ATTN: Copyeditors and Grammar Fiends

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While I do consider myself a Grammar Fiend, I am a little bit confused over the usage of "its" and "it's".

Obviously one uses "it's" where "it is" could be used, but when implying posession (eg. "The dog licked it's/its wounds.") which one are we supposed to use? I've been told that "it's" should be used in the above example, but if that is so, when should one use "its"? Could someone outline some example cases in which each instance is supposed to be used?

Other questions of grammar are welcome in this thread.

Andrew (enneff), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:07 (twenty-one years ago)

its

mark p (Mark P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Posession = its. No apostrophe.

It Is contraction = ONLY acceptible use of it's.

(pls ignore my spelling errors, because I know I am right on the its/it's issue)

kate (kate), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:10 (twenty-one years ago)

you were told wrong. The dog licked its wounds.

http://englishplus.com/grammar/00000227.htm

teeny (teeny), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:10 (twenty-one years ago)

it's = it is ONLY

possessive of it has no apostrophe EVAH!!

viz: the dog licked its wounds

ditto plural of it ("he ended his avant-garde poem with a whole line of its"

mark s (mark s), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:11 (twenty-one years ago)

its

otherwise it would read "the dog licked it is wounds" or "the dog licked it has wounds"

j0e (j0e), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:11 (twenty-one years ago)

close brackets

mark s (mark s), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:11 (twenty-one years ago)

Its = ownership thing, think of it as like his or hers.

Tim (Tim), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:12 (twenty-one years ago)

and his and hers never take an apostrophe, if that helps you remember.

teeny (teeny), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:13 (twenty-one years ago)

grammarian cluster alert!!

mark s (mark s), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:13 (twenty-one years ago)

What if your name is "it"?

Sam (chirombo), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:14 (twenty-one years ago)

it licked his wounds

mark p (Mark P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:14 (twenty-one years ago)

apostrophes are so last century

stevem (blueski), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:15 (twenty-one years ago)

theyre the microhouse of punctuation

mark p (Mark P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:15 (twenty-one years ago)

"and then smog licked ott's wounds"

mark p (Mark P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:17 (twenty-one years ago)

Here's my question. I'm proofing this German website which my company had translated into English so we can use it as a resource. When referring to a made-up person, like a subordinate, they alternate between him and her from sentence to sentence, so it will be like:
Giving feedback to a subordinate helps him learn.
Then
Positive rapport helps a subordinate build her self-esteem.
But in the US, we would use him/her, or his/her, like:
Giving feedback to a subordinate helps him/her learn.
But sometimes this can get really tortured. So my question is, when is it appropriate to use "them" or "their" for a single person, like:
Giving feedback to a subordinate helps them learn.
Are you just supposed to use this when it will make things clearer? Or is it grammatically incorrect but tolerated? I really hate "him/her" and would rather keep it the way the Germans wrote it, but it has to be in proper English business grammar.

NA. (Nick A.), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:19 (twenty-one years ago)

grammatically incorrect but tolerated etiquette-wise, basically

how abt:
Giving feedback to a subordinate helps him learn (her learn). [and then alternate the order]

mark s (mark s), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:22 (twenty-one years ago)

Cor Mark that's even clunkier!

Grammatically incorrect but increasingly tolerated in my experience. In the version of business English our business uses here in England, no-one would even notice. Except the sort of pedants you'd like to irritate.

Tim (Tim), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:24 (twenty-one years ago)

just use "him"

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:28 (twenty-one years ago)

No it's not: you get a whole sentence followed by an alternative section you can easily ignore. (Because it's in brackets.)

mark s (mark s), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:28 (twenty-one years ago)

(nutcase) Yes maybe you're right.

Tim (Tim), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:31 (twenty-one years ago)

How about:

Giving feedback to subordinateS helps them learn.

Dilemma solved.

kate (kate), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:32 (twenty-one years ago)

just use "him" but put a disclaimer at the bottom telling everyone how much women are valued in the workplace and that you're actually dead politcally correct, like, and you'll be fine...

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:34 (twenty-one years ago)

if you're going to start a fight you might as well start it by putting "her" the whole time, and then put a disclaimer at the bottom saying men can eat a bag of dicks

mark s (mark s), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:37 (twenty-one years ago)

Use "him/the dog".

