― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 17:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)
I don't know about that. In my experience, a cracker who goes to college becomes unto like the Gods when he gets back home. "Hey, Mr. Smart Guy! Ask Mr. Smart Guy! He went to college!" They rib you, but they love you.
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:03 (twenty-two years ago)
"Uppity"
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:05 (twenty-two years ago)
― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:06 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:08 (twenty-two years ago)
― Mr. Diamond (diamond), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:15 (twenty-two years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Mr. Diamond (diamond), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:22 (twenty-two years ago)
And I totally agree with Diamond's "I don't know you any more maaaaaaan" experiences.
― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:23 (twenty-two years ago)
I mean, this is sort of bullshitty armchair psychoanalysis on my part, but I'd imagine there's a deep-rooted fear that runs something like this: (a) you develop a sense of identity that's shaped by one environment, (b) in order to move to another environment, that of traditional "success," you'd have to smooth out or suppress certain parts of that identity, and so (c) this creates the fear that if you do this, you'll be left bankrupt and empty, you'll have denied yourself, you will not be anything anymore.
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― amateurist (amateurist), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― M Matos (M Matos), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― M Matos (M Matos), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:49 (twenty-two years ago)
I play in a rock band -- and work as an office temp -- a definite disappointment. I don't think it's the same as what people are discussing here, though -- there's no resentment, just resignation.
― Hurlothrumbo (hurlothrumbo), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:54 (twenty-two years ago)
http://www.sunspot.net/sports/bal-sp.preston10jul10,0,7147998.column
There's nothing marketable about the Bryant situationMike Preston
ACCORDING TO some of the nation's top marketing directors, a lot more Kobe Bryant sneakers should have been sold this week. Maybe we can expect other promotions and sales soon, like "Free Kobe" T-shirts, or a new sitcom, Kobe Comes to the 'Hood.
These marketing directors are suggesting the Los Angeles Lakers star may have improved his "street cred" after being arrested and accused of sexually assaulting a 19-year-old woman at a Colorado resort two hours west of Denver.
That's what Bryant needed, an image makeover.
He was almost white, but not with universal appeal. Now, he fits in from top to bottom. Bryant has an impending case, as do a lot of the young kids on the street. Bryant has been busted, and, well, so have most of his street supporters. Been there. Done that.
But seriously, if you open the window and turn on the fan, here's the message once the smoke is gone: These marketing directors are perpetuating the stereotype that young African-Americans, especially males, are influenced by violent crimes.
It's insulting and offensive but on par for these talking heads. Remember the ones who kept insisting that the D.C. sniper had to be white?
They're just as annoying as Chicago Cubs manager Dusty Baker and his theory about why black and Latin players are better suited to play in the heat.
"We're always telling our kids that your street rep is garbage, that there isn't any place for it," said Donnie Brown, the lacrosse coach at Woodlawn High who also works with inner-city youth. "I don't understand how some of these guys form their opinions. They think outside the tank. They've never been inside the tank, and they don't interact with people."
Exactly. That's why this premise about Bryant is so ludicrous. You really want to know why kids aren't buying Bryant's shoes? They're ugly. Repulsive.
But instead of looking at the product, the talking heads look at race and social class. (By the way, does "street cred" refer to one's status among the criminal element or low-income blacks?)
Since Bryant's arrest, we've heard comparisons to Philadelphia 76ers guard Allen Iverson, and how his merchandise continues to sell despite his bad-boy image.
These marketing directors are treating this incident like it's a marketing bonanza, almost as if Bryant planned it.
The theory is that the boys on the street can't relate to Bryant because he's too soft. That's the label some of the media like to use for African-American players who are articulate, educated and well-mannered. Like the corporate executives, they don't understand that African-Americans are a diverse people.
Bryant is from a middle-class family. He speaks three languages. Windex couldn't have given him a cleaner image.
And if his image caters to the middle or higher class exclusively, which it doesn't, is there anything wrong with that?
That Iverson fella, though, is hard. He struggled coming up. He has been victimized by the media and the Philadelphia police. The man has tattoos, and he has "street cred."
But that's not the reason his sneakers sell and Bryant's don't.
"Kobe's shoes are ugly," said Avery Pierce, 15, from Essex. "Look at the style. Look at the colors. People just don't like them."
"They are heavy and look like ice cubes," said James Joyner, 17, from Reisterstown. "They aren't very attractive."
Wow. Imagine that. A fashion statement. African-American teenagers are no different from any other teenagers. They don't care that Bryant is multilingual, has a $13 million mansion and owns three NBA rings.
They just want to be cool. Air Force Ones and Converses are in. Bryant's shoes are out.
But these corporate types couldn't look at is that way.
Here's another news flash for them: Believe it or not, most people in black communities don't want crime, and the crimes most frowned upon are rape, sexual assault or any assault on a woman or child.
