"Just a bit of fun"

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Have these words ever ever been used to describe anything remotely good?

(Spin off from rear-of-the-year musings)

Tom, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Sex, Drugs, possibly Rock And Roll

Ronan, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yeah but it's my contention that any sex or drugs that could be dismissed as just a b of f are probably not very good ones.

Tom, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

it strikes me that this phrase is usually employed defensively. often to describe something that caused distress to someone else. i cannot think of a time i have heard this phrase used to describe something good.

gareth, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I misread the line between brackets as "spiff off...".

nathalie, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well pay more attention then.

Nick, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

No, Nick, I was trying to imply that... Oh never mind, why bother. I think I have a mild form of dyslexia... or dementia. I haven't decided yet.

nathalie, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Nathalie, it was just an attempt at brusque humour. A ...bit of fun.

Nick, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

moderator!: i demand that that last post be stricken from the thread!

fred solinger, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Shut up Solinger. You've already told me I'm not welcome on ILM and I refuse to be an outcast here as well.

Nick, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I love it when Nick gets a bit grumpy.

Tim, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Freddie, kiss and make up. Let's have fun.
Anyone remember that scene in which Vig and John Travolta end up in the cellar with the gimp. Was that a bit of fun? No.

nathalie, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Has anyone else noticed that the UN is just a bit of fun? Two thirds to be precise.

*Tumbleweed blows through office*

Oh gosh, is that the time? I must be getting home!

Trevor, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Trevor puts in a bid for this month's Sinker Joke Prize.

Tom, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Last 12 things to be described as 'just a bit of fun' in the UK press:

15 Sep 2001: The Mirror - Vets' School heartthrob Trude Mostue calls her TV work as "just a bit of fun"

12 Sep 2001: The Sun - A Dear Deidre correspondent complains that "when we go out, my husband spends the time making explicit sexual remarks to other women, chases them and chats them up. [...] If I complain, she he says it's just a bit of fun" Deidre suggests his "schoolboy bravado" is a way of covering his near-impotence and recommends a trip to the GP and a call to her erection problems advice line.

07 Sep 2001: The Independent - In response to criticism that the new Lambrini advertising campaign is one of a number that treats men as inept objects of ridicule, David Bell, chief executive of the agency responsible argues that "It is a drink for salt-of-the-earth girls to drink before they go out, maybe while chatting or putting their make-up on. While they do that, they probably crack jokes about their boyfriends. I've never heard of any men being offended by these ads. They're quite clearly just a bit of fun.'

28 Aug 2001: The Guardian - In an article about the trend towards webcam girls encouraging male admirers to send them presents via wish lists, 19 year-old Livian from Brisbane, Australia defends herself against accusations that she is using her sexuality to take advantage of lonely internet geeks by arguing that it is all just a bit of fun.

21 Aug 2001: The Sun - In a heartwarming tale, the Sun reports how schoolgirl Rachael Barton thought it was just a bit of fun when she put a message in a bottle and tossed it into the Firth of Forth. Her gran Mary, 69 tells how they "couldn't believe it when [Rachael] received a letter from someone who had found the message miles away"

19 Aug 2001: The Sunday Telegraph - Features writer Jeremy Clarke was amazed at the fierce competitive spirit he found at a British Lawn Mower Racing Association race meeting. Quite a shock for something he had been repeatedly told was "basically just a bit of fun"!

15 Aug 2001: The Mirror - Report of how a teenage prankster who hit a policeman with a snowball was cleared of all charges after Aberdeen Sheriff Court heard the youth had made a pounds 100 donation to charity. Brian Duguid, 18, remarked that he was "shocked it even came this far. It was just a bit of fun."

15 Aug 2001: The Daily Telegraph - In cheeky reference to his conviction for artificially inflating the price of racehorse, top National Hunt trainer Paul Webber is reported in the Peterborough diary to have founded an annual golf tournament titled 'The Collusion Cup', to be played between him and other racing figures. "The trophy is a cup with a pair of handcuffs around it," the diarist is told. "It sounds naughty, but it's just a bit of fun." 11 Aug 2001: The Mirror. Mansfield heating engineer Carl Bowdler, 33, says of his 'double life' as Martin Kemp lookalike "I've never made a penny from doing this because I've never tried to. To me it's just a bit of fun" although he adds that he is starting a part-time drama course.

01 Aug 2001: Daily Mail - In an anti-'reality TV' tirade, Lynda Lee-Potter berates those who argue it's "just a bit of fun" and "enjoy sniggering at the sight of other people indulging in behaviour which ought to be private."
"I'm afraid it's neither fun nor entertaining but dangerous," says the formidable columnist, "because it contravenes a natural and healthy instinct in human beings for a modicum of reticence and decorum."

25 Jul 2001: The Guardian - A report on Fabien Bartez's surprise appearance as a substitute on the left wing during Manchester United's pre-season 8-1 drubbing of Team Singapore. Manager Sir Alex Ferguson said "He's very capable with the ball, no doubt about that. It was just a bit of fun for Fabien because he has been going on about playing out."

20 Jul 2001: The Sun (Scottish edition) - Sun reader J Cameron of Dunfermline argues in a letter to 'Dear Sun' that a controversial map of Scotland published in adult comic Viz , featuring images of neds, skinflints, con-artists and deep-fried shops "should be seen for what it is -just a bit of fun."

I would argue that reality TV and throwing a snowball at a policeman are the only good things to come out of these 'bits of fun'.

Nick, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

British Lawn Mower Racing Association

As a result of someone describing it as just a bit of fun, I was (and might still be for all I know) joint holder of the run behind mower endurance event world record when I was 15.

