The Politics Of Pornography

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Leading on from wot Anthony said in the 'We got The Beat' thread. Demeaning? Photographic rape? Empowering? A bit of fun? Wot are it being, eh?

DG, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I think porn is part of a long erotic traditon . We need to represent our sex. Plus it makes me hotter then a sailor on shore leave.

anthony, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

'porn' (and/or that which 'degrades and corrupts') is where one least expects to find it.

dave q, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I only oppose porn as a kind of iroic-reactionary stance, of course.

duane, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

(should read- I only oppose porn as a kind of ironic- reactionary stance, of course.)

duane, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Really explicit porn is good in that it objectifies and thus demystifies. We're all meat after all. The soft-focus 'non-degrading' shit does the opposite, thus it's dishonest. Escapism is worse than pornography, is there any human interaction that ISN'T 'degrading' on some level?

dave q, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Come on you can't analyse pornography aswell guys, is nothing sacred?

Ronan, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Have found that the women I know who like porn prefer stories to pics/vids - total opposite with blokes, I think?

Andrew L, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I like stories brcause my sexaul taste is very tiny .

anthony, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I had a boyfriend who brought a bunch of porno mags round one time and said 'I thought you would like to look at these'. They were fairly soft core and pretty daft too e.g. naked chicks washing cars & masturbating. As you do. Why on earth he thought I would want to look at them instead of going to the pub or having dinner or going to a film is beyond me. He also used to record stupid Bravo films like Confessions of a Cloistered Nun for me. How sweet. I was not offended, just bemused.

Emma, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

You've got to admire his courage, in a detached kind of way.

Ronan, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

a couple of weeks ago all of our band were in the tour van, and one of the male members of the band bought a porno mag at a service station - presumably to try and annoy the girls in the band. the pictures were just really clinical - these hairless, scrubbed what i can only describe as holes. there was nothing sexual about them, they could have been from a medical textbook. i'd be really worried if my vagina looked like that. i'd start to suspect that i was made out of plastic!

though i was annoyed by it as well. i can't explain why but it feels as though it's very complex. surely people who get off on that kind of thing don't actually want *sex*, they want something else?

and don't anyone say "a wank". i know what you're all like :)

katie, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

They want locking up, thats what

Ronan, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i think the scrubbed, shaved, chopped, stuffed, oiled, etc. approach to pornography is exemplary of what's wrong with the western world in general - we want to pretend we're some sort of higher species that only wants sex if it's cool-looking, streamlined and synthetic. we're all monkeys, people, and no amount of shaving, going to the gym, or rubbing breast implants against the windshield of a car we're washing is going to change that fact.

we might as well just change the name of america to "NO FAT CHICKS" and get it over with.

your null fame, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

So, why are Americans suh lardasses then?

dave q, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Because they eat too damn much.

Ally, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

it's a crappy ideal; really, we're all just sitting around shoveling gobs of fat and crushed potato chips into our mouths while furiously wanking to unattainable fantasy women damn near as unrealistic as lara croft.

your null fame, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Speaking of DG, where the fuck is he?

Greg, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

BOOM BOOM!

Greg, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I see you're just as funny as those fat northern comedians you stick up for, Greg.

DG, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

JERRY: I would have thought that you would have asked me about the pornographic playing cards.
PETER: (With a knowing smile) Oh, I've seen those cards.
JERRY: That's not the point. (Laughs) I suppose when you were a kid you and your pals passed them around, or you had a pack of your own.
PETER: Well I guess a lot of us did.
JERRY: And you threw them away just before you got married.
PETER: Oh, now, look here: I didn't need anything like that when I got older.
JERRY: No?
PETER: (Embarrassed) I'd rather not talk about these things.
JERRY: So? Don't. Besides, I wasn't trying to plumb your post-adolescent sexual life and hard times; what I wanted to get at is the value difference between pornographic playing cards when you're a kid, and pornographic playing cards when you're older. It's that when you're a kid you use the cards as a substitute for real experience, and when you're older you use real experience as a substitute for the fantasy.

