On the purpose of moderating

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This is the thread where we discuss and decide what moderating is for and what should be the limits to the moderators function.

Discuss.

Ed (dali), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:08 (twenty-two years ago)

My opinion is that moderating is very much the last resort.

Requesting you're own posts to be deleted or modified should only be an option when you have revealed sensitive information.

As far as moderating wider problems, there should be a consensus before any action is taken. Of course everyone can't agree but those who are about at the time should agree to action taken.

The board moderates the moderators.

Ed (dali), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:15 (twenty-two years ago)

they should moderate the war as well!!!

geeta (geeta), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:16 (twenty-two years ago)

If they moderated the war we would never get any information! It would all be locked or censored instead we would get 'What is The Tweest Thing You've Ever Done to a Boy or Girl?'

S Samson, Friday, 21 March 2003 10:17 (twenty-two years ago)

I don't think this board should be a democracy.

Tim (Tim), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:18 (twenty-two years ago)

That above was my feeble attempt at humour. : - D

I think moderation should never be heavy handed. And why do you not think that Tim? Are you a fan of George Bush Jr?

S Samson, Friday, 21 March 2003 10:19 (twenty-two years ago)

but if they moderated the war they could delete the bombs!

(hi tim!!)

geeta (geeta), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:22 (twenty-two years ago)

whatever people decide to do...i'm cool with it. theres no right or wrong in these situations. people are here because they like it and it makes them happy, in whichever ever that occurs. and if they dislike over-moderation or under-moderation they will leave, because theres a whole web out there, and beyond that, a whole world. so, in the end, it doesnt really matter either way...

or, to put it another way, the internet cannot be moderated. if you cannot put your words in one place, put them in another, it really doesnt matter

gareth (gareth), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:22 (twenty-two years ago)

(Hello Geeta!)

What Gareth said. This *is* a moderated board and it's my feeling that we can trust them (haha not me!) to behave sensibly and ask for advice when they need it.

Tim (Tim), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:24 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm happy for moderators to take decisions that they think are right at the time, rather than establishing concensus. I trust them. Maybe they should ask another moderator at most.

Dr. C (Dr. C), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:29 (twenty-two years ago)

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gareth (gareth), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:32 (twenty-two years ago)

yeah, I think the agreed upon principles are:

1) Deletion of pr0n
2) Deletion of offensive/illegal posts/people's real names
3) Removal of duplicate threads that haven't gotten off the ground, or have been posted on the wrong board
4) Simple admin like correcting a typo in a thread title

jel -- (jel), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:35 (twenty-two years ago)

I don't think the board should be a democracy either. But I would like if moderation guidelines were laid down. I don't think people should be able to get their posts changed unless they have named someone in it (possibly including themselves) or something like that. But in general if people say stupid things they later regret, fuck them, that'll teach them to think things through more clearly.

3) Removal of duplicate threads that haven't gotten off the ground, or have been posted on the wrong board

I'm not entirely convinced by this... if people don't post to threads they will disappear down the new answers page very quickly. What is the problem?

DV (dirtyvicar), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:39 (twenty-two years ago)

I think I'm with Dr C and Tim here. As I said on the other thread, if moderators aren't allowed to crack down on people slinging racist epithets around, then what are they allowed to do? I'm not sure locking a thread is really the way forward, however, as said troll will only spill over onto another thread.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:39 (twenty-two years ago)

DV - what's your problem of removal of duplicate threads anyway? Seems fairly harmless from where I'm standing?

Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:40 (twenty-two years ago)

Whenever a large group of people get together to discuss life and various issues and it is not a democracy; that discussion group eventually leads down the long road of 'self-defeatist'. I'm not saying that every move should be democratically voted on but I do say that a large number of people acting on thoughts they consider to be worong or senseless will lead to the extinction of this board as a discussion place as people will fear reprimand for their thoughts.

This is not a good thing.

S Samson, Friday, 21 March 2003 10:43 (twenty-two years ago)

I think DV's point is that the worst that can happen with duplicate threads is that no-one posts to them, and the best is that they can go brilliantly wrong, in a manner which makes ILX a more entertaining place to be.

And also that he likes discussing music on ILE, because he's a gouty old fart who can't be bothered clicking ILM at the top of the board.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:48 (twenty-two years ago)

More moderators = swifter action when needed/ease of workload BUT ALSO more chance of any given controversial thread being moderated.

