However, when I got back, 3 months ended up stretching out to 2 years-- almost 2 1/2 actually. I'm embarrassed to admit this now, but since I was still living at home with my mother it was pretty easy. I'd also reached a bit of an impasse in my career (I had gotten a promotion fairly quickly and knew another one was coming soon. Being barely 25, I wasn't exactly sure what I wanted to do and I still wasn't very mature, considering all of my closest friends were still doing undergrad.)
I eventually got back into the workforce through a temp agency, where I've been temping now for about a year and a half. It was meant to be temp to perm but lately I feel as if I'm getting the runaround. I want to restart my job search, but I'm terribly afraid of how the 2 year work gap will look on my resume and how I would explain it during interviews. (Since I got the current job thru a temp agency, I managed to evade all those questions the first time.)
Should I lie and fudge the dates? Make up a job that falls between the missing years? I would rather respective employers paid attention to the the 3yr job I held first. Truthfully I didn't do much during the gap other than travel occasionally-- so no school, consulting, etc.
I've posed this question on job seeking boards and all I get is a sanctimonious reply about how I shouldn't have taken time off in the first place unless I had a good reason (illness, childbirth, whatever.)
But has anyone here been in the same situation? How did you handle it? Or is it less of a problem in this economy (ie, with layoffs ppl are more forgiving of gaps in work history)?
― Jasmine U. (Jasmine U.), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nicolars (Nicole), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:27 (twenty-two years ago)
― anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― charltonlido (gareth), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― NA (Nick A.), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― NA (Nick A.), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:46 (twenty-two years ago)
I quite liked it. I think it makes my "I was in a mental home" excuse all the more plausible.
― Jasmine U. (Jasmine U.), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:51 (twenty-two years ago)
for the time itself - just say you were travelling and stuff. even if you were living at home for most of that time, try and make it sound as though you were travelling the whole time. people travel a lot these days, no problem, surely?
I wouldn't bother trying to invent a job for the missing time. Lies make things complicated while telling the truth (or an airbrushed version thereof) is easy.
― DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Jasmine U. (Jasmine U.), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:54 (twenty-two years ago)
(More seriously, i got a job after taking a year and a half off... employers like to pretend that shitty economies don't exist, which is the main reason people have these gaps in work, but if they see someone who they like, 2-year-gap or not, and you prove to them you are competent, they don't care and will certainly consider you. That said, it helps to fudge something about how you've been doing similar work on your own time and reserch while not technically employed.. and make sure you note that on your CV/resume)
― donut bitch (donut), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 15:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― charltonlido (gareth), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 16:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 16:09 (twenty-two years ago)
I don't think that one gap is going to make a difference - multiple periodic gaps may be a problem. But honestly. One two-year gap? You could have had a baby. You could have gone to college. Say that you spent time as a "homemaker". Sanctimonious twits can go to hell - they'd have taken time off too if they'd had the economic means.
I don't know. I put the gap on my resume and explained what I was doing because I actually had some freelance experience during that time that was job relevant. If I hadn't, I probably wouldn't have put it on my resume, and just said that I was a "homemaker". (Homewrecker, more likely, but who's counting?)
Use yer discretion, really, especially if you *have* been working steadily since the gap.
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 8 October 2003 09:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― stevem (blueski), Wednesday, 8 October 2003 09:40 (twenty-two years ago)
plus, when you get to interview, if it comes up, maybe try to have a list of things that you did in your time off. it doesn't necessarily matter that it was paid employment. not explaining this very well, but basically think of what you learned and gained from your travels. list them out. did you do any projects while living at home? better if you can avoid telling lies, especially since you can probably come up with a paragraph of stuff that you did during that time that will sound OK to an employer.
― colette (a2lette), Wednesday, 8 October 2003 09:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― Mikey G (Mikey G), Wednesday, 8 October 2003 10:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― Girolamo Savonarola, Wednesday, 8 October 2003 13:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 8 October 2003 14:34 (twenty-two years ago)