- The Zoo Story, Edward Albee

Tracer Hand, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I can't really tell whether everybody knows that the vast majority of pornography is demeaning to women or not, since no-one ever mentions it. Is it just too obvious, or is it so obvious that you don't even know? I want to say because no-one else has: in the vast majority of pornography (excluding gay or experimental porn, basically) the images are of women; when men are included, it is so that you can show women being fucked. If possible, something else is substituted; women fucking other women, objects, themselves. I don't know why this is so: perhaps so that men won't have to compare themselves to images of other men? To avoid 'jealousy'? Because it is just embarressing to expose yourself, naked, and men want to avoid the identification? Don't know. But it revolves around degrading women.

What are you guys doing? Do you really not care, or not realise? I'm not being inhuman and saying 'don't be aroused by pornography'. It's not possible. But can't you just openly say, 'the way porn is presented is cruel and I don't like it?'

These things seem so obvious to me, I find it difficult to even say them. There are less obvious things about pornography that interest me more. In the early 70s in America, the turnover of the porn industry was about 7 mil dollars a year; now it's about 7 billion dollars a year. Pornography obviously influences the way we express ourselves sexually. Women and men copy the things they see. Secondly, the expansion of the porn industry coincided with the rise of feminism. Feminism seems to have had the side effect of turning women into sexual idiots without recourse to any protection, into drones the majority of whom will raise children by themselves and live around the poverty line. Women still have to please men, just in case they can get someone to help out with the kids; hence their 'swallowing' of the porn industry, I suspect. I guess it's fortunate that there are many men who are just too brave and nice to abuse the position they are in.

maryann, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I don't like pornography, but no-one ever believes me when I say that.

DG, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Maryann, I'm probably sympathetic to some of the issues you raise. The thing is, when someone asks me my opinion on porn, I say that the only position I can take is a neutral one. I don't think that sexually explicit images are inherently good or bad - porn is a product, and as such, it contains a lot of the crassness and idiocy that you could just as easily find in any other medium. Interestingly, I think fashion magazines have a lot of the same illusions. I think the questions you raise about economics and child- rearing are economic and social problems that can't be addressed by attacking porn. Women as "sexual idiots" - hmmmm, that language sounds a bit insulting for my taste - I'm a bit more hopeful in that I think women's interest in porn is not simply motivated by a desire to please men. My suspicion is that a lot of these porn-seeking women are more financially independent. I'm not sure what you're addressing here, but I suspect it's something that could be improved a great deal with better sex education. I guess what I'm saying is that I agree that the social problems you identify exist, but I don't think pornography is at the center of those problems. Certainly some of the most sexist cultures are also the most puritanical.

I don't like Playgirl or whatever. I'm not all that interested in porn, for the most part, and I don't know why that is, but it troubles me less than it used to.

Kerry, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

porn is not sex. That's for sure!

Mike Hanle y, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Then we are talking about two issues.

First captialists owning our means of production is the same whether that is your 36DD tits or your computer. It is about the exploitation of the working classes

Second is depicting sexual acts automatically wrong. If so why ? Is writing about it , or drawing it or sculpting it out of butter more acceptable because it does not involve useing humans. Is their a difference between Mapplethorpe and Bruce la Bruce then ?

anthony, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

As well we are still working within a hetrosexaul context, with the man being the opressor and the woman being opressed. How does this work for those who live out of that paradigm

anthony, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

The key assumption you're making Maryann is the idea that the porn you're describing is automatically degrading. Is it, and if so why, and if so also why is it degrading to 'women' in general rather than merely the individual women in the pictures? Why isn't it degrading for the men involved in hardcore, who are after all being reduced from individual to function just as much? What about 'amateur' pornography?

I'm not asking these questions to attack, honestly, because the issues around porn worry and interest me, and do so probably more acutely because yes I am aroused by some of it. And the qn of how a couple that enjoys porn can fit it into their relationship non- exploitatively is, um, urgent and key for me. But I think the problem with so many questions about gender (see: any gender-based thread on this board) is that like classical economics and marxism and music taste the assumptions and ideas which make sense on a structural, mass level do so much less (or rather are of much less use) on an individual/everyday level. What is worse - being objectified at a physical level or a politcal one?