It's a really hard area to define. I'm going to try and draft some guidelines which the mods can agree on and then can be in the public domain. I also think debate about moderator decisions is really good because we all have made and will make mistakes.

One point somebody makes upthread is very valid: ILX was started as a messageboard with the aim of providing a space for intelligent, polite conversation - stupid and nonsensical and heated conversation too, but not the anarchy of flamewars, trolling, board invasions etc etc that USENET had become. If you prefer that kind of stuff - and it is a lot of fun sometimes - then ILX maybe isn't for you. But don't ask us to change to fit your idea of what a messageboard should be. Like I seem to be saying a lot these days - ILX has never advertised, or recruited, or promoted itself in any way. It's just there - you can walk in and walk out, but it doesn't owe you anything just because you've visited it.

Tom (Groke), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:51 (twenty-two years ago)

Reply to Samson's post: possibly more sensible, though, than either (a) leaving it to one person who will start deleting posts/barring posters because s/he happened to be in a bad mood that morning; or (b) or having your discussion group interrupted by some moron barging in and yelling abuse in your ear.

The big obstacle with ILx is that much of what's posted on it is the equivalent of routine pub conversations/debates, but you miss the tone of voice and the delivery, so things can sometimes be read as being aggressive when really they're not.

Marcello Carlin, Friday, 21 March 2003 10:51 (twenty-two years ago)

I'd much rather people felt a bit cautious about what they posted than people felt this was the kind of place where (for example) racist filth is acceptable.

A set of moderating guidelines would be handy but we've seen that people who come here are very, very quick to jump on what they see as unreasonable moderation.

Tim (Tim), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:52 (twenty-two years ago)

For informational purposes - the original guidelines way back in early ILM days was that direct personal abuse (eg "Tom you are a fat cunt and I hate you.") was not acceptable, and this included racial abuse.

Tom (Groke), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:56 (twenty-two years ago)

What I mean is: "Oh dear I posted this on the wrong board, can someone delete it please?" or "damn, this has been posted already, can someone get rid of this?". I do not mean removing threads about music from ILE or deleting duplicate threads that have gotten responses or things like that.

jel -- (jel), Friday, 21 March 2003 10:58 (twenty-two years ago)

The attraction of the board to me anyways is the fact that people are not cautious at the moment of what they post. It is more involving of a discussion. And more human. It would be a shame if people started to feel cautious about what they post. But hey, does England not have the highest rate of CCTV cameras on the street than any other country. This could be a cultural difference and I apologise for my previous post if this is the case!

: - D

S Samson, Friday, 21 March 2003 10:59 (twenty-two years ago)

I find it very easy to ignore offensive, stupid posts and morons, they soon go away if you do.

I'll challenge racists and bigots where I find them, but provocative trolls aren't worth my time.

Guidelines are a very good idea, I look forward to reading them.

Ed (dali), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:00 (twenty-two years ago)

And also that he likes discussing music on ILE, because he's a gouty old fart who can't be bothered clicking ILM at the top of the board.

Flip you melonfarmer, I never talk about music on ILE.

I have now thought of a new game - who can get a post to this thread moderated most quickly?

DV (dirtyvicar), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:01 (twenty-two years ago)

As Spiderman's uncle once said 'With great power comes great responsibilty'. : - D

S Samson, Friday, 21 March 2003 11:03 (twenty-two years ago)

Yeah, but he died directly after.

Mine eyes are mine own moderators.

Pete (Pete), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:07 (twenty-two years ago)

Samson I honestly sympathise - DG's moderation guidelines were 'delete nothing unless absolutely neccessary' and I try to go with that. If I thought people were watching what they said I would be concerned - but with a couple of glaring and much-discussed exceptions there's been very little personal or petty moderation here.

There's also a massive difference between deletion and locking. Locking is a reversible decision and removes nothing from an existing thread - deletion is permanent.

Also - being scared to say something = dud. phrasing it more politely = classic. :)

The problem with the 'ignoring' thing Ed is that what it means is that the less battle-hardened posters, who do find it offensive and not easily ignored, tend to leave before the major trolls do. What causes forums to decline, in my experience, isn't that they get overrun with trolls but that they become very hard-bitten and combatative and cynical. The posters who stay think that's an improvement and say hooray for freer speech. The posters who've left don't say anything.