Sam (chirombo), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:37 (twenty-one years ago)

just include a picture of a german woman with subtitle "him" and youre sorted

mark p (Mark P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:39 (twenty-one years ago)

if you're going to start a fight you might as well start it by putting "her" the whole time,

either or'sgood with me


men can eat a bag of dicks

i live for the day i see this in any corporate communication

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:40 (twenty-one years ago)

kate is OTM.

teeny (teeny), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:41 (twenty-one years ago)

just use "her" but put a disclaimer at the bottom telling everyone how much men are valued in the workplace and that you're actually dead politcally correct, like, and you'll be fine...

no, them is acceptable these days, and has been for years

Alan (Alan), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:41 (twenty-one years ago)

alternately substitute any instance of him, her, them or theirs with 'rammstein'

mark p (Mark P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:44 (twenty-one years ago)

"giving feedback to a subordinate helps rammstein learn"

mark p (Mark P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:46 (twenty-one years ago)

You could also alternate 'him' and 'her' in different examples - a favourite self-help book technique but never mind. I still don't like 'them' in written English.

Archel (Archel), Thursday, 17 July 2003 12:46 (twenty-one years ago)

But it's fine in spoken English?

RickyT (RickyT), Thursday, 17 July 2003 13:59 (twenty-one years ago)

What does Nesbit do when describing something possessed by the Psammead.

Pete (Pete), Thursday, 17 July 2003 14:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Everything's fine in spoken English, it's in flux and I don't pay attention anyway :)

Archel (Archel), Thursday, 17 July 2003 14:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Alternating him and her was the Thing to Do when I was at Hahvahd.

Colin Meeder (Mert), Thursday, 17 July 2003 14:18 (twenty-one years ago)

I use Shem to mean both.

Pete (Pete), Thursday, 17 July 2003 14:19 (twenty-one years ago)

good point ptee:

things belonging to Cousin It are Cousin It's

mark s (mark s), Thursday, 17 July 2003 14:19 (twenty-one years ago)

"Them".

Chris P (Chris P), Thursday, 17 July 2003 14:31 (twenty-one years ago)

I use the third person plural rather than any of the other alternatives. If you actually put things into plural as much as possible, that helps.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Thursday, 17 July 2003 19:47 (twenty-one years ago)

Alternating him and her was the Thing to Do when I was at Hahvahd.

That's what people kept telling me, but I was never that adventurous.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 17 July 2003 20:21 (twenty-one years ago)

I was going to make Chris's point without solid evidence. Hurrah for 'them'.

N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 17 July 2003 21:04 (twenty-one years ago)

y'know what? that it's/its thing has been bothering me for years and now i know. didn't realise it was that simple. Its like an epiphany ;-)

dog latin (dog latin), Friday, 18 July 2003 01:16 (twenty-one years ago)

Using "them" or any other plural pronoun to refer to a singular antecedent is a horrible horrible thing and should be avoided.

It used to be gramatically acceptable to use a masculine pronoun (he, him, etc.) when referring to a person of unspecified gender (you know what I mean.. I can't think of any other way to put it), but now the "he or she"/"his or her" method is the proper form.

I'm not sure if it makes a difference whether you use a slash or the word "or." I suspect that the slash is unacceptable in formal writing.

Curt1s St3ph3ns, Friday, 18 July 2003 02:11 (twenty-one years ago)

"giving feedback to a subordinate helps motherfuckers learn," italics or boldface on "learn" obv. possible/encouraged

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Friday, 18 July 2003 02:33 (twenty-one years ago)

"I know what you're thinking. Did s/he fire six shots or only five?"

amateurist (amateurist), Friday, 18 July 2003 03:31 (twenty-one years ago)

I suspect that the slash is unacceptable in formal writing.

Unless it's academic writing, and it allows you to make a terrible pun somehow.

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 18 July 2003 04:31 (twenty-one years ago)

but now the "he or she"/"his or her" method is the proper form.

Proper, maybe. But it should be pointed out that if you're having to cram this into your sentence, you;re writing a clumsy sentence, and you should probably drop back and punt.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 18 July 2003 04:34 (twenty-one years ago)

Not that I don't write clumsy sentences all the time, mind you. It's just that I'm aware of it.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Friday, 18 July 2003 04:35 (twenty-one years ago)

seven months pass...
Quick - is "fact-checking" hyphenated? Or is it "factchecking"? Oh no, they both look weird!

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 8 March 2004 00:24 (twenty-one years ago)

TS Have you got vs. Have you gotten. Is it yet another GBS US/UK divide?

Friend of mine just told me the exact same thing about “is.”

And yesterday sent me a text with a downcased “is” in a title.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 May 2022 12:12 (three years ago)

Oh wait, no, he didn’t, my brane downcased it whilst reading.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 May 2022 12:13 (three years ago)

TS Have you got vs. Have you gotten

do you have?

buffalo tomozzarella (ledge), Sunday, 22 May 2022 12:14 (three years ago)

have you

mark s, Sunday, 22 May 2022 12:17 (three years ago)

Not talking about the sense of possession, more like “have you got(ten) to the part about…?”

