I had made more use of it for that purpose at the time. I remember being very amused by a Miro painting which in the past I had always quickly passed over and merely found ugly.

Rockist Scientsit, Saturday, 30 November 2002 02:11 (twenty-three years ago)

Not to promote something I feel ambivalent about

I mean, I wouldn't want to lead any of you innocents astray.

Rockist Scientist, Saturday, 30 November 2002 02:12 (twenty-three years ago)

Use the right drugs, you can find your ceiling pretty entertaining.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 30 November 2002 11:04 (twenty-three years ago)

Not a big cry, but I've sometimes got tears in my eyes looking at the odd Rothko I think.

N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 30 November 2002 12:36 (twenty-three years ago)

four years pass...

I want to cry just thinking about Rothko.

Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:35 (eighteen years ago)

http://www.atf.gov/kids/graphics/art_contest/dsc_554820%25.jpg

and what, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:38 (eighteen years ago)

Mostly when I cry in front of a painting, I'm holding a brush and it's not going as well as I'd like.

Oilyrags, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:40 (eighteen years ago)

holy geez abbott when i read this thread title the first thing that popped into my head was rothko!

and then hunter age 3
!

rrrobyn, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:54 (eighteen years ago)

yes

sistine chapel ceiling

sweaty palms, Saturday, 27 October 2007 00:49 (eighteen years ago)

I really want to see the Rothko Chapel in TX.

Abbott, Saturday, 27 October 2007 00:52 (eighteen years ago)

http://www.kerovisuals.com/timer/dog-poker-background-1024x768.jpg

latebloomer, Saturday, 27 October 2007 00:53 (eighteen years ago)

It's 800 miles away, probably not going to happen anytime soon. Fucking Texas, why do you have to be Europe-sized? (not literally I know)

Abbott, Saturday, 27 October 2007 00:54 (eighteen years ago)

I think it would wreck me for a few days.

Abbott, Saturday, 27 October 2007 00:56 (eighteen years ago)

http://www.nerditry.com/images/jesus-elvis.jpg

latebloomer, Saturday, 27 October 2007 00:58 (eighteen years ago)

The Rothko Chapel is fucking amazing. The Twombly gallery is like a block away, too, and the Menil collection. Def. worth a trip.

Oilyrags, Saturday, 27 October 2007 01:06 (eighteen years ago)

Technically at the Rothko Chapel, you'd be crying inside 14 paintings. Judgment call whether that's the same thing or not.

Oilyrags, Saturday, 27 October 2007 01:15 (eighteen years ago)

http://www.powerstudios.com.au/images/airbrushed_vehicles/hot_cars/medium/breed1_2.jpg

rockapads, Saturday, 27 October 2007 09:58 (eighteen years ago)

rothko. yes. at tate modern.

grimly fiendish, Saturday, 27 October 2007 10:50 (eighteen years ago)

klimt's drawings - heartbreakingly gorgeous stuff.

J.D., Saturday, 27 October 2007 11:02 (eighteen years ago)

art is about thought processes and subtle appreciation of aesthetic ideals.

not blubbering into your hanky like an emotional wreck!

pc user, Saturday, 27 October 2007 11:13 (eighteen years ago)

Oh god how I want to see Klimt's stuff IRL.

Abbott, Saturday, 27 October 2007 15:09 (eighteen years ago)

abbot you should come to the National Gallery here in DC. There are quite a few Rothkos in the contemporary wing.

lot's of good Rothko prints/posters and stuff for sale in the gift shop too. we have one framed in our apartment, "No. 6 - Violet, Green, and Red". I love Rothko.

Mark Clemente, Saturday, 27 October 2007 15:39 (eighteen years ago)

The opening chapter is on the Rothko chapel--very interesting study of various responses to it.

Sparkle Motion, Saturday, 27 October 2007 16:03 (eighteen years ago)

I imagine I'm saving tearing up for Agnes Martin. Despite her being my favourite artist/hero I have never seen anything by her in the flesh.