Tom (Groke), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:08 (twenty-two years ago)

Maybe this board is not for me! : - (

S Samson, Friday, 21 March 2003 11:12 (twenty-two years ago)

oh yeah, clearing out racially offensive and suchlike posts, probably also a good idea.

DV (dirtyvicar), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:17 (twenty-two years ago)

thats it at the end of the day! there a are million boards, a million sites, and millions of people. you have to find the things in life that suit you. you can go where you like, or you can go where you dont. you can rail against somewhere you dont like, or you can go somewhere you do. its not like a job, theres no reason to be anywhere you dont like

you pays your money (free!), and make your choice. in the end i'm just glad people go to the effort of making anything like this, or anything, and cant' quite find it in me to have a go at people for providing me with anything. after all, i can just........leave

so, good work all!

gareth (gareth), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:17 (twenty-two years ago)

Another important point for discussion - what differences in guidelines should ILM and ILE have, if any?

Tom (Groke), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:19 (twenty-two years ago)

I think moderators are generally in agreement over a v.light approach to deleting posts. I think someone violently abused (esp. with bigoted overtones) perhaps should be allowed to requested that it be deleted. I don't know.

On the basis of discussions elsewhere, we all agree that requests for ones own posts to be deleted are deprecated. Unless privacy is compromised. For this reason, I was rather concerned by this, yesterday:


Can someone delete my post on the IL* Challenge thread please... I suddenly regret posting it.
-- Matt DC (runmd...), March 20th, 2003 5:01 PM. (later) (admin) P>----------------------------------------------------------------------

(done, matt.)
-- jess (dubplatestyl...), March 20th, 2003 5:05 PM. (later) (admin)

But then I didn't see what was deleted so I can't really be sure. Jess? [IP addresses deleted by Moderator Nick]

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:22 (twenty-two years ago)

Possibly someone should moderate out those IP addresses.

Ed (dali), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:26 (twenty-two years ago)

It was in-jokey but inflammatory teasing of a known-to-be-sensitive poster. (Sorry Matt that sounds harsh in summary). But this is what I mean by 15 moderators = things more likely to happen.

Tom (Groke), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:28 (twenty-two years ago)

I think it was something along the lines of "my name is Nick Dastoor and my mum walks the streets".

Tom - yes, I agree, which is why I wanted it deleted.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:29 (twenty-two years ago)

Hence need for the log. I shal Nick's disquiet however. Regreting posting something should not be a reason for something to be removed. Instead posting a post saying you regret what you wrote seems a much more honest way of doing it.

Pete (Pete), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:30 (twenty-two years ago)

agreed

Ed (dali), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:31 (twenty-two years ago)

thirded

jel -- (jel), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:50 (twenty-two years ago)

yes. much like in real life, when you say something that you should not have said, an apology is merited.

DV (dirtyvicar), Friday, 21 March 2003 12:30 (twenty-two years ago)

yes but in real life it only exists in the hearts and minds of your fans and haters whereas here it is in black and in white.

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 21 March 2003 12:32 (twenty-two years ago)

(forever)

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 21 March 2003 12:32 (twenty-two years ago)

Apologies to the poster in question - I'm sure they know who they are.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 21 March 2003 12:33 (twenty-two years ago)

then people should bare that in mind before they post. everyone knows how it works

Ed (dali), Friday, 21 March 2003 12:49 (twenty-two years ago)

You and your bare.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 21 March 2003 12:56 (twenty-two years ago)

any suggestion which depends on a claim containuing the words "ppl shd" is by definition idealistic pie-in-the-sky, of no practical help to moderators who are primarily having to deal with situations where they DON'T know what ppl know, and can't assume this

my responses have always been based on instinct not rules: i reserve the right to be capricious bcz it's my time being eaten into and grief being added to — life is abt dealing with capricious ppl, and moderators are also ppl and trolls have to learn to deal with them

moderating shd be nearly non-existent and unnoticeable 99% of the time — the problem is always how to ensure the 1% of the time does not become a 10% of the time *as a result of moderator action* (it's like the hippocratic oath: first do no harm... ie to ilx)

mark s (mark s), Friday, 21 March 2003 12:59 (twenty-two years ago)

wise words

Ed (dali), Friday, 21 March 2003 13:01 (twenty-two years ago)