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 May 2022 12:40 (three years ago)

are you at

mark s, Sunday, 22 May 2022 13:02 (three years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aCwMFwvwieo

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 May 2022 13:08 (three years ago)

have you any wool?

towards fungal computer (harbl), Sunday, 22 May 2022 13:48 (three years ago)

What matter have you against me?

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 May 2022 14:10 (three years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxO0jo7U4d4

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 May 2022 14:23 (three years ago)

british people don't consider "gotten" a word iirc

Tracer Hand, Sunday, 22 May 2022 20:09 (three years ago)

That’s changed a lot recently.

Alba, Sunday, 22 May 2022 20:15 (three years ago)

You could say they’ve gotten wise to the hip US lingo

we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 May 2022 20:17 (three years ago)

ill-gotten is very ordinary present-day uk english (when used of gains, riches, wealth etc)

etymonline.com dates its hip modernity to the 14c: https://www.etymonline.com/search?q=gotten

(ie like many US variants it's older not newer)

mark s, Sunday, 22 May 2022 20:41 (three years ago)

Best word there is sooterkin.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 May 2022 20:43 (three years ago)

it is a good word definitely

mark s, Sunday, 22 May 2022 20:45 (three years ago)

I was making a bad joke fwiw

we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Monday, 23 May 2022 00:50 (three years ago)

I'm not at all keen on 'gotten'. But for that matter I'm not keen on 'got' - a very overused, almost ubiquitous word which I don't find at all pretty. As Mark S has already indicated above, it's often not at all necessary to use this word. In James Redd's example, I would say 'Have you reached ... ?'

the pinefox, Monday, 23 May 2022 09:58 (three years ago)

be careful or you will get got

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Monday, 23 May 2022 14:29 (three years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Meo9VQKhN-Q

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 15:16 (three years ago)

So my state has outlawed individual plastic bags, which means you have to bring your own shopping bags to the supermarket and basically everywhere else to carry your purchases away. I went to a small supermarket the other day on a whim and didn't have a bag with me, so I was forced to buy one for 99 cents. Anyway, it says on the side

"Thank You for Shopping With us!"

capitalized exactly like that. Shouldn't that obviously be "Thank You for Shopping with Us!"?

but also fuck you (unperson), Monday, 23 May 2022 16:52 (three years ago)

Maybe they thought it was a two-letter word and therefore should be capitalized? Or maybe it is some weird patriotic thing.

I used to use a free bag somebody gave me from the NYC DoS or some other agency, but I finally lost it and ending up getting a nice foldable one from the local gift shop that wasn't too expensive which I love, although now I am paranoid since I don't have it on me and don't quite remember where I put it.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:03 (three years ago)

Should be lowercased, I meant to say.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:04 (three years ago)

All lowercase and all caps both solutions to a certain problem.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:05 (three years ago)

CamelCase to thread!

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:06 (three years ago)

all lowercase is always correct

mark s, Monday, 23 May 2022 17:16 (three years ago)

also check yrself once you start proofing plastic bags, there's a lot of vernacular house style out there and you will lose yr mind to no purpose

mark s, Monday, 23 May 2022 17:18 (three years ago)

all lowercase is always correct

Similar to always dressing in black, like Johnny Cash or Steven Meisel.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:19 (three years ago)

thats right

mark s, Monday, 23 May 2022 17:23 (three years ago)

Shouldn't that obviously be "Thank You for Shopping with Us!"?

Personally speaking, I'd lose the exclamation point as making them sound over-excitable and perhaps mentally unbalanced.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:27 (three years ago)

Should really be: “Thank You for Shopping with ‘us!’”

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:31 (three years ago)

Thank You for Shopping with BIG HOOS aka the streendriver

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:32 (three years ago)

Songs where it’s fun to say HOOS in place of the actual plastic bag.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:34 (three years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MFv53VolRj8

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:34 (three years ago)

Perhaps I will start posting in HOOS case.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:35 (three years ago)

DO U see?!

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:35 (three years ago)

LET ME TRY this on for size.

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 17:36 (three years ago)

TS: ALL OF A SUDDEN VS. all of the sudden

Apollo and the Aqueducts (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 23 May 2022 19:53 (three years ago)

one month passes...

Can I use "occasioned" like this?

the publication of X occasioned the first use of some new word

Note that the new word doesn't appear in X itself but appears in a review of X.