Tom, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

The ability to get off by looking at 2-dimensional piece of paper is part of what separates us from the animals. For better or worse.

Tracer Hand, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yeah, animals use furniture. Good point.

Kerry, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Porno is imagination and fantasy. As Anthony said on another thread, if porno sucks then we need to make better porno not less of it.

Tracer Hand, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well, I tried! OTHER GIRLS WHERE ARE YOU, FUCK THOSE BOYS AND BOY-LOVING GIRLS! I think I should have made my post shorter and stuck to the fundamental point: the majority of heterosexual pornography is about looking at WOMEN not men. Not that we should change that and look at men in the same way! I can't believe I have to add that.

I am not saying women have no sexual desire. They do, and I guess that cos I was raised in a strange environment with a beyond radically feminist mother screaming at me in a drunken rage 'swear you will never get married! don't let me catch you cooking!' and never had any problems with 'discovering my sexuality' it all just seems so boring to me and I can't believe for a second that people can't just see STRAIGHT THROUGH ALL THIS CRAP. Not only that, but personally, like most girls probably, I've been on the receiving end of ridiculous and brutal abuse from boys produced through a vector of pornography. Do you really think you're doing something for the sexual liberation of women by paying money to buy 'Loaded' or Playboy or whatever real porn mags are called? Because that's what you imply when you claim that pornography is about sex!! But I give up. I can't believe I even tried to address the issue of feminism in that post, I barely even understand it and what I wrote was stupid and confusing. But where are the other fucking girls?

My friend told me that when she was at Catholic intermediate school, the male teacher kept touching all the girls, so they got together and one day at the end of school, they put their chairs up onto their desks and stood behind them with their arms folded and didn't leave, and one exceptionally brave girl walked up to the front of the class and said to the teacher that they didn't like what he was doing, and he had to stop. And he did stop.

Girls do you get it? You don't have to put up with boys telling you that you ought to have big tits, or be skinny, or whatever, you don't have to! You don't have to look at pictures of naked women every time you go into the service station or the dairy or anywhere they have magazines! You can say you don't like it, and you can stop it, once you say it's bullshit! What's the worst that could happen? Like people think you're too 'serious' like they might think about me, or think you're uptight, or what? Big deal! Think about what it would be like for women in the future if they really didn't have to go on diets or have cosmetic surgery to be 'happy'! Sure, you can do that now, by a major act of will. Why should you have to make that act of will?

maryann, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I really like pornography. I wonder if things would be better or worse for women if prostitution was legal. Seems like rather than rape someone, guys would save up their burger king money to show a prostitute who's boss once in a while. I don't know, just a guess, really.

Nude Spock, Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

but maryanne not all pornography is the way you describe. there is hairy man porno, fat granny porno, young crab apple porno and everything inbetween. i agree that a lot of it is stupid tits-on-a-stick plasticity but that's really not porno's excusive domain is it?

Tracer Hand, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

there is hairy man porno, fat granny porno, young crab apple porno and everything inbetween. i agree that a lot of it is stupid tits-on-a-stick plasticity but that's really not porno's excusive domain is it?

Pornography featuring men is usually for men, and pornography featuring women is for men. Pornography featuring grannies is for men, not grannies, and pornography featuring young crab-apples is not for young crab apples.

I wonder if things would be better or worse for women if prostitution was legal. Seems like rather than rape someone, guys would save up their burger king money to show a prostitute who's boss once in a while.

Are you arguing that men will always need to have sex, will rape if necessary to get it, that women don't feel the need for sex, or that if they do they can control it whereas men can't, and so female prostitutes are performing a service by protecting women from men's implacable sexual desires? I need you to explain more.

The key assumption you're making Maryann is the idea that the porn you're describing is automatically degrading. Is it, and if so why, and if so also why is it degrading to 'women' in general rather than merely the individual women in the pictures? Why isn't it degrading for the men involved in hardcore, who are after all being reduced from individual to function just as much? What about 'amateur' pornography?