I actually think the constant presence of the 'SHOUT FOR THE MODERATOR' thread in the New Answers is something to be concerned about - it used to be used quite sparingingly. Now it's always there and kind of always on everyone's mind. I think maybe an alternative mechanism (An 'email the moderators' button?) is better, perhaps with a note saying that if it's really really urgent and you're worried that none of the 10001 moderators will see the email then pressing then post to the thread. Or perhaps a way of just alerting the moderators on the ILE site itself to a request for moderation action is preferable both in terms of timeliness and neatness.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 21 March 2003 13:05 (twenty-two years ago)

all this is true and it has operated fine until the recent hoo-ha with the yelling out of cars thread, which has forced moderation to become a big issue and forced it into prominence where before it was casually treated and seldom the subject of much discussion. Even the ins and outs of moderation like what should and shouldn't be allowed on the "shout for the moderator" thread now are being treated with a far higher level of importance. And yet at the time when all these wheels were set in motion, a massive boundary which was crossed in banning J blount, was treated really lightly.

I think what happened with blount has damaged the boards quite alot, I can't believe noone pointed out what a chasmic difference in moderator behaviour it was. I feel like a mug for not mentioning this then because it may not have reached the point of trolls realising what a state the whole system is in and taking advantage as has happened recently. I guess the instinct on ILX after a massive argument like on that thread, is to avoid starting things up again, but that would have been insignificant I think in comparison to what has happened.

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 21 March 2003 13:13 (twenty-two years ago)

I wasn't around when all that happened. I just came back and there was an enormous car thread with some mention of gaps. Graham lost it, yes? He said before that he wasn't to be a moderator so now there are more of us then perhaps he will find it easier to stick to this.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 21 March 2003 13:15 (twenty-two years ago)

I think he's just saying that she was totally fucked up (whether or not the self-harm stuff was a lie or not) and needed help. My position was that there was no way we could give it to her.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 4 April 2003 23:38 (twenty-two years ago)

Hm, good take on it.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 4 April 2003 23:42 (twenty-two years ago)

The "Hive Mind" is also a friggin community. And to maintain itself as community it needs definition -- it can't be all things to all people. Social ostracization as a response is fine to me, in certain circumstances because in a way whenever we post we're helping define what we want the community to be -- it's a dialogue and a negotiation. The problem is there are communities I don't want to be part of, and keeping ILX one I DO want to be part of requires a certain policing, tho one done better through positive than negative work, and which I think ppl. are right should only resort to actual moderator measures in extreme circumstances.

Like if someone goes around wearing pants on their head of course they're going to be treated weird -- well what the fuck did they expect? And then if they go complain about it people will rightfully say put yr. pants on your ass like everyone else. I suppose you could call this a repressive hive-mind. Or you could just accept that standards, social signifiers etc. are everywhere and then ask how best to negotiate between them, and how and where to push them in directions you'd like.

Outre behavior gets tolerated more also when ppl. can fit it in with a framework of someone they *like* things about, and in fact probably diminishes to the extent ppl. understand that their positive qualities *are* recognized -- sonny is probably a k-classix example of behavior modification *working* -- i.e. ilx at the time negotiated with sonny at the time how we could get along together. It was painful and required questioning assumptions on both our parts, and also often frustrating.

However flawed in execution, my moderation of Calum was intended not to drive him from the boards, but to help him understand what was and wasn't a way to operate. But the problem is that moderation has the stronger effect of creating a *further* us/them divide which fuXoRs things up more, generally.

But see at the same point Calum for example, *is* working to turn ILX into a place where we talk about popstar ass all the time in fairly crass and frustrating ways. So I feel that I *am* working against him, if not in moderation, then in posting.

What bugs me about ppl. treating Geir as a troll is that he obv. isn't one -- it's not about the out-of-control search for validation but really just about his passion for opinions which are outside of the "hivemind."

Trolls aren't things people *are* I think, but things they *do*, habits and patterns they fall into, abusiveness, self-destructiveness, self-consciousness, a sense of isolation and defensiveness shouting into the void. And then doing so *obsessively*.

