fancying people you hate

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can you relate?

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:16 (twenty-three years ago)

to a small degree

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:18 (twenty-three years ago)

fuck those people

― mitch lastnamewithheld (mitchlnw), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:19 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh yes. I am rubbish.

― Ricardo (RickyT), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:20 (twenty-three years ago)

Chance would be a fine thing.

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:20 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't think I've ever fancied anyone I liked.

― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:20 (twenty-three years ago)

You only dislike them 'cos they don't fancy you back, Dom.

It's funny 'cos it's true.

― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:21 (twenty-three years ago)

fancying writers you hate, can you relate? this would be like the equiv of meeting chris ott and thinking oh yeah

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:24 (twenty-three years ago)

I stalk women I lusted after that hated me in the sixth form by checking every single university newspaper. They are now all treasurers of rowing societies.

― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:24 (twenty-three years ago)

fancying writers you hate, can you relate?

Yeah. Nick Southall.

― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:25 (twenty-three years ago)

awww, the steamiest affair since jess and reynolds.

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:26 (twenty-three years ago)

now a major motion picture starring jason patric as reynolds and tiffany amber thiessen as jess

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:26 (twenty-three years ago)

FORBIDDEN PROMOS

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:27 (twenty-three years ago)

Dom's got a fine ass.

― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:27 (twenty-three years ago)

fuck those people > Oh how I wish.

― nathalie (nathalie), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:29 (twenty-three years ago)

Dom's got a fine ass.

Yeah, HIS EDITOR.

Oh, burned.

― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:30 (twenty-three years ago)

"that fucker jess" is the feelgood hit of the summer

(working title: "once around the blog")

― mitch lastnamewithheld (mitchlnw), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:31 (twenty-three years ago)

ehehehehehe...

― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:33 (twenty-three years ago)

This was a serious thread!! My life was a serious thread.

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:34 (twenty-three years ago)

Ro, you got derailed years ago.

― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:35 (twenty-three years ago)

i quite often fancy women i really don't like

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:41 (twenty-three years ago)

I have little idea what youre all talking about and you STILL crack me up, you lot.

― Trayce (trayce), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:45 (twenty-three years ago)

Dave are they ever crap rock hacks

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:46 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't do this, but that's because I end up liking dispicable people if I fancy them.

Actually I don't really hate anyone, though I don't think this because I fancy everyone.

― N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:47 (twenty-three years ago)

hate a bit strong maybe. although.

I don't see how your first sentence isn't implying you do this though.

odi et amo, quid facere, nescio.

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:51 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm not trying to be smart with that latin btw, I just remember learning the English translation off by heart and it was really trite

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:52 (twenty-three years ago)

Rona, I'm open-minded; just come out and say you fancy me as much as Dom does. I'll be Ok with it. I might even let you kiss me. On the cheek.

― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:53 (twenty-three years ago)

Personally, I reckon this is practically impossible, though I guess I could envisage using sex with a person I disliked as a form of punishment to them/vengeance for me. Am I weird?

― Mark C (Mark C), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:54 (twenty-three years ago)

"fancying"?

― Starry, Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:55 (twenty-three years ago)

Dave are they ever crap rock hacks

no, crap rock hacks invariably men so this precludes any kind of fancying. however i have not met caroline sullivan yet...

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:57 (twenty-three years ago)

decorating them with icing Starry

Nick, in your disturbing dreams. Mark is your vengeance thing religious at all?

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 08:58 (twenty-three years ago)

But Ronan, I feel the same way!

― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:01 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh, all the time then. I have quite a low fancying-people threshold in the first place so at the moment I think there are THREE people who I fancy. I am snogging one of them, the other DOES NOT KNOW I EXIST (well he does but he DOTH NOT CARE) and the other is Tom Baker.

I am confused.

― Starry, Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:01 (twenty-three years ago)

disliking someone quite intensely can certainly translate into quite a frisson... this is pretty normal, i think

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:09 (twenty-three years ago)

i've had it occur quite a few times, particularly at work

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:12 (twenty-three years ago)

Have you stopped fancying St*w*rt *nd*rs*n on account of his putting SSS on hiatus then?

