It's 6am and I'm still awake and I don't think I'll go back to bed somehow. I'm in a state. Currently unemployed living with my dad who's just split with my mum. He's getting really cranky and unreasonable at the moment but that's beside the point.
It's been almost a year now since I graduated and so far I have done nothing but mindless temp jobs, the best one of which was processing crappy cheques for a crappy insurance company for four months. They dropped me though.I have bought the Guardian nearly every Monday and scanned it's pages for creative/media jobs but to no avail. Everyone wants people with at least three years experience in very specific fields... how the fuck as a graduate am I supposed to get three years experience if I can't get a job? I start a new job at the local wine rack next week doing 10 measley hours a week (so i can still sign on whoopee-doo). I'm hoping to do some freelance or work experience stuff while I do this but tonight/this morning I just feel like I'll never find a decent job and I'll never move out of this shitting house or this crappy little town and I'll be stuck here with my dad not letting me do anything I want (I can't have my girlfriend over to sleep the night which is my main bugbear) till my late twenties. I feel trapped and frustrated at the thought of being poverty stricken for another year till I convince someone I'm even suitable for a freelance position, let alone for a real job. I've not managed to save any money since I left uni and soon I'll have the bank breathing down my neck for not paying back overdrafts/bills. I want to learn to drive to improve my chances of getting a job but I can't afford that either!
What do I do? People working at the moment - how did you get your first job? Any hints or tips? Any reconcilliations (you can probably tell I'm at the end of my tether here too!)? Anything's appreciated! :-)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 04:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 04:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― Mr. Diamond (diamond), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 04:37 (twenty-two years ago)
but dyson makes a good point because so far, i haven't really given this option a chance. I might take the time this morning to e-mail some companies and tell them the score.
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 05:15 (twenty-two years ago)
― donna (donna), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 07:13 (twenty-two years ago)
― Liz :x (Liz :x), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 07:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― ambrose (ambrose), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 08:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 09:20 (twenty-two years ago)
ambrose - yeh, I'm still in Letchworth/hitchin. Might go sell my wares downtown since I here there's a job at the bank there. Got to arrange an interview with another temp agency too. Oh, it's Charlie, not Chris btw but I wouldn't expect you to remember that :-)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 12:25 (twenty-two years ago)
I think a lot of people straight out of school struggle for a while. Chin up, latin pup!
― Sarah McLUsky (coco), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 12:38 (twenty-two years ago)
I graduated three years ago and lucked into a job video editing at a Very Well Known Boutiquey Ad Agency That Is Now Going To The Wall. I was the only one of my friends with a "real" job, but it was FROM HELL, and all of my non-work life went to shit as a result. So I quit, and I've just temped/freelanced ever since. WAIT for the right job, be a bit aggressive, original, don't don't give up. It really is the same for a lot of people. There are some decent temp agencies out there that will have more interesting appointments for better money (I'm working for one now), also ones for film/tv/creative like 42nd Street and Switched On. You HAVE to hassle people and deal with a lot of arseholes. There are websites, too. Feel free to email me off-list if you want. And good luck!
― Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 12:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 12:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 12:46 (twenty-two years ago)
anyway my advice is similar as what others have posted - look up companies you like the style/look/location etc. of, make sure your CV is the proverbial shit and just contact them. try and build up a list of desirable employers and attack attack attack. i still havent quite managed this myself yet but its on the agenda somewhere (i just have to wrap up this heavy bout of pottering around first ;)
― stevem (blueski), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 12:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 13:05 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLUsky (coco), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 13:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 13:08 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 13:12 (twenty-two years ago)
― stevem (blueski), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 13:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― ambrose (ambrose), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 14:12 (twenty-two years ago)
Nordicskillz, yeh I'm mostly looking in the London area at the moment, partly because it's not too far away and my girlfriend is studying there at the moment but also because that seems to be the place where most jobs I want are based. I want to write for a living, preferably in a creative field. I graduated in English Lang and Ling and I reckon my writing is good despite how it may appear when I write on ILx (I get VERY sloppy when online and tend to just bash things straight out without thinking whether it flows and disregarding the fact people might not understand my gibberings).
Anyway, thanks again to everyone and I'll return the group hug! :-)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 16:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Tuesday, 8 April 2003 16:57 (twenty-two years ago)
Hello everyone, just thought I'd give you all an update!
Well, things are looking up just a little. I signed on with a different agency and they got me a temp job doing admin in a small publishing house who produce industry catalogues and magazines. It was only going to be for a week but I mentioned what I wanted to do so they're thinking of giving me an editorial position. Because it would only be a part-time post, I'll be doing some sales work (eek!) at the company for the rest of the time. Well, as you've guessed I've been warned off sales, but I think that the editorial stuff is just what I need to get experience and I guess it can't hurt to do a little sales work *slides down slowly*. I'm still working at Wine Rack for a bit till I know where I am and I'm applying for a job doing music reviews for the local paper too as well as for an internship at the Observer :-)
so it's looking up. I'm tired and shagged out after working 11 and a half hours today (not including breaks) but at least I'm working eh?
Thanks again to everyone for their encouragement.
― dog latin (dog latin), Thursday, 1 May 2003 19:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:02 (twenty-two years ago)
― isadora (isadora), Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― Spencer Chow (spencermfi), Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― felicity (felicity), Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:37 (twenty-two years ago)