So yeah I wanna bring calum into the ILX community, but in this case absolutely *not* on his terms, which is the tricky part. One way or another I don't wanna give an inch on his crass bullshit sexism, and the thing is I don't think that his sexism is anything more than a prop or crutch which he'd be better off without -- the problem is to convince *him* of this.

[haha Tom said back the first time he came round that he was the ultimate product of the Britpop british ladpress -- don't blame him, he's a victim of society.]

In the BANG thread I noticed something else also -- that the styles of the "big guns" in posting were fairly incompatible with ILX, and if things kept getting fought out that way really would have turned TP NK etc. into trolls. The "intellectualization" of everything which seems to be the bugbear of ILX-hatas is really perhaps the only rational response to the diversity of opinion etc. we contain. Arguments which only result in escalation of heat and passion are inevitably flamefests. To keep a sense of community, the common denominator perhaps isn't any particular valueset other than the notion that we can talk things out and respect differences. (Rorty really may be our philosopher-king.) So in a rilly abstract sense I would almost say that a troll is someone who ultimately lacks faith in the power of words and ideas, who attributes conversation an unmediated externality. Hence also rockism as ILX's bugbear -- not coz it's any more wrong than any other approach to musical appreciation but because it stops converstion dead in its tracks.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 5 April 2003 05:40 (twenty-two years ago)

There's an absolutely creepy student council feel to this thread, evidenced by the sheer volume of posts in such a short time. Let's start an entire bulletin board about starting a bulletin board.

Mechanics, okay, you guys should have standards. There seem to be a lot of people on this thread, however, who know how other people are supposed to think. There's racist and sexist and there's hypersensitive. There's also bossy, the gravest sin of all (right up there with simony, whatever that is).

Skottie, Saturday, 5 April 2003 07:25 (twenty-two years ago)

a moderator who only EVER reaches for the delete/lock knob = also someone who has lost faith in the power of words and ideas

mark s (mark s), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:14 (twenty-two years ago)

somewhat understandable nowadays : (

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:19 (twenty-two years ago)

Sterling nails it a bit there, ILM has become so difficult. I fully admit that I have been equally difficult on it lately, I mean I stand by pretty much all I've said but the way I went about it maybe wasn't quite right. It often feels like trolling in itself, when you go to ILM and it's crap and all that's there is something to rail against or argue with. I doubt I'm the only one who feels like this.

I think the thing is, basically, that ILM is becoming further and further away from whatever it used to be or whatever alot of the regulars really liked it for, people are finding that hard to take, because it is. We can't change this by making laws or implementing them or moderating, and that's also pretty annoying.

And noone is blaming Doomie or Marcello.

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:35 (twenty-two years ago)

Having said that I did enjoy ILM this week in places, I guess I was simultaneously enjoying the dance thread and then getting pissed off by the rest. I particularly got annoyed with Julio because though I was complaining on one thread, I was posting alot and enjoying the techno/dated thread as much as any I can remember.

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:37 (twenty-two years ago)

But what do you contribute besides the constant complaints? That is what Julio was aiming at. Julio sticks with ILM and puts effort into it. And then you come by and complain about Julio???? Dunno???? I prefer ILM to ILE. ILM is more malleable than ILE. It is basically whatever you want to draw out of it. I think Julio had a good point.

Sonny Tremaine (Sonny), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:43 (twenty-two years ago)

Have a read of the dance threads if you genuinely aren't just having a dig here.

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:45 (twenty-two years ago)

I don't read techno threads because I am not interested in techno threads. So I don't read them. But the majority of the time you are complaining about other's threads - when people who create and put time and effort into these thread - get a reasonable amount of enjoyment out of them. ILM is not 'Being Ronan [surname removed by moderator]' where everybody goes around spouting 'Ronan' 'Ronan' 'Ronan' - if you don't want to contribute to a thread - then don't. But don't tell everyone that they are crap because they don't reflect the Ronan philosophy. 'Cause that is stupuid.

Sonny Tremaine (Sonny), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:48 (twenty-two years ago)

hahaha good lord what are you talking about, also could someone please remove my name from that post

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:49 (twenty-two years ago)

If that's a serious request, Ronan, please say why - I know real names are one of the things we'd remove, but it is there in your email, for instance.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:51 (twenty-two years ago)

it can't be googled in my email though

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:52 (twenty-two years ago)

Fuck it. Continue the whinge, if you must, but contain it to ILE, please?