I know, right?, Monday, 29 October 2007 03:44 (eighteen years ago)

there's a Eugene Richards photograph from 'Americans We' of a homeless guy on a dirty mattress hugging his mangy dog to his chest like the goddamn dog is the last good, meaningful thing left on Earth. Breaking out in tears in the middle of the museum bookstore is very gauche.

milo z, Monday, 29 October 2007 04:33 (eighteen years ago)

I've done worse, trust me.

Abbott, Monday, 29 October 2007 05:05 (eighteen years ago)

I haven't seen that but just the fucking description is ripping me up. I cried at a House M.D. the other night when a disabled guy is dying and he asks for his guide dog to sit by him while he dies. Oh god I cried for at least like seven minutes.

Abbott, Monday, 29 October 2007 05:06 (eighteen years ago)

one year passes...

like 5 people in this thread admit to crying in front of a rothko

love in this ♣ (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 25 September 2009 19:39 (sixteen years ago)

http://abstract-art.com/abstraction/l2_Grnfthrs_fldr/g0000_gr_inf_images/g051_rothko_vbkoy-wr.jpg

NSFW

love in this ♣ (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 25 September 2009 19:40 (sixteen years ago)

is that like the painting version of bragging you weep when you hear Sigur Ros?

love in this ♣ (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 25 September 2009 19:41 (sixteen years ago)

There was an exhibit of expressionist sketches at the Getty a couple of years ago, and this one Seurat KILLED me. Still think about it.

Adventures of Dog Boy and Frank Sobotka (B.L.A.M.), Friday, 25 September 2009 19:42 (sixteen years ago)

i've only cried tears of rage at really awful ones

I ♠ my display name (sarahel), Friday, 25 September 2009 19:42 (sixteen years ago)

that $73m rothko painting makes me cry. if you had stacked that money up next to a homeless guy and burnt it, at least he'd have been warm for a while. what a fraudulent waste.

aarrissi-a-roni, Friday, 25 September 2009 19:48 (sixteen years ago)

I think he would probably rather spend the money than use it for warmth tbh

iatee, Friday, 25 September 2009 19:50 (sixteen years ago)

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_mfMRTBDpgkM/ShMoaSXaDhI/AAAAAAAAG7g/kGUhSAAO_BQ/s400/rothko-1.jpg

Sniff... The humanity of lil' yellow in there

love in this ♣ (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 25 September 2009 19:50 (sixteen years ago)

looks like a egg sandwich imo

love in this ♣ (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 25 September 2009 19:51 (sixteen years ago)

you guys don't really get 'art' do you

iatee, Friday, 25 September 2009 19:51 (sixteen years ago)

also the crispy pork bun in tim ho wan in hong kong. the taste of that sauce was.. god.. one of the best moments of this year.

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:07 (fifteen years ago)

don't listen to me though i also almost cried when I finally arrived at a KFC buffet for the first (and so far only) time in my life.

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:08 (fifteen years ago)

you spent the rest of your life searching for another one?

i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:08 (fifteen years ago)

i'm campaigning for it to be moved to chelsea

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:09 (fifteen years ago)

✧✧✧@k✧✧.e✧✧

i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:09 (fifteen years ago)

ha

i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:10 (fifteen years ago)

cause if we don't find the next KFC buffet
i tell you we must die

sarahel, Monday, 11 October 2010 14:10 (fifteen years ago)

ken do you have any tips on getting a spot at tim ho wan

dayo, Monday, 11 October 2010 14:20 (fifteen years ago)

Ken, I figured you would have hit a KFC buffet five or six times on your US trip this year!

Headlock Ellis (WmC), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:25 (fifteen years ago)

last time i just turned up, picked up a ticket and then went shopping for an hour and came back!

xpost

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:26 (fifteen years ago)

WmC - of all the cities I went to only knoxville had KFC buffet available (i did research!) none in NYC, Chicago, Dallas, Las Vegas (there were other buffets to make up for this), LA or San Francisco. It was sad.