Antifa Lockhart (Leee), Thursday, 30 June 2022 22:32 (two years ago)

It's grammatical enough, and "occasioned" is certainly an accepted word, so I'd say 'yes' to your question.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Thursday, 30 June 2022 22:44 (two years ago)

this usage is uncontroversially fine: if i was bored or being testy as an acitivist sub editor i might switch in "saw" or "led to" depending on context (context = nature of nearby sentences acc my picky sub self lol) viz "the publication of X saw the first use of some new word"/"the publication of X led to the first use of some new word"

gloss: if "occasioned" maybe possibly presents a micro-speedbump for a reader, i think "saw" presents none, while "led to" perhaps implies the fact you note, that the new word arrives a little later than X…

mark s, Friday, 1 July 2022 13:26 (two years ago)

you might also use "prompted"

but your sentence is fine as is imo

budo jeru, Friday, 1 July 2022 15:03 (two years ago)

Yeah, I think "occasioned" there is a little overwritten and that with a little bit of effort "led to" would be much more readable.

Antifa Lockhart (Leee), Friday, 1 July 2022 16:31 (two years ago)

one year passes...

saw (a young person) referred to as a 'third-generation holocaust survivor'

obviously the topic is fraught, but it seems like there should be a better way to describe someone whose grandparents survived the camps

mookieproof, Thursday, 11 January 2024 01:55 (one year ago)

A completely uncontroversial way to say that would be "a grandchild of Holocaust survivors."

And while - as mòokieproof says - it is fraught, it does seem a bit much to imply that you "survived" an event that you did not personally experience.

I am not, personally, a survivor of the Visigothic Sack of Rome, the Protestant Reformation, the Irish Potato Famine, the Trail of Tears, the American Revolution, the Civil War, or school desegregation.

Maybe (stretching this quite a bit) I have experienced some personal effects from the Cold War and/or the Vietnam War due to my parents' participation in them, but calling myself a "survivor" seems more like stolen valor than empathy and solidarity.

CthulhuLululemon (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 11 January 2024 04:19 (one year ago)

one year passes...

Re: ending sentences with prepositions - if you are editing your wordpress site and have a menu option called 'about' with sub items, there's a link for each sub item titled 'Out from under about'.

constant gravy (ledge), Tuesday, 20 May 2025 08:21 (one month ago)

There are too many prepositions in out from under about.

Alba, Tuesday, 20 May 2025 08:32 (one month ago)

If you had an australian themed website called 'down under' and the menu item was 'about down under'...

constant gravy (ledge), Tuesday, 20 May 2025 08:41 (one month ago)

Oh goodness this used to be a thing in language humor books*, making long chains.

In one imagined scenario, a child dislikes a book about Australia. The child's parent suggests it as a bedtime story.

The child says, "What did you bring that book that I don't want to be read to from out of about Down Under up for?"

And the discussion goes into an absurd arms race that is eventually infinite; using nested quotes you can always add another ...for?

It's there with "Buffalo buffalo" and "had had 'had had.'" Nerd games

* = yes this was a genre

zydecodependent (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 20 May 2025 10:48 (one month ago)

I remember a language humour book that had a sentence with lots of ands in it. A signmaker is putting up a sign for a pub, THE PIG AND WHISTLE.

The publican sticks his head out the door and says "excuse me, but there's too much space between PIG and AND and AND and WHISTLE". And so the sentence has five ands in a row, which seems puny now, but it was the 1980s and there were fewer words back them. Words and letters were still rationed in the UK until 1958. That's why the second Quatermass serial was just called Quatermass II. At the time the BBC was only allowed to use twelve letters in its programme titles. This is why Watch With Mother was originally broadcast as Watch wit' Moth, and The Perry Como Show was broadcast as Perry Como Sho.

Why twelve letters? Why not eleven, or fourteen? Because "Great Britain" has twelve letters in it. That's why.

Just for fun I asked ChatGPT how many "ands" there are in "pig and whistle". It replied with, and I quote, "there is one "and" in "pig and whistle."" Which is a disappointing answer because it's concise and accurate. I was hoping it would be weird and wrong. And perhaps ChatGPT knew that I was hoping it would weird and wrong. So I asked it why the ambient musician Jon Jenkins is so underrated. Along with David Helping his music tends to be dismissed as new age glurge. Planetarium music. Which is a shame because once you get past the naff titles his best music is evocative, emotive, and technically clever.

What did ChatGPT say? It wrote a short essay arguing that Jon Jenkins is underrated because (a) "light ambient" is a niche genre (b) his music is subtle (c) he hasn't had any of his tracks featured in prominent films (d) he doesn't have the name recognition of Brian Eno or Moby (e) he flits between genres rather than sticking with one particular sound (f) he isn't heavily promoted.

All of which is reasonable enough, although it misses the stark but subtle divide between "ambient" and "new age". They're like Optimus Prime and Ultra Magnus. Similar bodies, similar concepts, very different execution. Once again ChatGPT pleasantly surprises me. But can it outsmart a bullet?

Ashley Pomeroy, Tuesday, 20 May 2025 21:24 (one month ago)


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