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Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 17:46 (twenty-two years ago)

Chris Rock's most famous routine to thread.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)

It's a pretty old story. And not one I'd imagine should be too surprising -- I imagine the same sort of pressures exist in plenty of white communities, only without issues of racial identity around to exaggerate them.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)

I imagine the same sort of pressures exist in plenty of white communities

I don't know about that. In my experience, a cracker who goes to college becomes unto like the Gods when he gets back home. "Hey, Mr. Smart Guy! Ask Mr. Smart Guy! He went to college!" They rib you, but they love you.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:03 (twenty-two years ago)

This is the difference:

"Uppity"

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:05 (twenty-two years ago)

Every nerd character in every teen movie ever to thread!

Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:06 (twenty-two years ago)

But wouldn't you think there'd be a bit of "right right College Boy you think you're better than us now" thrown in, too?

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:07 (twenty-two years ago)

Maybe. But I don't think we can pretend this is the same situation for blacks and whites.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:08 (twenty-two years ago)

Yeah, nabisco is OTM. I feel weird and sort of out of place whenever I return to the small town (pop. 25K) where I grew up. After going away to a top college, living in one of the biggest cities in the country for 13 years, it's very hard to relate anymore to those of my old friends who chose to continue to live and work there.

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:15 (twenty-two years ago)

John McWhorter, a (black) Berkeley linguistics professor, has written extensively about this phenomenon, esp. in his book Losing the Race. Of course, his thesis -- that we should examine blacks' own attitudes and prejudices in investigating their poor educational performance -- has been accused of "blaming the victim" and has been met with much disdain by liberal African-American scholars.

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:16 (twenty-two years ago)

Also Kenan stop being all "liberal" please.

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:16 (twenty-two years ago)

Me? Wait a minute... who's the arguing that deep down, we're really all the same?

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:21 (twenty-two years ago)

the one, obv.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:22 (twenty-two years ago)

Kenan stop being all "hippie" please.

And I totally agree with Diamond's "I don't know you any more maaaaaaan" experiences.

Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:23 (twenty-two years ago)

Well yeah, Kenan, I'd agree that it's a very different issue in black communities, especially since, like I was saying, there are all sort of issues of racial identity involved in it -- first among them being the sense of cooperating with or selling out to what's perceived as "white culture."

I mean, this is sort of bullshitty armchair psychoanalysis on my part, but I'd imagine there's a deep-rooted fear that runs something like this: (a) you develop a sense of identity that's shaped by one environment, (b) in order to move to another environment, that of traditional "success," you'd have to smooth out or suppress certain parts of that identity, and so (c) this creates the fear that if you do this, you'll be left bankrupt and empty, you'll have denied yourself, you will not be anything anymore.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:26 (twenty-two years ago)

Has anyone ever suffered from the opposite phenomenon? Like being the scapegrace of a high-powered intellectual family?

amateurist (amateurist), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:28 (twenty-two years ago)

To be fair, I am a bit out of my element here. I grew up in Houston, where it was pretty much assumed I would go to college, and nobody gives me the "I don't know you anymore" treatment because a) they know me perfectly well and b) they all live in New York and LA now.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:29 (twenty-two years ago)

Only 15% of my graduating high school class entered either a two- or four-year education program (this includes vocation schools).

Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:39 (twenty-two years ago)

(Kenan, when I said it might happen in some white communities, I was thinking specifically of places like rural Appalachia. In fact, I remember watching some sort of documentary about a very depressed community in I think Kentucky, wherein a daughter who'd gone off to work in Cleveland visited home and was greeted with a sort of awkward distrust and skepticism -- largely due to pretty skewed conceptions of what "city life" was about or what "city people" behaved. This was also very strange for a person like me to watch, since this woman was basically a secretary in some office in Cleveland -- now what we'd associate with high-flying urbane types. Anyway, she was trying to encourage some of her high-school relatives to think about leaving this economically depressed town, seeing what's in the world, thinking about college instead of just marrying at 19 and sticking around -- and her family was slightly upset about this intereference.)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:44 (twenty-two years ago)

white trash suburbs to thread!