Do you not consider it sufficient that the individual women in the pictures are degraded? Perhaps you would argue that they choose to be in the pictures of their own free will. If so, why does porn command a higher rate per hour than most other jobs with a similar level of training? Because it is 'degradation money', similar to danger money. Ultimately the viewer pays for the degradation. I don't really see how you can argue with that, except when you mention amateur porn. If ONLY amateur porn existed, I AGREE THAT THAT WOULD WORK. Instead what happens is what I referred to earlier; sexuality doesn't exist in a vacuum. From what I've seen of amateur porn, men generally work hard to get their girlfriends to replicate what they see in the images that were paid for. But amateur porn does often fuck up the dominant porn iconography, I agree. So it's better. But not better enough, as it stands.

I guess what I'm saying is that I agree that the social problems you identify exist, but I don't think pornography is at the center of those problems.

I am interested in your point, Kerry, and wonder if you could explain further. What do you think lies at the centre of the social problems? Perhaps if you were more specific I could address this. As far as I can see, the objectification of women in the massive cultural production of visual and literary images is the way in which women's roles are policed. Pornography is not just of equal importance to all the images; because it's embarrassing to talk about, it's not dealt with much, so pornographers are free to propagate radical misogyny. And they do. Pornography is at the extreme edge of oppression, because it exists in secret. In some ways it expresses oppression in a 'pure' form. Sexual fantasies even seem to rely on extremely simple versions of social dynamics ... it's so interesting ...

Certainly some of the most sexist cultures are also the most puritanical.

Women certainly enjoy a much better position in America, New Zealand or Britain than they do in, for instance, Afghanistan. But I don't really see this as an argument for lesser forms of oppression.

Do I win a medal for patience? And re ionic reactionary - how can I argue against chemistry?

maryann, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

maryann there are women here who find (most) pornography offensive. they probably arn't willing to speak up because they've noticed that people on ILE tend to get their back up if you say you are concerned that something in Western culture is used almost exclusively to oppress women. this happened to me when i dared to take a feminist line against boob jobs in an earlier thread. immediately i got swamped with "but there is nothing inherent in boob jobs that makes them oppressive", "but women get them so they must like them, you are denying women agency", blahblahblah completely putting words in my mouth, like i believe has happened to you. i have noticed some "there is nothing inherent in porn that makes it offensive" type replies to your posts, and i don't even think you have stated that you are pro-censorship. (maybe you are, correct me if i'm wrong, i don't know). any how, as if we didn't know that porn and boob jobs arn't inherently oppressive to women.

to you other contributors to this thread: the fact remains that porn doesn't exist in a vacuum: it exists in a currently patriarchal society. it is used to reinforce and perpetuate sexist ideas. if you want me to qualify, okay i will: most het porn does this. so fucking what, not all of it does, but the point is most of it does and THIS NEEDS TO BE RECTIFIED!!!!!!

have i made sense? if any one wants to ask me more, please do. for the moment i have to go soundcheck.

lady die, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

BUT PORNOGRAPHY IS NOT ONLY WOMAN AND MEN !

anthony, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

hey anthony i did qualify and say : het porn!!!!!!!

and i'm not arguing for censorship because i realise that to do so would be heterosexist!!!!!!!

why don't you read my posting!!!!!!!! thank you very much!!!!!!!!

lady die, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i was just saying in my first posting on this thread why i hardly contribute to political threads anymore: because i always get misinterpretted.

lady die, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

they eat porn = they are monkeys.

duane, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

okay
ill break this down :
1) Most the discussions on pornography i can remeber are hetrosexist. Most theorists, (Dwarkin most agersiouly(sp depcit as nothing more then a cunt and cock power grab which oversimplifies the issue

2) How do we define exploit ? These woman (and men) are making money off their own bodies , out of their own volition.

3) Why is looking at a sexually explicit depection automatically degrading when consent has been provided ?

4) you mentioned the patricahy but porn is the one of few industries where the woman make absurdly more money then the men do, the woman deterimine what sexual postions they will do with whom , they often deterimine who directs or photographs them and where .