Sonny Tremaine (Sonny), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:52 (twenty-two years ago)

haha who's whinging, lets go and have lunch

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:53 (twenty-two years ago)

I've removed your surname, Ronan.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:56 (twenty-two years ago)

Given the thread, is that metamoderating? I hope so.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:56 (twenty-two years ago)

I suppose it doesn't matter, it's an instant reaction to say remove my name, and probably for the best, but I often feel it's kneejerk paranoia. I'm not saying change the decision or whatever, I just think it's an interesting subject, kinda internet fear or something.

Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 5 April 2003 09:59 (twenty-two years ago)

Can I just say that Ronan has been excellent on the TECHNO thread (entertaining, funny, bitchy, insightful, annoying, intelligent) and to call him a just whining fucker is a bit off point really.

(As have others on the the techno thread, been excellent, that is. That and the Bang! thread, which has its detractors [me, in some sense, being one of them] have been all that's been keeping me coming to ILM this week. Oh that and compulsion.)

Cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 5 April 2003 10:41 (twenty-two years ago)

But don't tell everyone that they are crap because they don't reflect the Rock philosophy.

Ronan's anti-electronica Loveless or Revolver argument in a nutshell, ladies and gentlemen.

Cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 5 April 2003 10:43 (twenty-two years ago)

Swan pictures?

Lynskey (Lynskey), Saturday, 5 April 2003 11:09 (twenty-two years ago)

see one of the things ppl who say "oh it's all bad these days" mainly can't see or have a sense of is the quality and amiable relevance of their OWN contribution => they (WRONGLY) lack confidence that they're a force for good just by doing what they ordinarily do => they switch from what they ordinarily do well to pouting and/or flouncing out (haha blouncing out), and actually THIS may be the act of delinquency rather than the original (quickly forgotten) irritant

ilx: IT'S FOR LIFE NOT JUST FOR XMAS!! YOU OWE YR PUBLIC FOREVER!! ART = SUFFERING!! etc

mark s (mark s), Saturday, 5 April 2003 11:11 (twenty-two years ago)

(note: for the sake of the hilarious blount/flounce pun i appear to be singling james b. out here -> this is very extremely unfair i acknowledge, however *i* am a force for good by virtue of such "edgy" jokes as all kno hence hmmm i forgot my point)

mark s (mark s), Saturday, 5 April 2003 11:11 (twenty-two years ago)

We should all be Blounting!!!

Cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 5 April 2003 11:12 (twenty-two years ago)

Mo' Moderators, Mo' Problems

(sorry, couldn't resist)

BiG (jel), Saturday, 5 April 2003 14:14 (twenty-two years ago)

i love you jel

also, as i said on ilm, could we please stop accepting (i don't think anyone solicited) advice from doomie on how to run ilx?

jess (dubplatestyle), Saturday, 5 April 2003 15:41 (twenty-two years ago)

I don't imagine anyone is, Jess. I'm quite glad Doomie is back, though I also sort of look forward to the moment when we are once more all stupid arseholes not worthy of his massive brain and he's leaving forever again.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 5 April 2003 15:46 (twenty-two years ago)

what does it matter martin? i mean, really...who cares?

Sonny Andcher (dubplatestyle), Saturday, 5 April 2003 15:49 (twenty-two years ago)

Well, Doomie is not my christian name. And Martin as I stated above - you will not get that from me. As I stated above - I'm much too busy to become 'involved' with ilx. So, you can stop waiting for things that won't happen.

(i.e. Taking someone's advice about compulsion and control. Cheers)

Sonny Tremaine (Sonny), Saturday, 5 April 2003 15:53 (twenty-two years ago)

I'll call you Sonny now - it seems wrong not to adapt if that's what you prefer now (not that I think that's your real name either, but who cares?).

Also, more seriously, I don't think your interactions here did you a lot of good before, so I do hope you just get what you want out of it this time without it coming to any kind of furious crisis. I know you've met four ILXers who I know reasonably well too, and I believe that you like and respect them. I've met lots more, and I'm fairly confident that you'd find most of them worthy of much the same reaction. (I exclude myself, obviously.)