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:27 (fifteen years ago)

^friend did the same thing xpost

just sayin, Monday, 11 October 2010 14:30 (fifteen years ago)

I feel like there are all these amazing restaurants here that I don't go to because I don't want to play the ticket queue waiting game

blah

dayo, Monday, 11 October 2010 14:31 (fifteen years ago)

maybe next time you want new trainers? the place is in middle of mong kok so it was pretty easy to kill an hour. (in fact, I went to ladies market to look for t-shirts with funny slogans..)

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Monday, 11 October 2010 14:35 (fifteen years ago)

I cried watching a sunset once. I'm just a crier.

I just got a book of Rothko paintings at a thrift store, I felt lucky!

The Ten Things I Hate About Commandments (Abbbottt), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 01:04 (fifteen years ago)

Has a building ever made any of you cry?

I visited here recently and did *not* cry but I was totally emotionally drained. It was a fucked-up feeling, I just felt wiped out the rest of the day. It was 400 years of something that I totally don't understand in 110º F heat, everything (doors, halls, etc) smaller, total amateur/horror vacuii paintings covering every wall, and a dead wooden priest whose head you were supposed to lift. And then a really corny gift shop. It was like getting an emotional concussion.

The Ten Things I Hate About Commandments (Abbbottt), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 01:09 (fifteen years ago)

I'm just a crier.

When no one is around, so am I. I don't know what appearances I'm trying to keep up otherwise. Habit, I guess.

kenan, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 01:09 (fifteen years ago)

It really makes me cranky that Whiney upthread was so dismissive of others' experiences and then asked everyone he'd just knocked hardcore to explain their behavior. Seriously, wtf. If you've never been moved to tears by visual beauty...I don't know if it can really be explained. "Lady, if you have to ask..." (FWIW ILX is the #1 google hit for that quote!)

The Ten Things I Hate About Commandments (Abbbottt), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 01:14 (fifteen years ago)

I have misted up a couple of times, but engagement with artworks generally brings me to a calm and still place, not a really wrought and emotional one. Films are a big exception, which is why I'm really suspicious and distrustful of obvious tearjerkers.

― In "Bob" There Is No East or West (WmC)

I missed this earlier. I like it.

kenan, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 01:19 (fifteen years ago)

I farted in front of Guernica in high school. True story.

― love in this ♣ (Whiney G. Weingarten), Saturday, September 26, 2009 3:53 AM (1 year ago) Bookmark

i farted in front of guernica in 12th grade

― like the G6 summit (Whiney G. Weingarten), Monday, October 11, 2010 9:16 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark

wondering if whiney is all WHOAOAOAOAO OMG PPL R MOVED BY ART HAHA MEME MEME SNARF on this one

dayo, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 01:22 (fifteen years ago)

i don't really know why but I went to the Frick this weekend on Saturday afternoon to see the show of Ribera and Goya drawings and then I wandered into one of those wainscoted palatial upstairs rooms and saw the Holbein portrait of Thomas More by the fireplace and I got all misty looking at it. It's an image I have seen reproduced so many times and I don't necessarily revere More but the sheer persistence and endurance of the face within the portrait really moved me and I teared up a bit. Maybe I am just getting older . . .

the tune is space, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 01:39 (fifteen years ago)

what if you fart, then cry?

i definitely weep over art about once a week but i also got a pre-existing condition. i also weep over nature about once a week. i'm a real "double rainbow" kind of guy.

and when i weep over art i weep over really weird shit. last "art" i wept over was my janson's, looking at a photo of joseph beuys coyote piece w/ accompanying bio: "that the attempt was inherently doomed to failure does not in any way reduce the sincerity of this act of conscience"

moonship journey to baja, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 02:09 (fifteen years ago)

though i see suzy beat me to it upthread

moonship journey to baja, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 02:11 (fifteen years ago)

when I stepped into a gallery set up for Hiroshi Sugimoto's Sea of Buddhas - it was a separate room in a museum, dark and cool, just a perfectly serene place
plus the aforementioned Eugene Richards photograph

a cross between lily allen and fetal alcohol syndrome (milo z), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 02:38 (fifteen years ago)

I was pretty much moved to tears at a Kandinsky exhibition at the V&A a few years ago, mainly by his pen & ink sketches.

Captain Ostensible (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 06:04 (fifteen years ago)

what if you fart, then cry?