"No one is going to look up to that. Every honorable man is going to respect the sisters, mothers and the women. Every man is going to respect that aspect of family history," Brown said.
Said Pierce: "What is there to respect about a man possibly being charged with a sexual offense? It doesn't make any sense. That's not going to happen. No one is going to accept that."
It was interesting to note that in a Harris Interactive poll of teenagers this spring, Bryant was third on the list of role models behind parents and teachers. That's pretty good company. And the poll wasn't divided into affluent teenagers as opposed to poor ones, or black ones compared to white ones.
Bryant is no different from any other star player. There are going to be people who love him, hate him or just don't care.
"We're going to have people in our communities who don't like him because he went straight to the pros, or because he had it better than them," Brown said. "They are going to be jealous of Kobe no matter what.'
But the "street cred" theory has no credibility.
"That's definitely a stereotype," said Ravens rookie outside linebacker Terrell Suggs. "There are a lot of black people who have never been arrested, never had a record. They aren't going to relate to him for that. Maybe these people who make these kind of statements will either apologize or retract them. They make absolutely no sense."
― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 19:06 (twenty-two years ago)
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― CeCe Winans (jaymc), Friday, 11 July 2003 19:11 (twenty-two years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 11 July 2003 19:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Leee (Leee), Friday, 11 July 2003 20:58 (twenty-two years ago)
There are many, many books on this phenomenon that discuss it with a complex and non-judgmental viewpoint. One really good one is a study of black and white teens in a housing project - it's called "Ain't No Makin' It". Another one I liked was "Lives on the Boundary" by Mike Rose, which dealt with students from all sorts of ethnic backgrounds.
Interestingly, though I grew up in an urban area, people didn't leave it too often, and were intimidated by people "up north" or "in the city", "where all the rich folks lived".
― Kerry (dymaxia), Friday, 11 July 2003 21:07 (twenty-two years ago)
I mean, you're basically expressing that identity-fear thing I was talking about, above -- the idea that "success" necessarily means abandoning too much of one's identity to some foreign "middle class" value structure. This is exactly why it's useful when successful people can serve as models -- because they're the ones in the position of reconciling where they came from with where they ended up, and they're the ones forging identities that demonstrate that maybe the two things aren't as incompatible as you'd like to think. It's still really difficult to do that, as the article here demonstrates -- but every time someone does it, it becomes that less difficult, that much less of a border-crossing, for the next person, who now has not only a model but a tour-guide. If you were the first one from that Kentucky family to go to college, sure it'd be difficult, and no doubt you'd have a rough time negotiating the shift. But if you were the third one, the fourth one? It'd be a little easier, wouldn't you think?
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 23:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 23:31 (twenty-two years ago)
i mean yeah on one level but on another when's the last time a black guy said to a white dude "i'll round up the boys and take you out back if you get involved with my daughter"?
like resignation and despair in the face of racism != being the main cause of oppression!
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 12 July 2003 01:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:15 (twenty-two years ago)
The main about this op-ed piece that struck me was the kid's description of his school environment and how it led to him failing classes. hello, my daily job. There's no environment at all conducive to learning to speak of and no sense of success to fall back on. There's just nothing there for these kids. School's a playground. End of story.
― That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:21 (twenty-two years ago)
If you try to look through the eyes of some kids this seems totally reasonable. there is nothing in their life that connects education=success. It's foriegn to them, completely out of their experience. Mostly it's associated with an establishment they've been raised to mistrust. . .why the hell should they play? Convincing them it's a worthwhile gambit is much, much harder than convincing them they are capable. If you can't do the former, the latter becomes moot.
― That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 08:02 (twenty-two years ago)
― That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 08:03 (twenty-two years ago)
anyway "how high" to thread.
― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 12 July 2003 14:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:37 (twenty-two years ago)
... which has nothing to do with anything on this thread. I'm just sayin.
― Tep (ktepi), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:40 (twenty-two years ago)
This goes ten times more for women, who not only have less of the antisocial attitude about it, but are way more likely to wind up with the kids to support.
― nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― ron (ron), Saturday, 12 July 2003 16:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 17:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― ron (ron), Saturday, 12 July 2003 18:51 (twenty-two years ago)
Also, both my parents work at the local community college which does, indeed, cater primarily to poor women who are trying to do better for themselves & their kids. I think, actually, this is the kind of situation that makes me curious - is it a border crossing between classes? What kind of reaction would one of these students, perhaps the first generation to attend college, get from family members and peers? I tend to think people would be supportive and proud, but mostly for someone going to a practical (vocational/business-oriented) school than someone who, say, went to college to pursue a B.A. in classics. Once you're pursuing education for something besides purely practical reasons.. it's a bit suspect.
― daria g (daria g), Saturday, 12 July 2003 18:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― Rockist Scientist, Sunday, 13 July 2003 15:22 (twenty-two years ago)