How could anyone sink so low? (personal stuff again)

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So, any of you who read my other personal thread will know about the problems my boyf is having with the ex-wife and access to his children. Today he telephoned to find out if he could see his children over the Easter holidays and she had one of her famous abusive nasty fits, turns out she's just found out he's going to court to try and get access. Next thing he gets a visit from the police - she reported him for threatening her with violence, how evil can you get? I've never even heard him even raise his voice to her, and believe me there were times she deserved it. I'm stunned and so so angry. What an evil bitch!

― smee (smee), Wednesday, 16 April 2003 14:59 (twenty-two years ago)

Methinks this won't do her any favours.

Nevertheless I'm not 100% sure taliing about this on a message board, even anonymously, will necessarily do him any favours too. (Ie - look at his evil new girlfriend going on a public message board calling me an evil bitch...)

― Pete (Pete), Wednesday, 16 April 2003 15:01 (twenty-two years ago)

If anything, she can get busted for wasting police time. Tell your boyf to keep a log of every incident, if he ain't already.

― suzy (suzy), Wednesday, 16 April 2003 15:02 (twenty-two years ago)

Unfortunately for her, the more she acts like this the better it is for you both, if she did but see it! As horrible as this must be for you, just try to remain calm & take all that she dishes out as it will be better for your case in the long run. good luck!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 April 2003 15:07 (twenty-two years ago)

Thanks for the advice, I doubt she even knows what the interweb is but I'll bare it in mind that she could read this. Honestly, I'm stunned - it's so pathetic.

― smee (smee), Wednesday, 16 April 2003 18:22 (twenty-two years ago)

I can't see how she could connect what you post here, under what I take to be not your full real name, on an email that seems especially for ILX only, to you.

― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Wednesday, 16 April 2003 21:18 (twenty-two years ago)

Smee I don't know you're situation and can't address directly. But I will share my own experience.

My ex's ex-wife was labelled as a hell-bitch by everyone. He told me all these awful, unexcusable things she did to him. And I believed him. Why wouldn't I? She and I even got into a bar brawl.

After he broke up with me I learned of all these terrible things he was saying about me and falsely accusing me of. And geez. . .they're the same things he convinced me made her an evil bitch! So I've definitely questioned my judgement in the past.

― That Girl (thatgirl), Thursday, 17 April 2003 04:46 (twenty-two years ago)

Good call That Girl, I was very wary of this at first (having been in a similar situation to the one you describe here) but the thing is - he never says anything about her (well not to me or in my company anyway). She's the mother of his children and as such, he's admitted, he still feels kinda protective of her, his children need her. At first I felt bad for her but now I just think she's letting jealousy and bitterness warp her judgement, the people who are suffering are the children and that's just unforgivable.

― smee (smee), Thursday, 17 April 2003 07:29 (twenty-two years ago)

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