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 5 April 2003 16:22 (twenty-two years ago)

Things have changed. I'm not in a bad-job-life mode and writing career blossoming nicely. I'm off to a party. Basically, history is history. And one of the things that is history will be me offering personal thoughts or insight on this board. But thanks for the thoughts and kind regards.

Sonny Tremaine (Sonny), Saturday, 5 April 2003 16:28 (twenty-two years ago)

I feel a bit guilty really, making those digs. I don't want to get confrontational at all - I just failed to resist a cheap jibe. Good luck, here and elsewhere.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 5 April 2003 16:33 (twenty-two years ago)

four years pass...

My opinion is that moderating is very much the last resort.
Requesting you're own posts to be deleted or modified should only be an option when you have revealed sensitive information.

As far as moderating wider problems, there should be a consensus before any action is taken. Of course everyone can't agree but those who are about at the time should agree to action taken.

The board moderates the moderators.

-- Ed (dali), Friday, March 21, 2003 10:15 AM (4 years ago) Bookmark Link

bang on

That one guy that hit it and quit it, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:10 (seventeen years ago)

I still stand by that.

Ed, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:14 (seventeen years ago)

I love how Gareth trolled this thread with a real name and address four and a half years ago and it has still never been deleted.

Matt DC, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:19 (seventeen years ago)

Sonny Tremaine was doomie, right?

Dom Passantino, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:20 (seventeen years ago)

Can someone delete my post on the IL* Challenge thread please... I suddenly regret posting it.
-- Matt DC (runmd...), March 20th, 2003 5:01 PM. (later) (admin) P>----------------------------------------------------------------------

(done, matt.)
-- jess (dubplatestyl...), March 20th, 2003 5:05 PM. (later) (admin)

I have no memory of what this was!

Matt DC, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:24 (seventeen years ago)

Haha oh yes it was me impersonating Gr4h4m in psycho mode.

Matt DC, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:29 (seventeen years ago)

He had other modes?

Dom Passantino, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:30 (seventeen years ago)

Okay I mean *really* psycho mode.

Matt DC, Friday, 9 November 2007 15:31 (seventeen years ago)

the mods should be armed at all times.
just incase.

The Cursed Return of the Dastardly Thermo Thinwall, Friday, 9 November 2007 16:21 (seventeen years ago)

I find it very easy to ignore offensive, stupid posts and morons, they soon go away if you do.

-- Ed (dali), Friday, March 21, 2003

"morons" was over the line

gershy, Saturday, 10 November 2007 03:54 (seventeen years ago)

"Morans" would have been acceptable.

King Boy Pato, Saturday, 10 November 2007 04:22 (seventeen years ago)

see one of the things ppl who say "oh it's all bad these days" mainly can't see or have a sense of is the quality and amiable relevance of their OWN contribution => they (WRONGLY) lack confidence that they're a force for good just by doing what they ordinarily do => they switch from what they ordinarily do well to pouting and/or flouncing out (haha blouncing out), and actually THIS may be the act of delinquency rather than the original (quickly forgotten) irritant

Noodle Vague, Saturday, 10 November 2007 10:02 (seventeen years ago)

I still don't know where I stand in the debate. I do think that both extremesserve their purpose but at the end of the day I prefer ILX to stay super-NON-moderated. It does drive people away but I s'pose that also happens with extremely moderated boards as well.

nathalie, Saturday, 10 November 2007 10:21 (seventeen years ago)

Ultimately people drive themselves away. It's not like this place is teeming with the really nasty bigotry that infests other boards.

Noodle Vague, Saturday, 10 November 2007 10:29 (seventeen years ago)

True in a way. But nasty sniping does *push* people away a bit faster than usual, no?

nathalie, Saturday, 10 November 2007 14:08 (seventeen years ago)

It's just the assumption that sniping is the only form of being an insufferable prick that rankles.

Noodle Vague, Saturday, 10 November 2007 15:01 (seventeen years ago)

Hahahah. Lots of things push people away faster than usual. But it's less socially acceptable to rail at someone for not being very bright & insinuating themselves into arguments they don't get than it is to vilify someone for not being kind and sensitive enough.

Laurel, Saturday, 10 November 2007 15:37 (seventeen years ago)


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