5) Body Fascism and the Cult of the Blonde is enforced alot more strongly in Womans camps then it is men. Read Cosmo with the fitness tips and read then maxim where men are ofen pleased to get some

6) Some queer theorists, Paglia and I argue this a continuation of the American Puritan fear of sexual pleasure and its repricutions rather then seeing a little tit on the back shelves.

anthony, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

what about guys fucking animals - if the animals are consenting, and the guys are consenting, who does that opress?

Geoff, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Hi Anthony - I think I addressed some of the things you raised earlier, but I will do so again. Perhaps you could tell me what you think about these ideas.

1) Most the discussions on pornography i can remeber are hetrosexist. Most theorists, (Dwarkin most agersiouly(sp depcit as nothing more then a cunt and cock power grab which oversimplifies the issue

Maybe most discussions on pornography deal with mainstream pornography, which is sexist? (Male) gay pornography obviously isn't misogynist.

2) How do we define exploit ? These woman (and men) are making money off their own bodies , out of their own volition.

3) Why is looking at a sexually explicit depection automatically degrading when consent has been provided ?

4) you mentioned the patricahy but porn is the one of few industries where the woman make absurdly more money then the men do, the woman deterimine what sexual postions they will do with whom , they often deterimine who directs or photographs them and where .

This is what I wrote to Tom: Perhaps you would argue that the women in pornographic images choose to be in the pictures of their own free will. If so, why does porn command a higher rate per hour than most other jobs with a similar level of training? Because it is 'degradation money', similar to danger money. Ultimately the viewer pays for the degradation. Rather than being proof of the empowerment of women, the high pay rate is proof that they are being exploited.

5) Body Fascism and the Cult of the Blonde is enforced alot more strongly in Womans camps then it is men. Read Cosmo with the fitness tips and read then maxim where men are ofen pleased to get some

I completely agree with you about Cosmo, I think it is radically sexist. I also think most pornography is equally, exactly equally, sexist. As I wrote to Kerry: Sexist pornography is of equal importance to other sexist images, and because it's embarrassing to talk about, it's not dealt with much, so pornographers are free to propagate radical misogyny. And they do. Pornography is at the extreme edge of oppression, because it exists in secret. In some ways it expresses oppression in a 'pure' form.

6) Some queer theorists, Paglia and I argue this a continuation of the American Puritan fear of sexual pleasure and its repricutions rather then seeing a little tit on the back shelves.

Here, you probably have a point, since I do have some confused ideas about sexual purity and ascetism. But on the other hand, do you think that most pornography would make women feel more comfortable about sex? It might make them feel like having sex in the short term, because of the arousing effect, but it doesn't seem to make women more accepting of themselves, which would appear to be the starting point for an 'authentic' expression of sexuality.

maryann, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I viewed pornography as an agent of my liberation. As a queer man when i saw two men fuckign it was a light in my head. That is why it so difficult for me to understand why woman feel degraded. I think alot of porn is degrading for both men and woman. But i think that comes from us not owning our tools of production. I think the worst explotation of woman deal with hidden service industries though and not well renumated porn stars.

anthony, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

'Higher pay is proof of being exploited'? That's got to be the most heroic contortion I've ever seen. Being exploited for peanuts is what most people (i.e. the rest of the world) who work for a living do, and I'm sure they could give a fuck about somebody having self- esteem issues. If somebody won't starve for their ideals then those ideals aren't worth anything in the first place. People in Honduras are selling their 9-yr-old daughters to buy groceries and 'who's on the cover of Cosmo' is still an issue?

