are you jealous of anyone?
― gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 10:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 10:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 10:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― gareth (gareth), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 10:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 10:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― Millar (Millar), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 10:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 12:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― Larcole (Nicole), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 12:35 (twenty-two years ago)
I'm jealous of the people at my work who look at porn all day and get paid a quarter million to do it.
― Ally (mlescaut), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 12:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 12:37 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 12:37 (twenty-two years ago)
i was notoriously (but never dangerously) envious of a friend of mine for years. i would sort of make subtle jokes to him and others and the gist was that i really was jealous but just trying to play it down in a jokey way, which was okay - he didn't mind this and we remained friends so obviously i never actually resented him (tho i did think about seeing and speaking to him less often for a while just to get a better perspective cos i feared bitterness would creep in). he'd always have great anecdotes to tell and was generally what you'd call a 'lucky' person - the spawniest guy i've ever met in fact. i felt like he had a perfect life, in my view. then one day his Dad who was by no means old or unhealthy got cancer and no-one was sure why or what the cause was. after a routine battle a couple of years later he passed away and my friend's world and 'perfect' life was shattered forever. it was awful. when i heard of course i was sad, but at times something crept into my head that there was some warped form of balance taking place. this was not schaudenfreude by any means. i even felt guilty for thinking this. but i figured that there are people like him whose lives are lived to both extremes - he's experienced intense forms of hedonism i have not (and i probably wouldn't even want or see worth in, at least not now i'm older and wiser), and he's experienced painful situations i have not. the metaphor i applied to it was in climate terms he would be like California - usually idyllic but with this 'once in a blue moon' threat of a devastating earthquake - and i'm like London (ever-changing spells but never anything extreme). but i guess i analysed it waaay too much huh? ;)
― stevem (blueski), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 13:02 (twenty-two years ago)
who? Um, strangers I guess.
why?I dunno. Why not? (don't answer that)
do they admit it?um, sometimes I guess. In a way.
are you jealous of anyone? Sure, but I've been better at it lately. Usually I get jealous of people in bands that I admire or people with mucho dinero - you know, silly stuff. And I guess sometimes I wish I looked like Bjork or some other ridiculously cute person.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 13:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ally (mlescaut), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 13:11 (twenty-two years ago)
― stevem (blueski), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 13:16 (twenty-two years ago)
I'm not jealous of anyone, according to the proper definitions (N., today you are the linking king!), but I am very envious of half the people I meet up with. Much of what I'm envious of is intangible -- assets a person possesses from the inside rather than the resellable kind. I figure that with monetary things I can work to earn them, but there are things one CAN'T get from a store that make my jaw drop.
And yes, I know about envy being one of the Seven Deadly Sins, but it's the only one I feel I committ on a regular basis. Lord have mercy on my soul.
― Jane Datsun (Dee the Lurker), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 13:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― bnw (bnw), Tuesday, 19 August 2003 14:25 (twenty-two years ago)