You never call me anymore

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Was it something I said?

― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:04 (twenty-one years ago)

No, we've just grown apart. Got different lives and different interests.

― kate (kate), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:07 (twenty-one years ago)

You think you're such a big shot now that you run around with that dandy as candy crowd.

― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:10 (twenty-one years ago)

Okay, serious question:

Have you ever called someone who you haven't spoken to in ages? How much time had elapsed? What did you say? What made you call? Did the reunion go any further? Did you regret making the call? Were you drunk?

― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:30 (twenty-one years ago)

I was drunk. I regretted it. It didn't go anywhere. We had nothing to say to one another.

― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:33 (twenty-one years ago)

But as for why I don't call you, that's just because you're a little shit.

― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:33 (twenty-one years ago)

hmm, that's what email is for, isn't it?

― Baaderist (Fabfunk), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:34 (twenty-one years ago)

Bite me, boogerbutt.

(xp---or was it??)

― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:36 (twenty-one years ago)

I've done this recently, and it was actually really good. We'd had a big disagreement, we didn't talk to each other for nearly 6 months. I was still thinking about it, and still hurting over it, so I sent her an email, and we got together. We talked. It was weird and awkward at first, but we did both kind of apologise for everything, and it really felt like the air was cleared. I don't think we'll ever be as close as we were, just cause we had grown apart, and we no longer have the interest that we held in common to keep us together, but I'm very glad that I did it, and I feel it was a good idea.

I was NOT drunk. I was very specifically not drunk, because it could have turned ugly if I was.

― kate (kate), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 07:39 (twenty-one years ago)

never go back. thats my one rule. once someones you were close to is behind you, let it go and avoid the awkwardness.

behold the wisdom of neil young: "it's easy to get buried in the past, when you try to make a good thing last"

― Bob Shaw (Bob Shaw), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 08:50 (twenty-one years ago)

It's better to go back and clear things up, if you're still thinking about it on a regular basis. You *can't* move on if you're still holding a grudge. Now I feel clear, now I can move on and let go and not look back and all those other cliches.

― kate (kate), Wednesday, 15 October 2003 08:53 (twenty-one years ago)

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