M Matos (M Matos), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:46 (twenty-two years ago)

the upper Midwest to thread! (or do I repeat myself?)

M Matos (M Matos), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:47 (twenty-two years ago)

Invisible Man to thread?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:47 (twenty-two years ago)

haha! i'm from rural appalachia, and i definitely get that reaction. though after 9/11 our neighbors were much nicer to me.

Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:49 (twenty-two years ago)

answering amateurist: although it's not exactly what you're asking, most of my family are teachers/educators, going back literally for centuries. Obviously, not everyone, but it's a longstanding tradition. My father is a school headmaster, my mother a teacher and minister, my grandfather was a school head, his father founded a prestigious private school in the nineteenth century, and the blood just gets bluer the further back you go.

I play in a rock band -- and work as an office temp -- a definite disappointment. I don't think it's the same as what people are discussing here, though -- there's no resentment, just resignation.

Hurlothrumbo (hurlothrumbo), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:53 (twenty-two years ago)

In any case, the white/black compare-and-contrast isn't really the topic, so there's no need to spend too much time on it. The worst thing about putting that distance between successful blacks and their often humbler beginnings -- which, let's be clear, is as often created by the successful ones as by their old communities -- is that every person to come from a neighborhood like that and succeed can, if they stay connected with the community, make a really effective model: the next group of kids doesn't grow up thinking kids like them don't go to college, they can grow up thinking they'll probably go to school and be an [x], just like [so-and-so] did. This isn't even a matter of "role models" so much as just growing up with the idea that it's perfectly normal to follow a particular path.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:54 (twenty-two years ago)

And on that note:

http://www.sunspot.net/sports/bal-sp.preston10jul10,0,7147998.column

There's nothing marketable about the Bryant situation
Mike Preston

ACCORDING TO some of the nation's top marketing directors, a lot more Kobe Bryant sneakers should have been sold this week. Maybe we can expect other promotions and sales soon, like "Free Kobe" T-shirts, or a new sitcom, Kobe Comes to the 'Hood.

These marketing directors are suggesting the Los Angeles Lakers star may have improved his "street cred" after being arrested and accused of sexually assaulting a 19-year-old woman at a Colorado resort two hours west of Denver.

That's what Bryant needed, an image makeover.

He was almost white, but not with universal appeal. Now, he fits in from top to bottom. Bryant has an impending case, as do a lot of the young kids on the street. Bryant has been busted, and, well, so have most of his street supporters. Been there. Done that.

But seriously, if you open the window and turn on the fan, here's the message once the smoke is gone: These marketing directors are perpetuating the stereotype that young African-Americans, especially males, are influenced by violent crimes.

It's insulting and offensive but on par for these talking heads. Remember the ones who kept insisting that the D.C. sniper had to be white?

They're just as annoying as Chicago Cubs manager Dusty Baker and his theory about why black and Latin players are better suited to play in the heat.

"We're always telling our kids that your street rep is garbage, that there isn't any place for it," said Donnie Brown, the lacrosse coach at Woodlawn High who also works with inner-city youth. "I don't understand how some of these guys form their opinions. They think outside the tank. They've never been inside the tank, and they don't interact with people."

Exactly. That's why this premise about Bryant is so ludicrous. You really want to know why kids aren't buying Bryant's shoes? They're ugly. Repulsive.

But instead of looking at the product, the talking heads look at race and social class. (By the way, does "street cred" refer to one's status among the criminal element or low-income blacks?)

Since Bryant's arrest, we've heard comparisons to Philadelphia 76ers guard Allen Iverson, and how his merchandise continues to sell despite his bad-boy image.

These marketing directors are treating this incident like it's a marketing bonanza, almost as if Bryant planned it.