If Western women are depicted as brainless, solipsistic consumers, then maybe that's because they are. Western men, ditto. But hey, at least people aren't judged by their looks in Afghanistan, eh?

dave q, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

how to fight the power: get a camera and make your own

jameslucas, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

to dave q: yeah the exploitation of women and children in third world countries is a big fucking issue. nobody said it wasn't. but i have noticed a tendency for Westerners to trot out that old chestnut every time their own sexist practises are questionned. this is a worry, just because you think that something worse is going on somewhere else in the world doesn't mean there isn't scope for improving your own practises, right?

and furthermore, (and i am NOT reccommending people turn a blind eye to oppression in other countries) i would like to ask, why all the rush for westerners to criticise the oppressive practises of non-westerners? please do not interpret what i am saying as an argument for relativism, because i do believe the oppression of women and children in non-western countries is a problem which needs to be rectified. i am merely suggesting that our willingness to criticise the practises of non-western cultures could be inflected with a touch of (dare i say it) racism. please do not get all angry with this statement, i am not calling anyone in particular a racist, i am merely suggesting that we need to think long and hard about our motives.

anthony: but porn is non-unionised labour. so if a woman making porn is treated badly, she has less of a chance of getting a fair deal. and even if the women are earning lots of money, that doesn't stop people from watching pornography because it reiterates some fucked up ideas they have about female sexuality. which is why a lot of het men watch het porn: they think it can tell the truth about female sexuality. which it can't. why: because there is no ONE AUTHENTIC truth about female sexuality, and if there is, it sure ain't that we exist for the titillation of men!!!!!

lady die, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

So is a huge amount of the work woman do. but this non unionised labour has almost all the benifeits of uninon labour and there is a movemeent ot give porn stars SAG cards. I do not feel like i am being heard.

anthony, Saturday, 1 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

what is an SAG card?

lady die, Sunday, 2 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

okay maryann i'll say it: 'the way porn is presented is cruel and I don't like it'. Not that it means much from me 'cos i find porn really boring. Also i'm talking about nearly all hetero porn i've seen, (including advertising, hollywood movies and Cosmo mags) instead of porn per se. i think that some of the people here have confused the issues of the exploitation of people starring in the porn versus the expoloitation of women in general. The people starring in porn are not neccessarily degraded - the higher wages given to untrained workers in the porn industry that Maryann mentioned has more to do with the limited numbers of people who are capable of doing the work, rather than any "degradation" money. in reply to "nude spock", yes i think women would be in a better position if prostitution was legalised, but for very different reasons to you. i guess your post is an example of the problems caused by the way of thinking in hetero pornos.

hamish n00nan, Sunday, 2 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I am sick and full of Thera-Flu and barely alive, but I stand by my statement.

Abbott (Abbott), Tuesday, 6 February 2007 21:05 (nineteen years ago)

y 2 not believe in pr0n addiction? it's like anything else that costs money and time and short circuits the pleasure centers, right?

geoff (gcannon), Tuesday, 6 February 2007 21:10 (nineteen years ago)

I mean typical "do not ever look at prons" folx who make it sound like if you look at it say, once a day or once evr, you are an ADDICT. I mean how much can one even jerk it, reasonably? If you're looking at porn less than the time "an avg American watches TV," I would say you are not addicted. I MEAN, an addiction must interfere with one's life (social, work, etc.) and most people's pron use seems not to do that. Hence my opinion.

Abbott (Abbott), Tuesday, 6 February 2007 21:13 (nineteen years ago)

ron jeremey did stand-up at a local strip club two weeks ago, and my friend served him at the pre-show dinner.

he said she had a nice voice.

grbchv! (skowly), Tuesday, 6 February 2007 22:13 (nineteen years ago)

What, 'cause he couldn't find anything nice to say about her appearance?

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 6 February 2007 22:30 (nineteen years ago)

This had potential to become one of those great early early ILX threads where every other poster wrote Nabisco-lenght paragraphs, but instead it just sort of stopped right in its tracks. I suppose people were mostly a bit intimidated? Wouldn't blame 'em, I'm not about to try to pick up where this left off either...

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Wednesday, 7 February 2007 00:31 (nineteen years ago)

(no disrespect to revived-era this thread, which is good too but not really talking about the same stuff.)

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Wednesday, 7 February 2007 00:32 (nineteen years ago)

ttiwwp

Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Wednesday, 7 February 2007 00:36 (nineteen years ago)

ilx sure used to let a lot go back in the day compared to now...

darragh.mac (darragh.mac), Wednesday, 7 February 2007 01:39 (nineteen years ago)

What, 'cause he couldn't find anything nice to say about her appearance?

well, if he had whipped it out...