Richard Tunnicliffe, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I've never heard of any men being offended by these ads.

AAAAAAAAaaaaaaRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGRRRR!

The Lambrini ads = proof that God has abandoned His creation.

Also - not surely The Wire's Brian Duguid in snowball-related controversy???!

Tom, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Lambrini hell

Tom, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

You seem to be carrying a lot of pain on this subject, good sir.

Ned Raggett, Monday, 17 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I will not eat Nick's little bit of fun.

Pennysong Hanle y, Tuesday, 18 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Oh go on, just a nibble..

Nick, Tuesday, 18 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Ah ok. (nibble0 taste like golden choco

Pennysong Hanle y, Tuesday, 18 September 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

four years pass...
When a bit of fun goes wrong:

"Everybody used to refer to me as the 20th hijacker and it was a bit of fun."

Alba (Alba), Tuesday, 28 March 2006 12:49 (nineteen years ago)

!!!

Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 28 March 2006 12:52 (nineteen years ago)

six months pass...
There was some Anthony Burgess book in which a man from India mishears these words (used to describe the series of affairs that people in his neighborhood are having with one another's spouses) as "a bitter fun."

Neat, huh?

I got confused, I killed a horse (unclejessjess), Monday, 2 October 2006 21:07 (nineteen years ago)

two years pass...

Hillbilly 1: I caught my wife in bed with my best friend.
Hillbilly 2: You bitter?
Hillbilly 1: Yeah, bit HIM too!

i am truley sorry for your lots (PappaWheelie V), Monday, 24 November 2008 22:51 (seventeen years ago)

it strikes me that this phrase is usually employed defensively. often to describe something that caused distress to someone else. i cannot think of a time i have heard this phrase used to describe something good.

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lex pretend, Monday, 24 November 2008 23:34 (seventeen years ago)

usage of this phrase is one of the very few friendship deal-breakers for me

lex pretend, Monday, 24 November 2008 23:34 (seventeen years ago)

Oh c'mon Lex, don't get bent out of shape about a simple phrase, it's all just a bit of fun

nabisco, Monday, 24 November 2008 23:40 (seventeen years ago)

two bits

i am truley sorry for your lots (PappaWheelie V), Monday, 24 November 2008 23:50 (seventeen years ago)

of fun bust

GSOHSHIT (blueski), Monday, 24 November 2008 23:51 (seventeen years ago)

six months pass...

law.

Mark G, Friday, 19 June 2009 14:27 (sixteen years ago)

four months pass...

December 2005 - forty-one-year-old Sharon Tendler of Great Britain unofficially married Cindy, a male dolphin held at the Dolphin Reef dolphinarium in Eilat, Israel, in a ceremony where she offered fish and the dolphin 'kissed' her. She had been visiting Cindy regularly for the past fifteen years. Tendler requested permission from the dolphin's trainer for the "wedding". The marriage, painted romantically by the media, was in her words considered "a bit of fun" after her friends joked about her being single at that age.

jØrdån (omar little), Friday, 6 November 2009 20:14 (sixteen years ago)

one year passes...

Thought I'd log this here too. It's been too long since we've had a good "just a bit of fun"

http://blogs.journalism.co.uk/editors/2011/08/19/editorial-in-newsquest-papers-calling-for-capital-punishment-was-just-a-bit-of-fun/

Alba, Friday, 19 August 2011 11:39 (fourteen years ago)

the holocaust was prob defended as "just a bit of fun"

although the modern version is "just banter...it was clearly banter"

LocalGarda, Friday, 19 August 2011 11:41 (fourteen years ago)

Hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Friday, 19 August 2011 11:41 (fourteen years ago)

banter a legal term meaning chat or jest exempt from scrutiny

LocalGarda, Friday, 19 August 2011 11:41 (fourteen years ago)

http://noclipmode.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/nojokezone.jpg

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Friday, 19 August 2011 11:43 (fourteen years ago)

No joke!

Alba, Friday, 19 August 2011 11:52 (fourteen years ago)

you will never hear that term spoke in America but they might say "Just joshin' ya"

Goth Cruise to Lynch Land (Latham Green), Friday, 19 August 2011 12:50 (fourteen years ago)

two months pass...

The tweet that changed the course of Irish presidential election was 'just a bit of fun'
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2055197/The-tweet-changed-course-Irish-presidential-election-just-bit-fun.html#ixzz1cE0VTo5E

Alba, Sunday, 30 October 2011 11:24 (fourteen years ago)

six years pass...

for some reason this seemed like the right thread. in the same way that "just a bit of fun" signifies something that is actually not just a bit of fun 100% of the time, i overheard a guy saying this just now

"in the nicest possible way..."

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 1 February 2018 09:38 (seven years ago)

"with respect..."

bizarrer Gandhara (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 February 2018 09:42 (seven years ago)

he ended up saying it about 10 more times in the conversation

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 1 February 2018 09:50 (seven years ago)

his mate is now talking about "spitballing ideas"

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 1 February 2018 10:54 (seven years ago)

gross

bizarrer Gandhara (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 1 February 2018 10:55 (seven years ago)

'Bear with me, just thinking out loud here'

Badgers (dog latin), Friday, 2 February 2018 09:52 (seven years ago)

one year passes...

https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/local-news/helensburgh-hotel-puts-husbands-through-14054110

“We received a few comments on Facebook saying it was sexist but it’s quirky and just a bit of fun.

Alba, Wednesday, 27 February 2019 07:46 (six years ago)


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