I did it from about 2012 to 2019 and got two stripes up blue belt, but fell off after the pandemic, fairly typical blue belt wheel-spinning malaise I think.
I've occasionally thought about going back but now that I'm well north of 40 I don't really want to spend loads of time travelling to a good gym or tempt fate with knee or shoulder injuries. I just lift weights in a local gym because I know I'll actually go.
BJJ is really insanely good cardio though, and depending on the school you're at it can be a really nice community/social thing. The women's class at my club grew a lot while I was there and was really good at welcoming new/curious people in gently while also training up a lot of people who could win comps.
I really appreciated the immense technical complexity of it, and the satisfaction of hitting a complex technique you've painstakingly learnt against a resistant opponent in sparring is hard to beat. this was generally rare for me because I was one of the smaller men in the class and I spent a lot of time getting my chest caved in while slowly suffocating in a mounted triangle.
after sparring my hands would always shake like mad from adrenaline and possibly some kind of thrumming low-level existential terror
― LookaDjin (Sgt. Biscuits), Thursday, 6 August 2026 08:49 (one month ago)