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 7 February 2007 16:25 (nineteen years ago)

!!!

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 7 February 2007 16:33 (nineteen years ago)

one month passes...
I really like pornography.
Nude Spock on Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (5 years ago)

bobby bedelia, Sunday, 25 March 2007 23:44 (nineteen years ago)

My god, I was awesomely not making total sense on this thread. I love Thera-Flu.

I bought all the Playboys from 71-71 for $10 at an estate sale once. They were wacky! The letters definitely played up the political bit from women w/lots of snide comments from the editor. They were also bushtastic (as has been observed), women staring in that vacuous 'erotic' way down at their fingers stimulating their fluffy natural bush.

I'd never even seen a Playboy before, god, it's like 2% naked ladies.

The main thing that changed my perceptions was DAMN cigarette ads were effective back in their day. I will be the one person who admits they are actually susceptible to advertising---those things started me smoking.

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I have a hard time even thinking about the politics of porn in a serious fashion. So much anything political in this sense is subconscious, so it is with pornography. 95% of it is super boring, but it helps a lot of lonely people get through the night, i think it largely is a service to the world.

Abbott, Monday, 26 March 2007 02:15 (nineteen years ago)

I also have to reiterate more thoroughly that I just think there's a lot of dishonesty going on among porn professionals, though a veneer of fiction is expected w/the genre. Not even the claim that it's 'empowering' to perform, which is certainly simplifying the physical/emotional complexity of the career, but just the claim byt female performers that they like it & they're never mistreated. I mean, at least it could be stated it's hard fucking work, as I imagine it would be getting pounded in the ass at crazy angles all day long.

Abbott, Monday, 26 March 2007 02:22 (nineteen years ago)

The biggest dilemma I have watching porn is where to draw the line. I mean some porn is just out of the question. But when you get to the point where it's like "Ok, she's legal, and this isn't shot in Eastern Europe, and there's no suggestion of non-consent and she is probably getting paid ok" there can still be gray areas. Sometimes you get the impression the guy is being a little rougher than the woman bargained for, or it looks like maybe woman wasn't aware she would be doing certain things but just kind of goes with the flow out of fear/embarassment/timidity, and it does make me very uncomfortable.

A lot of the gonzo stuff is also just revolting, but some of it can be pretty hot if the power games are pushed just the right amount.

Hurting 2, Monday, 26 March 2007 02:26 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200701/girly-mags

W i l l, Monday, 26 March 2007 05:16 (nineteen years ago)

The ability to get off by looking at 2-dimensional piece of paper is part of what separates us from the animals. For better or worse.

Tracer Hand on Friday, 31 August 2001 00:00 (5 years ago)


Not true! Monkeys dig looking at pix of monkey ass. Now proven by science!

Monkeys Pay To See Female Monkey Bottoms

rogermexico., Monday, 26 March 2007 05:44 (nineteen years ago)

monkeys otm

Curt1s Stephens, Monday, 26 March 2007 05:53 (nineteen years ago)

Y'know, I like to defend porn more than watch it. I watch it from time to time but overall I prefer to read about the politics/history of it, more than actually get off on smut. I'm not really sure why exactly. Maybe it's part rebellion - it's not so common to have a woman defend porn - or maybe I just like it and think that it's everyone's right to have access to it (as long as it's legal naturally).

Also, I'm hellaconfused by squirting. I mean, *real* squirting. How the hell do you do that?

nathalie, Monday, 26 March 2007 07:19 (nineteen years ago)

What an opening.

Kiwi, Monday, 26 March 2007 08:39 (nineteen years ago)

But I do gush.

Kiwi, Monday, 26 March 2007 08:39 (nineteen years ago)

DP to thread.