Then you're making me laugh a lot.

kenan, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 06:10 (fifteen years ago)

I cried at Whiney's farts in front of Guernica both in high school and in 12th grade. True story.

little puppy (jeff), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 06:13 (fifteen years ago)

Has a building ever made any of you cry?

no, but i was once genuinely frightened by the prague tv-tower when i was walking through the city by myself at night. to the point where i sped up my walking to get away from it, which is silly, because buildings, they don't move

creeping shania (donna rouge), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 06:33 (fifteen years ago)

Well, until they do. And when that happens, best not to be nearby.

kenan, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 06:37 (fifteen years ago)

You did the right thing.

kenan, Tuesday, 12 October 2010 06:38 (fifteen years ago)

What about a crywank in front of a Jeff Koons?

Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 09:42 (fifteen years ago)

you tell us

(♥_♥) (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 12:20 (fifteen years ago)

Putting the 'anal' into Banality...

Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 13:41 (fifteen years ago)

you wank anally?

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 16:51 (fifteen years ago)

annually?

"oh god i can't wait til 11 Oct 2011"

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 16:52 (fifteen years ago)

anal retentively?

"i always use my left hand only and only the index, middle and fourth finger"

HOOS' THE BOSS (ken c), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 16:54 (fifteen years ago)

annularly?

Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 16:54 (fifteen years ago)

orly

l∞l (darraghmac), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 16:57 (fifteen years ago)

I knew a French woman called Aurilly.

Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 17:17 (fifteen years ago)

o know an irish guy called o'reilly

l∞l (darraghmac), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 17:20 (fifteen years ago)

Can you tell him to finish off my extension?
http://www.tate.org.uk/modern/tours/materialslibrary/images/carlandre_equivalent.jpg
I know there's a brick shortage, but this isn't enough.

Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 17:22 (fifteen years ago)

u racist that's not cool

l∞l (darraghmac), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 17:23 (fifteen years ago)

Sorry but white bricks were all that the builder's merchant had...

Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Tuesday, 12 October 2010 17:25 (fifteen years ago)

one year passes...

:'(
http://hyperallergic.com/58144/rothko-defaced-at-tate-modern/

bugler, Sunday, 7 October 2012 20:53 (thirteen years ago)

man see u

Mary Ty$ Band (Whiney G. Weingarten), Sunday, 7 October 2012 20:56 (thirteen years ago)

C/D: Mark Rothko

i was looking for whiney's post over there

zvookster, Sunday, 7 October 2012 20:57 (thirteen years ago)

one year passes...

http://splitsider.com/2010/12/eight-times-the-simpsons-have-made-me-cry/

imago-er not a show-er (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 13 November 2013 16:22 (twelve years ago)

I thought that was going to be about paintings somehow.

"Turkey In The Straw" coming from someplace in the clouds (Sparkle Motion), Wednesday, 13 November 2013 16:55 (twelve years ago)

I got to see the famous golden death mask of King Tut and it was an incredibly moving experience. Sort of the shock of seeing something that I had seen thousands of times before in books suddenly physically in front of me. If you look close enough you can see tool marks, which humanizes it, and then you step back and look at the whole thing again and holy crap it is just a perfect artifact. Possibly the most beautiful image I have ever seen. It was on display in the Cairo Museum and there were several rooms with just stuff from his tomb, and near the mask were several sarcophagi, and people were just walking around it all. At a certain point it felt like I was attending a wake, like for someone who had just passed, which just made the whole experience even heavier.

Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 13 November 2013 22:17 (twelve years ago)

I spend alot of time thinking about paintings, making them, looking at them. I spend alot of time thinking about the ways in which emotional reactions drive my decision-making process when making a painting. In many ways it's the whole point of painting for me. I can recall coming to tears at the point of total breakdown during the making (or unmaking at that time) of a painting, yet I have never cried in front of a painting, but wept instantly during the first 10 minutes of 'Up'. Emotions are wierd.

"Turkey In The Straw" coming from someplace in the clouds (Sparkle Motion), Thursday, 14 November 2013 00:45 (twelve years ago)


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