The theory is that the boys on the street can't relate to Bryant because he's too soft. That's the label some of the media like to use for African-American players who are articulate, educated and well-mannered. Like the corporate executives, they don't understand that African-Americans are a diverse people.

Bryant is from a middle-class family. He speaks three languages. Windex couldn't have given him a cleaner image.

And if his image caters to the middle or higher class exclusively, which it doesn't, is there anything wrong with that?

That Iverson fella, though, is hard. He struggled coming up. He has been victimized by the media and the Philadelphia police. The man has tattoos, and he has "street cred."

But that's not the reason his sneakers sell and Bryant's don't.

"Kobe's shoes are ugly," said Avery Pierce, 15, from Essex. "Look at the style. Look at the colors. People just don't like them."

"They are heavy and look like ice cubes," said James Joyner, 17, from Reisterstown. "They aren't very attractive."

Wow. Imagine that. A fashion statement. African-American teenagers are no different from any other teenagers. They don't care that Bryant is multilingual, has a $13 million mansion and owns three NBA rings.

They just want to be cool. Air Force Ones and Converses are in. Bryant's shoes are out.

But these corporate types couldn't look at is that way.

Here's another news flash for them: Believe it or not, most people in black communities don't want crime, and the crimes most frowned upon are rape, sexual assault or any assault on a woman or child.

"No one is going to look up to that. Every honorable man is going to respect the sisters, mothers and the women. Every man is going to respect that aspect of family history," Brown said.

Said Pierce: "What is there to respect about a man possibly being charged with a sexual offense? It doesn't make any sense. That's not going to happen. No one is going to accept that."

It was interesting to note that in a Harris Interactive poll of teenagers this spring, Bryant was third on the list of role models behind parents and teachers. That's pretty good company. And the poll wasn't divided into affluent teenagers as opposed to poor ones, or black ones compared to white ones.

Bryant is no different from any other star player. There are going to be people who love him, hate him or just don't care.

"We're going to have people in our communities who don't like him because he went straight to the pros, or because he had it better than them," Brown said. "They are going to be jealous of Kobe no matter what.'

But the "street cred" theory has no credibility.

"That's definitely a stereotype," said Ravens rookie outside linebacker Terrell Suggs. "There are a lot of black people who have never been arrested, never had a record. They aren't going to relate to him for that. Maybe these people who make these kind of statements will either apologize or retract them. They make absolutely no sense."

Yanc3y (ystrickler), Friday, 11 July 2003 18:57 (twenty-two years ago)

See, I fear that this sort of thing is a result of people and media paying loads and loads of attention to the most attention-getting portions of black America and completely, completely ignoring the more "boring" ones. (Boring in the sense that, you know, N.W.A. is more fascinating than CeCe Winans.)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 19:06 (twenty-two years ago)

Nabisco, why you gotta play me like that?

http://fbcsomerset.com/images/cece.gif

CeCe Winans (jaymc), Friday, 11 July 2003 19:11 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm sorry; I will not post animated pictures of gospel singers ever again :(

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 11 July 2003 19:16 (twenty-two years ago)

re: nab's point on serving as role model to the old community -- isn't it more an illusion that success can be had by playing to middle-class rules, and when they do end up buying into the game, they find the rules are really against their favor and end up jaded by it all?

Leee (Leee), Friday, 11 July 2003 20:58 (twenty-two years ago)

I grew up in a sort-of "white trash" suburb, and I can tell you that most definitely these issues exist in poor and working-class communities in general. I had a number of very good friends who were in advanced classes with me, but as soon as they hit their teens, they started flunking and cutting class - on purpose. It just wasn't cool to look like you were sucking up to authority too much.

There are many, many books on this phenomenon that discuss it with a complex and non-judgmental viewpoint. One really good one is a study of black and white teens in a housing project - it's called "Ain't No Makin' It". Another one I liked was "Lives on the Boundary" by Mike Rose, which dealt with students from all sorts of ethnic backgrounds.