Kiwi, Monday, 26 March 2007 08:40 (nineteen years ago)

I don't really dig porn stories. Then again I haven't read much. But I like my porn (and other *stuff*) to be explicit, easy to access, so I prefer the visual side of it. I'm certainly not offended and don't think porn is condescending. It's like Dave Q says about meat and pure physical sex. That said, I don't really like over the top facial shots, but I can understand why some people do like it.

nathalie, Monday, 26 March 2007 08:44 (nineteen years ago)

http://static.flickr.com/32/93523663_2dcbc5153a.jpg


Kiwi, Monday, 26 March 2007 09:11 (nineteen years ago)

PHWOARGH!!!!

moley, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 11:43 (nineteen years ago)

can someone get a black rectangle on that?

GOTT PUNCH II HAWKWINDZ, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 13:26 (nineteen years ago)

Or at least some J-porn pixelation?

fife, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 13:48 (nineteen years ago)

I once wrote a 10 page paper on various feminist perspectives on porn. I ended up coming down on the Marxist-Fem side, which is to say that I support Porn Star-run Coops.

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 14:41 (nineteen years ago)

Squirting=peeing while rubbing it around with your fingers for the spray effect while pretending to masturbate, near as I can tell.

Abbott, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 20:12 (nineteen years ago)

But, they have books about it...

Pye Poudre, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 20:15 (nineteen years ago)

According to the very great book The Guide to Getting It On, there are not many scientific studies about squirting/G-spot. But one study did analyze the chemical content of the squirt and found it was basically pee. I don't doubt some women are naturally squirting, but how mane laydees are really getting off in porn,a nd how the helll could they ejaculate 30+ seconds of fluid given the small size of female reproductive blands? And even their bladder size---I used to time it (!!!) and I pee, on avg., for about 20 seconds. So I don't believe the porn squirt is the real squirt.

Abbott, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 20:18 (nineteen years ago)

Oh God WTF! Woaaah!

Kiwi, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 20:56 (nineteen years ago)

I think Im SHROOMING!

Kiwi, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 20:56 (nineteen years ago)

I am HARDCORE black rectangle!

Kiwi, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 20:57 (nineteen years ago)

Having never encountered anything even remotely like it in real life, I've come to the conclusion (not without tears) that yr probably right. A friend actually had a rather lengthy book about it, but unfortunately, it was written in this horrible nu-age positivist jargon that prevented actual reading of the thing. Anyway, Skene's gland. "Female prostate." Hope springs eternal...

Pye Poudre, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 21:05 (nineteen years ago)

BTW, Y U tyme pee?

Pye Poudre, Tuesday, 27 March 2007 21:07 (nineteen years ago)

five years pass...

http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2012/11/11/does-pornography-deserve-its-bad-rap

Mordy, Monday, 12 November 2012 14:58 (thirteen years ago)

i totally do not get how "room for debate" is supposed to work

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:12 (thirteen years ago)

btw i miss Kiwi

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:12 (thirteen years ago)

totally do not get how "room for debate" is supposed to work

― TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Monday, November 12, 2012 6:12 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

same. and there's something very school newspapery about it also.

drunk 'n' white's elements of style (Hurting 2), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:15 (thirteen years ago)

i was thinking About.com, but yeah

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:18 (thirteen years ago)

A bunch of bush-league-level op-eds somehow combine to form voltron or something

drunk 'n' white's elements of style (Hurting 2), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:21 (thirteen years ago)

they pontificate, u debate along at home w/ their opinionz as yr guide

j., Monday, 12 November 2012 23:41 (thirteen years ago)

lol "bush league" good choice of words hurting

drunk 'n' white's elements of style (Hurting 2), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:42 (thirteen years ago)

thanks, i've learned a lot from your blogs. keep posting!

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:43 (thirteen years ago)

what's weird to me about the format is that reader comments are specific to each article, so there like 7 "debates", when it seems like they're going for some sort of synthesis, but there's no place for that synthesis to happen

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 November 2012 23:47 (thirteen years ago)

one year passes...
five years pass...

https://nplusonemag.com/issue-35/essays/cashconsent/

j., Wednesday, 25 September 2019 23:45 (six years ago)

Thanks for that

Fox Pithole Britain (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 26 September 2019 09:07 (six years ago)

one year passes...

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/04/opinion/sunday/pornhub-rape-trafficking.html

pomenitul, Friday, 4 December 2020 22:01 (five years ago)


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