please put my mind at rest ! (i have done this in the past without really thinking of it too...)
― ambrose (ambrose), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 07:47 (twenty-two years ago)
Name of your recent/current em,ployer is the company - not necessarily your boss (unless you work in a very small company) and the HR department would handle the basics sympathetically. It is an offense for them to treat you differently because you ar elooking elsewhere and to maliciously give you a bad reference.
― Pete (Pete), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 07:53 (twenty-two years ago)
Also, if they know your unhappy they may well want to do something about it, rather than lose you. I was asked for a reference for a member of staff, who had requested that they waited to see if they were going to offer her the job but they didn't, and my gut reaction was 'why does she want to go, is it something we can sort out, because we don't want to lose her', rather than bitch, but it wasn't a work related issue, but a london one.
It does tend to get obvious when people are applying for lots of jobs anyway, as suddenly they start taking off single days annual leave here and there, with only a few weeks notice!
― Vicky (Vicky), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 08:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tad (llamasfur), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 08:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tad (llamasfur), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 08:25 (twenty-two years ago)
like, she could put the last two employers she had as referees, if that was possible.but the only way of doing that is to lie wholesale about having a job at the moment.
when i said boss io just meant 'generic person who deals with this shit in the company'. seems refernces these days juist consist of 'i confirm that Mr BLah-de-Blah worked here between 01.04.1940 and 03.05.2030' or whatever. so they seem pretty much pointless in the first place.
― ambrose (ambrose), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 09:04 (twenty-two years ago)
Only a few weeks? Jesus, I take days off at 9am from underneath my duvet sometimes. They must think I'm constantly applying for other jobs.
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 09:13 (twenty-two years ago)
If she doesn't want her current employers to give her a reference, and she's got good reason, then she sould say so to her potential employers. Lying about her current job will just be too complicated (unless she's only been there a short while), there's the issue of start date - if she's not got a job she wouldn't need to give notice, and could start right away, the issue of a P45 - if she's not currently employed then she'll already have one, etc.
I wouldn't reject someone just because they didn't want a reference from their curent employer, but I would want to know why.
― Vicky (Vicky), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 09:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLUsky (coco), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 12:53 (twenty-two years ago)
You're all talking like your bosses are your mums or something.
A standard line to say by the way is that one of the reasons you are looking for a new job is rumours in your department that it is about to be relocated / thinned down. You obviously wopuld not want to give your boss a reason to pick you as the thinnee - so please do not take up references. It helps if you have got bundles of other references to follow.
― Pete (Pete), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 13:17 (twenty-two years ago)
My boss would never think of himself as my 'mum' because he hates women. He thinks they are all 'bitches,' 'stupid bitches,' and 'c*nts.'
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 14:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― NA. (Nick A.), Tuesday, 15 July 2003 14:52 (twenty-two years ago)