Interestingly, though I grew up in an urban area, people didn't leave it too often, and were intimidated by people "up north" or "in the city", "where all the rich folks lived".

Kerry (dymaxia), Friday, 11 July 2003 21:07 (twenty-two years ago)

Leee: that question's impossible to answer without unpacking a whole lot of stuff about what "middle class rules" are, which ones you think are negative, how you think they're negative, and why you think they conflict with being black and/or working-class.

I mean, you're basically expressing that identity-fear thing I was talking about, above -- the idea that "success" necessarily means abandoning too much of one's identity to some foreign "middle class" value structure. This is exactly why it's useful when successful people can serve as models -- because they're the ones in the position of reconciling where they came from with where they ended up, and they're the ones forging identities that demonstrate that maybe the two things aren't as incompatible as you'd like to think. It's still really difficult to do that, as the article here demonstrates -- but every time someone does it, it becomes that less difficult, that much less of a border-crossing, for the next person, who now has not only a model but a tour-guide. If you were the first one from that Kentucky family to go to college, sure it'd be difficult, and no doubt you'd have a rough time negotiating the shift. But if you were the third one, the fourth one? It'd be a little easier, wouldn't you think?

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 23:26 (twenty-two years ago)

I also think you might be seriously underestimating the ability of people from the black working class to fit education and traditional economic success with the values of their neighborhoods; these things aren't, I don't think, as disconnected as people conclude based on looking at basketball stars and rappers.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 11 July 2003 23:31 (twenty-two years ago)

this stuff reminds me of randall kennedy arguing that interracial marriage doesn't happen more coz black ppl. oppose it!

i mean yeah on one level but on another when's the last time a black guy said to a white dude "i'll round up the boys and take you out back if you get involved with my daughter"?

like resignation and despair in the face of racism != being the main cause of oppression!

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 12 July 2003 01:33 (twenty-two years ago)

haha - trife was bitching about his efforts toward/curiosity about college last night with 'why should I play the white man's game?'

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:15 (twenty-two years ago)

man why do i always discover good threads when i'm drunk and tired and they've gotten long. . . I think Kenan was being OTM upthread.

The main about this op-ed piece that struck me was the kid's description of his school environment and how it led to him failing classes. hello, my daily job. There's no environment at all conducive to learning to speak of and no sense of success to fall back on. There's just nothing there for these kids. School's a playground. End of story.

That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:21 (twenty-two years ago)

Okay, ignoring the "ethan's a wigger, let's laugh at him" ploy let's address this statement "why should I play the white man's game?'

If you try to look through the eyes of some kids this seems totally reasonable. there is nothing in their life that connects education=success. It's foriegn to them, completely out of their experience. Mostly it's associated with an establishment they've been raised to mistrust. . .why the hell should they play? Convincing them it's a worthwhile gambit is much, much harder than convincing them they are capable. If you can't do the former, the latter becomes moot.

That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:26 (twenty-two years ago)

Very well put. It's a little like what I posted on another thread, about the black woman who sits next to me at work who's convinced that it's more important to buy her kids nice trainers than it is to feed them good food. It's empty status, sure -- maybe she's even aware of that. Whatever. The problem is not that she's too dumb to realize that her priorites are out of whack, it's that shoes are important in a very real way, and everything else becomes moot.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:42 (twenty-two years ago)

But given that, I still can't help but judge her, recially sensitive or not. Bitch, train your kids, don't buy them trainers.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:44 (twenty-two years ago)

"trainers" Kenan? what are you a brit? ;)

That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:45 (twenty-two years ago)

heh. well what am I supposed to call them? Tennis shoes?

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:47 (twenty-two years ago)

Heavens! You are a Brit ; )

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:48 (twenty-two years ago)

I never did make a good Texan, that's for damn sure.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:49 (twenty-two years ago)

I think you underestimate yrself Kenan. And yes we call them tennis shoes or tennies here. You know this.