― Ricardo (RickyT), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:14 (twenty-three years ago)

i am lost

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:14 (twenty-three years ago)

Well it's a fine line isn't it? I think that's why it happens.

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:14 (twenty-three years ago)

He has broken my heart. I blame THAT WOMAN!!!!

― Starry, Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:17 (twenty-three years ago)

Sorry Dave, that was directed at Starry, not your good self.

― Ricardo (RickyT), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:18 (twenty-three years ago)

how is it a fine line though, I don't expect anyone to know (except Nabisco if he was here obviously).

it's certainly a powerful thing.

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:19 (twenty-three years ago)

I stalk women I lusted after that hated me in the sixth form by checking every single university newspaper. They are now all treasurers of rowing societies.

It's so true. Or field hockey players.

― Dave M. (rotten03), Thursday, 11 September 2003 09:31 (twenty-three years ago)

Mutual hatred is even better!

― dave q, Thursday, 11 September 2003 10:29 (twenty-three years ago)

don't encourage me Dave

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 10:31 (twenty-three years ago)

there's also the flipside of disliking someone BECAUSE you fancy them - this has happened to me before with someone. i hated the way she could do pretty much anything or say stupid stuff and i'd forgive her for it coz she was so damned attractive...

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 10:40 (twenty-three years ago)

Dude, you don't even want to know.

― Nicolars (Nicole), Thursday, 11 September 2003 11:46 (twenty-three years ago)

N's not that bad

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 11 September 2003 11:54 (twenty-three years ago)

he is actually.

― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Thursday, 11 September 2003 11:55 (twenty-three years ago)

This has never happened to me.

― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 11 September 2003 12:20 (twenty-three years ago)

i've done a couple of threads about this. i used to lust after people i hated all the time. now i don't.

― The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Thursday, 11 September 2003 13:20 (twenty-three years ago)

this happens to me
but the crushes never stick
because hate is hurt

― Haikunym (Haikunym), Thursday, 11 September 2003 13:48 (twenty-three years ago)

But James Spader!

― Nicolars (Nicole), Thursday, 11 September 2003 14:05 (twenty-three years ago)

You hate him too?

― N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 11 September 2003 15:19 (twenty-three years ago)

no, crap rock hacks invariably men so this precludes any kind of fancying.

Not for het women. And I say this from personal history.

― j.lu (j.lu), Thursday, 11 September 2003 15:36 (twenty-three years ago)

Stelfox OTM about the frisson. Often, I find it's people that I don't hate so much as just find plain annoying. I fear, however, that this kind of desire is borne out of a dominating impulse.

― jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 11 September 2003 15:44 (twenty-three years ago)

yeah, it should do, though...

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 15:45 (twenty-three years ago)

re j.lu's post

― Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Thursday, 11 September 2003 15:46 (twenty-three years ago)

Nope, don't relate to this one. It's difficult enough fancying people I like.

― jel -- (jel), Thursday, 11 September 2003 15:51 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm in love with a girl I hate. Um... beat that?

― David. (Cozen), Thursday, 11 September 2003 16:21 (twenty-three years ago)

Fancying sometimes leads to hate.

― tokyo rosemary (rosemary), Thursday, 11 September 2003 16:53 (twenty-three years ago)

Wait, isn't "fancying people you hate" the plot of like EVERY mixed-partners romantic comedy EVER?

― NA (Nick A.), Thursday, 11 September 2003 17:04 (twenty-three years ago)

hmm, maybe my problem is i don't hate people enough?

― stevem (blueski), Thursday, 11 September 2003 21:00 (twenty-three years ago)

longterm relationship - 1 crucial element + an asshole with the 1 crucial element = fancying someone you hate

― lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Friday, 12 September 2003 05:52 (twenty-three years ago)

Yep steve, be a hata!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Friday, 12 September 2003 09:47 (twenty-three years ago)

don't date, appreciate

― Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 12 September 2003 11:51 (twenty-three years ago)

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