That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:54 (twenty-two years ago)

Yeah, but she didn't call them that. She didn't call then trainers, either... maybe "sneakers"? I forget. Either way, "tennis shoes" is ridiculous. I don't think I've ever even met a Texan who plays tennis.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Saturday, 12 July 2003 07:59 (twenty-two years ago)

Yeah prolly sneakers. Or just shoes.

That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 08:02 (twenty-two years ago)

I actually took tennis classes once in a poor-ghetto kid summer program at TCU. It was hot as fucking hell. That's all I remember.

That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 12 July 2003 08:03 (twenty-two years ago)

darn1ella3's response to you was the best thing about that thread Kenan.

anyway "how high" to thread.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 12 July 2003 14:16 (twenty-two years ago)

Sterling gives away my response-credit. :(

nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:37 (twenty-two years ago)

Texas is huge for tennis! Lots of players train there and/or come from there, because of the climate and land availability.

... which has nothing to do with anything on this thread. I'm just sayin.

Tep (ktepi), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:40 (twenty-two years ago)

By the way, while Sam's obviously right about the mistrust and disconnection, I think that changes for a lot of people, at some point -- after one's plunged out of the school environment and into the real world of being independently poor, often with kids to take care of, there's immediate pressure to be at least financially self-supporting. Despite all the talk about affirmative action at high-level schools, the main things that are contributing to the education of lower-income blacks are community colleges and trade schools: a lot of the people there are people who -- no matter how this attitude may have limited their options in poor school environments -- have decided to make pretty big efforts to get a leg up on where they're coming from.

This goes ten times more for women, who not only have less of the antisocial attitude about it, but are way more likely to wind up with the kids to support.

nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:48 (twenty-two years ago)

What I meant to include up there: despite all the talk about affirmative action at higher-level schools, a bigger issue for black education right now is that those community colleges, city colleges, and the like are steadily losing funding and shrinking facilities.

nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 15:52 (twenty-two years ago)

i am not very supportive of the whole college thing, but not because it's a 'white man's game' - more that i see it to be largely about buying credentials rather than learning anything relevant to your career

ron (ron), Saturday, 12 July 2003 16:24 (twenty-two years ago)

Unfortunately if you don't do it you're much less likely to have a "career" to learn anything relevant about.

nabisco (nabisco), Saturday, 12 July 2003 17:53 (twenty-two years ago)

i'm criticizing the status quo, not denying it

ron (ron), Saturday, 12 July 2003 18:51 (twenty-two years ago)

Nabisco as usual I think you made some great points here - I feel connected to some of these experiences b/c I am also from a small town near rural Appalachia, not quite in the heart of it, but still subject to the same kind of attitudes. I think of the kids growing up there & recall my own experiences & would, all in all, blame attitudes more than funding issues for the poor academic performance of many of them. It's not just the people hitting you w/the "You think you're better than us now?" attitude if you're successful; it's also that many teachers themselves clearly don't believe that their students are going anywhere in life, so why bother? :) My parents weren't like this, lucky for me, but now that I'm going to an Ivy League school I can't help but feel really ambivalent about it & am really careful not to show off or talk much about my accomplishments. I suppose one has to learn this in order to do well in academe.. and yet I continually find the highbrow culture/tastes of this place seem like a silly charade.

Also, both my parents work at the local community college which does, indeed, cater primarily to poor women who are trying to do better for themselves & their kids. I think, actually, this is the kind of situation that makes me curious - is it a border crossing between classes? What kind of reaction would one of these students, perhaps the first generation to attend college, get from family members and peers? I tend to think people would be supportive and proud, but mostly for someone going to a practical (vocational/business-oriented) school than someone who, say, went to college to pursue a B.A. in classics. Once you're pursuing education for something besides purely practical reasons.. it's a bit suspect.

daria g (daria g), Saturday, 12 July 2003 18:54 (twenty-two years ago)

Flunk cult.

Rockist Scientist, Sunday, 13 July 2003 15:22 (twenty-two years ago)


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